So many interesting parts to this process. I'm cheering you on.Now you have a third & fourth puberty to deal with... Nah-- at this point it's beyond puberty, it's just alotta of changes. All worth it. The things you are learning & sharing are the things that need to be known. I hope people with experience are coming to you with their stories & support. There is a gap of info on this topic. Really appreciate your openness.
Thank you for sharing all of this! And it's great to see you making videos again! I need to get on that and make one...I think it's been like two years...geeez! I've become one of THOSE guys!
Chalk another thank you so much for sharing! These are things that have been on my mind and having trouble judging the weight of individual issues makes it difficult to settle on decisions. You've really helped that!
It probably won't make it any more pleasant to deal with, but fwiw, when people ask "Why don't you have someone?" it's probably a subtle compliment that they think you're a catch and are sincerely surprised. Of course it's way over-simplified to assume that someone who's attractive and charming should never be single.
aw man, you talking about going through this alone(ish) definitely triggered memories from my surgeries. Yeah, friends are one thing and they are great... but I can totally relate to wanting that intimacy of a partner to go through something so intense with. What a tough decision about the sperm! Especially if you think you may end up with a cis man other than the donor... yeesh. My heart is with you through this!!
So many interesting parts to this process. I'm cheering you on.Now you have a third & fourth puberty to deal with... Nah-- at this point it's beyond puberty, it's just alotta of changes. All worth it. The things you are learning & sharing are the things that need to be known. I hope people with experience are coming to you with their stories & support. There is a gap of info on this topic. Really appreciate your openness.
I wish you all the support. It is so important that you are sharing your process. I am amazed and grateful for your strength and vulnerability.
Thank you for sharing all of this! And it's great to see you making videos again! I need to get on that and make one...I think it's been like two years...geeez! I've become one of THOSE guys!
Chalk another thank you so much for sharing! These are things that have been on my mind and having trouble judging the weight of individual issues makes it difficult to settle on decisions. You've really helped that!
Thank you for sharing your experience. I am proud of you and will be keeping you in my thoughts. Stay strong because it is going to be worth it.
It probably won't make it any more pleasant to deal with, but fwiw, when people ask "Why don't you have someone?" it's probably a subtle compliment that they think you're a catch and are sincerely surprised. Of course it's way over-simplified to assume that someone who's attractive and charming should never be single.
aw man, you talking about going through this alone(ish) definitely triggered memories from my surgeries. Yeah, friends are one thing and they are great... but I can totally relate to wanting that intimacy of a partner to go through something so intense with. What a tough decision about the sperm! Especially if you think you may end up with a cis man other than the donor... yeesh. My heart is with you through this!!
Is there any link where we can watch your dads Ted talk?