How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk by Suzy Ismail (ICNA-MAS Convention)

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  • @naajaxofficialchannel125
    @naajaxofficialchannel125 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    When i was growing up my mom was no longer with me because she died when i was only two years but alhamdu lilah my father was both a mom and dad for me and my siblings. He also refused to marry another wife for the sake of us..he was so kind and gave us a love that we should have never gotten. He was there with us when ever we needed. Now he was died 3 years ago. May allah bless him and my mom, and every parents who are both a live or died. From Berbera somalia 🇸🇴

    • @yvettewaritay2654
      @yvettewaritay2654 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You were truly blessed to have such a loving FATHER. 🙏❤️🙏

    • @Al7amdulilah
      @Al7amdulilah ปีที่แล้ว +2

      May Allah grant them both the highest level of Jannat Al Firdous. Allahuma Aaaameen

  • @wendyo.8079
    @wendyo.8079 4 ปีที่แล้ว +319

    Me and my husband hug and kiss our children. We tell them we love them everyday. We do family games together, I know it is not easy to raise kids now, but we must hold on and show them with action that they are loved...and yes , I agree respect is very important. May Allah protect our families, and keep us strong

    • @sbegum29
      @sbegum29 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Wendy o. Mashallah ameen

    • @bibihajra8869
      @bibihajra8869 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Masha'Allaah lahola laquwatha may Allaah swa protect the Ummaah. AAMEEN 🤲

    • @fmcfmc77
      @fmcfmc77 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      May Allah swt make your children the coolness of your eyes and may they grow to become leaders in the Ummah ameen

    • @abdulmareedullah262
      @abdulmareedullah262 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Ameen , Ya Allahuma RabilAlameen .... Aswrwbtuhu ,

    • @famadiop6516
      @famadiop6516 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Amiin

  • @simanabdiali4715
    @simanabdiali4715 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I’m 22 years old, my mom and dad are alive but they have never been in my life. I experienced the life of an orphan as a kid but Alhamdullilah. Now that I am grown when I listen to this type of lectures it makes me cry. You are an amazing mother Mashallah. My Allah grant you jannah❤️

    • @selima1057
      @selima1057 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      May Allah reward you and cleanse all sin in ur heart don’t forget no matter how ur parents treat you dnt reply to them in the same manner rather be nice to them extra let them wonder ,remember you are seeking your Jannah nothing else and u do it only for Allah no cuz u want their approval also a word of advice is try and seek Allah all the time cuz u might transfer this same energy to ur kids without even realizing it.

    • @kamilwadood9093
      @kamilwadood9093 ปีที่แล้ว

      May Allah bless you

  • @l.a.7078
    @l.a.7078 6 ปีที่แล้ว +235

    Your kids are so lucky to have you as their Mom ☺

    • @mehadabdoolkader6424
      @mehadabdoolkader6424 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      May Allah bless all of us and follow your good advice

    • @g.d.9619
      @g.d.9619 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mehadabdoolkader6424 ameen

    • @fadumoabdi6737
      @fadumoabdi6737 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mehadabdoolkader6424 )

    • @husseinhassan5222
      @husseinhassan5222 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ameen

    • @muhammadjamaluddin499
      @muhammadjamaluddin499 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      correct. but between mom and kids relation is within them. I don't think, she doesn't represent complete orders of Islam.

  • @wanjirukarago9308
    @wanjirukarago9308 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I always pray when my kid is a teenager I will be around her...for now i have no choice but to be away from her to fend for her needs because am the only hope she has as a parent...if i had support from the other side leaving my country would be last thing in my mind....I also pray when she grows up God will grant her wisdom to understand everything.

    • @ahmedabdullahraiyan8419
      @ahmedabdullahraiyan8419 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      inshaallah. i hope allah helps you and answers your prayers.

    • @sadiya2418
      @sadiya2418 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      So proud of you .. May Allah bless you with afiyah💛

  • @kaifali686
    @kaifali686 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    My mother is best 😭😭😭😭😭 when i am heartbreak she knws when feel bad or have bad day she knw may Allah bless her.

  • @susanmaris729
    @susanmaris729 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Your advise applies, no matter the ages of our children. We all want to do the best for
    our kids but get so BUSY that we need someone like you to remind us of our priorities.
    Thank you for sharing your wisdom.

  • @cauntongansittiehannahfaro1034
    @cauntongansittiehannahfaro1034 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    this hurts knowing that me and my parents are not that open to each other, but they are always in my dua❣️

  • @hishemadi6831
    @hishemadi6831 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Beautiful talk , hafidika allah , we need some Muslim like her in this community 👍👍👍

  • @chernohmarah2230
    @chernohmarah2230 5 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    May Allah give us good children, Ameen 🙏🙏

  • @bluemarkt2258
    @bluemarkt2258 4 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    I feel so bad because its not the fault of my parents. It is my because they everytime try to speak to me but i dont listen. Thanks allah i learned how to react to stuff like that. Now my new friends are not real friends they are fake ones. But who avtually need friend when you have parents. I even help my mom and dad in the household

    • @dayyibashuaibuumar5396
      @dayyibashuaibuumar5396 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      that's great masha Allah.. keep trying and always seek their forgiveness and Allah's forgiveness upon them... u know parent are the best. ALLAHUMMAH DINAA ALAA SIRATAKAL MUSTAQEEM

    • @khadijahabubakr3502
      @khadijahabubakr3502 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Proud of u

    • @hanaemohammedsaid9542
      @hanaemohammedsaid9542 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Blue Markt2 bless you

  • @farrahahmed1966
    @farrahahmed1966 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Alhamdulila Shukran Dr Suzy may Allah reward you more in life with health and long life

  • @yvettewaritay2654
    @yvettewaritay2654 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Excellent 👍
    Every person in this world needs to hear THIS MESSAGE.

  • @Zaira693
    @Zaira693 4 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    Such a wise sister MashAllah and such an important topic....May Allah make us great parents and guide our children.

  • @artisthusnatalal3099
    @artisthusnatalal3099 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    *If I was brought up with all upbringings that you've talked about, I would be the queen of the world today. But I am now suffering 😢. I pray Allah will help me bring up my children in the best of ways. I don't want them to pass through what I went through!* ☝💟

    • @fadiavw
      @fadiavw 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Assalamu Alaykum, keep in making duah for your children don't leave 1 salaah without making duah for your children... May Allah Swt always accept all our duahs especially for our children Ameen

    • @artisthusnatalal3099
      @artisthusnatalal3099 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@fadiavw Ameen sister in sha Allah!

    • @saq546
      @saq546 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Don’t put them in school and what happened to you will not happen to them InshaAllah!

  • @lailamoozeer761
    @lailamoozeer761 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    U are bless sister
    UR kids must be proud and bless to have as mum
    May Allah swt bless my family and grand children to learn n respect
    Ameen

  • @NKDewi
    @NKDewi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Oct 2019 and just found this amazing video. Alhamdulillah 🍃 May Allah always guides us.

  • @MynameisHussain
    @MynameisHussain 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    They will seek someone who listens to them, no matter if that maybe a trap. Very important we need to realize this.

  • @swafiyyarayanabubakar3296
    @swafiyyarayanabubakar3296 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Beutifull message maashaa Allah. Jazakhallahukhair

  • @arghubtarar
    @arghubtarar 5 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    ماشاءاللہ
    so inspiring and so true

    • @alazad816
      @alazad816 3 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @fgobaid387
    @fgobaid387 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Excellent!
    I needed it !
    Ameen

  • @sz4366
    @sz4366 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Barakallah Dr. Suzy. Very inspirational.

  • @hasaneurope4603
    @hasaneurope4603 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    💙💙u whomever i am whomever i may be not keep your deen there is paradise ,

  • @fakihashami790
    @fakihashami790 4 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    May Allah bless you sister, such an inspiring message

  • @sadiaibrahim3210
    @sadiaibrahim3210 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Jazakallahul Khairan

  • @salwaammar9294
    @salwaammar9294 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks a lot for such an incredible talk.

  • @yusufshakirah2138
    @yusufshakirah2138 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    O.M.A! This is quite inspiring. Well done, Maa sha Allah 😘👌👍

    • @fmanz7759
      @fmanz7759 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I really love your lecture

  • @aamenahgaffar731
    @aamenahgaffar731 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Alhamdulillaah.. You have given a very good message.

  • @uzmamajeed1790
    @uzmamajeed1790 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Beautiful message 💯❤️

  • @bibihajra8869
    @bibihajra8869 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Jazakillaah khayr lovely sis,
    So true and inspiring words.
    May Allaah swa reward you in both worlds and answer all the Ummaah's lawful DUAS.

  • @Mona911Mona
    @Mona911Mona 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love your talks a lot.
    Thanks a lot!

  • @shahanaunnisa1635
    @shahanaunnisa1635 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Every line that u are talking is more valuable information about developing kids. Jajakallahu khair. We must take time to talk to them play with them.

  • @soulafaalchihan7947
    @soulafaalchihan7947 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Jazaky Allah khayra sister🌷

  • @aseelsoul992
    @aseelsoul992 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Great lecture ! Allahumma barik

  • @zahedmiah1
    @zahedmiah1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Hope we learn and put it into practice from this beautiful speech and Wish all mother were like u or patents
    JazakAllah Kairan and thank you

  • @yusraabdi9761
    @yusraabdi9761 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    It’s a beautiful teaching

  • @tasteofnigeriafood1320
    @tasteofnigeriafood1320 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is so inspire. Thanks so much

  • @abdifatahmohamed8531
    @abdifatahmohamed8531 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Great speech sister, Masha Allah

  • @delwarm1
    @delwarm1 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Masha Allah, I wish I had the opportunity of listening this advisory and valuable lecture 30 years before, this is a gem and wish every parents can listen to this, we need to share it with whoever we know.

  • @almashaneef8207
    @almashaneef8207 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Beautiful message 👍

  • @sdsfgsty
    @sdsfgsty 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    One of best and important lectures

  • @razaqzaynab8460
    @razaqzaynab8460 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jazakallahu khairan sis May Allah increase ur knowledge

  • @Anbaro.
    @Anbaro. 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    ما شاءالله جزاك الله خيرا
    very beautiful and very inspiring

  • @fatmaosman8439
    @fatmaosman8439 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Mash Allah It's a beautiful speech 💕

  • @isatoumboge8657
    @isatoumboge8657 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank so much sister for the wonderful massage

  • @bisonmma-kickboxing2511
    @bisonmma-kickboxing2511 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Great Speech Sister .. Mashallah

  • @faridaalieva2241
    @faridaalieva2241 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    100% true Thanks 🙏🏽💕💕👏🏽

  • @nel1122
    @nel1122 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Very powerful and practical speech. Jazakallahu khayran.

  • @humble9472
    @humble9472 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Masha allah right on sis jazak allahuqyr

  • @sittirahmaahmad7607
    @sittirahmaahmad7607 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    MaashaAllah

  • @Hope4theheart2023
    @Hope4theheart2023 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    May God bless you . Thank-you for sharing what am amazing advice .

  • @rahmaspeech
    @rahmaspeech 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Bless you sister

  • @roqaiamohammad8188
    @roqaiamohammad8188 ปีที่แล้ว

    What a useful and nice lecture!! thanks

  • @yeetyt5868
    @yeetyt5868 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jazakallah for this video

  • @hawajama2500
    @hawajama2500 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mansha Allah sister, thanks for sharing that beautiful topic, and Allah reward you sister

  • @ousmanediaw6820
    @ousmanediaw6820 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mashallah sister may Allah protect you and your family it's a very beautiful speech

  • @sul81
    @sul81 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    mashallah, shukran Dr Suzy, may the Almight Allah grant you abundantly

  • @sarahazeem1056
    @sarahazeem1056 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amazing lecture Ma sha Allah

  • @fatumakadute7959
    @fatumakadute7959 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Ma shaa Allah jazaka Allah kher

  • @ismaielwaheed4300
    @ismaielwaheed4300 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Good Stuff. BaarakAllah

  • @sydneycabral7997
    @sydneycabral7997 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very true and impressive speech

  • @samreynolds3789
    @samreynolds3789 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    LOOK Your CHILD in the EYES & TELL them ,”I LOVE YOU “!

  • @revivebodyandsoul
    @revivebodyandsoul 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Zabardast. May Allah reward you sister

  • @zemzemmuhamed5067
    @zemzemmuhamed5067 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are the best mom and teller

  • @maryam9767
    @maryam9767 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Really thanks for such a nice guideline.it really helps a lot.am very much thankful to Allah that I listened or watch this session of u.

  • @aghlahoumibrahim2945
    @aghlahoumibrahim2945 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Wow great ideas machallah

  • @ummumustapha6390
    @ummumustapha6390 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jazakhum llahu khaira

  • @jayabdih1
    @jayabdih1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Greetings from Kota Kinabalu city. Alhamdulillah very inspiring motivating talk. May Allah reward you abundance of health and knowledge.

  • @mohammadarifsharifi2867
    @mohammadarifsharifi2867 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are a greatest mother, the lucky people have mother like as you.

  • @LoG-22
    @LoG-22 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ma Sha Allah Tabarak Allah. very enlightening and profound subject matter. May Allah SWT reward all your efforts with the best in the worlds. Ameen

  • @ambiamash2194
    @ambiamash2194 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    So inspiring word to our tday tomorrow and our future kids life,may Allah gave u more yrs to live to inspire in the right way

  • @gobzoulamane1437
    @gobzoulamane1437 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you dit this important information.

  • @maywin4204
    @maywin4204 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very good speech. Thank you.

  • @nibsawchoy5054
    @nibsawchoy5054 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Masha allah what a smart sister

  • @sbasheer2008
    @sbasheer2008 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jazakallah Qair...

  • @b.i.n.a2959
    @b.i.n.a2959 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jazak Allahu Khairan...very usefull instructive talk...each & every words sooo true..may Allah help & guide us to guide our youngsters...Ameen

  • @goodlifeoman604
    @goodlifeoman604 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your conversation it's really nice keep doing well God bless you

  • @ayoubbrown_
    @ayoubbrown_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jazakum Allah yjazikum

  • @safiraalyad3483
    @safiraalyad3483 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    MasyaAllah! You're such a pleasant muslimah Sister Suzy! May Allah Bless you :)

  • @imaduddinahmed4442
    @imaduddinahmed4442 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    So proud to listen

  • @draasifkhan8505
    @draasifkhan8505 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jazak Allah khair Sister.
    One of the best Motivating talks I have listened. Being a Busy Dr. Myself & a Out of Sight Father of 3 Teens, I understand what they are facing due to my Absence, even though we stay in the same house, Walls have been Created
    Jazak Allah khair once again

  • @muardfuard8457
    @muardfuard8457 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    May Allah increase our knowledge .
    very beautiful and valuable msg.

    • @sbegum29
      @sbegum29 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Muard Fuard ameen

  • @NurulAmin-gm8qi
    @NurulAmin-gm8qi 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Alhumdulillah.How nice her explain !
    Its also zannati work. Congregation
    my happy sister.Amin.Bangladesh.

  • @maxamadamin9056
    @maxamadamin9056 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thank you sister I would love to apply this advice when I get the chance of becoming a mother

  • @hamidabithi7535
    @hamidabithi7535 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    ma shaa Allah, such a valuable lecture. May Allah bless our sister Dr.Suzy Ismail for such an important reminder, Ameen. Jazakallah Khair ICNA.

  • @hasnakhalood
    @hasnakhalood 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you ❤️😘

  • @MSultana
    @MSultana 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Amazing lecture ma sha Allaah!!
    Jazak Allaahu khayran sister.

    • @sbegum29
      @sbegum29 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      mashuda sultana ikr mashallah🤩🤩👏🏼👏🏼

    • @thenerdkid5790
      @thenerdkid5790 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sbegum29 tolonews

  • @alimasud711
    @alimasud711 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for this very beneficial lecture. Alloh SWT blesses to the speaker and the audience.

  • @sens2807
    @sens2807 6 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    So true, thank you Mashaa Allah. Only a mother understands this. A father does not. It doesnt matter how wise he is. No disrespect to all the 3oelama.

    • @rawshonislam8733
      @rawshonislam8733 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      saal true

    • @fadumonor868
      @fadumonor868 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      saal, that’s not true!! Not all fathers are the same just like not all mothers are the same

    • @abunadia5506
      @abunadia5506 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Please don’t paint all men with the same brush!

    • @ifranksultan
      @ifranksultan 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Not true saal. I am a dad and I understand this very well.

    • @ifranksultan
      @ifranksultan 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@fadumonor868 agreed

  • @sugrasabri8427
    @sugrasabri8427 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Super advice. Don’t know why people comment rudely!

  • @allhealingcomesfromallaah
    @allhealingcomesfromallaah 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wa Antum Fa Jazakumullahu Khayran. Thank you. Aameen! 🌏🕋

  • @rahewdesta4594
    @rahewdesta4594 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    masha Allah

  • @noreenshahbaz2743
    @noreenshahbaz2743 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Important information s.

  • @nurhidayah3670
    @nurhidayah3670 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Indeed !!!!

  • @shereenshehab4345
    @shereenshehab4345 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    نفع الله بكي واسخدمك ولا يسبدلك ابدا. ما شاء الله جمييله المحاضره

  • @bangladeshivloggerjoley1757
    @bangladeshivloggerjoley1757 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Very nice video ❤️💖 Alhamdulillah

    • @fouadimadimze8328
      @fouadimadimze8328 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Je t'aime tres bien Mon coeur Cherie Musulmane

  • @hitsrepublic2545
    @hitsrepublic2545 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    jazakAllah

  • @belindaharrison446
    @belindaharrison446 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ma'sh'allah sister 💓

  • @mohammadarifsharifi2867
    @mohammadarifsharifi2867 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    My sister All protect you and your family.

  • @frolicteenfrolicteen3381
    @frolicteenfrolicteen3381 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Impressive and heplfull 💕