Rich Wilkerson Jr. - Make or Break: Break Up or Break Down

แชร์
ฝัง
  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 13 ก.ย. 2024
  • For a rose bush to flourish, it requires pruning. Removing parts that inhibit growth allows the bush to reach its fullest potential. John 15:1-4 says we're the vine and God cuts off weak branches so that we may be more fruitful. You can’t produce if you are not pruned.

    Continuing the “Make or Break” series with the talk, “Break Up or Break Down," Pastor Rich Wilkerson, Jr. shows that it’s time for some personal pruning for our relationships to flourish.

    Sometimes we make the mistake of breaking off the wrong things. We hurry to quit the person rather than the thought patterns that got us into our mess in the first place. But we ought to break up with the fairytales. The fantasy of “love at first sight” or “happily ever after.”
    If we want successful relationships, we should skip mystical thinking and odd superstitions. We must get a clear sense of when feelings are in the way and we start to treat love like a trend rather than a commitment. And while failures are disappointing, they don't mean we should give up on relationships for good.
    Love is a decision. If you want your relationships to begin anew, you may need to break up with the thinking that breaks them down.
    Subscribe to the latest sermons: bit.ly/vous-se...
    To partner with VOUS, visit vouschurch.com/give
    Jesus is our message. People are our heart.
    We exist to bring people that are far from God close to him.
    --
    Be part of the VOUS Friends & Family:
    Website: vouschurch.com
    Facebook: vouschurch
    Instagram: vouschurch
    Twitter: vouschurch
    TH-cam: / vouschurch
    Join a VOUS Crew: vouschurch.com/crews
    Crew Discussion Guide: vouschurch.com/crew
    Accepted Jesus? Learn more about salvation: vouschurch.com/decision
    Need Prayer? Email your prayers to: pleasepray@vouschurch.com
    #vouschurch

ความคิดเห็น • 76

  • @ChachiF
    @ChachiF 5 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    "You're not Jesus, you're not called to save your partner you're called to WALK with your partner" 👏🏻👏🏻

  • @swatigaikwad4368
    @swatigaikwad4368 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Relationships, they are always going to require us to trust again, to believe again, to hope again, to risk again!!!!!!

  • @riannaHermione
    @riannaHermione 5 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    - Happily ever after is not a destination; it's a journey!
    - If love is nothing more than a feeling, then love will be nothing more than a trend. Trends go in & out of style.
    - Choose a spouse based on patterns, not potential.
    ahh! Thank you, Pastor Rich!!

  • @sarah_cary
    @sarah_cary 5 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    Clapped real hard at "Trustworthy, Determined & Honest."

  • @elvirsonchik
    @elvirsonchik 5 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I can't stop smiling cuz my little nephew was listening Rich and clapping every time lol
    Children are like Angels. They can't lie 😉

  • @Fasted.carnivore
    @Fasted.carnivore 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Oh God, thank you Lord for this sermon. Bless this church and Pastor, in Jesus' name.

  • @siboesithole4671
    @siboesithole4671 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I am feeling so blessed.. Thank you Lord for speaking to me in this sermon...

  • @shonteljaneese6843
    @shonteljaneese6843 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Jesus! This spoke to my soul, right when I needed it. ❤️

  • @beatrixt2499
    @beatrixt2499 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    "if you don't break up with fairytale, fairytale will break you down"

  • @nickid
    @nickid ปีที่แล้ว

    What a great message ❤❤❤

  • @raymartinezjr7235
    @raymartinezjr7235 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Wow. Awesome service. This is what this generation and a lot of people really need to hear.

  • @kass8692
    @kass8692 ปีที่แล้ว

    Says it like it is 👏🏼

  • @naturalepiphaniesco.7332
    @naturalepiphaniesco.7332 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love this message so much

  • @LoveAcrossAmerica
    @LoveAcrossAmerica 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Wow! That was incredible, with a perfect ending. Praise God!!

  • @beatriceben8611
    @beatriceben8611 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    What a great message God Bless You Pastor..

  • @sarahhdaoud
    @sarahhdaoud 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    So thankful for this message. It really resonated with me. ♥️🙏🏽😩

    • @sarahhdaoud
      @sarahhdaoud 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Antony Jaime Hii :)

  • @elvirsonchik
    @elvirsonchik 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Keep changing the World 🙏

  • @imsojoo3388
    @imsojoo3388 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    what an amazing service...the timing of it too is so perfect...God is too good

  • @simplydriven4196
    @simplydriven4196 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Just why is it that this man who looks like he’s 30 probably grew up listening to the Backstreet Boys has taught me more about healthy relationships than a combination of my preacher Sunday school teachers church friends mother grandmother and all my friends? Because he made a point to do so.

  • @isaacrabin5702
    @isaacrabin5702 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you Rich👏👏

  • @jesusiskingofmyheart
    @jesusiskingofmyheart 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was so powerful! I needed to hear this, thank you Pastor Rich 🙌🏽❤

  • @courtneyhorton6059
    @courtneyhorton6059 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Preach Pastor Rich🔥🔥🙌🏾❤️❤️

  • @suejean6160
    @suejean6160 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow! Trustworthy, Determined and Honest

  • @justice4all907
    @justice4all907 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Look for patterns! Great advice!

  • @morrismusyoka501
    @morrismusyoka501 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Those vocalist can really sing😊 🙌

  • @leannaca
    @leannaca 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    This was a great message! And I am so looking forward to that series for singles! :)

  • @longtibuchem959
    @longtibuchem959 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Got so blessed. Thank you pastor..and thank you Jesus!

  • @n.meadow1313
    @n.meadow1313 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thanks pastor rich
    This message is so encouraging.

  • @baylencardenas3115
    @baylencardenas3115 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That sermon had all the juice n hit me like a train

  • @LoveeNSuccess
    @LoveeNSuccess 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is exactly what I needed to hear tonight. Thank you!

  • @elvirsonchik
    @elvirsonchik 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The Best Community Ever!!!🤗🤗🤗

  • @ad-df8gq
    @ad-df8gq 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What a message

  • @corinamaebernardo7178
    @corinamaebernardo7178 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Amazing message!

  • @jessewanderelilimaralda9266
    @jessewanderelilimaralda9266 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Aún me cuesta mucho entender el inglés pero Rich es genial, tiene un Espíritu para compartir la palabra de Dios Increible!

  • @janiceleimarie
    @janiceleimarie 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you for this.

  • @TheNewLifeOfFienie
    @TheNewLifeOfFienie 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    THIS WAS SO POWERFUL! WILL SHARE IT RIGHT AWAY ON FACEBOOK!! 🙌🏽❤

  • @sinclair657
    @sinclair657 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Happily ever after is a journey...thanks

  • @riannaHermione
    @riannaHermione 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    "Guys.. stop being creepy!" hahhaha... true, though.

  • @kaylenalvarez1144
    @kaylenalvarez1144 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wow, powerful 🙌🏽

  • @jiejie6054
    @jiejie6054 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    True.... this is amazing!

  • @SenorConrad
    @SenorConrad 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank you for all the good work you do in your community & you try to do in the world. I think as I mature as a believer, I don’t grow as a follower of Christ because of self improvement sermons, there is so much being said that is man opinion based but no scripture references. The word of God is what helps you grow. It’s how God speaks to you. Saying Jesus every 5 minutes isn’t using the scripture. I need God’s word to help me and change me. Hearing God’s word, the scriptures it’s based on and knowing I can rely on the word of God in the Bible verses is what helps remind me of what to do when I’m faced with that particular situation. God bless you, keep doing your best, but please give me bible verses not just a self improvement talk. Not just starting the talk off with 1 verse and then go on and on. God bless you.

  • @aali98andall
    @aali98andall 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great message !! #alwayslearning #alwayschanging #thankyouvous

  • @limongzar7519
    @limongzar7519 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amen! So Thankful I got to hear this😊

  • @plusjolie20
    @plusjolie20 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What an incredible message! Thank you. ❤️

  • @vhit5607
    @vhit5607 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Powerful and uplifting message !!thank you for this words !!

  • @blessedhoney
    @blessedhoney 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    he naileddd that i love him.

  • @malusore
    @malusore 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    GREAT! GREAT! OH YEAH! WHAT A GREAT MESSAGE! #LOVEMYCHURCH

  • @ivananatashas
    @ivananatashas 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    powerful message!!! omg it speaks to me a lot!!!

    • @thatchindogirl
      @thatchindogirl 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ivana Natasha S. spot a fellow Indo here! Haha

    • @ivananatashas
      @ivananatashas 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      haha yessss hello! @@thatchindogirl

  • @jaritzafigueroa887
    @jaritzafigueroa887 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So good 🙌🏼

  • @larissaguardado1968
    @larissaguardado1968 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amazing Just what i needed yo hear❤️

  • @camillepicard9357
    @camillepicard9357 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Love the message! Keep encouraging us it is amazing!
    Just a little comment about Uber : uber drivers are highly underpaid - at least in France - and the"job uberization" trend is leading to a non desirable working precarity..! :)

  • @mitchellelebani7363
    @mitchellelebani7363 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So good 🔥🔥

  • @refilwetsalaile7647
    @refilwetsalaile7647 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Godly wisdom on a 💯

  • @TeenTokwithPhophi
    @TeenTokwithPhophi 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Awesome stuff

  • @jaydasan9685
    @jaydasan9685 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Not then playing non Christian music at church in a sermon 💀, this is really something else.

  • @sarah00085
    @sarah00085 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    wow thank you

  • @ChachiF
    @ChachiF 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    "You don't know his credit score" 😂😂

  • @christiaopris1563
    @christiaopris1563 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    AMEN

  • @swatigaikwad4368
    @swatigaikwad4368 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    If you are tired of starting over, STOP quitting

  • @yani9904
    @yani9904 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    You don’t know his credit score. 😂

  • @shanaabraham7049
    @shanaabraham7049 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    //break up or bread down//
    john 16: 1-4 “remain in me and i will remain in you”
    - often its not about where you start but where you choose to stop / ecclesiastes 2: 1
    - the season has shifted but you are still holding onto something that no longer bears fruit
    - if you aren’t pruned, you won’t produce

  • @brenderomari6339
    @brenderomari6339 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    6:50 on wards got me shouting

  • @melaniemartin4319
    @melaniemartin4319 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Oh no!😪😶😶😶

  • @sebacuevas5118
    @sebacuevas5118 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    wish i would've seen Rich and his preaches years a go...
    I guess i had to learn from all this, next time i'll produce real fruit :(

  • @alov3world302
    @alov3world302 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    30:45!!!!

  • @gabriellacecilia9792
    @gabriellacecilia9792 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @alov3world302
    @alov3world302 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    16:40 !!!!!!!!

  • @calvertcia4981
    @calvertcia4981 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    19:12

  • @filibusterfirework74
    @filibusterfirework74 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I am going to continue listening but I wanted to quickly call out how insensitive the Uber vs Taxi driver example was. There has been a huge uptake in taxi driver suicide in nyc and it’s not quite as simple as those drivers simply switching to Uber. Uber doesn’t give drivers the same kinds of protection. On top of that Uber’s corporate leaders have been call out with accusations of rape and many other things. So yeah don’t expect me to clap for Uber.

  • @jilllingenfelter4682
    @jilllingenfelter4682 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The right answer is permanent divorce/no reconciliation ever!!!!@Vous Church