Special K I hear what you're saying You sound sincere This is so disturbing because many was given a life by a Black Woman ! A strong Black Woman!!! Thanks for sharing
Consciously, this is most readily unresolved and maybe unrealized trauma. Maybe hardships in childhood, maybe abuse by a mother or other woman in authority. In some, hatred of women is frustration with disillusionment. Societal expectations unmet in relationships, work, community, etc. On a subconscious level, though, this is self-hatred. We all get erased and maligned in news, film, social media, work, in public encounters, and on... Projecting that disappointment, rejection, anger, and humiliation toward the most soft space is a symptom of pain that the wearer cannot face. He needs someone else to be the problem. Many of us have not personally processed the shock and hurt of our ancestral past either. This doesn't excuse the toxic actions, but it lets those of us in proximity to this hatred breathe and release. I can't change someone else's idea of me, but i can love me enough to give those who don't see me the reality they prefer.
Black men don't have self hate, they just hate black women's personality problems. You prove once again that black women are allergic to accountability.
Disillusioned. That is all. Because the majority of them are cuddled over black girls and women, from childhood they expect the world to also. So they seek out women and men who will treat them like children or another woman. Theyre mostly throwing a tanturm when they are ignored or unwanted and viewed as under achievers even though that is what they are. They struggle to be independent and spend a lot of time trying to convince women not to be independent so that they can attach themself to any desperate woman. When those women remain firmly unmoved by the corhersion the men desolve into triangulation and threats of going some where eles but never stop talking about black women even when they do. They expect other people to solve their problems so that they can be blameless if the solution fails. They blame people for trusting them and not being able to avoid them. They blame others for every situation and refuse responsibility but whine about wanting to be leaders without any skills or, education to perform leadership duties. They fasely accuse others including black women of having unfair advantages or cheating, to sooth their ego because they see no value in work and education. Because they see no value in women but what women can do for them they do not listen to the guidance of women (including their mothers) nor the guidance of any man who actually likes black women. And because most of world can see something is wrong with their behavior they make up and even create derogratory reasons for why no one should like or want black women because black girls and women are a easy target for them and will still trust them simply based on skin color even though they have never given any reason to. They think if they can be seen better than black women, are wanted more than black women, or are more successful than black women, they have accomplished a rightly place in society. So in their mind, for them to win at life, black women must be losers, undesired, unwanted, unappreciated, unrecognized and even unalived and that is what they work on daily.
Who cares. They should get another hobby. Including this one here. @malikkeith5951 posted a comment that the reasons are obvious. I think they would love to enlighten you. Good luck. 👍😊
Blk women *know* this. Thank you for not only noticing but, acknowledging it, as well. ❤
Special K I hear what you're saying You sound sincere This is so disturbing because many was given a life by a Black Woman ! A strong Black Woman!!! Thanks for sharing
Consciously, this is most readily unresolved and maybe unrealized trauma. Maybe hardships in childhood, maybe abuse by a mother or other woman in authority. In some, hatred of women is frustration with disillusionment. Societal expectations unmet in relationships, work, community, etc.
On a subconscious level, though, this is self-hatred. We all get erased and maligned in news, film, social media, work, in public encounters, and on... Projecting that disappointment, rejection, anger, and humiliation toward the most soft space is a symptom of pain that the wearer cannot face. He needs someone else to be the problem. Many of us have not personally processed the shock and hurt of our ancestral past either. This doesn't excuse the toxic actions, but it lets those of us in proximity to this hatred breathe and release. I can't change someone else's idea of me, but i can love me enough to give those who don't see me the reality they prefer.
Black men don't have self hate, they just hate black women's personality problems. You prove once again that black women are allergic to accountability.
Disillusioned.
That is all.
Because the majority of them are cuddled over black girls and women, from childhood they expect the world to also. So they seek out women and men who will treat them like children or another woman. Theyre mostly throwing a tanturm when they are ignored or unwanted and viewed as under achievers even though that is what they are. They struggle to be independent and spend a lot of time trying to convince women not to be independent so that they can attach themself to any desperate woman. When those women remain firmly unmoved by the corhersion the men desolve into triangulation and threats of going some where eles but never stop talking about black women even when they do. They expect other people to solve their problems so that they can be blameless if the solution fails. They blame people for trusting them and not being able to avoid them. They blame others for every situation and refuse responsibility but whine about wanting to be leaders without any skills or, education to perform leadership duties. They fasely accuse others including black women of having unfair advantages or cheating, to sooth their ego because they see no value in work and education. Because they see no value in women but what women can do for them they do not listen to the guidance of women (including their mothers) nor the guidance of any man who actually likes black women. And because most of world can see something is wrong with their behavior they make up and even create derogratory reasons for why no one should like or want black women because black girls and women are a easy target for them and will still trust them simply based on skin color even though they have never given any reason to. They think if they can be seen better than black women, are wanted more than black women, or are more successful than black women, they have accomplished a rightly place in society. So in their mind, for them to win at life, black women must be losers, undesired, unwanted, unappreciated, unrecognized and even unalived and that is what they work on daily.
this is a brilliant analysis. thank you
2nd and 3rd gen Mexican dudes are starting to pick up on this and are actively courting Black women.
AND I UNDERSTAND WHY!!
Tell me something I don't know, but why?
Who cares. They should get another hobby. Including this one here. @malikkeith5951 posted a comment that the reasons are obvious. I think they would love to enlighten you. Good luck. 👍😊
@@neutraliserjanine Good point.
Yes we do. AND 4 OBVIOUS REASONS 💯
I can connect you to someone who cares. @ListenUpDemocracy posted a comment asking why. You should tell them. Good luck.