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My cat is 3 years old. She has started to urinate before she reaches her clean litter box. This has happened three times, usually in the early morning hours. She is eating well, has energy and good regular bowel movements. Help.
I agree, especially if its consistent. Shouting their name I think is a bad way of training them as they might associate their name with negative things (they wouldn't come when we call them for attention and treats). Our cats would hesitate when we say 'No' but would still proceed anyway sometimes though lol
When Fiona starts to scratch on the chair, I say loudly, "Hey! Scratching post, please!" It usually works. And when she does use the scratching post, I praise her.
I've learned to hiss and guttural growl pretty accurately. This makes my cats aware that I'm not happy with a behavior and stops them with a look of surprise. " Wow! he's upset lets stop what were doing."Works every time.
Yes!! They understand this as disapproval.. Gotta laugh a bit.. "No!" or "clapping" or whatever is just something that annoys or initiates their survival instincts.. A "hiss" "growl" accompanied by a brief forward movevent (a quick lean foward with eye contact works) lets the little fuzzy know that you disapprove.. It may take few repetitions for them to figure out exactly what behavior is dissaproved. Cats are not your "pack".. They will accept "your space" "my space" limitations.. "I'm a dog owner" "I have a cat... " The nuance is subtle.. but might help.. Be Well!!
@michaelfritts6249 be careful not to scare them though or that will just make them fear you and destroy your bond. I usually will say no and act hurt. That typically works. If it keeps happening, I have hissed before but then I just walk away. They HAAAATE that because they want my attention!!!!
You must have said it wrong.. "No" or "Bad Kitty" accompaied by an immediate scratch behind the ears will never work.. A firm "no" and leaving the room and making "kitty lovins" unaccessible for a bit works best.. Btw.. there is no way to stop an indoor/outddor cat from bringing you food.. That is part of their nature.. the are bringing the kill or if "whatever" is still alive, teaching you to hunt.. Cats still have at least "one paw in the jungle"... Fact!! Get over it... Be Well° 😃🐱
1:31 I've had many cats for almost 50 years now, and THIS point can almost not be STRESSED enough, reprimanding bad behaviour in the MOMENT is ABSOLUTELY CRITICAL. A RAISED "NO" voice is all that is needed as you catch them in the act, because even 1 minutes after the fact, and your cat will see your "discipline" as abuse!. It's also very IMPORTANT to behave normally & lovingly with your cat when they approach you after having been reprimanded, even if it is 5 minutes afterward, as it helps them understand that your "NO" is aimed at the "wrong behaviour", but does not affect the unconditional love bond you have with them. Great video, with Great solid advice 😉
Truth!! You can't "show" a cat what they did wrong.. and attempting to "discipline" after the fact is pointless. You can't teach an indoor/outdoor cat to NOT hunt.. A cat with a bell on its collar will still hunt.. the bell just makes the cat "coyote bait".. Cats are not dogs.. Be Well!! 😃
I couldn't agree more. I've had many different types of pets throughout my 65 years of life. Treat them all the same with discipline and love. Whether they're a cat, dog, skunk, duck, etc. Yes. I've had all of them all.
Additional Tips: Hissing at a cat when it does something wrong is another way to get their attention and make the message clear. Litter boxes - 2 for one cat, 3 for two cats, and so forth.
did you teach the cat what NO actually means or are you just using the word, its how youre using itand how you say it not what you say, with confidence in a calm and asseritve (assertive not aggressive) tone, if they dont react, redirect them calmly and kindly to the thing you want them to do and then praise them. imagine a chinese person yelling at you inchinese you too would look at the person like they are insane, thats what the cat sees you like likely
I tried to scold my cat. I was quickly informed if I didn't like the way things were done here, I was welcome to leave. While it's true, many cats in the country are having Staff issues, NO ONE is irreplaceable! So I better get off my high horse, and behave. I am wondering if it was a good idea putting the house in his name. He assures me it was! And that I'm a good hoo mon. Then we had ice cream. I'm glad we got this sorted out!🤣
First time cat dad, my cat is nearly 4 years old now, and honestly she's pretty well behaved compared to so many other cats I've seen or heard about! But I'm also glad to see that my natural means of "scolding" her line up pretty well with the tips in this video. If she's scratching something that she shouldn't be (like my guitar case) I just firmly say "stop!" and she will usually give a little "murp" and come over to me, so I give her head scritches. when she was a kitten, she liked to go into the bathroom when I wasn't home and shred my toilet paper. so I started leaving the bathroom door closed. problem solved. she also liked to chew on electrical cords, so I wrapped the area in tin-foil and sprayed the foil with pure vinegar daily. she got the message, and stopped doing it lol. luckily I've never had to get her off of the counters, she has never expressed any interest in climbing those, despite her liking to climb the dinner table which is only 2 feet away from the counter lol. And if she comes into my game room for attention when I'm at the computer, I always give her pets and play with her a little bit, but if she suddenly latches onto my hand with her teeth and claws, I pull my hand away and turn my back to her. it seems to work, she does it less and less nowadays.
My cat is INCREDIBLY smart. She ignores us if we tell her "No" or use loud noises if my partner or myself catch her scratching the carpet literally inches from her vertical, horizontal, or angled scratchers. She does it deliberately to catch our attention if we're doing chores or watching a movie and always gives me a "Mom, this is not what I wanted" look if immediately cover the spot with a scratcher and then ignore her for a moment to get the point across - which doesn't work. I've since placed a rug in the spot where she scratches, but she's OBSESSED with that one spot and she's slowly shredding it - better the rug than the carpet beneath though! She carefully tip toes across foil to avoid crinkles if we don't want her on a certain surface. The only fix to preventing her from getting on top of the entertainment center (where I keep a singular house plant and several of our figurines) is to place wide boxes on the ends so she can't land a jump on it. My partner and I (try) to play with her a few times daily for several minutes with different types of toys that we rotate through to keep her exercised. We check her litter box every time we pass the bathroom to make sure it's cleaned out (the litter is flushable, which makes scooping and tossing the goods a breeze). She used to be terrible about chomping on our hands out of nowhere if we offered her a hand to either accept or ignore for pets. Unfortunately, the only way I could train that out of her was establishing dominance with her, which I hated - I had to scruff and (gently) pin her down to the floor under my arm in a flash as soon as it happened, which I hated, but it worked when nothing else did. She only tried a few times to get away after a chomp only to realize that I can move faster than she can - I grew up on a farm, so I'm no stranger to having to safely capture critters by reflex. She was a roughly 8 month old kitten when we found her in a parking lot with a severely broken tail and surrendered her to the humane society for treatment (and adopted her after), so we knew from the start that she had a lot of unknown traumas to recover from. It's taken a long time to establish the trust that we have now, for her to know that we will never intentionally hurt her. She's 3 years old now and understands the concept of acceptable behaviors for the most part. She's only had one punishment in the last few months that required physical intervention, which was when she deliberately jumped onto the one surface (the entertainment center) that she knows she's not allowed onto and knocked over my plant, which made a huge mess! She tried to run off but I caught her, held her scruff (which I hated) held her face by the mess with a "BAD" and left her in the bathroom with her litter box for 10 minutes so we could clean the mess safely without worrying about her. She let out only a singular loud meow that literally resembled a toddler yelling "MOM", which I felt in my soul. She was definitely sorry for what happened (she kept rubbing my legs when I let her out) and never tried to jump on top of that surface again though - it's the one high space where it isn't safe for her, and she has 2 trees (one of them being almost 5' high), cabinets, a futon, and 2 tables to jump around on/climb at her leisure anytime in that room, so she's not short of high surfaces to hang out on. She has scratchers of every type scattered around the space too! Believe me, we've tried everything when it comes to discipline and keeping it reasonable wherever it's needed. Hitting is never acceptable, but scruffing is a safe alternative as a last resort, if necessary. I'll also note that she's orange, plays fetch, loves to chat, follows us around like a shadow, and literally enjoyes watching TV. Her spunky, witty personality and companionship definitely outshines the occasional bratty moments. I wouldn't trade her for anything, chaos and all.
Sounds a LOT like Cheezit. Every little bit of your comment. He also meows all the time w/a really irritating meow that sounds as if he's complaining. I found classical music turned up loud helps with that meowing. I've had to rearrange the whole apt. and duct tape the TV to a table. Sigh.
Awww I love seeing the clip of the mama cat nursing! It reminds me that all of our cats were kittens once and their mom was so patient with them, so we should always be as patient and direct as their moms ❤🇨🇦
Every cat I have had for the last 28 years has learned that when I say “NO,” very firmly, with my index finger extended, that means an unequivocal negative,and they will turn around and walk away. I teach them that to help my friends who are uncomfortable around, or are afraid of cats. The humans have a sense of control near my cats, and have learned to be very firm. My cats know there are other laps, or other times they are welcome to come into a room. It also helps to keep my cats safe if they could be headed toward something dangerous.
I had a stray calico adopt me for 21/2 years ...I'm no longer with her since I got made homeless She used to talk me off - as if I was a big kitten of hers! She never ever was naughty round me and respected my furniture most of the time . but ur right when I told her "no" a few times things were never ever repeated .. Phenomenal memory !
Glad to see I'm doing the right things! Also sometimes in addition to saylng "NO" I also take her outside or just open the door and she leaves while looking down, so it looks like she understand what and why. About an hour later she comes back and we make peace ❤
I am Danish. I have lived in Ireland and then England for 60 years, but I still speak Danish. I also grew up in a house with five dogs and seven cats. Effectively they just let us live there because we could open tins. So I learned how to talk to Dogs and Cats, I can even Purr and use the Cat facial expressions. My father had a special word (or sound) for Naughty Cat, Naughty Cat or badly behaved Child. Unfortunatly English lacks the three extra letters we use in Danish to express these extra sounds, but all dogs and most cats understand it. The word is = Fuøøø. It really means NOOOOOO. For some reason, all dogs and many Cats seem to understood this word. Perhaps it was my father's tone of voice, but it works. I still use it if a cat is being naughty. I have seldom heard anyone else use this word, even few Danish people use it now - But it really works.
It's interesting that you and so many others say that cats don't like aluminum foil. Mine love it. They jump on it and play. I've tried cayenne pepper and hot sauce on cables. Used electrical tape on cables. It doesn't work. They know what not to do or where not to go. They are too smart and know how to push my buttons. I love them anyway and couldn't imagine life without them
👍 I love cats. They are so unique. Videos like this one are excellent. I think all cat lovers need to watch videos like this one. Believe it or not we don't know everything.
Dogs have Owners. Cats have Servants. 🐱. It doesn't matter How many times i say No. He still scratches the couch. Even though.he Has Two scratching posts. I Still Love him. 💙🐱
If she's close we tap her on the nose. If she's far we just say No very firmly. I am disabled and in my bed most of the time. So I taught by either putting my index finger up or if she's on my chest i put my hand on her chest and lightly push her to stop her or have her go in the direction i want her to. For scratching furniture. At first we just said No. Then we bought her several scratching posts throughout the apartment. Big one for the living room. Small ones for my daughters room, my bathroom and my bedroom. As far as the litter box. My daughter has it in her bathroom and takes care of it. Sasha has no problems using it. Until my daughter got a guard for it to keep the litter in the box. Sasha then started going potty on my daughter's bed. I asked my daughter if maybe she didn't like the lid. She took it off and Sasha started going back in the box. Its sometimes the little changes they don't like. So if your pet does something wrong it could be a change or it could be a health issue. Investigate if you discipline and nothing changes.
My cat used to play around and make noise at night. So each time she did it I would pick her up, give her a big old kiss on the head and then gently put her outside for the rest of the night. Problem corrected and she never felt like I was mad at her or she was a bad cat. Simple association.
double sided tape and aluminum foil don't work with one of my girls - she's a real treat LOL back in the 90's I had a cat that was crazy about any kinds of cords or cables - nothing worked till I got a bunch of toilet paper rolls and paper towel rolls and duct taped them together
Basically you have to sort of act like a cat to get through to a cat. I've used most of the methods in this video over many years and they do work, sometimes it requires repetition for as long as it takes but eventually the cat either figures it out or gets the message. Using any physical punishment like hitting, well, cats have excellent memories for those that do those types of things and they never forget it so essentially you've ruined your relationship with a cat.
I say "No ma'am! No ma'am!" in a stern voice when my kitty is heading toward someplace she doesn't need to be and when she turns around, I say in a positive voice "Good girl! Good girl!" There have been times I've had to use a distraction to get her away from where she doesn't need to be when she does get in there. And I tell her "Good girl! Good girl!" when she's doing something positive.
I'm hoping to get some advice for my cat. My cat Nina goes outside but there are invisible parameters that she knows she should not cross. I spent a lot of time training her this way and it provides her access to the outdoors and provides me with peace of mind that she won't stray too far or go where she shouldn't. She spends most of her outdoor time on the front porch, constantly scanning her territory for intruders (she's an extremely avid hunter and brings in all kinds of choice trophies for me!) Anyway, as all cat lovers know, they are EXTREMELY territorial and if an intruder crosses the barrier they'll run full tilt into this intruder, fighting and hissing. This is especially true for female cats. So my situation is this. Intruding from other cats happens between 1 to 2 weeks. I don't want Nina injured so when I hear the caterwauling I run out the door and start yelling loudly. This makes Nina run in and sends the intruder running. Right after she runs in I praise and pet her and tell her *good guard kitty" to let her know I'm not yelling at her. Problem is, sometimes after these interruptions she'll let me know quite clearly that she wasn't finished and that I interrupted her finishing her business. She'll hiss at me, which she never does otherwise, to send me the message. This doesn't last long and it could mean that she was still very much amped up. So finally the question is when this happens should I not interrupt and let her finish her duty and risk a very probable serious injury?
My cat refused to use her scratching post even when I rubbed catnip on it. I found out she doesn’t respond to catnip. I gave the post away. I’ve used No and walked away and it seems to work. I play with her using a cat dancer which is a long multi-colored piece of fabric attached to a stick and also a wand that has a feather on a string on it. She loves both of them.
Using your hands (particularly fingers) when playing should be encouraged, particularly when bonding with a kitten. It's easy to teach them not to scratch you, just overact being hurt every time claws are felt. Be gentle with your cat, and they will be gentle with you. The mistake many owners make is to move their hand too rapidly, and play roughly, which invites scratches in response.
We have a pill bottle that we shake. Our female cat is so curious and has the same places she gets into trouble. We just bought some toys and it has helped her as she is an indoor kitty and gets bored.
@@TheCuriousCatt let me ask u something please. I took in a feral cat who I have fed outside since she was a kitten. She is now approximately 1.5 years old. I did what many say by coaxing her with food, detaining and isolating her to spay her n make sure she was healthy b4 introducing her to my 1st cat. I caged her and opened the door to let her go in and out on her own. I feed her when I feed my other cat. She does play with him. I can get her to engage a little with birdie or mousey on a stick. The thing is she hides behind the couch. It has been almost 6 months since she was first taken in. She has many half open places to hide but stays behind the couch. What else can I do to give her confidence? I don't want her to live in hiding. I've never pet her but I do place my hand near her a bit closer each time. I do blinky eyes and am always talking to her. Please help me help her. Thank u in advance. I really appreciate your time n help.
You're doing a wonderful job providing care and attention to your feral cat! Building confidence in a formerly wild animal can take time and patience, but there are some additional steps you can take to help her feel more secure. One strategy is to create safe spaces throughout your home where she can retreat if she feels overwhelmed. This could include cozy hiding spots like cardboard boxes or covered cat beds placed in quiet areas away from high-traffic zones. Providing vertical spaces, such as tall cat trees or shelves, can also give her a sense of security and control over her environment. Additionally, consider using pheromone diffusers or sprays, such as Feliway, which can help reduce anxiety and create a calming atmosphere. These products mimic the natural pheromones that cats release when they feel safe and comfortable in their surroundings. Continue with your gentle approach of gradually introducing your hand closer to her and engaging in calming behaviors like blinking slowly and speaking softly. Consistency and patience are key, so continue to reinforce positive interactions and give her space and time to adjust at her own pace. Most importantly, remember that every cat is unique, and what works for one may not work for another. Keep observing her behavior and adjusting your approach accordingly. With time and patience, she will hopefully become more confident and comfortable in her new home.
@@TheCuriousCatt thank you so very much. Her papa, mama n brother still live outside. We noticed lately the mommy n daddy have something going on with their fur. They have been tearing their fur out. There is no way 4 us to detain them so we can get them help. It makes me want to freaking cry. What can we do? I can't tell what is bothering their skin. It sounds horrible to ask, but should I try n dru9 them with something that will make them sleep temporarily? I think the papa had reddish fur but idk if it was blood, dirt or just the reflection from the sun. I just want to help them. Please tell me what I can do.
Yes, my cat likes to wrestle/ play with my hand . More often than not, I had at least puncture wounds or (a little bit worse). And I know, that is a part of playing and he does not want to hurt me. But he was never a playful cat before... But one day I bought a drink from the liquor store... and i made a prop of the paper around it, and threw it away, towards my waste paper basket... ! And my cat reacted on it, like he was loving it The next time I came to the liquor store, I told the nice girl behind the counter, that my cat loved this papers so much. And she gave me about 6 of this papers... and so it started. Yes my cat (Nelson) still likes to play with my hand... but if he is coming too strong, I know that I have enough props left , so when he is too strong to my hands ... I can throw away these props in my living room & kitchen. And yes Nelson started to like it. That was an easy way correcting my cat, without behaving like a boss. And lets be honest... isn't that cat/ human symbiose works the best? Ik know, I think so!
I used to yell at my cat and spray her with water when she scratched my recliner. Now that she's gone, I don't want to get rid of the chair *because* of her scratch marks, so now I display it with pride. I also used to punish her for chewing cords. I didn't know until much later that her gums were all inflamed and that's why she was doing it. She was in pain and I was punishing her for it. ARGH. Thanks for this video. As for other topics, I'd love to learn about house plant safety. My cat got seriously ill and I later found chew marks on a plants. They told me it could be pancreatitis, but she could have been poisoned, although she wasn't vomiting. I plan to get two new furbabies this year and they will live like royalty after learning from so many mistakes.
Clapping my hands loudly or a shorts aggressive sounding verbiage works very well with my cat. I haven't done this for a very long time, but I'm very rare occasion when she's been extremely naughty sometimes I will confine her to one room for an hour or two to and she usually comes out looking like she's very sorry about her behavior. She will generally be more cautious about her behavior for at least a few hours
I have been nervous about saying "No", as the cat started to look scared at me. I've never had a kitten before and I'm so nervous to do something wrong.
I've had cats all my life. But most of them were rescues of older ages. One and my latest was a kitten. I've recently taken on a brand new kitten. I'm puzzled and confused about their behavior. As airshow as they are, it's a challenge to be patient and do things in their best interest to teach them. Hitting had not even crossed my mind. Even if hitting was suggested I'd fail, because I just couldn't ever raise an angry hand at such a little creature who depends on me and needs to trust his surroundings, and me. Mine is too clever to use a spray bottle. He caught on the first time. I felt mean too. They are babies, they just don't know. Watch videos of mother cats reprimanding their babies. I've perfected the mom's vocal version of NO! And her hiss. So far it's working for the immediate misbehavior. He does stop, for a moment. I also consider the mind of a two year old. How many two year olds learn after told no the first few times? I am frustrated at the incessant biting mine continues to do. He's not being mean, he's playing. I keep toys nearby to distract him but he still thinks my hand is great for sinking his tiny tiger teeth into. That's my one problem. Us ignoring him truly right to do? I feel mean ignoring him. I struggle with that.
If your cat does something that is a problem, simply raise your voice as they are doing it, mine will freeze, then stop and as soon as she leaves, I give her a quick pet, and reassure her that the louder voice happens when she does that I only had to raise my voice a few times, and most of the bad behavior is gone, or greatly reduced to a mild annoyance
When your usually loving cat starts displaying aggressive behavior, it's important to address it promptly. Firstly, try to understand what triggers the aggression. It could be fear, stress, or overstimulation. Once you've identified the triggers, work on providing a calm and safe environment for your cat. Ensure they have plenty of outlets for their energy through play and exercise. Additionally, consider using positive reinforcement techniques to encourage calm behavior. Redirect their attention with toys or treats when they start to show signs of aggression. However, if the behavior persists or escalates, it's advisable to consult with a veterinarian or a certified animal behaviorist. They can help rule out any underlying medical issues and provide tailored advice on behavior modification strategies. Remember, addressing aggression in cats requires patience and consistency, but with the right approach, you can help your cat overcome this behavior.
I adopted a cat recently that had been in a household with other cat. She thinks biting me is playing. Every time I think I have taught her not to she stars all over again. I am not using my hands. She will initiate it by biting my legs or arms. Wherever she sees bare skin. I tell he no and then she will sneak back and take a quick bite when I am not looking.
1. Make sure the actual tray is clean. Wash it well between litter changes. Own two trays and use alternately so one is airing while the other is in use. 2. Is the litter box too small. 3. The cat may hate the feel or scent of the liter your using. 4. Is the box in the same room as her food or water. Move that. 5. Is the cat unwell? A trip to the vet may be needed to find out. Pain when in the box may cause the cat to associate pain with the box. 6. Your cat may not like where the box is - in a high traffic area, or too far away. Is it all the way in the basement, or out in the garage, etc 7. Do you scoop the poop daily? 8. She may need two boxes- one for pee and one for poop. 9. Clean every spot she poops on to eliminate the smell. A cat’s nose is much better than ours. 10. Cover areas where she poops so that she can’t access it right away. I used pot lids. 11. You might have to put her in the room that has the box around the time she usually goes.
When a young cat shows interest in climbing curtains, it's important to redirect their behavior to more appropriate areas. Firstly, provide alternatives like a sturdy cat tree or scratching post and encourage their use with toys or treats. Additionally, to discourage curtain climbing, you can apply deterrent methods such as double-sided tape or aluminum foil along the bottom. Remember to be patient and consistent while teaching your cat appropriate behavior.
Believe me, cats know when they do something naughty. My cats are mostly very well behaved. When i go on vacation and leave them with a carer, thats the only time they rip the roller towel to shreds. And the guilt when they poop outside the litter box. They know very well.
I started having seizures in September 2023. My 11 y/o cat started slapping me in the mouth. We'll just be laying, watching a movie, and she'll just turn and slap me... no claws but still. I tell her "No, ma'am! if you don't want to be with me then get down" and I'll set her down and away from me. She never did this before... could it be bc of the seizures??? 😢
It's concerning that your cat is exhibiting this behavior, especially since it's a recent development. Sudden changes in behavior like this could indeed be related to stress or anxiety, especially if there have been changes in your health. Cats can sometimes react to changes in their environment or to changes in their owner's behavior or health. However, it's essential to consult with a veterinarian to rule out any potential medical issues or to discuss possible behavior modification strategies. They can provide you with guidance tailored to your specific situation and help ensure the well-being of both you and your cat. I hope you get better soon.! 💜
If my cat has the opportunity to run out the door, he will do it. Once outside he turns into a feral cat. He will attack me, bite and hiss. Inside the house he is social and cuddly. The behavior outdoors is scary. It is as if he sees me as a predator. Has anyone experienced this?
My youngest cat has been pooping on the bathroom floor ever since she was 4 most old. She is 5 yrs old now and still does it. She knows how to use her box. And l clean her box daily. I even stopped using scented littler. I have even used 2 litter boxes since l have 2 cars. But they will use each other's box's and she still poops on the floor.
I wish a reply had been given for this problem since I have it too. What do you say to this TheCuriousCat? And peeing outside the box? I just spent $900 at the vet's for this and nothing is working yet.
I must be the lucky person in the whole wild world my little cat is well behaved but if someone thats not me. He goes to hide otherwise he's the most laid back
making loud noise doesn't work, saying "no".. instead, we move them away or food to distract them instead.. Also the aluminum foil/double sided tape doesn't work coz they would skip over the tape.
I had to explain to my kids that you cannot really discipline a cat. They do not understand it. You have to correct every no with a yes. My cat absolutely knows that pooping right beside the litter box isnt good but I will not say a thing because I would rather it be there than under the bed or something. I praise her when she pees in the litter box.
Typically, cats bring mices when they want to gift you, but if this bothers you, try not to provide any positive reinforcement like a treat or petting right after they bring the rat. There's no need to scold them because they do it with the best intentions, believe me! 😸
I redirected aggressive behavior to toys and now My cat zoomies towards wherever my head is and smacks the hell out of me when he wants to play. He doesn't scratch or bite anymore. But that smack isn't soft either.
My cat will scratch the wall corner. I move her to the scratch pad. & none of my cats are affected by foil. None of my cats mind citrus. Thankfully none chew on cords.
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My cat is 3 years old. She has started to urinate before she reaches her clean litter box. This has happened three times, usually in the early morning hours. She is eating well, has energy and good regular bowel movements. Help.
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@annharvey5402 If this is still a problem, see a vet.
Scat mats!
I’m also using foil and tape, sticky side up, right next to each other. Watching him negotiate them is entertaining AF.
My cat watched this video, and immediately afterwards made a video called "How to Scold A Human Correctly." LOL. Just kitten you.
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No kidding, they no doubt communicate with each other about how they can outsmart us and extract more treats and scritches. lol
My cat wrote the screenplay
Cats 100% understand the word "no." They're pretty smart
I agree, especially if its consistent. Shouting their name I think is a bad way of training them as they might associate their name with negative things (they wouldn't come when we call them for attention and treats). Our cats would hesitate when we say 'No' but would still proceed anyway sometimes though lol
When Fiona starts to scratch on the chair, I say loudly, "Hey! Scratching post, please!" It usually works. And when she does use the scratching post, I praise her.
I've learned to hiss and guttural growl pretty accurately. This makes my cats aware that I'm not happy with a behavior and stops them with a look of surprise. " Wow! he's upset lets stop what were doing."Works every time.
Yep!
I’m going to try this!
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Yes!! They understand this as disapproval..
Gotta laugh a bit.. "No!" or "clapping" or whatever is just something that annoys or initiates their survival instincts..
A "hiss" "growl" accompanied by a brief forward movevent (a quick lean foward with eye contact works) lets the little fuzzy know that you disapprove..
It may take few repetitions for them to figure out exactly what behavior is dissaproved.
Cats are not your "pack"..
They will accept "your space" "my space" limitations..
"I'm a dog owner"
"I have a cat... "
The nuance is subtle.. but might help..
Be Well!!
@michaelfritts6249 be careful not to scare them though or that will just make them fear you and destroy your bond. I usually will say no and act hurt. That typically works. If it keeps happening, I have hissed before but then I just walk away. They HAAAATE that because they want my attention!!!!
I have a male cat who doesn’t listen or give a rip what I say. Apparently, this is his world and he allows me to live in it.
Now you’re getting it. 😂😂😂
It's good to know your place. Lol
You must have said it wrong..
"No" or "Bad Kitty" accompaied by an immediate scratch behind the ears will never work..
A firm "no" and leaving the room and making "kitty lovins" unaccessible for a bit works best..
Btw.. there is no way to stop an indoor/outddor cat from bringing you food..
That is part of their nature.. the are bringing the kill or if "whatever" is still alive, teaching you to hunt..
Cats still have at least "one paw in the jungle"... Fact!! Get over it...
Be Well° 😃🐱
He wears the pants 😂😅😂🎉
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1:31 I've had many cats for almost 50 years now, and THIS point can almost not be STRESSED enough, reprimanding bad behaviour in the MOMENT is ABSOLUTELY CRITICAL. A RAISED "NO" voice is all that is needed as you catch them in the act, because even 1 minutes after the fact, and your cat will see your "discipline" as abuse!.
It's also very IMPORTANT to behave normally & lovingly with your cat when they approach you after having been reprimanded, even if it is 5 minutes afterward, as it helps them understand that your "NO" is aimed at the "wrong behaviour", but does not affect the unconditional love bond you have with them.
Great video, with Great solid advice 😉
Truth!!
You can't "show" a cat what they did wrong.. and attempting to "discipline" after the fact is pointless.
You can't teach an indoor/outdoor cat to NOT hunt..
A cat with a bell on its collar will still hunt.. the bell just makes the cat "coyote bait"..
Cats are not dogs..
Be Well!! 😃
Thank you for specifying this!
I couldn't agree more. I've had many different types of pets throughout my 65 years of life. Treat them all the same with discipline and love. Whether they're a cat, dog, skunk, duck, etc. Yes. I've had all of them all.
"No! Bad cat! Bad cat!......oh no, sorry, did I hurt your feelings? Here''s some pets and treats to apologize". Cat discipline in my house.
Additional Tips: Hissing at a cat when it does something wrong is another way to get their attention and make the message clear. Litter boxes - 2 for one cat, 3 for two cats, and so forth.
Telling my cat "No" does nothing to my cat. She'll just look at me as if I've lost my mind, and go back to what she was doing...
Hihihi yes me too I really look imbecile to him. Look like he say your loosing it aren’t you !
Yep. Same thing with my cat
did you teach the cat what NO actually means or are you just using the word, its how youre using itand how you say it not what you say, with confidence in a calm and asseritve (assertive not aggressive) tone, if they dont react, redirect them calmly and kindly to the thing you want them to do and then praise them. imagine a chinese person yelling at you inchinese you too would look at the person like they are insane, thats what the cat sees you like likely
My cats understand “no” very well. The 2 I have now respond to no! Better than any I’ve ever had in the past 50 yrs
@@TeacherLaurieG good teacher 👍🏽
How to discipline your cat....forget it! 😂😂😂😂😂😂 Accept that you're living in their world anyway and go on from there!
Yeah nit everyone's a beta lmao
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Contrary to Mandela Effect, cats can learn to avoid behaviors if teaching is consistent
NOISE is scary, should not be associated with you, so shaking coin jar and clapping are out.
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I tried to scold my cat.
I was quickly informed if I didn't like the way things were done here, I was welcome to leave. While it's true, many cats in the country are having Staff issues, NO ONE is irreplaceable! So I better get off my high horse, and behave. I am wondering if it was a good idea putting the house in his name. He assures me it was! And that I'm a good hoo mon. Then we had ice cream. I'm glad we got this sorted out!🤣
That's why the word homeowner has meow in it.
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First time cat dad, my cat is nearly 4 years old now, and honestly she's pretty well behaved compared to so many other cats I've seen or heard about! But I'm also glad to see that my natural means of "scolding" her line up pretty well with the tips in this video. If she's scratching something that she shouldn't be (like my guitar case) I just firmly say "stop!" and she will usually give a little "murp" and come over to me, so I give her head scritches. when she was a kitten, she liked to go into the bathroom when I wasn't home and shred my toilet paper. so I started leaving the bathroom door closed. problem solved. she also liked to chew on electrical cords, so I wrapped the area in tin-foil and sprayed the foil with pure vinegar daily. she got the message, and stopped doing it lol. luckily I've never had to get her off of the counters, she has never expressed any interest in climbing those, despite her liking to climb the dinner table which is only 2 feet away from the counter lol. And if she comes into my game room for attention when I'm at the computer, I always give her pets and play with her a little bit, but if she suddenly latches onto my hand with her teeth and claws, I pull my hand away and turn my back to her. it seems to work, she does it less and less nowadays.
ok this actually helped thank you cause I thought what I was doing was wrong by what I was doing but I've followed this video almost to a tee
My cat is INCREDIBLY smart. She ignores us if we tell her "No" or use loud noises if my partner or myself catch her scratching the carpet literally inches from her vertical, horizontal, or angled scratchers. She does it deliberately to catch our attention if we're doing chores or watching a movie and always gives me a "Mom, this is not what I wanted" look if immediately cover the spot with a scratcher and then ignore her for a moment to get the point across - which doesn't work. I've since placed a rug in the spot where she scratches, but she's OBSESSED with that one spot and she's slowly shredding it - better the rug than the carpet beneath though! She carefully tip toes across foil to avoid crinkles if we don't want her on a certain surface. The only fix to preventing her from getting on top of the entertainment center (where I keep a singular house plant and several of our figurines) is to place wide boxes on the ends so she can't land a jump on it. My partner and I (try) to play with her a few times daily for several minutes with different types of toys that we rotate through to keep her exercised. We check her litter box every time we pass the bathroom to make sure it's cleaned out (the litter is flushable, which makes scooping and tossing the goods a breeze).
She used to be terrible about chomping on our hands out of nowhere if we offered her a hand to either accept or ignore for pets. Unfortunately, the only way I could train that out of her was establishing dominance with her, which I hated - I had to scruff and (gently) pin her down to the floor under my arm in a flash as soon as it happened, which I hated, but it worked when nothing else did. She only tried a few times to get away after a chomp only to realize that I can move faster than she can - I grew up on a farm, so I'm no stranger to having to safely capture critters by reflex. She was a roughly 8 month old kitten when we found her in a parking lot with a severely broken tail and surrendered her to the humane society for treatment (and adopted her after), so we knew from the start that she had a lot of unknown traumas to recover from. It's taken a long time to establish the trust that we have now, for her to know that we will never intentionally hurt her.
She's 3 years old now and understands the concept of acceptable behaviors for the most part. She's only had one punishment in the last few months that required physical intervention, which was when she deliberately jumped onto the one surface (the entertainment center) that she knows she's not allowed onto and knocked over my plant, which made a huge mess! She tried to run off but I caught her, held her scruff (which I hated) held her face by the mess with a "BAD" and left her in the bathroom with her litter box for 10 minutes so we could clean the mess safely without worrying about her. She let out only a singular loud meow that literally resembled a toddler yelling "MOM", which I felt in my soul. She was definitely sorry for what happened (she kept rubbing my legs when I let her out) and never tried to jump on top of that surface again though - it's the one high space where it isn't safe for her, and she has 2 trees (one of them being almost 5' high), cabinets, a futon, and 2 tables to jump around on/climb at her leisure anytime in that room, so she's not short of high surfaces to hang out on. She has scratchers of every type scattered around the space too!
Believe me, we've tried everything when it comes to discipline and keeping it reasonable wherever it's needed. Hitting is never acceptable, but scruffing is a safe alternative as a last resort, if necessary. I'll also note that she's orange, plays fetch, loves to chat, follows us around like a shadow, and literally enjoyes watching TV. Her spunky, witty personality and companionship definitely outshines the occasional bratty moments. I wouldn't trade her for anything, chaos and all.
Sounds a LOT like Cheezit. Every little bit of your comment. He also meows all the time w/a really irritating meow that sounds as if he's complaining. I found classical music turned up loud helps with that meowing. I've had to rearrange the whole apt. and duct tape the TV to a table. Sigh.
Awww I love seeing the clip of the mama cat nursing! It reminds me that all of our cats were kittens once and their mom was so patient with them, so we should always be as patient and direct as their moms ❤🇨🇦
They are so lovely with their kids! 😸 💜
I've had cats near me since I was born in 1947. Your video is very accurate and well thought out. Watch and learn.
Every cat I have had for the last 28 years has learned that when I say “NO,” very firmly, with my index finger extended, that means an unequivocal negative,and they will turn around and walk away. I teach them that to help my friends who are uncomfortable around, or are afraid of cats. The humans have a sense of control near my cats, and have learned to be very firm. My cats know there are other laps, or other times they are welcome to come into a room. It also helps to keep my cats safe if they could be headed toward something dangerous.
Really? Mine ignores me saying no and looks at my pointing finger like 'are we playing now?'
why would you be friends with someone that doesnt like cats? That is an inferior human
Cat's hate dirty litter boxes. In fact they're not fond of dirty anything.
Even if they do make it themselves! Ironic, in a cat-centered sort of way.
@@davidwallacemillar9439 LOL yes indeed 🙀
Great video for new cat parents!
These are good tips for human relationships too ☺
You've totally got it!
I'm glad you enjoyed! 😸
My cat is deaf. She loves to wake me up with a very loud meow!
I had a stray calico adopt me for 21/2 years ...I'm no longer with her since I got made homeless
She used to talk me off - as if I was a big kitten of hers! She never ever was naughty round me and respected my furniture most of the time . but ur right when I told her "no" a few times things were never ever repeated .. Phenomenal memory !
Sorry to hear that you're homeless. Hope that you get back on your feet soon.
Glad to see I'm doing the right things! Also sometimes in addition to saylng "NO" I also take her outside or just open the door and she leaves while looking down, so it looks like she understand what and why. About an hour later she comes back and we make peace ❤
Thank you for your thoughts.
I'm glad you enjoyed the video! 😸💜
They do understand the word No for sure I’ve been using it for years now 😻
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VERY GOOD VIDEO!!! THANK YOU!!!😊❤😊❤
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I am Danish. I have lived in Ireland and then England for 60 years, but I still speak Danish. I also grew up in a house with five dogs and seven cats. Effectively they just let us live there because we could open tins. So I learned how to talk to Dogs and Cats, I can even Purr and use the Cat facial expressions. My father had a special word (or sound) for Naughty Cat, Naughty Cat or badly behaved Child. Unfortunatly English lacks the three extra letters we use in Danish to express these extra sounds, but all dogs and most cats understand it. The word is = Fuøøø. It really means NOOOOOO. For some reason, all dogs and many Cats seem to understood this word. Perhaps it was my father's tone of voice, but it works. I still use it if a cat is being naughty. I have seldom heard anyone else use this word, even few Danish people use it now - But it really works.
Thank you for the wonderful advice 😊
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Thanks so much for this very useful important video
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It's interesting that you and so many others say that cats don't like aluminum foil. Mine love it. They jump on it and play. I've tried cayenne pepper and hot sauce on cables. Used electrical tape on cables. It doesn't work. They know what not to do or where not to go. They are too smart and know how to push my buttons. I love them anyway and couldn't imagine life without them
Yes, typically they don't like aluminum foil, but they have individual differences, so your cats may behave differently. 😸
Hot sauce to deter animals is cruel. Please don’t do it. Their taste & smell much more sensitive than humans.
Agreed
My son uses a pool noodles or pipe insulation...
Hey! Let the grey cat have some of the treat too!
👍 I love cats. They are so unique. Videos like this one are excellent. I think all cat lovers need to watch videos like this one. Believe it or not we don't know everything.
Dogs have Owners. Cats have Servants. 🐱. It doesn't matter How many times i say No. He still scratches the couch. Even though.he Has Two scratching posts. I Still Love him. 💙🐱
If she's close we tap her on the nose. If she's far we just say No very firmly.
I am disabled and in my bed most of the time. So I taught by either putting my index finger up or if she's on my chest i put my hand on her chest and lightly push her to stop her or have her go in the direction i want her to.
For scratching furniture. At first we just said No. Then we bought her several scratching posts throughout the apartment. Big one for the living room. Small ones for my daughters room, my bathroom and my bedroom.
As far as the litter box. My daughter has it in her bathroom and takes care of it. Sasha has no problems using it. Until my daughter got a guard for it to keep the litter in the box. Sasha then started going potty on my daughter's bed. I asked my daughter if maybe she didn't like the lid. She took it off and Sasha started going back in the box.
Its sometimes the little changes they don't like.
So if your pet does something wrong it could be a change or it could be a health issue. Investigate if you discipline and nothing changes.
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My cat used to play around and make noise at night. So each time she did it I would pick her up, give her a big old kiss on the head and then gently put her outside for the rest of the night. Problem corrected and she never felt like I was mad at her or she was a bad cat. Simple association.
I do the same. She's so happy for it.
I tried the aluminum foil... My Muffin jumped on it and took a nap😂😼 He's an Orange and White cat, mischievously🤦🏽♀️ playful🥰😹😻
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My orange and white cat would make a bed on the kid's Lego bricks when they were spread out on the floor. I offered to get him a bed of nails.
double sided tape and aluminum foil don't work with one of my girls - she's a real treat LOL back in the 90's I had a cat that was crazy about any kinds of cords or cables - nothing worked till I got a bunch of toilet paper rolls and paper towel rolls and duct taped them together
Scratching posts. Keep adding scratching posts and cat towers until they're no longer interested in whatever it is you're covering in foil and tape.
It is Pavlou's theory in need!❤❤
I have to admit you cat owners have all the patience in the world i honestly don't see a cat other than being a outside animal let it roam free
I agree, never ever hit any animal
My cats are looking at this, like r e a l l y mom. Get real, and smacked me! They're in the "doghouse" now.😊
I know how to scold my cat, I give him ear rubs and butt scratches and lots of nose kisses. He hates/loves it. He’s a butt nose❤
Basically you have to sort of act like a cat to get through to a cat. I've used most of the methods in this video over many years and they do work, sometimes it requires repetition for as long as it takes but eventually the cat either figures it out or gets the message. Using any physical punishment like hitting, well, cats have excellent memories for those that do those types of things and they never forget it so essentially you've ruined your relationship with a cat.
True! 💜
I say "No ma'am! No ma'am!" in a stern voice when my kitty is heading toward someplace she doesn't need to be and when she turns around, I say in a positive voice "Good girl! Good girl!" There have been times I've had to use a distraction to get her away from where she doesn't need to be when she does get in there. And I tell her "Good girl! Good girl!" when she's doing something positive.
I'm hoping to get some advice for my cat. My cat Nina goes outside but there are invisible parameters that she knows she should not cross. I spent a lot of time training her this way and it provides her access to the outdoors and provides me with peace of mind that she won't stray too far or go where she shouldn't. She spends most of her outdoor time on the front porch, constantly scanning her territory for intruders (she's an extremely avid hunter and brings in all kinds of choice trophies for me!) Anyway, as all cat lovers know, they are EXTREMELY territorial and if an intruder crosses the barrier they'll run full tilt into this intruder, fighting and hissing. This is especially true for female cats. So my situation is this. Intruding from other cats happens between 1 to 2 weeks. I don't want Nina injured so when I hear the caterwauling I run out the door and start yelling loudly. This makes Nina run in and sends the intruder running. Right after she runs in I praise and pet her and tell her *good guard kitty" to let her know I'm not yelling at her. Problem is, sometimes after these interruptions she'll let me know quite clearly that she wasn't finished and that I interrupted her finishing her business. She'll hiss at me, which she never does otherwise, to send me the message. This doesn't last long and it could mean that she was still very much amped up. So finally the question is when this happens should I not interrupt and let her finish her duty and risk a very probable serious injury?
My cat refused to use her scratching post even when I rubbed catnip on it. I found out she doesn’t respond to catnip. I gave the post away. I’ve used No and walked away and it seems to work. I play with her using a cat dancer which is a long multi-colored piece of fabric attached to a stick and also a wand that has a feather on a string on it. She loves both of them.
My 3 cats were feral. They never have to be disciplined. . . they have been indoors for 5 years.
Using your hands (particularly fingers) when playing should be encouraged, particularly when bonding with a kitten. It's easy to teach them not to scratch you, just overact being hurt every time claws are felt. Be gentle with your cat, and they will be gentle with you. The mistake many owners make is to move their hand too rapidly, and play roughly, which invites scratches in response.
Cats don't need to be reprimanded.
They need to be loved.
That's right if you want a dog get one. Dogs have owners cats have staff.
They need to be obeyed 😄
Love and reprimand are not mutually exclusive, David. Pets and children must be taught appropriate behavior in home and outside or they run amok.
We have a pill bottle that we shake. Our female cat is so curious and has the same places she gets into trouble. We just bought some toys and it has helped her as she is an indoor kitty and gets bored.
I will NEVER groom my cat again.
It took me hours to get all of his fur off my tongue. 😂😂😂
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@@TheCuriousCatt let me ask u something please.
I took in a feral cat who I have fed outside since she was a kitten. She is now approximately 1.5 years old. I did what many say by coaxing her with food, detaining and isolating her to spay her n make sure she was healthy b4 introducing her to my 1st cat. I caged her and opened the door to let her go in and out on her own. I feed her when I feed my other cat. She does play with him.
I can get her to engage a little with birdie or mousey on a stick. The thing is she hides behind the couch. It has been almost 6 months since she was first taken in.
She has many half open places to hide but stays behind the couch.
What else can I do to give her confidence? I don't want her to live in hiding. I've never pet her but I do place my hand near her a bit closer each time.
I do blinky eyes and am always talking to her. Please help me help her.
Thank u in advance. I really appreciate your time n help.
You're doing a wonderful job providing care and attention to your feral cat! Building confidence in a formerly wild animal can take time and patience, but there are some additional steps you can take to help her feel more secure.
One strategy is to create safe spaces throughout your home where she can retreat if she feels overwhelmed. This could include cozy hiding spots like cardboard boxes or covered cat beds placed in quiet areas away from high-traffic zones. Providing vertical spaces, such as tall cat trees or shelves, can also give her a sense of security and control over her environment.
Additionally, consider using pheromone diffusers or sprays, such as Feliway, which can help reduce anxiety and create a calming atmosphere. These products mimic the natural pheromones that cats release when they feel safe and comfortable in their surroundings.
Continue with your gentle approach of gradually introducing your hand closer to her and engaging in calming behaviors like blinking slowly and speaking softly. Consistency and patience are key, so continue to reinforce positive interactions and give her space and time to adjust at her own pace.
Most importantly, remember that every cat is unique, and what works for one may not work for another. Keep observing her behavior and adjusting your approach accordingly. With time and patience, she will hopefully become more confident and comfortable in her new home.
@@TheCuriousCatt thank you so very much. Her papa, mama n brother still live outside. We noticed lately the mommy n daddy have something going on with their fur. They have been tearing their fur out. There is no way 4 us to detain them so we can get them help. It makes me want to freaking cry. What can we do? I can't tell what is bothering their skin.
It sounds horrible to ask, but should I try n dru9 them with something that will make them sleep temporarily? I think the papa had reddish fur but idk if it was blood, dirt or just the reflection from the sun. I just want to help them.
Please tell me what I can do.
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Yes, my cat likes to wrestle/ play with my hand . More often than not, I had at least puncture wounds or (a little bit worse).
And I know, that is a part of playing and he does not want to hurt me.
But he was never a playful cat before... But one day I bought a drink from the liquor store... and i made a prop of the paper around it, and threw it away, towards my waste paper basket... ! And my cat reacted on it, like he was loving it
The next time I came to the liquor store, I told the nice girl behind the counter, that my cat loved this papers so much.
And she gave me about 6 of this papers... and so it started.
Yes my cat (Nelson) still likes to play with my hand... but if he is coming too strong, I know that I have enough props left , so when he is too strong to my hands ... I can throw away these props in my living room & kitchen. And yes Nelson started to like it. That was an easy way correcting my cat, without behaving like a boss.
And lets be honest... isn't that cat/ human symbiose works the best? Ik know, I think so!
I'm glad my two cats don't need me to wash the litter box tray. I scoop out any wet sand and they seem very content with that.
I use toddler extension cord covers, that my grandson grew out of, to stop my cat from chewing on electrical cords!
My cat says NO back. Lol . I use chuch. That sound works on wild animals as well.
I used to yell at my cat and spray her with water when she scratched my recliner. Now that she's gone, I don't want to get rid of the chair *because* of her scratch marks, so now I display it with pride. I also used to punish her for chewing cords. I didn't know until much later that her gums were all inflamed and that's why she was doing it. She was in pain and I was punishing her for it. ARGH. Thanks for this video. As for other topics, I'd love to learn about house plant safety. My cat got seriously ill and I later found chew marks on a plants. They told me it could be pancreatitis, but she could have been poisoned, although she wasn't vomiting. I plan to get two new furbabies this year and they will live like royalty after learning from so many mistakes.
I'm glad you enjoyed the video! 😸💜
I just cat proof everything and hope for the best. 😅
Clapping my hands loudly or a shorts aggressive sounding verbiage works very well with my cat.
I haven't done this for a very long time, but I'm very rare occasion when she's been extremely naughty sometimes I will confine her to one room for an hour or two to and she usually comes out looking like she's very sorry about her behavior.
She will generally be more cautious about her behavior for at least a few hours
"disiplin = freedam not hurting."
Some cats prefer vertical scratching post, others prefer scratch pad on floor
I'm thankful my cats are height changed because they have both not like trying to climb too high, so no counters or climbing on tops of furniture.
I have been nervous about saying "No", as the cat started to look scared at me. I've never had a kitten before and I'm so nervous to do something wrong.
I've had cats all my life. But most of them were rescues of older ages. One and my latest was a kitten.
I've recently taken on a brand new kitten. I'm puzzled and confused about their behavior. As airshow as they are, it's a challenge to be patient and do things in their best interest to teach them.
Hitting had not even crossed my mind. Even if hitting was suggested I'd fail, because I just couldn't ever raise an angry hand at such a little creature who depends on me and needs to trust his surroundings, and me.
Mine is too clever to use a spray bottle. He caught on the first time. I felt mean too.
They are babies, they just don't know.
Watch videos of mother cats reprimanding their babies. I've perfected the mom's vocal version of NO! And her hiss. So far it's working for the immediate misbehavior. He does stop, for a moment.
I also consider the mind of a two year old. How many two year olds learn after told no the first few times?
I am frustrated at the incessant biting mine continues to do. He's not being mean, he's playing. I keep toys nearby to distract him but he still thinks my hand is great for sinking his tiny tiger teeth into.
That's my one problem.
Us ignoring him truly right to do? I feel mean ignoring him. I struggle with that.
I'm sure cats daydream about the "good old days".
When their ancestors ate our ancestors.
Are those European power plugs at 5:15 ?
My can at one point couldn’t wee it was blood got it sorted but she’s very weary using tray now
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If your cat does something that is a problem, simply raise your voice as they are doing it, mine will freeze, then stop and as soon as she leaves, I give her a quick pet, and reassure her that the louder voice happens when she does that I only had to raise my voice a few times, and most of the bad behavior is gone, or greatly reduced to a mild annoyance
They are all different. Really. That won't work on my cat. Nor yelling 'no' real loud. He just looks at me while continuing to scratch the rug.
My loving cat attacks me and bites and scratches me. What am I supposed to do?
When your usually loving cat starts displaying aggressive behavior, it's important to address it promptly. Firstly, try to understand what triggers the aggression. It could be fear, stress, or overstimulation. Once you've identified the triggers, work on providing a calm and safe environment for your cat. Ensure they have plenty of outlets for their energy through play and exercise. Additionally, consider using positive reinforcement techniques to encourage calm behavior. Redirect their attention with toys or treats when they start to show signs of aggression. However, if the behavior persists or escalates, it's advisable to consult with a veterinarian or a certified animal behaviorist. They can help rule out any underlying medical issues and provide tailored advice on behavior modification strategies. Remember, addressing aggression in cats requires patience and consistency, but with the right approach, you can help your cat overcome this behavior.
Bite back!!! Jk
Dont use ur hands as a toy. 😊
I adopted a cat recently that had been in a household with other cat. She thinks biting me is playing. Every time I think I have taught her not to she stars all over again. I am not using my hands. She will initiate it by biting my legs or arms. Wherever she sees bare skin. I tell he no and then she will sneak back and take a quick bite when I am not looking.
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What do I do if he’s pooping were he shouldn’t even though I put him in the litter tray
1. Make sure the actual tray is clean. Wash it well between litter changes. Own two trays and use alternately so one is airing while the other is in use.
2. Is the litter box too small.
3. The cat may hate the feel or scent of the liter your using.
4. Is the box in the same room as her food or water. Move that.
5. Is the cat unwell? A trip to the vet may be needed to find out. Pain when in the box may cause the cat to associate pain with the box.
6. Your cat may not like where the box is - in a high traffic area, or too far away. Is it all the way in the basement, or out in the garage, etc
7. Do you scoop the poop daily?
8. She may need two boxes- one for pee and one for poop.
9. Clean every spot she poops on to eliminate the smell. A cat’s nose is much better than ours.
10. Cover areas where she poops so that she can’t access it right away. I used pot lids.
11. You might have to put her in the room that has the box around the time she usually goes.
@@lisag.m9774 that makes sense it’s in the bathroom and one in the living room probably not privacy for him
If the little cherub has shredded your furniture, tone of voice is quite enough. No need to shout: she isn’t deaf. 😺
I HAVE A GINGER AND WHITE CAT ABOUT 4 TO 5 MONTHS OLD LIKES TO CLIME MY CURTAINS HOW CAN I STOP HIM
When a young cat shows interest in climbing curtains, it's important to redirect their behavior to more appropriate areas. Firstly, provide alternatives like a sturdy cat tree or scratching post and encourage their use with toys or treats. Additionally, to discourage curtain climbing, you can apply deterrent methods such as double-sided tape or aluminum foil along the bottom. Remember to be patient and consistent while teaching your cat appropriate behavior.
My kittens did that but stop once they are older.
My adult cat does that about once a year, which is surprising to see.
THANKYOU FOR YOUR ADVICE I WILL TRY ALL JEFFREY IS A VERY ACTIVE CAT
Believe me, cats know when they do something naughty.
My cats are mostly very well behaved. When i go on vacation and leave them with a carer, thats the only time they rip the roller towel to shreds. And the guilt when they poop outside the litter box. They know very well.
I started having seizures in September 2023. My 11 y/o cat started slapping me in the mouth. We'll just be laying, watching a movie, and she'll just turn and slap me... no claws but still. I tell her "No, ma'am! if you don't want to be with me then get down" and I'll set her down and away from me. She never did this before... could it be bc of the seizures??? 😢
Yes she wants to help you
@@uptick888 I wish she could find a nicer way to help! Lol js I know when I wake up from one, she's there bumping my face trying to wake me up.
It's concerning that your cat is exhibiting this behavior, especially since it's a recent development. Sudden changes in behavior like this could indeed be related to stress or anxiety, especially if there have been changes in your health. Cats can sometimes react to changes in their environment or to changes in their owner's behavior or health. However, it's essential to consult with a veterinarian to rule out any potential medical issues or to discuss possible behavior modification strategies. They can provide you with guidance tailored to your specific situation and help ensure the well-being of both you and your cat. I hope you get better soon.! 💜
@@TheCuriousCatt thank you so much! She is my baby. I will do that!
What should I do when he tries to steal food when I’m eating? He goes on the table when im not home so I hide the food
My couch lives in aluminum foil... If I remove it the scratching starts again. Despite multiple scratching post. Ignoring isn't very useful lol.
If my cat has the opportunity to run out the door, he will do it. Once outside he turns into a feral cat. He will attack me, bite and hiss. Inside the house he is social and cuddly. The behavior outdoors is scary. It is as if he sees me as a predator. Has anyone experienced this?
Purrfect bipolar kitty
Haha, 99% of the time my cat is scolding me for my behaviour..🤣
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Is it ok to hiss or blow on your cat when they bite you?
She understand and is not really phased by it😸
Or insuter
I just have to stare at my cat as a reprimand! And hell stop misbehaving no words are necessary! Plus he hardly ever misbehaves!
None of my cats has ever acted like Cheezit - extremely pig headed. But, he's also, loving, sweet & terribly smart!
Seriously thank you too late know..my friend cat died couple months ago 😢
My youngest cat has been pooping on the bathroom floor ever since she was 4 most old. She is 5 yrs old now and still does it. She knows how to use her box. And l clean her box daily. I even stopped using scented littler. I have even used 2 litter boxes since l have 2 cars. But they will use each other's box's and she still poops on the floor.
I wish a reply had been given for this problem since I have it too. What do you say to this TheCuriousCat? And peeing outside the box? I just spent $900 at the vet's for this and nothing is working yet.
Whenever my kittie starts chew on my arm when cuddling, I say "Ouch" out loud, and then withrdaw my arm.
My cat likes to scratch my motor home up how do I stop her from doing this
Aluminum foil doesn’t work on my babies. My girl cat tries to eat it. Wherever there’s noise I find her in the middle of it, she’s like a dog. ❤
What psycho would hit a cat.
Unfortunately there are "people" doing this...
So not using hot water then?
I must be the lucky person in the whole wild world my little cat is well behaved but if someone thats not me. He goes to hide otherwise he's the most laid back
I play tag with my. Cat at 1am and then bestfriend sleeps the rest of the night and he'd a goodboy
No one told my cats citrus was a bad smell, so cut lemons under Xmas tree don’t keep them away
making loud noise doesn't work, saying "no".. instead, we move them away or food to distract them instead..
Also the aluminum foil/double sided tape doesn't work coz they would skip over the tape.
I had to explain to my kids that you cannot really discipline a cat. They do not understand it. You have to correct every no with a yes. My cat absolutely knows that pooping right beside the litter box isnt good but I will not say a thing because I would rather it be there than under the bed or something. I praise her when she pees in the litter box.
Can you do this when you cat brings mice inside?
Typically, cats bring mices when they want to gift you, but if this bothers you, try not to provide any positive reinforcement like a treat or petting right after they bring the rat. There's no need to scold them because they do it with the best intentions, believe me! 😸
Do not instill fear
I redirected aggressive behavior to toys and now My cat zoomies towards wherever my head is and smacks the hell out of me when he wants to play. He doesn't scratch or bite anymore. But that smack isn't soft either.
My cat will scratch the wall corner. I move her to the scratch pad. & none of my cats are affected by foil. None of my cats mind citrus. Thankfully none chew on cords.