it's like suddenly I can remember my childhood, all the pain that i lived, all the bad words, the abandonment, the screams and my tears. I felt so alone. I prayed for angels to take care of me and no one came. I was alone. No angels were there, no god, no nothing. Just my bravery. After 12 years, I realized that I had myself. When I prayed for a single hug, it was me from the future trying to comfort that little child. I did good. Today I can be the adult that my inner child can feel safe. I never realized that until this song and November Ultra voice. Thank you.
Sending you a HUGE Hug, all this emotional damage will go away keep your faith and love to yourself stronger than ever! Sometimes us is all we have and all we need you’re not alone ❤️😞
Her songs feel like a loving mother hugging my inner child, they make me cry every single time but in a really warm and pain-relieving way. Thank you very much, your music means a lot to me.
im obsessed with her! her music makes me shed tears unlike anything else. its like a mix of comfort, healing, sadness. its amazing and really makes me feel things ya know??
When you finally accept the loss and just want to let it go. You realize you’ve done everything that could be done. And even though it may hurt for the rest of your life you can be sure you did your best. And that’s just gotta be good enough. Sending love to all the lonely sad hearts that found their way here. You’re not alone. And that’s the beauty of the internet. Someone out there feels just the way you do. Keep fighting for your peace. Happiness will follow. ❤
I don’t want to talk Of the things we’ve been through Though it’s hurting me Now it’s history I’ve played all my cards And that’s what you’ve done too Nothing more to say No more ace to play The winner takes it all The loser stands once more beside the victory That’s her destiny The winner takes it all The loser standing small beside the victory That’s her destiny Here’s the lyrics 🥰 (Idk if someone’s done this already if so I’m sorry)
This song makes me so sad , I’m a guy and from time to time I like to hide in bathroom and listen to sad songs n cry my eyes out silently and walk out as if nothing happened , n this is one of the songs that just touches my heart ❤️ 😞
Nothing wrong Jay with a guy crying, even when it is behind closed doors. It's better to let it out. Bottling it up, is not good for your emotional mental health. It's a shame that our culture has taught It's not masculine for men to cry. That's got to change..😇🙏
This song reminds me of my Daddy he fought cancer but at the end cancer won the battle and we lost him. I remember one day he was crying but was trying to hold his tears he was hurting not because of pain but because he knew his time was coming. I was 2 weeks pregnant and he said you are having a boy. I know this one will be our boy. But he left and couldn’t meet my Son. Winter takes it all” to me it represents how the birth of my son who was born in October brought so much joy to our family. Not only was he the boy we dreamed of but he is identical to my father.
Примите соболезнования, пусть покоится с миром🙏 Мой папа тоже ушел от рака, так хотел увидеть свою внучку, не успел буквально на две недели. Очень не хватает его, скучаем. Всем желаю крепкого здоровья и долголети. Дети - это цветы жизни. Всем добра🙏
If I had to guess, he was probably thinking about he had to leave such an amazing daughter. After all, why would god choose to place his image in your hand if you were anything less than perfect? ❤
I lost my best friend a year ago this winter. She was a dog but had my heart like no other. She was all I ever had. I had no friends as a child. I got her as a puppy on my 5th birthday. We did everything together. Now I work at a pet hospital just for her… to help pets like her go to heaven. Someday I’ll see her again, it’s just such a long life I have to live until I see her again.
Hi! Bayleigh, Sorry, to hear you lost your best friend-Your dog. I was touched by your comment saying you didn't have any friends. It must be really hard when you miss that dog who was there for you. Working in a vet hospital must have help. All I can say-Is your not alone. Thanks, for sharing. It makes others know, there not the only ones with a similar story😇
I've been crying non stop. I wasn't even sad in the first place and it brought so many pain and memories. Not only my family's emotional neglect but the way I haven't been able to overcome my trauma. I hope I get to heal and move on someday, I want to be free.
You just have to look at your trauma and say "Fuck you!" Yeah, you have to take power over it! You have to speak it out loud and tell it you Will not control my future! Good things are in my future! You have to say Fuck the past, you Will not define or tell me who I am, what I'm going to do, and the great things I'm going to accomplish. You have to be that bold sometimes and let no one or thing stop you from moving forward!
November ultra is like a mom hugging my inner child. Making her feel safe. Letting her cry out her pain and comforting her. Nova makes me feel so safe. This song played for the first time, i started crying. For 13 year of my life. I finally had feel safe and comforted. I love her so much. Someday i will have a child and i will never let her experience the pain and trauma my parents/mom gave me
I wish this song was available when my mother died. We weren’t on speaking terms when I found out 48hr before she passed that she was dying of cancer. We didn’t talk about who was at fault, no blame was placed on either side, we just apologized, and promised that every hour that she fought to hang on we would cherish whatever time she had left. Tell them you love them now, regret is a form of punishment in itself
Sitting here crying involuntarily because it makes me think o f my friend who just died of breast cancer a month ago. But I also feel like this is the cry I wasn’t able to do when it happened. #Ungaurded😰😓😭
Tonight I confirmed for the first time that my first crush ever from 4th grade really did off himself a few years after he changed schools. I just turned 30, I'm now double his age that he will be forever. He was a gifted artist and encouraged me to keep making art, and for him I will. I'm grateful to this video for being here while I process seeing his obituary and gravestone for the first time tonight.
I am, really at my lowest as I type this comment. It feels like everything that could go wrong is going wrong. I'm failing, at everything. I don't want to fail at life as well. Documenting this here not with intentions of spreading negativity but hoping next time I revisit I will be able to see how things have changed for the better❤ this song is letting me know it's really okay. My life is not going the way I want, I have to accept it and start working on the things I'm capable of changing. I hope future me will be in a way better state. Just.....keep going love😿💕
I can relate to your struggle, been there, done that. Anytime I was told that it'd get better, if anything, I felt upset because I had lost my faith in it. But I promise you, it gets better, and when it does, you'll be proud of yourself for hanging in there, staying strong for yourself and your loved ones. I'm proud of you, listen to your heart and take it easy on yourself. Life is hard, and it can be tricky at times. But you're not a failure, if anything, that means what you're working on is not meant for you because there's another plan for you, a better one, I guarantee you
I don't wanna talk About things we've gone through Though it's hurting me Now it's history I've played all my cards And that's what you've done too Nothing more to say No more ace to play The winner takes it all The loser's standing small Beside the victory That's her destiny I was in your arms Thinking I belonged there I figured it made sense Building me a fence Building me a home Thinking I'd be strong there But I was a fool Playing by the rules The gods may throw a dice Their minds as cold as ice And someone way down here Loses someone dear The winner takes it all (takes it all) The loser has to fall (has to fall) It's simple and it's plain (it's so plain) Why should I complain? (Why complain?) But tell me, does she kiss Like I used to kiss you? Does it feel the same When she calls your name? Somewhere deep inside You must know I miss you But what can I say? Rules must be obeyed The judges will decide (will decide) The likes of me abide (me abide) Spectators of the show (of the show) Always staying low (staying low) The game is on again (on again) A lover or a friend (or a friend) A big thing or a small (big or small) The winner takes it all (takes it all) I don't wanna talk If it makes you feel sad And I understand You've come to shake my hand I apologize If it makes you feel bad Seeing me so tense No self-confidence But you see The winner takes it all The winner takes it all So the winner takes it all And the loser has to fall Throw the dice, cold as ice Way down here, someone dear Takes it all, has to fall And it's plain, why complain?
Years ago I watched my mom sit at her kitchen table weeping while listening to this ABBA song. Her husband of 30 years had told her he wanted a divorce. It broke her and it broke me watching her shatter. This song will forever take me back to that moment. I'm in tears now just thinking of it, of her, sitting there so small and fragile.
When I listen to this song, I think about my dog who passed away while laying down next to me about 3 months ago. I miss you so much Toby. No only you were my best friend. You were my son. My sonny…. I miss you so so much
We had to lay my 6 year old girl Jenny to rest, I thought I was starting to feel a little better until this song came on in a tiktok vid about a dog passing away and it absolutely wrecked me. I miss her so much it's not fair
Oh my gosh. My heart aches for you. I wish I could hug you. Please know she is at peace now. No one can harm her. She is in a safe, happy place. God has his hands on you. He knows whats to happen. You will be okay, I can't promise right away. But one day you will be able to smile again. ❤️❤️❤️
This makes me cry like a baby and the worst part is I shove my face in a pillow because I don’t want them to think they won by making me cry. I just wanna cry my river freely. People don’t understand why I love the rain it’s because they can’t tell I’m crying. Any way thank you for being the only person who heard me . I appreciate you and baby cry it’s ok just let it out I’m here. It’s safe it’s all gonna be okay I’m here with you.
Saben desde hace mucho tiempo está canción empezó a sonar por todos lados y me niña pequeña se dió un encontron muy fuerte Pues la canción habla de dos personas que se separan y el que gana se lo lleva todo Mis padres pasaron por esta canción y mi mamá aparentemente ganó pero desde entonces ya no la veo igual siento que algo se apagó en ella desde que entendí y que ella hizo todo por quedarse con nosotras pero realmente ella se perdió por culpa de una relación que no funcionó con mi papá y desde ese día han pasado 37 años y tengo 20 años en los cuales hace 15 termine de perder a esa mujer llena de vida y amor que era , me parece increíble como a veces la veo por un instante a mi lado pero es un momento fugaz , actualmente la veo llorar y me genera tanta tristeza ver cómo ella nos ganó pero se perdió ... Mami si algún día llegas a leer esto por alguna razón lamento tanto no poderte hacer feliz como la hermosa mujer que eres , nunca me has fallado y puedo decir que eres lo más valioso que tengo y perdóname por todas las veces que he Sido mal agradecida contigo espero pronto ayudarte a ser una mujer libre y volver a mi mami llena de sueños y anhelos, aquella que sin importar la hora llegaba cansada de trabajar a jugar conmigo y llenarme de besitos y de amor, se que he crecido pero aún necesito volver a sentir el amor de mi mami Te amo Espero algún día tener el valor de decirte esto y saber que seré fuerte para sostener tu pesar en mis brazos .
Por favor no pierdas el tiempo, en u abrir y cerrar de ojos esos seres amados se nos pueden ir para siempre, tal vez ella necesite sol eso sentir tu amor, para volver a ser feliz. Haslo por amor de dios.
I may just be a middle aged bloke, a little rough around the edges these days, but I have to say there's something very special indeed about Ultra & in particular this lovely version of such a classic song.
Im currently in a foreign country for my studies, and i feel very homesick. I miss my parents and my home. I keep listening to this and crying. I just can’t seem to find back the passion and the motivation that i once had here. It all feels so insignificant.
I lost my brother last year . He lost his battle with depression and everyday I think of all the times we would argue . He always wanted me to live closer to him , join the military and be on base with him . I always refused and could never see why he would want that for me when all along he just wanted his little brother closer to him and to finally be his friend after all the bullshit we went through as kids . I love you Mike and I'm sorry winning an argument on how to live cost me everything.
I was crying the whole time I was listening to this song. This' ones my aunt's favorite songs and she sang it while tears rolled down her face. Sadly, she died last June due to cancer. I missed her.
I sing to my children too, but I'm pretty sure I don't sound like this, though. I also remember my dad singing me to sleep when I was younger. I realized, throughout life, that we don't really remember all the gifts we get, but the memory of sweet moments seems to last forever...
I am currently battling infertility this song gives closure and allows me to feel and cry and I don’t mind a little bit of sadness every once and a while ❤️
Having received my results today and knowing that I'll never be able to achieve one of my long time childhood dreams, this song somehow hits different. It's not utter dejection or sadness, it's something like letting something beautiful go, because it could have been yours but now it will never be anymore. Thank you Abba for producing such a beautiful song and to November Ultra for this heartfelt cover. - 15/12/22
I love this. I find all ABBA songs to have a bittersweet quality to them, like they’re talking about a peak time in the past that they’re reflecting on now that it’s gone.
No quiero hablar Sobre las cosas por las que hemos pasado Aunque me está lastimando Ahora es historia He jugado todas mis cartas Y eso es lo que has hecho también Nada más que decir No más as para jugar El ganador se lo lleva todo El perdedor es pequeño Al lado de la victoria Ese es su destino Estaba en tus brazos Pensando que pertenecía allí Pensé que tenía sentido Construyéndome una cerca Construyéndome una casa Pensando que sería fuerte allí Pero fui un tonto Jugando por las reglas Los dioses pueden tirar un dado Sus mentes tan frías como el hielo Y alguien de aquí abajo Pierde a alguien querido El ganador se lo lleva todo (se lo lleva todo) El perdedor tiene que caer (tiene que caer) Es simple y es simple (sí, es simple) ¿Por qué debería quejarme? (¿por qué quejarse?) Pero dime, ella besa ¿Como solía besarte? ¿Se siente lo mismo Cuando ella dice tu nombre? En algún lugar profundo en el interior Debes saber que te extraño Pero que puedo decir Las reglas deben ser obedecidas Los jueces decidirán (decidirán) La gente como yo acepta Espectadores del espectáculo (del espectáculo) Siempre permaneciendo bajo (manteniéndose bajo) El juego está de nuevo (de nuevo) Un amante o un amigo (o un amigo) Una cosa grande o pequeña (grande o pequeña) El ganador se lo lleva todo (se lo lleva todo) No quiero hablar Si te hace sentir triste Y yo entiendo Has venido a darme la mano Me disculpo Si te hace sentir mal Viéndome tan tenso Sin confianza en sí mismo Pero tu ves El ganador se lo lleva todo El ganador se lo lleva todo Entonces el ganador se lo lleva todo Y el perdedor tiene que caer Tira un dado, frío como el hielo Muy abajo, alguien querido Se lo lleva todo, tiene que caer Si es simple ¿Por qué quejarse? Gracias!!! 🙂
When I'm feeling really sad and small, I listen to this cover. I love her voice and feel comforted by the beauty within our saddest moments after listening to her
I just want to thank her for being a source of comfort during my late night crying sessions. Her songs feel like a parental figure I never had, it really speaks to my inner child that is still hurting.
No entiendo, pero con esta canción lloro a mares, gracias por transmitir tanto con esa voz tan maravillosa, pues con ella puedo soltar todo tan fácilmente y sentirme mejor 💝💖
@@m.amador6786 it’s really hard when all you can think about is one person all day and all night, every second your awake. It will fade, it always dose and all the sad thoughts will turn to happy memories
I cannot believe how amazing this cover is. Just wow. I always knew Abba were a great pop band, but because their music was so happy and upbeat sometimes the lyrics got lost. This is so pure.
Ouvia essa música com minha cachorrinha, ela se acalmava e parecia que estava entendendo quando escutava a música. Faz uma semana que perdi ela e hoje ela veio me visitar em forma dessa música, pois lembrei da música enquanto trabalhava e não consegui não chorar porque senti a presença dela. Te amo pra sempre Bry, meu anjinho da guarda 🐶❤️🩹😔
Currently going thru a miscarriage and crying while I lay in bed just praying to God to comfort my heart thru this loss… 😢💔🙏🏻 This song just makes the moment ever sadder…
I miss you my Ricky, to think I'm a few weeks I'll be celebrating your first birthday ❤️ one of the purest angels I have in my life is you my son, not a day goes by where I don't think about you, where I don't cry and smell all your hospital clothes, I wish everyday life was different, I'll spend the rest of my life, waiting for the day I get to spend eternity with you ❤️
Cold winter and breeze down the streets.. It's 2 am in the middle of the night.. Full moon day.. Days are passing.. We r getting older.. And this song in the background ❤ The winter takes it all..!
Been listening to this non stop after ending a 7 year relationship with my boyfriend because we wanted different things in the end. Hurts a lot because we both love each other very much and hurts that we won't be with each other till the end but it had to be done...
For anyone who has gone through trauma… And made it out ALIVE… This song is your VICTORY song… I look at Myself as the WINNER- Not against any specific individual, but instead against any energy which try to keep me down, for moving ahead, from RISING ABOVE - and making it out ALIVE !
The first time I heard this song, and every time after that..... gathers forward this deep, deep sense of grief from within, then have it sit right at the edge of expression. The feeling that you have in your throat when you are about to cry, and that indescribable foreboding sense of losing something or someone close to your heart....
I can sometimes remember what her hands felt like as we walked down the street..sometimes when I pass by a bakery I remember the way she’d get so excited to make me cookies, when she was done she’d have flour everywhere..sometimes when I play a song I can remember her trying her best to sing like me and hit me when I’d hit a note she couldn’t…when I see yellow cars or trucks I remember how all id hear is “bingo”..then I moved away and I didn’t smell cookies, I couldn’t hit those notes, and her soft hands are like a distant dream..thank you for letting me remember her.. My pretty girl..
Hey everyone, I’m mostly writing this for my future self to dig through and find, but you’re welcome to stay. I know it sucks right now. You’re being so strong, looking after yourself. I’m so proud, even if you don’t believe me. I know you always hear it, but things are gonna get better. And we can always listen to this song when we need to cry.
I started using this after watching her video 2 months ago. My skin is flawless... this product works. My friends has been telling me that my face look so spotless. I use it only in the morning and I use rice cleanser at night .
November, your music soothes my soul and allows me to release the pain I feel in my heart. Thank you. You are truly blessed with such a beautiful voice.
So many covers of this song.....this super simple, down tempo cover is, by far, my favorite. The simplicity and slowness of this version really makes the emotional impact of the song come alive. By the way, I love your voice. Peace
Hace tres meses , un cumulo de 4 patas, pelos y dos orejas llamado Raphael partio de mi vida. Luego de mas de 4 años juntos, entre dias buenos y malos, extraño tanto tu mal genio, tu pacividad y todo el cariño que me diste. Donde sea que estes, dejaste una huella imborrable .
This is beautiful. It helped bring me to tears and grieve over my father who passed away four or five months ago. I miss him terribly right now and I heard this in an Instagram video someone used to “make a memory more special” of one of her last memories with her dad, and it sparked me doing the same with mine, and I sobbed for a minute. I might get more in before I’m done idk… anyways this is a beautiful song and better than the original I think. Lovely..
Cette interprétation, cette interprète est indeniablement dans mon top 5 ever des voix les plus pure. Cette femme est incroyable 😍 J'ai appris qu'elle est passée vers chez moi en Suisse triste de ne pas l'avoir entendu en vrai. Une prochaine fois. Je ne fais plus de concert depuis longtemps mais aller prendre un shot de bonheur je suis pas contre 🙂
as delicate as this version was sung, it is also overwhelmingly strong, so to speak. you can hear it forever. it's like gliding into the infinity of the universe. A full bath in feelings, in peace, in self-knowledge, calming and giving confidence. I feel a deep love when I hear this magnificently sung version of this song. I also owe the interpreter my deepest gratitude. It's unbelievable how many people miss this great art because they live a fast, undecelerated life. I feel very blessed to be able to experience this art...
Esta canción 🥺 que nostalgica me he puesto Cuando tenía 16 y me quería suicidar Me senté en una banca mientras los amigos de clase jugaban con la pelota Y miré a un amigo y pensé Si no me habla, me suicido Parece gracioso pero no lo era Y luego, mágicamente Volteó a verme y me dijo que fuera a jugar Me sequé las lágrimas y fui a jugar Hoy tengo 21 años La vida siempre se pone mejor Si buscamos ayuda O si nos empeñamos porque mejore ✨
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it's like suddenly I can remember my childhood, all the pain that i lived, all the bad words, the abandonment, the screams and my tears. I felt so alone. I prayed for angels to take care of me and no one came. I was alone. No angels were there, no god, no nothing. Just my bravery. After 12 years, I realized that I had myself. When I prayed for a single hug, it was me from the future trying to comfort that little child. I did good. Today I can be the adult that my inner child can feel safe. I never realized that until this song and November Ultra voice. Thank you.
Sending you a HUGE Hug, all this emotional damage will go away keep your faith and love to yourself stronger than ever! Sometimes us is all we have and all we need you’re not alone ❤️😞
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Your words are just as strong as this song. Huge hug.
This hits home❤️
Her songs feel like a loving mother hugging my inner child, they make me cry every single time but in a really warm and pain-relieving way. Thank you very much, your music means a lot to me.
im obsessed with her! her music makes me shed tears unlike anything else. its like a mix of comfort, healing, sadness. its amazing and really makes me feel things ya know??
Your words are lovely and made the tears fall 💝 it true very beautiful song
@@maggggs Yes! It happens to me every time. I didn't know anyone else felt the same way.
Yasss!. That voice 🥰
You are crying because you have a good heart and maybe it brings back memories like it does for me 💚
When you finally accept the loss and just want to let it go. You realize you’ve done everything that could be done. And even though it may hurt for the rest of your life you can be sure you did your best. And that’s just gotta be good enough. Sending love to all the lonely sad hearts that found their way here. You’re not alone. And that’s the beauty of the internet. Someone out there feels just the way you do. Keep fighting for your peace. Happiness will follow. ❤
you got me crying at 1:12 pm melanie
Omg this is me!!😭 thank you for this comment i really needed to see this after the sudden loss of my father i was so close to!!! Xx
Thank you💕
Thanks for this comment 😢
Very well said I totally relate and get some healing through your comment, ty
I don’t want to talk
Of the things we’ve been through
Though it’s hurting me
Now it’s history
I’ve played all my cards
And that’s what you’ve done too
Nothing more to say
No more ace to play
The winner takes it all
The loser stands once more beside the victory
That’s her destiny
The winner takes it all
The loser standing small beside the victory
That’s her destiny
Here’s the lyrics 🥰
(Idk if someone’s done this already if so I’m sorry)
even if someone done that already, you no need to be sorry :) hehe
Thank you, they were very helpful.
Thank you I have searching for both the singer and the lyrics
dont be sorry for having an intention to help others, i appreciate you
thanks 🥰
If there is an Angel who lays a hand to the heart to comfort the soul through music this is a glimpse.
Leer esto y al mismo tiempo escucharlo es maravilloso
What a beautiful comment sam. I wish you well my friend. I wish you luck & I wish you love ❤️
Very well articulated- you captured where my thoughts were 💖
wow that's beautiful :,)
Lovely
This song makes me so sad , I’m a guy and from time to time I like to hide in bathroom and listen to sad songs n cry my eyes out silently and walk out as if nothing happened , n this is one of the songs that just touches my heart ❤️ 😞
Nothing wrong Jay with a guy crying, even when it is behind closed doors. It's better to let it out. Bottling it up, is not good for your emotional mental health. It's a shame that our culture has taught It's not masculine for men to cry. That's got to change..😇🙏
Same mate
❤️you’re not alone
I do the same bro it's therapeutic
This song reminds me of my Daddy he fought cancer but at the end cancer won the battle and we lost him. I remember one day he was crying but was trying to hold his tears he was hurting not because of pain but because he knew his time was coming. I was 2 weeks pregnant and he said you are having a boy. I know this one will be our boy. But he left and couldn’t meet my Son. Winter takes it all” to me it represents how the birth of my son who was born in October brought so much joy to our family. Not only was he the boy we dreamed of but he is identical to my father.
May he rest in peace, sending you so much love ❤️
Примите соболезнования, пусть покоится с миром🙏 Мой папа тоже ушел от рака, так хотел увидеть свою внучку, не успел буквально на две недели. Очень не хватает его, скучаем. Всем желаю крепкого здоровья и долголети. Дети - это цветы жизни. Всем добра🙏
Cancer didn't win, the cancer died and your dad passed to a more peaceful place that the cancer couldnt get to.
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If I had to guess, he was probably thinking about he had to leave such an amazing daughter.
After all, why would god choose to place his image in your hand if you were anything less than perfect? ❤
I lost my best friend a year ago this winter. She was a dog but had my heart like no other. She was all I ever had. I had no friends as a child. I got her as a puppy on my 5th birthday. We did everything together.
Now I work at a pet hospital just for her… to help pets like her go to heaven.
Someday I’ll see her again, it’s just such a long life I have to live until I see her again.
Hi! Bayleigh, Sorry, to hear you lost your best friend-Your dog. I was touched by your comment saying you didn't have any friends. It must be really hard when you miss that dog who was there for you. Working in a vet hospital must have help. All I can say-Is your not alone. Thanks, for sharing. It makes others know, there not the only ones with a similar story😇
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❤❤❤❤ Hugs.
I understand more than you can imagine ❤
I've been crying non stop. I wasn't even sad in the first place and it brought so many pain and memories. Not only my family's emotional neglect but the way I haven't been able to overcome my trauma. I hope I get to heal and move on someday, I want to be free.
❤️❤️wish you the best - it takes time..
You are already more than a winner my dear, God may find His way through your heart and heal it completely ❤
God is Healing you now ❤️😇🤍🤍
You just have to look at your trauma and say "Fuck you!" Yeah, you have to take power over it! You have to speak it out loud and tell it you Will not control my future! Good things are in my future! You have to say Fuck the past, you Will not define or tell me who I am, what I'm going to do, and the great things I'm going to accomplish. You have to be that bold sometimes and let no one or thing stop you from moving forward!
Oh my gosh same here. I'm typing this while just crying uncontrollably like I relate to this comment 100%.... 😔
November ultra is like a mom hugging my inner child. Making her feel safe. Letting her cry out her pain and comforting her. Nova makes me feel so safe. This song played for the first time, i started crying. For 13 year of my life. I finally had feel safe and comforted. I love her so much. Someday i will have a child and i will never let her experience the pain and trauma my parents/mom gave me
I understand ... Hugs
Her voice feels like home. Warm, safe and true.
This song is helping me heal from my failed marriage. I cannot thank you enough for being there for me in one of the darkest times in my life.
Same here, sending you love 💕
💞💞💞💞 te mando muchos cariños!!!
Same 😢
Same here, my husband left me because he didn’t know how to communicate and I got tired
Sending hugs. You got this! 💪
I wish this song was available when my mother died. We weren’t on speaking terms when I found out 48hr before she passed that she was dying of cancer. We didn’t talk about who was at fault, no blame was placed on either side, we just apologized, and promised that every hour that she fought to hang on we would cherish whatever time she had left.
Tell them you love them now, regret is a form of punishment in itself
🥹🥹🥹
I'm terribly sorry for your loss.. You're a strong individual and I'm proud of you
What type of person would you be if you had no regrets?
Not an amazing one, such as yourself❤️
Same story for me. My mother died January 25, and I didn't say goodbye 😭😭
Im so sorry 😞😥
This is song makes me cry so hard. It’s like a cloud of warmth. Like a hug when you needed. My soul is touched. There is magic in her voice ❤️🥺
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Sitting here crying involuntarily because it makes me think o f my friend who just died of breast cancer a month ago. But I also feel like this is the cry I wasn’t able to do when it happened. #Ungaurded😰😓😭
😢😢😢😢🙋🏻♀️
Tonight I confirmed for the first time that my first crush ever from 4th grade really did off himself a few years after he changed schools. I just turned 30, I'm now double his age that he will be forever. He was a gifted artist and encouraged me to keep making art, and for him I will. I'm grateful to this video for being here while I process seeing his obituary and gravestone for the first time tonight.
She brings the lyrics to life in a whole different light
i havent cried in what feels like years. this song brings everything to the surface and now i’m in my work bathroom just sobbing and remembering.
I hope you heal from what's hurting you soon ..you're not alone 🖤
It’s good to let it out
The peace I feel when she says “ I don’t wanna talk “ …
Because I don’t, because am tired of talking yet not heard
Your voice is so curing ❤
😢😢😢 same
You’re heard. Even when it’s unexpected.
Even though life’s a struggle sometimes.. this too shall pass. ❤
I am, really at my lowest as I type this comment. It feels like everything that could go wrong is going wrong. I'm failing, at everything. I don't want to fail at life as well. Documenting this here not with intentions of spreading negativity but hoping next time I revisit I will be able to see how things have changed for the better❤ this song is letting me know it's really okay. My life is not going the way I want, I have to accept it and start working on the things I'm capable of changing. I hope future me will be in a way better state. Just.....keep going love😿💕
Just keep going! No matter what, Just keep going! It's a journey with hills and valleys. Never give up on you!
@@jjaneenb 🥺❤❤❤
I can relate to your struggle, been there, done that. Anytime I was told that it'd get better, if anything, I felt upset because I had lost my faith in it. But I promise you, it gets better, and when it does, you'll be proud of yourself for hanging in there, staying strong for yourself and your loved ones. I'm proud of you, listen to your heart and take it easy on yourself. Life is hard, and it can be tricky at times. But you're not a failure, if anything, that means what you're working on is not meant for you because there's another plan for you, a better one, I guarantee you
I hear your pain. I share it. Still, we persist.
I hope you've been doing okay, dear.
I don't wanna talk
About things we've gone through
Though it's hurting me
Now it's history
I've played all my cards
And that's what you've done too
Nothing more to say
No more ace to play
The winner takes it all
The loser's standing small
Beside the victory
That's her destiny
I was in your arms
Thinking I belonged there
I figured it made sense
Building me a fence
Building me a home
Thinking I'd be strong there
But I was a fool
Playing by the rules
The gods may throw a dice
Their minds as cold as ice
And someone way down here
Loses someone dear
The winner takes it all (takes it all)
The loser has to fall (has to fall)
It's simple and it's plain (it's so plain)
Why should I complain? (Why complain?)
But tell me, does she kiss
Like I used to kiss you?
Does it feel the same
When she calls your name?
Somewhere deep inside
You must know I miss you
But what can I say?
Rules must be obeyed
The judges will decide (will decide)
The likes of me abide (me abide)
Spectators of the show (of the show)
Always staying low (staying low)
The game is on again (on again)
A lover or a friend (or a friend)
A big thing or a small (big or small)
The winner takes it all (takes it all)
I don't wanna talk
If it makes you feel sad
And I understand
You've come to shake my hand
I apologize
If it makes you feel bad
Seeing me so tense
No self-confidence
But you see
The winner takes it all
The winner takes it all
So the winner takes it all
And the loser has to fall
Throw the dice, cold as ice
Way down here, someone dear
Takes it all, has to fall
And it's plain, why complain?
Years ago I watched my mom sit at her kitchen table weeping while listening to this ABBA song. Her husband of 30 years had told her he wanted a divorce. It broke her and it broke me watching her shatter. This song will forever take me back to that moment. I'm in tears now just thinking of it, of her, sitting there so small and fragile.
i can listen to her version all day long
I've listened to this on a constant loop since I discovered her on TikTok. She is SPECTACULAR 🙌❤️
She is magnificient.
Me too
Ditto, I just discovered her via tiktok...came searching for this. Absolutely beautiful.
When I listen to this song, I think about my dog who passed away while laying down next to me about 3 months ago. I miss you so much Toby. No only you were my best friend. You were my son. My sonny…. I miss you so so much
This is absolutely beautiful. I can’t listen to this without crying. It’s like it makes me feel emotions I’ve buried a long time ago.
I envy you. I wish i could cry, i am behind a wall these times.
We had to lay my 6 year old girl Jenny to rest, I thought I was starting to feel a little better until this song came on in a tiktok vid about a dog passing away and it absolutely wrecked me. I miss her so much it's not fair
Im really sorry, i bet my heart shes in a better place now happily waiting for you.
I'm soo sorry. Massive mental hugs to you and yours. ❤
Oh my gosh. My heart aches for you. I wish I could hug you. Please know she is at peace now. No one can harm her. She is in a safe, happy place. God has his hands on you. He knows whats to happen. You will be okay, I can't promise right away. But one day you will be able to smile again. ❤️❤️❤️
I recently lost my youngest son so I know how you feel. It’s such a deep hurt and grief and it’s so hard to bear. 💔 🙏🏼
@@roseanneking8984 I'm soo sorry! I hope that your family and friends are there to gather around you at this terrible time. 💙❤
This makes me cry like a baby and the worst part is I shove my face in a pillow because I don’t want them to think they won by making me cry. I just wanna cry my river freely. People don’t understand why I love the rain it’s because they can’t tell I’m crying. Any way thank you for being the only person who heard me . I appreciate you and baby cry it’s ok just let it out I’m here. It’s safe it’s all gonna be okay I’m here with you.
I feel that sometimes. I'm always crying I just hide it well.
@@kurthentscheljr8989 your not alone you got me.
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Saben desde hace mucho tiempo está canción empezó a sonar por todos lados y me niña pequeña se dió un encontron muy fuerte
Pues la canción habla de dos personas que se separan y el que gana se lo lleva todo
Mis padres pasaron por esta canción y mi mamá aparentemente ganó pero desde entonces ya no la veo igual siento que algo se apagó en ella desde que entendí y que ella hizo todo por quedarse con nosotras pero realmente ella se perdió por culpa de una relación que no funcionó con mi papá y desde ese día han pasado 37 años y tengo 20 años en los cuales hace 15 termine de perder a esa mujer llena de vida y amor que era , me parece increíble como a veces la veo por un instante a mi lado pero es un momento fugaz , actualmente la veo llorar y me genera tanta tristeza ver cómo ella nos ganó pero se perdió ...
Mami si algún día llegas a leer esto por alguna razón lamento tanto no poderte hacer feliz como la hermosa mujer que eres , nunca me has fallado y puedo decir que eres lo más valioso que tengo y perdóname por todas las veces que he Sido mal agradecida contigo espero pronto ayudarte a ser una mujer libre y volver a mi mami llena de sueños y anhelos, aquella que sin importar la hora llegaba cansada de trabajar a jugar conmigo y llenarme de besitos y de amor, se que he crecido pero aún necesito volver a sentir el amor de mi mami
Te amo
Espero algún día tener el valor de decirte esto y saber que seré fuerte para sostener tu pesar en mis brazos .
No esperes más en decírselo.!!! El tiempo no perdona.
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No te quedes con las ganas de decírselo , díselo ! Capaz es lo que ella necesita escuchar , ánimo !
Te leí mientras escucho la canción... a donde quiera que estés te mando un abrazo... parece que va a llover...
Por favor no pierdas el tiempo, en u abrir y cerrar de ojos esos seres amados se nos pueden ir para siempre, tal vez ella necesite sol eso sentir tu amor, para volver a ser feliz. Haslo por amor de dios.
I think this cover shows how good them blokes in ABBA are at song writing.
I may just be a middle aged bloke, a little rough around the edges these days, but I have to say there's something very special indeed about Ultra & in particular this lovely version of such a classic song.
Im currently in a foreign country for my studies, and i feel very homesick. I miss my parents and my home. I keep listening to this and crying. I just can’t seem to find back the passion and the motivation that i once had here. It all feels so insignificant.
I lost my brother last year . He lost his battle with depression and everyday I think of all the times we would argue . He always wanted me to live closer to him , join the military and be on base with him . I always refused and could never see why he would want that for me when all along he just wanted his little brother closer to him and to finally be his friend after all the bullshit we went through as kids . I love you Mike and I'm sorry winning an argument on how to live cost me everything.
I was crying the whole time I was listening to this song. This' ones my aunt's favorite songs and she sang it while tears rolled down her face. Sadly, she died last June due to cancer. I missed her.
Man, it made me remember my mom singing to me to sleep. when I was a child she always used to sing to me at night with a soft voice like this 🥲
I sing to my children too, but I'm pretty sure I don't sound like this, though. I also remember my dad singing me to sleep when I was younger. I realized, throughout life, that we don't really remember all the gifts we get, but the memory of sweet moments seems to last forever...
I had a fight with my lover yesterday.. we're not talking.. listening to this made me cry.. I wish things go back to where they were before
It's will be okay 🍄
It’s like her voice is cleansing my soul,cuz it is.
I am currently battling infertility this song gives closure and allows me to feel and cry and I don’t mind a little bit of sadness every once and a while ❤️
❤
We are all rooting for you.
❤
Having received my results today and knowing that I'll never be able to achieve one of my long time childhood dreams, this song somehow hits different. It's not utter dejection or sadness, it's something like letting something beautiful go, because it could have been yours but now it will never be anymore. Thank you Abba for producing such a beautiful song and to November Ultra for this heartfelt cover.
- 15/12/22
I love this. I find all ABBA songs to have a bittersweet quality to them, like they’re talking about a peak time in the past that they’re reflecting on now that it’s gone.
reminds me of my grandma. She passed and the only person who i felt ever cared... i will always love her♥
No quiero hablar
Sobre las cosas por las que hemos pasado
Aunque me está lastimando
Ahora es historia
He jugado todas mis cartas
Y eso es lo que has hecho también
Nada más que decir
No más as para jugar
El ganador se lo lleva todo
El perdedor es pequeño
Al lado de la victoria
Ese es su destino
Estaba en tus brazos
Pensando que pertenecía allí
Pensé que tenía sentido
Construyéndome una cerca
Construyéndome una casa
Pensando que sería fuerte allí
Pero fui un tonto
Jugando por las reglas
Los dioses pueden tirar un dado
Sus mentes tan frías como el hielo
Y alguien de aquí abajo
Pierde a alguien querido
El ganador se lo lleva todo (se lo lleva todo)
El perdedor tiene que caer (tiene que caer)
Es simple y es simple (sí, es simple)
¿Por qué debería quejarme? (¿por qué quejarse?)
Pero dime, ella besa
¿Como solía besarte?
¿Se siente lo mismo
Cuando ella dice tu nombre?
En algún lugar profundo en el interior
Debes saber que te extraño
Pero que puedo decir
Las reglas deben ser obedecidas
Los jueces decidirán (decidirán)
La gente como yo acepta
Espectadores del espectáculo (del espectáculo)
Siempre permaneciendo bajo (manteniéndose bajo)
El juego está de nuevo (de nuevo)
Un amante o un amigo (o un amigo)
Una cosa grande o pequeña (grande o pequeña)
El ganador se lo lleva todo (se lo lleva todo)
No quiero hablar
Si te hace sentir triste
Y yo entiendo
Has venido a darme la mano
Me disculpo
Si te hace sentir mal
Viéndome tan tenso
Sin confianza en sí mismo
Pero tu ves
El ganador se lo lleva todo
El ganador se lo lleva todo
Entonces el ganador se lo lleva todo
Y el perdedor tiene que caer
Tira un dado, frío como el hielo
Muy abajo, alguien querido
Se lo lleva todo, tiene que caer
Si es simple
¿Por qué quejarse?
Gracias!!! 🙂
How is this not on spotify?!
probably bc of the copyright she might get from ABBA
I’m listening to it right now on Spotify!
@@leighmiller8904 hooow? Could you share the link?
@@nightcore4u426 Abba has allowed tonnes of covers on this song and others. I sure it will be released sometime later this year...
You can just add it yourself by making the youtube into a mp3 file
Who else can't listen to song without thinking of Jimmy and Chuck?!
The many bonds of brothers lost forever!
😔
She sings from the soul. So soothing, calming, beautiful and yet so poignant.
When I'm feeling really sad and small, I listen to this cover. I love her voice and feel comforted by the beauty within our saddest moments after listening to her
I just want to thank her for being a source of comfort during my late night crying sessions. Her songs feel like a parental figure I never had, it really speaks to my inner child that is still hurting.
Her voice sounds like the old Adele its beautiful! It’s moving makes me think about the pass of all the people in my life I’ve loved in that moment!!
If I could listen to one song forever… this would be it.
I need a hour loop of this is so peaceful to just lay down to
No entiendo, pero con esta canción lloro a mares, gracias por transmitir tanto con esa voz tan maravillosa, pues con ella puedo soltar todo tan fácilmente y sentirme mejor 💝💖
Me pasa igual. Mi padre no se va de mi cabeza No puedo dejarlo ir.
@@m.amador6786 it’s really hard when all you can think about is one person all day and all night, every second your awake. It will fade, it always dose and all the sad thoughts will turn to happy memories
I cannot believe how amazing this cover is. Just wow. I always knew Abba were a great pop band, but because their music was so happy and upbeat sometimes the lyrics got lost. This is so pure.
Her cover come to everybody’s heart
The amount of tears I've shed listening to this.....
never thought of a rendition like this of this abba classic
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Ouvia essa música com minha cachorrinha, ela se acalmava e parecia que estava entendendo quando escutava a música. Faz uma semana que perdi ela e hoje ela veio me visitar em forma dessa música, pois lembrei da música enquanto trabalhava e não consegui não chorar porque senti a presença dela.
Te amo pra sempre Bry, meu anjinho da guarda 🐶❤️🩹😔
😭
Currently going thru a miscarriage and crying while I lay in bed just praying to God to comfort my heart thru this loss… 😢💔🙏🏻 This song just makes the moment ever sadder…
Her song, voice and melody take me to ease clouds! God is in her songs!!
Se me hace un nudo en la garganta al escuchar esta canción 🥺🥺 el amor no debería doler.
My best friend died yesterday, I need this
I miss you my Ricky, to think I'm a few weeks I'll be celebrating your first birthday ❤️ one of the purest angels I have in my life is you my son, not a day goes by where I don't think about you, where I don't cry and smell all your hospital clothes, I wish everyday life was different, I'll spend the rest of my life, waiting for the day I get to spend eternity with you ❤️
Her voice is absolutely magical
Cold winter and breeze down the streets.. It's 2 am in the middle of the night.. Full moon day.. Days are passing.. We r getting older.. And this song in the background ❤ The winter takes it all..!
Been listening to this non stop after ending a 7 year relationship with my boyfriend because we wanted different things in the end. Hurts a lot because we both love each other very much and hurts that we won't be with each other till the end but it had to be done...
For anyone who has gone through trauma… And made it out ALIVE… This song is your VICTORY song… I look at Myself as the WINNER- Not against any specific individual, but instead against any energy which try to keep me down, for moving ahead, from RISING ABOVE - and making it out ALIVE !
Thank you
i hope there is a full cover released on spotify cause the way i listen to this on loop omg
This cover is really beautiful 😍 your voice makes me feel into another dimension.
November Ultra is the best version of this beautiful song!!!
The first time I heard this song, and every time after that..... gathers forward this deep, deep sense of grief from within, then have it sit right at the edge of expression. The feeling that you have in your throat when you are about to cry, and that indescribable foreboding sense of losing something or someone close to your heart....
I love her cover of the song, it's beautiful.
My niece died she had cancer this song makes me feel really sad I really miss her a lot. Rest in peace my baby angel. ❤🕊
❤️❤️❤️
I can sometimes remember what her hands felt like as we walked down the street..sometimes when I pass by a bakery I remember the way she’d get so excited to make me cookies, when she was done she’d have flour everywhere..sometimes when I play a song I can remember her trying her best to sing like me and hit me when I’d hit a note she couldn’t…when I see yellow cars or trucks I remember how all id hear is “bingo”..then I moved away and I didn’t smell cookies, I couldn’t hit those notes, and her soft hands are like a distant dream..thank you for letting me remember her..
My pretty girl..
Якимось дивним чином, ця мелодія достучалась до самих та самого, машина часу, все зійшлось.....
Тепло дитинства, юності, .....
Дякую за цей момент )
Beautiful - like an angel singing on a lonely cloud.
Her soft voice, and the ghostly, hollow sound of the piano is absolutely beautiful ❤️ it's so enchanting
Hey everyone, I’m mostly writing this for my future self to dig through and find, but you’re welcome to stay. I know it sucks right now. You’re being so strong, looking after yourself. I’m so proud, even if you don’t believe me. I know you always hear it, but things are gonna get better. And we can always listen to this song when we need to cry.
BEST COVER EVER!
Beautiful…one of the all time best heart-break songs
wish it was on spotify!!!!!
I started using this after watching her video 2 months ago. My skin is flawless... this product works. My friends has been telling me that my face look so spotless. I use it only in the morning and I use rice cleanser at night .
The best version of this song ever. Speaks to all my loss and longing. Thank you November Ultra ❤️🩹
November, your music soothes my soul and allows me to release the pain I feel in my heart. Thank you. You are truly blessed with such a beautiful voice.
Niesamowicie piękne, czułe przeniesienie do innego świata, otulający głos
Descansa en paz mi amado angel asui nadie perdio nada... Tu estas en un mejor lugar y yo honrare tu vida...
So many covers of this song.....this super simple, down tempo cover is, by far, my favorite. The simplicity and slowness of this version really makes the emotional impact of the song come alive. By the way, I love your voice. Peace
This cover is beautiful!!! 😪😭 Thank you for your inspiration. Abba ❤️ Greetings from south of Chile 🇨🇱
esta cancion me provoca paz y melancolia a la vez. recuerdo a mi padre que ya lleva 7 años fallecido, te extraño papa vladimir. te extraño mucho.❤❤❤
esa cacnión fue la primera cacnción que estabe en la radio cuando salí del funeral de mi padre. todavia lloro
Jesus is loving all of you!! Just trust Him. You are not alone.
Hace tres meses , un cumulo de 4 patas, pelos y dos orejas llamado Raphael partio de mi vida. Luego de mas de 4 años juntos, entre dias buenos y malos, extraño tanto tu mal genio, tu pacividad y todo el cariño que me diste. Donde sea que estes, dejaste una huella imborrable .
This is beautiful. It helped bring me to tears and grieve over my father who passed away four or five months ago. I miss him terribly right now and I heard this in an Instagram video someone used to “make a memory more special” of one of her last memories with her dad, and it sparked me doing the same with mine, and I sobbed for a minute. I might get more in before I’m done idk… anyways this is a beautiful song and better than the original I think. Lovely..
Cette interprétation, cette interprète est indeniablement dans mon top 5 ever des voix les plus pure. Cette femme est incroyable 😍 J'ai appris qu'elle est passée vers chez moi en Suisse triste de ne pas l'avoir entendu en vrai. Une prochaine fois. Je ne fais plus de concert depuis longtemps mais aller prendre un shot de bonheur je suis pas contre 🙂
Why does this song with this particular voice instantly make me cry 😢
as delicate as this version was sung, it is also overwhelmingly strong, so to speak. you can hear it forever. it's like gliding into the infinity of the universe. A full bath in feelings, in peace, in self-knowledge, calming and giving confidence. I feel a deep love when I hear this magnificently sung version of this song. I also owe the interpreter my deepest gratitude. It's unbelievable how many people miss this great art because they live a fast, undecelerated life. I feel very blessed to be able to experience this art...
Need this on Apple Music like yesterday
had this loop on loop. she's so good I LOVE HER 😭
The best version, EVER! I’ve starting lookig for this song after saw a buch of stories with this lovely song. ❤
Saved me in my hard time with such a warm hug.
Thank you!!
Esta canción 🥺 que nostalgica me he puesto
Cuando tenía 16 y me quería suicidar
Me senté en una banca mientras los amigos de clase jugaban con la pelota
Y miré a un amigo y pensé
Si no me habla, me suicido
Parece gracioso pero no lo era
Y luego, mágicamente
Volteó a verme y me dijo que fuera a jugar
Me sequé las lágrimas y fui a jugar
Hoy tengo 21 años
La vida siempre se pone mejor
Si buscamos ayuda
O si nos empeñamos porque mejore
✨
👏😢
Absolutely amazing!! Emotional! Beautiful!
In my case, he leave me for other guy, but I win when he leave me, now I'm free to live my life, this Song is so Great in different levels.
Beautiful voice.....thank you for this little gem💖
Que lindo! Triste e profundo! Gente! Nunca achei que iria gostar tanto de uma outra versão, além da original, da minha música favorita do ABBA.