How To Deal With People Who Feel Entitled
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 30 ก.ย. 2024
- A sense of entitlement has been more apparent in today's generation. But do you know that the older generation has so much to do with this current predicament? In today's episode, I'll be sharing my insights on entitlement - how it's incubated in a person, and ways you can help empower, and not enable, the people around you who are struggling with it.
To your abundance!
Doug Andrew
Key Moments In This Episode
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01:03 What to expect in today's video
02:06 Cornelius Vanderbilt and his family
04:02 Teaching them to fish rather than dumping fish on their laps
04:39 Rothschild and his family
06:00 Teaching my kids how to responsibly handle money
07:00 Teaching responsibility, not accountability
07:53 Equal opportunities, not equal distribution
08:55 Nothing is more unequal than equal distribution to unequals
10:20 People stepping up their game
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Hey Doug...You hit the Nail on the head. great video . too much entitlement going on in our country today. thks for the video
Entitlement has been around since the beginning of time. the problem with our country today is the entitlement has spread throughout the population. It used to be a very small percentage of the population now it's a large percentage. And it keeps growing. Smart phones / social media / cancel culture / I'm offended culture. Everyone thinks they deserve something just cuz they were born.
Trust fund kids never do well. We just lost an someone aged 45. Chronic alcoholic, obese, and self entitled. His narcissism eventually killed him. The world is better off without him, to be honest. A complete waste of time!
Such a refreshing video really coming from a gentleman who seems to be the exception in your generation!! From my observation, it isn't that the Millennial generation is lazy, per say, but the fact that we can work just as hard as our parents before us, however the profit we make today are simply MARGINAL. My boyfriend and I both work full time and make just enough to pay our rent, electric, internet, food, gas and monthly phone bills. We decided to start a firewood business. We went broke just for a glimmer of hope that we could ditch our corporate office jobs for a glimpse of the outside world. We enjoy the newly found time together, the profits, the physical work, and the great outdoors! It seems my age group really has to take some dangerous risks if we ever want to get ahead.
There is nothing in this video that tells you how to deal with entitled people.
Big word,accountability, thank you!
You got it!
The sources of entitlement are not fully understood, but researchers have pointed to factors such as how people are treated by their parents and other authority figures, messages from the media, and other life events, especially those that make people feel that they are special.
Self-entitlement is when an individual perceives themselves as deserving of unearned privileges. These are the people who believe life owes them something; a reward, a measure of success, a particular standard of living.
THIS HITS HARD!!
Thank you. This is excellent information. I appreciate your videos and your interview on the Jeff Hays “Money Revealed” series. I have taken your advice!
I'm not wealthy by any means, but come from a family of poor farmers. Because I'm the only one that kinda sorta "made it" by completing my graduate studies my family now feels entitled to my time, labor, and money. I want to help them, but they act so hapless and afraid.
Great information Doug Andrews how to leave a system for generations to how to fish! Not feeling entitled!
My husband wanted out of his last marriage so badly he gave his ex 17 yrs of alimony. She wants us to move to a smaller place so she can have more money I can not change her but I have learned not to let her live in my head Despite her exclusive address and money she is the most unhappy person you could imagine. The trap of trying to solve inside problems with external “things” is a long cold road. . .
The Vanderbilts not having money today is crazy. Low key embarrassing
i'll tell you about people who think their entitled no joke. they took my emergency money like geniuses.
Hey Doug I have a problem with an entitled relative that I live with he works alot but he believes he is the most important no one is above him he makes you feel like you don't matter like you actually bother just yesterday on mother's day we had a party and he was grilling and I was taking care of all the kids it was 3 kids and I don't even know how to grill and he was pissed off that I didn't help him grill even though I was busy the moral of this story is he started to yell at me in front of the family that the company he works at pays him 27$ an hour and that I waisted his hour on grilling that it's my fault that he lost out on 27$ but in reality even if he didn't do anything he wouldn't make any money because it was the weekend it was his days off also he through the party not me I was just invited and well he still tells me that thanks to me he lost out on that that his time is worth 27 an hour if I don't give him the money on the time he spent he will always give me a hard time very stupid right but what should I do plz reply I need some advice sorry for the super long comment
That human is a narcissist
Watch a bunch of videos on narcissism…he’s got it…
Cut him off if you can. If you can’t, it comes down to saying NO and being okay with the consequences. If the people around you take his side and not yours then leave those people as well. It’s hard, but if you cut out bad people it will make room for good people to show up
This is a great video!
Glad you think so!
Thanks, Doug.
This is MUSIC TO MY EARS!
Thank you Freya!
Thank you! This is great!
You're very welcome!
I enjoyed this video.
I'm glad!
Honestly I think you shoukd have included companies in the introduction. There are companies who do adopt the " mememe" mantra, maybe in a covert manner. When companies take advantage of their employees, what about that??
Some are like viruses.
I used to resent my father for never giving me anything or helping me out financially.I will never forget r
when he told me that I earned everything on my own. That’s when it I realized that forced me to work for myself if I was to succeed.
I think this is great advice. However all the example are based on entitled people from an extrodinaryly wealthy background. I hope people take that into consideration when applying the logic of the argument to other social classes.
Not everyone has equal opportunities to say that is to be blind to the world around you. People from babies can have multiple problems different health issues that have none thing with choices they made or others made.
How about people who are entitled who aren't white? If you knew me, you would know. I didn't know bedside manners. Not everyone is the same. I wish that someone would love me. I wish that people stop insulting and screaming at me. I hate being me. Because I get these mean people call me cuss words. My friends talk like they have it worse. Remember the song, "Wouldn't It Be Good." If you have any empathy, you would listen to this song and understand it. It 's about the grass being greener on the other side.
You talk about entitlement only in America ha not in india
I'd love to get a copy of your book but am afraid it's not yet available for our country - Philippines 😓😓😓 we could really use this to break some unhealthy traditions here
it's all subjective and arguable... there are also people who inherited a lot and made even more in their lives without wasting their lives working or doing things they didn't like...
Yes. There are two sides to every coin. Not everyone is entitled. Thanks for watching!
I am LOVING your content! Thank you SO much for talking about this. This feels like water to parched lips on a dry day! We need to hear more about situations like these to better deal with life and all its colorful people!
At 1:45-1:52 you said they would come back 20-30 years later to say/discuss issues with their kids having entitlement issues.. the problem here is: 1. Your age and agenda to knowing these thousands of cases you referred to.. 2. Your current age now. 3. Assistance from already known psychological response to previously studied examples of cause and affect... Leaves me asking simply how? When? And who were the references you mentioned? How old are you? How would you be associated with those people 20-30 years ago?
The point is that your example of how you know what you're talking about is simply lacking in explaination.
What difference does it make how old he is? The validity of what he’s saying stands regardless. His explanation was very clear - simple as that.
@@ecaldwell9 because he's Targeting a specific age group and claiming to associate with them. Biblically, inheritance is entitlement and is being removed today by people like this... Why do you think parents kick their kids out at 18 years of age? To avoid legalized entitled ownerships from being allowed to occur... 20 years of living in the home means legal entitlement.. so assholes like this take that away by spreading things like this... Entitlement is as old as the Bible and as old as man kind...
If parents weren't allowed to kick their children out at age 18... At age 20... The children so long as they've lived in or on a single property for 20 years in the state of NC can legally take ownership of the land and the home..
Its a fact I seen it too many tyms n I'm only 29, if u want all the nitty gritty details u ain't hear to learn go view something else if something is true its valid. Its like sayn if characters in the bible weren't real people then it has no validity yet the story is not the point but the truth u can learn from.