Dude is s trying to build a case against her so he can look justified in moving on to the woman he's already seeing. Outside of the necklace incident, everything he brought up was so small yet he acted so dramatic about them. Just say you found someone else and go.
I’m not going to say everything was small because when you work hard to build up your credit score to do some things and a person comes into your life and causes it to drop which affects BOTH OF YOU, that’s pretty significant (not divorcé worthy, but significant).
@bryanbeeman5256 She didn't cause his credit to drop, the incorrect application of the payments by the creditors did. And yet, he's not here mad at them. He has just moved on. So just say that
The real issue is he is a score keeper. She may be careless at times and may not delegate her time well but ANY relationship WILL DIE if either of the parties are score keepers and don’t realize the “business/work” side of cultivating an intentional union.
She need to move on. He don't know how to move on. People make mistakes, talk about it and move on. Don't keep harping on it or it will destroy your relationship.
@hergoodworks You're as good of a deflector as she is. Not easily getting over losing his cuzn ashes & not being there for him medically is not score keeping IMO. But respect to your opinion also.
I agree!!! I don’t even let my son wear my cousin’s necklace. He doesn’t understand how important and meaningful it is to me. I can’t imagine letting my spouse wear it. You like the design?!?! Let me tell you where I got it from 💯💯💯 That was his fault. He violated his relationship with his cousin even letting her wear it at all. It would’ve been over then if it was me.
@@ginab.4605 I think so too. Smh she should be ashamed of herself. I would’ve been hysterical if I lost something that important of my husband’s. On the floor at the bar on hands and knees frfr He can’t get that back.
He seems like he really doesn't want her anymore. The judge is trying to convince him with examples and such, and he wants none of it. Wondering if he has other prospects lined up. 🤔
Just because you don't want to get back with somebody doesn't mean you have somebody else, in line. People act like folks has a hard time being alone. I don't. I don't feel anybody should get out of one relationship and jump right into another one
@@laurasaw6933Thank you for saying this! My ex thinks because I'm still single that I haven’t moved on. I said I don't need another man in my life to prove I'm over you. I’m busy living my life and protecting my peace. And there is a huge difference between being lonely and being alone. I also feel that people should take time to heal, reflect, learn and grow before jumping into another relationship.
His wife is most likely his type. She’s very shapely, works out in the gym, and seems to be a quiet person. He thought he was getting a gem. He found out she did hair and makes $$$, but he didn’t know or even learn her history. I’m sure when he found out she was buy, he was ready to buy, but it didn’t quite work like he thought it was. I still think he got some skeletons he wants to release too.
SHE PISSED ME OFF DEFLECTING ABOUT THAT NECKLACE BUT she did eventually apologize a few times. He STILL HAS NOT APOLOGIZED for losing her wedding ring.
Some people are just plain nasty. Honey, I'm enough and if a man wants to bring another woman into our bed, he can do so without me, cause I'm gone! Plain sleazy
You can always purchase another wedding ring but the necklace with the ashes He can never get that back She don't even feel bad for losing it instead she talking about the wedding ring😒
@@ljackson24 sad it didn't make sense for her to wear that out anyway she knew he was going to be upset about that because he lost the ring first. She wanted to him get upset bc he didn't buy another one right away 😒
You don't need a third person or fourth person in your bedroom. You need to be creative Roll Play so many things you can do as husband and wife in roll play.
For some foolish reason, men think that dating or marrying a member of the alphabet community is just for them. When they find out that the girls can have fun without them, the men hurt. It hit different when you do this while you single versus when you’re in a relationship…. Leave them trios alone…
I would tell him how my day went at work, and he would basically tell me since he have a business he’s busier than me no matter what he didn’t give me a chance to even tell me how I felted
We have to wait and see. Speculation and insight tells me he’s trying to move on, but I could be wrong. But I think she’s a simple woman… she’s just pretty to look at. Immature?!!? Maybe, but simple nonetheless. People not going to like this, but so far, I don’t see anything noteworthy of divorce. It’s obvious they didn’t really get to know each other. And this also might be a one off, but I NEVER got in a relationship with someone of the alphabet community.
Why do people think adding another person will help out anything? Another reason you notice how you never hear of a man saying I added another man to the relationship to spice things up but its always a woman being added to spice up the relationship?
That’s how I feel. They are giving very young & just wanna escape instead of working through the issues. It’s really minor in the grand scheme of things
He didn’t lose that ring, he took it back from her because he doesn’t have intentions on being married to her anymore. He most likely is saving it for the next woman he meets, if he hasn’t already met her and given to said woman yet. Also, he took it because she lost his necklace with his cousin’s ashes.
She shouldn't have had the ashes of someone's family member around her neck in the first place. He shouldn't have even told her it was ok to wear it only when she was with him. My dad's ashes are in a necklace as well, around my rearview mirror.... My little brother b!+ch @ss can't even wear my necklace, and that's his father, the only one out of his 9 children that my dad raised under his roof until 21...... The rest of us was with our mother (he was still a great pops)... And I STILL ain't letting my brother wear a damn thang ....... 🙅🏾♀️🙅🏾♀️🙅🏾♀️ Too important to me for anyone to make a mistake with it. So to nip that in the bud, nobody is wearing my sh!t but me ..... 🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️😐😐
10 minutes in and I see her immaturity. I understand why he’s frustrated because I am too! She’s going to regret losing a decent man when he works away. Edit: Oh lawd another woman 😳 now I’m looking at him side eyed. 😒 he’s immature too but maybe a little more mature than her.
Im about eight minutes in, but this man is looking for a reason to leave her. Itll be interesting to see how the rest of episode one and two turns out. My guy is petty.
These two should have never been married...don't even think boyfriend and girlfriend!! He saw a fat ass .and she put it on him...what is wrong w. These people!!! Your values, morals have to align go become life partners.💯
The husband is extremely immature. He’s nitpicking at his wife and looking for faults because he wants out. He has someone else and should just say so. He’s going to continue to nitpick and sadly it can effect her self esteem. She should leave. That husband does not want her anymore. I also believe he has that necklace. He took it off of her while she was intoxicated. He needs to grow up.
These matters are petty for a divorce or even a court case, they could have sat down and talked. It's a matter of good communication. Where is the love he has for her.
She taking necklaces, getting drunk and losing them & he losing wedding rings and not replacing them. That “He did this… she did that” has no place in a marriage. Marriage is NAUGHT 50/50… Someone may have to pull more of the load than the other, but you love them through pulling the load and try it help them (if they’re receptive to learn) be and do better…
These two are childish. Even though he may not have intentionally lost her wedding ring, he's not sorry or regretful because she lost his necklace previously.
He is like this from being in the military, he is use to accoutibility! He likes things to go as planned no surprises! She will always be hen pecked, maybe he would have been better off marrying someone from his line of career.🤷🏾♀️
IF I NEED TO BRING IN A 3RD PARTY TO SPICE UP A NEW RELATIONSHIP - I WON'T BE IN THAT RELATIONSHIP - PERIOD - POINT - BLANK!!! JUST STAY SINGLE AND LIVE YOUR LIFE. THEY'RE WERK'N MY LAST NERVE.
I'm only 15 minutes in and I be thanking God when I see cases like this. I'm grateful that I didn't marry a character like him. He took her ring doing way too much because he wants to let it be known that was his wife. Lil boys should not get married. 🤦🏾♀️
Hmmm, seems like he didn't actually LOOK for the best qualities and was unrealistic with what he had. Also, he unfairly places some blame while avoiding instances that he was a contributing factor.You choose the person their personality and character is exactly that
Can’t wait to see part two, BUT I can tell he may have signed up to marry a grown woman. Yeah, a lot of his issues may seem small to us, but she does seem careless and a bit childish. Marriage is a partnership and if she was holding up her part, he probably wouldn’t have an issue. But, she seems irresponsible
I lost my father and I can understand him. That would have been a DEALBREAKER. That hurts . Just wearing it as jewelry and not respecting it as a sentiment.
She was so hard on this woman for clients and had this husbands side but was extremely lenient when that minister and wife came and she was complaining about her husband always doing something with the church.
Marriage licenses should not be issued without successful testing for emotional maturity, financial responsibility , good mental health and good overall life skills.
Anytime an episode is a two-part episode. You know it’s gonna be some mess.
😂😂 A whole lot of MESS
I'm tuned in!
Facts 😂😂
...and I like mess😆
Like the Brower’s😭
I think even if she said “I’m sorry, I messed up”. He’s not going to accept her apology.
Not after six months
After six month?!? I wouldn’t also!
I wouldn't accept it either because , IMO, she was insincere. The judge had to explain multiple time to get her simply to accept responsibility.
He's obviously tired of her and her shenanigans.
@gailsmith836 Nor should he 6 months later
Dude is s trying to build a case against her so he can look justified in moving on to the woman he's already seeing. Outside of the necklace incident, everything he brought up was so small yet he acted so dramatic about them. Just say you found someone else and go.
I’m not going to say everything was small because when you work hard to build up your credit score to do some things and a person comes into your life and causes it to drop which affects BOTH OF YOU, that’s pretty significant (not divorcé worthy, but significant).
@@bryanbeeman5256 even with that, it wasn't like she did anything with malice. Plus, she did what she had to do to rectify the problem on her end.
Oh how I was searching for this exact comment
@bryanbeeman5256 She didn't cause his credit to drop, the incorrect application of the payments by the creditors did. And yet, he's not here mad at them. He has just moved on. So just say that
You’re absolutely correct but whether his reasons are grounds for breakup but those are his reasons. 😢
She refuses to answer the question about why she had it on without him. That’s some hard deflection right there . Dang
She got on my nerves so bad with that, horrible.
She wants that wedding ring 😅
The real issue is he is a score keeper. She may be careless at times and may not delegate her time well but ANY relationship WILL DIE if either of the parties are score keepers and don’t realize the “business/work” side of cultivating an intentional union.
She need to move on. He don't know how to move on. People make mistakes, talk about it and move on. Don't keep harping on it or it will destroy your relationship.
She puts her clients ahead of her husbands medical condition she is not fit to be no ones wife!!
@hergoodworks You're as good of a deflector as she is. Not easily getting over losing his cuzn ashes & not being there for him medically is not score keeping IMO. But respect to your opinion also.
Loool y’all woman defend garbage behaviour it’s hilarious 😂
She is immature and he is overbearing they both need marriage counseling. They both need to apologize and be gracious.
What a mess. That necklace should not have been around her neck. That’s not what we do.
I agree!!! I don’t even let my son wear my cousin’s necklace. He doesn’t understand how important and meaningful it is to me. I can’t imagine letting my spouse wear it. You like the design?!?! Let me tell you where I got it from 💯💯💯
That was his fault. He violated his relationship with his cousin even letting her wear it at all. It would’ve been over then if it was me.
Exactly!
Seems like she might have lost it on purpose
@@ginab.4605 I think so too. Smh she should be ashamed of herself. I would’ve been hysterical if I lost something that important of my husband’s. On the floor at the bar on hands and knees frfr
He can’t get that back.
But nothing about him losing her ring which was special to her.
He seems like he really doesn't want her anymore. The judge is trying to convince him with examples and such, and he wants none of it. Wondering if he has other prospects lined up. 🤔
Yes he is ready to move on
Just because you don't want to get back with somebody doesn't mean you have somebody else, in line.
People act like folks has a hard time being alone. I don't.
I don't feel anybody should get out of one relationship and jump right into another one
1 thing about a man...when their mind is made up...that's it...ain't no going back and fourth....no convincing
@@laurasaw6933Thank you for saying this! My ex thinks because I'm still single that I haven’t moved on. I said I don't need another man in my life to prove I'm over you. I’m busy living my life and protecting my peace. And there is a huge difference between being lonely and being alone. I also feel that people should take time to heal, reflect, learn and grow before jumping into another relationship.
His wife is most likely his type. She’s very shapely, works out in the gym, and seems to be a quiet person. He thought he was getting a gem. He found out she did hair and makes $$$, but he didn’t know or even learn her history. I’m sure when he found out she was buy, he was ready to buy, but it didn’t quite work like he thought it was. I still think he got some skeletons he wants to release too.
Dang that's what I say!
I'm sick of her already. She is inconsiderate in so many ways.
Me too. Just 5 second into this and I am upset. How can a wife put a client above her husband medical need?
Pissed that I can't find someone and here she has a good man. Life!!! Smh
All of you are pick me
I was irritated with her too until I continued to watch the episode. He lies and sneaks to make himself look good.
People have flaws but you have bad mammy vibes.
SHE PISSED ME OFF DEFLECTING ABOUT THAT NECKLACE
BUT she did eventually apologize a few times. He STILL HAS NOT APOLOGIZED for losing her wedding ring.
You can buy another damn ring why TF🤬🤬😡 did she wear the necklace??!! She is irresponsible as hell.
He doesn't care about the ring or the marriage.
He's checked out!
@@lesley5380Pretty much.
I ain't liking him, some how I find he's extra hard on some trivial things,, to me I believe he has another person lined up n don't want her no more
Agreed. And I know you can’t judge a book by their cover, but he looks like a total Player.
He just might have someone else lined up…
@@nellieponks I agreed too! He doesn’t love her. He picked on petty things. He brought 3rd person.
I wouldn’t be surprised he’s very calculated he likes causing discord
He doesn't love his wife anymore, and sharing many instances where she did something to him,having proof on why he needs to devorce. 😢
I’ve had hair appointments cancelled for much less 😂 and the appointment was months in advance 🤦🏽♀️
He's don't with her and been done with her a long time ago. Just walk away sis with your dignity on this one...he don't want you sis.
Some people are just plain nasty. Honey, I'm enough and if a man wants to bring another woman into our bed, he can do so without me, cause I'm gone! Plain sleazy
IM WITH YOU ON THIS
Hot Mess. I have a necklace with my brother ashes, I would never let someone else wear it. No One!
Exactly. It isn't regular jewelry.
See, I’m with y’all. There are certain things that are off limits and your spouse should understand for obvious reasons.
That is very weird
Right! It makes no sense that she wanted to wear it!!! Weird in my opinion.
@@yvettewilliams5967It was a revenge thing. She didnt lose it. The reason why she 'lost' it is because he lost her wedding ring.
Her talking about that wedding band makes me think she lost that necklace on purpose 😫..
From the time she stood him up, he should’ve already been moved on and forgot about her.
You can always purchase another wedding ring but the necklace with the ashes He can never get that back
She don't even feel bad for losing it instead she talking about the wedding ring😒
Right! I can’t believe she didn’t care smh 🥺
@@ljackson24 sad it didn't make sense for her to wear that out anyway she knew he was going to be upset about that because he lost the ring first. She wanted to him get upset bc he didn't buy another one right away 😒
Why give something that so dear to you to her anyways?
@@Pinkypromise8891 I definitely didn't understand that either. Just seem like like they were doing it for tat
Exactly.
You don't need a third person or fourth person in your bedroom. You need to be creative Roll Play so many things you can do as husband and wife in roll play.
She's getting me so mad looking all innocent
Boy just say you don’t want your wife anymore.
She's immature & he's moved on. Bow out gracefully; move on.
For some foolish reason, men think that dating or marrying a member of the alphabet community is just for them. When they find out that the girls can have fun without them, the men hurt. It hit different when you do this while you single versus when you’re in a relationship…. Leave them trios alone…
What does that mean
LGBTQ..... COMMUNITY @@laurasaw6933
If she’s hetero, they can cheat with the opposite gender. When they buy, they have options of both….
@@laurasaw6933She's bisexual and thought it would only work to HIS advantage.
Facts!!
I'm not wearing anybody's ashes, around my neck
Can't wait till part 2.. 😂😂😂😂 wow this couple is nvrmind ...... lmaoo
I think the husband wants to be with the cousin and that's why he's so ready to GO!
absolutely....talking about she sneaky...he got flaws too...
Maybe yes, maybe no.But I understood why you said that.
@@truthbetold1074 True!
@@MomsSelfRelianceRight.... I'm ready for part 2!
Did this girl just compare a WEDDING BAND TO A NECKLACE WITH HIS COUSINS ASHES TFFFFF
Be careful of ANYONE who doesn’t think that things that YOU count as important are IMPORTANT
wow! I dated a man for years who only thought about himself always 1st
I would tell him how my day went at work, and he would basically tell me since he have a business he’s busier than me no matter what he didn’t give me a chance to even tell me how I felted
I think he had expectations and she can’t fulfilled them. She got married too young. This man doesn’t want her anymore.
We have to wait and see. Speculation and insight tells me he’s trying to move on, but I could be wrong. But I think she’s a simple woman… she’s just pretty to look at. Immature?!!? Maybe, but simple nonetheless.
People not going to like this, but so far, I don’t see anything noteworthy of divorce. It’s obvious they didn’t really get to know each other. And this also might be a one off, but I NEVER got in a relationship with someone of the alphabet community.
Why do people think adding another person will help out anything?
Another reason you notice how you never hear of a man saying I added another man to the relationship to spice things up but its always a woman being added to spice up the relationship?
She is literally trying to compare a damn wedding band to someones ashes.
Judge Star quoting those vows, but people don’t really want to live them. They look for ANY excuse to get out… and I mean ANY EXCUSE…
That’s how I feel. They are giving very young & just wanna escape instead of working through the issues. It’s really minor in the grand scheme of things
They don't have a married state of mind
2:27 - Okay I see why he had to put a ring on it! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
He sounds like he has met someone else.
That’s all it is
Yup
He has a hidden agenda...
He didn’t lose that ring, he took it back from her because he doesn’t have intentions on being married to her anymore. He most likely is saving it for the next woman he meets, if he hasn’t already met her and given to said woman yet. Also, he took it because she lost his necklace with his cousin’s ashes.
I was just saying this to myself. He took that ring back.
the judge called it right out they both disrespectful to one another
I maybe the odd one here iWOULD NEVER BRING ANYONE IN MY BEDROOM..EEEWWWW
The wife is very immature. She compared losing a wedding ring to the ashes of a human. She can always buy another ring. Wow, just wow!
She shouldn't have had the ashes of someone's family member around her neck in the first place. He shouldn't have even told her it was ok to wear it only when she was with him. My dad's ashes are in a necklace as well, around my rearview mirror.... My little brother b!+ch @ss can't even wear my necklace, and that's his father, the only one out of his 9 children that my dad raised under his roof until 21...... The rest of us was with our mother (he was still a great pops)... And I STILL ain't letting my brother wear a damn thang ....... 🙅🏾♀️🙅🏾♀️🙅🏾♀️ Too important to me for anyone to make a mistake with it. So to nip that in the bud, nobody is wearing my sh!t but me ..... 🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️😐😐
Thats what I was thinking WHY did you allow her to wear it!!! I'd be I love you but THAT IS OFF LIMITS!!💯
She wasn’t ready to get married
They’re both annoying. They belong to each other. Stay together so the rest of us are safe 😂😂😭
10 minutes in and I see her immaturity. I understand why he’s frustrated because I am too! She’s going to regret losing a decent man when he works away.
Edit:
Oh lawd another woman 😳 now I’m looking at him side eyed. 😒 he’s immature too but maybe a little more mature than her.
They are young and too immature to be married
Im about eight minutes in, but this man is looking for a reason to leave her. Itll be interesting to see how the rest of episode one and two turns out. My guy is petty.
I felt the same way…he want to blame her for everything
Wife or no wife no one would have been able to wear a sentimental piece like that. A ring can b replaced not the aches of someone's loved one
I'm ready for part 2
Now we wait 5 years for part 2😅
The deflections 🤦🏽♀️
She’s so inconsiderate and selfish!! Has an excuse for everything smh
There it is. Another woman in the mix.
Waiting on part 3
Your looking good judge star
YOU'RE AND NOT YOUR!
Do anyone think he got someone else on the side and wanting to separate from wifey to be with another?? He came in hot. That’s why I’m asking.
These two should have never been married...don't even think boyfriend and girlfriend!! He saw a fat ass .and she put it on him...what is wrong w. These people!!! Your values, morals have to align go become life partners.💯
He's in the army with his hair in plaits?
Can't wait for part 2 lol
The husband is extremely immature. He’s nitpicking at his wife and looking for faults because he wants out. He has someone else and should just say so. He’s going to continue to nitpick and sadly it can effect her self esteem. She should leave. That husband does not want her anymore. I also believe he has that necklace. He took it off of her while she was intoxicated. He needs to grow up.
This!
He just wants out just say it
Where is part.2
Ooooooooo, clutching my invisible pearls. Watching part 2 now, smh!!!! Lawd!!!
This relationship is so meh
He NEEDS !! to get away from her fast she's ALL BAD LUCK. 🏃♂️
He is too
He is too😡🤮🤡👿💩🙅🏽🙅🏽♀️👎🏽🤢
Man’s 95%👇🏼👎🏽🤡👿💩🤮
These matters are petty for a divorce or even a court case, they could have sat down and talked. It's a matter of good communication. Where is the love he has for her.
Both of these people are very immature!!! They shouldn't be married to anyone.
Dude already got another girl. Yes she’s careless and inconsiderate but he gone mentally.
Marriage requires forgiveness. Not everything is forgivable, but imperfection should not be grounds for divorce. Both of them are extremely immature.
He was dramatic with the jail story
My lady does that when she fucks up money or something she deflect it on me and say well you did this or you did that i just let her fall now fuck it
She taking necklaces, getting drunk and losing them & he losing wedding rings and not replacing them. That “He did this… she did that” has no place in a marriage. Marriage is NAUGHT 50/50… Someone may have to pull more of the load than the other, but you love them through pulling the load and try it help them (if they’re receptive to learn) be and do better…
A wedding ring compared to a love one ashes don't compare.
Paying weekly adds up QUICKLY
Both of them are childish. I'm going to chalk it up to them being young.
They had no business getting married. 🙄
These two are childish. Even though he may not have intentionally lost her wedding ring, he's not sorry or regretful because she lost his necklace previously.
He is like this from being in the military, he is use to accoutibility! He likes things to go as planned no surprises! She will always be hen pecked, maybe he would have been better off marrying someone from his line of career.🤷🏾♀️
Part 2 is coming this is a mess they gon need more than marriage counseling after that clip.
She was saying what in the world as I was saying gah dammmm. She stood expressionless the whole time. No reactions
IF I NEED TO BRING IN A 3RD PARTY TO SPICE UP A NEW RELATIONSHIP - I WON'T BE IN THAT RELATIONSHIP - PERIOD - POINT - BLANK!!! JUST STAY SINGLE AND LIVE YOUR LIFE. THEY'RE WERK'N MY LAST NERVE.
I feel he just doesn't want to be with her anymore because some of these issues aren't really issues although she does deflect a lot
Child please he probably did way worse in their relationship 😒🙄🤨
So much childishness and foolishness on both parts. Maturity is never really a factor of age and numbers, so sad...
I'm only 15 minutes in and I be thanking God when I see cases like this. I'm grateful that I didn't marry a character like him. He took her ring doing way too much because he wants to let it be known that was his wife. Lil boys should not get married. 🤦🏾♀️
Too much drama indeed, wow adding another person into your relationship never works. You'll be much divided😢
Hmmm, seems like he didn't actually LOOK for the best qualities and was unrealistic with what he had. Also, he unfairly places some blame while avoiding instances that he was a contributing factor.You choose the person their personality and character is exactly that
Can’t wait to see part two, BUT I can tell he may have signed up to marry a grown woman. Yeah, a lot of his issues may seem small to us, but she does seem careless and a bit childish. Marriage is a partnership and if she was holding up her part, he probably wouldn’t have an issue. But, she seems irresponsible
I’ve had a few and know plenty of people that have had speeding tickets and the only one locked up was drunk!
I lost my father and I can understand him. That would have been a DEALBREAKER. That hurts . Just wearing it as jewelry and not respecting it as a sentiment.
All of this drama and y’all want to add another person to the mix.
It seems like he checked out of their relationship long time ago n want to do his own thing
She was so hard on this woman for clients and had this husbands side but was extremely lenient when that minister and wife came and she was complaining about her husband always doing something with the church.
Where can I find part two at😩
For his surgery scheduled months ago; that whole day should have been cleared just for him...
Hello everyone
Marriage licenses should not be issued without successful testing for emotional maturity, financial responsibility , good mental health and good overall life skills.
Robert made me laugh 😂😂😂
SMH 🤦🏾♂️
Bi, buy, bye and there you have it!!