It's super interesting that you mention that even INFP males rarely make the first move. I definitely never, ever, ever have as an INFP female. But it makes me wonder about this guy that stuck to me like glue before I got married, but never made a direct move. Thinking back, he could've been an INFP. But then came Mr. ESFJ, who approached me while I was in a buffet line and said: "Hi, my name is _____, and I'm looking for a wife."😅We just celebrated our 14-year anniversary
For me I get real giddy cause I daydream about them all the time. They’re the only ones who aren’t in our inner circle who we can gain a ton of energy from
As always, so relatable! I feel like if I had only been that “first move” person, my life would have taken on a completely different trajectory. That said, I choose to embrace my choices as they have resulted in my greatest treasures ❤️❤️❤️.
My INFP friend told me he was in love with a girl, for almost three years. After I analyzed the situation, I concluded that there was no "spice" to take from. I tried to talk to him about it, letting him see how I saw the situation, with a respectful and understandable touch. Some time later, after going throught some grief, he was no longer in love with her. Also, as an extra, all of this thinking made him have a better image of himself. -ENTJ
Very nice video and I agree for the most part, but I think whether we (as infps) make the first move depends on a few things (and also depends on what you mean by first move, haha) So, as a young girl (primary school -hahaa- until a bit after highschool probably??) I wouldn't make the first move directly, but I think it was easy to know, because I would stare to the person I liked even if I didn't mean to (yes I am that kind!) Later than that, I think I never had to make the first move, because: a) others were making the first move, and b) I haven't known exactly when/if I like someone. That second one is what follows me until now probably, it takes a long time for me to actually know if I like someone or not, so I would not make the first move if I am not sure. But I certainly don't have time to waste in my life, so I have become more straightforward in general in what I want and what I don't want (that is a very nice collaboration of my Fi with my Te I think) and that applies to my romantic life as well, which is proven by the fact that I have admitted to someone that I felt attracted to him just in the past year, and I think I will continue to do that any other time that happens again. It is just that I am more and more selective of people as years pass, so these things don't happen much for me. That may also be a huge contributing factor in my attitude, since I know it is very hard for me to meet that one person I will like, so if that happens I will definitely take the chance. Life is short, and we should make the most out of it. Nevertheless, I liked your video overall, so thank you! Have a great day and take care!
It's super interesting that you mention that even INFP males rarely make the first move. I definitely never, ever, ever have as an INFP female. But it makes me wonder about this guy that stuck to me like glue before I got married, but never made a direct move. Thinking back, he could've been an INFP. But then came Mr. ESFJ, who approached me while I was in a buffet line and said: "Hi, my name is _____, and I'm looking for a wife."😅We just celebrated our 14-year anniversary
For me I get real giddy cause I daydream about them all the time. They’re the only ones who aren’t in our inner circle who we can gain a ton of energy from
As always, so relatable! I feel like if I had only been that “first move” person, my life would have taken on a completely different trajectory. That said, I choose to embrace my choices as they have resulted in my greatest treasures ❤️❤️❤️.
My INFP friend told me he was in love with a girl, for almost three years. After I analyzed the situation, I concluded that there was no "spice" to take from. I tried to talk to him about it, letting him see how I saw the situation, with a respectful and understandable touch.
Some time later, after going throught some grief, he was no longer in love with her. Also, as an extra, all of this thinking made him have a better image of himself.
-ENTJ
Almost always look for "an in" before making a move. Great video. Thank you.
Thanks Matthew 😊
Dating myself here, but if I make you a mixtape, then I really like you 😊
Very nice video and I agree for the most part, but I think whether we (as infps) make the first move depends on a few things (and also depends on what you mean by first move, haha)
So, as a young girl (primary school -hahaa- until a bit after highschool probably??) I wouldn't make the first move directly, but I think it was easy to know, because I would stare to the person I liked even if I didn't mean to (yes I am that kind!)
Later than that, I think I never had to make the first move, because: a) others were making the first move, and b) I haven't known exactly when/if I like someone. That second one is what follows me until now probably, it takes a long time for me to actually know if I like someone or not, so I would not make the first move if I am not sure.
But I certainly don't have time to waste in my life, so I have become more straightforward in general in what I want and what I don't want (that is a very nice collaboration of my Fi with my Te I think) and that applies to my romantic life as well, which is proven by the fact that I have admitted to someone that I felt attracted to him just in the past year, and I think I will continue to do that any other time that happens again. It is just that I am more and more selective of people as years pass, so these things don't happen much for me. That may also be a huge contributing factor in my attitude, since I know it is very hard for me to meet that one person I will like, so if that happens I will definitely take the chance. Life is short, and we should make the most out of it.
Nevertheless, I liked your video overall, so thank you! Have a great day and take care!
Как же сложно быть INFP...))) Или это дар или это проклятие..