You have every right to feel like you feel…the choice is yours and yours alone. You were blessed to have a mom who was able to provide the love and nurturing you needed…as well as your brother 🥰
my biological “dad” left when I was born. At 31 I tried to reach out but no response. I think of it as, I’ve come this far without him in my life. I’m happy where I’m at in my life. I appreciate my mother, she’s my mom and dad. I understand where you’re coming from ❤️ thanks for sharing
I came from a divorced family. One of the last times I saw my father was when I was 7 yrs old. He went on to having his own family after the divorce with my mom. I was very fortunate to have been raised by my loving uncle who adopted me when I was 18. He taught me not to harbor anger towards my father and to learn to forgive. He embedded that into my heart always. In my 20’s I felt content and had no ill feelings towards my biological father. I accepted all that had happened in my life due to his mistakes. In my 30’s I ended up moving back to my home state and would run into my father’s side of the family. They asked me to visit him when he had fell ill and was in the hospital. I was being pressured by everyone. They all kept telling me it would be good for me and that he needed it. He needed to say the things he had not been able to say all those decades ago. I knew in my heart I was content and I didn’t want to. But I went for his sake. Worst decision in my life. He did not know who I was. He didn’t apologize or say the things I expected him to say. The last impression I have of my father before he ended up passing away was that he had no sense. He was so old that I could barely recognize him. I wanted to keep the good memories I had of him as a child but now all I have of him is that terrible day. I tell you this bc, everyone has their own right to opinion. Kim, don’t let anyone tell u what u should or shouldn’t do! Especially when it comes to personal issues like your father. If you are content with how your life unfolded, let that be it. Don’t make the mistake I made in seeking sanity and forgiveness for others sake. Single moms and women in general are so strong! I commend your mom and my mom for all they have done for us. ♥️🙌🏽
It always breaks y heart even more for my kids when I see or hear people who don’t have a great relationship with their Dad’s because mine was so amazing and I always want that for everyone. I seriously will cry thinking of how some don’t have that bond. Because it breaks my heart it truly breaks my heart.
Aw Kim! I tried reaching out to my dad a few times but he would always change his number. Eventually we come to a point in which we realize we grew up without him so we can go on without their presence. We learn to appreciate our moms & our love for them grows even stronger. I can’t wait to see my kids grow up with mom & dad too!
You decide for your life no one else. Keep it up you already have a mom and she was a mom and dad and that’s enough and more. I love you Kim sending you a big bear hug so many blessings! Xoxo 💋
Now that I'm older, I realise family isn't always everything. Thank you Kim for your vulnerability and sharing with us about your dad, which you didn't have to. Growing up my parents divorced when I was really young and I have very vague memory of my dad. My mum then remarried and had my sister. Although she has provided most things for us, emotionally she was never there. Then, as I've gotten older and maybe I'm just starting to see it, she's verbally abusive, manipulative and just straight up toxic. Her behaviour is extremely narcissistic and I've just had enough. When I fell pregnant I thought this was the moment when my family will finally be a wholesome happy family, but she still made it about herself up until the day I gave birth. She wouldn't answer my phone call and from that day, I told myself I'm completely done with her. My mum comes off as very loving and somewhat, similar to yours - the only difference is, it's not genuine and she'd get mad at whatever it is then throw it back in your face with what she's done for me etc. I cut her out of my life and honestly, no regrets. I'm still harbouring some feelings and trying to get over my childhood trauma, but it's the best thing I've done for myself in a very long time and not only myself but my family now. It's definitely a decision nobody will understand and it's our choice and our life. So, I totally get where you're coming from. People don't need to understand why we do what we do, they just need to respect it. Thank you again for just being you Kim. X
I always go light on lemonade when ordering a Strawberry Acai because of how sour it is! I ask for half lemonade and half water. I also do a splash of peach if they have it as well. Oh the cravings for Starbucks right now.
Absolutely amazing and I couldn’t agree with you more. You have a mum who has been everything to you. Mum and dad. She deserves the world. What an inspirational woman she is. I’m with you 100% ❤️❤️
Thank you for being so vulnerable and opening up about your dad Kim. A lot of what you said really resonated with me and my story.. you are truly an amazing soul- strong, resilient, beautiful inside and out just like your mom ♥️
Thank you for sharing your thoughts about your dad. I was adopted at two years old and the parents that raised me are my mom and dad. Never really felt the need to meet my biological mother and father, ended up meeting them a couple times but that’s it. Nothing more❤️
I'm fairly new to your channel but once I started I have not stopped! You just seem so relatable and I love your content. Normally I skip through the just sit and talk videos but I enjoy when you do it. I feel like you're talking to me directly lol.
Hey Kim you have to try it this way a Strawberry refresher with a splash of lemonade so they make it with water and just a splash of lemonade it the best
Very interested in the makeup collection tour 😊 I'd love to see what you've kept and what are some of your faves now that you don't do beauty TH-cam anymore
You should check Temecula and Murrieta stock at best buy. I noticed usually the temecula one has more options, but not sure what camera you're looking for but I noticed the temecula seems to restock more often. Although that was a couple years ago, not sure if its the same lol. But worth checking online to see their inventory.
You have the right to feel how you feel about your “dad”…I grew up with my dad, but he was never really there or felt like a dad because he wasn’t around. He also wasn’t a great husband to my mom either. When I was 20 my dad left my mom, I had a lot of hate towards him for years…but now that I’ve had my kids, and he’s realized and apologized for not really being a dad I’ve come to accept him for who he is…we still are not very close and only see/talk to each other here and there…I’ve just accepted him for what he is. Every one of my friends who are close with their dad don’t understand, but everyone’s family relationships are different. Luckily I have a husband who is an awesome dad, and his dad is more like a dad to me too…don’t let anyone tell you how you should feel because everyone’s situation is different…thanks for sharing 💕 much love and I know Carlos will be an amazing dad 😉
Kim, thank you for sharing about your dad. My bio dad also left when I was 2; I’m 27 and he’s never tried to reach out. One of my half siblings(which I didn’t know I had) reached out and told me he did the same to him. Fast forward now, I have a son of my own & the most my bio dad has done is request me on FB. But honestly, I never saw any effort from him to see me or do anything for me so I don’t feel the need for him to part of my life or my child’s life. I was raised by my mom & stepdad(I consider him to be my dad) and I’m eternally grateful for everything he did for me. He never treated me differently & he’s the best grandpa to my son now. Thank you for being so vulnerable.
Yes please give us a video on how to do it all I did TH-cam but didn’t get the views I was bummed so I stopped but now I’m ready to give it a try again
It is a personal choice. Your decision comes from another place. He already had a family before and after he had you. Your mom deserves all the credit in raising you.
hi kim, thank you for sharing about your dad i actually went through the same thing i still don’t know about my father as well, it’s been hard growing up bc you feel lonely, but definitely your step fathers come in a change it and try there best to be there even mothers that play both roles, thanks for sharing your story hope your having a great evening love you💓
I feel the same Kim! My dad was not around but I actually remember some of the good times before he left. I grew up with so many fatherly figures and realized, I'm ok. I have enough influence and was taught well by other loved ones.
I feel the same way as you Kim. I grew up without a father and he has tried to reach out to me a few times but, to me, it's like meeting a stranger. Even though that person is my blood, I don't know them. I don't know who they are as a human and since I know no different, it doesn't bother me that I don't know him. I think if your parent doesn't reach out to you until you're nearly 30, that is their guilt, not yours. My mom passed away very suddenly in 2017 and my father was notified and didn't show up for ME, that is when I finally realized, I made the right decision in not letting him into my life.
My sister ran a basket company for over a decade and loved it, when you were in target it made me think how great you would be at it with all your thoughtful ideas and creative touches.
I totally feel you about your dad my step grandpa is my dad figure I met my grandpa once & my real dad would coke & go & it’s such a weird feeling when you have to talk to them I don’t know how to explain it. But you are totally right & you should be able to feel the way you do & you are such an amazing human being & you & Carlos one day will make wonderful parents & have beautiful kids ❤
Hi there Kim, I just wanna thank you so much for being you, your presence really made my down days lifted up and my happy days got even better, I’ve been watching you for a year and all your videos made my heart felt so warm and not alone especially seeing your cute friendship with Michelle always reminds me of my friendship with my bestfriend too, I’m so thankful I found your vlog 🥰 sending you prayers and love 🤗❤️
I am with you and understand you Kim regarding your father. Its understandable that you feel the way. He was not in your life for the most part. Just because he gave his sperm that doesn't make him a father period. Your not a horrible person for feeling the way you do. Thank you for sharing your feelings.
Thank you sharing that really personal story with us Kim. No judgments from me. You have to do something that you don’t want to. Like you said it may change. And giving that time that is needed is what right and that’s okay.
I totally understand you my mom did mommy and daddy job for me and my sister I got to meet my dad when I was 10 and to tell you the truth he was there but for me it was like he didn't existed so is your choice about how you feel cause here comes a stranger in your life and it would be like something you thought it would be and is not so for that is better that way .
My Mom raised me and my brother by herself too. I have great relationship with her and I will do antibiotics for her. That's great your super close to your Mom. With love 💕
Good for you Kim to honour how you feel and want rather than feel obligated to feel a certain way. No one can tell you what choices to make and how to feel about stuff 💕.
Hi ! Thank you so much Kim ❤️ I love love watching your videos. When I sometimes feel overwhelmed with life, your videos makes me feel better. Okay bye ☺️
Kim, I am in the same situation as you. I grew up without a dad and my wonderful mom was and is still my everything. They were divorced when I was 1 and he left to move to France. He was never in my life and when I was sixteen he found us and wanted to meet me. Like you I had no interest in meeting with him. I am 52 years old now and I don’t regret one bit. Be true to your self and do what is right for you and no one else. My loyalty is to my mom. Your mom raised you right because you are so a good and kind person. Don’t you ever feel bad about your decision not to contact about your dad. When we don’t know what not having a dad in our lives, what is there to understand or miss about. You are doing well without him in your life. Most importantly, Carlos will be the best dad ever for your children and that’s all it matters now. ❤️😘
For 45 yrs, I have never known both of my parents. I don’t know them. Thanks to the family I have for adopting me and without them, I would never have this life I have. I wish I could meet them but in Korea, they don’t keep good record especially in the orphanage. So I love both of my adopted parents.
He isn't your "DAD" he is your biological Father, 2 very different things. You can't miss something you never had, is a good way to explain it. You've done amazing without him.
Never feel like your choice does not matter or is wrong. As someone who’s father left when I was 3 and tried reaching out and I actually tried for a couple years to accept him in the end it just did NOT work and I am ok with that. I also have cut my mom out for 4 years now sometimes it’s just the best decision for you both mentally and physically. I am completely content with my children and my fiancé. I don’t even talk to my 7 siblings and I don’t have friends it’s literally just easier to not get walked all over is what im trying to say in the long run. Xoxo
Grrrrl I feel ya on your decision. I’ve never met my dad either but biologically I have a dad. I was raised by my dad who is actually my stepdad. Lol. Super personal decision indeed!
Love your choice. Sounds like your mom did so well with you and raising you that you never felt like you were lacking a parent. So i understand not having an interest. Your mom did amazing! And yeah not that i hate all men or anything but i think they would have held your mom back. She did fucking amazing with you guys!
Kim, thanks for your vulnerability in sharing your story about your dad. It’s your story to tell, & you didn’t have to but did for us! Obviously we don’t know your emotions surrounding it, but I appreciate you opening up! You’re such an open book, and it is such a breath of fresh air ❤️. Love you!
I feel your confusion on the dad situation. I have a "dad" that raised me but we have a strained relationship. And I just don't really necessarily care to have a relationship. I also have a biological father that I met once who said he wanted a relationship but doesn't truly pursue it. It's a strange situation to navigate. Like I don't want him to die but I also don't need the relationship of him becoming my "dad".
My mum walked out of my life when I was 11 months and then my dad got remarried at another woman and had 2 kids with her and when I was 15 my dad died. I was an identical twin but my twin couldn’t be saved and passed away. This July will be 17 years since my dad passed away and it kills. I’ve never seen or heard from my biological mother for 32 years now. My relationship with my step siblings and stepmum ain’t that great.. I’ve had a lot of stuff happen through my childhood years up till now and it really does hurt me a lot as I wish I had both my parents in my life. Sometimes all I wanna do is cry… just wanna say, keep ya head up and just cherish everything you have with your mum and all ya family and close ones as tomorrow is never promised so y’all should spend quality time with your families 💜💜🌸🌸 I try contacting my mum but there was no response so just learnt how to live my life without her..
This story is literally my life being Vietnamese and having my mom, I still don’t want to meet my dad and I think Vietnamese culture they would say if there was A divorce or separation you would rarely or never see the other parent. And DNA I and my brother have a dad but grew up and I think it’s a complete stranger and even saying the word Dad be kind of awkward for me.
Nobody come at Kim now! Its her decision, not ours. Kim, you don’t have explain it. It’s your feeling and decision. My dad is my biggest hero and losing my dad was and still is very hard. My niece, her dad is not in her life and she doesn’t know him. She was also 3yrs old at the time her dad left. It makes me sad and I’m sad for you also because you and niece never had the love & connection of a father-daughter relationship. You and Carlos will be awesome parents!!!
Kim I know how you feel my biological dad left me at 6 years old and left my mom with five kids of 5-month-old a 2-year-old and a 3-year-old a 6-year-old and 8 year old because he want to be useless but I have my amazing step dad who I wouldn't change the world for put me on as his own kid
I subscribed to your channel a few weeks ago. I have been watching all your videos patiently waiting for your new videos ❤ you give me energy when I am feeling down. 😊😊
I was about 6yrs old the last time I’ve have seen my dad and he ends up getting in contact with my mom when I was 20 I’m now 31 and I feel like I was better off with out him nothing changed nothing got better he was just there he has 27+ kids so I felt like he wasn’t nothing so begin with him being in his early 30’s and my mom getting pregnant with my at 15 is a problem
You have every right to feel like you feel…the choice is yours and yours alone. You were blessed to have a mom who was able to provide the love and nurturing you needed…as well as your brother 🥰
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my biological “dad” left when I was born. At 31 I tried to reach out but no response. I think of it as, I’ve come this far without him in my life. I’m happy where I’m at in my life. I appreciate my mother, she’s my mom and dad. I understand where you’re coming from ❤️ thanks for sharing
I came from a divorced family. One of the last times I saw my father was when I was 7 yrs old. He went on to having his own family after the divorce with my mom. I was very fortunate to have been raised by my loving uncle who adopted me when I was 18. He taught me not to harbor anger towards my father and to learn to forgive. He embedded that into my heart always. In my 20’s I felt content and had no ill feelings towards my biological father. I accepted all that had happened in my life due to his mistakes. In my 30’s I ended up moving back to my home state and would run into my father’s side of the family. They asked me to visit him when he had fell ill and was in the hospital. I was being pressured by everyone. They all kept telling me it would be good for me and that he needed it. He needed to say the things he had not been able to say all those decades ago. I knew in my heart I was content and I didn’t want to. But I went for his sake. Worst decision in my life. He did not know who I was. He didn’t apologize or say the things I expected him to say. The last impression I have of my father before he ended up passing away was that he had no sense. He was so old that I could barely recognize him. I wanted to keep the good memories I had of him as a child but now all I have of him is that terrible day. I tell you this bc, everyone has their own right to opinion. Kim, don’t let anyone tell u what u should or shouldn’t do! Especially when it comes to personal issues like your father. If you are content with how your life unfolded, let that be it. Don’t make the mistake I made in seeking sanity and forgiveness for others sake. Single moms and women in general are so strong! I commend your mom and my mom for all they have done for us. ♥️🙌🏽
I come from such a similar situation. It’s a breath of fresh air to hear someone else feeling the same way I am. Thanks for sharing !
It always breaks y heart even more for my kids when I see or hear people who don’t have a great relationship with their Dad’s because mine was so amazing and I always want that for everyone. I seriously will cry thinking of how some don’t have that bond. Because it breaks my heart it truly breaks my heart.
ur lucky. i got daddy issues from mine
Aw Kim! I tried reaching out to my dad a few times but he would always change his number. Eventually we come to a point in which we realize we grew up without him so we can go on without their presence. We learn to appreciate our moms & our love for them grows even stronger. I can’t wait to see my kids grow up with mom & dad too!
You decide for your life no one else. Keep it up you already have a mom and she was a mom and dad and that’s enough and more. I love you Kim sending you a big bear hug so many blessings! Xoxo 💋
Now that I'm older, I realise family isn't always everything.
Thank you Kim for your vulnerability and sharing with us about your dad, which you didn't have to.
Growing up my parents divorced when I was really young and I have very vague memory of my dad.
My mum then remarried and had my sister. Although she has provided most things for us, emotionally she was never there. Then, as I've gotten older and maybe I'm just starting to see it, she's verbally abusive, manipulative and just straight up toxic. Her behaviour is extremely narcissistic and I've just had enough. When I fell pregnant I thought this was the moment when my family will finally be a wholesome happy family, but she still made it about herself up until the day I gave birth. She wouldn't answer my phone call and from that day, I told myself I'm completely done with her. My mum comes off as very loving and somewhat, similar to yours - the only difference is, it's not genuine and she'd get mad at whatever it is then throw it back in your face with what she's done for me etc. I cut her out of my life and honestly, no regrets. I'm still harbouring some feelings and trying to get over my childhood trauma, but it's the best thing I've done for myself in a very long time and not only myself but my family now.
It's definitely a decision nobody will understand and it's our choice and our life. So, I totally get where you're coming from. People don't need to understand why we do what we do, they just need to respect it.
Thank you again for just being you Kim. X
Girl you are so good at describing your feelings and making your decisions so I totally get it. Good for you for knowing how to go about it ;)
I always go light on lemonade when ordering a Strawberry Acai because of how sour it is! I ask for half lemonade and half water. I also do a splash of peach if they have it as well. Oh the cravings for Starbucks right now.
Absolutely amazing and I couldn’t agree with you more. You have a mum who has been everything to you.
Mum and dad. She deserves the world. What an inspirational woman she is.
I’m with you 100% ❤️❤️
Thank you for being so vulnerable and opening up about your dad Kim. A lot of what you said really resonated with me and my story.. you are truly an amazing soul- strong, resilient, beautiful inside and out just like your mom ♥️
Thank you for sharing your thoughts about your dad. I was adopted at two years old and the parents that raised me are my mom and dad. Never really felt the need to meet my biological mother and father, ended up meeting them a couple times but that’s it. Nothing more❤️
I'm fairly new to your channel but once I started I have not stopped! You just seem so relatable and I love your content. Normally I skip through the just sit and talk videos but I enjoy when you do it. I feel like you're talking to me directly lol.
Hey Kim you have to try it this way a Strawberry refresher with a splash of lemonade so they make it with water and just a splash of lemonade it the best
Thank you for sharing and being so vulnerable Kim
Me too‼❤❤❤❤
Carlos, Kim and all of us needs a baby girl get on it, get on it, get on it 🤣🤣👶🏻🥰
I definitely want a makeup collection tour 🥹
I always do half water half lemonade! It’s much better than straight lemonade 😂
Yes I would love a in detailed youtube starter vidoe love your vidoes keep up the good work praying safe travels there an back home 🏡
Very interested in the makeup collection tour 😊 I'd love to see what you've kept and what are some of your faves now that you don't do beauty TH-cam anymore
I just got my first dog and I’m so in love with him. Now I totally understand your love for dogs!
Hey Kim you are so sweet and it’s your choice about your father. Continue to be you 💕💕💜💜
You should check Temecula and Murrieta stock at best buy. I noticed usually the temecula one has more options, but not sure what camera you're looking for but I noticed the temecula seems to restock more often. Although that was a couple years ago, not sure if its the same lol. But worth checking online to see their inventory.
You have the right to feel how you feel about your “dad”…I grew up with my dad, but he was never really there or felt like a dad because he wasn’t around. He also wasn’t a great husband to my mom either. When I was 20 my dad left my mom, I had a lot of hate towards him for years…but now that I’ve had my kids, and he’s realized and apologized for not really being a dad I’ve come to accept him for who he is…we still are not very close and only see/talk to each other here and there…I’ve just accepted him for what he is. Every one of my friends who are close with their dad don’t understand, but everyone’s family relationships are different. Luckily I have a husband who is an awesome dad, and his dad is more like a dad to me too…don’t let anyone tell you how you should feel because everyone’s situation is different…thanks for sharing 💕 much love and I know Carlos will be an amazing dad 😉
Really great video Kim we all love you I love how honest and transparent you always are ..x💕🥰
Kim, thank you for sharing about your dad. My bio dad also left when I was 2; I’m 27 and he’s never tried to reach out. One of my half siblings(which I didn’t know I had) reached out and told me he did the same to him. Fast forward now, I have a son of my own & the most my bio dad has done is request me on FB. But honestly, I never saw any effort from him to see me or do anything for me so I don’t feel the need for him to part of my life or my child’s life. I was raised by my mom & stepdad(I consider him to be my dad) and I’m eternally grateful for everything he did for me. He never treated me differently & he’s the best grandpa to my son now. Thank you for being so vulnerable.
Yes please give us a video on how to do it all I did TH-cam but didn’t get the views I was bummed so I stopped but now I’m ready to give it a try again
Absolutely your choice! You do you boo!!! You are already surrounded by Everyone who loves and cares about you!
It is a personal choice. Your decision comes from another place. He already had a family before and after he had you. Your mom deserves all the credit in raising you.
hi kim, thank you for sharing about your dad i actually went through the same thing i still don’t know about my father as well, it’s been hard growing up bc you feel lonely, but definitely your step fathers come in a change it and try there best to be there even mothers that play both roles, thanks for sharing your story hope your having a great evening love you💓
Kim you have every right to feel how you feel, can't nobody take that from so I understand
Try the strawberry açai refresher made with water , with green tea! Soooo much better
I get the strawberry acai lemonade cut with water and it's way better that way
I feel the same Kim! My dad was not around but I actually remember some of the good times before he left. I grew up with so many fatherly figures and realized, I'm ok. I have enough influence and was taught well by other loved ones.
The Starbucks drink 🍹 looks so good 🤤 fun shopping 🛍️ love ❤️ your LV bag
I feel the same way as you Kim. I grew up without a father and he has tried to reach out to me a few times but, to me, it's like meeting a stranger. Even though that person is my blood, I don't know them. I don't know who they are as a human and since I know no different, it doesn't bother me that I don't know him. I think if your parent doesn't reach out to you until you're nearly 30, that is their guilt, not yours. My mom passed away very suddenly in 2017 and my father was notified and didn't show up for ME, that is when I finally realized, I made the right decision in not letting him into my life.
My sister ran a basket company for over a decade and loved it, when you were in target it made me think how great you would be at it with all your thoughtful ideas and creative touches.
If Kim ever announces that she’s pregnant I’m going to be the happiest ever 😍 I can already see that she’s going to be such a good mother!
Ikr?!
Kim!! I just bought the LV bag as per your recommendation and it is beautiful!! Love it!
I love the refreshers, get the coconut milk so good
Yesssss, you are right Kim your video quality is A1 girl 💕😍😝
I totally feel you about your dad my step grandpa is my dad figure I met my grandpa once & my real dad would coke & go & it’s such a weird feeling when you have to talk to them I don’t know how to explain it. But you are totally right & you should be able to feel the way you do & you are such an amazing human being & you & Carlos one day will make wonderful parents & have beautiful kids ❤
Kim you should try a peach green tea lemonade with 1 or 2 scoops of matcha from Starbucks! It’s soo good and refreshing!
I admire you so much and I think you are an incredible strong person ❤️
Yes, please do makeup! That's why I started watching you! 💖
Hi there Kim, I just wanna thank you so much for being you, your presence really made my down days lifted up and my happy days got even better, I’ve been watching you for a year and all your videos made my heart felt so warm and not alone especially seeing your cute friendship with Michelle always reminds me of my friendship with my bestfriend too, I’m so thankful I found your vlog 🥰 sending you prayers and love 🤗❤️
I am with you and understand you Kim regarding your father. Its understandable that you feel the way. He was not in your life for the most part. Just because he gave his sperm that doesn't make him a father period. Your not a horrible person for feeling the way you do. Thank you for sharing your feelings.
everyone has a father, but everyone doesn’t have a dad. your great without him !!
Yes Kim please do a starter Vlog
Thank you sharing that really personal story with us Kim. No judgments from me. You have to do something that you don’t want to. Like you said it may change. And giving that time that is needed is what right and that’s okay.
I love your channel it inspires me to make a TH-cam channel your channel relaxed me and I love your food videos and shopping home decor videos
I always ask for those refreshers with water or apple juice, their lemonade is waay too sweet ☺️
The video quality is always amazing!
I loved this long vlog. Such a chill vibe. Love you Kim!
your feelings are valid, family is a choice not blood. you can choose who you want in your life
I totally understand you my mom did mommy and daddy job for me and my sister I got to meet my dad when I was 10 and to tell you the truth he was there but for me it was like he didn't existed so is your choice about how you feel cause here comes a stranger in your life and it would be like something you thought it would be and is not so for that is better that way .
I would love to watch a makeup collection tour ❤️
My Mom raised me and my brother by herself too. I have great relationship with her and I will do antibiotics for her. That's great your super close to your Mom. With love 💕
The quality of your vlogs are always up to par! Thank you 🥰
I love the quality of your videos, great investment in the camera for sure!! Toot your own horn, GF! You deserve it 👏🏼
Giiirll I agree with you 1000%% your quality in videos is exquisite!!!!👌🏻 I love your videos ❤️
Kim next time you get the strawberry açaí refresher. Ask for half water and half lemonade! It’s 👍🏻!
Good for you Kim to honour how you feel and want rather than feel obligated to feel a certain way. No one can tell you what choices to make and how to feel about stuff 💕.
Your absolutely right, you have no connection with you dad. You Mom is you mom and dad to you. You’re entitled to do what your heart feels.
The next time you get the strawberry refresher put water in it instead when you order
Omg, same, my mom raised 4 kids all by herself and she was badass.
Hi ! Thank you so much Kim ❤️
I love love watching your videos. When I sometimes feel overwhelmed with life, your videos makes me feel better. Okay bye ☺️
Kim, I am in the same situation as you. I grew up without a dad and my wonderful mom was and is still my everything. They were divorced when I was 1 and he left to move to France. He was never in my life and when I was sixteen he found us and wanted to meet me. Like you I had no interest in meeting with him. I am 52 years old now and I don’t regret one bit. Be true to your self and do what is right for you and no one else. My loyalty is to my mom. Your mom raised you right because you are so a good and kind person. Don’t you ever feel bad about your decision not to contact about your dad. When we don’t know what not having a dad in our lives, what is there to understand or miss about. You are doing well without him in your life. Most importantly, Carlos will be the best dad ever for your children and that’s all it matters now. ❤️😘
For 45 yrs, I have never known both of my parents. I don’t know them. Thanks to the family I have for adopting me and without them, I would never have this life I have. I wish I could meet them but in Korea, they don’t keep good record especially in the orphanage. So I love both of my adopted parents.
He isn't your "DAD" he is your biological Father, 2 very different things. You can't miss something you never had, is a good way to explain it. You've done amazing without him.
That plaza is dangerous lol I try my best to not go there as often especially since there's a target there too lol
Playing your video in my car like you’re a podcast 😂
Good morning , Kim! ❤️ love youu
YAY A VLOG!!
Commenting as I watch! 🤍 I love that size of purse! One day I’ll own a LV purse 😩✨🤍
Okaaay but I’m so excited for the LA vlog!! 😍
Good morning Kim! ❤️ Have a great day, thanks for sharing :)
Never feel like your choice does not matter or is wrong. As someone who’s father left when I was 3 and tried reaching out and I actually tried for a couple years to accept him in the end it just did NOT work and I am ok with that. I also have cut my mom out for 4 years now sometimes it’s just the best decision for you both mentally and physically. I am completely content with my children and my fiancé. I don’t even talk to my 7 siblings and I don’t have friends it’s literally just easier to not get walked all over is what im trying to say in the long run. Xoxo
Carlos giggling when you were showing his shrine and outfit was so hilarious!! Haha
Next time just ask for the refresher and not the lemonade. If you still want some type of sweetness ask for the pump of liquid cane
Yaass let's go Celtics!!
Grrrrl I feel ya on your decision. I’ve never met my dad either but biologically I have a dad. I was raised by my dad who is actually my stepdad. Lol. Super personal decision indeed!
Love your choice. Sounds like your mom did so well with you and raising you that you never felt like you were lacking a parent. So i understand not having an interest. Your mom did amazing!
And yeah not that i hate all men or anything but i think they would have held your mom back. She did fucking amazing with you guys!
30:00 Cooper May have been scratching his back on the concrete.😂❤️
yes do a video on how to start youtube.
Kim, thanks for your vulnerability in sharing your story about your dad. It’s your story to tell, & you didn’t have to but did for us! Obviously we don’t know your emotions surrounding it, but I appreciate you opening up! You’re such an open book, and it is such a breath of fresh air ❤️. Love you!
I feel your confusion on the dad situation. I have a "dad" that raised me but we have a strained relationship. And I just don't really necessarily care to have a relationship. I also have a biological father that I met once who said he wanted a relationship but doesn't truly pursue it. It's a strange situation to navigate. Like I don't want him to die but I also don't need the relationship of him becoming my "dad".
You definitely should do a video on how to start a TH-cam video
My mum walked out of my life when I was 11 months and then my dad got remarried at another woman and had 2 kids with her and when I was 15 my dad died. I was an identical twin but my twin couldn’t be saved and passed away. This July will be 17 years since my dad passed away and it kills. I’ve never seen or heard from my biological mother for 32 years now. My relationship with my step siblings and stepmum ain’t that great..
I’ve had a lot of stuff happen through my childhood years up till now and it really does hurt me a lot as I wish I had both my parents in my life. Sometimes all I wanna do is cry… just wanna say, keep ya head up and just cherish everything you have with your mum and all ya family and close ones as tomorrow is never promised so y’all should spend quality time with your families 💜💜🌸🌸
I try contacting my mum but there was no response so just learnt how to live my life without her..
you are the only one that can make that choice
Queen I live like 5 min away from that Starbucks
KIM ! New season for WHO KILLED SARA!!
This story is literally my life being Vietnamese and having my mom, I still don’t want to meet my dad and I think Vietnamese culture they would say if there was A divorce or separation you would rarely or never see the other parent. And DNA I and my brother have a dad but grew up and I think it’s a complete stranger and even saying the word Dad be kind of awkward for me.
Nobody come at Kim now! Its her decision, not ours.
Kim, you don’t have explain it. It’s your feeling and decision. My dad is my biggest hero and losing my dad was and still is very hard. My niece, her dad is not in her life and she doesn’t know him. She was also 3yrs old at the time her dad left. It makes me sad and I’m sad for you also because you and niece never had the love & connection of a father-daughter relationship. You and Carlos will be awesome parents!!!
Kim I know how you feel my biological dad left me at 6 years old and left my mom with five kids of 5-month-old a 2-year-old and a 3-year-old a 6-year-old and 8 year old because he want to be useless but I have my amazing step dad who I wouldn't change the world for put me on as his own kid
I 100% understand you Kim 🫶🏼
Awww. You'd be great parents
I subscribed to your channel a few weeks ago. I have been watching all your videos patiently waiting for your new videos ❤ you give me energy when I am feeling down. 😊😊
video on starting a youtube channel pleeeez :)
I was about 6yrs old the last time I’ve have seen my dad and he ends up getting in contact with my mom when I was 20 I’m now 31 and I feel like I was better off with out him nothing changed nothing got better he was just there he has 27+ kids so I felt like he wasn’t nothing so begin with him being in his early 30’s and my mom getting pregnant with my at 15 is a problem
Love ya😍😍😍💖💖💖