This is helping. I’ve been ghosted by someone that I thought cared and was on the same page. Regardless me it’s helping me from acting out or trying to reach them, and hopefully in time I’ll release more feelings instead of acting on them from a wounded place. Thank you!
Cool thing about this loving yourself is that it solves so heavy dilemmas. Crazy.
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You are such right!!! People don't understand the most of the times and don't have all the answers, Even when they think they do. The only peace you can find is listenning your own emotions
Wow. Thank you so much for this, I've been trying for years to heal from all of the trauma I've endured throughout my life and none of the methods I've used (subliminals, affirmations, therapy, meditation) have worked as well and as instantly as this. I knew I had abandonment issues but I didn't know it was causing all of the pain I've been feeling. I've only done this once so far, and even though the shame is still here, it feels lighter and everything I've felt my entire life (low self esteem, self doubt, not good enough, etc.) is being replaced with confidence.
Yeah, I can relate to that Amanda. My mother wasn't available emotionally, so I felt rejected, but I feel like I am shifting my energy. I've been working on myself for 7 weeks and will be doing that the whole summer. I wish healing for you, too. Have you ever heard of Ho'ooponopono? I chant that every day, as well.
It worked!!!!!!!!!! My anxiety had been constant for months after an emotional flashback from CPTSD. I had done the tapping for a few weeks, every day and one morning i woke up and my anxiety waa gone. The angry hornets nest in my chest was calm. I could think rationally again. Amazing. Truly amazing. Thank you.
This is so powerfully beautiful, thank you! 💓Several people mentioned the speed at which you are speaking and are not able to follow along and repeat the words. When you (also tap 😊) on the upper right corner of the video, there is a 3 dot vertical pattern. It gives you several options, one of them is playback speed, so you can actually slow it down and follow along easier. 🙌💕
This video helped me realize alot about my rejection and abandonment wound and why people have said to me before "it's not about you". Tapping has helped me SO much and I thank you 🙏
This was incredibly powerful! My very experience with EFT and won’t be my last. Thank you so much for sharing. I wasn’t even searching for this but it appeared on my feed and I couldn’t have attracted it at a more perfect time. Love how the universe always responds. I feel so much lighter, freer! Can’t wait to repeat in the morning and will implementing in my self care daily rituals Xx
The tapping statements were so on point. My only feedback is that it went way to fast for me between each tapping point. With that said I loved the tapping. I feel lighter and higher vibe. Thank you!
Great words🙏, just too quick to repeat it after you.. so I’ll have to write it down to do my own way so that is a blessing too. Thank you for your beautiful energy.
Love you Candace.I did the whole thing right along with you. thank you I deeply needed this tonight. after 11 yrs of being supportive and getting behind a self improvment company,I was dumped like a sack of potatoes,yesterday, The Big Hurt. full on rejection/threats, the works...still recovering, but man oh man was this technique, your soothing words and repeating them,really really helped.going back in for round two. blessings and Light and much abundance and love your way. you deserve every ounce!
Wow I’ve done other people’s eft videos and this is the first one where I just started crying my eyes out during it. Feeling lighter already. Thank you so much
Thank you for making it feel so easy, like I have been working on this issue for the last forty five years, and as much as I know it will always be a part of me I know it doesn't have to control me. I do love my beautiful inner self and your videos are helping me reaffirm what I already know. I am good, I am special and I am lovable. Thank you for this confirmation. It is a great way to start my day, although you make me cry, happy tears. Namaste to you as well. Lorna
This was powerful. Will definitely come back to this when thoughts of abandonment start to creep in again. This was my first experience with EFT and I really felt the energy leave. ❤️
This is amazing. I can't thank you enough for what you do. Recently I have been listening to the universe and I can't help but think somehow it brought me to you, to heal even more. My energy has shifted and what I am attracting and seeing is light.
On behalf of the collective, Thx 4 everything your doing here during this shift in consciosness, and prior too...Your doing exactly what you came here to do, and much more. Again, Thanx. Love ya lots, sistar***
Hello Candace and thank you This was such a help for me last night I was feeling so bad and after just one round I felt relief Thank you so much I just tapped listening to your voice as it was speed for me te repeat after you bit it worked
Bit I wanted Tipp spend time with you! No IS Not true U wanted Tipp make me lose everybody I know and make ne adjust Rio Yor world and Stop anything and everything i know.... So in Case that it doesnt Work Out which Ur didnt Not OnlY so I Get a hat aches Bit also I enjoy the Test If gering ostracized basically anihilates me. So all in all you Brühe Up with me btw ditched me es before
Candace I was wondering: What do you think is the reason certain souls choose to incarnate into narcissistic family-dynamics or into life-paths where they are being narcissistically abused?
AlexanderWachsmann I can’t speak to the “abuse” but I definitely see many Lightworkers come into families who are dark. The Lightworkers highlights the darkness for them to heal BUT often times we get taken down because we don’t remember who we are. That is why I do what I do. To help us all remember our true purpose!
Thank you so much for doing this! Everything you said while doing eft is what I need to say. I’m so grateful for you Candice!! You have helped me open my heart in ways I wanted to but didn’t know how. Thank you for your light!! Much love 🙏🏻
I just did this & I am smiling!!! I feel lighter 🍃 I plan to continue doing this every day at least once a day. Watching your videos is helping me reconnect to myself. I found you just at the perfect time. Thankyou ☀️ 🌙
This EFT video is really amazing... I have been using it for at least a week now and it really helps. Do you have other EFT videos for things like anger, fear, and guilt? I could really use them and I like your style, the way you word it seems to help so much. Thanks!
Thank you so much for this. You are absolutely wonderful. I hope we get to shine light to this pain and heal it successfully. Its my biggest pain. Its very funny but i wrote on a notebook the other day, im rejecting /abandoning to feel the feeling of rejection/abandonment. Which is why subconsciously i recreate it so itll be healed. It feels so scary to feel this pain... I dont know why... But now that i understand i must feel it and process and bring it to light in order to free myself from this , i can plan accordingly to my own pace.
Tears coming up in the beginning, but I felt a relief after. Definitely going to do this multiple times. And it would be nice if you could do this when speaking slower, like others commented as well. But I am just going to write down what you say and then do it myself. Great video! (all of yours actually 😊) Namasté 💗
I'm doing this @da no in therapy,but ur doing it,a different way,and I love your positive mantras,every shrink does it different,which makes them great at what they do..😘
Thank you for the information. Hypnosis is also very useful. It changes all the emotions and of course life in better way. I just wanted to share. Thanks again.
Anyway you could pause a little longer in between statements? Found it really hard to keep up 😐 definitely need this tapping but just too fast paced for me
Hi Candice, I came across EFT through your video and felt an instant emotional release after following along. Thank you for sharing! In your experience would you say it is common that when some people heal emotionally they also start getting sick, i.e. that there is a link between inflammation/immune system health and emotional health? I ask because as I've been slowly emotionally healing, I have been experiencing long-term cold and flu like symptoms. I do have an overactive immune system and I rarely get sick, but since I've started to heal it's almost as if the body is releasing. Perhaps this is a good sign? Ironically :) Would love to hear your thoughts
I’ve experienced that too and it was worthwhile for me to see a physician just to make sure I wasn’t attributing something physical to my emotional process (I highly recommend anyone do this). Tuning into my body and asking what it needs (carbs, protein, veggies, water?) has been an effective preventative tool for me. Stored unfelt emotion/trauma can lead to illness, so as it releases, our bodies often need rest to adjust. The strain of normal life + intense healing would be a strain on anyone’s immune system. Healing work is emotionally and mentally exhausting and probably naturally compromises your immune system. Another possibility is your body recognizing stressful events and responding. I totally applaud you for doing the work and to learn from my mistakes - I should have involved my doctor and psychiatrist earlier than I did!
This is helping. I’ve been ghosted by someone that I thought cared and was on the same page. Regardless me it’s helping me from acting out or trying to reach them, and hopefully in time I’ll release more feelings instead of acting on them from a wounded place. Thank you!
Cool thing about this loving yourself is that it solves so heavy dilemmas. Crazy.
You are such right!!! People don't understand the most of the times and don't have all the answers, Even when they think they do. The only peace you can find is listenning your own emotions
Absolutely!!!
Wow this has actually probably been the best video I've ever seen on TH-cam. This kind of changed my life.
Wow. Thank you so much for this, I've been trying for years to heal from all of the trauma I've endured throughout my life and none of the methods I've used (subliminals, affirmations, therapy, meditation) have worked as well and as instantly as this. I knew I had abandonment issues but I didn't know it was causing all of the pain I've been feeling. I've only done this once so far, and even though the shame is still here, it feels lighter and everything I've felt my entire life (low self esteem, self doubt, not good enough, etc.) is being replaced with confidence.
I AM LIGHT AND I AM HERE TO SHINE!! I claim that!!
I just discovered I’m suffering from childhood rejection trauma and I’ve always known I had abandonment trauma but I had a huge epiphany
Yeah, I can relate to that Amanda. My mother wasn't available emotionally, so I felt rejected, but I feel like I am shifting my energy. I've been working on myself for 7 weeks and will be doing that the whole summer. I wish healing for you, too. Have you ever heard of Ho'ooponopono? I chant that every day, as well.
It worked!!!!!!!!!!
My anxiety had been constant for months after an emotional flashback from CPTSD. I had done the tapping for a few weeks, every day and one morning i woke up and my anxiety waa gone. The angry hornets nest in my chest was calm. I could think rationally again. Amazing. Truly amazing. Thank you.
This is so powerfully beautiful, thank you! 💓Several people mentioned the speed at which you are speaking and are not able to follow along and repeat the words. When you (also tap 😊) on the upper right corner of the video, there is a 3 dot vertical pattern. It gives you several options, one of them is playback speed, so you can actually slow it down and follow along easier. 🙌💕
Thank you for that tip! I’m sure you just helped a lot of people 😃. I also was unaware of that!!
and after watching this video I need a hug
Awwww X
I will send you a virtual hug then 💜
It's sad that there are more of us than ever in the world, yet we feel so alone...
^...yet, here we are thankfully.
hugs all around xo
I loved this. I kept feeling overwhelming emotions of wanting to throw up and squirm. It felt like I was releasing blockages.
oh wow, i started to cry half way through. far out. i am now just sitting with it. thanks. i will def do this every day.
When I watch this video and did exercise I cried. I now know I have abandonment issues
This video helped me realize alot about my rejection and abandonment wound and why people have said to me before "it's not about you". Tapping has helped me SO much and I thank you 🙏
This was incredibly powerful! My very experience with EFT and won’t be my last. Thank you so much for sharing. I wasn’t even searching for this but it appeared on my feed and I couldn’t have attracted it at a more perfect time. Love how the universe always responds. I feel so much lighter, freer! Can’t wait to repeat in the morning and will implementing in my self care daily rituals Xx
Absolutely awesome my friend. I'm so glad you like it. It is one of my favorite tools XO
I started crying and I realised so much THANK YOU
I’m ready to start feeling better
This really worked, I feel much better. Thank you ❤
Definitely shed some tears with this - thank you for helping us release these deep emotions ❤️🙏🏾
Going through a breakup and this has helped me tremendously. Thank you so much.
The tapping statements were so on point. My only feedback is that it went way to fast for me between each tapping point. With that said I loved the tapping. I feel lighter and higher vibe. Thank you!
Same here, I couldn't keep up
This is the best tapping voice i've ever heard. It's so comforting :) Thank you!
Awwww thank you so much!! I will be doing them each month in my membership group. Please join if you feel called TruthRoomTribe.candacevandell.com ;-)
This was just beautiful. Your voice is so soothing. I’ll do it every morning, thanks 🤍
LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOVEEEEEEEEEE this it made me cry
it is not your fault
Great words🙏, just too quick to repeat it after you.. so I’ll have to write it down to do my own way so that is a blessing too. Thank you for your beautiful energy.
Love you Candace.I did the whole thing right along with you. thank you I deeply needed this tonight. after 11 yrs of being supportive and getting behind a self improvment company,I was dumped like a sack of potatoes,yesterday, The Big Hurt. full on rejection/threats, the works...still recovering, but man oh man was this technique, your soothing words and repeating them,really really helped.going back in for round two. blessings and Light and much abundance and love your way. you deserve every ounce!
Life is energy. I attract what i feel
Wow I’ve done other people’s eft videos and this is the first one where I just started crying my eyes out during it. Feeling lighter already. Thank you so much
Started watching your videos some days ago and this is exactly what I needed, this is the theme that came up in the last days. Thank you!
Cristina Chirnogea 💛💛
Love you Candace so much.
Thank you for making it feel so easy, like I have been working on this issue for the last forty five years, and as much as I know it will always be a part of me I know it doesn't have to control me. I do love my beautiful inner self and your videos are helping me reaffirm what I already know. I am good, I am special and I am lovable. Thank you for this confirmation. It is a great way to start my day, although you make me cry, happy tears. Namaste to you as well. Lorna
She begins tapping technique @3:40 🙂❤️
So profound! I cried so much - a deep cry of release. Thank you beautiful soul
This is a really nice tapping, good job! Please slow down more tho so we can tap along!
Good point! XO
This was powerful. Will definitely come back to this when thoughts of abandonment start to creep in again. This was my first experience with EFT and I really felt the energy leave. ❤️
I cried so much with this, thank you. I never knew about tapping until I found your video recently.
This is amazing. I can't thank you enough for what you do. Recently I have been listening to the universe and I can't help but think somehow it brought me to you, to heal even more. My energy has shifted and what I am attracting and seeing is light.
P.S. I just joined the Truth Room Tribe today! I can't wait :)
Alice Ayres 🙏🏻✨✨✨✨✨
Absolutely incredible!! Thank you so much!!
Amazing! ❤️✨
❤️❤️❤️
You are literally saving my life. Thank you.
Perfect Timing! Thanks!
Love that!
On behalf of the collective, Thx 4 everything your doing here during this shift in consciosness, and prior too...Your doing exactly what you came here to do, and much more. Again, Thanx. Love ya lots, sistar***
Hello Candace and thank you
This was such a help for me last night I was feeling so bad and after just one round I felt relief
Thank you so much
I just tapped listening to your voice as it was speed for me te repeat after you bit it worked
Amazing, thank you so much 🙏🏻🤍🐚
Thank you for the video. And helping so many people including me
Seemah Scott Awww amazing! It’s my pleasure! 🙏🏻
Bit I wanted Tipp spend time with you! No IS Not true U wanted Tipp make me lose everybody I know and make ne adjust Rio Yor world and Stop anything and everything i know.... So in Case that it doesnt Work Out which Ur didnt Not OnlY so I Get a hat aches Bit also I enjoy the Test If gering ostracized basically anihilates me. So all in all you Brühe Up with me btw ditched me es before
Thank you so much, Candace. I want to hug you right now!
AlexanderWachsmann 🤗
Candace I was wondering: What do you think is the reason certain souls choose to incarnate into narcissistic family-dynamics or into life-paths where they are being narcissistically abused?
AlexanderWachsmann I can’t speak to the “abuse” but I definitely see many Lightworkers come into families who are dark. The Lightworkers highlights the darkness for them to heal BUT often times we get taken down because we don’t remember who we are. That is why I do what I do. To help us all remember our true purpose!
Beautiful thank you!! A gross feeling moved and I relaxed 🙂💖
Thank you so much for doing this! Everything you said while doing eft is what I need to say. I’m so grateful for you Candice!! You have helped me open my heart in ways I wanted to but didn’t know how. Thank you for your light!! Much love 🙏🏻
This is as simple as genius. Helped me first seconds of! Candace, namaste🙏
Thank you so much for this. I wish for everything in your life to be blessed and joyful as you have done to mine, with the warmest regards :)
Starts at 3:30
I really love this♥️ I’ve listened to it about 20 times today and resonated with every bit of it. Thank you ♥️
wow this is amazing! would soo appreciate if you did one with shorter sentences and bigger gaps between taps! thank you and bless you
I just did this & I am smiling!!!
I feel lighter 🍃
I plan to continue doing this every day at least once a day. Watching your videos is helping me reconnect to myself. I found you just at the perfect time. Thankyou ☀️ 🌙
Clarity moment of clarirty
You just ravished my spirit
Beats of Saturn 💛💫
This EFT video is really amazing... I have been using it for at least a week now and it really helps. Do you have other EFT videos for things like anger, fear, and guilt? I could really use them and I like your style, the way you word it seems to help so much. Thanks!
Julie Schiffman has a video that kind of addresses those points you made. It's a video entitled "Julie Schiffman Discusses EFT for Depression".
I wrote down all your statements, which were a ton, and will try to go through them at a slower speed. They're very good statements. God bless.
THANK YOU CANDICE
I thoroughly enjoy your content to help me heal. Thank you 🙏
Thank you so much for this. You are absolutely wonderful. I hope we get to shine light to this pain and heal it successfully. Its my biggest pain. Its very funny but i wrote on a notebook the other day, im rejecting /abandoning to feel the feeling of rejection/abandonment. Which is why subconsciously i recreate it so itll be healed. It feels so scary to feel this pain... I dont know why... But now that i understand i must feel it and process and bring it to light in order to free myself from this , i can plan accordingly to my own pace.
Immediately felt lighter.
I just found you today and everything you are saying resonates with me on a deep level you explain things so perfectly! Thankyou💖
Same here 💙
Tears coming up in the beginning, but I felt a relief after. Definitely going to do this multiple times.
And it would be nice if you could do this when speaking slower, like others commented as well. But I am just going to write down what you say and then do it myself. Great video! (all of yours actually 😊) Namasté 💗
Just so beautiful energy🌈🙏🤲💜
I'm doing this @da no in therapy,but ur doing it,a different way,and I love your positive mantras,every shrink does it different,which makes them great at what they do..😘
Jacinta Cody Thank u!
I had headache during video I had to walk away, I was stars almost dropped ... but I felt good.
Why did this make me cry?
Really felt deep healing now I wanna pal around
Pals around maybw yoga
Thank you so much! You are awesome!
Thank you for the information. Hypnosis is also very useful. It changes all the emotions and of course life in better way. I just wanted to share. Thanks again.
As I started during it, I started feeling my kundalini energy heat flowing up and down my spine, anyone else??!
thank you so much. saving lives out here
So so good! Thank you for sharing!!!!!
Thank you🙏🏼💖 you have put words to my emotions of years,thank thank you🙏🏼💖
Thank you this helps so much
Great EFT session, thank you so much. Namaste from France
I Love Your sentences , thanks
Thank you for sharing on youtube helps so many people
Im bouta blow up 🌞 like a superNova ..and I couldnt forget what uve shown me the past 8 months😂
Nova Hudson haha awwww 💥
Amazing 🙏🏾
It totally touched my heart ❤️ ! Thank you beautiful
Zorka Castrillon 💜❤️
You coiud've had a lot more hits.
Anyway you could pause a little longer in between statements? Found it really hard to keep up 😐 definitely need this tapping but just too fast paced for me
AWESOME!!!
Good to use once a day
Candace: Did you learn much of this from experience?
Thankyou so much ❤️
Nice one, thank you! But maybe leave some space/time to repeat after you...
Hi Candice, I came across EFT through your video and felt an instant emotional release after following along. Thank you for sharing! In your experience would you say it is common that when some people heal emotionally they also start getting sick, i.e. that there is a link between inflammation/immune system health and emotional health? I ask because as I've been slowly emotionally healing, I have been experiencing long-term cold and flu like symptoms. I do have an overactive immune system and I rarely get sick, but since I've started to heal it's almost as if the body is releasing. Perhaps this is a good sign? Ironically :) Would love to hear your thoughts
I’ve experienced that too and it was worthwhile for me to see a physician just to make sure I wasn’t attributing something physical to my emotional process (I highly recommend anyone do this). Tuning into my body and asking what it needs (carbs, protein, veggies, water?) has been an effective preventative tool for me.
Stored unfelt emotion/trauma can lead to illness, so as it releases, our bodies often need rest to adjust. The strain of normal life + intense healing would be a strain on anyone’s immune system. Healing work is emotionally and mentally exhausting and probably naturally compromises your immune system. Another possibility is your body recognizing stressful events and responding. I totally applaud you for doing the work and to learn from my mistakes - I should have involved my doctor and psychiatrist earlier than I did!
Candance! 💕💕💕
You really helping me thank you
I'm so glad ;-)
really great, but its too fast I can't say what is needed before you go to the next line
What is the tapping.
Like what is it’s significance.?
🌈💜 Just Love you and your work.
Thanks, Candace.
Why i did cry doing this? Is this working on me?
Start 3:37
Fantastic!!! Love ❤️ this !!
Did you write that?
Karen Doyle thank you! Did I write what?
Candace van Dell that whole self talk you gave . It was brilliant . If you made that up as you went well my hats off to you😚😍🤩
Karen Doyle oh haha yes! I tend to just flow with whatever comes forward 🙏🏻✨
Man this was sooo helpful
Hi Cadance - is there any way to connect with you, I need few videos for my business use, please let me know if that can be done