Back in 2013 I had only been married for a couple of months and my husband committed suicide. His family blamed me for him doing that but I also learned that he had tried to take his life numerous times before he ever met me. While in the first days and weeks of losing my husband I learned that he was having an affair with someone as well as having inappropriate conversations and messages with other women as well. I was grieving his loss and then had to learn of his secrets on top of everything. Not to mention I was still dealing with his family blaming me. :(
That totally sucks, don't waste another day being sad or angry!! Don't care what other people think, distance yourself from those people. Now it's time to start living, you'll find happiness in your own time.
I'm so glad I found this, i have been a widow for a year and it seems that going through this grief is in our face; it seems like I have become hyper aware of everything around me and every thoughts and feelings I'm experiencing. I was also very pissed at my husband and the heavens have heard some real choice words. I thought well this is probably being added to my bad list, I'm expecting to have to answer to it when I get to the other side. Deep Grieving takes alot out of us. I'm looking forward to finding your book.
What an amazing person! She was able to heal through the veil. I was betrayed by my best friend and my husband. She passed away and we had already begun to repair our relationship. He has apologized, but I have a hard time letting it go. He married a woman who was in on the relationship and got pregnant. The only good thing that became of all of this is the child. He was not to blame for the mess.
My husband died and came back and tried to kill me. For a long time he came in dreams. He was knocking on the door and I wouldn't open it. Then I remember one dream when I put my hand on the doorknob. I guess I opened it. He was in the house and trying to get me to leave with him. An Angel stopped me. Then I called him out, when I was awake. An ANGRY crackling column of energy. I was angry myself and willing to fight. I told him I didn't love him, the truth. And he was gone. And I wanted to fight. He killed two battery watches, they never worked again. PS He was an energy vampire. PSS My birthday is Sept 16
After my mom died, I discovered that my father was not the man who raised me. I was angry at her betrayal of my dad, who absolutely adored her and never knew that he was raising another man’s twins (yep - twins).
Hi james van praagh. My cousin sadly passed over. So if you see jack sparrow with a scouse accent that is my friend. I probably told him if you pass over before me go and speak to james van praagh immedietly ( so Just incase) .
Absolutely. I’ve studied Cluster B academically, specifically NPD, and all the bells are ringing. It’s very possible he had bipolar, but the described actions have a much higher correlation with a personality disorder.
@@sumofo9742 I agree. I also think she is unaware. To me he was showing cognitive empathy, not authentic empathy. People with that personality style know how to read the room and how to ACT.
I couldn’t agree more, and perfect terminology using cognitive empathy. When describing why she thinks he had empathy, I immediately thought of communal narcissists. I think it might still be too overwhelming for a person in her position to accept that even during the “good times” he may not have been operating from a purely authentic place. I do believe in death that he has the ability to see his actions and want to help her heal, and I believe her account of events. But I think she still has a period of additional healing and understanding ahead of her, and I send her lots of love in that process.
@@sumofo9742 I totally agree. Second to the Spirit world, I have learned so much about Anti Social Personality Disorder/Cluster B. Once I learned about personality styles such as APD, everything clicked, I could not unsee it and my healing truly began from a point of knowledge, no more confusion. It enabled me to navigate relationships, systems and life better with this awareness and protect myself. It also brought understanding and closure with past toxic relationships. This knowledge helped me to understand my Soul Contracts too. I wish her success in her journey.
Hmmm… I’m having a bit of concern watching a spiritual show cheering actions of “hatching a scheme” to go after a mistress on Xmas Eve, saying it was “brilliant.” I know I don’t know this woman, and I certainly don’t condone cheating. But it seems like there’s still a lot of healing needed there. The roles we’ve been cast to play in this life are complex. I am trying not to be condescending on this matter, and I apologize for any perception of judgment. I am coming from an experience that has many similar components, but some much more serious. It’s a long, long road for forgiveness, and it sounds like she has a beautiful, natural talent for writing. But I hope for hesitation before encouraging leading of seminars, when I still hear certain unresolved terms of anger, and rationalized actions of revenge (re: The mistress). I wish her the best of luck in her continued healing, and unhindered success on her book.
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@@vanpraaghdotcom thanks much James, I appreciate the info. I'll look into it
Back in 2013 I had only been married for a couple of months and my husband committed suicide. His family blamed me for him doing that but I also learned that he had tried to take his life numerous times before he ever met me. While in the first days and weeks of losing my husband I learned that he was having an affair with someone as well as having inappropriate conversations and messages with other women as well. I was grieving his loss and then had to learn of his secrets on top of everything. Not to mention I was still dealing with his family blaming me. :(
😢 Stay strong.
@@cy318 thank you..
That totally sucks, don't waste another day being sad or angry!! Don't care what other people think, distance yourself from those people. Now it's time to start living, you'll find happiness in your own time.
Oh, Linda! 😢 I am so sorry that you had to endure all of that. I hope you told his family where to go!!!
@@michelehood8837 Thank you. I moved away and didn't look back after that. It still affects me though.. :(
Thank you the same thing happened to me. Yes, he's helping me heal from the other side.
I'm so glad I found this, i have been a widow for a year and it seems that going through this grief is in our face; it seems like I have become hyper aware of everything around me and every thoughts and feelings I'm experiencing. I was also very pissed at my husband and the heavens have heard some real choice words. I thought well this is probably being added to my bad list, I'm expecting to have to answer to it when I get to the other side. Deep Grieving takes alot out of us. I'm looking forward to finding your book.
What an amazing lady with such a beautiful story
What an amazing person! She was able to heal through the veil. I was betrayed by my best friend and my husband. She passed away and we had already begun to repair our relationship. He has apologized, but I have a hard time letting it go. He married a woman who was in on the relationship and got pregnant. The only good thing that became of all of this is the child. He was not to blame for the mess.
What a great story! I’m a Libra as well! I don’t meet many Libras so this is a double treat 🤗
More a surrendering into courage ❤❤❤
My husband died and came back and tried to kill me. For a long time he came in dreams. He was knocking on the door and I wouldn't open it. Then I remember one dream when I put my hand on the doorknob. I guess I opened it. He was in the house and trying to get me to leave with him. An Angel stopped me. Then I called him out, when I was awake. An ANGRY crackling column of energy. I was angry myself and willing to fight. I told him I didn't love him, the truth. And he was gone. And I wanted to fight. He killed two battery watches, they never worked again.
PS He was an energy vampire.
PSS My birthday is Sept 16
💛🐝🍃 Thankyou all so much.. what a lovely, lovely time spent with you all watching this 😊🐝. Beautiful energies together xx💛
Thanks for watching!
Really enjoyed this. Looking forward to seeing you both in Chicago ❤
See ya in Chicago!
Yay, so glad you will be there!! See you in a few days.
@@vanpraaghdotcom Tomorrow night!
Resonating on so many levels…Thank you for this. LOVE
You are so welcome!
After my mom died, I discovered that my father was not the man who raised me. I was angry at her betrayal of my dad, who absolutely adored her and never knew that he was raising another man’s twins (yep - twins).
Thankyou for sharing
Hi james van praagh. My cousin sadly passed over. So if you see jack sparrow with a scouse accent that is my friend. I probably told him if you pass over before me go and speak to james van praagh immedietly ( so Just incase) .
Wow. Will be ordering this book.
How did your husband die?
awesome! Thank you
Glad you liked it!
I LOVED it!
The Husband sounds like he was on the Cluster B Spectrum.
Absolutely. I’ve studied Cluster B academically, specifically NPD, and all the bells are ringing. It’s very possible he had bipolar, but the described actions have a much higher correlation with a personality disorder.
@@sumofo9742 I agree. I also think she is unaware. To me he was showing cognitive empathy, not authentic empathy. People with that personality style know how to read the room and how to ACT.
I couldn’t agree more, and perfect terminology using cognitive empathy. When describing why she thinks he had empathy, I immediately thought of communal narcissists. I think it might still be too overwhelming for a person in her position to accept that even during the “good times” he may not have been operating from a purely authentic place. I do believe in death that he has the ability to see his actions and want to help her heal, and I believe her account of events. But I think she still has a period of additional healing and understanding ahead of her, and I send her lots of love in that process.
@@sumofo9742 I totally agree. Second to the Spirit world, I have learned so much about Anti Social Personality Disorder/Cluster B. Once I learned about personality styles such as APD, everything clicked, I could not unsee it and my healing truly began from a point of knowledge, no more confusion. It enabled me to navigate relationships, systems and life better with this awareness and protect myself. It also brought understanding and closure with past toxic relationships. This knowledge helped me to understand my Soul Contracts too. I wish her success in her journey.
I'm interested into looking at all of your websites for assistance to heal
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Hmmm… I’m having a bit of concern watching a spiritual show cheering actions of “hatching a scheme” to go after a mistress on Xmas Eve, saying it was “brilliant.” I know I don’t know this woman, and I certainly don’t condone cheating. But it seems like there’s still a lot of healing needed there. The roles we’ve been cast to play in this life are complex.
I am trying not to be condescending on this matter, and I apologize for any perception of judgment. I am coming from an experience that has many similar components, but some much more serious. It’s a long, long road for forgiveness, and it sounds like she has a beautiful, natural talent for writing. But I hope for hesitation before encouraging leading of seminars, when I still hear certain unresolved terms of anger, and rationalized actions of revenge (re: The mistress). I wish her the best of luck in her continued healing, and unhindered success on her book.
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