7 Things That Make Guys Secretly Insecure
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"WHY SO THEY CAN THROW YOU IN THE AIR?!" IM CRYINGGGG
It's one of those things both my dad and stepdad do with ease XD
i know i was laughing so hard
kinda over it same
lmao. 😂😂
Yes, that is literally the exact reason 😂
"I'm not even hating, but the dude's only 5'7"."
I'm dying. That was so perfect!
whats wrong with 5"7
im 5'7 and im 13 lol
I'm 13 and 5,9 😂
Zuzia Nalewajko I'm thirteen 5"7 and I'm a guy...
Yay ireland
"I still got waves tho"😂😂
Died😹
Especially when he stuck his tongue out 😂😂😂
I died lol
like do not resuscitate
"Some of you are five foot two and want a tall guy, why? So he can throw you in the air?!" I'm five foot one and I died of laughter 😂😂😂😂
(I'm 5'0) but we're not denying it.......
+Emily Strawberry same😂😂
I'm 4'9......
5'8
5'5, so I'm slightly above the average 5'4
"Who is this girl texting you after 10 pm? Hmm?" I die😂 That was so hard not to laugh at!
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FireTamer101 HAHA
Died*
HAHAHAHA.
"Some of y'all are like 5'2 and you want a tall guy, why so we could throw you in the air?!" Does anyone know how hard it was to not laugh at this 😂😂😂😄
I just died laughing at that!
Omg yassss
It's not hard at all.
I'd enjoy being thrown to be honest lol
Sweet Panda yeah I wish I could understand you
Dont mess with a guys hair, they get super insecure about hair changes!
+Smile28 Hey! Thank you! xoxo
When my bf and i started going out before we where a couple he said "just to be clear, no hair-touching before 3am!" XD
+Helvetica09 lol 3am is when he get wild!
+Thedark knight lol
+Sensational Finds So true lol.
To be fair, when you are under 5'5" all guys are 'tall'. Also, yes, we want to be thrown in the air.
right!
us tall chicks do too 😂😂😂👌
+just lena Yasss
+just lena lol for what....so you can touch the sun?? :P
Lol then I want a giant
Every girl after watching this video: OH MY GOD that guy is so hot we need more of him to be in the videos!!!
Lol not me ✊🏼😌
+200 subscribers without any videos challenge ....ok
+anna smith .....Mmkay
Too gay for dat.
yaaaaas!!!
okay buzzfeed, we need more of him please and thank you :)
Preach
YAAS HIS SMILE HAS ME SLOWLY MELTING
absolutely!
+Ashley Bivins He's also in the "if Teachers were honest video" 😏
forreal!!
I feel like girls only want a tall guy just so they aren't taller than him when they wear high heels...like damn, if high heels are that important buy an extra pair in my size so we maintain that height difference...
Well im 5'10 (girl) and I would like to wear high heels with out worrying N if I'm going to be taller than my boyfriend
+katrine1234 Why does it matter tho? Do you always wear high heels, or just for certain occasions? I'm 5'11 and I feel like girls who are 5'8-5'11 don't want guys my height. Not that I really care, those girls are just missin out, I guess lol
+katrine1234 Same. Also. It's just what you are comfortable with. Like watch the "Talk girls wear heels for a week" video. One of them doesn't care about being taller than her boyfriend. It's just personal preference
+Joshua i would love to have one at my age that are just as tall as me or taller, but sadly, there isn't
+kagedinsanity well I'm already self conscious about my height because I feel like a tower, so I don't wear heels, or shoes that are over 3/4 cm tall Meh
2:02 i'm laughing so hard 😂😂😂 at this part when he like has this mind convo with his friends
Aimi Syahirah Khan as a guy I can affirm that that was deeply based on fact. The amount of body language and understanding in man to man convos like that, especially with friends or people of color, can really only be represented as telepathy
Aimi Khan o
Aimi Khan I'm the one thousandth liker of this comment.. it's satisfying.. feels like I win a victory 😂😂😂😂♥😜😜😜
Aimi Khan I
@@SeekingTech thanks
I love his inner monologue he was so salty
The awesome thing about being short is, pretty much every guy is a tall guy, but the short ones work too :D
Preach 👏
Same
Yasss dan and phil
Haha isn't that great😄
*cries in the corner cause I'm tall*
+HowellAboutYas true! I literally have no options out of my group of guy friends and my short best friend has 3x amount of luck with guys than I do even though I'm pretty sure we're equally attractive
Heeeey not all girls want a tall guy.
My boyfriend is shorter than me actually. Shortness means condensed awesomeness.
There needs to be more girls like you
Grace Sapphire I read a study that says women who date shorter men usually have an above average intelligence level.
Christine Kozubal, you just made my day.
Grace Sapphire Well said.
Grace Sapphire if he does start balding you will be able to see the progress
both of them are so hottt. dayumm
yass
you like buys and girls?
+PURPLEPICKLES2 who cares if she does
This is lgbt+ culture
Ma bisexual heart!
To be fair, tall ladies hear "short girls are cute/I want a short girl/I love short girls" and we hardly hear anything about tall girls, then we get insecure and want a super tall guy. Like 6'4" tall, so that maybe he'll be like "oh she's short!"
Exactly!
+Koley411 I personally do prefer short girls... but I think that's just because I feel like the shorter the girl, the taller I become in comparison, and because all girls seem to want tall guys, the less insecure I'd ever have to feel... I feel like if I were to date a girl that is just an inch or two shorter than me, I'd always be nervous if she wanted to wear heels and wouldn't because she didn't wanna be taller than me or something, so to skip it all, I go for the shortest girl I can find LOL and that's coming from a guy who isn't that tall, so its especially important
Point is... this seems like an irrational circular argument on both sides LOL
sponge bob I think we are stuck in an infinite paradox 😂😅
+Koley411 there are people who prefer tall girls though! i'm tall and my boyfriend (who is only a bit shorter than me) always tells me he likes tall women, i've seen his ex and she was taller than me so i know he's not bluffing hah
ya true 😭😭
I don't like 'tall guys' I just like them a little bit taller then me, which isn't that hard to find considering I'm 5' 1"
Serious props to you! I hear girls around your height talking about how much they want to be with guys that are crazy tall. And being at 5'11" myself (a girl), I'm like "What's left for the rest of us?". I don't say that to be shallow (even though someone at least the same height is a preference), it's just shorter guys always seem to either feel intimidated/emasculated by the height or they like fetishize it, so that pairing usually doesn't work.
+Amazon Angel I feel you, the short girls are taking all the tall guys! Haha.
your a hot pocket
I find guys my height to be perfect. But I'm 5 foot 9 lol
Same I am 5'2 and I don't date taller than 5'7
Ok. That guy is really good looking!
But I don't care if a guy is tall. I'm short. I don't wanna seem like an Oompa Loompa next to him.
And it's good to know that he's got insecurities too.
I always feel the same way about girls who hate that they're short! Short girls rock! Tall girls freak me out. I'm 5'9" so I'm no giant but when a girls taller then me, it freaks me out. Iono why just does lol
Looking like an oompaloompa next to my man is the best/safest feeing ever😏
I am on the short side and my man is tall.
+Nick Holland But tall girls can't do anything about their height :(
+Pritz Angelz don't miss understand by any means!! I believe they're still gorgeous regardless of there height and I have dated tall girls too. Girl I'm seeing now is a little taller then me actually lol. It's just a personal preferences is all not even one I abide by always, clearly lol. But I know you can't do anything about it, just like I can't do anything about my height, I wish I was taller. But I am what I am, doesn't make me any less of a person and I still know that I'm pretty awesome regardless of my height. As I'm sure you're just as awesome if you were 4'10" or 6'5" :). Love who you are, forget what everyone else thinks :)
+Julinhaaaa2 why am I boring?! What'd I do?!?
WHO IS THIS COUPLE??? I'm instantly in love with them!
They aren't a real couple tho.
"James, we don't need you!" 😂
ikr 😂
lol 😂
ride along
Am I the only one who doesn't mind if a guy is tall or not? I mean, it's literally the measure of how far your head is from the ground, like, seriously. So long as you're not a jerk, who cares?
exactly
That's how I see it. Height is whatever to me. If you can work with what you got and be a gentleman, that's all I need.
+Katelyn Marsh I just want him to be taller than my mom. She's 5'4". I'm 5'1".
+Katelyn Marsh It's not the height but rather what being tall can imply. It's in your subconscious. Evolution, girl.
Skeptic Gamer Then again, chihuahuas have the largest penis relative to their body size of all dogs. I suppose that's why there are still chihuahuas!
"I'm not hating, but the guys 5'7" 😂
I died at "he's in debt, as well"
I'm a tall girl so unless the guy is over 6'2, there will be no throwing.
Tall girls are my secret sweet spot! Especially long haired motherly and tall girls♡ :D
Same. Save the tall guys for the tall girls PLEASE
I-I love you, fellow tall female.
same
I'm 6'5, when do I throw?
I find tall guys really hot but prefer to date guys who are around my height. Tbh if guys said they'd only date tall girls we wouldn't like that. I can't imagine what it does to their self esteem.
I mean let's not be hypocrites ladies.
thank you(coming from a man)
I find hourglass figures on girls so hot, but i prefer to date women with average bodies as well😊
GOD SO ACCURATE AND I'M A GIRL ! THEY SHOULD ACTUALLY CHANGE THE TITLE INTO TH- oh that's how you men feel...
I dare you
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Lol Jungkookie
+Dare Me yes we do. we do.
+Dare Me i spot a wild jungkook...
I died when he said "why so he can throw you in the air" lmao
Same 😂
LitLiyah e
I kept on laughing this whole video 😂
"Why so we an throw you in the air" THE WHOLE POINT OF HAVING A TALL BF😂😂
I like this couple. They should have a buzzfeed sitcom!
+debb0r omg YES
"Why does height even matter"
"I'm not even hating but the dude's only 5 foot 7"
PUT ON A BIGGER SHIRT😂😂😂 OMG THE FUNNIEST THING IVE HEARD ALL DAY
OMG ! Why he's so HOT ? I'm in love 😭❤
ikr!
SAAAME
...with the cocoa
Would u like a cold beverage?
+Malak Laabidi pff life's unfair. when will women use the same adjective to describe me
Why the obsession over tall guys tho? I'm short, I wouldn't really like looking like his lil pet
+Tami Weinstein Don't worry, there are lot of relatively hot Jewish guys that are right about in the middle! (Trust me, I'd know.) =P
JEON CENA
Kabby Olaniyan FAM
+Tami Weinstein i'm 5'10 and idk it sounds bad but whenever i'm around guys that are a lot shorter than me i just feel like their mom lol that's the only reason i care about height is because of my height in relation
😂
"Why do you want a tall guy, so we can throw you in the air?" IM CRYING FROM LAUGING SO HARD YOU DONT UNDERSTANDD 😂😂😂😂
"Put on a bigger shirt" lmao
as a tall person I think a can explain the height thing at least for me, bein around people that are shorter can make girls insecure about their height especially if in school they were always the tallest one, or if clothes dot fit because of their height or they hit their head on things (these things have been everyday occurrences for me my whole life). short people often get a lot of sympathy for being short, but tall people don't get that, instead, they get people (who don't know any better) saying things like "ooh look how tall you've grown." tall girls often feel very out of place (especially if they look older too). short people get to hide in the crowd, but tall people are a head above everyone. You had better hope you aren't having a bad hair day, because you will ruin everyone's sky view. I remember as a child wishing to be short and at the same time, there were short girls wishing to be my height. In general I am now a lot more secure about my height and I poke fun at it quite a lot, but I think dating someone shorter than me would be unhealthy for me until I have grown more in self love. In fact, I am not going to date at all until I have learned to let go of certain other insecurities. I understand that this explanation only applies to tall girls, but that is the only thing I have experience with!
lily pennvellyn This is so relatable, I'm 6"1 and all people do is moan about being short. For once, I'd like to be able to stand in a crowd and not stand out.
Chocolate Chip exactly, all my insecurities seem amplified because of my height
+lily pennvellyn I know exactly what you mean
Whoa girl👏👏 Your so mentally mature.
lily pennvellyn I agree. I'm 5ft 7 and 21 years old. When I lived in Sweden height wasn't much of an issue because Swedes are known for their height, but when I moved to the UK I became aware of how tall I wa in comparison to the rest of the girls whose average height is 5ft 2/5ft 5. There are days when I feel secure and other days where I am far from confident with my height. I cam never be with someone shorter than me. I am tall and therefore wants to be with a taller guy. Because I'm 5ft 7 he has to be tall. I personally think that as long as the guy is taller, it doesn't matter what height he is. Like the guy stated in the video - "a perfect fit for you as a girl".
i was about to make a comment about how this guy is really hot then realized that every comment is literally just that...oh well lol. he's hot.
They maybe they should EXPRESS how they feel rather than bottling it up.
Well if society started telling us that it's okay, then we would.
+Becky And Jessica extra teue
+Becky And Jessica Nonsense. Plenty of women don't want men as emotional or expressive as they are.
+Becky And Jessica Just because it's other men, that somehow makes it not society? That's some strange logic....
+Nibelsnarf Films You don't need "society" to tell you anything. just do you
Your five foot 2 why do you want a tall guy? So he could throw you in the air? Haha I'm actually dying 😂😂😂
"Some of you are like 5 feet 2, and you want a tall guy. Why!? sO WE COULD THROW YOU IN THE AIR!?"
I lost it there
To be fair, when I say "tall," it's literally everyone over 5'3.
I am not tall.
Is it weird that I actually like shorter guys?lol
Ikr...
Jesenia Thomas same haha
we need more girls like you
I like that they are always cute and to me they are just the best thing if they are positive, there for me, and just a great person in general, but I'm bi I don't care what gender they are just as long as they know how to treat me right and is a great person who throws cheesy jokes here and there 😋😄
Jesenia Thomas same lel
"He's in debt as well." 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
+QueenieMouse Kanye? :o
02:01 but his friend was cute too....like damn, lemme get your number
for real tho 😍
Dear short girls, back off. I'm 5'10", I need a tall guy!
😂😂😂😂😂 I'm 5' 1" 1/2 so everyone is taller than me I'm kool with 5'4 lol
Oh, it'd be my death if I had to live in an environment where 5'10'' is considered as a height where it's hard to get a guy... Pfft, 'tall', I'd kill for your height D:
^ it's not fun when you're 5'10 at 13 and you are taller than everyone. literally
+isobel broomfield I am 5'9 and 14 tell me about it. I was literally taller than all the guys in middle school thank god for high school. Please be tall guys there😅😤😩🙀👼
Dinah well, for age 13, I would consider that tall.
Everyone's like: Yes we want to be thrown into the air, and I'm just like, I just want to know if he can reach the top shelf..
Haha true!!
YAY!!! I love when Buzzfeed makes videos like these😹😹
I am very tall girl myself so unless he is 6'5 or bigger he definitely isn't taller than me
+Lola Winchester 6'5?!?!
lol I'm 5"
omg whaat lol
So, you're saying that you're 6'4'??
Mickie Babe ????? i dont get it
omg when he said "Some of you are 5 feet two and y'all want a tall guy" im 5'3 and i have a six foot boyfriend
Makes us shorter guys feel like crap. But oh well we aren't deserving of love are we?
+Alex Creed I'm 4'10 so anything 5 or above is tall for me lmao
+Natalie Sassano You go girl!
Oh my god this guy is hilarious please have him in more videos
“Some of y’all are 5 feet 2 and you want a tall guy, why so he can throw you in the air?”
Is that a personal attack?
The gray hair "but I still got waves", comment is said by me yesterday.
"He's in debt as well." Lol
"Why? So he can throw you in the air?"
Precisely.
SAVE THE TALL GUYS FOR THE TALL GIRLS PLEASEE 😭lol
PREACH
+Jaackie.denise smaller girls look cuter with tall guys tho
+DerpishDerp tru but tall girls look weird with short guys😩😂
+DerpishDerp they look like younger siblings tbh
Omg I agree, I'm 12 and I'm 5 3"
This is my favourite buzzfeed video ever by a long shot
"Put on a bigger shirt" 😂
HES SO FREAKING HOT IM IN LOVE
Why? So he can throw you in the air?😂😂😂
You're so pretty
I like short guys...
And I'm 5'8. I don't get why girls want taller guys, I personally don't care.
same
Same but some guys don't wanna date girls that are tall. Those are the guys u don't wanna date
+Alyssa Smith
true
Yeah, and thats so annoying. Its society's fault.Alyssa Smith
+Teo's Books Quick question, why is it all society's fault? :0
Naaaw I find it kinda cute actually. Shows that he actually cares:)
"Who is this women who is texting you after 10 PM Hmm " that was hilarious 🤣🤣
"why so he can throw you in the air??" LMAOO I DIED
Cassie Renee honestly the answer is yes
yes tall guys can
They
I don’t get it. I know, I sound stupid, lol.
As a tall girl, I really only want a tall/er guy so that THEY don't feel uncomfortable. But for me it truly doesn't matter.
I demand this to be in the shipping playlist of buzzfeed along with Ariel and Ned and Ashley and Andrew
He has such a humorous personality I love ittttt
I'm 18 and 4"11, every guy is tall for me
Literally me
Alisha Khan how tall is the guy in the video you think
IM 15 AND IM ALREADY 5,9 SO I NEED A TALL GUY THANK YOU VERY MUCH
Yaaas, the struggle is real. I was 5'8 by the time I was 12, but I stopped growing after that😀 And my boyfriend is 6'2 so he's perfect😊
I'm 15 and 6'1 and still growing. I understand the struggle
+Rachel Goodwin omg luckyy im 15 and only 5'5 xD
U might be done growing
Mdx haha no im supposed to be 5,11 when im done growing
tall to me is anyone over 5'0
im short
+Solara I'M FINALLY TALL. (5'3)
+Blu Garcia That's tall
+harman singh people call me short all the time. haahaha
+Blu Garcia height twins!
+Blu Garcia 5'5
More videos with him please. He is hilarious!
When he said "I still got waves tho" then stuck his tongue out 😂😍😍
“Why so we can throw you in the air “ 😂😂😂😂
I need him in my life
1:40 is so me when my crush says "Bro she's hot" like no✋
"why do you even want a guy who's tall? so we can throw you in the air?!!"
DECEASED
This was actually rlly funny cuz of the guy! Awesome video
A lot of tall guys like the short girls. And same the other way around and I'm over here like '👋 so where do I fit in??'
What's up with girls like in tall guys? I'm a girl, and everybody else I know who's a girl doesn't get it either
I don't ever ask who's texting my boyfriend when we're together. He wouldn't cheat on me at all. He never asks me either. Most of the time it's my best friend, my mum, or some of our friends joining us.
More of this couple pleasssseeee
#shortmenneedlovetoo
Ikr. Killing myself seems like the only option these days tbh.
Alex Creed same
relatable
+Alex Creed how tall r u
relatable :(
“Oh my god I do have grey hair but I still have waves tho “😂😂😂
I love this couple omfg 😍 they should make more couple videos with both of them
Yoooooo lol. I died when he said "I still got waves doe =P"
this is literally my favorite buzzfeed video of all time
Omg everyone is so hot in this skit
Man it's just something about tall guys that just make you feel protected idk 😂😂
I wanna see more of her side
1:10 I actually agree with the dude why do short girls want tall guys since all dudes are taller than them I want a tall guy bc I'm 5'7" dude
rocknspn Yes, I agree. If a girl is 5'5" or shorter, she's already shorter than a lot of men. Most women aren't taller than 5'4" anyway, so there a bunch of guys who are taller and only a very small percentage that are shorter than her. However, I think it’s also worth mentioning that Danny DeVito is 4'10" and he’s married to a (slightly) taller woman
I agree. As a tall girl myself, if all the short girls get the tall dudes, what's left for us lol
@@HugoSoup57 Danny deviiiiittoooooo
@@HugoSoup57 look, I'm a 5-ft 1 girl, and I'm honestly scared of guys over 5 foot 8
(I would seriously compromise for shorter than me and if the guy truly is about 6 ft, even though I'm usually scared of that, what's important to me is if the guy is a nice person who loves me, then that's all that matters.)
Otaku Manga Studios So you would be scared of me lol? I’m only 5’10”, and a lot of shorter girls say that I’m tall. I feel short next to people who are 6’1” or taller, but I don’t feel intimidated by them exactly. But yes, personality is what really matters the most, judging people solely on physical appearance is just shallow and superficial. It’s what’s inside that counts.
I prefer short guys, or maybe slightly taller. It is so attractive to me and ugh! So cute. Sending love to the short boys!
"He's in debt as well" I laughed so hard that I cried. :'D
Everyone in this video are so sweet, talented, and beautiful!! I love them all!!!!😍♥️
"....he's in debt as well." xD
Why do you want a tall guy? So he can throw you in the air?
Me: yes, precisely...
"why u needa tall guy, why? So we can thro u in the air? " 😂😂😂😂
Things that make guys insecure-
Their girlfriends
According to this video
Hey guys, this is what “it’s fine” means: “I have a problem but I don’t have the time/energy to discuss it right now”
The only reason I want a guy taller than me is because I need someone to reach the bread on top of the fridge.
He's so handsome! 😍❤️