I am telling her the facts of a situation. I treat her like she treats me then she is mad about it. Any mature adult should be able to verbalize their issues in a reasonable manner. I used to get upset and my tone and volume of voice reflected my anger. She said that was the reason she used to avoid conversations. I fixed that, I no longer raise my voice or over talk her. I give plenty of time in between questions for her to reply. Oftentimes, hours, days and weeks have gone by waiting for her to respond or when she says I cant talk about this right now. Just as I thought from early on these were smokescreens, meant to distract me. I began taking notes during the conversations and even suggested we record the conversations. She was adamantly against recording the conversations. If there is something I want to clearly communicate I will email or text to have a record of what we both have said as well as the words used. TRUTH triggers anger when she has painted herself into a corner. I can always tell when she knows she is wrong she will cook nice breakfasts, lunches, dinners and cleans up the kitchen afterwards... That is her peace offering. I am just not allowing her to be unaccountable to the facts.
We are in a male body and so our minds have male attributes. We must learn to appreciate a woman's mind as well how to cultivate our hearts, That is the right and beneficial thing to do
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This is a beautiful clip, thank you!
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That works both ways
For the most part you are right but remember that the audiance is a different gender so the communication has to be adjusted
I am telling her the facts of a situation. I treat her like she treats me then she is mad about it. Any mature adult should be able to verbalize their issues in a reasonable manner. I used to get upset and my tone and volume of voice reflected my anger. She said that was the reason she used to avoid conversations. I fixed that, I no longer raise my voice or over talk her. I give plenty of time in between questions for her to reply.
Oftentimes, hours, days and weeks have gone by waiting for her to respond or when she says I cant talk about this right now. Just as I thought from early on these were smokescreens, meant to distract me. I began taking notes during the conversations and even suggested we record the conversations. She was adamantly against recording the conversations. If there is something I want to clearly communicate I will email or text to have a record of what we both have said as well as the words used. TRUTH triggers anger when she has painted herself into a corner. I can always tell when she knows she is wrong she will cook nice breakfasts, lunches, dinners and cleans up the kitchen afterwards... That is her peace offering. I am just not allowing her to be unaccountable to the facts.
We are in a male body and so our minds have male attributes. We must learn to appreciate a woman's mind as well how to cultivate our hearts, That is the right and beneficial thing to do
Maybe, take these courses BEFORE you get married. Just a suggestion.
I have courses for pre-marriage, and they are much easier to take because there is no need to fix so much...great suggestion!
But that’s on them not us , what about Respect for the men .
On them? Not in marriage... themarriagefoundation.org/reviews/
I I hate when you always put it on men women do stuff too
Parts of being a married man is learning how to love and appreciate our wives, not be critical but love them (not thier flaws)