Good morning team LNN, What is your take home from today's conversation with Dr.Nyaboke? You can reach her on the following social handles; Facebook: Nyaboke Nduati Instagram: nyabokenduati If you can, get yourself a copy of this interesting book available at Nuria bookstore and Amazon Our Episode is proudly Powered by Optiven Limited. If you are looking for land to settle in, to build your retirement home, or to build a holiday home, contact them on Call/WhatsApp: +254790 300 300 or via their email Info@optiven.co.ke. Their plots are well-serviced with great amenities such as good roads, electricity, security, and water! Invest in your ideal coastal dream at Ocean View Ridge Vipingo. Check their website www.optiven.co.ke for all their available projects. To share your story with us, send an email to info@LNN.digital or Lynn.ngugi@Lnn.digital for consideration Thank you so much for watching❤
Lynn their is an interview done on Nicholas kioko channel about an intersex guy. I feel you could have handled the interview better than it was. The guy needs help. 😢
I am also from Kisii where property is divided among boys and nil to girls. I personally chose to divide all my estate to all my four kids(2boys and 2 girls) equally. Actually my estate after my demise should benefit all my grand children not even my grown boys and girls(All married but one(last born). Guys, we are Africans, let us love all our children equally. Boys and girls are are equally good to us parents. You will never know the amount of support you can get from the daughters you are letting go. Me I know what each child can benefit the parents.
@@balancedviewpoint7418Yes Kisiis we do this a lot.I hope my dad wont be like this.He has been so violent that we left him to live alone. I feel sorry for my brothers lacking a mentor.But we had to save our mum.
Hello Lynn,there is a lady you interviewed back then that she was divorced bcz she could not get a child,she is now happily married Tuletee hii follow up
There are talk show hosts and then there's LYNN NGUGI. the way you conduct your interviews is admirable... top tier!!! you should be studied. infact, you should be an independent unit being studied at HARVARD BUSINESS SCHOOL! you are a powerhouse and a Hallmark of excellence. may you grow from strength to strength and become a reference point for others, particularly those who feel it's impossible to be done!!! you are an inspiration..... I stan! HAPPY NEW YEAR TRIBE...
I agree with you.Lynn has her unique way of interviewing her guests,allowing them space to tell their story without being hurried, etc.Only lynn can do that🎉take your flowers 🎉now Lynn.
Wueh, Henry amesema yote!! You don't finish their sentences and don't pre empt their thoughts, you don't channel the story the way you want it to go. And there is no time limit. For real, for such a time as this, giving each person space for their own authentic voice You're a midwife, Lynn.
I am so touched. Nobody deserves this. You are one brave woman, Nyaboke. This has triggered a memory I have buried. Some 26 years ago, my marriage almost broke up because my MIL insisted that my daughter undergo the cut. I hadn't gone through it myself. She would spit in derision and murmur: egesagane whenever she came into her sight or passed by. I fought for my daughter to the extent of almost exiting my marriage. I stood up to my MIL, all and sundry. My husband "finally" stood with me. The pressure by society was overwhelming. It is well, Daktari. May the LORD bless and keep you!
The way am a committed member of LNN. All the way from Tuko, a committed member from Uganda. Every morning at my office desk as i open my computer, the first thing is run to TH-cam to see the day's episode. Thank you lynn for blessing us and we are always inspired, transformed, minds are awakened. With love, Hope is my real name just this is my lil broz profile.
Wow, Lynn what a show, what a guest and what an incredible learning curve. It's quite a rebuilding story. She has given purpose to her pain. I agree with you on that Lynn. Nilifanyiwa yes but that is the past that helped me learn to pick up the pieces and redefine my purpose to my destiny. That's what experiences teaches us in life journey guys. Lynn thanks for impacting the larger audience, globally. On that set, you are two awesome beauties in black. You look unapologetically stunning, the Kenyan incredible women of purpose. Dr. Nyaboke baba you are unapologetically beautiful and a woman of purpose out to change the stereotypes and or the cultural norms that have been outdated if I can call that. I come from kisii and can readily relate to what you are saying. I grew up in the 60s and 70s when the circumcision practice was a rule rather than an exception. But, growing up and getting children in the 80s and the 90s, many things had changed and the practice of female circumcision was kind of hedging off. I and my wife decided we can't subject our two daughters to such dehumanising act. That was it. Today, all our children(2 boys, 2 girls) are adults and successfully married in/out without any problem or regrets whatsoever. Nyaboke, the children traumas you experienced as you are narrating it on GBV in-house is sad and by all means unacceptable. I witnessed first hand the same in my parents but our mother took a bold step to educate us albeit the violence till I achieved university degree. I promised that I will never touch my wife or allow my children to suffer any sort of ridicule. Many Kisii men are very violent as you are saying. I can confirm it because I am from there. It's basically the choice that one has to make. I chose love, purpose and peace over violence. Today I live a fulfilled life full of peace, incredible family love and exceptional mental wellness. I have given a bit of my side to help validate Nyaboke's story and secondly to motivate Lynn's fans that life happens in not very kind or smooth path but one with lots of disappointments and rough terrains. The only positive affirmation is that such experiences don't define you or your destiny but purpose does. Every nasty experience you pass through guys teaches you courage and a reason to live to your purpose. Life is not meant to be that smooth and free-flowing. Each one of us has a a side part that is often silent to the public gallery. The fact that Nyaboke is coming out with a traumatic experience coupled with a book to be serialised as one to be remembered in Kenyas anals of history is something special. Nyaboke baba, I affirm you for the courage and intention to bring this out. The book and your story stands a great lesson to the kisii, Kalenjin and Maasai culture. I believe it shall serve as a great reference point. Lynn, keep bringing relevant contents like this that impacts society positively. As always, you are our Kenyan Queen of hearts. I pray for your health and mental wellness as you keep touching lives.
I dated a guy from your area. 2006. I remember he used to refer to me as 'egesagane ke". And his friends would refer to me that way. Initially I didn't know what that meant until a gal from Kisii told me, and she told me it's very offensive. Mark you, that's at postgraduate level😢. I felt so offended. I left the relationship
I have noticed that in all these stories the main thing that causes trauma is abuse during childhood. People never really heal from these kinds of abuse. May God protect all children
Childhood traumas. Oh my goodness. I can clearly relate to Doc's story. Violence, passing on of parents, FGM....Very traumatising indeed. You're a strong woman💪 Thank you Lynn for this episode. You're indeed a power house. One day l'll share mine😮
Asante sana, Nyaboke, for sharing your moving and inspirational story. Your strength and character shines through and the lessons you share prompt each of us to examine our role in supporting people and ending harmful cultural traditions. We are proud of you!
It's very traumatizing. It was done to me at 14 years old. I'm now 60 and I've never been able to talk about it. The shame is real. I was not aware, and it just happened one evening in our sitting room. I will never forget the experience. I won't wish it for any girl.
When God lines up your path to destiny, no human being can interrupt it. Dr. Nyaboke's purpose in life was well aligned right from birth, and His grace manifested every step hitherto. Maybe what I can feel as a devastating or painful episode is that of being molested by someone she knew, albeit naive. But the good thing is, Jehovah directed her to a "REAL" man who helped her process her past slowly jini ya maji. Big up Nyaboke. "You can define your own power. Don't let people do it. " powerful partying shot👏👍🙌
She didn't define it she has opportunity that made her spread her wings if those opportunities did appear the story will be different everybody no matter what we go through we have potential the difference is the opportunity aligned on our path that's the difference
This is my very first time commenting on your shows Lynn. I will also finally subscribe after writing this. Am so sad that this lady went through that. My oldest sister went through it too which breaks my heart. Somehow my other sister and I were supposed to go though the same time but am so glad that God gave us a light to say no to our mom the one and only time she mentioned it. My mom is so happy that she didn't put us through that. This lady is a brave woman and may God bless her always .
Lynn the stories you bring are not just anything out there but are things that inspire all of us. Not for views but for building and inspiring all of us
why is your childhood like mine, I didn't want to be called egesagane too! And struggled alot with wanting acceptance. Thank you for sharing your story am glad we made it out!
Lynn you are such a great inspiration. Do you know my mom is one of your greatest follower and she loves your show! God bless you. Much love from Turkana. ❤️❤️❤️
I affirm you, Dr. Nyaboke for what you have become after hypnosis therapy. God purposed you to a good man. It's not easy to deal with someone who hasn't processed childhood trauma that was as extreme as yours. On a lighter note, it was God that ended to a hubby that comes from another community. Everything happens for a reason, and I, too, appreciate and affirm your great man. Pat him for me. Fans, therapy heals past experiences successfully. Borrow a leaf from Nyaboke and many more guests that have featured in Lynn show. Lynn, thanks for this guest coming to enlighten the world with such an inspiring story.
Incredible story..being true to yourself and embracing healing by having grace to forgive and mercy not to inflict pain to yourself or the other person who wronged you... keep on shining.. Good work Lynn ❤❤❤
Here hyping for the book to be released as a Netflix series! What a story of triumph! This reminds me of the ‘Maid’ series on Netflix, not exactly the same story..but No Tears for the Cherished is definitely a story that the world needs to see ❤️❤️❤️
Doc you are such a strong woman. We all have life scars...thank God for such a loving hubby besides you. you have a beautiful family. You are such a beautiful gal, inside and outside. Wishing you a happy new year!!!
Have also been ashamed of myself for 2 years, keeping quiet about everything and not telling people what am going through but when the year started I prayed to God to give me the strength to start opening up because I was loosing myself 😢have not started the journey of healing but I know I'll make it...
My thesis for my Masters degree was on "PTSD on Maasai Girls who had undergone FGM" and the finding was shocking 98% of them had developed PTSD.(Post Traumatic Stress Disorder) Traumatic
Such a beautiful soul. I can resonate with every bit of your story needless to say that mine is almost a replica. Thank you for being bold and Glory to God to your healing.
Dr. Nyaboke has quite a powerful story. I admire the work she’s done to heal the pain of her past. This will inspire a lot of people stuck in the trauma of their past to see that true healing and peace is possible as long as one is willing to do the work.
This takes a strong woman and courage to come out and share such a story. You deserve the best girl!! So many children are going through hell. May God bless you as you mentor the youth. Thanks Lynn for bringing this out. It'll surely encourage many. God bless
Dr.Nyaboke, you are smart,glowing and have an amazing smile all through. I have connected with your story and i am encouraged to keep pushing on despite me being an orphan. I love how you are calm and how things aligned themselves for you. Flowers to your husband for his support and stability. Thank you and be blessed
Dr nyaboke is also very courageous because not many ladies from her area come in the open to talk about. They're really silenced by society. One hurtful thing is that for the ladies they went to some dingy place and the boys were really taken care of walienda hosi. Pole sana if youve experienced this.
Very empowering interview with Dr. Nyaboke. We are not our circumstances, and her star is shining bright. Its a beautiful ending, marriage, career, kids, healing and peace of mind. Congrats Doc, you did well🎉
Happy 2024 Lynn and thank u for keeping us yearning for for these great stories. Dr. Boke is very inspirational and will touch quite some live with her stories. Thanks
Childhood trauma can make you emotionless. You can see that as she narrates loss of both parents.If she was a child that grew up in love, the amount of tears or emotions she could have shed on this show, ni Mungu! A lesson to us as parents, we might lack all the good things to give to our kids,but please please never deny your children unconditional love.
You are so beautiful Dr Nyaboke, God is great; we can figure out the paedophile that sexually abused you and they'll live with the guilt for the rest of their lives as l guarantee you have had a better life than them a million times. Adversities only make us stronger when God is with us. May you n Ur gorgeous family always be blessed and may God always walk with you. We are really very proud of you. We r hope that your mum is kept by God in a restful place forever.
Truly inspiring testimony of overcoming against all odds!!! God's Gracious Hand was upon her all the while in the heart wrenching suffering!!! congratulations 👏👏 doc!!!
Hello dear Alumnus. Thanks for sharing your story with us. It takes courage to come out and talk of our past traumas. Since I came to know you, I’ve always admired you and looked up to you. You are a true definition of defying the odds. Who could tell what you’ve been through. You are a truly refined gold. Your story will inspire many. Thanks Lynn for hosting Dr. Nyaboke!
You are a strong woman. I'm glad you got things working out because you refused to stay down. You didn't let self-pity keep you down too long. You kept going for your dreams and you achieved them. Well done Dr. I learn from you to take bold steps and keep going no matter what.
This was so incredibly inspirational, I'll say it now Dr Nyaboke if you decide to make your book an audio book I will be first in line to grab a copy and would even be honoured to be the voice behind one of the chapters if you'll have me. "We are the ones we've been waiting for" Wishing you all the best that life has to offer. Thank you Lynn as always for bringing us another amazing story of resilience, hope and the power within us by God's grace ❤
Lynn, its hard to change the larger society or regulate how individuals behave in their respective diverse environments. People grow in unique settings that triggers or circumstances drive them to. The best we can do as individuals is to try and process the past for the purpose of healing and moving on. However,the first step MUST be forgiving. Until you forgive the tormentors that impacted your life negatively, the heavy load inside your unconscious mind can weigh you down. Just forgive guys and know that counselling is the best avenue to your mental wellness.
Some two or so years ago I would discourage my person (RIP) from watching Lynn's channel coz she would binge on the really sob stories and would get emotionally charged and moody or say things like, 'haki you men are so evil', etc. Over the last one year, the content has really balanced out, like this video, and speaks to an even larger audience. I've even had the chance to patronized some of the guests services.
But why is it that those people that we always prioritise when the situation turns upside down they always disappear, we should always think twice when we choosing our circle
That is exactly what happened after my moms burial my moms co-wives were like msijali sisi tuko we shall take care of you and we shall take care of your children the way your mom used to,i was like you people are you serious? Mi sikuwajibu😢,i hate what relative's do when one past away😢😢
How l love you Lynn,,,l knew you at the time my life was at the critical moment,,,I don't know how just God made me to enter into TH-cam and you episodes starting popping in my screen,,,l can say 60% of my healing l have gotten from you,, Your episodes are my therapist everytime l watch,,, I will watch and stay here till the coming of Jesus,,,,sikuizi n kwa hoofer tu Anyway receive our regards here from Rongo university, Migori ,,,,l have fans here who loves you too
Thank you for sharing this story....its a "But God" type of story. Sigh....😢....I feel sad that the perpetrator has walked away free. I couldn't help wondering how many other children he abused. I really feel he should be reported, called out as part of justice. Often families try to resolve sexual abuse to no avail. The perpetrator walks away free and continues to molest other children in the community. I wish you would seek justice for you and the others he molested ( I feel like you weren't his only victim).
I agree, closure could come from facing the perpetrator, .......how many other vulnerable kids have been victims and possibly still in danger. While not holding grudges, other children could also have justice
Wow she has beautiful family u see now this is the confidence she has everything beautiful family careerr good job she doesnt care what u think or say about her
thanks for these inspiring stories. got the book on Amazon. thanks Dr for the courage to raise again the odds and sharing the life testimonies that we never say about. all the best as you grow to further heights.
Dr. Nyaboke well done!! I always wondered why you did not socialize in High School even within our class. I knew something was wrong, but I did not know about depression and mental health. You have gone through a lot and I can still see you holding back, but its your journey and I am very proud of what you have achieved all on your own.
this is my daughters principle waoh. Nyaboke? am very very proud of you. and why dont you try the healing with the girls also. alot of them havbe issues from here to south africa
@Lynngugi one day I'll be in that yellow sofa, telling you what and how i went through different stages and types of abuse, sometimes watching these kind of stories triggers me that i even hide myself and cry so bad, I'm a Ugandan who grew up in ke. But currently working as a house manager in Saudi Arabia, I wish you'll give me a chance to express myself, because really, i went through hell, hopefully I'll be given a chance and be able to do it😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
Thank you very much Lyn for bringing this Amazing woman to share her story, I can relate her story to my own childhood in more ways than one. Thank you Doctor Nyaboke so enlightening. I am going to look for your book on Amazon 🙏🏽
Who else noticed this beautiful smile from the beginning to the end? She is wonderfully made and a strong woman. Everyone who went through this act should learn how to accept herself and learn from this wonderful woman. Thank you for sharing your story.
@catherinenyawira4858 sorry for what you went through. Your daughter is definately not stupid. People can be mean but l m glad it doesnt define who you are. Wishing you all the best in your life.😊
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Good morning team LNN,
What is your take home from today's conversation with Dr.Nyaboke?
You can reach her on the following social handles;
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Lynn their is an interview done on Nicholas kioko channel about an intersex guy. I feel
you could have handled the interview better than it was. The guy needs help. 😢
Exactly uyo kioko isn't good enough...mambo ya watu wazima awachane nayo..Lynn tafta Dan..
I am also from Kisii where property is divided among boys and nil to girls. I personally chose to divide all my estate to all my four kids(2boys and 2 girls) equally. Actually my estate after my demise should benefit all my grand children not even my grown boys and girls(All married but one(last born). Guys, we are Africans, let us love all our children equally. Boys and girls are are equally good to us parents. You will never know the amount of support you can get from the daughters you are letting go. Me I know what each child can benefit the parents.
@@balancedviewpoint7418Yes Kisiis we do this a lot.I hope my dad wont be like this.He has been so violent that we left him to live alone. I feel sorry for my brothers lacking a mentor.But we had to save our mum.
Hello Lynn,there is a lady you interviewed back then that she was divorced bcz she could not get a child,she is now happily married
Tuletee hii follow up
There are talk show hosts and then there's LYNN NGUGI. the way you conduct your interviews is admirable... top tier!!! you should be studied. infact, you should be an independent unit being studied at HARVARD BUSINESS SCHOOL! you are a powerhouse and a Hallmark of excellence. may you grow from strength to strength and become a reference point for others, particularly those who feel it's impossible to be done!!! you are an inspiration..... I stan! HAPPY NEW YEAR TRIBE...
I agree with you.Lynn has her unique way of interviewing her guests,allowing them space to tell their story without being hurried, etc.Only lynn can do that🎉take your flowers 🎉now Lynn.
Dear Henry,🙏
You know I appreciate this, right. Truly, deeply, honestly appreciate this. Thank you for your kind words 🙏
God Bless
@@margaretmbae1928Dear Margaret, I receive the flowers and appreciate your love and support 🙏
Wueh, Henry amesema yote!! You don't finish their sentences and don't pre empt their thoughts, you don't channel the story the way you want it to go. And there is no time limit. For real, for such a time as this, giving each person space for their own authentic voice You're a midwife, Lynn.
Wow...Henry has put into words what most of us think of Lynn.This is truly kind.
Thank you Henry and thank you Lynn.
I am so touched. Nobody deserves this. You are one brave woman, Nyaboke. This has triggered a memory I have buried. Some 26 years ago, my marriage almost broke up because my MIL insisted that my daughter undergo the cut. I hadn't gone through it myself. She would spit in derision and murmur: egesagane whenever she came into her sight or passed by. I fought for my daughter to the extent of almost exiting my marriage. I stood up to my MIL, all and sundry. My husband "finally" stood with me.
The pressure by society was overwhelming.
It is well, Daktari. May the LORD bless and keep you!
I know we just bury it traumatize
@kairatouoliver8614 This one I am buying for myself, my daughter, and friends. If it helps save just one little gal; it will be worth it.
The way am a committed member of LNN. All the way from Tuko, a committed member from Uganda. Every morning at my office desk as i open my computer, the first thing is run to TH-cam to see the day's episode. Thank you lynn for blessing us and we are always inspired, transformed, minds are awakened. With love, Hope is my real name just this is my lil broz profile.
We highly appreciate your presence🙏🙏
Me too, all the way from Zambia I have taught my sister, now she is becoming a pro😂
Nyaboke Nyaboke Dr. So inspiring
Am Zambian and have known her from Tuko.I find her voice comforting.She has so much respect for her guests and us the viewers.
What a story! What courage! What a woman! What calm and grace! What a powerful message that is going to change so many lives!! Thank you 🙏🏾
She's a superstar and a good mentor where my daughter goes to school.She does her work professionally. Well done Dr Nduati.
We appreciate you.
Wow, Lynn what a show, what a guest and what an incredible learning curve. It's quite a rebuilding story. She has given purpose to her pain. I agree with you on that Lynn.
Nilifanyiwa yes but that is the past that helped me learn to pick up the pieces and redefine my purpose to my destiny. That's what experiences teaches us in life journey guys. Lynn thanks for impacting the larger audience, globally. On that set, you are two awesome beauties in black. You look unapologetically stunning, the Kenyan incredible women of purpose.
Dr. Nyaboke baba you are unapologetically beautiful and a woman of purpose out to change the stereotypes and or the cultural norms that have been outdated if I can call that. I come from kisii and can readily relate to what you are saying. I grew up in the 60s and 70s when the circumcision practice was a rule rather than an exception. But, growing up and getting children in the 80s and the 90s, many things had changed and the practice of female circumcision was kind of hedging off. I and my wife decided we can't subject our two daughters to such dehumanising act. That was it. Today, all our children(2 boys, 2 girls) are adults and successfully married in/out without any problem or regrets whatsoever.
Nyaboke, the children traumas you experienced as you are narrating it on GBV in-house is sad and by all means unacceptable. I witnessed first hand the same in my parents but our mother took a bold step to educate us albeit the violence till I achieved university degree. I promised that I will never touch my wife or allow my children to suffer any sort of ridicule. Many Kisii men are very violent as you are saying. I can confirm it because I am from there. It's basically the choice that one has to make. I chose love, purpose and peace over violence. Today I live a fulfilled life full of peace, incredible family love and exceptional mental wellness.
I have given a bit of my side to help validate Nyaboke's story and secondly to motivate Lynn's fans that life happens in not very kind or smooth path but one with lots of disappointments and rough terrains. The only positive affirmation is that such experiences don't define you or your destiny but purpose does. Every nasty experience you pass through guys teaches you courage and a reason to live to your purpose. Life is not meant to be that smooth and free-flowing. Each one of us has a a side part that is often silent to the public gallery. The fact that Nyaboke is coming out with a traumatic experience coupled with a book to be serialised as one to be remembered in Kenyas anals of history is something special. Nyaboke baba, I affirm you for the courage and intention to bring this out. The book and your story stands a great lesson to the kisii, Kalenjin and Maasai culture. I believe it shall serve as a great reference point.
Lynn, keep bringing relevant contents like this that impacts society positively. As always, you are our Kenyan Queen of hearts. I pray for your health and mental wellness as you keep touching lives.
I dated a guy from your area. 2006. I remember he used to refer to me as 'egesagane ke". And his friends would refer to me that way. Initially I didn't know what that meant until a gal from Kisii told me, and she told me it's very offensive. Mark you, that's at postgraduate level😢. I felt so offended. I left the relationship
I never knew that the Kisiis do that.
I have noticed that in all these stories the main thing that causes trauma is abuse during childhood. People never really heal from these kinds of abuse. May God protect all children
Once one recognizes the trauma you can search within and seek help to overcome bcoz you might pass it to your children which will be a cycle
Childhood traumas. Oh my goodness. I can clearly relate to Doc's story. Violence, passing on of parents, FGM....Very traumatising indeed. You're a strong woman💪 Thank you Lynn for this episode. You're indeed a power house. One day l'll share mine😮
Women go through a lot. Behind every smile there is a story.
Asante sana, Nyaboke, for sharing your moving and inspirational story. Your strength and character shines through and the lessons you share prompt each of us to examine our role in supporting people and ending harmful cultural traditions. We are proud of you!
She is beautiful, her smile is contiguous. Love her already and her story is inspiring us.Thank you Lynn ❤️
Dr Nyaboke Nduati you are so beautiful,you just talk kind words
There is hope at the end of the tunnel.May i get power for what i am going through.
It's very traumatizing. It was done to me at 14 years old. I'm now 60 and I've never been able to talk about it. The shame is real. I was not aware, and it just happened one evening in our sitting room. I will never forget the experience. I won't wish it for any girl.
I feel you. Same here
Wah wah I real I feel for you that's madness
When God lines up your path to destiny, no human being can interrupt it. Dr. Nyaboke's purpose in life was well aligned right from birth, and His grace manifested every step hitherto. Maybe what I can feel as a devastating or painful episode is that of being molested by someone she knew, albeit naive. But the good thing is, Jehovah directed her to a "REAL" man who helped her process her past slowly jini ya maji. Big up Nyaboke. "You can define your own power. Don't let people do it. " powerful partying shot👏👍🙌
She didn't define it she has opportunity that made her spread her wings if those opportunities did appear the story will be different everybody no matter what we go through we have potential the difference is the opportunity aligned on our path that's the difference
This is my very first time commenting on your shows Lynn. I will also finally subscribe after writing this. Am so sad that this lady went through that. My oldest sister went through it too which breaks my heart. Somehow my other sister and I were supposed to go though the same time but am so glad that God gave us a light to say no to our mom the one and only time she mentioned it. My mom is so happy that she didn't put us through that. This lady is a brave woman and may God bless her always .
Lynn the stories you bring are not just anything out there but are things that inspire all of us. Not for views but for building and inspiring all of us
I went through this at the age of 14. For us they were waiting until we do our KCPE. Thank you doc,I believe I'll find the love of my life soon.
Me too... I went through that after KCPE😢😢NOW 38YRS single 😢
your name sounds familiar, I'm Gathoni too
@@graceg1706lol Grace Gathoni like my mom
Ciamucii ticomo andu a nyumba
@graceg...Ann gathoni are not my real names
why is your childhood like mine, I didn't want to be called egesagane too! And struggled alot with wanting acceptance. Thank you for sharing your story am glad we made it out!
Same as me gal one day I will share my story it has cost me alot I wish I was big to talk for my self I regret that thing
True, that was the language they used to entice us. I wish I knew better 😢
Am spoken to and touched . God give me the strength to step out and get uncomfortable this year... Freedom begins where fear ends
Lynn you are such a great inspiration. Do you know my mom is one of your greatest follower and she loves your show! God bless you. Much love from Turkana. ❤️❤️❤️
I affirm you, Dr. Nyaboke for what you have become after hypnosis therapy. God purposed you to a good man. It's not easy to deal with someone who hasn't processed childhood trauma that was as extreme as yours. On a lighter note, it was God that ended to a hubby that comes from another community. Everything happens for a reason, and I, too, appreciate and affirm your great man. Pat him for me.
Fans, therapy heals past experiences successfully. Borrow a leaf from Nyaboke and many more guests that have featured in Lynn show.
Lynn, thanks for this guest coming to enlighten the world with such an inspiring story.
Boke*
@@kadzo6614she is Dr Nyaboke
Exactly what happened to me...aki Lynn,i would like to share my story too...
Incredible story..being true to yourself and embracing healing by having grace to forgive and mercy not to inflict pain to yourself or the other person who wronged you... keep on shining.. Good work Lynn ❤❤❤
Here hyping for the book to be released as a Netflix series! What a story of triumph! This reminds me of the ‘Maid’ series on Netflix, not exactly the same story..but No Tears for the Cherished is definitely a story that the world needs to see ❤️❤️❤️
Doc you are such a strong woman. We all have life scars...thank God for such a loving hubby besides you. you have a beautiful family. You are such a beautiful gal, inside and outside. Wishing you a happy new year!!!
Have also been ashamed of myself for 2 years, keeping quiet about everything and not telling people what am going through but when the year started I prayed to God to give me the strength to start opening up because I was loosing myself 😢have not started the journey of healing but I know I'll make it...
May God give you strength and May his blessing be upon you. God loves you and you are perfect. Don’t live in fear. Favor is your potion in Christ.
@@listanthenya5392 thank you
Hugs from Ug.
Let it out
It's so terrible. I am glad the eyes are opening 😊. Stop with sexual abuse of woman.
Sending hugs of comfort. ❤ God loves you and no situation defines you coz you are stronger. May you rise and shine. Blessings
My thesis for my Masters degree was on "PTSD on Maasai Girls who had undergone FGM" and the finding was shocking 98% of them had developed PTSD.(Post Traumatic Stress Disorder) Traumatic
Dr.Nduati❤❤❤Thank you for sharing your story
Such a beautiful soul. I can resonate with every bit of your story needless to say that mine is almost a replica. Thank you for being bold and Glory to God to your healing.
Finding power in experiences❤A very beautiful statement.
Thanks Lynn for bringing Dr on the platform 🙏
Dr. Nyaboke has quite a powerful story. I admire the work she’s done to heal the pain of her past. This will inspire a lot of people stuck in the trauma of their past to see that true healing and peace is possible as long as one is willing to do the work.
This takes a strong woman and courage to come out and share such a story.
You deserve the best girl!!
So many children are going through hell.
May God bless you as you mentor the youth.
Thanks Lynn for bringing this out. It'll surely encourage many. God bless
Oh soo touching. Have never known you have experienced this kind of pain cz you are always smiling.
Dr.Nyaboke, you are smart,glowing and have an amazing smile all through. I have connected with your story and i am encouraged to keep pushing on despite me being an orphan. I love how you are calm and how things aligned themselves for you. Flowers to your husband for his support and stability. Thank you and be blessed
Let me listen carefully to this one, , thank you for sharing ❤❤❤
I know her. She went to my high School . Backbthen she was soo quiet and very drawn to her. Now i know😢
Dr nyaboke is also very courageous because not many ladies from her area come in the open to talk about. They're really silenced by society. One hurtful thing is that for the ladies they went to some dingy place and the boys were really taken care of walienda hosi. Pole sana if youve experienced this.
Very empowering interview with Dr. Nyaboke. We are not our circumstances, and her star is shining bright. Its a beautiful ending, marriage, career, kids, healing and peace of mind. Congrats Doc, you did well🎉
It has been mind blowing listening to Angie. Thank you so much for this beautiful life story.
Your Motherhood Chronicles is amazing
Dr Nyaboke, your story is inspiring and thanks Lynn for bringing her to us. I have placed my book order on Amazon and will definitely gift my friends.
You are strong Dr . Very good conversation Lynn.
Good morning LNN family 👋
Ready to listen and learn ❤
I can find my own power, don't let people define me. Thanks Doc.
Happy 2024 Lynn and thank u for keeping us yearning for for these great stories. Dr. Boke is very inspirational and will touch quite some live with her stories. Thanks
Who else noticed she zoned out while looking at the floor when she was narrating how the dad told them to look at their mum for the last time😢
You could see the sight of her mother in her eyes.... glory to God she has been healed.
Dr Nyaboke good job for coming out and sharing with the world
ION you look like Esther Wahome of the famous Kuna Dawa song
Dr this is inspiring and let's buy the book and be able to learn and get inspired.... Lynne keep inspiring the world
Childhood trauma can make you emotionless. You can see that as she narrates loss of both parents.If she was a child that grew up in love, the amount of tears or emotions she could have shed on this show, ni Mungu! A lesson to us as parents, we might lack all the good things to give to our kids,but please please never deny your children unconditional love.
Thanks for putting it in Amazon it’s easier for anyone anywhere in the world 🌎 to get it. U are strong, beautiful and inspiring 🙏🏾
Such a humble interectual human being, congratulations Rose,you are a special germ.😊
Congrats Dr Boke! So proud of you cuz and thanks Lynn for the platform that gives many the opportunity to share their uplifting stories. Blessings!
You are so beautiful Dr Nyaboke, God is great; we can figure out the paedophile that sexually abused you and they'll live with the guilt for the rest of their lives as l guarantee you have had a better life than them a million times. Adversities only make us stronger when God is with us. May you n Ur gorgeous family always be blessed and may God always walk with you. We are really very proud of you. We r hope that your mum is kept by God in a restful place forever.
Dr. Nyaboke Nduati you are an inspiration to many who go through stigma of loosing their loved ones. Big up Lynn for this wonderful interview.
Boke*
Truly inspiring testimony of overcoming against all odds!!! God's Gracious Hand was upon her all the while in the heart wrenching suffering!!! congratulations 👏👏 doc!!!
Hello dear Alumnus. Thanks for sharing your story with us. It takes courage to come out and talk of our past traumas. Since I came to know you, I’ve always admired you and looked up to you. You are a true definition of defying the odds. Who could tell what you’ve been through. You are a truly refined gold. Your story will inspire many. Thanks Lynn for hosting Dr. Nyaboke!
Wow new subscribers
Am so inspired by Doc. I truly thank God for her life. All things are possible
Yes Doc,you're cherished,despite the tears...BRAVO....To Lynn,bring more interactive segments dear
I like this last last...statement which she says " being out there gave me the bargaining power".
You are a strong woman. I'm glad you got things working out because you refused to stay down. You didn't let self-pity keep you down too long. You kept going for your dreams and you achieved them. Well done Dr. I learn from you to take bold steps and keep going no matter what.
This was so incredibly inspirational, I'll say it now Dr Nyaboke if you decide to make your book an audio book I will be first in line to grab a copy and would even be honoured to be the voice behind one of the chapters if you'll have me. "We are the ones we've been waiting for" Wishing you all the best that life has to offer. Thank you Lynn as always for bringing us another amazing story of resilience, hope and the power within us by God's grace ❤
Dr. Boke*
@@kadzo6614 Thank you, my apologies that's how I heard it.
She did introduce herself as Nyaboke. I don't think you made a mistake.
THATS MY MOTHER
(Nyaboke Nduati😊😊)
Your mother is a STAR🙏❤️❤️
😁😁😁
Your mother is a strong woman
We are proud of your Mum for being a voice to the voiceless!
Thank you 😁😁😁
I did my tp at nova and she is the principal .waaaoo she inspires me
Lynn, its hard to change the larger society or regulate how individuals behave in their respective diverse environments. People grow in unique settings that triggers or circumstances drive them to. The best we can do as individuals is to try and process the past for the purpose of healing and moving on. However,the first step MUST be forgiving. Until you forgive the tormentors that impacted your life negatively, the heavy load inside your unconscious mind can weigh you down. Just forgive guys and know that counselling is the best avenue to your mental wellness.
Wow Nyaboke Nduati 👏👏 KU comrade good to see you here
This was my lecturer in KU..... Nobody could tell you have passed through this. Hugs
Lynn im following you im in South Africa you are doing a good job ❤
This story is of how God recovers your lost years. I loved it. She's very beautiful.
Some two or so years ago I would discourage my person (RIP) from watching Lynn's channel coz she would binge on the really sob stories and would get emotionally charged and moody or say things like, 'haki you men are so evil', etc.
Over the last one year, the content has really balanced out, like this video, and speaks to an even larger audience. I've even had the chance to patronized some of the guests services.
Everything happens with a purpose so we can be able to learn Lynn happy new year 🎉🎉🎉
GOD BLESS LYNN TEAM AND DR NYABOKE❤ WE KEEP LEARNING EVERY DAY🌹🙏🏾
But why is it that those people that we always prioritise when the situation turns upside down they always disappear, we should always think twice when we choosing our circle
That is exactly what happened after my moms burial my moms co-wives were like msijali sisi tuko we shall take care of you and we shall take care of your children the way your mom used to,i was like you people are you serious? Mi sikuwajibu😢,i hate what relative's do when one past away😢😢
My college mate, room mate.. Such a great inspiration
Lynn's Fewest Words on This Episode as She Walked with Doc Nyaboke ❤
Aye my school mate. So proud of you girl for just coming out and sharing your story..
Inner healing is very important for personal development
How l love you Lynn,,,l knew you at the time my life was at the critical moment,,,I don't know how just God made me to enter into TH-cam and you episodes starting popping in my screen,,,l can say 60% of my healing l have gotten from you,, Your episodes are my therapist everytime l watch,,, I will watch and stay here till the coming of Jesus,,,,sikuizi n kwa hoofer tu
Anyway receive our regards here from Rongo university, Migori ,,,,l have fans here who loves you too
Thank you for sharing this story....its a "But God" type of story. Sigh....😢....I feel sad that the perpetrator has walked away free. I couldn't help wondering how many other children he abused. I really feel he should be reported, called out as part of justice. Often families try to resolve sexual abuse to no avail. The perpetrator walks away free and continues to molest other children in the community. I wish you would seek justice for you and the others he molested ( I feel like you weren't his only victim).
I agree, closure could come from facing the perpetrator, .......how many other vulnerable kids have been victims and possibly still in danger. While not holding grudges, other children could also have justice
Am happy for you, God has a way of healing us.
Alll have done is tear...you are an inspiration darktari....so beautiful...you are a true Gem, God had a greater plan for you ..its so evident.....
Wow she has beautiful family u see now this is the confidence she has everything beautiful family careerr good job she doesnt care what u think or say about her
thanks for these inspiring stories. got the book on Amazon. thanks Dr for the courage to raise again the odds and sharing the life testimonies that we never say about. all the best as you grow to further heights.
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Pole sana. Healing is a process and sometimes a lifelong one. There is also reconstructive surgery for FGM these days.
Dr.Rosemary my primary school classmate…soo proud of you…I remember from way back you could write very good compositions.
Dr. Nyaboke well done!! I always wondered why you did not socialize in High School even within our class. I knew something was wrong, but I did not know about depression and mental health. You have gone through a lot and I can still see you holding back, but its your journey and I am very proud of what you have achieved all on your own.
this is my daughters principle waoh. Nyaboke? am very very proud of you.
and why dont you try the healing with the girls also. alot of them havbe issues from here to south africa
Hugs girlfriend and namesake Dr. Nyaboke. You are a brave girl. I still love you.
@Lynngugi one day I'll be in that yellow sofa, telling you what and how i went through different stages and types of abuse, sometimes watching these kind of stories triggers me that i even hide myself and cry so bad, I'm a Ugandan who grew up in ke. But currently working as a house manager in Saudi Arabia,
I wish you'll give me a chance to express myself, because really, i went through hell, hopefully I'll be given a chance and be able to do it😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
Wow!!!! This takes a lot of courage to talk about this! But it is time. I commend you for coming forward 🎉🎉🎉
Thank you for sharing your story. I applaud your courage. May God bless you and your family
And when a MAN loves right you just grow and Glow and become more preetier.
Thank you very much Lyn for bringing this Amazing woman to share her story, I can relate her story to my own childhood in more ways than one. Thank you Doctor Nyaboke so enlightening. I am going to look for your book on Amazon 🙏🏽
Who else noticed this beautiful smile from the beginning to the end?
She is wonderfully made and a strong woman. Everyone who went through this act should learn how to accept herself and learn from this wonderful woman. Thank you for sharing your story.
Just ordered the book 🇺🇸
Good morning everyone 🌅 Happy new 🎉 we are present as usual 🥰 ready to learn
I gave birth in Nyamira referral. It was the most traumatic experience. Since I belong to a different tribe the nurse beat me
Then she accused me of taking COVID there. Mind you this was 2021. She called my daughter stupid when she was born
@catherinenyawira4858 sorry for what you went through. Your daughter is definately not stupid. People can be mean but l m glad it doesnt define who you are. Wishing you all the best in your life.😊
So sad but there are tribes that are just horrible.
Washington state cut rates for men 10%, Oregon 10%, California 23% , New Mexico 16%,West Virginia 91% highest in US .
West, North Africa highest rates, followed by Central .
US rates dropping after America Medical Association in 1990 declared the procedure cosmetic for men and traumatic for women .
US government insurance no longer supports routine infant procedure in multiple states .
East and Southern Africa Variations and lowest rates in Southern Africa territories . North Africa high rates due to religious and cultural reasons .
In Kenya rates for men have gone up for medical reasons including in communities that historically had low rates .
Ghana 91.6%, Eritrea very high 97.2%, Uganda lower 26.7%,South Africa 44.7%,Zimbabwe 9.2%,Zambia 12.8% .
Like any procedure Pros and Cons up to doctors and families .
Good morning and a happy new year to team LNN.
Good morning everyone one , another day of inspiration moments
There are tribes in kenya that one must not even marry into. Their practices are backward
My beautiful college mate and coursemate in KU, Rosemary Nyaboke Ogugu, you are a big inspiration ❤
Dr. Nduati ''Former Boss, very great story. Good Job Lynn for such an Inspiring Story