I really appreciate that we're getting more stories about the husband being pushed to his limit by his abusive wife, we've gotten too much of the other way around and I think this is better. It's great that these people recognize that men can also be victims in abusive relationships, that wives can abuse their husbands and that not very guy is the aggressor
Agreed. I'm a retired paramedic and I have seen many cases of spousal abuse where the woman was the aggressor. It occurs more often than people think. Men are afraid to say anything because of the ridicule they will get. I've watched police officers and firefighters on scenes mock an injured man and say idiotic things like "she just thought you liked it rough" then call him a wimp within earshot. I'm not afraid to say that I got a bit unprofessional on scenes like that. 🤬
@@shawnycoffman Yup. I do intakes for rehab centers for domestic abuse victims and such and a LOT of men call in trying to escape from their situations, but the laws are just not on their side generally. Most men wont say anything because they know if they do, the wife/girlfriend can claim assault and its over. Sad sad day we live in.
18 years ago my wife had surgery and I had absolutely no issues driving 2 hours in horrible rush hour traffic to bring her her favorite teddy bear plus a few extra DVD movies. The internet did exist at the time but most businesses and hospitals did not have it, and streaming was not really available, so everything was still on physical media. A lot of companies didn't even have online bill pay yet. I made another trip later on a Saturday just to bring her ice cream.
My father had a medical crisis in December 1999. He spent 36 days in the Critical Care Unit (more intensive than the ICU), then he had to spend 8 weeks relearning how to breathe on his own, then months more relearing how to walk. My sister lived out of state at the time, so my mother went down to see him every single day after work, and I went most of the time with her, until I could see how much it was exhausting her, so I TOLD her she was only going to go half the time, and I would go the other half, even though I didn't drive at the time, and for me that meant a one hour bus ride with three transfers just to get to the nearer of the two hospitals he ended up staying at, and two hours one-way for the recovery hospital for his respiratory retraining...and we were only allowed to visit for about half an hour or so, most days. It was not a waste of time or effort, though. We did it because we loved him and wanted to support him with our presence and our palpable, tangible displays of caring as he struggled to recover. And we'd do it all over again if we could. He passed away a couple of years ago...but that was only after living 21 more years, despite the best experts at the time predicting he would only live another 10 years past his crisis. Dad credited our constant visits as part of the success of his recovery, because he knew he was loved & cared for. Your wife absolutely treasured your visits. Almost nobody likes rush hour traffic, so being willing to to endure it just to go see her was proof of your love and caring, too. And nobody likes being stuck in a hospital bed, so bringing her comfort items and entertainment sources was especially sweet. I hope you're still happily married!
@ladyofthemasque that's awesome! You did a lot more than me! My wife was only in the hospital for a week so I only had to make those 2 extra visits besides the drop off and pick up day, although I did call every day in between
I fell critically ill a few years ago and went into a coma. For the 6 days I was in ICU and regular care, my husband was there practically every moment. He made sure his face was the first I saw when I came to. And you can bet I'll be right there if something, God forbid, happens to him. 49 years and 10 months married.
🎵She looked like an angel / walked like an angel / her name was even Angela / but we got wise / she's the devil in disguise / yes she is / devil in disguise🎵 (Elvis Presley reference)
Wait...she's a stay at home wife. One kid. And she's upset that she has to do chores or spend time visiting him? Lazy, gold digger. And because of the neglect and abuse means no alimony or child support for her.
Not how alimony works. It’s never a punishment. Child support is paid to the custodial parent regardless of any other reason. It’s paid for the benefit of the child/children not the parent, and it’s based on the income of the non-custodial parent.
It's oddly refreshing to see the other side of abusive relationships, where the man is verbally/physically assaulted by the girlfriend/wife and not the other way around. Even though I maintain the stance that *NOBODY* deserves that horrendous bullshit in any way whatsoever.
Falling down the stairs hurts like a bitch, by itself. Breaking bones is a different level of pain. (personal experience, since I've broken two.) This lady needs to learn the hard way that it *IS* in fact possible to break bones by falling down a flight of stairs.
I want to know which insurance co will let somebody stay in the hospital for 2 months for a broken leg? None in the US that I know of. They will let you stay long enough to get it set and a cast put on and it is out the door!
You don't stay that long in UK either, you don't even get admitted unless you need surgery, and we don't have insurance or upfront payments or medical bills
@@pattyputman4409he broke multiple bones, was on sick leave for a month and then able to work remotely. He was injured at work so workers comp or the employers insurance would have paid his medical bills.
Monday: 102 fever , husband took over picking our child up from basketball practice Tuesday morning: my dog got my hand when I was goof playing with him, left with a big wound that wouldn't stop bleeding! All sutured and gauzed up with restrictions, husband picked our son up again and made dinner! Throughout our last 20+years and several boo-boos and sickness we have never talked or treated another like this, please tell me this behavior isn't real
Great story!! I really enjoyed the voice actors-“Angela” is one of my favorite voice actors and the poor husband is a newer voice actor (I think), but he is fabulous!! From what I understand, voice work is pretty demanding and can be quite difficult, but these actors make it look (or sound) easy!! Awesome job!!!! 😊❤
I would have divorced her before this happened. She doesn't cook, clean, or anything else why keep her? It's easier to be by yourself instead. Cheaper too
I had a horrendous accident at work in 2000, and I was off sick for four years before getting kicked out of the military. A supposed friend was so bitter and nasty about that. Should have opened my eyes to what he really was before I got my redundancy and compensation through.
What did he think she did all day when he is at work.She is refusing to do housework and cooking. Not to mention the fact that there is no sympathy coming from her about her husbands condition .i would never tell my husband he is useless
Are you not embarrassed talking to somebody who got hurt like that how disgusting I can't even listen to this. Sorry yeah I have no empathy for that person.
Good Wednesday🐪 mornin' from Tennessee👋🤠, where right now, we've got clear🌝 skies and a temperature of 33🥶. From here, we can expect a high of 61 under partly cloudy🌤 skies.
This guy's voice is so mundane he sounds as though he doesn't really want to be in this story, the female VA is excellent! There must be male VA's that would compliment her professionalism!
In 2008 I ended up in the hospital, bells palsy. Girlfriend at the time dumped me, and that messed things up even worse. Boss was concerned about me working but I was adamant about working. I couldn't talk much. I had to relearn talking, having lost 95% of my vocabulary. Coworker saw what I was going through, she moved in with me, and lived with me for almost a year making sure I was all good.
She didn't love him. She just loved his money.. she didn't even care he'd been hurt. All she could think about was money.. also, If he got hurt at his job, he'd be qualified for workman's comp. Angela makes no sense. She immediately dumped him when she thought he was jobless & broke. But the guy she's banging on the side doesn't have much money.. if you're going to cheat, cheat up at least. OR don't cheat at all if you know you'll end up homeless 🤭
Wow. Angela sounds way too much like my Sister-in-Law. When my brother got sick due to stress and didn't do so well with his education, she was only upset because he was ruining her future. She wasn't the least bit concerned about his health, only that his failure to get his education was affecting her future. After all, her ideal goal in life is to do noting she doesn't want, just slack off, while reaping the benefits of him working hard all day. When they wer emoving to a new apartment, she didn't even help cleaning their old one, me and our mom had to help because conveniently, she had to visit her parents all the time it took us to clean it, only coming back a few days before the big move. I have zero idea why my brother can't see who is really is.
My son's first wife was somewhat similar to Angela. She NEVER did any housework. She would b*tch at my son if he didn't do anything and then b*tch at him if he did do the homework.
Morality aside (yes, of course the wife was immoral), are people really that STUPID? She has no job and never even does housework, she never visits him in the hospital (let's leave aside the adultery), she divorces him, and then she expects everything to turn out well? She didn't even CHECK to see if he was fired? Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.
Why does this voice actor has to laugh at the end of nearly every sentence he speaks? He does that in all the stories he voices. I like his voice but I find his fake laughing so annoying 🙄
Louisiana you can’t get compensation but the innocent partner can file for divorce immediately and not have to wait 6 months. The cheater still has to wait six months to file.
15:23, That sounds like a Serious YOU Problem... But The two of you are in Love, so whats a couple hundred thousand dollars of Debt. 16:55, But you already invited a Stranger. He is your AP. Plus while he is in the Hospital, he will need someone to Roast you in Court. 18:05, Also since you have proof of the Affair, Having a DNA TEST done on the child is Important, since you have no proof that its your child. 19:44, This is the problem with making Assumptions. You can make Stupid Decisions that will Ruin your life. 22:11, Only thoughts is Lover Dumped you, and the Bills are Crushing you under the weight of the Debt due to your Court Case. 22:45, What is with all these Cheaters wanting to return to the People they Screwed over, who are happily rid of them? Sounds like being married to you was like putting his foot in a bear trap, and I dont think anyone would want to Repeat that a second time. Either one. 25:08, NO, I would have to Disagree. Because it sounds to me like the only part of her Master plan that she dont like was you having Proof of her cheating on you. Without that you might have actually been forced to Split all your properties with her like she planned before she fled off into the sunset with Syd, the child support, and half your assets.
6:45 Yeah, time to screenshot everything, and ask your Mom to take everything to court, for your, and start a lawsuit against that woman, to get a divorce. Don't ASK for a divorce. Just go right for the lawsuit, and get as much as you can in the divorce. None of that "equal division of assets." She's not an equal partner, BY CHOICE, and does not deserve an equal portion of YOUR earnings. She doesn't work, and she doesn't do anything around the house, AND she abuses you?! She's the worthless and useless one! Seriously, if she won't even come visit you at the hospital, then what good is she? DIVORCE HER! At once!
You think your life is hell Angela? Try going from 0 responsibility to dealing with the bills. And feeding animals. To make matters worse the night of my birthday. I don't like the responsibilities either, at least I'm making some effort. Making boo boos along the way.
One possibility is she hid the real her behind a fake persona, one that made it appear that she was the kind of woman what he was looking for. Then, soon after the birth of their daughter (when she knew that she had him hooked) she dropped the fake persona and he found out who he really married.
![[Apple] My egotistic wife threatens me to sign the divorce papers, so I grant her wish](http://i.ytimg.com/vi/YzVzbx04p14/mqdefault.jpg)
I really appreciate that we're getting more stories about the husband being pushed to his limit by his abusive wife, we've gotten too much of the other way around and I think this is better.
It's great that these people recognize that men can also be victims in abusive relationships, that wives can abuse their husbands and that not very guy is the aggressor
Agreed. I'm a retired paramedic and I have seen many cases of spousal abuse where the woman was the aggressor. It occurs more often than people think. Men are afraid to say anything because of the ridicule they will get. I've watched police officers and firefighters on scenes mock an injured man and say idiotic things like "she just thought you liked it rough" then call him a wimp within earshot. I'm not afraid to say that I got a bit unprofessional on scenes like that. 🤬
So true.
I agree with you completely. It's nice to see that women are abusive and cruel too sometimes.
@@shawnycoffman Yup. I do intakes for rehab centers for domestic abuse victims and such and a LOT of men call in trying to escape from their situations, but the laws are just not on their side generally. Most men wont say anything because they know if they do, the wife/girlfriend can claim assault and its over. Sad sad day we live in.
Divorce her.
18 years ago my wife had surgery and I had absolutely no issues driving 2 hours in horrible rush hour traffic to bring her her favorite teddy bear plus a few extra DVD movies. The internet did exist at the time but most businesses and hospitals did not have it, and streaming was not really available, so everything was still on physical media. A lot of companies didn't even have online bill pay yet. I made another trip later on a Saturday just to bring her ice cream.
My father had a medical crisis in December 1999. He spent 36 days in the Critical Care Unit (more intensive than the ICU), then he had to spend 8 weeks relearning how to breathe on his own, then months more relearing how to walk. My sister lived out of state at the time, so my mother went down to see him every single day after work, and I went most of the time with her, until I could see how much it was exhausting her, so I TOLD her she was only going to go half the time, and I would go the other half, even though I didn't drive at the time, and for me that meant a one hour bus ride with three transfers just to get to the nearer of the two hospitals he ended up staying at, and two hours one-way for the recovery hospital for his respiratory retraining...and we were only allowed to visit for about half an hour or so, most days.
It was not a waste of time or effort, though. We did it because we loved him and wanted to support him with our presence and our palpable, tangible displays of caring as he struggled to recover. And we'd do it all over again if we could. He passed away a couple of years ago...but that was only after living 21 more years, despite the best experts at the time predicting he would only live another 10 years past his crisis. Dad credited our constant visits as part of the success of his recovery, because he knew he was loved & cared for.
Your wife absolutely treasured your visits. Almost nobody likes rush hour traffic, so being willing to to endure it just to go see her was proof of your love and caring, too. And nobody likes being stuck in a hospital bed, so bringing her comfort items and entertainment sources was especially sweet. I hope you're still happily married!
You are an awesome husband and human being.
@@ladyofthemasque yes. 23 years now.
@ladyofthemasque that's awesome! You did a lot more than me! My wife was only in the hospital for a week so I only had to make those 2 extra visits besides the drop off and pick up day, although I did call every day in between
@@laurenmentink7401 For the one you love, nothing is too good for them. NOTHING.
I fell critically ill a few years ago and went into a coma. For the 6 days I was in ICU and regular care, my husband was there practically every moment. He made sure his face was the first I saw when I came to. And you can bet I'll be right there if something, God forbid, happens to him. 49 years and 10 months married.
This woman is just BEYOND!!!!!
🎵She looked like an angel / walked like an angel / her name was even Angela / but we got wise / she's the devil in disguise / yes she is / devil in disguise🎵 (Elvis Presley reference)
👍👋🤗
NICE one, truly worth it.
Recognized Elvis song Immediately! Great choice. LOVE ELVIS & YOUR USE OF THAT SONG🎉THANK YOU
Yep
🎉👑🎉 Elvis is still the best and so are you. Two Kings!!!
Wait...she's a stay at home wife. One kid. And she's upset that she has to do chores or spend time visiting him? Lazy, gold digger.
And because of the neglect and abuse means no alimony or child support for her.
Not how alimony works. It’s never a punishment. Child support is paid to the custodial parent regardless of any other reason. It’s paid for the benefit of the child/children not the parent, and it’s based on the income of the non-custodial parent.
It's oddly refreshing to see the other side of abusive relationships, where the man is verbally/physically assaulted by the girlfriend/wife and not the other way around. Even though I maintain the stance that *NOBODY* deserves that horrendous bullshit in any way whatsoever.
“You can’t break some bones falling down the stairs!”
Ok, let’s toss you down a flight and see
Falling down the stairs hurts like a bitch, by itself. Breaking bones is a different level of pain. (personal experience, since I've broken two.)
This lady needs to learn the hard way that it *IS* in fact possible to break bones by falling down a flight of stairs.
I want to know which insurance co will let somebody stay in the hospital for 2 months for a broken leg?
None in the US that I know of. They will let you stay long enough to get it set and a cast put on and it is out the door!
You don't stay that long in UK either, you don't even get admitted unless you need surgery, and we don't have insurance or upfront payments or medical bills
@@pattyputman4409he broke multiple bones, was on sick leave for a month and then able to work remotely. He was injured at work so workers comp or the employers insurance would have paid his medical bills.
I wish that was true. 😢
Still have trouble with one foot after falling down the stairs several years ago.
Monday: 102 fever , husband took over picking our child up from basketball practice
Tuesday morning: my dog got my hand when I was goof playing with him, left with a big wound that wouldn't stop bleeding! All sutured and gauzed up with restrictions, husband picked our son up again and made dinner!
Throughout our last 20+years and several boo-boos and sickness we have never talked or treated another like this, please tell me this behavior isn't real
Great story!! I really enjoyed the voice actors-“Angela” is one of my favorite voice actors and the poor husband is a newer voice actor (I think), but he is fabulous!! From what I understand, voice work is pretty demanding and can be quite difficult, but these actors make it look (or sound) easy!! Awesome job!!!! 😊❤
I would have divorced her before this happened.
She doesn't cook, clean, or anything else why keep her? It's easier to be by yourself instead. Cheaper too
Cheaper to keep her…
They agreed she would quit her job and she would cook and do the housework. She lied. She had no intention of working including housework.
You reap what you sow. Great example 😂. Congratulations and wish you peace and happiness as well as a full recovery physically and emotionally.
I had a horrendous accident at work in 2000, and I was off sick for four years before getting kicked out of the military. A supposed friend was so bitter and nasty about that. Should have opened my eyes to what he really was before I got my redundancy and compensation through.
Bitter how, what'd they do???
I’m watching this whole thing saying to myself “Get her Mike… GET HER!”
It's weird hearing Ash be the bad person
True, but her voice is so good at it!
Not even five minutes in and I'd be using my smartphone to look up private investigators and divorce lawyers.
What did he think she did all day when he is at work.She is refusing to do housework and cooking.
Not to mention the fact that there is no sympathy coming from her about her husbands condition .i would never tell my husband he is useless
She is having an affair
Are you not embarrassed talking to somebody who got hurt like that how disgusting I can't even listen to this. Sorry yeah I have no empathy for that person.
I'd divorce my wife for abandoning me at the hospital, and next time she needed help, no way!
Why do these people never leave until they find out they're being cheated on?
Mike may have been working on gathering evidence of his wife's affair, which is smart thinking for the divorce case.
OP definitely did a little dance in the hospital bed when he declared his freedom.😂😂😂
Thank you for sharing your great stories. Happy Holidays!
Karma is a dish best served cold Angela 🤣
Damn imagine being a housewife but not doing house chores? It’s like what are you even doing then.
Wow! I said to my son that she'd be back within a month, but damn! Seven days? That's got to be some kind of record within these stories lol!
The male voice actor is mind-numbing bad. He sounds like a high school kid reading dialogue out loud in English class.
Good Morning ☀️ Have a wonderful Wednesday everyone 👋🤗
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Have a great day 💫
Happy Hump day from Florida 🌞
Good afternoon all from a damp and chilly England!
@@jonborchardt5548Good Morning! It's 43° with the high of 64° and partly cloudy skies. Happy Hump Day 🐪👋🤗
Wow! Such a loving wife
This guy's voice is so mundane he sounds as though he doesn't really want to be in this story, the female VA is excellent! There must be male VA's that would compliment her professionalism!
In 2008 I ended up in the hospital, bells palsy. Girlfriend at the time dumped me, and that messed things up even worse. Boss was concerned about me working but I was adamant about working. I couldn't talk much. I had to relearn talking, having lost 95% of my vocabulary. Coworker saw what I was going through, she moved in with me, and lived with me for almost a year making sure I was all good.
She didn't love him. She just loved his money.. she didn't even care he'd been hurt. All she could think about was money.. also, If he got hurt at his job, he'd be qualified for workman's comp. Angela makes no sense. She immediately dumped him when she thought he was jobless & broke. But the guy she's banging on the side doesn't have much money.. if you're going to cheat, cheat up at least. OR don't cheat at all if you know you'll end up homeless 🤭
Really like the background!
Wow. Angela sounds way too much like my Sister-in-Law. When my brother got sick due to stress and didn't do so well with his education, she was only upset because he was ruining her future. She wasn't the least bit concerned about his health, only that his failure to get his education was affecting her future. After all, her ideal goal in life is to do noting she doesn't want, just slack off, while reaping the benefits of him working hard all day.
When they wer emoving to a new apartment, she didn't even help cleaning their old one, me and our mom had to help because conveniently, she had to visit her parents all the time it took us to clean it, only coming back a few days before the big move.
I have zero idea why my brother can't see who is really is.
She’s a right madam. 17:30 wants half of everything, then complains when he gets a lawyer
My son's first wife was somewhat similar to Angela. She NEVER did any housework. She would b*tch at my son if he didn't do anything and then b*tch at him if he did do the homework.
Tht ha ha ha from tht man ,is so unnecessary, so fake and annoying
At 4:25 in im ready to sign tge divorce papers
Nice change, the woman is the villain and gets hit hard by the consequences of her actions; in too many stories, it's the other way.
Hmm, earlier she talked about him getting paid while not working so her saying that he had no job anymore makes no sense.
He was probably on sick leave or temporary disability or a combination.
Normally I would agree with you, but she distinctly mentioned his job, and so did he. It just doesn’t really make sense.
Kind ... kind ?
When was she ever kind 😂 🤯 just wow
Angela the VA, is not usually a villain. Still really good at her job! 😅
Morality aside (yes, of course the wife was immoral), are people really that STUPID? She has no job and never even does housework, she never visits him in the hospital (let's leave aside the adultery), she divorces him, and then she expects everything to turn out well? She didn't even CHECK to see if he was fired? Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.
I'd have asked Angela, "What use have you ever been to me?"
Why does this voice actor has to laugh at the end of nearly every sentence he speaks? He does that in all the stories he voices. I like his voice but I find his fake laughing so annoying 🙄
Agreed! He's doing little more than just saying "ha" a few times quickly. Very annoying.
Hearing Ash being a bitch is a strange thing😂😂😂
And shes good at it too, a good actress.
Almost all the states are no fault states meaning the divorce reason is irrelevant, and the six that aren’t don’t aggressively pursue it.
Louisiana you can’t get compensation but the innocent partner can file for divorce immediately and not have to wait 6 months. The cheater still has to wait six months to file.
The settlement part is where the reasons come in especially if there is community property or kids.
I don't wanna hear another peep outta you, Angela!!
Well, she showed her true colors
😃 i realy don´t like, when her good voice is the bad one
15:23, That sounds like a Serious YOU Problem... But The two of you are in Love, so whats a couple hundred thousand dollars of Debt.
16:55, But you already invited a Stranger. He is your AP. Plus while he is in the Hospital, he will need someone to Roast you in Court.
18:05, Also since you have proof of the Affair, Having a DNA TEST done on the child is Important, since you have no proof that its your child.
19:44, This is the problem with making Assumptions. You can make Stupid Decisions that will Ruin your life.
22:11, Only thoughts is Lover Dumped you, and the Bills are Crushing you under the weight of the Debt due to your Court Case.
22:45, What is with all these Cheaters wanting to return to the People they Screwed over, who are happily rid of them? Sounds like being married to you was like putting his foot in a bear trap, and I dont think anyone would want to Repeat that a second time. Either one.
25:08, NO, I would have to Disagree. Because it sounds to me like the only part of her Master plan that she dont like was you having Proof of her cheating on you. Without that you might have actually been forced to Split all your properties with her like she planned before she fled off into the sunset with Syd, the child support, and half your assets.
6:45 Yeah, time to screenshot everything, and ask your Mom to take everything to court, for your, and start a lawsuit against that woman, to get a divorce. Don't ASK for a divorce. Just go right for the lawsuit, and get as much as you can in the divorce. None of that "equal division of assets." She's not an equal partner, BY CHOICE, and does not deserve an equal portion of YOUR earnings. She doesn't work, and she doesn't do anything around the house, AND she abuses you?! She's the worthless and useless one!
Seriously, if she won't even come visit you at the hospital, then what good is she? DIVORCE HER! At once!
Oh Ash ... Whats happened to you ... Miss you!
What is she busy doing?
Enough Angela enough that’s your husband
It’s gonna be her mess
Divorce Angela
Role reversals. She is taking the view of most of the men in these stories when the woman gets injured. Either way, the jerky one sucks.
So his daughter doesn't talk to him really . Its not his fault for any of this
The kid probably wasnt his.
Leave of the stupid laugh at every sentance. It loses him sympathy!
How? I’m glad he is laughing at her.
You think your life is hell Angela? Try going from 0 responsibility to dealing with the bills. And feeding animals. To make matters worse the night of my birthday. I don't like the responsibilities either, at least I'm making some effort. Making boo boos along the way.
Why did he marry Angela?😅
One possibility is she hid the real her behind a fake persona, one that made it appear that she was the kind of woman what he was looking for. Then, soon after the birth of their daughter (when she knew that she had him hooked) she dropped the fake persona and he found out who he really married.
This guys laugh annoys me
ANGELA LISTEN UP AND LISTEN GOOD THERE CUPCAKE AND KNOW YOUR PLACE TOO ANGELA THE CUPCAKE YOU WILL BE SLEEPING WITH THE FISHES TONIGHT