Men, if you want your women to look good, then let her sleep! Get up and take care of the kids! Give her time to put makeup on. Give her time to workout and exercise!! That means y’all men need to take care of the kids while your wife gets time to take care of herself. AND clean up after yourselves!! Yes, the lady in this story like many need to do it for herself and not her husband, but Hmong men need to change too!! If y’all want sexy, then y’all need to get off ya phone, get up from the couch, feed the kids or wash the dishes, so your wife can put makeup on!
It’s doesn’t matter how many plastic surgery you done to yourself, it never satisfy Hmong men, they alway have an eye to other women so love yourself and stay healthy.....
Why do hmong women keep allowing their men to cheat and you’re dying to take them back! A cheater will always be a cheater! Have “respect” for yourself. He didn’t love you.
This is to all women out there. The way I see it, if you can get ur degree first, have a secure career so when ur man decides to cheat or leave you, you can still take care yourself and ur kids financially. Take ur husband to court, use the full extent of the laws that intended for all citizens. Don’t even try to accommodate ur husband’s side of the family because they are looking out for the best interest of him only. So be brave and don’t let a man step on u like that.
If you want to have surgery than Do it for yourself and no one else! Love yourself and no one else when it comes to this kind of surgery. Improve yourself for yourself! Who cares about anyone else.
Ua neej nyob nyias nyiam nyias. Qhov no muab siv tsis tau rau txhua tus. Tej tus kuj nyiam li no tej tus kuj nyiam natural beaty dua mus ua tej yam cuav li no os...
Koj kho tau koj tu kheej zoo nkauj kawg lawm thaum koj tsis zoo nkauj nws xav nrhiav dua tu tshiab tsam tom ntej no koj ho muaj mob ne nws ho yuav tso koj tseg tu neeg ko nws xav hlub thaum koj zoo xwb os
Lady, you have insecurity issues. True beauty is within. Txhob xav tias koj mus design koj tus kheej tag ces people are jealous of you. People don't really care about your looks, your character is more important. A man that truly loves you, his eyes is on you only. Tsi ntev ces yus yuav laus, txoj kev zoo nkauj yeej yuav ploj mus. Hloov koj tus kheej for yourself and not for anyone else. Be independent, if he wants other women...open the door for him.
If you think that beauty is within, you are kidding yourself!! LOL. Most Men want to be with a woman who looks beautiful outside!! I wouldn’t date an ugly looking guy!!
In life, depending on what you see in beauty. People are beautiful in their own way. Everyone is beautiful. Physical beauty is not what I was looking for.
MsB You funny. I see a lot of good looking dudes cheating on their beautiful significant others with mediocre chicks all the time like ugly dudes. I’ve seen a lot of handsome men with ugly or ok looking women and they use the pretty girls for sex and dumps them in the end. Looks fade with age, but a good heart remains like someone’s bad attitude when their looks do fade. I’d rather choose a person who has a good heart any day bc we all can’t fight aging! You can’t be ugly when you lose your looks, and be old and mean at the same time. It’s a damn struggle Lol
If your husband truly loves you, he’ll love you no matter what. Don’t need to do all that. There are men that are attracted to outer beauty, there are men that are attracted to beauty within, which a women that cooks and clean and a good wife.
One of my pet peeves - when women put themselves down and say they’re “pojniam poob peev”. Really? Who can birth a human? No man can level up to that! There good men out there. Find one that will value you. 💕
Father, train your daughters to be independent. A woman deserves a man that loves her and only has eyes for only her. Train the sons to be real men. A real man loves only one woman and has his eyes on his woman. Teach our daughters and sons to love themselves enough and not walking into that kind of marriage. Peace.
Yes I hate that too, if anything after having kids your values should be even more precious and appreciated. Men should know where they came out of . 🤷🏼♀️
If you did it for yourself, more power to you but to do it for a man who only love you for your beauty is sad. You’re the one hurting, not him. He needs to look at himself and see if he is the same person 20-30 years ago. What’s next for him? If he doesn’t find you sexy anymore after surgery then what’s next for you?
I doubt ppl are jealous about her plastic surgery if they’re telling her to love herself. They may have gone through that experience themselves and it didn’t work out in the long run or they seen that happen with a friend or a sister for an example. Anyway, I used to intern for a plastic surgery clinic and I’ve seen most of the ins and outs. I concluded that it’s best if women love themselves vs. altering their figures to satisfy their cheating husband who will cheat again in the future. We all can’t fight aging bc it’s a natural process for humans. Love thyself and drop those who can’t love you. As men get older, most of them don’t even want to alter their figures for the sake of their partners bc it ain’t viagra.
Tus txiv zoo li koj tus txiv no koj txhob rawm zoo zoo siab pw tsaug zog nawb tus mi viv ncaus aw..tsam ib hnub koj plawv lam nres thiab os after all those plastic surgery na. Tu siab rau peb cov poj niam ruam ruam kawg.
Zoo nkauj thiab zoo nraug yog ib vuag dua xwb tabsis kev hlub tiag2 thiaj kav ntev2. True Love is unconditional just the way you are. Cheaters or players need to change. It is extremely hard to change someone that doesn't Love you.
That is why we Hmoob women have to take care and put ourselves first and let the men do more to help. We should not let them do nothing and stay like kings and being an S.
Koj ua tau zoo nkauj lawm ces hnub twg koj mus khos tau koj tus niam hluas los yog yim nram, rov tuaj qhia rau peb nawb. Zoo siab ua koj tus txiv rov los hlub koj lawm.
Everyone should take care of themselves. Never put yourself under the blade just to keep someone in your life. Do it because you want to do it. A person will never look elsewhere if they sincerely love you.
Ua tsag os tus niam tsev. Muaj ib txhia poj niam lawv txaj2 muag lawv thiaj li pawv txiv. Cia siab tias ib co poj niam yuav xyaum li koj thiab. Kuv los kuj nyiam li ko thiab....👍
If you had to change yourself for your husband because he cannot appreciate the fact you have given him 5+ kids is a pretty sad reason. You should want to do it because you already love yourself and want to do something for yourself because we women know having lots of kids put a toll on our body. Because hunnay if you dont love yourself aint no one going to love you.
Yog kawg peb cov txiv dev liam lawv yeej hais tias koj yog ib tug niam tsev txhawj ua noj ua haus kwv tij neej tsa qhuas los koj tsis paub txoj hauj lwm hmo ntuj yaim ko taw ti taub hau ces koj yeej yog tus poj niam tsis zoo thiab tsis muaj nqis os yog hais txog qhov ko ces ua tsis tau es tsis tau txiv yuav los kav liam yus nyob yus zoo dua vim yawm saub tsim peb los yawm saub tsuas tsim peb lub qhov ncauj los noj zaub noj mov xwb tsis yog tsim los noj tej yam qias qias neeg os .
It not a true love, ib tug txiv neej yog nws twb hlub yus puag thaum ub thaum tseem hluas2 es yus laus zuj zus nws hloov siab hloov ntsws tsis nyiam tsis hlub yus lawm ces kuv ua zoo nkauj los kuv yeej tsis yog ua rau nws lawm nawb, ua rau tu tshaj lawm xwb vim tu siab rau nws dhau lawm vim nws nyiam thaum yus zoo nkauj xwb yog thaum yus muaj mob lawm ces nws yuav rov tsis hlub yus dua lawm na nej cov poj niam siab muag dhau lawm os tau txiv neej hos treat peb poj niam zoo li no na.
For all the negative commenters, if your husband loves you so much that you don't need to change good for you, but stop blasting on this poor lady, it's her decision and if she wants to look good, it's none of your business. Let her look good.
Peb cov poj niam hmoob na...cov zoo zoo nkauj yog cov tsis tshuam ua zaub mov noj...hos cov uas tsis tshuam zoo nqaij zoo tawv vim yog ua no j ua Haus khwv heev yug me nyuam coob thiab noj los noj phem hos hnav Los hnav phem tus txiv thiaj li tsis tshuam hlub
Why must women do everything to please men so men will love women? Is there a good man out there who will love his woman normally? Cov niam tsev awww....laj laj tiam txiv neej li lawm os. Ua mov noj los yus, tu me nyuam los yus, khwv nyiaj los yus, tog hauv los tseem yuav kom yus keej number ib, zoo nkauj los tseem yuav tau ua kom zoo thiab. Life is too busy....I rather enjoy life alone with my children.
Kuv tsi nkag siab tias txiv neej los yeej laus ib yam tabsi cas lawv sij tsi paub xav tias laus li es phij xav tias pojniam thiaj txawj laus xwb nas 2 leeg yeej laus ib yam mas lawv
Tus niam tsev peb yeej cheem tsi tau yus tus txij nkawv os. Tiam Sis yus txhob pauv yus tus kheej. Yus ua tus zoo muaj ib Hnub nws yeej pom yus zoo. Yus muaj ib txoj sia xwb.
Right? That’s just sad. Fixin. ones’ physically will not stop the aging process, ones didn’t become immortal. It may turn back the cheater for now, temporary, but not for long. A broken marriage, bandaging it will never be fixed. He’ll KO her unless she has continuous plastic surgery, undergone 🔪 +🧵+ pain for the rest of her life.
Your husband stop dating outside because he s getting old. Thaum kho qhov ntsam tag mas zawm ceeb heev li os, kv twb ua lo lawv. Cov poj niam xav kho los kho tsi muaj mob nawb
Yep, bc they would need to pump viagra or snake oil medicine to keep up their libido. Older women just need lube if they’re feeling it, nothing fancy or medically related like men who got to pump viagra to keep up with sex. There is nothing wrong with viagra but these men got to stop making fun of their wive’s body if they can’t even look at themselves in the mirror to fix themselves and their sense of fashion 😂
nej cov pojniam yuav mus kho nej lub cev los kavtsij tabsi cov es mus ntxiv nws lub qhov pim kom me no ces tus no yog maum dev lism txwv xwb... tseem koj mus ntxiv koj lub qhov pim kom ceev ces xiam nyiaj xwb vim rov mag ib qau xwb koj lub qhov pim yeej rov qab khoob loj..
Tus niam tsev aw, ib tug neeg nws hlub Koj thiab koj tus txiv twb yog tus muab cov menyuam rau koj es koj thiaj puas tag lawm nws yeej hlub koj kom txog hnub kawg. Zoo li koj tus niag txiv ntawm ko ces tos ho los nyob taus, taus lawm los nws niag hauv ceg twb tuag em tsis ua hauj lwm es nws thiaj los nrog koj ib tug zoo li ko lawm los mas.
Men forget to look at themselves in the mirror. If us women based our love on their looks only, we will be looking for second husbands too. Men forget that as their wives aged, they also aged. And they should expect wrinkles, blemishes, belly fat, and not as youthful looking as part of aging. They cannot expect their wives to still be looking like when they first met. Men needs to be realistic and accept their wives as they are and love them unconditionally. Women suffered and sacrificed enough with child bearing and being wives and daughter in laws.
Women is as much important as any men....women just choose to cater to their husband because they love them and they want their life to be happy and stress free...they want their marriage to work and grow old together. But some men take advantage of this and just mess around!!!!!
With all the undergone surgery just to keep her cheater, she is still insecure and unhappy. Why? Because she put on bandages without fixing the wound. She knows deeply, she still getting older by day and how long will that cheater enjoy her plastic boobs. viv ncaus hmoob, create an identity for yourself, have your own success in life, have your own super amazing self esteem, self image, self confidence, and you will never have to sacrifice your life just to keep one cheater dude. We are in America, there’s so much out there for us to succeed in, for us to be beautifully inside-out, where we don’t have to chase after a guy. That man we chose will only have eyes for us because he wouldn’t dear to even look elsewhere; your beauty light 💡 just shines so bright.
yus tus txiv yuav hlub yus ces zoo li cas los yeej hlub txoj kev sib hlub tsis yog yuav pw ua hunb ua hmo li koj hais yog muaj tub muaj nyab tas es tseem hais kev sib hlub mam tsis yog neeg
Hmoob meca lub tswv yim o yom coj u tej nqaij mus hlais cuag ler hlais npua. Lica lo yeej yuav lwj yuav twg o g thas hlais2 u lub cev zoo nkauj li niam thiab txiv muab xwb. Pog no ces nyiam kho los sib ua xwb liam dhau
How funny! It’s not like most husband are fine looking after many years of marriage nor are they harder down there 👇. If I were you, I’ll make sure he get himself fixed also. (Get his eyes fix, and belly, and ding dong) Plus, if your face ain’t pretty, then why bother to get a new body? A new body isn’t going to help much if your face isn’t 10/10. Auntie, don’t downgrade yourself, your husband ain’t perfect either. Beside all that, I’m happy, you’re happy.
Wow lady, you may enjoy being plastic now but when you hit 60+, you may regret it. You cannot avoid aging because it is a part of life. You might as well embrace it and just live a healthy life. Eat well and exercise will help you age well, not plastic surgery. Life isn’t all about pleasing your man, but loving yourself and accepting your flaws.
Live, love, respect, take care and put yourself first, sister!!! If your husband or any man really love and care about you and you do the same to you, you would not have to change and if you love and care about yourself you would not do anything to yourself. A cheater will always be a cheater no matter what you do, it will not change anything if that person has a change of heart.
Zoo nkaug los yeej yuav muaj ib hnub koj laus xwb tsis hluas tuaj lawm os tus mes niam laus koj tus txiv siab phem xwb tus txiv neej yog hlub Koj tiag2 yeej tsis mus tham hluas nkaug kiag li os
Thov peb cov niam tsev hmoob sib pab txhawb zog!! Txhob muab peb cov poj niam txo zog heev!!! peb muaj nuj nqis heev, cov txiv neej txhua tus tsis yog tawm ntawm ib tug txiv neej los tab sis txhua tus neeg tawm ntawm poj niam los xwb. We all the womens of worthy!! Please don’t put the womens down too much!!. God created 1 man, 1 woman for each other!! A woman was created by God for a man to loving, caring, nurture, helping, bring her up not tear her down. Whatever hmong men’s torture hmong womens was all about the lust, evil of their eyes!! Whoever does the cheaters was the sinner of lusts!! When his woman get old so the same goes to the man also gotten olde too!🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️!! We’ve the women’s look at ourselves was, is worthy!!! Doing good to our own!! The words of our womens hurts us all!!!
Sister kj g thas mus xaws ntxiv lawm o yv tshuaj 18xyoo los noj ma hmoob cov tshuaj ntsuab 18xyoo na noj zoo tiag2 li o kv twb noj zoo lawm thiaj qhia kj o noj thawj pob xwb ces yus tus kheej twb txawv lawm na
Wow me sister aw yog li Es koj ob lub taub ntoo Los Loj qhov hauv los zoo nkauj Es ntse koj tus txiv mas pos ntsawv koj lub niam tais ib hmo ib hmo thiab koj qhov mas ntse nko ntsuav xwb pob. Pab koj zoo siab os, lub cev twb zoo nkauj lawm Es kav tsi mus kawm yaim kom koj tus txiv Tuag kiag rau koj txhais tes xwb nawb.
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Men, if you want your women to look good, then let her sleep! Get up and take care of the kids! Give her time to put makeup on. Give her time to workout and exercise!! That means y’all men need to take care of the kids while your wife gets time to take care of herself. AND clean up after yourselves!! Yes, the lady in this story like many need to do it for herself and not her husband, but Hmong men need to change too!! If y’all want sexy, then y’all need to get off ya phone, get up from the couch, feed the kids or wash the dishes, so your wife can put makeup on!
You took the words out my mouth! 👏
Amen.
@@janesoyajm..m.mm
I agreed with you
Honey if your man loves you you won't need to change...you need to love yourself. That's the problem! No man is worth sacrificing your body for.
She doesn't know that is only temporary those plastics. Hope she see all the comments lol
She said that she did all that to make her man happy and to keep him. Stupid advice for all women. When she’s old and in pain, he will be in Laos.
It’s doesn’t matter how many plastic surgery you done to yourself, it never satisfy Hmong men, they alway have an eye to other women so love yourself and stay healthy.....
Don’t generalize Hmong men
Pa Vang Hmong boy no good. 😀
Why do hmong women keep allowing their men to cheat and you’re dying to take them back! A cheater will always be a cheater! Have “respect” for yourself. He didn’t love you.
PREACH IT GIRL!
This is to all women out there. The way I see it, if you can get ur degree first, have a secure career so when ur man decides to cheat or leave you, you can still take care yourself and ur kids financially. Take ur husband to court, use the full extent of the laws that intended for all citizens. Don’t even try to accommodate ur husband’s side of the family because they are looking out for the best interest of him only. So be brave and don’t let a man step on u like that.
Agreed!!!
Daim duav tseem zoo nkauj kawg li
Your husband's love is not true.
It's true 👍
Alot of husbands love aint yrue according to all these stories on here 🙈🙈🙈
I like this story. There’s nothing wrong of making yourself look good as long as you have the money.
Definitely not for a loser who decide to 👁 wander elsewhere. He don’t deserve the new body she went through. J/s
Zoo mloog rau ib tsoom poj niam tsis tau paub txog, tab sis tsis zoo kawm cov tswv yim no. Tej tswv yim no ces cov paub tseem poob tshaj lawm. Cov tsis tau paub yeej tseem yog kev kawm. Zoo nkauj thiab phem nkauj los yog zoo cev los phem cev cia yog naturally yug los xwb thiaj tsis tau ntoog mob rau yav laus laus. Artificially beauty mas tsis muaj ib tug yuav tsis tau nroo nws txoj kev ntoog mob thaum nws laus laus li.
Once again, most Hmong women need to stop seeking validation from men. SMDH.
Koj hais kawg txiv neej ma txob txuag nws siav khiag nws thisj zoo siab ho
If you want to have surgery than Do it for yourself and no one else! Love yourself and no one else when it comes to this kind of surgery. Improve yourself for yourself! Who cares about anyone else.
Ua neej nyob nyias nyiam nyias. Qhov no muab siv tsis tau rau txhua tus. Tej tus kuj nyiam li no tej tus kuj nyiam natural beaty dua mus ua tej yam cuav li no os...
Koj kho tau koj tu kheej zoo nkauj kawg lawm thaum koj tsis zoo nkauj nws xav nrhiav dua tu tshiab tsam tom ntej no koj ho muaj mob ne nws ho yuav tso koj tseg tu neeg ko nws xav hlub thaum koj zoo xwb os
Lady, you have insecurity issues. True beauty is within. Txhob xav tias koj mus design koj tus kheej tag ces people are jealous of you. People don't really care about your looks, your character is more important. A man that truly loves you, his eyes is on you only. Tsi ntev ces yus yuav laus, txoj kev zoo nkauj yeej yuav ploj mus.
Hloov koj tus kheej for yourself and not for anyone else. Be independent, if he wants other women...open the door for him.
If you think that beauty is within, you are kidding yourself!! LOL. Most Men want to be with a woman who looks beautiful outside!! I wouldn’t date an ugly looking guy!!
In life, depending on what you see in beauty. People are beautiful in their own way. Everyone is beautiful. Physical beauty is not what I was looking for.
MsB beauty fades but an ugly attitude remains
MsB You funny. I see a lot of good looking dudes cheating on their beautiful significant others with mediocre chicks all the time like ugly dudes. I’ve seen a lot of handsome men with ugly or ok looking women and they use the pretty girls for sex and dumps them in the end. Looks fade with age, but a good heart remains like someone’s bad attitude when their looks do fade. I’d rather choose a person who has a good heart any day bc we all can’t fight aging! You can’t be ugly when you lose your looks, and be old and mean at the same time. It’s a damn struggle Lol
Agree with everything you said here 👍
If your husband truly loves you, he’ll love you no matter what. Don’t need to do all that. There are men that are attracted to outer beauty, there are men that are attracted to beauty within, which a women that cooks and clean and a good wife.
Your husband never love you. If he does how matter you look he will love you.
Love is inside no ur plastics
I truly agree with you. If you are not recommended for your daughters to do it, then don't do it.
I agree with you but honestly men loves the sexier one. Always all time
One of my pet peeves - when women put themselves down and say they’re “pojniam poob peev”. Really? Who can birth a human? No man can level up to that! There good men out there. Find one that will value you. 💕
Women put themselves down most of the times without realizing that. Such a shame.
Its ingrained in us...generations....women dont even know they are doing it.
Yea but how many men will you have to go through to find him if you even find him. Always easier to say when your not the person in the situation.
Father, train your daughters to be independent. A woman deserves a man that loves her and only has eyes for only her. Train the sons to be real men. A real man loves only one woman and has his eyes on his woman. Teach our daughters and sons to love themselves enough and not walking into that kind of marriage. Peace.
Yes I hate that too, if anything after having kids your values should be even more precious and appreciated. Men should know where they came out of . 🤷🏼♀️
These “life lessons” needs a podcast of its own.
Kv nyiam zaj no
If you did it for yourself, more power to you but to do it for a man who only love you for your beauty is sad. You’re the one hurting, not him. He needs to look at himself and see if he is the same person 20-30 years ago. What’s next for him? If he doesn’t find you sexy anymore after surgery then what’s next for you?
Niam laus kj hai zaj no lom zem kawg li o
Koj hais yog lawm os cov poj niam hmoob yog ib cov tsis tu ces tshaj plawv tib cov rog rog xwb thov pab qhia thiab os
Wow hope koj tus txiv love love koj continuing until the last day thiaj tsim nyog txoj kev mus plees kais nawb hihihihi
I doubt ppl are jealous about her plastic surgery if they’re telling her to love herself. They may have gone through that experience themselves and it didn’t work out in the long run or they seen that happen with a friend or a sister for an example. Anyway, I used to intern for a plastic surgery clinic and I’ve seen most of the ins and outs. I concluded that it’s best if women love themselves vs. altering their figures to satisfy their cheating husband who will cheat again in the future. We all can’t fight aging bc it’s a natural process for humans. Love thyself and drop those who can’t love you. As men get older, most of them don’t even want to alter their figures for the sake of their partners bc it ain’t viagra.
Sister koj hias yog kawg os
Tus txiv zoo li koj tus txiv no koj txhob rawm zoo zoo siab pw tsaug zog nawb tus mi viv ncaus aw..tsam ib hnub koj plawv lam nres thiab os after all those plastic surgery na. Tu siab rau peb cov poj niam ruam ruam kawg.
Zoo nkauj thiab zoo nraug yog ib vuag dua xwb tabsis kev hlub tiag2 thiaj kav ntev2. True Love is unconditional just the way you are. Cheaters or players need to change. It is extremely hard to change someone that doesn't Love you.
That is why we Hmoob women have to take care and put ourselves first and let the men do more to help. We should not let them do nothing and stay like kings and being an S.
Regardless of your method to save your marriage, build some self worth, self confidence, self esteem, as long as you’re happy. That’s all that matter.
Lol...yes! To all the ladies..listen to this lady. 😆
Koj ua tau zoo nkauj lawm ces hnub twg koj mus khos tau koj tus niam hluas los yog yim nram, rov tuaj qhia rau peb nawb. Zoo siab ua koj tus txiv rov los hlub koj lawm.
Everyone should take care of themselves. Never put yourself under the blade just to keep someone in your life. Do it because you want to do it. A person will never look elsewhere if they sincerely love you.
You both have good time,what's the deal,keep continuing.
Kj hais yog qhov kv nyiam
Tu siab rau tus viv ncaus no nws ruam me ntsis lawm. Ua neeg nyob tej hniag txiv neej siab phem tsis tsim nyog yus yuav mus ua npaum li tus viv ncaus no hais. Yog tias thaum koj mus ua koj zoo nkauj es koj tuag lawm no tus txiv neej ntawv puav mob siab. Nws tsuas rov qab mus yuav dua lwm tus xwb. Peb ib tsoom poj niam yuav tsum ntse me ntsis thiab maj. Yus xum muab yus txoj siab coj mus pauv txoj kev ua tus txiv ntshaw, yus tuag yog yus tsev neeg thiaj khuv xim xwb. Txiv neej hmoob no los ib yam yeej tsis muaj cov zoo nraug raws li peb nyiam thiab tab sis yus tuav yus lub neej xwb. Nws tsis nyiam yus lawm los tsis tsim nyog yuav ua npaum li no. Cov poj niam txawj ua zoo nkauj ces khib cov poj niam tsis txawj ua mas neeg no siab yeej phem. Tsis paub hais hmoob li tsis muaj qhov pauv tau los nrog luag kawm ua pleev tshuaj kom zoo nkauj ntxim nyiam tsuas muaj qhov thuam thiab khib xwb. Peb hais neeg hmoob no xuab dhau pom luag zoo nkauj tsis tias xyhaum tseem thuam tas muv li. Tus viv ncaus koj cawm tau koj lub neej los zoo siab rau koj tab sis txiv neej siab phem tsis txhob muab yus txoj sia los pauv nws txoj nhiag kev lwj
Ua tsag os tus niam tsev. Muaj ib txhia poj niam lawv txaj2 muag lawv thiaj li pawv txiv. Cia siab tias ib co poj niam yuav xyaum li koj thiab. Kuv los kuj nyiam li ko thiab....👍
Nej saib Niag pog laus no zaj!!!
Lied 2 love,fake 2 play.🐕🐩
Can we ask our spouse to get plastic surgery too then? I doubt our Hmong men will do that.
Tus niam tsev aw...txhob mus khes khes txog lwm tus li os. Yog koj mus kho koj lub cev ces koj kho rau koj tus kheej. Txhob mus kho kho pub rau tej txiv tsis sawm zoo. Nco ntsoov tias tus txiv neej hlub tiag...koj yuav dig muag, ceg tawv, phem ntsej phem muag tag kis mus los nws txoj kev hlub rau koj yeej tsis hloov.
l like really things not fake or plastic.
If you had to change yourself for your husband because he cannot appreciate the fact you have given him 5+ kids is a pretty sad reason. You should want to do it because you already love yourself and want to do something for yourself because we women know having lots of kids put a toll on our body. Because hunnay if you dont love yourself aint no one going to love you.
Cov txiv neej siab dub ces zoo li ntawd, coj ncajncees li peb cov nov, Tswvntuj tsuas pub ib tug poj niam rau yus xwb, txawm nws yuav phem thiab zoo los yus yeej hlub nws li thaum nws tseem yog cev nkaujxwb li thaum ub, nws phem los yog , phem rau yus tes xwb, yus yuav tsum hlub nws ib leeg kom mus txog hnub kawg.
Thanks for telling your story, sister.
Yog kawg peb cov txiv dev liam lawv yeej hais tias koj yog ib tug niam tsev txhawj ua noj ua haus kwv tij neej tsa qhuas los koj tsis paub txoj hauj lwm hmo ntuj yaim ko taw ti taub hau ces koj yeej yog tus poj niam tsis zoo thiab tsis muaj nqis os yog hais txog qhov ko ces ua tsis tau es tsis tau txiv yuav los kav liam yus nyob yus zoo dua vim yawm saub tsim peb los yawm saub tsuas tsim peb lub qhov ncauj los noj zaub noj mov xwb tsis yog tsim los noj tej yam qias qias neeg os .
It not a true love, ib tug txiv neej yog nws twb hlub yus puag thaum ub thaum tseem hluas2 es yus laus zuj zus nws hloov siab hloov ntsws tsis nyiam tsis hlub yus lawm ces kuv ua zoo nkauj los kuv yeej tsis yog ua rau nws lawm nawb, ua rau tu tshaj lawm xwb vim tu siab rau nws dhau lawm vim nws nyiam thaum yus zoo nkauj xwb yog thaum yus muaj mob lawm ces nws yuav rov tsis hlub yus dua lawm na nej cov poj niam siab muag dhau lawm os tau txiv neej hos treat peb poj niam zoo li no na.
For all the negative commenters, if your husband loves you so much that you don't need to change good for you, but stop blasting on this poor lady, it's her decision and if she wants to look good, it's none of your business. Let her look good.
I totally agree with you. I believe in putting 110% until you can’t anymore. By then there will be no regrets.
She still has low self esteem if she’s still worrying about her cheating husband 😐
That’s a fake love..
Peb cov poj niam hmoob na...cov zoo zoo nkauj yog cov tsis tshuam ua zaub mov noj...hos cov uas tsis tshuam zoo nqaij zoo tawv vim yog ua no j ua Haus khwv heev yug me nyuam coob thiab noj los noj phem hos hnav Los hnav phem tus txiv thiaj li tsis tshuam hlub
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻zoo heev uas koj ua tau zoo koj tus zoo txiv dev rov los hlub koj os! Yeej yog li koj hais kawg txiv neej siab yeej phem heev!
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Txhob ntshaw cov poj niam kho cev thaum yav laus yuav raug ua nws qhev cov poj niam los yog txiv neej Pheej tib qhov khoom ntawv tas li xwb yog cov neeg liam xwb
Why must women do everything to please men so men will love women? Is there a good man out there who will love his woman normally? Cov niam tsev awww....laj laj tiam txiv neej li lawm os. Ua mov noj los yus, tu me nyuam los yus, khwv nyiaj los yus, tog hauv los tseem yuav kom yus keej number ib, zoo nkauj los tseem yuav tau ua kom zoo thiab. Life is too busy....I rather enjoy life alone with my children.
Kuv tsi nkag siab tias txiv neej los yeej laus ib yam tabsi cas lawv sij tsi paub xav tias laus li es phij xav tias pojniam thiaj txawj laus xwb nas 2 leeg yeej laus ib yam mas lawv
Tus niam tsev peb yeej cheem tsi tau yus tus txij nkawv os. Tiam Sis yus txhob pauv yus tus kheej. Yus ua tus zoo muaj ib Hnub nws yeej pom yus zoo. Yus muaj ib txoj sia xwb.
Uacas peb cob pojniam es pheej xav tias yuav ua kom zoonkauj rau cov cheater no,
Right?
That’s just sad. Fixin. ones’ physically will not stop the aging process, ones didn’t become immortal. It may turn back the cheater for now, temporary, but not for long.
A broken marriage, bandaging it will never be fixed. He’ll KO her unless she has continuous plastic surgery, undergone 🔪 +🧵+ pain for the rest of her life.
Your husband stop dating outside because he s getting old. Thaum kho qhov ntsam tag mas zawm ceeb heev li os, kv twb ua lo lawv. Cov poj niam xav kho los kho tsi muaj mob nawb
Don’t need to go tighten your “down there”. Soon, your husband won’t have much strength to use it.
Yep, bc they would need to pump viagra or snake oil medicine to keep up their libido. Older women just need lube if they’re feeling it, nothing fancy or medically related like men who got to pump viagra to keep up with sex. There is nothing wrong with viagra but these men got to stop making fun of their wive’s body if they can’t even look at themselves in the mirror to fix themselves and their sense of fashion 😂
Niam ntsuab teev koj txhob tso koj cov duab mus mus los los li ko ua rau peb saib xeev xeev siab Yuav ntuav thiab Dias dias taub hau li is
nej cov pojniam yuav mus kho nej lub cev los kavtsij tabsi cov es mus ntxiv nws lub qhov pim kom me no ces tus no yog maum dev lism txwv xwb... tseem koj mus ntxiv koj lub qhov pim kom ceev ces xiam nyiaj xwb vim rov mag ib qau xwb koj lub qhov pim yeej rov qab khoob loj..
Xav kom koj pauv qhov sib yuav thaum 14-15 xyoos rau teb chaws ntawd no vim luag lwm neeg yuav saib taus peb hmoob yuav muaj Teeb meem rau peb hmoob
Tus niam tsev aw, ib tug neeg nws hlub Koj thiab koj tus txiv twb yog tus muab cov menyuam rau koj es koj thiaj puas tag lawm nws yeej hlub koj kom txog hnub kawg. Zoo li koj tus niag txiv ntawm ko ces tos ho los nyob taus, taus lawm los nws niag hauv ceg twb tuag em tsis ua hauj lwm es nws thiaj los nrog koj ib tug zoo li ko lawm los mas.
Peb cov niam tsev tsis keej deev npaum li cov poj nrauj tam sim no nawb lawv aw........
Men forget to look at themselves in the mirror. If us women based our love on their looks only, we will be looking for second husbands too. Men forget that as their wives aged, they also aged. And they should expect wrinkles, blemishes, belly fat, and not as youthful looking as part of aging. They cannot expect their wives to still be looking like when they first met. Men needs to be realistic and accept their wives as they are and love them unconditionally. Women suffered and sacrificed enough with child bearing and being wives and daughter in laws.
Yog lawm os tu viv ncaus
Poj hmoob aw! Tseg kiag os tsam koj zoo nkauj npaum Michael Jackson ces koj tus txiv dev ho xu siab tuaj nawb...
Koj hais yog kawg lawm os sister yij meem try the best fight for life
Kuv xav xwb tus hlub koj yeej hlub tus zoo nkauj cuav li ko tsam muaj ib hnub koj muaj mob nws tso koj tseg
Lmao!!! Guilty on the recipes 🤣🤣🤣
Women is as much important as any men....women just choose to cater to their husband because they love them and they want their life to be happy and stress free...they want their marriage to work and grow old together. But some men take advantage of this and just mess around!!!!!
Ntuj os ntuj es ntse yuav ua lub tawv npaum no xwb thiaj mus hlai tau laiv yom kuv ntshai li ntshai xwb mus txog tov ntshai dhau rov los lawm xwb as
With all the undergone surgery just to keep her cheater, she is still insecure and unhappy. Why? Because she put on bandages without fixing the wound. She knows deeply, she still getting older by day and how long will that cheater enjoy her plastic boobs.
viv ncaus hmoob, create an identity for yourself, have your own success in life, have your own super amazing self esteem, self image, self confidence, and you will never have to sacrifice your life just to keep one cheater dude.
We are in America, there’s so much out there for us to succeed in, for us to be beautifully inside-out, where we don’t have to chase after a guy. That man we chose will only have eyes for us because he wouldn’t dear to even look elsewhere; your beauty light 💡 just shines so bright.
Koj tus txiv siab phem xwb nws hlub koj tsis yog kev hlub tiag
Qhia tuaj es peb cov pojniam mus uA line kho seb peb cov pojniam mas daim tawv plab xwb vim peb muaj me nyuam
Koj saib koj tus kheej qis dhau heev lawm os. If i going to do surgery, i do for myself not for a cheating husband.
yus tus txiv yuav hlub yus ces zoo li cas los yeej hlub txoj kev sib hlub tsis yog yuav pw ua hunb ua hmo li koj hais yog muaj tub muaj nyab tas es tseem hais kev sib hlub mam tsis yog neeg
if you’re happy, that’s all that matters.
Such sad but true story about men’s....
Hmoob meca lub tswv yim o yom coj u tej nqaij mus hlais cuag ler hlais npua. Lica lo yeej yuav lwj yuav twg o g thas hlais2 u lub cev zoo nkauj li niam thiab txiv muab xwb. Pog no ces nyiam kho los sib ua xwb liam dhau
May. I wonder if she like to share her doctor 's name with us.
If u want to know message me. But it out of the country.
Thaum poj niam tshaj 45 xyoo lawm lub cev tiag yeej piv tsis tau lub cev txua .. nrog koj zoo siab os tus viv ncaus
Tus niam tsev aw qhov koj tus txiv pheej faj zuj zus ces yog nws mus nyiag noj sab nrauv lawm es nws ua kam lawm xwb os mog.
Haha! Good luck with your husband. If he want another he's getting it no matter how good you look.
Good for you!!
Glad you were able to save your marriage.
Unfortunately, it had to be you changing your own body. But it sounds like you're happy with the changes too.
Peb cov poj niam hmoob meskas tam sim no liam dhau lawm txhob cia nej tus niam tsev ua ywj siab nawb...
How funny! It’s not like most husband are fine looking after many years of marriage nor are they harder down there 👇. If I were you, I’ll make sure he get himself fixed also. (Get his eyes fix, and belly, and ding dong) Plus, if your face ain’t pretty, then why bother to get a new body? A new body isn’t going to help much if your face isn’t 10/10. Auntie, don’t downgrade yourself, your husband ain’t perfect either. Beside all that, I’m happy, you’re happy.
Wow lady, you may enjoy being plastic now but when you hit 60+, you may regret it. You cannot avoid aging because it is a part of life. You might as well embrace it and just live a healthy life. Eat well and exercise will help you age well, not plastic surgery. Life isn’t all about pleasing your man, but loving yourself and accepting your flaws.
Txiv neej lub siab phem y.yus hlub yus tus kheej xwb tsis muaj neeg hlub yus
I am a hmong man what you did just a short turn but in the long run you will be in more trouble
Yog txiv neej yeej xav tau poj niam zoo nkauj thiab kom zoo niam tsev xwb
Imitations won't last.
Live, love, respect, take care and put yourself first, sister!!! If your husband or any man really love and care about you and you do the same to you, you would not have to change and if you love and care about yourself you would not do anything to yourself. A cheater will always be a cheater no matter what you do, it will not change anything if that person has a change of heart.
Yuav ua cas thiab sau neej neeg rau kj hais tau ne yuav sau qhov twg rau kj hais os niam laus
Zoo nkaug los yeej yuav muaj ib hnub koj laus xwb tsis hluas tuaj lawm os tus mes niam laus koj tus txiv siab phem xwb tus txiv neej yog hlub Koj tiag2 yeej tsis mus tham hluas nkaug kiag li os
Thov peb cov niam tsev hmoob sib pab txhawb zog!! Txhob muab peb cov poj niam txo zog heev!!! peb muaj nuj nqis heev, cov txiv neej txhua tus tsis yog tawm ntawm ib tug txiv neej los tab sis txhua tus neeg tawm ntawm poj niam los xwb. We all the womens of worthy!! Please don’t put the womens down too much!!. God created 1 man, 1 woman for each other!! A woman was created by God for a man to loving, caring, nurture, helping, bring her up not tear her down. Whatever hmong men’s torture hmong womens was all about the lust, evil of their eyes!! Whoever does the cheaters was the sinner of lusts!! When his woman get old so the same goes to the man also gotten olde too!🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️!! We’ve the women’s look at ourselves was, is worthy!!! Doing good to our own!! The words of our womens hurts us all!!!
Sister kj g thas mus xaws ntxiv lawm o yv tshuaj 18xyoo los noj ma hmoob cov tshuaj ntsuab 18xyoo na noj zoo tiag2 li o kv twb noj zoo lawm thiaj qhia kj o noj thawj pob xwb ces yus tus kheej twb txawv lawm na
Aub ntshai mob dhau heev lawm kav Liam lau
Wow me sister aw yog li Es koj ob lub taub ntoo Los Loj qhov hauv los zoo nkauj Es ntse koj tus txiv mas pos ntsawv koj lub niam tais ib hmo ib hmo thiab koj qhov mas ntse nko ntsuav xwb pob. Pab koj zoo siab os, lub cev twb zoo nkauj lawm Es kav tsi mus kawm yaim kom koj tus txiv Tuag kiag rau koj txhais tes xwb nawb.
Niam ntsuab teev koj puas kam noog tus niam tsev no es kuv xav paub more information txog tus doctor nws mus kho nws tus kheej no