Thinking of marriage? Listen to these 4 lessons first.

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  • @kabategyekieunice1083
    @kabategyekieunice1083 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank youuuuuuuu about the finances!!! I don’t know why people look at me like am crazy when I say I believe in one pool of finances for a couple...it eases transparence, trust and growth!!!

  • @coachmapule
    @coachmapule ปีที่แล้ว +5

    How can I like this a thousand times? I just love Flavia so much.😍

  • @pkikt.9763
    @pkikt.9763 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I really love how Flavia gives us real life lessons that she herself has learnt from. If we pay attention, really pay attention , choose and focus on our growth, re-arrange our prioties among other things, we just might save ourselves therapy charges in the near future.

  • @rodgerskamugisha8833
    @rodgerskamugisha8833 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    My take home from this vlog :Seasons & updating settings. Thanks Flav

  • @rinaharinda2028
    @rinaharinda2028 ปีที่แล้ว

    The good thing about understanding seasons, you will always be joyful doing anything 💯

  • @mcLeah1
    @mcLeah1 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Efforts on both sides is soooooo important ❤

  • @GracesIntentionalliving
    @GracesIntentionalliving 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is very profound .. understanding what season you are in helps you to manage the journey that you're taking. Knowing what you are doing at the certain time is very good to control stress. Stress from experiences can affect your goals.

  • @aishamasimbi
    @aishamasimbi ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Indeed your the big sister anyone could ever have, thank you and God bless you Flavia

  • @hidayahnakiguli3658
    @hidayahnakiguli3658 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just love every bit of your tip.well come back on the channel. Looking forward to learn more.

  • @remetseirene9607
    @remetseirene9607 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wow, that's what I always tell women. There is a season for everything. If you don't put much effort in that season, you will go back and work on it in the wrong time frame

  • @haphiegood1800
    @haphiegood1800 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love listening to her❤😊

  • @oliviabamwenda1328
    @oliviabamwenda1328 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Flavior I've been married for over 15 years and you are absolutely 💯 right. Season season season what a great lesson God bless you.

  • @judithejangtravelblog
    @judithejangtravelblog ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Our big sister is back 🎉❤thank you Flavia.

  • @carolbagonza4295
    @carolbagonza4295 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    How is it that you are such a knowledge bank😍.. Thank you for sharing..You are absolutely right dear on everything. Very tru how can you grow together if you are not moving together if you are not doing it together.thank you Flav

  • @JosephineTibasabwa
    @JosephineTibasabwa ปีที่แล้ว +1

    A lot of wisdom in here right from the beginning 💯

  • @TheCookingNurse
    @TheCookingNurse ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for these, esp on understanding seasons, that can be a stone in the shoe but glad you explained it so well.

  • @littlemissy421
    @littlemissy421 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The big sis we all need to have 😘thanks for the nuggets nalongo❤ ur looks are🔥🔥

  • @RobinahAsingwire-jw4mp
    @RobinahAsingwire-jw4mp 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    l really love you Flavia,eshi ogambagye orujungu

  • @sumayyahkalyegira106
    @sumayyahkalyegira106 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    "Seasons & update settings in marriage" wowww🥰 this's soo nice and actually important to learn in marriage,on the issue of money my dear some pipo are selfish,some men out there want their wives to support them yet they can't do it in return
    Thank soo much Flavia
    We appreciate 🤗🤗🤗

  • @tushabejudith7653
    @tushabejudith7653 ปีที่แล้ว

    Key note for me: people's expectations and opinions don't matter!!!

  • @ishaazisharon6573
    @ishaazisharon6573 ปีที่แล้ว

    go go gal I like the reality in this, most important the excel mission is a correct point.

  • @joannamanya4167
    @joannamanya4167 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Understanding seasons in marriage is great, growing together is key. Thank you Mrs K. Marriage learning everyday.

  • @megansandranagasha2872
    @megansandranagasha2872 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Sooo glad you're back with these words of wisdom!!

  • @lillianahumuza5474
    @lillianahumuza5474 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The content here in is just everything 🙌. Seassssoooonnnssssss ehhhhhhhyyyyy

  • @rutharrikod
    @rutharrikod ปีที่แล้ว

    Lots of respect. This is wisdom, thanks beauliful

  • @ankndamacklyne5264
    @ankndamacklyne5264 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love the words, thanks for teaching us Mrs Flavia

  • @estherkessie
    @estherkessie ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is so helpful dear, we have to evolve through the seasons.

  • @Doreen-123
    @Doreen-123 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are so real Flavia ,

  • @kaudhaesther3386
    @kaudhaesther3386 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It's important for sure to share finances together but know how to go about it

  • @latiifananziri4583
    @latiifananziri4583 ปีที่แล้ว

    Goodness this is brilliant Flavian, thank you for sharing… much love ❤

  • @OzzyOsbornAhimbisibwe20
    @OzzyOsbornAhimbisibwe20 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Key words; Know the season and update settings accordingly, but most importantly, what hurts the other doesn't necessarily hurt you.

  • @NanoziJustin
    @NanoziJustin ปีที่แล้ว

    There is tym for everything,thank u Flavia

  • @AshleyRuth-h3d
    @AshleyRuth-h3d ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for sharing am learning alot

  • @godsveryowndaughter4009
    @godsveryowndaughter4009 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Update your settings😊that's a good one

  • @gifttwikirize7066
    @gifttwikirize7066 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So inspiring
    Learning the season u r in is so important

  • @katusabejackie2798
    @katusabejackie2798 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good lessons there. Thanks for sharing

  • @nansumbanoeline6440
    @nansumbanoeline6440 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks dear for sharing ❤❤

  • @kemigishajesicca8332
    @kemigishajesicca8332 ปีที่แล้ว

    It’s the Seasons bit for me. Thanks Flavia👏👏👏

  • @joanitanyangoma
    @joanitanyangoma ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The best YT episode i have watched in a long time and I am not even married. I love that the lessons apply across board. We had really missed you, Flavia 😍

  • @britahnuwamanya4761
    @britahnuwamanya4761 ปีที่แล้ว

    Really really insightful..

  • @mercyjumaofficial1943
    @mercyjumaofficial1943 ปีที่แล้ว

    True...some challenges from others shouldn't be mine. Yesss seasons very important...
    So a marriage may not fit into your previous season! Wow!..key lesson, and it's not weakness
    Expectations and opinions of others don't and shouldn't matter!!! Yes yes especially family😂.
    Apo kwa pesa... Yea we didn't grow up with the money together responsibility, so it's really difficult sometimes, but like you say...we choose what our marriage should be like❤

  • @sumayanakato
    @sumayanakato ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks so much for sharing maama.

  • @glonah01
    @glonah01 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Glad to hear these while still single 😅❤️❤️

  • @munashemushamba9793
    @munashemushamba9793 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your wisdom is on another level. Thank you

  • @mawandasulaiman
    @mawandasulaiman ปีที่แล้ว

    God bless you🙏🏾, this is gold you are sharing. So real and open-minded.❤

  • @KihemboNyakatoPamela
    @KihemboNyakatoPamela ปีที่แล้ว +31

    I'm not married yet but our pastor always gives us marriage tips and this has helped me prepare for marriage.
    He always tells us that "a husband is the first baby at home"
    2. See your marriage as the best & happiest marriage, don't compare your marriage with other people's marriages
    Now I've learnt more
    Thanks Fla ❤❤❤❤
    Dear Heavenly Father , your daughter is now ready for marriage 😔😔

    • @fitmisshadijjalubega2001
      @fitmisshadijjalubega2001 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ameeen.Ameen

    • @dianababirye5476
      @dianababirye5476 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      My dear,first set foot there.
      Start applying them,it ain't easy but workable

    • @rachealmbatinaki4476
      @rachealmbatinaki4476 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Let your husband show up now and then in JESUS'S NAME Amen and Amen ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

    • @davidmutebwa62
      @davidmutebwa62 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hey baby. I'm looking for you!

    • @KihemboNyakatoPamela
      @KihemboNyakatoPamela ปีที่แล้ว

      @@rachealmbatinaki4476 AMEN AMEN AND AMEN, THANKS DEAR 🙏🙏🙏

  • @mutesibetty-hd7xg
    @mutesibetty-hd7xg ปีที่แล้ว +1

    True bby gal that’s what we should understand and learn

  • @greatstar3866
    @greatstar3866 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow.. thanks Flavia for this.

  • @margaretmuthoni8464
    @margaretmuthoni8464 ปีที่แล้ว

    One of the best lessons you shared Flavia. Thanks

  • @musiimentaagnes1246
    @musiimentaagnes1246 ปีที่แล้ว

    Am learning soon coming in marriage 😄 thank you dear 💓

  • @carolhighlyfavored6348
    @carolhighlyfavored6348 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are so lovely Flavia you are!! Thank you so much for always sharing, love you 🥰

  • @patricianinsiima9802
    @patricianinsiima9802 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow! Thank you Flavia. I never get enough. You are talented at what you do. Keep it up

  • @daisywangila6285
    @daisywangila6285 ปีที่แล้ว

    Her voice...👌

  • @winniembabazi2355
    @winniembabazi2355 ปีที่แล้ว

    This ended way before it should have, most educative vlog, God bless your family dear❤

  • @beforeido6265
    @beforeido6265 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Am blessed by this

  • @arinaitwearran918
    @arinaitwearran918 ปีที่แล้ว

    Brilliant! Love the vulnerability. Sharing bases on personal experiences, especially the mistakes, are the best ones.

  • @BabiryeFatuma-r2p
    @BabiryeFatuma-r2p 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks dear

  • @nantezaprossy668
    @nantezaprossy668 ปีที่แล้ว

    Woooow the one year off was really essential and a beautiful one, the vibe is mwaa. I love the words season's seasons seasons. Oh Lord teach to number our days

  • @nserekoshafique8717
    @nserekoshafique8717 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for those real-life lessons...

  • @shaniceo8291
    @shaniceo8291 ปีที่แล้ว

    You nailed ❤this my dear , you look awesome..............❤❤❤Mrs Kabura, I love everything you are all about. Congratulations 🎉🎉🎉🎉 on your new bundle of Joy , Iam super happy for u, enjoy your season. ❤❤❤

  • @estheroluka8598
    @estheroluka8598 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for sharing Flavia..Be blessed.

  • @danielkyaligonza53
    @danielkyaligonza53 ปีที่แล้ว

    very insightful

  • @rwamsrit
    @rwamsrit ปีที่แล้ว

    This is so true thnx Flavia love ❤

  • @mukizasamuel4486
    @mukizasamuel4486 ปีที่แล้ว

    Expectations and opinions of others don't matter.

  • @musenerohilda9040
    @musenerohilda9040 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Seasons a thing God has put on my heart

  • @womanoffaith1806
    @womanoffaith1806 ปีที่แล้ว

    Blessings Flav love u

  • @shakie_my_love
    @shakie_my_love ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you so much mummy... ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @cathieempress7854
    @cathieempress7854 ปีที่แล้ว

    You always hit the right spots 😊 Thank you to a Fav❤.... Update your settings and finances.. key takeaways 😊

  • @kizzaflavia7900
    @kizzaflavia7900 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks Flavia for always sharing with us life lessons ❤respect

  • @edmondletasichosen
    @edmondletasichosen ปีที่แล้ว

    Congratulations on your 4-year anniversary and welcome back dear Flavia! Thank you so much for sharing these valuable lessons ma’am! Stay blessed! 🙏🏾❤

  • @reymojohn1046
    @reymojohn1046 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Nice lessons

  • @sylivianyamwiza3066
    @sylivianyamwiza3066 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank u Flavia for great lessons

  • @nabawanukagorreth2981
    @nabawanukagorreth2981 ปีที่แล้ว

    Main point... season... for me

  • @KemigishaJackline-nn8rx
    @KemigishaJackline-nn8rx ปีที่แล้ว

    Why didn't I meet you before .I needed these lessons before

  • @kansiimejustine88
    @kansiimejustine88 ปีที่แล้ว

    Oohh seasons.... thank you so much Flavia for this. This conversation is very educative. God bless you and your marriage more and more.

  • @nakayagaprossy1249
    @nakayagaprossy1249 ปีที่แล้ว

    True
    Seasons is a great things

  • @carolinemayende7917
    @carolinemayende7917 ปีที่แล้ว

    Finances have learnt fromy parents over 20 years in marriage.
    They have joint account and each seperate account..but some family investments they share costs

  • @ruth8647
    @ruth8647 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love this lady, I just want to know how you went through that cheating scandal! I find myself in the same position only that I’m not a celebrity, I find it hard to forgive, confused etc

    • @sarahkwebihaw.7564
      @sarahkwebihaw.7564 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      No woman will tell you the real truth of how they handled cheating spouse. Seek counseling. Talk to people you trust . Usually once a person cheats, they cheat again!!!

  • @YoramAmampa
    @YoramAmampa ปีที่แล้ว

    Wish u the best in everything

  • @RebeccaItungo
    @RebeccaItungo ปีที่แล้ว

    💯 True thanks Flavia for sharing ❤

  • @kabasiitapriscilla5504
    @kabasiitapriscilla5504 ปีที่แล้ว

    Woow great show ❤

  • @mahorojulian6746
    @mahorojulian6746 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love you babe.. Thank you💯💕

  • @nakajigosandra5953
    @nakajigosandra5953 ปีที่แล้ว

    Just love u ❤❤flavia,ive followed u since teenz club on wbs🥰🥰🥰

  • @namafaris
    @namafaris ปีที่แล้ว

    Bless you for sharing. I can relate to 1 & 2. Thank you, it helps to know that someone else is experiencing life as I am.

  • @daisylillian594
    @daisylillian594 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Flavia

  • @alphamediaug
    @alphamediaug ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It's been long but always glad to drink from your cup of wisdom

  • @namjoon3749
    @namjoon3749 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Qtn how do u deal with growth especially financially one having to leave home maybe to deal with a job far

  • @shamelesstumuhaise3364
    @shamelesstumuhaise3364 ปีที่แล้ว

    thank you for this

  • @prossybravo5841
    @prossybravo5841 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Flavia please share some weight loss tips you use....am about to burst

  • @judithamuge1161
    @judithamuge1161 ปีที่แล้ว

    Right on time

  • @carolinemayende7917
    @carolinemayende7917 ปีที่แล้ว

    And people's thinkings and expectations

  • @nanyanziaidahyawe
    @nanyanziaidahyawe ปีที่แล้ว

    Very interesting

  • @sumayamya357
    @sumayamya357 ปีที่แล้ว

    We love you always

  • @kisakyejaquiline259
    @kisakyejaquiline259 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good message

  • @catspurity
    @catspurity ปีที่แล้ว

    Oh I really missed u dear

  • @atuhairwecharity5255
    @atuhairwecharity5255 ปีที่แล้ว

    So real❤

  • @nazziwanasha2876
    @nazziwanasha2876 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow Flavior season OMG am 32 I have 2kids my co wife died 2month back and hubby says I have to take over the 6kids add my 2=8 am I ready for this season wow😮

    • @mbabazimichelle5155
      @mbabazimichelle5155 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ehhhh...isn't that too much??

    • @nakazibwerashidah484
      @nakazibwerashidah484 ปีที่แล้ว

      Struggle is real

    • @cynthia-jo1zz
      @cynthia-jo1zz ปีที่แล้ว +2

      What do you mean co wife??? What life have you lived to make these decisions?? Ohhh we have a long way to go to change things

  • @umtonibhellenah5055
    @umtonibhellenah5055 ปีที่แล้ว

    Talk about it mama

  • @bainganasam663
    @bainganasam663 ปีที่แล้ว

    You smile well as if someone is tickling you😂😂😂

  • @taturekaanthony273
    @taturekaanthony273 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤❤❤❤❤wow