It's just beautiful to know that i parent isn't someone related to you by blood but someone who help you grow up and that they were there for you ever step even in the hardest times
"You pushed past my wall and found a little girl who just needed her dad" "You were supposed to be my dad" "Yep, and I am" That made me cry. What a beautiful relationship. They were meant to be family.
I felt like this was such a cathartic experience for her, and it was for me too because I was bawling with her. She deserves the wonderful dad she ended up with ❤
“That’s my job “ “You know it “ “Do we have a box of tissues or something cause I have tears on my face “ 🥹 I love that man and he is not even my father
This is really beautiful 🥺❤️. I am not tearing up, You are. That Black king who raised his girlfriend’s daughter, learnt to braid her hair and even kept in touch after the breakup. All of these men are amazing.
this makes me so incredibly sad. all my life men have treated me like shit. I've always wanted a positive father figure. I didn't expect to be crying this hard at a cut video. I'm so happy for these people, and hope thier relationships only prosper, this was such a beautiful video.
I also had issues with parental figures growing up so I did the only thing I could. I became the parent I always wanted for my own child and she is amazing.
im glad im not alone in this feeling but im so sorry youre going through that as well. it def was hard for me to not cry but im so happy some ppl have these men in their lives
My heart hurts for you. Im a single mom and have raised 2 kids alone. My dad was there everyday of my life and theirs, still is. However I could never imagine what my kids feel or go through without having their own fathers care about them. My son's dad died of an overdose, so my son never got to confront him and it really messed him up for a long time. All I can tell you is, if you have kids or ever have kids, just give them all the love and guidance you can. Be an example they can live by. Same as me, men suck sometimes
Father’s Day has always been hard for me.. not because I had a dad and he passed away or anything. But because I had a father.. just like we all do, and he CHOSE not to be there. I’m almost 25 now, a few years ago when I was almost 21.. long story short one of his step daughters messaged me, said they always knew about me and always wanted to meet me.. I had only seen my (I call him my sperm donor, so we’ll go with that) sperm donor maybe a handful of times as a child.. he wasn’t there when I was born, saw him for the first time around 3? Maybe? Idek. And I remember my mom and I went to the mall with him once, and he came to one of my birthdays. My mom and him were never married, they had me at 20 I think.. anyways, I saw his mom and his step dad some when I was younger, I’d see them every once in a while, they were definitely more in my life than he was. But even then at a certain point I didn’t see them anymore. My mom would ask me sometimes, like before my birthday or before my graduation for example, did I want her to invite him.. I would say no, and that he probably didn’t even know it was my birthday and stuff. I struggled a lot with not having a “dad”. I remember being so so deeply hurt and also angry.. seeing other kids at school or wherever with their dads. That shit broke my heart. My mom and my Nana (grandma) raised me, we were poor, there were times I went without so my sisters would have food, I went without new school clothes so my younger sister could get new ones because she needed them more.. I always thought my life could’ve and probably would’ve been so different had he been in my life, maybe we wouldn’t be poor.. maybe I could do drivers Ed and have my parents help me with my first car, maybe I would’ve been able to go on those school orchestra trips to Disney world and stuff… maybe I would’ve had vans or an iPod… maybe I wouldn’t stink going to school!!! So I basically re-met him / met him for the first time a few years ago, he’s married, has been for years.. married a lady with THREE DAUGHTERS of her own, and helped raise them….. literally in the same town, not even 20 minutes away. My heart was broken finding that out at almost 21.. I can’t imagine what it would’ve done to me had i known that as a child.. anyways, he’s a piece of garbage, had absolutely no answers for me, not even any excuses, other than saying he was young and not ready to be a dad. But that isn’t even a valid excuse because of the fact that he married his now wife probably a few years after he left my mom, and helped raise her daughters.. so his step daughters got to have two dads. There’s three of them, step daughters, they had everyyything I didn’t. I held back tears hearing them talk about their school trips to Europe they got to take, knowing they did volleyball and cheer and whatever else, hearing how they had bought cars for all three of them and their youngest wasn’t even 16 yet?! That shit makes me angry. I didn’t get my license until I was 22, and I did it myself, I have a car now, pay for that shit myself and my insurance. I don’t have health insurance, haven’t for many years, I used to be on my sisters dads (but he’s a POS too), and my mom can’t afford it. Life isn’t fair. And that really really really sucks. That hurt, sad little girl will always be inside me, but she’s a lot better now, I thank my mom for keeping that pos out of my life (she didn’t keep him from anything but that’s what him, his wife, and his mom now like to say🤣). I would’ve been so much more messed up had he been in my life. I wish it could be different, but I wouldn’t change it. Because I now have two younger sisters and a little brother in heaven, who wouldn’t have happened had my mom stayed with him or he stayed with her, whatever. They mean everything to me, they’re priceless. It fills my heart with joy to see this and know this, and my heart is so happy for everyone who has a dad and knows that kind of love. Family doesn’t have to be blood, remind everyone that you love that you love them, take pictures, take videos, say what is in your heart, you never know when the last time will be the last time. I miss you Nana, thank you for being not only the father figure in my life but also my mom, grandma, protector, I could never thank you enough, I know you’re dancing in heaven, we miss you so much here.💔💔❤️
oh my gosh this is so sad 😭 i’m so sorry for all that you went through :( i can relate somewhat, my father was in my life but was shitty and abusive to both my mother & i which left me with a lot of childhood trauma. i was almost a teen when my parents got divorced and after a while of joint custody he bailed on me when i was a young teen. then after he left me he got remarried and had children and is now being the loving, involved dad that he never was to me! and his family always blames my mom for taking me away as well, when he was the one that gave up on me, it makes no sense. so i do agree that it’s probably for the best your father wasn’t in your life, because in my experience of having a horrible father during my young childhood years, it left me with so much pain and trauma that i’m still dealing with in my early 20s. if he was a part of your life he might have done the same thing to you as well! and also we were dirt poor too, because my father was an alcoholic and drank all of our money away we barely were able to get by. so i think that even if your father was in your life he might not have made a lot of money or he may have made bad financial decisions, and you could have still been poor with him as well. there’s no real way of knowing, but sometimes when people aren’t ready to be parents they aren’t responsible and don’t really care how their bad decisions can affect their children. so that might have been the case if he was around. in my life i find that there’s a lot of unanswered questions and “what ifs” about my father’s involvement, and i often overanalyze things and wonder what my life would have been like if my mom had never married him and he was never around. a lot of times i wish that it was just me and my mom back then, so we didn’t have to endure the abuse he put us through. sometimes i wonder why he left and decided to be a better dad to his new children, and it makes me feel like i’m not enough. i think that your situation is very similar to mine, but opposite, if that makes sense. like in your life you never had your father around and you always wondered what it would have been like to have him there and your family struggled financially. whereas in mine i did have him around and i always wondered what it would have been like if he wasn’t there and we struggled financially because of him. and both of our fathers have their own families now and have raised other children and that feeling just sucks! i really do feel like i can relate to you a lot, and it’s like we’re both on the opposite end of the questions we’ve always wondered about our lives. i’m sorry that you never had a father around, and that you had to grow up struggling financially, only to later find out that he became an involved stepdad to other girls. i know how much it hurts to see the man who was supposed to be there for you being a parent to other children. i really do feel for you, and i hope you don’t feel invalidated by what i said. i was just trying to give you the opposite perspective so you could see that it might not have been the best situation if you had your father in your life. hopefully hearing my story helps you feel like you didn’t necessarily miss out on a dad! some fathers that are there can really scar you mentally, and some that aren’t there can scar you as well. either way, having a bad dad who is in your life mistreating you and having a bad dad who is gone completely both really hurt. your pain is so very valid
@@fruityhouaylorstan9685 thank you for sharing, I’m truly so sorry for what you and your mom went through, and I completely agree and fully heartedly believe that I was better off without him.. from what I know now. I think re-meeting him or whatever you want to call it, I only saw him a few times as a child and only had those little blimp memories, so I never knew him. I actually remember the time my mom and I were on our way to meet him at the mall, my mom told me I was gonna go with him like to spend the day with him and I remember screaming and throwing a fit, that I wasn’t going without my mom. I didn’t know him, he was a strange man and I was just like what? no? My mom also got with my sisters dad when I was a baby basically, my sister was born when I was almost 3, and her dad was abusive to my mom, and me even. I’ve always said he was mean, but no, it was abusive, he’s a narcissist and a dumbass. He’s a grown child, doesn’t know how to control his emotions and would get angry and drive crazy with us in the car. He’d throw things when he got mad and hit things and talk to my mom like crap and was mean to me.. I remember one time he locked me in the closet and stood on the other side of the door holding it. I don’t know why, I just remember being in the closet and him being outside of it, I can see it from like.. out of my body. I also remember one time, we lived with him for a few years when my sister was a baby, until he eventually just locked the door on my mom and had another woman in there and yeah.. anyways, I remember we were putting up the Christmas tree one year and it was one of the ones with the bars that you like hook together on the tree post? Idk , they were branches of the tree but on metal bars and the end had a curve almost on it, like an L.. I stepped on one of them, I was a child, less than 6 years old, and I was screaming bloody murder, blood pouring out of my foot and he was screaming at me to get off the carpet because I was getting blood on the carpet… I also think he may have …done bad things to me when I was little. I don’t remember.. I guess thankfully? Idk, it really fucks with me if I think about it. When I was like 12 or 13 my Nana (grandma) told me that when I was 3, I told her and my mom, out on the porch one day, out of nowhere, that a “man in black would come into my room at night and get on top of me”. My Nana told me that she tried to ask me about it and get more out of me, but that’s all I ever said. I don’t know how a 3 year old would know to say that or get that from… but, yeah that really really fucks me up to say the least. And he used to work overnight at a grocery store, so he’d come home at all kinds of crazy times in the middle of the night/morning… so 🤷♀️ my mom was never married to him either, and was kind of with him on and off for years, and him and my mom had my sister so he was still kind of in her life, just still as a POS.. so he was around for yearssss, but we’d go to the grocery store and my mom would push the buggy and I’d hold on to one side and he’d always try to hug me and put his hands on my waist/hips, and I would just move to the other side of the cart.. I was always kind of creeped out by him. My mom also had my baby brother, who’s in heaven with him, he was stillborn, and when I was 13 my mom had my youngest sister with him. A few years ago his mom took her own life… and since then he has barely seen or even spoken to my sisters. That’s a whole other fucked up situation. But, yeah, re-meeting him or whatever answered a lot of my questions and doubts and what ifs and all that, Idk I can just see now that I didn’t need him. Everyone always told me that, that it was his loss. And every time anyone would tell me that, I would say in my head “but it’s not, it is my loss, he doesn’t miss me”. No, it was absolutely his loss, I’m a genuinely good person, I put everyone before myself, I’m a huge empath, I love and feel so deeply it’s almost unhealthy, my hearts too big. And quite honestly, his step daughters are kinda whack jobs.. which I’m sure was partly because of him. They told me he used to do cocaine and all kinds of stuff.. so yeah, definitely was better off without him. I grew up with my mom, Nana (gma) and Granny (great gma), and they raised me to be a wonderful person, I wouldn’t trade them for anything. My Nana and Granny were my other parents, they’ve both passed now.. I lost my Granny to dementia in 2019, and my Nana was murdered by the hospital in late 2020. My sisters and I now no longer have any living grandparents, as my moms dad wasn’t in her life either and passed maybe more than a few years ago, my Granny’s husband (my great grandpa) died when I was a year and a half old, and then I don’t consider my sperm donors parents my grandparents.. they’re just my sperm donors parents, that’s all.. I’m okay now, I’m engaged, I have two beautiful fur babies, I’m happy. I still cry every day, from grief.. losing my brother was traumatizing, losing my Granny was traumatizing, and the sudden loss of my Nana was so traumatizing. I cry for my sisters, my youngest sister is only 11, my Nana was killed 4 days before her 10th birthday. I had to tell her we were going to see Nana but Nana was going to heaven with Granny and her grandma… I watched her heart break. I got to have my Nana and Granny at my graduation, she won’t, I got 22 years with our Nana, she got less than 10, and she was her BABY. I’m not sure I’d be here if it weren’t for them, they’re my reason for everything, the reason I get up to go to work (well also my kitty because he needs hip replacement surgery💔), I want them to have everything I didn’t. Sorry for rambling, I need to start journaling or something, far too many thoughts constantly running through my head. I wish you the best in life, and I hope that if you have your own kids someday, that they will have both of their parents and live a life opposite to ours🤍 thank you again for sharing❤️
These kids are brave and heart out their feelings the way they are. While me and other asian friends- I can't even say 'I love you' to my father so easily... **proud of dads as well as their kids
I'm white, my wife is Chinese, and our son is therefore of mixed race. I tell him multiple times per day that I love him; I am also firm when required. His Mum took a little longer to get used to regularly saying "I love you" to our son. I don't think she heard it much as a kid (her parents love/d her deeply - they just didn't put it into words). She has taken my lead and become much more affectionate and open with her love for him. The result? We have a strong, handsome, smart son who regularly professes his love for us. It's amazing, and I wouldn't have it any other way.
As someone who came from a childhood of abuse and a lack of a father figure my entire life, being a stepfather has been one of the greatest honors of my life. Knowing first hand how hard it is to grow up without a dad, and knowing that my two boys will never have to go through that as long as I live, nothing comes close that. Happy fathers' day!
My dad passed away 3 years ago from a heart attack and theres not a day that goes by that i dont think about him. I've thought about this many times where i wish i could've done something like this i wish i could've told him how much im thankful for him for the all sacrifices he made for the family. Happy Father's Day in heaven i love you and i miss you so so much! ❤
My parents adopted me and my dad passed away 4 years ago, I miss him so much…. And I wish I could tell him how sorry I am and how much I love him. My daughter doesn’t have a father and I hope one day she has a role model like that in her life because it really does matter. I’m balling my eyes out watching this.
blood doesn’t make someone your dad, the effort, the love, and the dedication is what gives a man that role. big ups to these men for being there for their kids when their biological wasnt.
This is wonderful. My dad recently had a stroke in January 2022. He can no longer drive a car because he lost his right peripheral vision or go to work (he is retired, but had a job to keep himself sane lol). Hes always been the most amazing man I ever had the honor to know. He is an example of what a man should be. I have 2 kids of my own that I raised alone. My son who is now 22 yrs old, his father was not apart of his life. His father overdosed when my son was 18 and he never got that closure he needed. However my dad tried his best to be the man my son needed. I have so much respect for any man that steps up and takes the responsibility of being a good parent to a child that is not theirs. To be that person to love and protect.
Dear dad you made me hate myself, you have hurt me physically and mostly emotionally sm and you don’t even admit how you have treated me . you also ruinded my mental health I never wanna see you again bye 💀
oh man my "dad" left my mom when she was pregnant so Father Day is really hard for me cause except for my older siblings different dad we are the 3 person in my family to grow up without a father figure but i'm happy to see that some men are ready to be there even if biologically they are not the father that just show that blood doesn't mean anything
Happy Father's day. Mine died when i was 12. He had mental health issues. So he was pretty much non existent even when he was alive. We didn't have any bond , never had any conversation. So obviously i never loved him or missed him. But i am grateful for what ever i gotten through him.
So adorable dads. i don't have a relationship like them even with my own father. My parents got divorced whem i was 6 months and apparently my father divorced with me, too. All i can think about him is, he is just a piece of sh*t.
Almost all of the men in my life are complete bums so seeing all these great men in these other ppl's lives makes me a little jealous, but overall happy to see.
awww this made me cry so hard because i relate!! i love both my dad's, but my step father raised me from infancy to adulthood and im forever grateful for that:)
Wonderful video Cut is always putting out great content. What I often reflect on in these videos is that as human beings we have the ability to create so much love, joy, and beauty and if we only channeled our collective energy into these things we would be so much better off.
I had my daughter ripped from my love and arms after 6 months of loving her finding out I wasn’t the father and the “mother” has Ghosted me since finding out. I dream and hope she finds her real dad, even though I’ll give anything to be let back in her life and raise her as my own
I did the same thing for my nonbiological father when I turned 18 just to let him know I appreciated everything he’s done for me. He’s been in my life since I was 4 and he’s felt like more of a father then my biological dad who left when I was 2. After writing the letter me and my mom also presented him adoption papers so he could legally become my guardian/father. It was one of the first times I’ve ever seen him tear up. Now here I am 23 years old and still feel closer to him then I ever will to my real father. He really was the man that stepped up and helped raise me into the person I am today
Coming from someone's who's parents are divorced since I was a 3 and never had my dad in my life I'm so glad that some people actually have nice dads I've always thought dads are useless,or just Wallets
I LOVE THIS! My father and I had a turbulent relationship... He and my mom divorced when I was 2 and then she married my step-dad when I was 3 (who I think I had love for at that point). I still saw and had a relationship with my father but he was a person who thought that he needed to save the world and his veiws and ideals were more important than relathionships. I know a lot of abuse from a young age, and I never really felt safe with any of my parents at that time. My "father" has passed and still affects me to this day because I could never accecpt or understand him for who he REALLY was.... Which was a great human, and an AMAZING artist but someone who this world didn't understand... nor did I. I have been able to make amends with my stepdad who I now call 'dad' because a long while ago... he admitted that he was broken, adicted and not the man he wanted to be. We have a great realationship now... but sometimes, I still feel that I cannot fully trust anyone, other than God! I am so grateful that even though my family are not belivers, my extended family are and can always fall back on Jesus!!!
This is one of the best episodes of cut , i love it so much and i feel very grateful and sad at the same time for all of those who didn't have a dad figure in their life
I miss my non biological dad that passed this year. He raised me since I was born. And was a huge part of everyone's lives. Taught me to be a selfless human being! Take care of each other.
I was adopted when I was born and my father is the absolute best I love him so much and one day I hope I can do something like this to tell him that even though I’m not sure I can find the words to express just how much I love and appreciate him.
I used to get awards from my twin children every father's day until my divorce in 2019 and my mom's estate was closed illegally by hateful people since 1987 who have been hating each other over politics and now my children who moved to Mississippi never call or text in father's day now. Sad. Now my ex wife sent texts about not caring what happened to me. She had another daughter with someone before we met and sent emails that exes were not invited. Before I met her people misused my identity since 1995 and ex coworkers new people were misusing my identity since 1987 possibly.
i’m in such awee i love this so much . As a 22 year old who lost her dad two years ago . this was beautiful . i miss my dad so much each and everyday .
Shit if I truly wrote a letter to my dad OMG I'll be bawling he probably won't because it takes A LOT for him to cry but I know it'll be hard for him to hold it in 🤣🤣 but I really love my dad because he's my dad by choice and he didn't have to choose me but he did... and now im about to cry at work 🥲
Then I got a shirt from a relative of my ex wife that referred to me being the best dad around the time my identity was stolen in 2010 and people posted online about that shirt and apparently behave Bern planning ever since to cause bodily harm on me and apparently they talk to their exes since high school all the time. They have even obstructed my ability to pay child support and mine is current.
Its honestly really sad seeing so many broken people and broken homes. Its nice that in the end they have ppl in their lives they can call daughter/son and father. But fr the norm should not be step dads, grandparents raising the kids or adoption.
Some people after divorce think they can tell my children when to answer the phone when no one but my deceased mom called me to check in them during my 14 year marriage to check in them. People now for some reason even people I knew in high school think they can tell my children as a divorced dad when I can talk to them.
i swear CUT i never give y’all permission to make me cry and here we are again
On GOD
My Lord. I am going sue them from making me cry.
Suing for emotional distress!!! 🤣😭
It's just beautiful to know that i parent isn't someone related to you by blood but someone who help you grow up and that they were there for you ever step even in the hardest times
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There*
Blood* but that's fine
exactly my dad ❤❤
“Gawd forbid she’d look like a freak.” This guy is hilarious. 🤣
proud of all these dads
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"You pushed past my wall and found a little girl who just needed her dad"
"You were supposed to be my dad" "Yep, and I am"
That made me cry. What a beautiful relationship. They were meant to be family.
I know right
they made me cry the most out of all of them omg 😭
They made me cry the most as well. 😭
i cant hold my tears for that one
I felt like this was such a cathartic experience for her, and it was for me too because I was bawling with her. She deserves the wonderful dad she ended up with ❤
“That’s my job “
“You know it “
“Do we have a box of tissues or something cause I have tears on my face “ 🥹 I love that man and he is not even my father
This is really beautiful 🥺❤️.
I am not tearing up, You are.
That Black king who raised his girlfriend’s daughter, learnt to braid her hair and even kept in touch after the breakup. All of these men are amazing.
Can we just show our appriciation for all dads who did a great job even if the kids were not their own
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My dad passed 2 years ago, Father’s Day is always so hard but I’m glad they got to share they’re love with each other so sweet
I am so sorry for your loss ❤️
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Keep ya head up🙏🏿💔
Same, it's been 4 years and still miss him but so happy to see this loving children/fathers moments
Anyone can be a father but not everyone can be a dad!!!
Yes 🥺
that absolutely makes no sense
I don't get it.
Maintaining a close relationship with a child that is not your biological and after you've separated with that child's mother; wow that's love.
this makes me so incredibly sad. all my life men have treated me like shit. I've always wanted a positive father figure. I didn't expect to be crying this hard at a cut video. I'm so happy for these people, and hope thier relationships only prosper, this was such a beautiful video.
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don't worry my guy, there's always a chance of getting a father figure in the future
I also had issues with parental figures growing up so I did the only thing I could. I became the parent I always wanted for my own child and she is amazing.
im glad im not alone in this feeling but im so sorry youre going through that as well. it def was hard for me to not cry but im so happy some ppl have these men in their lives
My heart hurts for you. Im a single mom and have raised 2 kids alone. My dad was there everyday of my life and theirs, still is. However I could never imagine what my kids feel or go through without having their own fathers care about them. My son's dad died of an overdose, so my son never got to confront him and it really messed him up for a long time. All I can tell you is, if you have kids or ever have kids, just give them all the love and guidance you can. Be an example they can live by. Same as me, men suck sometimes
“Do we have a box of tissues or something because I have tears on my face” 😭 same
“You were supposed to be my dad” “yep, and I am” shut UP 😭😭 so blessed to have each other
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The grandpa one 🥲My grandpa is my father figure. They’re so selfless
I love my papa ❤️
Daughter: “You make me question my sanity”
Dad: “that’s my job”
Daughter: “You are a wild man”
Dad: “You know it” 😂😂😂
It sucks knowing that I'll never get to experience what it is to have a loving father figure in my life.
SAME
ye cried just knowing that
Yah same here 😭
This is so very sweet😭❤
Oh these tears?
Nah just cutting onions while watching a Cut video
I love that Lou was included in this. He's one of my favorites. 💜
they're not stepfathers, they are fathers that step up
my dad adopted me when I was 5. it’s amazing that people will come into your life and love you as their own child
"Do you have a box of tissue or something coz I have tears on my face"
Father’s Day has always been hard for me.. not because I had a dad and he passed away or anything. But because I had a father.. just like we all do, and he CHOSE not to be there. I’m almost 25 now, a few years ago when I was almost 21.. long story short one of his step daughters messaged me, said they always knew about me and always wanted to meet me.. I had only seen my (I call him my sperm donor, so we’ll go with that) sperm donor maybe a handful of times as a child.. he wasn’t there when I was born, saw him for the first time around 3? Maybe? Idek. And I remember my mom and I went to the mall with him once, and he came to one of my birthdays. My mom and him were never married, they had me at 20 I think.. anyways, I saw his mom and his step dad some when I was younger, I’d see them every once in a while, they were definitely more in my life than he was. But even then at a certain point I didn’t see them anymore. My mom would ask me sometimes, like before my birthday or before my graduation for example, did I want her to invite him.. I would say no, and that he probably didn’t even know it was my birthday and stuff. I struggled a lot with not having a “dad”. I remember being so so deeply hurt and also angry.. seeing other kids at school or wherever with their dads. That shit broke my heart. My mom and my Nana (grandma) raised me, we were poor, there were times I went without so my sisters would have food, I went without new school clothes so my younger sister could get new ones because she needed them more.. I always thought my life could’ve and probably would’ve been so different had he been in my life, maybe we wouldn’t be poor.. maybe I could do drivers Ed and have my parents help me with my first car, maybe I would’ve been able to go on those school orchestra trips to Disney world and stuff… maybe I would’ve had vans or an iPod… maybe I wouldn’t stink going to school!!! So I basically re-met him / met him for the first time a few years ago, he’s married, has been for years.. married a lady with THREE DAUGHTERS of her own, and helped raise them….. literally in the same town, not even 20 minutes away. My heart was broken finding that out at almost 21.. I can’t imagine what it would’ve done to me had i known that as a child.. anyways, he’s a piece of garbage, had absolutely no answers for me, not even any excuses, other than saying he was young and not ready to be a dad. But that isn’t even a valid excuse because of the fact that he married his now wife probably a few years after he left my mom, and helped raise her daughters.. so his step daughters got to have two dads. There’s three of them, step daughters, they had everyyything I didn’t. I held back tears hearing them talk about their school trips to Europe they got to take, knowing they did volleyball and cheer and whatever else, hearing how they had bought cars for all three of them and their youngest wasn’t even 16 yet?! That shit makes me angry. I didn’t get my license until I was 22, and I did it myself, I have a car now, pay for that shit myself and my insurance. I don’t have health insurance, haven’t for many years, I used to be on my sisters dads (but he’s a POS too), and my mom can’t afford it. Life isn’t fair. And that really really really sucks. That hurt, sad little girl will always be inside me, but she’s a lot better now, I thank my mom for keeping that pos out of my life (she didn’t keep him from anything but that’s what him, his wife, and his mom now like to say🤣). I would’ve been so much more messed up had he been in my life. I wish it could be different, but I wouldn’t change it. Because I now have two younger sisters and a little brother in heaven, who wouldn’t have happened had my mom stayed with him or he stayed with her, whatever. They mean everything to me, they’re priceless. It fills my heart with joy to see this and know this, and my heart is so happy for everyone who has a dad and knows that kind of love. Family doesn’t have to be blood, remind everyone that you love that you love them, take pictures, take videos, say what is in your heart, you never know when the last time will be the last time. I miss you Nana, thank you for being not only the father figure in my life but also my mom, grandma, protector, I could never thank you enough, I know you’re dancing in heaven, we miss you so much here.💔💔❤️
I feel for you. I’m left speechless I wish you the best. I’m in the role being the dad that was there.
@@Noseycone happy Father’s Day to you🤍
@@destiny4505 thank you ! 💙
oh my gosh this is so sad 😭 i’m so sorry for all that you went through :( i can relate somewhat, my father was in my life but was shitty and abusive to both my mother & i which left me with a lot of childhood trauma. i was almost a teen when my parents got divorced and after a while of joint custody he bailed on me when i was a young teen. then after he left me he got remarried and had children and is now being the loving, involved dad that he never was to me! and his family always blames my mom for taking me away as well, when he was the one that gave up on me, it makes no sense. so i do agree that it’s probably for the best your father wasn’t in your life, because in my experience of having a horrible father during my young childhood years, it left me with so much pain and trauma that i’m still dealing with in my early 20s. if he was a part of your life he might have done the same thing to you as well! and also we were dirt poor too, because my father was an alcoholic and drank all of our money away we barely were able to get by. so i think that even if your father was in your life he might not have made a lot of money or he may have made bad financial decisions, and you could have still been poor with him as well. there’s no real way of knowing, but sometimes when people aren’t ready to be parents they aren’t responsible and don’t really care how their bad decisions can affect their children. so that might have been the case if he was around. in my life i find that there’s a lot of unanswered questions and “what ifs” about my father’s involvement, and i often overanalyze things and wonder what my life would have been like if my mom had never married him and he was never around. a lot of times i wish that it was just me and my mom back then, so we didn’t have to endure the abuse he put us through. sometimes i wonder why he left and decided to be a better dad to his new children, and it makes me feel like i’m not enough. i think that your situation is very similar to mine, but opposite, if that makes sense. like in your life you never had your father around and you always wondered what it would have been like to have him there and your family struggled financially. whereas in mine i did have him around and i always wondered what it would have been like if he wasn’t there and we struggled financially because of him. and both of our fathers have their own families now and have raised other children and that feeling just sucks! i really do feel like i can relate to you a lot, and it’s like we’re both on the opposite end of the questions we’ve always wondered about our lives. i’m sorry that you never had a father around, and that you had to grow up struggling financially, only to later find out that he became an involved stepdad to other girls. i know how much it hurts to see the man who was supposed to be there for you being a parent to other children. i really do feel for you, and i hope you don’t feel invalidated by what i said. i was just trying to give you the opposite perspective so you could see that it might not have been the best situation if you had your father in your life. hopefully hearing my story helps you feel like you didn’t necessarily miss out on a dad! some fathers that are there can really scar you mentally, and some that aren’t there can scar you as well. either way, having a bad dad who is in your life mistreating you and having a bad dad who is gone completely both really hurt. your pain is so very valid
@@fruityhouaylorstan9685 thank you for sharing, I’m truly so sorry for what you and your mom went through, and I completely agree and fully heartedly believe that I was better off without him.. from what I know now. I think re-meeting him or whatever you want to call it, I only saw him a few times as a child and only had those little blimp memories, so I never knew him. I actually remember the time my mom and I were on our way to meet him at the mall, my mom told me I was gonna go with him like to spend the day with him and I remember screaming and throwing a fit, that I wasn’t going without my mom. I didn’t know him, he was a strange man and I was just like what? no? My mom also got with my sisters dad when I was a baby basically, my sister was born when I was almost 3, and her dad was abusive to my mom, and me even. I’ve always said he was mean, but no, it was abusive, he’s a narcissist and a dumbass. He’s a grown child, doesn’t know how to control his emotions and would get angry and drive crazy with us in the car. He’d throw things when he got mad and hit things and talk to my mom like crap and was mean to me.. I remember one time he locked me in the closet and stood on the other side of the door holding it. I don’t know why, I just remember being in the closet and him being outside of it, I can see it from like.. out of my body. I also remember one time, we lived with him for a few years when my sister was a baby, until he eventually just locked the door on my mom and had another woman in there and yeah.. anyways, I remember we were putting up the Christmas tree one year and it was one of the ones with the bars that you like hook together on the tree post? Idk , they were branches of the tree but on metal bars and the end had a curve almost on it, like an L.. I stepped on one of them, I was a child, less than 6 years old, and I was screaming bloody murder, blood pouring out of my foot and he was screaming at me to get off the carpet because I was getting blood on the carpet… I also think he may have …done bad things to me when I was little. I don’t remember.. I guess thankfully? Idk, it really fucks with me if I think about it. When I was like 12 or 13 my Nana (grandma) told me that when I was 3, I told her and my mom, out on the porch one day, out of nowhere, that a “man in black would come into my room at night and get on top of me”. My Nana told me that she tried to ask me about it and get more out of me, but that’s all I ever said. I don’t know how a 3 year old would know to say that or get that from… but, yeah that really really fucks me up to say the least. And he used to work overnight at a grocery store, so he’d come home at all kinds of crazy times in the middle of the night/morning… so 🤷♀️ my mom was never married to him either, and was kind of with him on and off for years, and him and my mom had my sister so he was still kind of in her life, just still as a POS.. so he was around for yearssss, but we’d go to the grocery store and my mom would push the buggy and I’d hold on to one side and he’d always try to hug me and put his hands on my waist/hips, and I would just move to the other side of the cart.. I was always kind of creeped out by him. My mom also had my baby brother, who’s in heaven with him, he was stillborn, and when I was 13 my mom had my youngest sister with him. A few years ago his mom took her own life… and since then he has barely seen or even spoken to my sisters. That’s a whole other fucked up situation. But, yeah, re-meeting him or whatever answered a lot of my questions and doubts and what ifs and all that, Idk I can just see now that I didn’t need him. Everyone always told me that, that it was his loss. And every time anyone would tell me that, I would say in my head “but it’s not, it is my loss, he doesn’t miss me”. No, it was absolutely his loss, I’m a genuinely good person, I put everyone before myself, I’m a huge empath, I love and feel so deeply it’s almost unhealthy, my hearts too big. And quite honestly, his step daughters are kinda whack jobs.. which I’m sure was partly because of him. They told me he used to do cocaine and all kinds of stuff.. so yeah, definitely was better off without him. I grew up with my mom, Nana (gma) and Granny (great gma), and they raised me to be a wonderful person, I wouldn’t trade them for anything. My Nana and Granny were my other parents, they’ve both passed now.. I lost my Granny to dementia in 2019, and my Nana was murdered by the hospital in late 2020. My sisters and I now no longer have any living grandparents, as my moms dad wasn’t in her life either and passed maybe more than a few years ago, my Granny’s husband (my great grandpa) died when I was a year and a half old, and then I don’t consider my sperm donors parents my grandparents.. they’re just my sperm donors parents, that’s all.. I’m okay now, I’m engaged, I have two beautiful fur babies, I’m happy. I still cry every day, from grief.. losing my brother was traumatizing, losing my Granny was traumatizing, and the sudden loss of my Nana was so traumatizing. I cry for my sisters, my youngest sister is only 11, my Nana was killed 4 days before her 10th birthday. I had to tell her we were going to see Nana but Nana was going to heaven with Granny and her grandma… I watched her heart break. I got to have my Nana and Granny at my graduation, she won’t, I got 22 years with our Nana, she got less than 10, and she was her BABY. I’m not sure I’d be here if it weren’t for them, they’re my reason for everything, the reason I get up to go to work (well also my kitty because he needs hip replacement surgery💔), I want them to have everything I didn’t. Sorry for rambling, I need to start journaling or something, far too many thoughts constantly running through my head. I wish you the best in life, and I hope that if you have your own kids someday, that they will have both of their parents and live a life opposite to ours🤍 thank you again for sharing❤️
Excuse me while I go bawl my eyes out... I lost my dad 3 years ago.
im sorry💔
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I never really had 1 whats it like must be great
that cute photo with the shaving cream is sooo adorable and i have almost an exact one with my dad
These kids are brave and heart out their feelings the way they are.
While me and other asian friends- I can't even say 'I love you' to my father so easily...
**proud of dads as well as their kids
I completely relate, as another Asian person
I'm white, my wife is Chinese, and our son is therefore of mixed race. I tell him multiple times per day that I love him; I am also firm when required.
His Mum took a little longer to get used to regularly saying "I love you" to our son. I don't think she heard it much as a kid (her parents love/d her deeply - they just didn't put it into words).
She has taken my lead and become much more affectionate and open with her love for him.
The result? We have a strong, handsome, smart son who regularly professes his love for us. It's amazing, and I wouldn't have it any other way.
@@scoooter78 that's wonderful!! Wish you and your family love and happiness forever!!❤️
@@harshaggarwal404 Thank you!
As someone who came from a childhood of abuse and a lack of a father figure my entire life, being a stepfather has been one of the greatest honors of my life. Knowing first hand how hard it is to grow up without a dad, and knowing that my two boys will never have to go through that as long as I live, nothing comes close that. Happy fathers' day!
Why tf would you be a step father without your own kids
@@Superdestroyer701 they are his kids
Yes I know what that's like all my dad's stepdads and mom were all abusive
oh damn... doing my best to not wake up my 6 month old son right now. This made me cry like a baby.. good tears though.
Awesome content as usual.
Nah because these is actually a really heartwarming subject 🥹🥹🥹
Aww this definitely brought tears to my eye's 😢😊
My dad passed away 3 years ago from a heart attack and theres not a day that goes by that i dont think about him. I've thought about this many times where i wish i could've done something like this i wish i could've told him how much im thankful for him for the all sacrifices he made for the family. Happy Father's Day in heaven i love you and i miss you so so much! ❤
I love how bug’s father is funny af but clearly still so full of love ❤️
My parents adopted me and my dad passed away 4 years ago, I miss him so much…. And I wish I could tell him how sorry I am and how much I love him. My daughter doesn’t have a father and I hope one day she has a role model like that in her life because it really does matter. I’m balling my eyes out watching this.
blood doesn’t make someone your dad, the effort, the love, and the dedication is what gives a man that role. big ups to these men for being there for their kids when their biological wasnt.
This is wonderful. My dad recently had a stroke in January 2022. He can no longer drive a car because he lost his right peripheral vision or go to work (he is retired, but had a job to keep himself sane lol). Hes always been the most amazing man I ever had the honor to know. He is an example of what a man should be. I have 2 kids of my own that I raised alone. My son who is now 22 yrs old, his father was not apart of his life. His father overdosed when my son was 18 and he never got that closure he needed. However my dad tried his best to be the man my son needed. I have so much respect for any man that steps up and takes the responsibility of being a good parent to a child that is not theirs. To be that person to love and protect.
Man, i dont even have a connection like them with my actual dad. Good for them!
Dear dad you made me hate myself, you have hurt me physically and mostly emotionally sm and you don’t even admit how you have treated me . you also ruinded my mental health I never wanna see you again bye 💀
Hey same here all my quote dad's were horrible 😭
oh man my "dad" left my mom when she was pregnant so Father Day is really hard for me cause except for my older siblings different dad we are the 3 person in my family to grow up without a father figure but i'm happy to see that some men are ready to be there even if biologically they are not the father that just show that blood doesn't mean anything
My father left a long time ago as well and my stepfathers were abusive drunks so hard for me as well
These dads are the BEST!!!! Appreciation to ALL THE DADDIES
3:50 I love their relationship they are so funny I love them
The dad of the person in the green hair is so funny
Happy Father's day. Mine died when i was 12. He had mental health issues. So he was pretty much non existent even when he was alive. We didn't have any bond , never had any conversation. So obviously i never loved him or missed him. But i am grateful for what ever i gotten through him.
My father's still alive he has serious mental health issues, he was barely around, I was mainly raised by my abusive stepdads.
I’m crying before they even started the letter..
So adorable dads. i don't have a relationship like them even with my own father. My parents got divorced whem i was 6 months and apparently my father divorced with me, too. All i can think about him is, he is just a piece of sh*t.
as an adopted child, i appreciate this 💗 i *love* my dad so much. he’s my world.
definetely crying from the first second
“We got a box of tissues or sum I got tears on my face” 😂😂😂😂
Almost all of the men in my life are complete bums so seeing all these great men in these other ppl's lives makes me a little jealous, but overall happy to see.
awww this made me cry so hard because i relate!! i love both my dad's, but my step father raised me from infancy to adulthood and im forever grateful for that:)
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Wonderful video Cut is always putting out great content.
What I often reflect on in these videos is that as human beings we have the ability to create so much love, joy, and beauty and if we only channeled our collective energy into these things we would be so much better off.
Cut never be investing in tissues though
I didn't need to cry but here I am 😢
I had my daughter ripped from my love and arms after 6 months of loving her finding out I wasn’t the father and the “mother” has
Ghosted me since finding out. I dream and hope she finds her real dad, even though I’ll give anything to be let back in her life and raise her as my own
Anyone can be a father, only someone special can be a Dad.
I did the same thing for my nonbiological father when I turned 18 just to let him know I appreciated everything he’s done for me. He’s been in my life since I was 4 and he’s felt like more of a father then my biological dad who left when I was 2. After writing the letter me and my mom also presented him adoption papers so he could legally become my guardian/father. It was one of the first times I’ve ever seen him tear up. Now here I am 23 years old and still feel closer to him then I ever will to my real father. He really was the man that stepped up and helped raise me into the person I am today
Dear KJR 95FM,
Thank you for all the musical advice that my REAL dad never gave me
Wish I could do this to my real dad I miss him
Finally something that's not hella weird
Days like this are rough’ hope everyone’s doing well
To all these amazing Dad's and their loving special children . . . Thank You for sharing!!!
So beautiful I love this and admire these men for stepping up and being a wonderful loving father
Broooo😭 This was so sweet🥹 I started crying immediately
I cried so hard but it was a well deserved ugly cry 🥲
I'm not crying, I'm just cosplaying as a faucet
Me and my daddy issues here crying. Sighs. Awesome job folks. Thank you for being there and stepping up.
Coming from someone's who's parents are divorced since I was a 3 and never had my dad in my life I'm so glad that some people actually have nice dads I've always thought dads are useless,or just Wallets
damn this shit had me crying
I LOVE THIS! My father and I had a turbulent relationship... He and my mom divorced when I was 2 and then she married my step-dad when I was 3 (who I think I had love for at that point). I still saw and had a relationship with my father but he was a person who thought that he needed to save the world and his veiws and ideals were more important than relathionships. I know a lot of abuse from a young age, and I never really felt safe with any of my parents at that time.
My "father" has passed and still affects me to this day because I could never accecpt or understand him for who he REALLY was.... Which was a great human, and an AMAZING artist but someone who this world didn't understand... nor did I.
I have been able to make amends with my stepdad who I now call 'dad' because a long while ago... he admitted that he was broken, adicted and not the man he wanted to be. We have a great realationship now... but sometimes, I still feel that I cannot fully trust anyone, other than God! I am so grateful that even though my family are not belivers, my extended family are and can always fall back on Jesus!!!
This is one of the best episodes of cut , i love it so much and i feel very grateful and sad at the same time for all of those who didn't have a dad figure in their life
Balling my eyes out 🥹 as a girl whose only grown up with 1 parent, my dad, this was just so sweet.
Made me cry goodness!!
Me: just realizing it is Father's day.😬
I miss my non biological dad that passed this year. He raised me since I was born. And was a huge part of everyone's lives. Taught me to be a selfless human being! Take care of each other.
Good feels and glad they can connect.
I was adopted when I was born and my father is the absolute best I love him so much and one day I hope I can do something like this to tell him that even though I’m not sure I can find the words to express just how much I love and appreciate him.
Fuck! the tears are real
i miss my dad.
Them: Dear Papa, Dad
Me: 😭😭😭😭
I used to get awards from my twin children every father's day until my divorce in 2019 and my mom's estate was closed illegally by hateful people since 1987 who have been hating each other over politics and now my children who moved to Mississippi never call or text in father's day now. Sad. Now my ex wife sent texts about not caring what happened to me. She had another daughter with someone before we met and sent emails that exes were not invited. Before I met her people misused my identity since 1995 and ex coworkers new people were misusing my identity since 1987 possibly.
i’m in such awee i love this so much . As a 22 year old who lost her dad two years ago . this was beautiful . i miss my dad so much each and everyday .
the people you choose-the family you create-will always mean more than the one you're born into
Shit if I truly wrote a letter to my dad OMG I'll be bawling he probably won't because it takes A LOT for him to cry but I know it'll be hard for him to hold it in 🤣🤣 but I really love my dad because he's my dad by choice and he didn't have to choose me but he did... and now im about to cry at work 🥲
Me: Let´s see if the dads will cry **smirk**
Me after 10 seconds: **crying rivers myself**
oh I know I’m going to cry
Then I got a shirt from a relative of my ex wife that referred to me being the best dad around the time my identity was stolen in 2010 and people posted online about that shirt and apparently behave Bern planning ever since to cause bodily harm on me and apparently they talk to their exes since high school all the time. They have even obstructed my ability to pay child support and mine is current.
My dad is my best friend. Seeing these warm my heart❤️
Its honestly really sad seeing so many broken people and broken homes. Its nice that in the end they have ppl in their lives they can call daughter/son and father. But fr the norm should not be step dads, grandparents raising the kids or adoption.
“GOD FORBID” I love that dad
Oooo too much to handle 😢 😢 lol. Beautiful video. ❤️
Some people after divorce think they can tell my children when to answer the phone when no one but my deceased mom called me to check in them during my 14 year marriage to check in them. People now for some reason even people I knew in high school think they can tell my children as a divorced dad when I can talk to them.
MY WHOLE LIFE NO ONE HAS HAD MY NAME BUT ZENAAAA DOES. DIFFERENT SPELLING. SO COOL
The crying girl made me cry ❤️❤️❤️
Every child needs a dad. Prieod
And alot have never had 1
in time 3:00 if take a close look to the mans right face he cries. But tell me why those tears don't look real, they look choppy 💀
Cut always come up with amazing videos
Have been there since she was 3 months old. I didn't make her but she made me ❤️
Some of these makes were never made liable in their own lives fir their own children.
Cried so much watching this..🥺
This is so sweet
The Cut is officially my FAVORITE CHANNEL OF ALL TIME😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭