I’m so honored to have written this song with two great friends. I was told when I moved to Nashville to not write anything slow or sad, because they were too hard to get recorded. Glad I’m stubborn and didn’t listen. Thank you all so much for listening!
i think the hardest thing to do is to watch someone fall out of love with you and knowing theres nothing you can do to make them change their minds...to sleep in the same bed as someone and feel miles apart...to feel so alone and not know why they dont love you....thats the hardest part....
This song says it all. This is what a woman truly wants. If you are in a troubled relationship, wake up before you lose your woman. Don't wait until she leaves and try to be what this song is, do it now
Truest song I've ever heard.. every lyric speaks truth! Never neglect your spouse or you'll lose them alittle at a time and by the time you wake up....their heart belongs to someone else 💔 they get tired of trying and die alittle each day...
Definitely I screwed up with my ex the way I acted was like she would never leave and she did and I hold no bad feeling to her it was my negative behaviour that caused that to happen
Some people dont appreciate someone until theyve lost them.... sometimes a broken heart cant be healed.....You hurt too much, you didnt think twice about destroying a heart, a life...💔
Keep going sweetie.. Love is out their. You will find what your looking for keep growing g as a person the right one will come if you believe an dont settle... Hugs. Prayers for the love you seek..
This song is 100% word for word what is happening to me... I love her more than anything in this world and always will... I have been trying my best for the past 2 months to change and be a better person and I truly believe that she will see it and give me one more chance. Trust me, it is not easy but I need my family back and I will do anything and fight for it until I get her back.. no other girls. No hook ups. Just focus on her coming back..
This song is dedicated to the one I let go from my immature actions. As painful it is, it's starting to dawn on me that I wasn't the right man for her. She will make the right man so happy and I wish nothing but the best of happiness for her. She deserves the best. You will always be in my heart Meg.
It brings back painful memories of my ex-girlfriend who left me 13 years ago. She now has a beautiful little toddler age daughter. She got pregnant by her new ex-military boyfriend. He's since left my ex-girlfriend, because he doesn't want to be a father. That sweet little girl doesn't realize that I exist. My ex-girlfriend is a batshit crazy, mental, narcissistic person. I hear she tells her daughter bad things about me so that her daughter will keep from looking for me. My ex-girlfriend suddenly reappeared in my life (after 13 years) about a year and a half ago to tell me that she was pregnant. Now my ex-girlfriend's daughter is going to grow up without a father. I wish I could be there for that sweet little girl. My ex-girlfriend is pretending to tell her daughter that I don't even exist. That girl is just the most beautiful little thing. It sucks knowing that my ex-girlfriend's daughter has been tricked into not wanting to know me. Yes, things ended badly with my ex-girlfriend 13 years ago, but now she's pushed her now ex-boyfriend away and turned her daughter against the idea of ever getting to know me. That sweet little girl needs me. That sweet little girl needs a stable father in her life. My current girlfriend knows about this situation, but she doesn't want to run afoul of the values instilled in her by her parents. My current girlfriend supports me, but she refuses to listen about my predicament. I'm stuck in a tough position. I know that my ex-girlfriend's daughter will take the time to find me. She needs to know who I am. That sweet little girl needs to know the truth. She needs me.
@@stuartadamsrailfanningvideos I hope you get to know your daughter very soon... I'm in the process of finding my own father that I have been searching for since I was 10 years old.... And I am now 25 years old .. I pray that you and your daughter build that needed relationship God bless you and may he watch over you and your daughter ❤
As much as this song meant to me when I made this video, I have learned a lot since 2010. My ex and I had recently divorced, and I had a lot of regrets at the time. I basically made this just to send to her, but to this day she still hasn't spoken to me. I was broken, filled with shame, guilt, anger, and sorrow. I truly believed I had nothing left. I had a wonderful wife, who I treated like dirt. My behavior and actions were absolutely dehumanizing. The best thing she did, for the both of us, was leave. By the time I realized the truth of the situation, it was too late. Its been a long road since then. What I've realized is that she will always have a place in my heart, and in my past. I may never see or speak to her again, and I am okay with that today. She shouldn't have to relive the nightmare of our past together. All I can hope for is her own personal happiness. On my end, I've definitely tried to learn from my mistakes. I've opened my heart to another wonderful woman, and see a bright future between us. With a lot of continuous support, I've been able to change most of my damaging behaviors that ruined my first marriage. I am able to give much more today, and not be so self-centered. Sometimes our past is our biggest asset. When I think about falling back in to old behaviors, I just remember the life altering consequences they had on my ex. I want to give my future wife everything she deserves, and more.
+Matt Wuerth~~ it IS a journey and we do learn from our mistakes. I wish you and your lady much happiness the second time around. Be good to her and she will return your love many times over.
+Matt Wuerth - We are products of our past, but we don't have to be prisoners of it. And then wisdom comes from life experience, life experience is the result of repeatedly taking corrective action while courageously learning from mistakes. God bless your heart, be good and Good luck!!!
my boyfriend is in the same way with me after seven years together he wants to throw it away. instead of working things out with me I gave him so much love and never got none in return an tim thank you for sharing your story you really inspired me I think God gave you a second chance hold on to that woman don't let her go if she is a good woman as you said because its so hard to find someone good nowadays
I am in tears reading your comment! I am so happy you have been able to see the faults&mistakes, own them & most importantly learn from them! You are a lucky man and your girlfriend is lucky as well. To have someone who is knowledgeable of what bad behavior can do to another is truly rare. Best wishes and congratulations on finding the best of you. I was in a 3 year relationship with a man who had 2 sides, I fell in love with the wonderful side to only find out he had a dark side. we both made mistakes, I have&will own my faults but he still blames me for all his. We've been apart for almost 5 months and I've heard so many things he's said while together and then apart that it breaks my heart. I tried so hard to make him see that his choice of words & pulling away & silent treatment would be our demise that I couldn't be strong enough to fight for us both all the time...but sadly he failed to hear me. From the moment we met we had a connection & was able to talk openly but it changed with time. I had told him my biggest weakness was being self conscious of my weight...I wasn't terribly over weight or anything just came from another past relationship&my weaknesses...when we met I was a size 12/14 he acted as if I was a beauty queen never made me question my body imagine until a drunk fight he called me a fat ass...I struggled from then on & nearly every fight there after he used that as a weapon of choice. I gained about 15 pounds up to 14/16...then I decided I needed to get myself back so I lost back to 12/14 size felt OK but I allowed his distance, negative comments &rejection to crush me still...when I begged the last time for him to realize I wasn't strong enough anymore...he laughed said he didn't care & didn't want a fatass as a long term relationship... I left after that...we've talked since we split he says he knows now he lost the best & I told him all along what would happen. I've gotten to a size 12 now & OK with myself but still have issues... we tried again a few weeks ago but I couldn't forget his words & his actions seemed to not be the same as his words so I don't know if he truly understands what he did&how much damage he caused...i couldnt continue to try I walked away again. I wish he did know so another woman wouldn't have to go through what I did with him...so seeing a man say he knows his bad behavior caused damage and he learned from it really touches me deeply. More men should be as courageous and swallow their pride as you did!
I am in tears reading your comment! I am so happy you have been able to see the faults&mistakes, own them & most importantly learn from them! You are a lucky man and your girlfriend is lucky as well. To have someone who is knowledgeable of what bad behavior can do to another is truly rare. Best wishes and congratulations on finding the best of you. I was in a 3 year relationship with a man who had 2 sides, I fell in love with the wonderful side to only find out he had a dark side. we both made mistakes, I have&will own my faults but he still blames me for all his. We've been apart for almost 5 months and I've heard so many things he's said while together and then apart that it breaks my heart. I tried so hard to make him see that his choice of words & pulling away & silent treatment would be our demise that I couldn't be strong enough to fight for us both all the time...but sadly he failed to hear me. From the moment we met we had a connection & was able to talk openly but it changed with time. I had told him my biggest weakness was being self conscious of my weight...I wasn't terribly over weight or anything just came from another past relationship&my weaknesses...when we met I was a size 12/14 he acted as if I was a beauty queen never made me question my body imagine until a drunk fight he called me a fat ass...I struggled from then on & nearly every fight there after he used that as a weapon of choice. I gained about 15 pounds up to 14/16...then I decided I needed to get myself back so I lost back to 12/14 size felt OK but I allowed his distance, negative comments &rejection to crush me still...when I begged the last time for him to realize I wasn't strong enough anymore...he laughed said he didn't care & didn't want a fatass as a long term relationship... I left after that...we've talked since we split he says he knows now he lost the best & I told him all along what would happen. I've gotten to a size 12 now & OK with myself but still have issues... we tried again a few weeks ago but I couldn't forget his words & his actions seemed to not be the same as his words so I don't know if he truly understands what he did&how much damage he caused...i couldnt continue to try I walked away again. I wish he did know so another woman wouldn't have to go through what I did with him...so seeing a man say he knows his bad behavior caused damage and he learned from it really touches me deeply. More men should be as courageous and swallow their pride as you did!
I just heard this song for the first time tonight on Pandora & I was in tears by the end of the song. Me & my ex were together for 7 years & I messed up more times than I can count. He is my best friend now & to him, that's all I'll ever be to him. I can relate to this song in more ways than one. Thank you for posting it.
I love my ex more than anything and I sit and cry over what I wish could have been and would have been but I cry more overall that I gave and didn't get back nothing but years of. heartache. I wish him the best just wish he could have seen what he had
The things we learn in life can only make us stronger apparently but make you feel so damn stupid but we can run in circles and never understand our choices but stay strong and positive and believe in yourself
Somedays I need to hear this song. I need to remember that very feeling when you said " it's over"! To remind myself to not forget how this feels. And damn if it still doesn't hurt like hell😥
The hardest thing is to have someone fall out of love with you because of the mistakes of treating them poorly, and when you finally do turn things around and become a better person and start to do things right.....it's to late and they've already fallen out of love and they let you go. Moving on from something like that takes time. How much? No one really knows. My ex left me two years ago and I still struggle with it and all the mistakes I made keep haunting me.
I know this post is old, but I found it after watching a similar video and it just hits home!!! The man I've been in love with for the past 5 years has hurt me over and over in many ways, promises to get help with his addiction to drugs and the lies and all of it go away for a bit, and right when I start t Believe that maybe things are different and have hope, he tears me up again by being dishonest, unfaithful and taking me for granted. Maybe it's my fault for forgiving him and loving him no matter What. I dont know. It's so damn hard to be in love with someone who just refuses to make the woman he supposedly loves a priority. I know that women do this too, so I'm not bashing all men. Just so tired of feeling empty, lonely and heartbroken. Tired of always trying and getting hurt in return. Love is not supposed to hurt damnit.
The love of my life waited for me while i wasted my life with someone else...now hes married and we are both miserable. Please Lord bring us back together..
Jaelynn Richardson 😳😳😳😳😩so sad I feel yea same here i tried so hard he didn't give me a time of day he ruined us I tried too understand him but he would not open up too me an couldn't see i loved him so much now I left
I treated my wife like shit and she tried to make it work she put up with all my problems and I pushed her away and now she is gone and I wish I could go back and fix it. if you see this ever Karleigh I love you and I am sorry
Christian Leahy wish my husband would say this to me but he doesn't think i have my limits. I just need him to see that I do and that maybe someday he'll be in the same shoes as you but from what I can see least you admit your mistakes and thats admirable!
At the beginning of my relationship with the most beautiful,honest, trustworthy, literally (my angel) I done just about everything I could do to be the man's that this song was wrote about.I don't know what I ever done to deserve her in the first place ,so I done her like all the others before her done me,BIG MISTAKE,I found out that there is one person on the earth that can change your destiny in life.TAKE IT DOWN THE ROAD IT WAS MEANT TO GO, I try to understand every day,ask myself every day why didn't she quit,why didn't she ever just give up on me.today I honestly believe that there is only one answer.SHE AS PUT IN MY LIFE SO THAT I WOULD HAVE THE ONE AND ONLY CHANCE TO ENJOY WHAT MOST PEOPLE SEARCH FOR ALL THEIR LIVES AND NEVER GET TO BECAUSE OF IT BEING SO RARE (AND THATS TRUE LOVEJUST wanted to thank you for writing this song,AND TO MY REASON FOR LIVING(KAMALA PRINCE)I LOVE YOU AND WILL SPEND THE REST OF MY LIFE PROVING IT TO YOU.THANK YOU FOR EVERYTHING
damn it Blake... this song is the story of my marriage. If you have a good one give her your all cause nothing is set in stone and can be over in a blink of an eye.
Don't ever give up I lost my best friend the man I loved I never got that chance to try to make things work I live with regrets everyday but he's with God thats why I never had a chance don't never give up on what you love
Rebecca Welch you are completly right i was with this guy about 3 2 years ago and we both went our ways well we lived right beside eachother well i lived with my mother they where neighboros and last year he was murdered and about 1 week before he was murdered we had sat down and got to talking and he told me how he felt and i did the same well a week later hes gone never give uo and not say how you feel that will hurt you more then anything
we destroy what we have and then when its to late to fix it we realize how much hurt and damage we have created to the ones we truly love and care about and all we have left is regrets
and then we can only hope and pray we will have a nother chance because the person we hurt means so much more than life itself to us and all we want is that person and a future with that person. I know I have learned from my mistakes and if I get another chance the relationship I had with the man I fell madly in love with will be 3× better and stronger because he is my world and I want nothing more than to spend the rest of my life with hin
@@JamesBrown-zq5zb thank you for saying that, that's really all most women want is for a man to be honest and really realize what they did, own up to it and correct it, then I'll walk by your side cheering him on all the way, but when they refuse to accept accountability, it shows me they aren't truly sorry or haven't understood the severity of how bad they hurt you. God bless you!
Aundria Coleman never regret never forget - som times when u truly love someone u must set them free - I made it impossible for him to love me so he could go in peace - I have nothing good to offer him so he can leave what’s best for him
Many years a go I fell in love with this guy Tom, I tried so hard to win over his love.... All he did was push me away, and away. Only knowing me on his terms. Well after a while, a light turned on... I stopped chasing and started to put me first....I closed that door to walk through a new door ! I fell in love with a great guy and got married, and living a great life... Now on facebook he is back, ( same guy who only knew me on his terms years back ) telling me I am sorry, I love you and on and on. I never meet to hurt you. it goes on and on. The truth is you can only hurt and push away a good lady so many times. Love comes and goes, but true unconditional love last forever ! Never be sorry
Debbie Miller I know the feeling, my husband of almost 23 years together, has done the same things to me, I've learned that he's a Narcissist, & I have Narcissistic Abuse, & now I have to heal from this...before I can ever find a real love ✌️
You have always been the one that I love I needed you when you left me but couldn't make you see that if I could have you back in my life you would see you are all I need.
This song reminds me of what I had once and lost. How I feel so helpless and seems she is happy and living without me just fine? Guess we didnt feel the same, but I still would give It all away to have her back.!! #howlongwillmyHeartbebroken?
my marriage has failed. I was only married for a year and couple months, but before we got married we were fearless, nothing could tear us up. Everyone who knows knows that it was a once in a lifetime love. you can see it in our faces and the way we carried ourselves, eveyone looked up to us and wanted our love we shared. I still love him and my heart aches because I'm starting to see what I didn't do. I took his love for granted. I'll never be able to love anyone else as much as him. kodey you may not ever know this, but you will always be my one and only love of my life. this song says it all too perfect
Im with Lynette. Stop wondering wihat if and tell him how you feel. You never know he may be like my ex and too afraid of being told no so it was easier to not say anything. But he took that chance and now we are back together. I never stopped loving him because he gave up. I knew we were meant to be together even if he didn't. It took him 2 failed marriages after us to realize he still loved me and he tells me everyday that he regrets what he did and will spend the rest of our life trying to make it up to me. But I told him that maybe things happened for a reason and that we both needed the time to grow and realize what we meant to each other. I wish you luck and hope it all works out for you.
I know it's really stupid, but every time I listen to this song I almost hear the person I thought the love of my life sing it to me, and then I start to cry. Probably because I still really care about him and I'm so scared he'll be like my dad was with my mom, regretting leaving me as he watched as I move on and found an amazing life for myself. I know he'll regret letting me walk away, one day he'll realize that he's addiction can never compare to real love. I just hope that he finds someone else that make his as happy (and hopefully happier) then we were, and that when he does he'll have the courage to do what it takes to let the relationship grow and never let them go.
Yes giving up that gorgeous, sweet adoring wife was sad and a horrible decision. So many people take love for granted, clouded by their own goals and successes in the world. Nothing is as precious as a good marriage with a devoted spouse.
This song hits me so hard. I’m going through the toughest time in my life right now. My wife has given me everything she has shown me so much damn love I don’t deserve. I was two damn blind to realize that I had to wake up. Now her and my one month old son are gone and I’m not sure if there coming back. The regret I feel is so strong. I know I’ll get to see my son again one day but I’ll never get the love from my wife again. I really messed up.
I gave 13 years to a man who never figured out that passion is very important in a relationship. No matter what I said or how I showed him what I needed. Man isn't the only one who has desires and needs to be filled !! It's not about your needs its about the Others needs. If you are taking care of each others needs. Then their is plenty of passion in the relationship. I had fallen into a mental depression that I didnt want to be in. He walked into my life one day and, I have since been shown and given more passion one can be given, by another man who is AMAZING 💙
🤗👍 Love when people know how to treat other's that leaves such an impression to be what makes life for another AMAZING ... Not the case in so many relationships today...
I dedicate this to a very amazing friend...I know it's a lovers song, but I even if we were just friends, I wish I could have him back in my life. I really messed up :-/ He prob won't ever read this post, but he is still in my heart and I think about him everyday! Thank you for being there when I needed it most. I am sorry I had to leave- prob would never have done it if I knew it meant loosing you...
"what I didn't do was give my whole heart to you" if it's not too late, it's yours for the taking. Please don't walk away from me. We can make this work. I love you so much sweetheart
me and my ex split 2 weeks becore my birthday and that was over two months ago but i never gave up and one day she messaged me since then weve become stronger than what we once were and our wedding date is next monday
Man this song resonates with me so much ... If you see this just know I'm sorry for everything that happened and I hope you'll see. I don't expect you back, because I don't deserve a girl like you at all, but I want you to know I'm so sorry and if I could do it all over again I would. Despite all of the horrible things I said and did, I want you to know that I would walk through hell and back just to get a girl like you.. any guy would. Don't take love for granted ladies and gents ....
We work on ourselves daily to become the best we can be in life. I am sure you treat her so beautifully. I saw an angry side and I don't know why, maybe you just needed to say goodbye. I wish only happiness for you!❤️
When someone takes you for granted and you try to hold on after 3 years of trying and he still wouldn't love you In return and your give your whole heart and he doesn't it hurts ...
What I didn't do was give my whole heart to you! I stayed to guarded and always waited for the other shoe to drop and it made me run from the one person who loved me for me. All my problems,all my quirkiness, all my flaws he loved me for them. Now, I realize running from him and the relationship we could have had was the worst mistake of my life. My heart will always be his no matter how long it has been or how far away he is. I love you !
I lost my wife and I'm trying to be happy but all I do is think about her. If I could go back I would never do those things again. I pray every night that there is hope and god tells me not to give up just yet and to fight with actions not words because those speak the loudest.
so true, the empty nest is coming to life, sometimes I play your old voice messages just to hear your voice.... a life you choice to leave, I tired with all my heart to be all you wanted, but that was not enough for you till it was too late..... no regrets for raising him along, he is my everything, the last gift you gave me...... sorry I or he could not share that with you... you had so many chances you let fail by the side.... we loved you till the end....
I know you felt this, I tried to warn you, I know you want her back, so never give up on someone you love, beg for that 2nd chance and a redo...... it was what you would not do.... but I know you have it in you to do all she wanted.... never let go of your dream never settle for less.....
Yes love we've been through so much but I still love you! Together we can be greater than apart. We'll just sit together and thank god that we're still together 😍❤️💍💋
I feel the same but i left my ex last august, after a long 3 yr on and off relationship. he tried to win me back but could prove that it was worth it without a repeat of the bad times... and i let go, but he was my 1st true love id say. i gave my all to him. 3 1/2 yrs i cant redo or get back... i do still love him, i guess i always will even if i do have a new bf. things we did make me want him but i can go back to the past anymore. thanks for adding this. i never heard this song before till tonight on my Spotify.
I had to leave my boyfriend after months of fighting for us. He put himself first always, he wouldn't try for us. He allowed his alcoholism & pride get in his way of us working out. I tried everything............. Everything. Googled how to help, how to handle someone fighting with PTSD (he's a firefighter for a big metropolitan FD), how to encourage him, have him see his good not bad, talked to Al Anon. Got his family and friends more involved who already knew he has an issue. Dropped my pride, dropped my own self respect briefly to keep us going. He still admits to being in love with me, I'm the love of his life but I'm afraid that when too much time has passed, I've already found someone & he'll be regretting not correcting his current actions & get help, whatever it is. I'm afraid he'll be like this song. 😢😢😞. I just gotta pray for him as we take our separate journeys 🙏🏼😢😢😢😞😞
+Lucky Luk ..... I wound up finding a man. A gentleman. You hear people say "wait until you find everything you've ever wanted in a person". I am 99% sure I found that person.. He treats me like a Queen, is so humble, caring, a manly man, very successful, and so intelligent it even intimidates me. This man is identical to the most amazing man I know: my father. It's crazy how life pans out....... God is always in control. And for my exes sake, he has admitted his wrongs & is looking into how to help himself (sent me a video a month ago of PTSD & how Christianity helps fellow firefighters & their families). Pray for the best for him.
+Sara Jess That's so awesome, I am so happy to hear you found someone worthy of your love and that treats you good. I too have now found a great woman that treats me so good. Do u have Facebook? Look me up. Lucky Luck is my name on Facebook
Me and my ex of two years who also suffers from PTSD broke up with me and than a month later we got together and he took me for granted , treated me like shit and dumped me again for the second time right after we had a date at the movies, blocked me from everything and told me to stop crying that I'm not the only one that goes through a break up, that he doesn't feel sorry for me for going to counseling due to my depression, and that he didn't understand how I got him into trying it again. .. I hope sooner or later you regret this Parker ,,, than you will know what an amazing women you've lost. at least it doesn't hurt as bad as the first time you broke my heart and this time I have to accept that I have to move on and there is nothing else to fight for.
Yes. It brings back painful memories of my ex-girlfriend who left me 13 years ago. She now has a beautiful little toddler age daughter. She got pregnant by her new ex-military boyfriend. He's since left my ex-girlfriend, because he doesn't want to be a father. That sweet little girl doesn't realize that I exist. My ex-girlfriend is a batshit crazy, mental, narcissistic person. I hear she tells her daughter bad things about me so that her daughter will keep from looking for me. My ex-girlfriend suddenly reappeared in my life (after 13 years) about a year and a half ago to tell me that she was pregnant. Now my ex-girlfriend's daughter is going to grow up without a father. I wish I could be there for that sweet little girl. My ex-girlfriend is pretending to tell her daughter that I don't even exist. That girl is just the most beautiful little thing. It sucks knowing that my ex-girlfriend's daughter has been tricked into not wanting to know me. Yes, things ended badly with my ex-girlfriend 13 years ago, but now she's pushed her now ex-boyfriend away and turned her daughter against the idea of ever getting to know me. That sweet little girl needs me. That sweet little girl needs a stable father in her life. My current girlfriend knows about this situation, but she doesn't want to run afoul of the values instilled in her by her parents. My current girlfriend supports me, but she refuses to listen about my predicament. I'm stuck in a tough position. I know that my ex-girlfriend's daughter will take the time to find me. She needs to know who I am. That sweet little girl needs to know the truth. She needs me.
I messed it up with a girl and what I wouldn't give to go back and do it all right this time... Thank you Blake Shelton for a amazing song you never disappoint.
"I know I was wrong. And I'll never hold you again. Cause of what I wouldn't give." Damn boo, I miss you. I know I did you wrong. I can never change that. I didn't know what I had until you took it away. I'm always gonna love you. Even though you found someone new. Man what I wouldn't give to be with you again.💔 💚J.T.M. you're always gonna be my boo, even if I'm not yours anymore. Always & Forever babe 7-23-11💚
I was with my girl for 5 years and was saving up for a ring when she told me that she didn't think it was right. That was 5 months ago and i just found out that she has a boyfriend. It hurts a lot more than i thought it would. She was my first and i thought would be my only. I still hope that God will bring us back together but i know that no matter what, I am his child and i can find peace in that. But gosh do i miss her.
I know how you feel and maybe not the best giving advice but, keep your head. You have two options move on a find some one new or fight for her and prove you more worthy of her heart. :)
I was with my guy for 5 years too and Jack Daniel Reader i love you more than my own life i miss You and want you back im sorry that i took your love for granted, started all those fights pushed you away made it way to hard for you to love me and made you walk but i pray to god for you each and every day i hope you can forgive me and come back to me someday i Love you to the end of forever and back Jack
I’m so honored to have written this song with two great friends. I was told when I moved to Nashville to not write anything slow or sad, because they were too hard to get recorded. Glad I’m stubborn and didn’t listen. Thank you all so much for listening!
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It’s beautiful 😢
Thank you Charlie.
Thanks for writing A Beautiful Song!
Beautiful song Charlie, I'm sure everyone that's run across it is glad you are stubborn as well.
i think the hardest thing to do is to watch someone fall out of love with you and knowing theres nothing you can do to make them change their minds...to sleep in the same bed as someone and feel miles apart...to feel so alone and not know why they dont love you....thats the hardest part....
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Currently going through this. Just found out my husband no longer loves me. Also found out he's cheating. I can't deal.
I went through the same thing with my ex wife. I tried everything I could think of but it was not good enough.
WOW, you said that better than maybe anyone. Been there!
I’m going thru that in this exact moment and it’s just tearing me apart
This song says it all. This is what a woman truly wants. If you are in a troubled relationship, wake up before you lose your woman. Don't wait until she leaves and try to be what this song is, do it now
YES!
Truest song I've ever heard.. every lyric speaks truth! Never neglect your spouse or you'll lose them alittle at a time and by the time you wake up....their heart belongs to someone else 💔 they get tired of trying and die alittle each day...
Hi. How are you doing Trish 🌹🌹
IT IS NICE TO SEE A GUY OR TWO OPEN UP AND ADMIT WHEN THEY SCREWED UP
Lisa yes it is!
I did big time
Lisa Green if a guy doesn't admit when he is wrong then e never cared
Lisa Green no its another drama to get hold and control
Definitely I screwed up with my ex the way I acted was like she would never leave and she did and I hold no bad feeling to her it was my negative behaviour that caused that to happen
Some people dont appreciate someone until theyve lost them.... sometimes a broken heart cant be healed.....You hurt too much, you didnt think twice about destroying a heart, a life...💔
Hello. I agree with you sometimes a broken heart can be healed. How are you doing MS 🌹🌹
This song reminds me of me how I give my all and I keep trying but never got the loved I feel I should get in return😢
Probably not am sorry
😭😭
Keep going sweetie.. Love is out their. You will find what your looking for keep growing g as a person the right one will come if you believe an dont settle... Hugs. Prayers for the love you seek..
I would no lie
Sylvia Quiroga same
😢 been there. Heart wrenching
This song is 100% word for word what is happening to me... I love her more than anything in this world and always will... I have been trying my best for the past 2 months to change and be a better person and I truly believe that she will see it and give me one more chance. Trust me, it is not easy but I need my family back and I will do anything and fight for it until I get her back.. no other girls. No hook ups. Just focus on her coming back..
😢👍
This song is dedicated to the one I let go from my immature actions. As painful it is, it's starting to dawn on me that I wasn't the right man for her. She will make the right man so happy and I wish nothing but the best of happiness for her. She deserves the best. You will always be in my heart Meg.
That's beautiful💯💜😢
It brings back painful memories of my ex-girlfriend who left me 13 years ago. She now has a beautiful little toddler age daughter. She got pregnant by her new ex-military boyfriend. He's since left my ex-girlfriend, because he doesn't want to be a father. That sweet little girl doesn't realize that I exist. My ex-girlfriend is a batshit crazy, mental, narcissistic person. I hear she tells her daughter bad things about me so that her daughter will keep from looking for me. My ex-girlfriend suddenly reappeared in my life (after 13 years) about a year and a half ago to tell me that she was pregnant. Now my ex-girlfriend's daughter is going to grow up without a father. I wish I could be there for that sweet little girl. My ex-girlfriend is pretending to tell her daughter that I don't even exist. That girl is just the most beautiful little thing. It sucks knowing that my ex-girlfriend's daughter has been tricked into not wanting to know me. Yes, things ended badly with my ex-girlfriend 13 years ago, but now she's pushed her now ex-boyfriend away and turned her daughter against the idea of ever getting to know me. That sweet little girl needs me. That sweet little girl needs a stable father in her life. My current girlfriend knows about this situation, but she doesn't want to run afoul of the values instilled in her by her parents. My current girlfriend supports me, but she refuses to listen about my predicament. I'm stuck in a tough position. I know that my ex-girlfriend's daughter will take the time to find me. She needs to know who I am. That sweet little girl needs to know the truth. She needs me.
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@@stuartadamsrailfanningvideos I hope you get to know your daughter very soon... I'm in the process of finding my own father that I have been searching for since I was 10 years old.... And I am now 25 years old .. I pray that you and your daughter build that needed relationship God bless you and may he watch over you and your daughter ❤
As much as this song meant to me when I made this video, I have learned a lot since 2010. My ex and I had recently divorced, and I had a lot of regrets at the time. I basically made this just to send to her, but to this day she still hasn't spoken to me. I was broken, filled with shame, guilt, anger, and sorrow. I truly believed I had nothing left. I had a wonderful wife, who I treated like dirt. My behavior and actions were absolutely dehumanizing. The best thing she did, for the both of us, was leave. By the time I realized the truth of the situation, it was too late. Its been a long road since then. What I've realized is that she will always have a place in my heart, and in my past. I may never see or speak to her again, and I am okay with that today. She shouldn't have to relive the nightmare of our past together. All I can hope for is her own personal happiness. On my end, I've definitely tried to learn from my mistakes. I've opened my heart to another wonderful woman, and see a bright future between us. With a lot of continuous support, I've been able to change most of my damaging behaviors that ruined my first marriage. I am able to give much more today, and not be so self-centered. Sometimes our past is our biggest asset. When I think about falling back in to old behaviors, I just remember the life altering consequences they had on my ex. I want to give my future wife everything she deserves, and more.
+Matt Wuerth~~ it IS a journey and we do learn from our mistakes. I wish you and your lady much happiness the second time around. Be good to her and she will return your love many times over.
+Matt Wuerth - We are products of our past, but we don't have to be prisoners of it. And then wisdom comes from life experience, life experience is the result of repeatedly taking corrective action while courageously learning from mistakes. God bless your heart, be good and Good luck!!!
my boyfriend is in the same way with me after seven years together he wants to throw it away. instead of working things out with me I gave him so much love and never got none in return an tim thank you for sharing your story you really inspired me I think God gave you a second chance hold on to that woman don't let her go if she is a good woman as you said because its so hard to find someone good nowadays
I am in tears reading your comment! I am so happy you have been able to see the faults&mistakes, own them & most importantly learn from them! You are a lucky man and your girlfriend is lucky as well. To have someone who is knowledgeable of what bad behavior can do to another is truly rare. Best wishes and congratulations on finding the best of you. I was in a 3 year relationship with a man who had 2 sides, I fell in love with the wonderful side to only find out he had a dark side. we both made mistakes, I have&will own my faults but he still blames me for all his. We've been apart for almost 5 months and I've heard so many things he's said while together and then apart that it breaks my heart. I tried so hard to make him see that his choice of words & pulling away & silent treatment would be our demise that I couldn't be strong enough to fight for us both all the time...but sadly he failed to hear me. From the moment we met we had a connection & was able to talk openly but it changed with time. I had told him my biggest weakness was being self conscious of my weight...I wasn't terribly over weight or anything just came from another past relationship&my weaknesses...when we met I was a size 12/14 he acted as if I was a beauty queen never made me question my body imagine until a drunk fight he called me a fat ass...I struggled from then on & nearly every fight there after he used that as a weapon of choice. I gained about 15 pounds up to 14/16...then I decided I needed to get myself back so I lost back to 12/14 size felt OK but I allowed his distance, negative comments &rejection to crush me still...when I begged the last time for him to realize I wasn't strong enough anymore...he laughed said he didn't care & didn't want a fatass as a long term relationship... I left after that...we've talked since we split he says he knows now he lost the best & I told him all along what would happen. I've gotten to a size 12 now & OK with myself but still have issues... we tried again a few weeks ago but I couldn't forget his words & his actions seemed to not be the same as his words so I don't know if he truly understands what he did&how much damage he caused...i couldnt continue to try I walked away again. I wish he did know so another woman wouldn't have to go through what I did with him...so seeing a man say he knows his bad behavior caused damage and he learned from it really touches me deeply. More men should be as courageous and swallow their pride as you did!
I am in tears reading your comment! I am so happy you have been able to see the faults&mistakes, own them & most importantly learn from them! You are a lucky man and your girlfriend is lucky as well. To have someone who is knowledgeable of what bad behavior can do to another is truly rare. Best wishes and congratulations on finding the best of you. I was in a 3 year relationship with a man who had 2 sides, I fell in love with the wonderful side to only find out he had a dark side. we both made mistakes, I have&will own my faults but he still blames me for all his. We've been apart for almost 5 months and I've heard so many things he's said while together and then apart that it breaks my heart. I tried so hard to make him see that his choice of words & pulling away & silent treatment would be our demise that I couldn't be strong enough to fight for us both all the time...but sadly he failed to hear me. From the moment we met we had a connection & was able to talk openly but it changed with time. I had told him my biggest weakness was being self conscious of my weight...I wasn't terribly over weight or anything just came from another past relationship&my weaknesses...when we met I was a size 12/14 he acted as if I was a beauty queen never made me question my body imagine until a drunk fight he called me a fat ass...I struggled from then on & nearly every fight there after he used that as a weapon of choice. I gained about 15 pounds up to 14/16...then I decided I needed to get myself back so I lost back to 12/14 size felt OK but I allowed his distance, negative comments &rejection to crush me still...when I begged the last time for him to realize I wasn't strong enough anymore...he laughed said he didn't care & didn't want a fatass as a long term relationship... I left after that...we've talked since we split he says he knows now he lost the best & I told him all along what would happen. I've gotten to a size 12 now & OK with myself but still have issues... we tried again a few weeks ago but I couldn't forget his words & his actions seemed to not be the same as his words so I don't know if he truly understands what he did&how much damage he caused...i couldnt continue to try I walked away again. I wish he did know so another woman wouldn't have to go through what I did with him...so seeing a man say he knows his bad behavior caused damage and he learned from it really touches me deeply. More men should be as courageous and swallow their pride as you did!
I just heard this song for the first time tonight on Pandora & I was in tears by the end of the song. Me & my ex were together for 7 years & I messed up more times than I can count. He is my best friend now & to him, that's all I'll ever be to him. I can relate to this song in more ways than one. Thank you for posting it.
I love my ex more than anything and I sit and cry over what I wish could have been and would have been but I cry more overall that I gave and didn't get back nothing but years of. heartache. I wish him the best just wish he could have seen what he had
The things we learn in life can only make us stronger apparently but make you feel so damn stupid but we can run in circles and never understand our choices but stay strong and positive and believe in yourself
amarie so why not fight for him GO GET HIM!!
Charlotte Donaldson im sorry Im in the same boat...💔
This song can go 1 or 2 ways. Giving your all to someone who taken you for granted. Or taking that person for granted and being the one who messed up.
I once loved someone I still love her . I wish I was still with her I love her and no other will take her place.
Somedays I need to hear this song. I need to remember that very feeling when you said " it's over"!
To remind myself to not forget how this feels.
And damn if it still doesn't hurt like hell😥
What I wouldn't give is a song that explains to much of me. Great work Blake Shelton!!!! I love this song!!!!
The hardest thing is to have someone fall out of love with you because of the mistakes of treating them poorly, and when you finally do turn things around and become a better person and start to do things right.....it's to late and they've already fallen out of love and they let you go. Moving on from something like that takes time. How much? No one really knows. My ex left me two years ago and I still struggle with it and all the mistakes I made keep haunting me.
Don't let the mistakes haunt you. Learn from them.
I know this post is old, but I found it after watching a similar video and it just hits home!!! The man I've been in love with for the past 5 years has hurt me over and over in many ways, promises to get help with his addiction to drugs and the lies and all of it go away for a bit, and right when I start t Believe that maybe things are different and have hope, he tears me up again by being dishonest, unfaithful and taking me for granted. Maybe it's my fault for forgiving him and loving him no matter What. I dont know. It's so damn hard to be in love with someone who just refuses to make the woman he supposedly loves a priority. I know that women do this too, so I'm not bashing all men. Just so tired of feeling empty, lonely and heartbroken. Tired of always trying and getting hurt in return. Love is not supposed to hurt damnit.
i miss blake shelton's old songs..they were by far the best. the most emotional. the deepest. his songs now are not bad, but i miss this.
I pushed away someone that I truly love and now I have to see him with someone else in his arms where I should be.
Jaelynn Richardson I've been there is tried my hardest to make it work and the he moved on.
It takes two
The love of my life waited for me while i wasted my life with someone else...now hes married and we are both miserable. Please Lord bring us back together..
Jaelynn Richardson 😳😳😳😳😩so sad I feel yea same here i tried so hard he didn't give me a time of day he ruined us I tried too understand him but he would not open up too me an couldn't see i loved him so much now I left
Love is a drug i never wanna live again.....i hate myself for doing this
I treated my wife like shit and she tried to make it work she put up with all my problems and I pushed her away and now she is gone and I wish I could go back and fix it. if you see this ever Karleigh I love you and I am sorry
Christian Leahy I know what you mean man same shit happened to me
Christian Leahy good one
Christian Leahy wish my husband would say this to me but he doesn't think i have my limits. I just need him to see that I do and that maybe someday he'll be in the same shoes as you but from what I can see least you admit your mistakes and thats admirable!
My 💓 aches for you. Cause I know how n wht it feels like to lose a LOVE
Christian Leahy wow
Pray bro
I wish my ex would tell me this
I love him so much
Why do men push away or throw away a good woman?
At the beginning of my relationship with the most beautiful,honest, trustworthy, literally (my angel) I done just about everything I could do to be the man's that this song was wrote about.I don't know what I ever done to deserve her in the first place ,so I done her like all the others before her done me,BIG MISTAKE,I found out that there is one person on the earth that can change your destiny in life.TAKE IT DOWN THE ROAD IT WAS MEANT TO GO, I try to understand every day,ask myself every day why didn't she quit,why didn't she ever just give up on me.today I honestly believe that there is only one answer.SHE AS PUT IN MY LIFE SO THAT I WOULD HAVE THE ONE AND ONLY CHANCE TO ENJOY WHAT MOST PEOPLE SEARCH FOR ALL THEIR LIVES AND NEVER GET TO BECAUSE OF IT BEING SO RARE (AND THATS TRUE LOVEJUST wanted to thank you for writing this song,AND TO MY REASON FOR LIVING(KAMALA PRINCE)I LOVE YOU AND WILL SPEND THE REST OF MY LIFE PROVING IT TO YOU.THANK YOU FOR EVERYTHING
The song that came from the heart.... just love all your songs Blake Shelton
I wrote this song in 2001 with two good friends. So glad you like it. Thank you!
@@charliebrown2828 okay, n I like it
damn it Blake... this song is the story of my marriage. If you have a good one give her your all cause nothing is set in stone and can be over in a blink of an eye.
Don't ever give up I lost my best friend the man I loved I never got that chance to try to make things work I live with regrets everyday but he's with God thats why I never had a chance don't never give up on what you love
Rebecca Welch you are completly right i was with this guy about 3 2 years ago and we both went our ways well we lived right beside eachother well i lived with my mother they where neighboros and last year he was murdered and about 1 week before he was murdered we had sat down and got to talking and he told me how he felt and i did the same well a week later hes gone never give uo and not say how you feel that will hurt you more then anything
Rebecca Welch sorry for your loss. sorry if I'm out of line but. may I ask what happened to your guy?
This song sums it up perfectly.Love it. Helps you to make the decision to move on.
we destroy what we have and then when its to late to fix it we realize how much hurt and damage we have created to the ones we truly love and care about and all we have left is regrets
and then we can only hope and pray we will have a nother chance because the person we hurt means so much more than life itself to us and all we want is that person and a future with that person. I know I have learned from my mistakes and if I get another chance the relationship I had with the man I fell madly in love with will be 3× better and stronger because he is my world and I want nothing more than to spend the rest of my life with hin
We destroy what we have because we are tempted for other things and we forget about what we already have.
@@JamesBrown-zq5zb thank you for saying that, that's really all most women want is for a man to be honest and really realize what they did, own up to it and correct it, then I'll walk by your side cheering him on all the way, but when they refuse to accept accountability, it shows me they aren't truly sorry or haven't understood the severity of how bad they hurt you. God bless you!
So true
Aundria Coleman never regret never forget - som times when u truly love someone u must set them free - I made it impossible for him to love me so he could go in peace - I have nothing good to offer him so he can leave what’s best for him
Many years a go I fell in love with this guy Tom, I tried so hard to win over his love.... All he did was push me away, and away. Only knowing me on his terms. Well after a while, a light turned on... I stopped chasing and started to put me first....I closed that door to walk through a new door ! I fell in love with a great guy and got married, and living a great life... Now on facebook he is back, ( same guy who only knew me on his terms years back ) telling me I am sorry, I love you and on and on. I never meet to hurt you. it goes on and on. The truth is you can only hurt and push away a good lady so many times. Love comes and goes, but true unconditional love last forever ! Never be sorry
Debbie Miller I know the feeling, my husband of almost 23 years together, has done the same things to me, I've learned that he's a Narcissist, & I have Narcissistic Abuse, & now I have to heal from this...before I can ever find a real love ✌️
Debbie Miller if I had option to love this comment I would
Lesson learned
I wish that would work for me right now. I'm so broken but all I hear is time heals all wounds. I'm not totally sure about that.
Good for u let him feel how he made u feel and he didnt care then why now
so glad i woke up b4 it was to late,i love you Angie Box.....
Did you send that song by Blake Shelton
@@annsimpkins8207 I did not know I sent it. I'm sorry ..
Oh baby,I forgive you. Give me your whole heart now. I still want you. Great song. Resonates.
Going through hard times with my husband now... Love this song.
beautiful song thanks for sharein
Its truly a beautiful song!
You have always been the one that I love I needed you when you left me but couldn't make you see that if I could have you back in my life you would see you are all I need.
Yes so true
This song reminds me of what I had once and lost. How I feel so helpless and seems she is happy and living without me just fine? Guess we didnt feel the same, but I still would give It all away to have her back.!! #howlongwillmyHeartbebroken?
my marriage has failed. I was only married for a year and couple months, but before we got married we were fearless, nothing could tear us up. Everyone who knows knows that it was a once in a lifetime love. you can see it in our faces and the way we carried ourselves, eveyone looked up to us and wanted our love we shared. I still love him and my heart aches because I'm starting to see what I didn't do. I took his love for granted. I'll never be able to love anyone else as much as him. kodey you may not ever know this, but you will always be my one and only love of my life. this song says it all too perfect
+Stephanie Saulus then dam girl go get him...
Im with Lynette. Stop wondering wihat if and tell him how you feel. You never know he may be like my ex and too afraid of being told no so it was easier to not say anything. But he took that chance and now we are back together. I never stopped loving him because he gave up. I knew we were meant to be together even if he didn't. It took him 2 failed marriages after us to realize he still loved me and he tells me everyday that he regrets what he did and will spend the rest of our life trying to make it up to me. But I told him that maybe things happened for a reason and that we both needed the time to grow and realize what we meant to each other. I wish you luck and hope it all works out for you.
Same boat here :(
Great song!!! Can't stop crying :'(
So beautifully written ❤️
Appreciate that so much
My heart wasn't prepared for this💔
I don't think anyone's heart is prepared for pain and regret darling...
beautiful
I love this song!!!! you rock Blake
WOW!!!! Why have I never heard this great song?????
This song brought absolute tears too my eyes I was left in July with no closure or anything else
@Robin Anderson hello I’m good and u
always love u juan ❤
I know it's really stupid, but every time I listen to this song I almost hear the person I thought the love of my life sing it to me, and then I start to cry. Probably because I still really care about him and I'm so scared he'll be like my dad was with my mom, regretting leaving me as he watched as I move on and found an amazing life for myself.
I know he'll regret letting me walk away, one day he'll realize that he's addiction can never compare to real love. I just hope that he finds someone else that make his as happy (and hopefully happier) then we were, and that when he does he'll have the courage to do what it takes to let the relationship grow and never let them go.
Yes giving up that gorgeous, sweet adoring wife was sad and a horrible decision. So many people take love for granted, clouded by their own goals and successes in the world. Nothing is as precious as a good marriage with a devoted spouse.
This song hits me so hard. I’m going through the toughest time in my life right now. My wife has given me everything she has shown me so much damn love I don’t deserve. I was two damn blind to realize that I had to wake up. Now her and my one month old son are gone and I’m not sure if there coming back. The regret I feel is so strong. I know I’ll get to see my son again one day but I’ll never get the love from my wife again. I really messed up.
Women have an amazing way of forgiving when your honest and real with how you feel.
I love Blake!! This is such a great song.
do not let what you did wrong keep you from the one you love.... give it your all... amment it...
Lorrie whitley i so agree he loves Miranda lambert still this is about her after he got the divorce i think he was sorry he did it
I gave 13 years to a man who never figured out that passion is very important in a relationship. No matter what I said or how I showed him what I needed.
Man isn't the only one who has desires and needs to be filled !!
It's not about your needs its about the Others needs. If you are taking care of each others needs. Then their is plenty of passion in the relationship.
I had fallen into a mental depression that I didnt want to be in. He walked into my life one day and, I have since been shown and given more passion one can be given, by another man who is AMAZING 💙
🤗👍 Love when people know how to treat other's that leaves such an impression to be what makes life for another AMAZING ... Not the case in so many relationships today...
Sad though
I need to show this to my daddy so he realizes how much he's breaking my mom's heart! :-( 💜
Yes
That's not your job baby.
Love this song
This is the kinda song that should be on the radio.....
Woah! This song is perfect for my current situation 😩. My goodness, right on.
I miss this blake shelton... Come backk!!
I dedicate this to a very amazing friend...I know it's a lovers song, but I even if we were just friends, I wish I could have him back in my life. I really messed up :-/ He prob won't ever read this post, but he is still in my heart and I think about him everyday! Thank you for being there when I needed it most. I am sorry I had to leave- prob would never have done it if I knew it meant loosing you...
Oh wow hits me hard..cause i gave you my whole heart and ive heard nothing for days.. i wish i knew wht you were gone.
I love this song The lyrics and the sound of guitar
Best yet!
wow I miss him so much 😢
Thank you for sharing this song
"what I didn't do was give my whole heart to you" if it's not too late, it's yours for the taking. Please don't walk away from me. We can make this work. I love you so much sweetheart
Can we make it work?? I love you more!!!😘💯❤
Master piece.
me and my ex split 2 weeks becore my birthday and that was over two months ago but i never gave up and one day she messaged me since then weve become stronger than what we once were and our wedding date is next monday
Justin Woolford z
I love let's go home
@@jimmiekimwright2918 😘💯❤
I have sadly felt this kind of pain God has comforted me
Man this song resonates with me so much ... If you see this just know I'm sorry for everything that happened and I hope you'll see. I don't expect you back, because I don't deserve a girl like you at all, but I want you to know I'm so sorry and if I could do it all over again I would. Despite all of the horrible things I said and did, I want you to know that I would walk through hell and back just to get a girl like you.. any guy would. Don't take love for granted ladies and gents ....
Love this song !❤️
We work on ourselves daily to become the best we can be in life. I am sure you treat her so beautifully. I saw an angry side and I don't know why, maybe you just needed to say goodbye. I wish only happiness for you!❤️
Im Speechless with tears& beyond words Emotions😢😢😢 of how my heart only is for you no matter what im Alwayswithyouonly youMyLove 4ever
he is a great he heartfelt singer the words come from his heart and the man he is you go blake your my cowboy man and that's sexy
🤠
thank you for this one
Blake Shelton is the best artist. To live
James Reed yeah your right
I WOULD NOT GO THAT FAR, MIRANDA IS WAY BETTER
Lisa Green noooo
Lisa Green BOTH of them are EQUALLY as talented.
I want to go back way back when. 🥺💖
He's always held my heart because I gave it to him. 😥🙏
He's always held my heart because I gave it to him. 😥🙏
When someone takes you for granted and you try to hold on after 3 years of trying and he still wouldn't love you In return and your give your whole heart and he doesn't it hurts ...
Natasha B try holding on for 17yrs! Come to find out... it’s all my fault!
It funny never heard this song. Before but it surely hit home for me
I'll give anything to go back to the way it was at first ,
May , 10 , 15
Wouldn't we all...
Let's do it
@@jimmiekimwright2918 R u serious???? If you are serious come & get me ??
The way things stand this should become our 2nd national anthem.
What I didn't do was give my whole heart to you! I stayed to guarded and always waited for the other shoe to drop and it made me run from the one person who loved me for me. All my problems,all my quirkiness, all my flaws he loved me for them. Now, I realize running from him and the relationship we could have had was the worst mistake of my life. My heart will always be his no matter how long it has been or how far away he is. I love you !
I can relate to all of that
Beautiful song if only for sure
I lost my wife and I'm trying to be happy but all I do is think about her. If I could go back I would never do those things again. I pray every night that there is hope and god tells me not to give up just yet and to fight with actions not words because those speak the loudest.
True
I feel your pain
Reminds me of the man I still sit here wondering why..
Truly i want her back .and i wish i could of been a better Man . the mistakes i made. I now wish i never made .
so true, the empty nest is coming to life, sometimes I play your old voice messages just to hear your voice.... a life you choice to leave, I tired with all my heart to be all you wanted, but that was not enough for you till it was too late..... no regrets for raising him along, he is my everything, the last gift you gave me...... sorry I or he could not share that with you... you had so many chances you let fail by the side.... we loved you till the end....
I know you felt this, I tried to warn you, I know you want her back, so never give up on someone you love, beg for that 2nd chance and a redo...... it was what you would not do.... but I know you have it in you to do all she wanted.... never let go of your dream never settle for less.....
Love it
Yes love we've been through so much but I still love you! Together we can be greater than apart. We'll just sit together and thank god that we're still together
😍❤️💍💋
Awesome! I literally could not find this anywhere!! Thanks :)
I feel the same but i left my ex last august, after a long 3 yr on and off relationship. he tried to win me back but could prove that it was worth it without a repeat of the bad times... and i let go, but he was my 1st true love id say. i gave my all to him. 3 1/2 yrs i cant redo or get back... i do still love him, i guess i always will even if i do have a new bf. things we did make me want him but i can go back to the past anymore. thanks for adding this. i never heard this song before till tonight on my Spotify.
Its never to late ❤❤❤❤
I had to leave my boyfriend after months of fighting for us. He put himself first always, he wouldn't try for us. He allowed his alcoholism & pride get in his way of us working out. I tried everything............. Everything. Googled how to help, how to handle someone fighting with PTSD (he's a firefighter for a big metropolitan FD), how to encourage him, have him see his good not bad, talked to Al Anon. Got his family and friends more involved who already knew he has an issue. Dropped my pride, dropped my own self respect briefly to keep us going. He still admits to being in love with me, I'm the love of his life but I'm afraid that when too much time has passed, I've already found someone & he'll be regretting not correcting his current actions & get help, whatever it is. I'm afraid he'll be like this song. 😢😢😞. I just gotta pray for him as we take our separate journeys 🙏🏼😢😢😢😞😞
I was in the same situation and it's hard but sometimes we have to do what's best and let go. It hurts tho!
+Lucky Luk ..... I wound up finding a man. A gentleman. You hear people say "wait until you find everything you've ever wanted in a person". I am 99% sure I found that person.. He treats me like a Queen, is so humble, caring, a manly man, very successful, and so intelligent it even intimidates me. This man is identical to the most amazing man I know: my father. It's crazy how life pans out....... God is always in control. And for my exes sake, he has admitted his wrongs & is looking into how to help himself (sent me a video a month ago of PTSD & how Christianity helps fellow firefighters & their families). Pray for the best for him.
+Sara Jess That's so awesome, I am so happy to hear you found someone worthy of your love and that treats you good. I too have now found a great woman that treats me so good. Do u have Facebook? Look me up. Lucky Luck is my name on Facebook
Me and my ex of two years who also suffers from PTSD broke up with me and than a month later we got together and he took me for granted , treated me like shit and dumped me again for the second time right after we had a date at the movies, blocked me from everything and told me to stop crying that I'm not the only one that goes through a break up, that he doesn't feel sorry for me for going to counseling due to my depression, and that he didn't understand how I got him into trying it again. .. I hope sooner or later you regret this Parker ,,, than you will know what an amazing women you've lost. at least it doesn't hurt as bad as the first time you broke my heart and this time I have to accept that I have to move on and there is nothing else to fight for.
Yes. It brings back painful memories of my ex-girlfriend who left me 13 years ago. She now has a beautiful little toddler age daughter. She got pregnant by her new ex-military boyfriend. He's since left my ex-girlfriend, because he doesn't want to be a father. That sweet little girl doesn't realize that I exist. My ex-girlfriend is a batshit crazy, mental, narcissistic person. I hear she tells her daughter bad things about me so that her daughter will keep from looking for me. My ex-girlfriend suddenly reappeared in my life (after 13 years) about a year and a half ago to tell me that she was pregnant. Now my ex-girlfriend's daughter is going to grow up without a father. I wish I could be there for that sweet little girl. My ex-girlfriend is pretending to tell her daughter that I don't even exist. That girl is just the most beautiful little thing. It sucks knowing that my ex-girlfriend's daughter has been tricked into not wanting to know me. Yes, things ended badly with my ex-girlfriend 13 years ago, but now she's pushed her now ex-boyfriend away and turned her daughter against the idea of ever getting to know me. That sweet little girl needs me. That sweet little girl needs a stable father in her life. My current girlfriend knows about this situation, but she doesn't want to run afoul of the values instilled in her by her parents. My current girlfriend supports me, but she refuses to listen about my predicament. I'm stuck in a tough position. I know that my ex-girlfriend's daughter will take the time to find me. She needs to know who I am. That sweet little girl needs to know the truth. She needs me.
ouch! livin' that right now....You'll always be in my heart Emily....
I just wish I had the chance .... Id give everything
I messed it up with a girl and what I wouldn't give to go back and do it all right this time... Thank you Blake Shelton for a amazing song you never disappoint.
The past hurts but you got to go forward cause there's someone out there
U baby only u
Only u only u
We both let pride get the best of us... I’ll never forget the memories ... they we’re good
"I know I was wrong. And I'll never hold you again. Cause of what I wouldn't give."
Damn boo, I miss you. I know I did you wrong. I can never change that. I didn't know what I had until you took it away. I'm always gonna love you. Even though you found someone new. Man what I wouldn't give to be with you again.💔
💚J.T.M. you're always gonna be my boo, even if I'm not yours anymore. Always & Forever babe 7-23-11💚
❤️ Some people just can’t give...
I was with my girl for 5 years and was saving up for a ring when she told me that she didn't think it was right. That was 5 months ago and i just found out that she has a boyfriend. It hurts a lot more than i thought it would. She was my first and i thought would be my only. I still hope that God will bring us back together but i know that no matter what, I am his child and i can find peace in that. But gosh do i miss her.
I know how you feel and maybe not the best giving advice but, keep your head. You have two options move on a find some one new or fight for her and prove you more worthy of her heart. :)
Stephen Dalton it just wasn't meant to be! Let it go.... It's hard but let it go
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Its hard to see that you'll get over it but you will trust me
I was with my guy for 5 years too and Jack Daniel Reader i love you more than my own life i miss You and want you back im sorry that i took your love for granted, started all those fights pushed you away made it way to hard for you to love me and made you walk but i pray to god for you each and every day i hope you can forgive me and come back to me someday i Love you to the end of forever and back Jack
Saddest song ever heard
It's never too late. Let's try again.