Emotional incest is a real thing and it’s sad to see the unhealthy relationship between colt and his mom. Neither one can let the other one go because of the emotional boundaries that have been violated and it’s created a pattern for them that they feel like they can’t break out of.
THATS WHAT MADE ME SO UNCOMFORTABLE WITH THEM I've noticed with alot of single mothers with sons they tend to have that similar emotionally incestuous nature which just creeps me the fuck out
I’ve noticed that happens a lot on this show. The men often exaggerate how much money they have bc they think this “foreign girl” will think any American in any American style home is “rich” compared to where they came from
Yeah I couldn't imagine coming to another country and having everybody attack me and nobody's on my side that's so horrible what is wrong with people I don't understand the Outlook people have on situations and how she put up with a lot from that weirdo dude he should have been happy to have a girl like her I don't know regardless of the facts he should have at least stuck up for and not let anybody attacked her so she felt like she at least had somebody that's that's sad man people are just sick
"If SHE is disabled, why is SHE making your bed and driving YOU to work, and cooking YOU your breakfast and doing YOUR laundry?" Damn, I could feel the heat from the burn coming out of my screen
"No flowers sweetheart" He says like he's talking to a child who wants a lollipop. Shows right out of the gate that her feelings and wants aren't going to be respected.
I was just thinking, 'are you using my cousin to get the high life's & 'just use her for the 90 days and send her back home' as some of the most irritable nonsense I've heard in a while from the families in the show. Yes, compared to other countries it's pretty rich but even if you get a green card you're dealing with shot wages and even higher standards of living. Unless you're taking advantage of the money here and setting up something out of country or something via nest egg, you're just starting from square one here. Sure a chance is a chance but this "high life" his cousin is talking about is blue collar work unless she gets some kind of degree and sending her earnings back home. A coworker of mine said that a month of work Fulltime is roughly $200 DOLLARS! People make that in a week to a few days. Easily you could live in poverty here with that wage but sent overseas, you could live amazingly. She'll be on ground zero like the rest of us.
I dated a guy like this, with his mother. He said to me one time, what’s mine is hers and what’s hers is mine. Like meaning his mother and there were other weird things!!!
Is it just me or is Larissa framed as a gold-digger, but doesn't really seem like one? An actual gold-digger wouldn't have gotten a wedding dress at Good-Will lol...
Lmao I always thought that was amusing as hell. Like this man's car doesn't even have AC. I mean living with colt & mom is far from the high life. She can't spend money without his first wife (mom) approving it and her wedding dress was second hand. What gold is she digging 🙄
I think its because she has a high sense of herself which isn't a bad thing at all. She isn't someone who's going to take the hurtfulness from the family and she knows what's she worth and when she's being attacked
For Colt and his mom, I’m gonna refer you to something called the Jocasta complex: in psychoanalytic theory, an abnormally close or incestuous attachment of a mother to her son. It is named for Jocasta, the mother and wife of Oedipus in Greek mythology. I PROMISE you his mom wether it’s conscious or not sees him as a surrogate husband and feels EXTREMELY threatened about being replaced by Larissa
Tbh I can understand why she’d be fixated on the flowers. It’s a really sweet, simple gesture and seeing someone waiting for you with flowers can make you feel special. Also, she’s iconic. No filter. Hell yeah.
Same, she moved to a whole new country only for a man and he can’t even dish out $5 for some flowers to greet her after a long and probably stressful flight
So if you look good it’s ok to be disrespectful? And she could’ve mentioned the flowers once and dropped it or brought it up in a few days. But you are seeing your future husband after how many months ( or even weeks) and you show more concern over something that will not make a bit of difference in a week. She wants a crown but doesn’t have the class to carry it.
"You're just using Colt to come to America to live the high life" -Bro, what high life? No, seriously. She lives in a musty one bedroom apartment with her skinny fat fiance and his mother (whom he occasionally makes out with) and is now being insulted at a backyard barbecue. She probably had it better in Brazil.
Yes, she had it better in Brazil, but now she has it much better without Colt. Larissa became one of the highest paid 90df cast members. And she is so beautiful!
@@asevanilla3393 lmao ikr. Brazil is such a beautiful country man. He acting like she was just chilling in a tree one day, when she found a phone and learnt about the luxuries of america causing her to embark on a journey to viciously trap an innocent, overweight american man with her wild femininity. America is definitely not worth Colt's sex drive.
Let's be real, Larissa was never a gold digger, and, hear me out, neither was Anfisa. These men promised them a lifestyle they couldn't deliver because they would never have moved to be with them otherwise since these men have the most disgusting personalities. I'm always going to be on their side, idc how TLC edited them I always knew they were real Gs
@Sahir Damani Jorge wanted an Instagram model and she wanted a rich man. He tricked her into being with him by pretending to have a lot more money than he did... So he got what he wanted and she didn't. She isn't a gold digger, she straight up got scammed lmao
@@poppyseed5270 thats still being a gold digger? if gold diggers don't want rich men, then what do they want??? shes still a gold digger even if she got scammed lol. you don't need to be defensive about it, anfisa was always honest about it.
@@doclinny if you really want to get into it, I think there's a difference between being a gold digger and a sugar baby. The latter implies consent and a mutual exchange... He wanted a trophy wife and she wanted a good life. But he lied, so she didn't know what she was actually signing up for. That's what she was always open about, the exchange between the two of them.
@@poppyseed5270 Exactly! I hate when people justify or gloss over the fact that some beta incel guy thinks he is entitled to only beautiful women/models but then gets upset if the woman wants something in return; a clear double-standard.
When a man says that relationships with women from his own country never work out, that’s a HUGE red flag. Because what is actually implied is ‘no self-respecting woman from my own country will tolerate my shit, so I have to resort to desperate women trying to escape poverty’
Yeah, but has some exceptions as well. I'm from Brazil, specifically Rio de Janeiro, and I can count on one hand how many of my relationships truly worked, since I'm from a culture that was almost completely erased around here almost a decade ago (it's a very long story, but it involved funkers becoming obsessed with everyone else being funkers too, starting in 2008, and spree attacking metalheads/rockers for not being like them), people from here always see me as "the other", never see me beyond the "he's one of them" and it ended badly because most of the times it's expected from me a whole stuff that's not for me, if I can make myself clear, so... Yeah, it can happen, depending on the culture and circumstances from it.
@@RodrickMarsMoon i didnt know wtf you were talking about till you mentioned metalheads/rockers, as there arent any "funker" subcultures in america. Are these people that listen to funk music or something?? 😂 cause as someone from the US, that idea sounds so outlandish and hilarious lmfao
dude larissa is so likeable, these people are just unbearable. she’s funny asf and she knows what she wants. she’s not asking for much at any point and the fact this guy who literally doesn’t even have his own bank account wouldn’t defend his wife when she’s constantly being attacked.
I never realized how racist and xenophobic John(?) Was being towards her. Saying how she'll never have the American life and how colt does everything for her and saying to just go back to Brazil. She had it WAY better in Brazil dude😭 I guarantee you John thinks Brazil is just a big forest and no technology or anything, girl she was better off in Brazil 💅🏽
@@Theohybrid bruh probably wants her to know every single thing about America too “Oh you wanna be a citizen so bad name every president” Man I was born here and I can’t do that 😭 don’t ask me shit about US history Or to remember the national anthem
That’s why John works at friendly’s & Larissa got 700k+ followers on Instagram that could give her sponsors as easy job & a brand new pair of boobies. Oh and she divorced colts wack ass. 😂😂😂😂 Larissa = the queen of manifestation
The fact that used "divorce" against her as if his deadbeat ugly ass was worth staying with. Like, yes please. Please divorce me. I rather be poor (again) than put up with you and your family.
He definitely thought he had the upper hand and that once he said it she’d beg for him forgiveness. And so childish! I’m gonna divorce you because you’re being mean to me and my mommy :(
@Dopesy Gal If it was staged, he's really going for the self absorbed creepy mommy's boy appearance. Imagine choosing that over being a normal person that has little to no creep factor to them. His is off the chart.
He's always with that pathetic "I'm tired" excuse when he doesn't want to face any problem and I'm gonna tell you not letting a latin woman say what she has on her mind is like playing football with a time bomb
Everyone’s being awful to Larissa as though she didn’t move her whole life to a new place where not only are the language and culture different but she doesn’t have friends, family, a job, or anything besides her suitcases. Of course she’s gonna be uncomfortable to these people who’ve probably never left their state let alone the country.
she’s here for colt to enjoy his 90 days and then send her back to Brazil ?? so , her only purpose is to serve as a 3 month f*ck toy for colt and he sends her back after trying her out ?? that was absolutely disgusting of the cousin to say . what “high” life was she living with colty ?? he wasn’t rich at all . she probably had WAY more comforts in Brazil and gave up a lot to come here .
Exactly. I don't know what moral high ground he had to stand on after saying those things. Which is worse, Green Card for economic migrancy or human sex toy for 90 days only to be returned home?
@@trustme3321 yes, living in brazil has several dangers, as well as living in any other country, but depending on the city brazil is a very peaceful place (english is not my first language, so sorry for any mistakes)
agree....colt an fam are your average, unworldly, simple, brash and loud working class culture folks. they have no idea how the rest of the world lives.
Colt's cousin is acting like girls can get something from his cousin. It's not like he is well off in life. Colt can't even stand on his own without his momma's help. Literally just a baby in an adult's body. SMH
I think that jerk puts Larissa down because she’s hot and he’s attracted to her and his wife probably feels insecure around her so he goes out of his way to make Larissa feel like shit to like prove something to his wife (whose not bad looking either but just not as “wow” as Larissa). Just a thought.
Why is it that often when people say: "I'm more of a rational person" they seem to actually mean: "I don't understand other people's feelings and I shouldn't have to"?
The cousin is a racist. I have seen those clips so many times and he sounds like a racist more and more each time. Just assuming she is there for a green card and treating her the way he did. That whole part of the series is gross. Larissa is interesting but Colt does a massive disservice to every woman he is with. He acts like marrying a woman is the same as adopting a puppy.
I thought at first she was obviously trying to get a visa and someone to take care of her, but seeing how hard she is trying to make it work when there are plenty of men who would love to take care of her does make me think she actually wants to give Colt a chance, even though he has literally nothing to offer. Imagine your cousin going on some racist rant and you just sit there... No wonder she got sick of him
@@anneidevdl this is what threw me off with her. She seems shallow and in it for a green card AT FIRST, but then as you continue watching, she seems to genuinely want to make it work... for some reason.
@@digitalgloop12 i personally believe she always loved him. I mean she left her country and kids for him. It seems like the usual case of man promises the world and delivers nothing. That is why she looks like a gold digger at first. He hopes people think that to make his lying ass look better.
@@CoCo-ov9eb i can’t agree more. All the people on that show male or female are like that. I personally know someone who has gotten multiple mail order wives. He finally settled with one that will most likely stay for the rest of his life but the whole thing is yucky. Each time he brought a new woman home his kids had to call her mom immediately to help her feel ‘included’. It is also a giant culture shock for the whole family. Don’t get me wrong exposing yourself to different cultures is great when you plan on doing it but when you are a kid and you have no choice it can be jarring. Not fair for anyone.
@@MegaLinilla yes 😫 the school district here is ranked the worst in the entire country, healthcare is awful so people often have to travel out of state to get treatment, crime is super high but its rarely reported on because they dont want to scare away tourists. also loads of traffic bc people are coming from california :/
Yeah, I visited once, and other than like the entertainment area, it's really... not somewhere I'd want to live haha. I wouldn't want to live in the entertainment area either though, tbh.
I hate to admit this but I have an ex that's a lot like Colt. He used to flirt and compliment other women in front of me and ignore me just to make me upset. Then he could call me "crazy" and "insecure" and feel superior. FML.
@@CourierSixMojaveExpress haha maybe, damn Steve lol. I know it's because deep down theyre insecure and traumatized but still no exscuse to be mean to your partner.
When he said "I'm gonna divorce you" I wish Larissa answered "Thank you", no green card is worth to have to endure such a mess of a "man" and his awful family, the only good thing about him is his money, damn that's sad lol.
That was so gross. He acted like an entitled child when he said that. It was so similar to saying ''well then you can't come to my birthday party''. It's like he's 5..
@@anneidevdl i think its because his mom still treats him like a child and so he still has the fckn mindest as a child💀 its so bad,, debby really needs to move away so he can get a back bone or whatever it is.
I just watched the full colt story, and there's loads of clips that you probably haven't seen, and honestly larissa was done so wrong, there was this clip of her saying she was afraid of colt and Debbie because they could just call the police and it's their word against hers and she had been arrested already so she didn't have any credibility. Debbie is the worst tho!!
They way Colt talked to his wife at the end after everything she's been through ie moving, mama drama, racist cousin, and calling the police on her, shows how little he cares. She didn't deserve ANY of that. They took advantage of the situation she was in. This was so wrong; this family should be ashamed of themselves. We need pray for this woman. God bless her she's strong.
I finally got to see my Oma last week.. She's a tough gal. Survived WW2 and covid. Lost a leg a couple years back. Shes in her mid 80s but still sharp. I truly thought I'd never be able to see her outside of her nursing home again. That's my true heart there. I cried like a baby when I saw her..Sending all love out to those missing their grandparents. ❤
I dislike Colt more then Big Ed…. Mainly cus how he treated Jess (but now she hella UPGRADED so she chillin lol) but idk why Colt rubs me the wrong way soooooo much. Like his face makes me feel actual anger lol (I’m fine I promise lol)
@@elizabeththornton8982 oooh tbh I didn’t even watch this season so idk what was alleged but you just reminded me that he did say some weird shi bout his daughter so basically I dislike them the same lol. Maybe Ed a little more when I find out what’s up
I would say the same but those SA allegations and that emotional abuse phone call big Ed can literally rot in hell. Colts a freak, but at least he’s not abusing women.
I've seen someone on instagram who said they were a relationship therapist of some kind say that when their relationship needs (not talking about.. you know.. but more like emotional, personal connection wise) are better met with their child than with their significant other, and the child gets a partner, that's when you get these toxic MIL situations. I just thought that was interesting.. I'll just leave that here :p
I think its somewhat common that people have these weird romantic dynamics with their children because they sculpt their children into who they want them to be, but only because its literally taboo they dont act on it. Its a bit fucked up to say but I've personally seen it in real life, people with moms that sleep in the same bed with them, always hang out with them, take interest in everything their son likes even if its weird, etc. Shits creepy man.
@@Allegra7545 yeah its a little bit disgusting to see people grow so grossly attached to their children to the point that they wait on them hand and foot, sleep in their rooms, share hobbies and interests with them, etc. I understand loving your child and wanting to be a part of their life, but there is a line that is crossed when you start "becoming their life" and that carries the possibility of romantic feelings and infatuation.
bro i didn't know Larissa was like making breakfast and trying to be sweet. She doesn't seem so bad... I think she was probably just pushed into crazy. Though if she put her hands on him that's not okay at all. Was that her or the red head?
I personally don't even think she even touched Colt, with Debbie there as a "witness" its easy for them to have the cops come to remove Larissa who is the "immigrant" and the one who is the "aggressor" if Colt did provoke her before the cops were called and they arrived when she was shouting at him. and she did lock herself in the bedroom to try and get away from him before so.. I honestly don't believe shit from Colt & Debbie when it's "He say She say vs She say"
To answer your last question, last I remember and from what I know seeing other ppl covering their relationship, the red head was the one who threw a shoe at Colt cuz he lied about not being friends with his fwb anymore. And she found out they're still friends, because Colt's mum deliberately brought it up in front of her. So yea, his mum's just trying to keep him to herself
Colt and Debbie were soooo crazy. A lot of channels and media portrayed larissa as the typical gold digger and the villain, but as someone who watched every episode of this I actually liked larissa and hated tf outta of colt
TLC: What do you mean not all South American countries speak Spanish? And also Leo made a great point about how American shows and movies use the most generic ass stereotypical music in the background when a person of a different ethnicity is shown. It comes off as lazy at best and wholly disrespectful at worst.
The same reason a lot of overprotective dads dislike it when their daughter gets a boyfriend. They feel territorial and possessive over their child so when that child gets a partner, they consider that partner a "threat" that's going to "take their baby away from them" and if the mom's been coddling him and spoiling him for 30+ years, it's safe to assume that she doesn't have a healthy and mature relationship with her son. She's continuously been infantilizing him.
She had codependency issues. She claims to want the best for Colt but she'll ruin any relationship because she doesn't want the dude to grow up. She needs to cut the umbilical cord already 😂💀
@@spectre9340 There’s no such thing as being overprotective either you’re protective or you’re not. You protect your children but once they find someone now you let them go and your child and their spouse protects each other. Simple son
shes jealous , shes everything my mother tells me to not be like when i become a mother. your not supposed to be in 'league' with your sons girlfriend and try to complete with her. im not saying shes a bad person but she thinks of her son as a 5 year old , driving him to work is like driving him to school to her. hes a grown man in his 30's and his mom needs to realize it. larissa is a beautiful young woman and his mother just cant accept that her son is a grown man honestly.
At this point this is a dating channel and sixteenleo is the dating coach telling what not to do at a date "Like ok i won't show my date my furry collection, i get it, shes not ready to know about that......yet"
debbie is the classic "my husbands dead and was never really good to me so i continue to be a house slave to my son who i hae a weird incest obsession with because i could never find a man that actually loved me and i can make my son love me" shes someone you learn about in psyche classes
What kind of stamina would Colty have though? I think it was a line she had to say in the same way Big Ed claimed him and Liz went at it several times in their first night together. Lol
To be fair, wedding dresses, wedding EVERYTHING, are vastly overpriced. Can't exactly blame you for going for a major discount. Especially since you're only going to be wearing it for one day.
No one talks about Larissa’s kids, what happened to them. I could’ve sworn in one episode she said she was going to America for a better life for her kids, then they weren’t mentioned again.
The girl is being raised by Larrissa's parents and the boy she gave up custody to the father's sister. She has spoken on it very rarely after being attacked about it. Truthfully her children will never come to the US. She is more concerned with plastic surgery and making money. She says that her children are private and she doesn't like to speak about them. I think that she feels a tiny bit guilty for not wanting them fulltime. As of mid pandemic she was still saying that she helps "when she can" and that her father was still paying for her daughter's schooling and that he told her to just focus on her immigration issues but I know that Larissa had several cosmetic procedures and had started her Only Fans by that time so I don't really think that her kids are a priority for her.
I agree, she’s spent a lot on surgery, could’ve gone to her kids. I can’t imagine being away from my 9 year old boy, even if someone bought me everything I wanted, I couldn’t live without my son
Colt is creepy but Big Ed is a creep, Big Ed's cradle robbing to me seems more icky than Colt's Oedipal Complex. No one really wins and we all feel a little gross
Not gonna lie, Larissa is a queen. She doesn't seem like a gold-digger, she seems like a woman that knows what she wants and isn't going to act like she is less than.
It came across as racist to me. But it's hella funny to think about him complaining about Colt getting a hot Brazilian wife in front of his American wife who he has had 3 kids with 😂 seems like the guy to do that.
The thing that ruins his Relationships are his Mother and Mama's boy attitude Every where Colt goes His mother is around him like can't he tells his mother that he can live his won life 🤦
There's just one thing i disagree on: if she actually attacked him he was right to call the police. Domestic violence is not ok, no matter what gender the perpetrator is. Just because she's a woman an he's a man doesn't mean it's ok for her to attack him, that's a hell of a red flag...
This 🙌🏽 broke my neck when Leo was on the other side. I was like “hmm 🧐 didn’t you go on defending Terry Crews when Lily Singh was saying the wrong thing?”
tbf, we don't know details. at least in Washington state, if the cops get called to a domestic situation, they have to arrest someone, even if no one got hit. she could've thrown a book accross the room (not at him, not hitting him) and got arrested, we really don't know, and colt didn't say she hit him. if he had said that, I'd agree with you
They kept attacking her and he couldn’t even compliment her but 5 seconds later he compliments his cousin’s wife and his cousin. He’s not a man he’s a boy and women deserve better
I think colt is worse than big Ed. Main reason being, colt is the innocent and calm gaslighter and Ed is the aggressive one. It just fucks with your brain more.
@@lilelo208 6 potential rapist neckbeards out of 10. That man is a ticking time bomb. He doesn't know basic respect. One day he's gonna find someone in a vulnerable position and take advantage because he feels like he deserves it. Tash man.
I'm from Brazil and I can tell 100% that the music they put never ever played here anywhere nor will it be played in the near future, we are not hispanic.
The song they played when they showed Larissa lamo it wasn't even brazilian music, they just put on some weird somewhat hispanic song, BRAZIL ISN'T EVEN HISPANIC
Thank you for bringing this up because IT DRIVES ME INSANE when people act like Hispanic and Latino/a mean the same thing. Sometimes they even say SPANISH instead. Spanish people are from Spain specifically!!! but people just use it in place of Hispanic and/or Latino/a 🤦♀️I don't blame the average American for not knowing but the Editor should have done SOME research
@@dinkyrussell75 the average American and the average human being should have this basic knowledge. All they teach gringos in school is apparently that the entire world wants to take over their country. Poor things!
IT'S SO WRONG WHEN *ANY* MOVIE/SERIES/ETC THAT HAS JUST A LITTLE BIT OF BRAZIL "REPRESENTATION"THEY PUT A HISPANIC HIP HOP SONG,I mean what is more concerning is that *NO ONE* stoped and thought "lemme se what language they speak just to make sure yk?" i mean just search on Google, although I love the culture and the music but when a whole different culture, language, etc is mistaked for another *different* culture, is a little concerning and it says a lot about the people who lives there their level of actually knowing what's outside the world without the stereotypes
bruh, i hate colt so much at first I was like they're both a bit weird, but then Larissa was actually making sense and they were being so rude to her for no reason... like colt is such a manipulator T_T
I don't think it's weird for Colt to live with his mother. It's weird as hell that he shares a bank account with his mom and treats her like his S T A F F and that she enables that behavior!!!
Truth! I still live at home, but at least I feed myself, do the dishes, do my own laundry, drive my own car, take out the trash and recycling, take care of the animals, have my own bank account, etc. Living at home past 18 doesn't make one a dysfunctional person. His relationship with his mom seems almost co-dependent, and he has seemingly no household skills. Any relationship he gets into is going to be unbalanced in more than one way, and it's just not fair to the person he's dating. To have to fight for his attention against his own mother, in addition to having to do everything around the house for him because that's what he's used to? What exactly is he contributing?? A relationship is supposed to be a partnership.
Living at home at 33 is a little sad though. At a certain point you have to leave, and if you are financially capable, you should probably move out as soon as possible.
@@leonbrumett6155 Well it really depends. There's some people who can't move out due to illnesses or disabilities they have, little to no money, maybe the parents require care and they can't afford outside help. Basically anything that doesn't apply to Colt.
It's so refreshing to see a TH-camr actually share so much about his life and the emotions he's going though the way you do. You don't make videos about it, but simply address things throughout your videos. This makes it all the more genuine and appreciated. I can honestly say that this is one of the few channels that I watch for your personality over the actual content.
I think it’s fine to live with your parents, but you need seperation. Which their house doesn’t have. You need a mother-in-law suite or something, where it’s like a separated area for one half the family, and a area for the other. Like it’s fine to share some common areas but you definitely need your own area so you feel like it’s your house. Colt isn’t willing to allow her to have her own home, her own space.
In sure it was a joke and I HATE colt he triggers a lot of stuff for me. However I wanna say this cuz I really like Leo and idk If he's aware but the whole 'snitching on his wife' bit rubbed me the wrong way... I don't like colt but if she was beating the shit out of him he has full right to call the police. Abuse happens to men all the time and it goes unnoticed cuz 'be a man' shit happens. I've met men who's girlfriend would threaten him and he would always have marks all over him but he couldnt do anything and anytime I told anyone they would say 'oh it's your fault' or 'just be a man and get over it the worst one was 'men can't be abused'. Im positive that was just a joke but it still bothered me a bit, sorry if this is whiny or snowflakey for me to say but I just wanted to say it. If your a man being abused or harmed you have full right to call the cops or seek help im so sorry.
For sure, those jokes rubbed me the wrong way as well. Abuse is not a joke, and if it was bad enough for the state to be pressing charges, I don’t think this was colt exaggerating the situation. Whether it’s a man or a woman no one should be abused and no one should be shamed for seeking help because of abuse.
No, man. Thank you for calling it out. Leo would have never made that joke the other way around. In fact he would have put it in big letters under the guys side if he was doing the same chart and said nothing else mattered the one that battered the other was worse. It's actually really gross.
Do we know if Larissa actually assaulted Colt? Because if she did then that's a really serious problem, but also considering how manipulative Colt is I wouldn't be *too* surprised if he also exaggerated the situation. So if anyone knows what actually happened lemme know
@@jojo-ir9rj went through a few articles I found on google 4 days ago. Just Google it and you'll find what you seek. Shit don't matter since they've both clearly moved on and are dealing with different shit. P.s. colt is still shit even if larissa is as bad as him. 🤷🏻♀️
Yes, I find it weird that Leo dismisses the abuse. I don't think it's a red flag that he called the police, I think it's a red flag that she assaulted him.
This is a 3 Part Series, So i hope you're ready for the twists and turns. I also wish he called himself the COLT leader. that would have been great.
Omg i got off for 3 minutes and came back and everybody beat me to your video love ya so glad u did a video
What's funny is I was just about to try and find a video of yours I haven't watched yet and you deliver me one on a silver platter, perfect.
Huge love from Colorado, man. I absolutely love the content and your music. Looking forward to this series.
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Petition for sixteenleo to host 90 day fiance.
Both him and yourwetsock are a great fit
@@marialovesmusicalot YES
@@marialovesmusicalot yourwetsock is pretty irritating. I hate to crap on a content creator, but he almost seems to do it intentionally.
@samcotton I agree
with Nigella/Shawna
Larissa is a icon here in Brazil because of "where is my flowers?" 😂😂😂
Lmfeo
Kween demais
She hands down deserved flowers 🤣
I'm gonna use that
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Emotional incest is a real thing and it’s sad to see the unhealthy relationship between colt and his mom. Neither one can let the other one go because of the emotional boundaries that have been violated and it’s created a pattern for them that they feel like they can’t break out of.
Yup gahhh 🤢
Thank you so much for mentioning this. I wish more people took emotional incest more seriously
This is exactly what it is omg
THATS WHAT MADE ME SO UNCOMFORTABLE WITH THEM
I've noticed with alot of single mothers with sons they tend to have that similar emotionally incestuous nature which just creeps me the fuck out
I'm sorry, emotional incest? Why the hell does this make so much fucking sense
Larissa seems like she’s just uncomfortable and everyone is attacking her for it. I actually feel so bad for her, this whole family is a nightmare.
...and I'm willing to bet they think they're WAY above her! Smh.
yeah lowkey hate all of the family. couldn't imagine my fiance's family treating me like that...
they seem so self centered and dry af its depressing
I’ve noticed that happens a lot on this show. The men often exaggerate how much money they have bc they think this
“foreign girl” will think any American in any American style home is “rich” compared to where they came from
Yeah I couldn't imagine coming to another country and having everybody attack me and nobody's on my side that's so horrible what is wrong with people I don't understand the Outlook people have on situations and how she put up with a lot from that weirdo dude he should have been happy to have a girl like her I don't know regardless of the facts he should have at least stuck up for and not let anybody attacked her so she felt like she at least had somebody that's that's sad man people are just sick
"If SHE is disabled, why is SHE making your bed and driving YOU to work, and cooking YOU your breakfast and doing YOUR laundry?"
Damn, I could feel the heat from the burn coming out of my screen
One of them needs the other for basic adult functions and it's not the elderly woman.
Bruh my phone just overheated
"No flowers sweetheart" He says like he's talking to a child who wants a lollipop. Shows right out of the gate that her feelings and wants aren't going to be respected.
At this point, TLC should just partner with Leo
Lmao. I hope Leo blows up with this tlc horrors. Such great content 👏
And sauceholic🥰🥰
Agreed. Leo's hilarious 😂
Yeah 😁👍
Pillowtalk with leo....😁😁
The way Colt's cousin was talking to Larissa is disgusting and disturbing...
Makes me wonder what he does to his wife when cameras aren't rolling
I was just waiting for him to shout 'MERICA
@@crystalflores82 and then he did lmao
I was just thinking, 'are you using my cousin to get the high life's & 'just use her for the 90 days and send her back home' as some of the most irritable nonsense I've heard in a while from the families in the show.
Yes, compared to other countries it's pretty rich but even if you get a green card you're dealing with shot wages and even higher standards of living.
Unless you're taking advantage of the money here and setting up something out of country or something via nest egg, you're just starting from square one here.
Sure a chance is a chance but this "high life" his cousin is talking about is blue collar work unless she gets some kind of degree and sending her earnings back home.
A coworker of mine said that a month of work Fulltime is roughly $200 DOLLARS! People make that in a week to a few days.
Easily you could live in poverty here with that wage but sent overseas, you could live amazingly.
She'll be on ground zero like the rest of us.
Racist
Colt's whole family seems set on 'punishing' Larissa for something; I can't help but pick up on subtle racism/colonizer vibes.
It’s 100% racism
No, it's xenophobia
@@ocurimi Xenophobia and racism go hand-in-hand
@@ocurimi Nah it's Racism I can't help, but feel if Larissa was Canadian or British they wouldn't have a problem.
Colonizer????
Colt: “I’m not gonna share a bank account with my fiancé. I trust my mother.”
You don’t trust the woman YOU asked to marry you after 5 days?! 😂😭😂😭
Tbf I'm not sharing a bank account with anyone idc who it is lol but I get what you're saying.
Make it make sense?
I dated a guy like this, with his mother. He said to me one time, what’s mine is hers and what’s hers is mine. Like meaning his mother and there were other weird things!!!
@@Rash_cookie lmfao awe heck naw. 😂
@@Emily-lh6em right I was so young and naive!!
Is it just me or is Larissa framed as a gold-digger, but doesn't really seem like one? An actual gold-digger wouldn't have gotten a wedding dress at Good-Will lol...
The racism is 👀
Lmao I always thought that was amusing as hell. Like this man's car doesn't even have AC. I mean living with colt & mom is far from the high life. She can't spend money without his first wife (mom) approving it and her wedding dress was second hand. What gold is she digging 🙄
I think its because she has a high sense of herself which isn't a bad thing at all. She isn't someone who's going to take the hurtfulness from the family and she knows what's she worth and when she's being attacked
The show always makes one person look good and one looks bad. Here they targeted larissa but they should have targeted colt.
It's fear mongering. Latina women are generally hard working and pretty modest and practical when it comes to money.
For Colt and his mom, I’m gonna refer you to something called the Jocasta complex: in psychoanalytic theory, an abnormally close or incestuous attachment of a mother to her son. It is named for Jocasta, the mother and wife of Oedipus in Greek mythology.
I PROMISE you his mom wether it’s conscious or not sees him as a surrogate husband and feels EXTREMELY threatened about being replaced by Larissa
this descibes every relationship on I Love a Mama’s Boy💀
Oedipus complex, too.
She is LITERALLY the mother from Bye Bye Birdie
Tbh I can understand why she’d be fixated on the flowers. It’s a really sweet, simple gesture and seeing someone waiting for you with flowers can make you feel special.
Also, she’s iconic. No filter. Hell yeah.
Same, she moved to a whole new country only for a man and he can’t even dish out $5 for some flowers to greet her after a long and probably stressful flight
So if you look good it’s ok to be disrespectful? And she could’ve mentioned the flowers once and dropped it or brought it up in a few days. But you are seeing your future husband after how many months ( or even weeks) and you show more concern over something that will not make a bit of difference in a week. She wants a crown but doesn’t have the class to carry it.
"You're just using Colt to come to America to live the high life"
-Bro, what high life? No, seriously. She lives in a musty one bedroom apartment with her skinny fat fiance and his mother (whom he occasionally makes out with) and is now being insulted at a backyard barbecue. She probably had it better in Brazil.
He probably think brazil is just a jungle
Yes, she had it better in Brazil, but now she has it much better without Colt. Larissa became one of the highest paid 90df cast members. And she is so beautiful!
@@asevanilla3393 lmao ikr. Brazil is such a beautiful country man. He acting like she was just chilling in a tree one day, when she found a phone and learnt about the luxuries of america causing her to embark on a journey to viciously trap an innocent, overweight american man with her wild femininity. America is definitely not worth Colt's sex drive.
@@vdg5346 Yeah, she's sooo pretty! Good for her ♡
@@hihi-og6nm I think this is what most Americans think of girls and women from 3rd world countries😂😂 it's very stupid.
Let's be real, Larissa was never a gold digger, and, hear me out, neither was Anfisa. These men promised them a lifestyle they couldn't deliver because they would never have moved to be with them otherwise since these men have the most disgusting personalities. I'm always going to be on their side, idc how TLC edited them I always knew they were real Gs
Yes!!!!!!
@Sahir Damani Jorge wanted an Instagram model and she wanted a rich man. He tricked her into being with him by pretending to have a lot more money than he did... So he got what he wanted and she didn't. She isn't a gold digger, she straight up got scammed lmao
@@poppyseed5270 thats still being a gold digger? if gold diggers don't want rich men, then what do they want??? shes still a gold digger even if she got scammed lol. you don't need to be defensive about it, anfisa was always honest about it.
@@doclinny if you really want to get into it, I think there's a difference between being a gold digger and a sugar baby. The latter implies consent and a mutual exchange... He wanted a trophy wife and she wanted a good life. But he lied, so she didn't know what she was actually signing up for. That's what she was always open about, the exchange between the two of them.
@@poppyseed5270 Exactly! I hate when people justify or gloss over the fact that some beta incel guy thinks he is entitled to only beautiful women/models but then gets upset if the woman wants something in return; a clear double-standard.
She's a simple woman, all she wants is flowers and a visa
And as much plastic surgery as a man will pay for
Hell, I'm female and I'll give her those lol
That part where she first arrived made me so sad tbh. She just wanted someone to care about her and give her some nice flowers and be excited
@@drewgrows7765 You dont know if she wants plastic surgery
Like omg can’t nobody understand her
When a man says that relationships with women from his own country never work out, that’s a HUGE red flag. Because what is actually implied is ‘no self-respecting woman from my own country will tolerate my shit, so I have to resort to desperate women trying to escape poverty’
It also just sounds really fetishy
Right like 'My relationships don't seem to work when the other person has the same level of agency as me." 🤔🤔🤔
All I think is “THE ENTIRE COUNTRY???”
Yeah, but has some exceptions as well.
I'm from Brazil, specifically Rio de Janeiro, and I can count on one hand how many of my relationships truly worked, since I'm from a culture that was almost completely erased around here almost a decade ago (it's a very long story, but it involved funkers becoming obsessed with everyone else being funkers too, starting in 2008, and spree attacking metalheads/rockers for not being like them), people from here always see me as "the other", never see me beyond the "he's one of them" and it ended badly because most of the times it's expected from me a whole stuff that's not for me, if I can make myself clear, so... Yeah, it can happen, depending on the culture and circumstances from it.
@@RodrickMarsMoon i didnt know wtf you were talking about till you mentioned metalheads/rockers, as there arent any "funker" subcultures in america. Are these people that listen to funk music or something?? 😂 cause as someone from the US, that idea sounds so outlandish and hilarious lmfao
dude larissa is so likeable, these people are just unbearable. she’s funny asf and she knows what she wants. she’s not asking for much at any point and the fact this guy who literally doesn’t even have his own bank account wouldn’t defend his wife when she’s constantly being attacked.
why can all his cousin do is yell and take out his anger on other people for no reason…. besides misogyny
I never realized how racist and xenophobic John(?) Was being towards her. Saying how she'll never have the American life and how colt does everything for her and saying to just go back to Brazil. She had it WAY better in Brazil dude😭 I guarantee you John thinks Brazil is just a big forest and no technology or anything, girl she was better off in Brazil 💅🏽
mhm
@@Theohybrid bruh probably wants her to know every single thing about America too
“Oh you wanna be a citizen so bad name every president”
Man I was born here and I can’t do that 😭 don’t ask me shit about US history Or to remember the national anthem
That’s why John works at friendly’s & Larissa got 700k+ followers on Instagram that could give her sponsors as easy job & a brand new pair of boobies. Oh and she divorced colts wack ass. 😂😂😂😂 Larissa = the queen of manifestation
The way Colt smiles when saying "I'm going to divorce you" is so infuriating.
The fact that used "divorce" against her as if his deadbeat ugly ass was worth staying with. Like, yes please. Please divorce me. I rather be poor (again) than put up with you and your family.
Yeah, dude's extremely childish.
Can't even divorce like a mature adult.
He definitely thought he had the upper hand and that once he said it she’d beg for him forgiveness. And so childish! I’m gonna divorce you because you’re being mean to me and my mommy :(
@Dopesy Gal If it was staged, he's really going for the self absorbed creepy mommy's boy appearance. Imagine choosing that over being a normal person that has little to no creep factor to them. His is off the chart.
he's the kinda guy who thinks that being able to maintain his composure while he argues means that he's always right
Colt has the most monotone voice ever. But he’s always giving low key attitude or smiling in moments like when his cousin was berating Larissa.
He's always with that pathetic "I'm tired" excuse when he doesn't want to face any problem and I'm gonna tell you not letting a latin woman say what she has on her mind is like playing football with a time bomb
Passive aggressive, resting bitch face is what he has!
Big Ed’s successor has shown himself, a new trilogy is born 🙏
bruh he was here before big ed
@@steppin-razor yea he is the cornerstone, the archetype if you will, for bad relationships on 90 day fiance
colt walked so big ed could roll
@@canvasbykaya PERFECTLY SAID XDDDD
Colt is predecessor of Big-Ed, way less worse and way more reasonable lmao. But still as much of a shitbag as can be on reality TV.
Everyone’s being awful to Larissa as though she didn’t move her whole life to a new place where not only are the language and culture different but she doesn’t have friends, family, a job, or anything besides her suitcases. Of course she’s gonna be uncomfortable to these people who’ve probably never left their state let alone the country.
Especially when she didn't get her flowers.
They're the type to go to another country and wonder why they don't speak American English.
"who is against the queen will die!" fcking iconic
she’s here for colt to enjoy his 90 days and then send her back to Brazil ?? so , her only purpose is to serve as a 3 month f*ck toy for colt and he sends her back after trying her out ?? that was absolutely disgusting of the cousin to say . what “high” life was she living with colty ?? he wasn’t rich at all . she probably had WAY more comforts in Brazil and gave up a lot to come here .
Exactly. I don't know what moral high ground he had to stand on after saying those things.
Which is worse, Green Card for economic migrancy or human sex toy for 90 days only to be returned home?
Brazil is a really dangerous place to live. First hand accounts
@@trustme3321 ??are you brazillian? wtf are you on about
@@trustme3321 yes, living in brazil has several dangers, as well as living in any other country, but depending on the city brazil is a very peaceful place (english is not my first language, so sorry for any mistakes)
agree....colt an fam are your average, unworldly, simple, brash and loud working class culture folks. they have no idea how the rest of the world lives.
Clicked so fast. I was wondering if you’d ever talk about him lol
For real!
I know I was like how does Leo not know about Colty lol!!!
Colt's cousin is acting like girls can get something from his cousin. It's not like he is well off in life. Colt can't even stand on his own without his momma's help. Literally just a baby in an adult's body. SMH
I think that jerk puts Larissa down because she’s hot and he’s attracted to her and his wife probably feels insecure around her so he goes out of his way to make Larissa feel like shit to like prove something to his wife (whose not bad looking either but just not as “wow” as Larissa). Just a thought.
@@LissyVee that actually makes sense
Why is it that often when people say: "I'm more of a rational person" they seem to actually mean: "I don't understand other people's feelings and I shouldn't have to"?
Man, that is SO spot-on!
Apparently rational is equivalent to emotionally unavailable
Yup. You'd think a rational person would be able to understand that other people will react badly to being insulted and belittled
Spittin facts
@@rando42069 Hey! Is your name by any chance a Monty Python reference?
The cousin is a racist. I have seen those clips so many times and he sounds like a racist more and more each time. Just assuming she is there for a green card and treating her the way he did. That whole part of the series is gross. Larissa is interesting but Colt does a massive disservice to every woman he is with. He acts like marrying a woman is the same as adopting a puppy.
I thought at first she was obviously trying to get a visa and someone to take care of her, but seeing how hard she is trying to make it work when there are plenty of men who would love to take care of her does make me think she actually wants to give Colt a chance, even though he has literally nothing to offer. Imagine your cousin going on some racist rant and you just sit there... No wonder she got sick of him
@@anneidevdl this is what threw me off with her. She seems shallow and in it for a green card AT FIRST, but then as you continue watching, she seems to genuinely want to make it work... for some reason.
@@digitalgloop12 i personally believe she always loved him. I mean she left her country and kids for him. It seems like the usual case of man promises the world and delivers nothing. That is why she looks like a gold digger at first. He hopes people think that to make his lying ass look better.
He is a basic self-absorbed American who thinks every country is below them.
@@CoCo-ov9eb i can’t agree more. All the people on that show male or female are like that. I personally know someone who has gotten multiple mail order wives. He finally settled with one that will most likely stay for the rest of his life but the whole thing is yucky. Each time he brought a new woman home his kids had to call her mom immediately to help her feel ‘included’. It is also a giant culture shock for the whole family. Don’t get me wrong exposing yourself to different cultures is great when you plan on doing it but when you are a kid and you have no choice it can be jarring. Not fair for anyone.
hey man, love your videos
yh his videos r amazing
as someone who is from vegas, i dont blame larissa for wanting to leave and move to another planet within 3 hours
Is it that bad?
@@MegaLinilla yes 😫 the school district here is ranked the worst in the entire country, healthcare is awful so people often have to travel out of state to get treatment, crime is super high but its rarely reported on because they dont want to scare away tourists. also loads of traffic bc people are coming from california :/
Yeah, I visited once, and other than like the entertainment area, it's really... not somewhere I'd want to live haha. I wouldn't want to live in the entertainment area either though, tbh.
I live here too. Can’t wait to leave. Have to finish college first
I hate to admit this but I have an ex that's a lot like Colt. He used to flirt and compliment other women in front of me and ignore me just to make me upset. Then he could call me "crazy" and "insecure" and feel superior. FML.
Textbook gas lighters Mans was trash I’m glad you’re out of that situation
Deep down they're more insecure
MY EX
Did we date the same guy? XD but seriously. My ex was EXACTLY like that too.
@@CourierSixMojaveExpress haha maybe, damn Steve lol. I know it's because deep down theyre insecure and traumatized but still no exscuse to be mean to your partner.
When he said "I'm gonna divorce you" I wish Larissa answered "Thank you", no green card is worth to have to endure such a mess of a "man" and his awful family, the only good thing about him is his money, damn that's sad lol.
“I’m gonna divorce you”
Yep we’re done, breaking point for me is someone trying to manipulate or threaten my heart. I wash my hands of you.
That was so gross. He acted like an entitled child when he said that. It was so similar to saying ''well then you can't come to my birthday party''. It's like he's 5..
@@anneidevdl i think its because his mom still treats him like a child and so he still has the fckn mindest as a child💀 its so bad,, debby really needs to move away so he can get a back bone or whatever it is.
@@loverboy6149 Yeah lol, honestly I feel like she has raised him to be like this. A little entitled brat
I just watched the full colt story, and there's loads of clips that you probably haven't seen, and honestly larissa was done so wrong, there was this clip of her saying she was afraid of colt and Debbie because they could just call the police and it's their word against hers and she had been arrested already so she didn't have any credibility. Debbie is the worst tho!!
That is so sad. What a horrible situation to be in, poor girl 😥
“ he said I love her and I wanna be with her and I can’t till if he’s talking about her or his mother” yep I have lost it😂
Colt is a nightmare and Larissa was way too smart and clever for him to deal with hahaha. Very happy with this series.
That girl wanted some flowers, mad respect to her for following her passions.
They way Colt talked to his wife at the end after everything she's been through ie moving, mama drama, racist cousin, and calling the police on her, shows how little he cares. She didn't deserve ANY of that. They took advantage of the situation she was in. This was so wrong; this family should be ashamed of themselves. We need pray for this woman. God bless her she's strong.
I finally got to see my Oma last week.. She's a tough gal. Survived WW2 and covid. Lost a leg a couple years back. Shes in her mid 80s but still sharp. I truly thought I'd never be able to see her outside of her nursing home again. That's my true heart there. I cried like a baby when I saw her..Sending all love out to those missing their grandparents. ❤
Awwww. Lucky you! ^^
sending love to ur family, especially to your amazing grandmother ❤️
Aww sending love to you !
I got to see my Oma too. Haven't seen her since 2 years ago. It's crazy how much you miss people when you don't regularly see them anymore.
Well... Debbie didn't raise someone's husband, she raised her little boy and it shows.
Larissa: speaks portuguese. 90 day fiancee: proceeds to play music in spanish
I dislike Colt more then Big Ed…. Mainly cus how he treated Jess (but now she hella UPGRADED so she chillin lol) but idk why Colt rubs me the wrong way soooooo much. Like his face makes me feel actual anger lol (I’m fine I promise lol)
Same, except for when he was giving Ed hell on the reunion thing, and of course the allegations against Ed make him worse to me
@@elizabeththornton8982 oooh tbh I didn’t even watch this season so idk what was alleged but you just reminded me that he did say some weird shi bout his daughter so basically I dislike them the same lol. Maybe Ed a little more when I find out what’s up
I would say the same but those SA allegations and that emotional abuse phone call big Ed can literally rot in hell. Colts a freak, but at least he’s not abusing women.
@@nadirimyers6643 a female coworker alleged he date raped her
@@sarahelizabeth8585 yeah I forgot about the stuff on the phone too
I've seen someone on instagram who said they were a relationship therapist of some kind say that when their relationship needs (not talking about.. you know.. but more like emotional, personal connection wise) are better met with their child than with their significant other, and the child gets a partner, that's when you get these toxic MIL situations. I just thought that was interesting.. I'll just leave that here :p
This will randomly pop into my head now and likely at the most inopportune times, but thanks for the info nonetheless.
I think its somewhat common that people have these weird romantic dynamics with their children because they sculpt their children into who they want them to be, but only because its literally taboo they dont act on it. Its a bit fucked up to say but I've personally seen it in real life, people with moms that sleep in the same bed with them, always hang out with them, take interest in everything their son likes even if its weird, etc. Shits creepy man.
@@christop3 ew! That's super predatory and I'm glad they don't act on it then :/ yuck..
@@christop3 that took a dark turn super quick! 🤢
@@Allegra7545 yeah its a little bit disgusting to see people grow so grossly attached to their children to the point that they wait on them hand and foot, sleep in their rooms, share hobbies and interests with them, etc. I understand loving your child and wanting to be a part of their life, but there is a line that is crossed when you start "becoming their life" and that carries the possibility of romantic feelings and infatuation.
"His body is the only thing I use"
"What, as a shield?"
Dead
bro i didn't know Larissa was like making breakfast and trying to be sweet. She doesn't seem so bad... I think she was probably just pushed into crazy. Though if she put her hands on him that's not okay at all. Was that her or the red head?
Definitely. Colt and his entire family was gas lighting her.
Those assault cases were iffy. It started to sound like colt was baiting her so she would be deported. It was nonsense.
I personally don't even think she even touched Colt, with Debbie there as a "witness" its easy for them to have the cops come to remove Larissa who is the "immigrant" and the one who is the "aggressor" if Colt did provoke her before the cops were called and they arrived when she was shouting at him. and she did lock herself in the bedroom to try and get away from him before so.. I honestly don't believe shit from Colt & Debbie when it's "He say She say vs She say"
To answer your last question, last I remember and from what I know seeing other ppl covering their relationship, the red head was the one who threw a shoe at Colt cuz he lied about not being friends with his fwb anymore. And she found out they're still friends, because Colt's mum deliberately brought it up in front of her. So yea, his mum's just trying to keep him to herself
Colt and Debbie were soooo crazy. A lot of channels and media portrayed larissa as the typical gold digger and the villain, but as someone who watched every episode of this I actually liked larissa and hated tf outta of colt
The music wasn't even Brazilian/Portuguese. It was Spanish.
ik T_T she started talking portuguese and I had to a double take bc I tho she spoke Spanish lmao
I’m pretty sure TLC does the same thing with playing what is actually Chinese music when showing South Korea. Lol
TLC: What do you mean not all South American countries speak Spanish?
And also Leo made a great point about how American shows and movies use the most generic ass stereotypical music in the background when a person of a different ethnicity is shown. It comes off as lazy at best and wholly disrespectful at worst.
@@tarotsushima3332 Well as far as I know the only country that doesn't speak Spanish in South America is Brazil, but come on they should know that.
It was Cuban/hispanic
Honestly I've been bingeing 16Leo for the past three days I'm obsessed with his humour
why is his mother salty about her son finding a girl 😭
The same reason a lot of overprotective dads dislike it when their daughter gets a boyfriend. They feel territorial and possessive over their child so when that child gets a partner, they consider that partner a "threat" that's going to "take their baby away from them"
and if the mom's been coddling him and spoiling him for 30+ years, it's safe to assume that she doesn't have a healthy and mature relationship with her son. She's continuously been infantilizing him.
She had codependency issues. She claims to want the best for Colt but she'll ruin any relationship because she doesn't want the dude to grow up. She needs to cut the umbilical cord already 😂💀
@@spectre9340 There’s no such thing as being overprotective either you’re protective or you’re not. You protect your children but once they find someone now you let them go and your child and their spouse protects each other. Simple son
@@XXX-ir4iq Tell that to tiger moms then lol
shes jealous , shes everything my mother tells me to not be like when i become a mother. your not supposed to be in 'league' with your sons girlfriend and try to complete with her. im not saying shes a bad person but she thinks of her son as a 5 year old , driving him to work is like driving him to school to her. hes a grown man in his 30's and his mom needs to realize it. larissa is a beautiful young woman and his mother just cant accept that her son is a grown man honestly.
At this point this is a dating channel and sixteenleo is the dating coach telling what not to do at a date
"Like ok i won't show my date my furry collection, i get it, shes not ready to know about that......yet"
Leo is so grounded and real, he's the life coach!!
Petition for SixteenLeo to have his own dating advice show
Colt never seems to think that he may be part of the problem. And that’s on having a mom that enables you to behave any way you want
Our big daddy is backk feeding us content🥴
debbie is the classic "my husbands dead and was never really good to me so i continue to be a house slave to my son who i hae a weird incest obsession with because i could never find a man that actually loved me and i can make my son love me" shes someone you learn about in psyche classes
The look on Larissa's face when she mentioned his sex drive....you know she ain't been getting any sleep 🤣🤣
What kind of stamina would Colty have though? I think it was a line she had to say in the same way Big Ed claimed him and Liz went at it several times in their first night together. Lol
@Philosophy Lmao! I like that slap in the face for Big Egg. They're engaged now so Liz is more desperate than we ever thought.
She didn't look happy either she was probably faking it
I’ve never heard anyone compared to a mason jar. My whole household was floored after hearing that one 🤣
IKR it had me laughing so hard bc it came out of nowhere but it's so true
That was my favorite part!! It's so accurate too!! 🤣
“This mayonnaise jar” 😂
Colt boils my blood but your humor helped me through it
LoL! Leo is hilarious and on point.
Dang Larissa is crazy! im glad she stood up for herself. she honestly deserves better.
Leo: "Who buys their wedding dress at a GoodWill?"
Me: *nervous laugh*
Do what you gotta do! No shame in that! Especially to have a wonderful day to celebrate love with your person!!
To be fair, wedding dresses, wedding EVERYTHING, are vastly overpriced. Can't exactly blame you for going for a major discount. Especially since you're only going to be wearing it for one day.
@@TheSaiyanPrincess89 omg I love your username. And you're totally right!
Honestly when I get married I'm totally thrifting my dress. I have no shame in thrifting lol
People: Goodwill!!
Me: How good was the deal?
No one talks about Larissa’s kids, what happened to them. I could’ve sworn in one episode she said she was going to America for a better life for her kids, then they weren’t mentioned again.
She left them behind in Brazil. Probably with family. We never see them in the show.
The girl is being raised by Larrissa's parents and the boy she gave up custody to the father's sister.
She has spoken on it very rarely after being attacked about it.
Truthfully her children will never come to the US. She is more concerned with plastic surgery and making money.
She says that her children are private and she doesn't like to speak about them.
I think that she feels a tiny bit guilty for not wanting them fulltime. As of mid pandemic she was still saying that she helps "when she can" and that her father was still paying for her daughter's schooling and that he told her to just focus on her immigration issues but I know that Larissa had several cosmetic procedures and had started her Only Fans by that time so I don't really think that her kids are a priority for her.
I agree, she’s spent a lot on surgery, could’ve gone to her kids. I can’t imagine being away from my 9 year old boy, even if someone bought me everything I wanted, I couldn’t live without my son
@@TheMariemarie16 Where’d you get all this, holy shit!
@@TheMariemarie16 people like to ignore this, and pretend that Larissa isn’t doing anything wrong.
The US people always think that they live in the best place in the world 🙄
Larissa is an ICON and I'm glad she didn't stay with him
Colt is creepy but Big Ed is a creep, Big Ed's cradle robbing to me seems more icky than Colt's Oedipal Complex. No one really wins and we all feel a little gross
I just learned a new word😳😳
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Also yes, Ed is definitely worse
nah thats like saying dying is worth than not living lol they both equally trash
@@red2744 I don't know Colt's whole story yet but thus far I'd say a predator is far worse than a dead beat :/
Colt has been manipulated his whole life and Ed is a manipulator himself.
Big Ed was the one and only person ever on that show that made me cheer for Colt in any situation. Big Ed is substantially worse, I agree completely.
colt is like the epitome of a mommys boy. at this point you might just make colt relive his first 1-4 years in this world
That's why he's always hooking up with women because his mom was his favorite and he understands emotions heavily, so he uses it to Mac on females
Legend is Colt is on his third marriage and still shares a bank account with mommie
No one:
Not one soul:
Larissa:"cookie dookie"
Nothing much is going on with this big baby. How are you, Supreme Chancellor Baby?
i am well, thank you for asking, nobody asks the chancellor usually, unless....its by...chance...ill leave dw
Ah, greetings big baby, it is I, the seismic baby. I too am well, I do so hope that you, big baby, are feeling well.
I can't wait for Part 2. I was dying at this entire video
“This combination is worse than crocs and a g-string” had me dying
Not gonna lie, Larissa is a queen. She doesn't seem like a gold-digger, she seems like a woman that knows what she wants and isn't going to act like she is less than.
My day is so much better because Sixteenleo graced my eyes with a video 😁
John just sounds jealous as hell that he can't have the same situation Colt has.
Obviously lol I thought the same
I'm still laughing at sixteenleo's, "... and hey btw John's wife, I think your baby.... is dead." bout choked on my water dude, how dare you
It came across as racist to me. But it's hella funny to think about him complaining about Colt getting a hot Brazilian wife in front of his American wife who he has had 3 kids with 😂 seems like the guy to do that.
At 22:24 I thought you were cracking one off 😁😜🤪.
Brilliant video as always bro
The thing that ruins his Relationships are his Mother and Mama's boy attitude Every where Colt goes His mother is around him like can't he tells his mother that he can live his won life 🤦
Also his habitual cheating
@@anged5142 Definitely that too!
I’m glad you mentioned the music thing because they ALWAYS play some random music in Spanish for Brazilians when Brazilians don’t even speak Spanish..
haha laughed so hard at the commentary 😂thanks for the laughs needed it 😂😂
There's just one thing i disagree on: if she actually attacked him he was right to call the police. Domestic violence is not ok, no matter what gender the perpetrator is. Just because she's a woman an he's a man doesn't mean it's ok for her to attack him, that's a hell of a red flag...
unus annus
Agree with this. I was surprised Leo took that stance.
@@myfavstuff3147 memento mori
This 🙌🏽 broke my neck when Leo was on the other side. I was like “hmm 🧐 didn’t you go on defending Terry Crews when Lily Singh was saying the wrong thing?”
tbf, we don't know details. at least in Washington state, if the cops get called to a domestic situation, they have to arrest someone, even if no one got hit. she could've thrown a book accross the room (not at him, not hitting him) and got arrested, we really don't know, and colt didn't say she hit him. if he had said that, I'd agree with you
God I do not care about 90 Day Fiance but watching you react to it is something I will never tire of
"Who is against the Queen will die" is honestly an iconic line.
Having only ever seen Colt in that tell-all with Big Ed, seeing him in the first few minutes of this video is like whiplash.
“I work all day and when I get home my mom cooks and cleans and does my laundry for me so I can’t be bothered to tell u you look good” colt logic
imagine Larissa waking up in a cold sweat and saying "Colt, darling, where is my flowers???"
Larissa was a piece of work to be sure, but it seemed like she was really trying to make it work. Mans was a mess.
Larissa wasn't perfect but it seemed that Colt was trying to bring out the worst in her.
@@decoraqueena6413 not to mention his mother and that one cousin weren't making anything easier for her.
They kept attacking her and he couldn’t even compliment her but 5 seconds later he compliments his cousin’s wife and his cousin. He’s not a man he’s a boy and women deserve better
@@XXX-ir4iq Exactly. He is a pathetic little bish boy.
She just wanted him to care enough about her to take proper care. She didn’t ask for anything over the top
I think colt is worse than big Ed. Main reason being, colt is the innocent and calm gaslighter and Ed is the aggressive one. It just fucks with your brain more.
I rather not rank whose worst when they all are. May give them an excuse to not get better. Meh, I'm overthrowing though.
@@lilelo208 but I rather do
@@cynderazuleehirgon3684 Fair enough, what would you rank Skippy?
@@lilelo208 Skippy is what you get when you mix the worst of both and add in a good pound of desperation and complete lack of social skills
@@lilelo208 6 potential rapist neckbeards out of 10. That man is a ticking time bomb. He doesn't know basic respect. One day he's gonna find someone in a vulnerable position and take advantage because he feels like he deserves it.
Tash man.
I'm from Brazil and I can tell 100% that the music they put never ever played here anywhere nor will it be played in the near future, we are not hispanic.
Finalmente uma que fala inglês para falar minha angústia
Omg I was laughing SO MUCH, I needed that !!!!!!!!!!
The song they played when they showed Larissa lamo it wasn't even brazilian music, they just put on some weird somewhat hispanic song, BRAZIL ISN'T EVEN HISPANIC
Also bread and fruit is really typical brazilian breakfest, so his mom was just kinda rude
Thank you for bringing this up because IT DRIVES ME INSANE when people act like Hispanic and Latino/a mean the same thing. Sometimes they even say SPANISH instead. Spanish people are from Spain specifically!!! but people just use it in place of Hispanic and/or Latino/a 🤦♀️I don't blame the average American for not knowing but the Editor should have done SOME research
@@dinkyrussell75 the average American and the average human being should have this basic knowledge. All they teach gringos in school is apparently that the entire world wants to take over their country. Poor things!
IT'S SO WRONG WHEN *ANY* MOVIE/SERIES/ETC THAT HAS JUST A LITTLE BIT OF BRAZIL "REPRESENTATION"THEY PUT A HISPANIC HIP HOP SONG,I mean what is more concerning is that *NO ONE* stoped and thought "lemme se what language they speak just to make sure yk?" i mean just search on Google, although I love the culture and the music but when a whole different culture, language, etc is mistaked for another *different* culture, is a little concerning and it says a lot about the people who lives there their level of actually knowing what's outside the world without the stereotypes
@@usuarionaoencontrado975 And it’s literally so easy. Just play some Anitta.
bruh, i hate colt so much
at first I was like they're both a bit weird, but then Larissa was actually making sense and they were being so rude to her for no reason... like colt is such a manipulator T_T
The amount of times I cry laughing watching your videos… I’ve lost count. Thank you for being so freaking entertaining with all of your content 😭😭👏🏼
as a bisexual gamer, I can confirm that is how we sit... maybe Colty is a lil... mhm mhm?
I'm not bi but sometimes you just gotta Micheal Jackson thriller that bitch to get comfortable y'know
Im a bi girl but im pretty sure no bi guy wants colts b u s s y
I think he’s desperate and will take anything he can get
Some Girl it’s a running joke between bisexuals
@@TheAnneGwish They exist but Colty wouldn't want them even if he sashayed out of the closet.
I don't think it's weird for Colt to live with his mother. It's weird as hell that he shares a bank account with his mom and treats her like his S T A F F and that she enables that behavior!!!
Truth! I still live at home, but at least I feed myself, do the dishes, do my own laundry, drive my own car, take out the trash and recycling, take care of the animals, have my own bank account, etc. Living at home past 18 doesn't make one a dysfunctional person.
His relationship with his mom seems almost co-dependent, and he has seemingly no household skills. Any relationship he gets into is going to be unbalanced in more than one way, and it's just not fair to the person he's dating. To have to fight for his attention against his own mother, in addition to having to do everything around the house for him because that's what he's used to? What exactly is he contributing?? A relationship is supposed to be a partnership.
Living at home at 33 is a little sad though. At a certain point you have to leave, and if you are financially capable, you should probably move out as soon as possible.
@@leonbrumett6155 Well it really depends. There's some people who can't move out due to illnesses or disabilities they have, little to no money, maybe the parents require care and they can't afford outside help. Basically anything that doesn't apply to Colt.
I understand people who lives with parents but when your mom is literally your manager, maid, and your boss ... 🤡🤡🤡
hes 30 something and nothing is wrong with him, its weird & pathetic
Yes!!! We need a part two!!! Thanks Leo!!!
"Was she looking for a man that lives with his mom, doesn't have any charisma, and looks like a mason jar?" LOL LOL LOL
It's so refreshing to see a TH-camr actually share so much about his life and the emotions he's going though the way you do. You don't make videos about it, but simply address things throughout your videos. This makes it all the more genuine and appreciated. I can honestly say that this is one of the few channels that I watch for your personality over the actual content.
Yeah same. Leo is hilarious and a hella good singer/rapper but so grounded. He's really wholesome and more YTubers should offer content with balance.
When are you doing the next part to this? This was awesome :)
I think it’s fine to live with your parents, but you need seperation. Which their house doesn’t have. You need a mother-in-law suite or something, where it’s like a separated area for one half the family, and a area for the other. Like it’s fine to share some common areas but you definitely need your own area so you feel like it’s your house. Colt isn’t willing to allow her to have her own home, her own space.
In sure it was a joke and I HATE colt he triggers a lot of stuff for me. However I wanna say this cuz I really like Leo and idk If he's aware but the whole 'snitching on his wife' bit rubbed me the wrong way... I don't like colt but if she was beating the shit out of him he has full right to call the police. Abuse happens to men all the time and it goes unnoticed cuz 'be a man' shit happens. I've met men who's girlfriend would threaten him and he would always have marks all over him but he couldnt do anything and anytime I told anyone they would say 'oh it's your fault' or 'just be a man and get over it the worst one was 'men can't be abused'. Im positive that was just a joke but it still bothered me a bit, sorry if this is whiny or snowflakey for me to say but I just wanted to say it. If your a man being abused or harmed you have full right to call the cops or seek help im so sorry.
For sure, those jokes rubbed me the wrong way as well. Abuse is not a joke, and if it was bad enough for the state to be pressing charges, I don’t think this was colt exaggerating the situation. Whether it’s a man or a woman no one should be abused and no one should be shamed for seeking help because of abuse.
@@katysullivan3192 thank you I'm glad I'm not the only one who kinda got uncomfy by it
No, man. Thank you for calling it out. Leo would have never made that joke the other way around. In fact he would have put it in big letters under the guys side if he was doing the same chart and said nothing else mattered the one that battered the other was worse. It's actually really gross.
@@mookery5582 it just made me uncomfy even though colt isn't innocent I feel like Leo should have at least mentioned that male abuse does happen.
I’m glad I don’t stand alone with the same opinion because it bothers me as well
I genuinely love your comedic energy! And I actually laugh out loud, thank you for your efforts, much appreciated
as a Brazilian i feel Larissa on a spiritual level
that part about the umbilical cord istg i was thinking the exact same thing lmao
Do we know if Larissa actually assaulted Colt? Because if she did then that's a really serious problem, but also considering how manipulative Colt is I wouldn't be *too* surprised if he also exaggerated the situation.
So if anyone knows what actually happened lemme know
She did hit him and hurt herself to make it look like he hurt her
@@hmmmidk6690 oh damn alright off to gulag she goes
@@hmmmidk6690 source
@@jojo-ir9rj went through a few articles I found on google 4 days ago. Just Google it and you'll find what you seek. Shit don't matter since they've both clearly moved on and are dealing with different shit.
P.s. colt is still shit even if larissa is as bad as him. 🤷🏻♀️
Yes, I find it weird that Leo dismisses the abuse. I don't think it's a red flag that he called the police, I think it's a red flag that she assaulted him.