Oh wow, Karen. Only 15 minutes in and now I understand why we cannot BE our emotions and why we cannot say "I Am Sad" etc. First time that's actually clicked. Thank you! xx
This video is so brilliant from the beginning to the end, I sent to people who don't know much about Human Design especially Quantum Alignment! Thank you! And absolutely timely and full of validations for me too.
Thank you Karen this was great. I am ‘ consistently inconsistent ‘ In my own space my wave is perfect, other people coming into my life create waves that feel like a tsunami ..I live in hope ❤
Hi ❤️ love. thank you for this. I love how you share HD. so I do have a question. I am a generator sacral, open solar plexus and defined spleen, and defined heart, root, throat, Anja. my son is a MG and he also has an open solar plexus. what I'm learning about him and I is super interesting. as they say open solar plexus we don't have our own emotions really, that we feel others. yet the root Chakra sends stress, and spleen fear, and I may experience frustration and he may experience frustration and anger. I noticed that although his dad is defined solar and holy Molly I feel his, and I am learning how to navigate his waves. by offering space, time, and doing my best to to reach. sometimes I feel him project (he's a projector :) his waves without noticing, as in he isn't aware what he feeling but I am cause I feel it, and sometimes he reacts or projects his waves on others, unintentionally of course. so I'm learning how to set boundaries and be more graceful less reactive, ND also not respond with my open head and give him advice... lol but with my son, man, I really feel like we amplify each other's emotions and it's confusing because we're not supposed to " have access to our own emotions" traditionally is what HD says. but I don't believe this lolol 😂 because what about when my body is healing past trauma and is coming by a trigger from also an experience that I am having let's say with my son ( but the memory is from moments with my dad, I know in human design my son will have a similar deisgn 🙄)lol but anyways I can feel in my body it's almost like it hurts, like I can't help but mirror back his emotions on how he's reacting but I also know it's because I am healing my past too, from trapped emotions, so when it comes to emotional control how do I know what is my experience and his, when they are so intertwined. I'm learning to pause, but, I can really feels these emotions in the body deeply. So I guess it is a Conditioned response of reacting to external emotions by feeling responsible but this is a real like sensation. what do you suggest? as I notice that if he gets mad when I place a boundary or I say my sacral no, he reacts with anger, and sometimes he might blame me for his experience, which again is valid as I am setting a boundary, which I could never do with my father, as he never respected them. so I feel like this ddouble wammy of my own inner world healing the past, his emotional reaction, choice of blame, and now my extra emotions around what is occurring... so it's a lot haha and I teach emotional intelligence and trauma trauma healing. I have self soothing techniques that I practice and share. but in the moment, when the reactive energy comes up as ( I felt fear from my dad, spleen, stress as well, his lack of emotional awareness combined with his meanness) then my sons feelings of anger and frustration. and now my own. He can react so quickly (MG) that I unconsciously mirror his behavior sometimes without noticing until after. and I feel then Guilt, which is fine as its part of my design ( Right angle cross of service of correction) but although I feel I am most of the time so chill, peaceful, I can experience these rubs with him and I'd love to co create more harmony. Today, him and I looked at our charts (he's 7) together and shared some of my insights on why I feel this is coming up for us, and what we can do together and apart... Sorry this is a lot haha so for now after some time of study and application what helps me is to connect with space. like how my open emotional center, head, and will power, are undefined. I feel them as space. I feels the emotions and thoughts as little molecules compared to space, and this helps me to relax and release. I also hmmmmmm my nervous system back and do some tapping... and self validation internally.. (like it's okay I feel sad. it's okay I feel frustrated) and I also watch for any thoughts that feel like I need my son to validate my own inner world and boundaries. but I would love your Insights please, on any techniques you have when it comes to the quick inner reactions. thank you soo much xo
hhaahha I figured it out. we complete the 39 54 channel for each other ahhahaha literally the only connection we have out of our solar plexus. lol this is sooo relieving and makes so much sense 🤣
Oh wow, Karen. Only 15 minutes in and now I understand why we cannot BE our emotions and why we cannot say "I Am Sad" etc. First time that's actually clicked. Thank you! xx
This video is so brilliant from the beginning to the end, I sent to people who don't know much about Human Design especially Quantum Alignment! Thank you! And absolutely timely and full of validations for me too.
Thank you Asal, truly glad this resonated and thank you for caring and sharing. 🙏❤
Thank you Karen this was great. I am ‘ consistently inconsistent ‘ In my own space my wave is perfect, other people coming into my life create waves that feel like a tsunami ..I live in hope ❤
Same, those people are called my children 🤦🏻♀️😂
Are u a Line 5 like me?
@@Aklifedesign yes Anna
No thank you for allowing me to truly connect with my heart ❤️
Alchemist with Emotional Authoriy
Projector Emo here...
Hi ❤️ love. thank you for this. I love how you share HD.
so I do have a question. I am a generator sacral, open solar plexus and defined spleen, and defined heart, root, throat, Anja.
my son is a MG and he also has an open solar plexus.
what I'm learning about him and I is super interesting.
as they say open solar plexus we don't have our own emotions really, that we feel others. yet the root Chakra sends stress, and spleen fear, and I may experience frustration and he may experience frustration and anger.
I noticed that although his dad is defined solar and holy Molly I feel his, and I am learning how to navigate his waves. by offering space, time, and doing my best to to reach. sometimes I feel him project (he's a projector :) his waves without noticing, as in he isn't aware what he feeling but I am cause I feel it, and sometimes he reacts or projects his waves on others, unintentionally of course.
so I'm learning how to set boundaries and be more graceful less reactive, ND also not respond with my open head and give him advice... lol
but with my son, man, I really feel like we amplify each other's emotions and it's confusing because we're not supposed to " have access to our own emotions" traditionally is what HD says.
but I don't believe this lolol 😂
because what about when my body is healing past trauma and is coming by a trigger from also an experience that I am having let's say with my son ( but the memory is from moments with my dad, I know in human design my son will have a similar deisgn 🙄)lol
but anyways I can feel in my body it's almost like it hurts, like I can't help but mirror back his emotions on how he's reacting but I also know it's because I am healing my past too, from trapped emotions, so when it comes to emotional control how do I know what is my experience and his, when they are so intertwined. I'm learning to pause, but, I can really feels these emotions in the body deeply. So I guess it is a Conditioned response of reacting to external emotions by feeling responsible but this is a real like sensation. what do you suggest?
as I notice that if he gets mad when I place a boundary or I say my sacral no, he reacts with anger, and sometimes he might blame me for his experience, which again is valid as I am setting a boundary, which I could never do with my father, as he never respected them. so I feel like this ddouble wammy of my own inner world healing the past, his emotional reaction, choice of blame, and now my extra emotions around what is occurring...
so it's a lot haha
and I teach emotional intelligence and trauma trauma healing. I have self soothing techniques that I practice and share.
but in the moment, when the reactive energy comes up as ( I felt fear from my dad, spleen, stress as well, his lack of emotional awareness combined with his meanness) then my sons feelings of anger and frustration. and now my own.
He can react so quickly (MG) that I unconsciously mirror his behavior sometimes without noticing until after. and I feel then Guilt, which is fine as its part of my design ( Right angle cross of service of correction) but although I feel I am most of the time so chill, peaceful, I can experience these rubs with him and I'd love to co create more harmony.
Today, him and I looked at our charts (he's 7) together and shared some of my insights on why I feel this is coming up for us, and what we can do together and apart...
Sorry this is a lot haha
so for now after some time of study and application what helps me
is to connect with space.
like how my open emotional center, head, and will power, are undefined. I feel them as space. I feels the emotions and thoughts as little molecules compared to space, and this helps me to relax and release.
I also hmmmmmm my nervous system back and do some tapping... and self validation internally.. (like it's okay I feel sad. it's okay I feel frustrated)
and I also watch for any thoughts that feel like I need my son to validate my own inner world and boundaries.
but I would love your Insights please, on any techniques you have when it comes to the quick inner reactions. thank you soo much xo
hhaahha I figured it out. we complete the 39 54 channel for each other ahhahaha literally the only connection we have out of our solar plexus. lol this is sooo relieving and makes so much sense 🤣
I was just talking about this today- action deliberately- which is hard for me in a 3D experience