The SIX SIGNS of a Narcissist

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  • @BaggageClaim
    @BaggageClaim  2 ปีที่แล้ว +47

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    • @yilz123
      @yilz123 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Omg your intro completely applies to Amber Heard as well

    • @graziaaroasio7138
      @graziaaroasio7138 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Non importa quante plastiche fa l'anima la rispecchiera sempre. Anima cattiva

    • @ravenharris1257
      @ravenharris1257 ปีที่แล้ว

      You are a narcissist too, Baggage Claim. You are here demonizing people…and the fact that you are vlogging is a sign that you are a narcissist.

    • @brandonscott5544
      @brandonscott5544 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      TOXIC RELATIONSHIP LOL.

    • @williamj.dovejr.8613
      @williamj.dovejr.8613 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      My narcissistic ex wife was gifted a bouquet of roses from a male coworker... complete with vase. She placed it centered on the dinner table. She couldn't stop smiling and I correctly assessed that she wanted a reaction. I was stoic on the outside but enraged on the inside. I will never forget that. Ever.

  • @lueysixty-six7300
    @lueysixty-six7300 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1306

    *Harry:* 🥰"She's capable of anything"
    *Us:* 😨"She's capable of anything!"

    • @frepzzy9571
      @frepzzy9571 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That’s truly crazy! Remember Harry said he didn’t know he was trap until he met Meghan

    • @Pawsforthought222
      @Pawsforthought222 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Clever comment!👍

    • @AT-cy7im
      @AT-cy7im 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      It's sooooo wired to see her so in love with herself, praising herself etc like she's saved the world or something, very cringe

    • @aprilmelanietorres7732
      @aprilmelanietorres7732 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Yes, capable of lying to your face. Yikes!!!

    • @jamescarr8196
      @jamescarr8196 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      BAHAHAHAH

  • @myprincessa2253
    @myprincessa2253 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3865

    I stopped listening to her, when she said..."I did not know who he was" I'm like, so you have never been to the grocery store???

    • @123_iseeyou
      @123_iseeyou 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @stefaniezhang1194
      @stefaniezhang1194 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @ssb4918
      @ssb4918 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      😂😂😁😁😁👍👍👍👏

    • @cozy46
      @cozy46 3 ปีที่แล้ว +251

      In the interview she said she was friends with Eugenie before she met him but didn't know him or anything about him? Yeah right! Which is it?

    • @sonja.5035
      @sonja.5035 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      😂👍

  • @sailorsoul1995
    @sailorsoul1995 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2026

    Sadly, I think he's got mummy issues after Diana's death and fell easily into her trap. Narcissists are that good at luring in the weak and playing on their insecurities.

    • @seriouslyjoking2
      @seriouslyjoking2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      Abandonment issues. Diana's death was an abandonment. Doria's imprisonment was abandonment for her.

    • @fwef7445
      @fwef7445 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      she'll chew him up and spit him out, it's not going to end well for Harry, with his mother's death and knowledge that his real dad is James Hewitt (worst kept secret) he's always been rebellious

    • @jodylancaster8706
      @jodylancaster8706 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@fwef7445 Do you really think that about Hewitt? If true, does Harry know?

    • @cyberliesl6004
      @cyberliesl6004 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@seriouslyjoking2 so it’s trauma bonding?

    • @8656737s
      @8656737s 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Exactly

  • @robsop9512
    @robsop9512 3 ปีที่แล้ว +606

    relationships with Narcissists are mentally, physically, and emotionally draining. truly the worst.

    • @rebeccareuter6854
      @rebeccareuter6854 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Not to mention spiritually... that poison cuts you to the core.

    • @wendylinton453
      @wendylinton453 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Noticed a lot of blinking eyes when markle speaks ..lie after lie ..also checks every now and then to make sure she is getting the right response to ALL this so called abuse she has suffered so much as a girl growing up etc etc ..load of tripe ..Megan markle will tell One lie to many ...then !!.

    • @valeriewalker9438
      @valeriewalker9438 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      She is also a control freak. I am married to one

  • @fiodarsazanavets3458
    @fiodarsazanavets3458 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2369

    As someone who has been in a long-term relationship with a narcissist, it wasn't hard for me to figure out that Meghan Markle is one too. I feel genuinely sorry for Prince Harry. He is trapped.

    • @jhalley95
      @jhalley95 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      mmm me too i can see clearly now but for 2o years plus couldnt work out why i couldnt related to my ex partner of my son, he has all her traits and cleared off to the usa leaving immense baggage and a child behind! him and MM are so alike!

    • @cyberliesl6004
      @cyberliesl6004 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      So is she!! Narcissism is a serious disorder.

    • @adriansullivan5201
      @adriansullivan5201 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      First, you don't know either of them. Thus, you have zero insight into their relationship so don't project your shit onto a complete strangers.
      Second, typical misogynist puts the entirety of the blame on the Duchess, while crying for the Duke of Sussex, who was raised a royal and far better understood the situation.
      Harry was always going to leave the Firm.
      The British people's overt racism simply hastened his decision.
      It could be said Harry cashed in on his royal title to a far greater extent than Meghan ever could.
      Meghan educated herself, worked in the industry. She then began her work with charities and built her reputation in that forum.
      Harry walked in with a royal title given to him at birth.

    • @gillesmelet1044
      @gillesmelet1044 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @Fiodar Sazanavets : totally agree with you, I had also long experience with narcissist girlfriend, we are become capable to spot them very quickly

    • @FlyingcupNsourcer
      @FlyingcupNsourcer 3 ปีที่แล้ว +67

      @@adriansullivan5201 nothing of what you have said here rings true.

  • @lauraontiveros3432
    @lauraontiveros3432 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2309

    When your grandfather is in the hospital and all you can talk about money and titles. Then use racism as an excuse, that tells you something about character.

    • @agnessammut4939
      @agnessammut4939 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      Spot on

    • @gj1695
      @gj1695 3 ปีที่แล้ว +111

      It's baffling that they didn't even mention or express concern about Prince Philip's health.

    • @korihagerud4624
      @korihagerud4624 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      @@gj1695 yes and now it’s sadly too late .

    • @cheberur
      @cheberur 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Please do research on the said "Grandfather" before you throw shade on Meghan.

    • @syazlinannes9301
      @syazlinannes9301 3 ปีที่แล้ว +84

      Yeah no one actually know she’s black until she mentioned it 🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @cam1259
    @cam1259 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1734

    I feel like Kate and William saw this in her.

    • @literallybiras
      @literallybiras 3 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      Its a nest of snakes, if they saw anything in her its because they too are knowledgeable and can spot the same behavior...

    • @bekindandpolite2158
      @bekindandpolite2158 3 ปีที่แล้ว +136

      @Patrick Flomo lol the whole world knows now who is fake your crying baby Meghan or the classy Kate

    • @ChattieCathie
      @ChattieCathie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @Patrick Flomo she has to be fake. Its in the Royals.

    • @abbypengelly1432
      @abbypengelly1432 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @Patrick Flomo she really isn't

    • @abbypengelly1432
      @abbypengelly1432 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @Patrick Flomo how so?

  • @gabrielamartiniuc6322
    @gabrielamartiniuc6322 3 ปีที่แล้ว +390

    “All the starts were aligned .”
    Harry, Harry.... there’s no such thing. You’re being love bombed!

    • @trawlins396
      @trawlins396 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactly. When I heard that I literally felt sick. How is he THAT gullible??? She plotted for YEARS on how to get next to him. There's proof! She befriended Harry's bff's wife on purpose!

    • @31072gab
      @31072gab 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Ik. Who says that in the first place lol I bet she told him to say that.

    • @boop79
      @boop79 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Right!!

    • @Susan-lf2hl
      @Susan-lf2hl 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Stars

  • @peilin6212
    @peilin6212 3 ปีที่แล้ว +860

    It's funny how the only person who attended her wedding was her mother..what about her black relatives? How come none of them were invited to her wedding. I think she's the biggest liar and hypocrite when it comes to issues regarding racism.

    • @megatron6382
      @megatron6382 3 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      Anyone who has wisdom know it very well that if you keep talking about any problem,you are not solving it but making it more bigger and bigger.. Racism will die only if we stop talking about it..a kid don't care about skin colour,give them enough time to play with each other and forget about racism..they will never be..

    • @joycemarie9702
      @joycemarie9702 3 ปีที่แล้ว +86

      What about her white relatives? Aunts, uncles, cousins….brothers , sisters. She didn’t invite any childhood friends! Everyone has someone to invite……her mother looked so out of place , all alone at the wedding, christening….. she looked so uncomfortable!

    • @orangewedges
      @orangewedges 3 ปีที่แล้ว +99

      Also nice of Meghan to completely exclude her own black mother when it came to naming her daughter. She instead went with the white grandma and white great-grandma of the very family she accused of being racist towards her.

    • @jp3032
      @jp3032 3 ปีที่แล้ว +65

      @@orangewedges she said she doesn't like the royal family's treatment of her but proceeded to name her daughter after the Queen and the late princess Diana. Hypocrite

    • @Chocokaylarobin
      @Chocokaylarobin 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      That's what I think too. I think its because she was always called beautiful and perfect she felt entitled.

  • @irynad798
    @irynad798 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3094

    How come she holds a degree in international relations and she didn’t know about the royal family

    • @AJ-xm4xc
      @AJ-xm4xc 3 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      So I see you’re not a fan of the interview.

    • @misss.7863
      @misss.7863 3 ปีที่แล้ว +188

      That's a very good point.

    • @misss.7863
      @misss.7863 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @Tonia Neese Who? The OP or Markle? If it's the OP, he/she posted a truthful fact.

    • @ninjacat4929
      @ninjacat4929 3 ปีที่แล้ว +82

      Surely she must know that people must recognize that some of the things are lies, if she doesn’t she doesn’t think much of our intelligence !

    • @VitasDream
      @VitasDream 3 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      I want to believe her but I think she’s lying about not knowing.

  • @suzanneschmidt3755
    @suzanneschmidt3755 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4217

    Typical abuser- isolating their partner from friends and family.

    • @coranford7463
      @coranford7463 3 ปีที่แล้ว +184

      That's how it's starts, it is very controlling and abusive behaviour.

    • @PassionataDance
      @PassionataDance 3 ปีที่แล้ว +94

      Rescue harry

    • @cmr_77
      @cmr_77 3 ปีที่แล้ว +85

      True, and it’s sad how other people don’t realize this.

    • @maconins123
      @maconins123 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@PassionataDance why would you? This is not a very serious question because I don’t really care (just bored writing this), however they have kids which they seem to love dearly- that’s reason enough to hope that they stay together.

    • @elizabethdevries8028
      @elizabethdevries8028 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      exactly

  • @SuzyQ89
    @SuzyQ89 3 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    I called her out as an attention seeking narcissist the minute I heard they got engaged. Even though I have seen, read and watched many horror stories of her despicable behavior and outright lies, I kinda thought to myself, well Harry gets everything he deserves. However, after watching this video, I truly feel sorry for him. He may or may not know how much she has actually damaged every single relationship he had. Sadly, there is no going back for Harry. Yes, they may forgive him, but they will never again trust him. Sad any way you look at it. It's a pity he didn't listen to his older brother and best friend because now he truly is trapped.

  • @meeraraj0
    @meeraraj0 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1630

    When she had tears in her eyes said " thank you for asking not many people have asked if I'm ok".... that got me.!
    Been through it and recognise it. They BELIEVE in their victimhood. It's called covert narcissism..normal people do not respond like that

    • @jhalley95
      @jhalley95 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      harry is good friends with the interviewer/journalist tom, so they would have known what the questions were, wheras its made to come across as off the cuff poor meghan no one asks how she is

    • @arajo5773
      @arajo5773 3 ปีที่แล้ว +91

      The acting is so cringey though.

    • @ca3in738
      @ca3in738 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      That’s the worst bit of acting from her so far... but so many of those to choose from. So much fakery

    • @hamilton7798
      @hamilton7798 3 ปีที่แล้ว +85

      You are so right! I dated a narcissist and I would literally ask them all the time “are you okay”, “are you feeling alright”, and then someone would come along and ask him “how are doing”, he would literally fall all over himself saying he’s so overwhelmed and nobody cares and nobody asks that!
      What a fucking twat.

    • @princessbeaniewiggle
      @princessbeaniewiggle 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@arajo5773 I wonder if she used a tear stick.

  • @Dominari66
    @Dominari66 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1546

    Took me dating 3 narcissistic women to finally wake up and learn. Went into a relationship thinking about loving someone, but ended up with a psychological degree.

    • @BaggageClaim
      @BaggageClaim  3 ปีที่แล้ว +137

      Well done!! You learned and that’s what’s most important

    • @catherinemartell2873
      @catherinemartell2873 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      As you should. 👏👏👏

    • @cyberliesl6004
      @cyberliesl6004 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Sounds serious 😅

    • @cozy46
      @cozy46 3 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      I think everyone who experiences one ends up specializing in psychology! Lol
      I do! 😁

    • @sonja.5035
      @sonja.5035 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Benjamin it's all about boundaries. If you struggle with them the narcissist will easily take advantage so to be able to avoid them we have to have strong, healthy boundaries. Only then we will never do things for others that are harmful to ourselves.

  • @davidpar2
    @davidpar2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +739

    Any time someone talks about “being authentic” or “authenticity,” turn and walk the other way

    • @jessie.nadeau
      @jessie.nadeau 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      so true

    • @missunique7797
      @missunique7797 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Exactly, my friends always talk about how unique they are whenever we have a conversation. They never even let me talk so I'm always the one hearing more and talking less. Thank God I walked away from them.

    • @hellgirl1512
      @hellgirl1512 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Yup. I had a friend who ALWAYS talk about kindness and karma and Buddhist teachings, and how kind she is for doing bla bla things for this or that person. And yet, 80% of the things she talked about was pure negative gossip about others. Everyone in the group called her a 2 faced snake because she was.

    • @trawlins396
      @trawlins396 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@missunique7797 if someone has to say they're unique, they're not unique. You never have to prove what you naturally are.

    • @missunique7797
      @missunique7797 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@trawlins396 exactly

  • @jeannemara1600
    @jeannemara1600 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Narcissists don't know what love is. They know the external signs of love and use them, but they don't want love, they want power. They take emotions hostage. God help you if the emotions are yours. I have a family member who may actually be worse than M in some ways. Hard to believe, I know. We say she has no friends, only hostages. They often don't realize they are hostages. But the minute you, as a "hostage," cross them, you are toast.
    It took me until my early forties to break free. It was so wonderful. But I also had a "friend" and it took me ten more years to realize she was much the same as my sister. I have another sibling who is a "lesser" narcissist," who won't talk to me as I didn't "obey" all that sibling's directions. This was when I was in my mid-fifties.
    So, I feel I can see a narcissist from a mile away. And, I guarantee you, M is a pro.

  • @rachie
    @rachie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3335

    "I personally have dated 3 narcissists"
    GIRL im so sorry to hear that ;; I hope you're doing better

    • @BaggageClaim
      @BaggageClaim  3 ปีที่แล้ว +397

      Much better now has to learn the hard way. Thank you!

    • @sylvialaney4138
      @sylvialaney4138 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      ha ha

    • @yevgeniyaleshchenko849
      @yevgeniyaleshchenko849 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      @@sylvialaney4138 What's so funny about that?

    • @sylvialaney4138
      @sylvialaney4138 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@yevgeniyaleshchenko849 I cant remember, must have been something on the video.

    • @My2CentsYall
      @My2CentsYall 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      WHAT EVER when it comes to black people its always UPPIDY when dealing with white people. You cant have your own mind. One thing about Meg is that she is self made she has gotten where she is in life with little to no help. Look at megs family do you see any help coming from them aside from her mother. When you have had to struggle on your own for so long when people offer to carry some of the load or provide assistance it stands a chance of getting rebuffed...that is what happen with her and kate. As for kate she should have given Meg some space when it came to her wedding just being their would have been enough BUT you have to understand kate and how people like her think. Kate has her image of what things should be like she has her own way. I doubt kate has had a black friend her entire life to know not to treat people like help me cases. I have no doubt kate saw Meg as a help me case. Look at Megs life where she has had to struggle. Look at her piece of crap family aside from her mother. Look at people as they are and you will see it.

  • @alandoyle8880
    @alandoyle8880 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1857

    We want our own privacy !!!
    Let’s do a 2 hour documentary telling the world all our private personal issues with our estranged family...
    couple of weirdos

    • @tonyshortland8812
      @tonyshortland8812 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      But, not her family!

    • @jacquelineess1141
      @jacquelineess1141 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Fame ₩h○ring

    • @lanakorvin2445
      @lanakorvin2445 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      i bloody agree, they wasted the electricity, and Oprah is a joke !

    • @SolutionsWithin
      @SolutionsWithin 3 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      and let's move to LA!! That's where I'd go if I wanted a quiet peaceful life. smfh

    • @itsjustme7487
      @itsjustme7487 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@SolutionsWithin LOL. good one 👍

  • @trishyangel123
    @trishyangel123 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3419

    Meghan: *says she wants privacy*
    Also Meghan: *marries an English prince, moves to LA, signs deals with Disney and Netflix AND proceeds to do an interview with Oprah*
    Edit: Y’all (in the comment section) are crazy and need to calm down. I was simply expressing my own thoughts, and how it looks in my eyes. I think that when they moved to Canada, that was a good move. At least if they decided to move to LA, they could’ve done it quietly. But instead, they (possibly) got tabloids involved and moved in the beginning of a pandemic with their child. But, you know, it’s totally their choice from now on, and their privacy that they “want” is now gone in the wind with *_that_* interview.

    • @imiguifurr
      @imiguifurr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +237

      The more I know about her the more I feel bad for prince harry...

    • @itsjustme7487
      @itsjustme7487 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      😂😂😂😂

    • @ClaireM2345
      @ClaireM2345 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Meghan: says she wants privacy
      The Press: Can’t Stop writing articles on her
      The Haters: talks about her 24/7 on all socials 🤦🏽‍♀️
      the obsession you lot have with her is Creepy AF!!!

    • @imiguifurr
      @imiguifurr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +186

      @@ClaireM2345 "the press: can't stop writing articles about her"
      BECAUSE SHE WANTS TO
      She hired a pr team in charge of making her appear in the news AT LEAST 3 times a week...
      If you're gonna worship a narcissist, at least make sure you know who she is and what she does...

    • @imiguifurr
      @imiguifurr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +120

      @@ClaireM2345 she loves the attention and as any other malignant narcissist she's playing the victim card and putting on the woe is me act 24/7 to make people love her

  • @LVMT124
    @LVMT124 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    This One’s wife is finally perfect - she ticked every single box of the traits of a narcissist!!! 🎉

  • @tigers10vb
    @tigers10vb 3 ปีที่แล้ว +425

    ‘It’s about being authentic.’ Narcissist often say the characteristics they want to be associated with rather than genuinely embodying it.

    • @irinam8709
      @irinam8709 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Yes, like 'respect'

    • @britanynmartin6076
      @britanynmartin6076 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      And they despise and target those that have those qualities they only wish they could have

    • @Whisperkissper
      @Whisperkissper 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      And they gravitate towards empathetic people so they can learn to copy them.

    • @bodylotionv7135
      @bodylotionv7135 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      🎯

    • @fanni24
      @fanni24 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Same with her 40x40 project. Firstly, she's such a humanitarian because she makes a God knows how long introduction video to a new vanity project to herself on her birthday so she can be praised even more. Than she keeps on talking about the importance of charity when in fact all she does is give away a fragment of other people's donations to her foundation and pocket the rest of the money. And let's not even get into the fact that she preeches about compassion every time she opens her mouth but she's alienated everyone around herself and doesn't have any relationships with her family and friends. But do we actually see her practice any of the personality traits that she loves to talk about for hours?

  • @sallyrobertson7987
    @sallyrobertson7987 3 ปีที่แล้ว +673

    When he said “ she’s capable of anything !” He had no idea of the depth of meaning ...

    • @BaggageClaim
      @BaggageClaim  3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Exactly!

    • @Valentina-Steinway
      @Valentina-Steinway 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      So true...!!!!!!

    • @ginasellers3207
      @ginasellers3207 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I bet he's starting to get the picture now. A little late in the game though.

  • @verabolton
    @verabolton 3 ปีที่แล้ว +376

    Did Harry say: "she is capable of anything" ? ! 3:30
    Wow, Harry doesn't even know how right he was.

    • @seriouslyjoking2
      @seriouslyjoking2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      He says that his father & brother are trapped, but Haz is trapped in that relationship with MeAgain.

  • @Jimmyjames738
    @Jimmyjames738 3 ปีที่แล้ว +147

    I’m still struggling with the fallout of being with a narcissist. Thanks for helping me feel like I’m not crazy.

  • @GabbyTarrant
    @GabbyTarrant 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1154

    Just looking into her eyes you can see insincerity

    • @yevgeniyaleshchenko849
      @yevgeniyaleshchenko849 3 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      Or her phoney smile

    • @Oakleaf700
      @Oakleaf700 3 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      Rat eyes. Deep set and greedy.

    • @jenny6253
      @jenny6253 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Yes I agree. I like to do this thing where I watch someone talk on !!line with the sound off - its a dead giveaway!! The more I see of her the more I dislike her!

    • @fionawen6640
      @fionawen6640 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@jenny6253 yea omg i agree! like compared to Catherine Middleton who has such a lovely heart and smile, she looks so controlling,

    • @Cat-tastrophee
      @Cat-tastrophee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I had a friend with the same overly bright eyes and toothy smile and the similarities in their mannerisms is uncanny. Oh, and she dumped me as a friend once I outgrew my usefulness and also was also noticing that she was abusing her new husband. She didn't like that.

  • @karenschuster4827
    @karenschuster4827 3 ปีที่แล้ว +451

    Boy, she does seem to love the sound of her own voice, doesn't she?

    • @saywhatyouwant888
      @saywhatyouwant888 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Yes ,and she even loves listening her own lies

    • @lindatruax8319
      @lindatruax8319 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      NON FREAKING STOP!

    • @Ballin4Vengeance
      @Ballin4Vengeance 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I have the vocabulary of a rubbishbin, pronounciation of a mumble rapper on ketamyne and voice of a rubber squeaky duck… can’t relate

    • @fanni24
      @fanni24 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      And she absolutely loves talking down at people with all those unnecessary hand gestures as if she was talking to 5-year-olds who need further explanation than simple words.

    • @elsie6612
      @elsie6612 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I actually forgot how Harry sounds....

  • @levisarahbarger5771
    @levisarahbarger5771 3 ปีที่แล้ว +473

    I never dated a narcissist but I was friends with one once. It was such a toxic friendship and one of the darkest times of my life. I was always down on myself and felt so inferior constantly. It was just horrible.

    • @danielcharles7413
      @danielcharles7413 ปีที่แล้ว

      Well fxxk me! You must be the only one making comment on this that isnt an expert on Narcs' and hasnt been married to 15 of them or whos mum or dad was/is... urrr the term flatters people- most are naturally self centered and nob heads- and there goes todays folks!🤔🤑😪

    • @DS3Enjoyer
      @DS3Enjoyer ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I totally feel you. I was friends and roommates with one, worst time of my life.

    • @boop79
      @boop79 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same here. Truly a dark period in my life

    • @samcad-ho3ze
      @samcad-ho3ze 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Been there too. She thrived on ten misery of others. Not been happier since I cut her out of my life.

    • @user-jy3zl2vp4b
      @user-jy3zl2vp4b 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I had a narc friend in my life....but for some reason I was never a victim to them. Not an especially good friend mind you.....but she didn't make my life miserable. But then again, I am very independent and didn't need someone to lean on that much. But man! She is a manipulater....especially to men when she wants something.

  • @meghanmary4566
    @meghanmary4566 3 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    I had a habit of dating narcissists in my teens and early twenties but didn't realize it until I was 26 and discovered my grandmother was a hardcore narcissist. I was the scapegoat and craved her attention, so I attracted men who were just like her without realizing it. I see so much of what I wen through in Harry and Meghan and hope he and the kids can get out before it's too late.

  • @kathymarik1932
    @kathymarik1932 3 ปีที่แล้ว +496

    Why does Harry have to walk behind her. He is the prince

    • @Cadie_457
      @Cadie_457 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      He is just a gentleman!

    • @Penny-bt4gc
      @Penny-bt4gc 3 ปีที่แล้ว +91

      @@Cadie_457 protocol is the higher royal walks ahead. He is the Prince she is the commoner. Prince Philip always walked 3 paces behind the Queen as does Camilla with Charles and Catherine with William.

    • @fanni24
      @fanni24 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      She even cut in his way on a state visit where they met a reigning monarch. She inmediately stepped forward and greeted the monarch as if she was the most important delegate of the UK. Harry, the born prince was lurking behind her back, not being man enough to stand up for himself and put her in her place.

    • @fanni24
      @fanni24 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      ​@@Cadie_457 He can be a gentleman in his private life. When they're on royal duty, they're not husband and wife, they're public servants, colleagues if you wish who represent the British Monarchy. That's why it was disrespectful that Meghan kept clinging to Harry's hand when they were practically working. No one cares about Meghan's feelings about being treated like a lady then because she's doing her job and the same applies to Harry. He's not a husband in public engagements, he's a representative of the Queen and he should behave accordingly.

    • @feralpossum6529
      @feralpossum6529 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Because she is disrespectful of protocol and doesn’t respect the “office” of royalty. She has an over inflated sense of self importance and doesn’t want to understand that her role was to support the principal (Harry) and not be the principal when attending events together

  • @kylier.563
    @kylier.563 3 ปีที่แล้ว +401

    Meghan and Harry’s relationship reminds me of my brother and his wife. She completely cut us off from even talking to him. Haven’t seen him in years. This list was spot on.

    • @anujav3018
      @anujav3018 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Wow same

    • @jhalley95
      @jhalley95 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      my sons father left when he was 1! his traits are so similar as went off to usa to literally re-invent himself and still lives there, was surprised but the traits too are spot on

    • @missd3605
      @missd3605 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Same here!!!

    • @saywhatyouwant888
      @saywhatyouwant888 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      The woman who married my brother can't be more evil than any woman. Tore him of the family completely. Never seen him for years never seen his children. Till my feeling for him just died seeing my parents hurt. He doesn't exist in my life and vice versa.but l believe in Karma pay back on his evil devil wife of his

    • @missd3605
      @missd3605 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@saywhatyouwant888 i can pretty much relate to you.... it's very painful but you've done the right thing x

  • @lollydyer46
    @lollydyer46 3 ปีที่แล้ว +460

    Harry looks miserable all the time he is with her! That’s a sign if any

    • @tb8363
      @tb8363 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      He really looks a lot better than he did before he met her. Im sure if a Prince was miserable with his wife he'd trade her in. All you people in these comments look and sound the same...haters and bullies. Jealousy really does bring out the very worst in people.

    • @re3171
      @re3171 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@tb8363 of course u feminazis deny the signs lmao u guys never cared about men and never will. She’s a narcissist period.

    • @tb8363
      @tb8363 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Anonymous Probably because members of the general public are going out of their way to bully his wife during her pregnancy and after the birth of his children. Funny how a persons well being and mental health, especially when pregnant or having just given birth, are only a consideration for the few and not for the rest of us.

    • @tb8363
      @tb8363 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ​@@joannenugent8495 And you know this because what? You lived in the Palace with them? and was there to witness the Royals warm welcome? How on earth can your opinion be more believable than someone's own lived experience!? If someone says they were abused, be it physically or mentally, believe them. Thats basic human empathy, something most people on this post dont seem to have.

    • @courtneymeyers82
      @courtneymeyers82 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      She hasn't been in a relationship with a Narc. They LOVE to play the victim
      That's what's disingenuous about her interview. She plays the victim card relentlessly
      Victims don't go on and on about their abuse. Victims try to hide their abuse. Any sort of criticism, and it's they're a bunch of bullies
      One could say Harry's mother did this at the end of her marriage, but Diana did a lot of self reflection and she was open to trying to understanding the mistakes she may have made - which is normal and healthy
      MM hasn't taken any responsibility or taken the time to look within. She immediately cries racism at any critique. Really, I don't even think of her as black, she doesn't come across that way

  • @missminti
    @missminti 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    Narcissist's have empty, soulless gazes. They often make too much or too little eye contact. You will always find them in groups of people, holding court. You will see a huge discrepancy between their at home persona and their social mask. Nothing will seem congruent. Confusion will take over your life. Finally, you will start hating yourself and your esteem will plummet and you wont be able to pinpoint why.

  • @jaspermatty
    @jaspermatty 3 ปีที่แล้ว +878

    I hadn’t seen her “humanity” pictures until after the wedding , but oh my gosh- she literally hired a photographer and went to Africa and dressed up like Diana in the white button down blouse with the aviator glasses hanging off her shirt with her hands on her hips! That pose was NO accident! If Harry saw that picture of her and no alarm bells went off in his head, then he deserves everything he gets!

    • @karenschuster4827
      @karenschuster4827 3 ปีที่แล้ว +91

      If you want privacy you don't look directly into the camera and grin from ear to ear. And if we had a dollar for every time messes with her hair we'd be as rich as her!

    • @beeharbour
      @beeharbour 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      He loves his wife and while the situation has been handled poorly on all sides he knows his first duty now is to her and their children. It almost makes me think the lady might have a few good qualities that would make him fall in love with her but I believe the millions of folks who have never been on the same continent as her must know her better than him. Thus far, murder and illegal weapons sales to Mexican drug lords are the only things she has not been accused of just yet.

    • @VV-er3zg
      @VV-er3zg 3 ปีที่แล้ว +66

      It’s like when her Wikipedia said “occupation: actress and blogger” and when the news of her and Harry dating got out she added “humanitarian” 😭

    • @britanynmartin6076
      @britanynmartin6076 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      I agree with most but I don’t agree he deserves this- narcs are so good at what they do

    • @elinkadolezalu7331
      @elinkadolezalu7331 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      It just shows you how much she uses his trauma against him. He's such idealist he would most probably even feel proud of her for honoring his mother's memory. He wouldn't even recognize that it's completely self serving.

  • @feLdct
    @feLdct 3 ปีที่แล้ว +903

    I noticed that everything she’s doing something ‘normal’ giving a hug/ walking the dogs...she tends to look directly into the camera and smile, instead of ignoring it and not reinforcing the attention or act of paparazzi

    • @JL_hahaha0303
      @JL_hahaha0303 3 ปีที่แล้ว +67

      She does, always have that camera face on

    • @feLdct
      @feLdct 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@JL_hahaha0303 yes 👏

    • @feLdct
      @feLdct 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      & I meant everytime* not everything :)

    • @abgaelsns178
      @abgaelsns178 3 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      she also said before that she wants to have a private life.. if that’s so why dont she marry with an ordinary guy instead of RF member in the first place tho

    • @niaselah3348
      @niaselah3348 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      I have no idea if she is a narcissist or not and personally I believe it is incredibly difficult to do about anyone. Who is the observer to say what someone else' s is? That is also narcissistic. I believe it is more productive and humble to talk about narcissistic behaviors but it is important to realize how we are viewing them. Looking for attention and the camara is something Lady D did too and we are not calling her narcissistic. She also didn't conforme to a secondary roll. Women are always critized as bad when they know what they want and go for it. I found odd the way her father speaks of her. Even if she were a monster a loving father wouldn't view her like one. The way he speaks of her tells me more about him than her. Again I don't know her. We only see a image , an idea and we form opinions but they are just opinions we don't know

  • @Jonsmama1
    @Jonsmama1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +289

    She was doing public appearances non-stop the whole time after they got married. She definitely had a voice and wasn't silenced. She spread her belief system everywhere she went. She wasn't locked up in her house unable to see friends travel, (there. are lots of photos and videos to prove that), and suicidal. Plus if she really needed help she could've paid for it herself rather than do nothing.

    • @seriouslyjoking2
      @seriouslyjoking2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Pathological liar.

    • @fayarmitage6877
      @fayarmitage6877 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Yes and turned up at most of them a mess she would not follow protocol she became embarrassing to rf and the UK

    • @annehudson3210
      @annehudson3210 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      When Diana felt lonely she went to talk to the kichen staff and others that were around I believe and enjoyed doing that but could you iagine Megan doing that. NO WAY.

    • @misswinnie4.8
      @misswinnie4.8 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Her mom is supposedly a social worker & even in the UK pregnant women have regular meetings with a general practitioner who regularly helps with mood & psychosocial support. If she carried the baby, she had a a geriatric pregnancy which means "high risk" so she would have been closely monitored even after rejecting the royal physicians.

  • @esther-corinna
    @esther-corinna 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    One big thing I missed in this video is that narcissists are incredibly insecure at their core. That's why they're obsessed with their public imagine, why they manipulate, why they can't take any criticism whatsoever, need the attention and validation etcetera. If they ever do seem to respond positively to criticism, it's to show how humble and good they are. Despite the extreme insecurity, they do think they are special and more deserving than others.
    I have a sibling who is a narcissist, and it took a very long time for me and my parents to realise this. We didn't know that narcissists can also be shy, introverted people who play vulnerable victims. When I learned that insecurity is the core of narcissism, it really helped me understand a lot of things. They do think they are better than others, but they don't love themselves or think they are perfect people. They just think everyone else is much worse and that no one is special enough to understand them.

    • @0FFICERPROBLEM
      @0FFICERPROBLEM 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Hope your sibling could be brought to self awareness and subsequent healing process...

  • @ibanez856
    @ibanez856 3 ปีที่แล้ว +192

    As another light skin mixed girl in the UK, I wanted to like her, I really did,. I saw one of her first interviews and got a weird vibe from her but dismissed it and carried on defending her. I avoided watching the Oprah interview because I had a feeling I would dislike it (due to the fact they decided on having a 90 minute interview about themselves). Someone sent me the interview and I watched it and I just can't even try to like her anymore. The way she sensationalises everything in her expressions and her speaking really reveals her insincerity. It's like she's putting on a show every time she talks

    • @jillianc7485
      @jillianc7485 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      she is literally *exactly* like amber heard and i cannot believe people don’t call her out on it !!!!

    • @jaydeedaley8158
      @jaydeedaley8158 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I felt the same way. Initially, I wanted to like her and dismissed comments about her being a narcissist. Now I find her very irritating. She loves all the royal attention, using royalty to become Miss Popular.

    • @mengtantan5816
      @mengtantan5816 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      She act 24/7

    • @Bikemom277
      @Bikemom277 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I was so thrilled when watching her wedding and the welcome from British folks until they broke off relationship with his family and I knew she is such a manipulator!

    • @Rabswood296
      @Rabswood296 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm in UK also. I don't really follow the Royals. I think the British people did accept Megan, shes a beautiful woman, Harry seemed happy, he'd made his choice. As a white person the fact that she was mixed race didn't come into it for me i think the media made a big thing out of it. I think people fall in love with the right person for them, i doubt there was an unwritten rule in the Royal Family to keep it white. Until the recent BLM movement which was put in place to turn us against each other i think in general our society was rubbing along fine. The press making out the British didn't like her because she was mixed race was untrue, Harry probably got more abuse being a ginger! I really hoped their kids would look like her and not be pale and ginger! I bought Harry's book to listen to their side of the story and watched the series they had on TV. He does appear to be henpecked and Megan does come across as wanting to be the centre of attention so i believe she does have narcissistic tendencies.

  • @jKDC1987
    @jKDC1987 3 ปีที่แล้ว +732

    The pain narcissist cause is unreal. After you’ve been abused by one you can spot them from a mile off. She’s one for sure.

    • @BaggageClaim
      @BaggageClaim  3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      You're right! It takes going through it to learn how to spot them some times. The worst!!

    • @bribengal1968
      @bribengal1968 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@BaggageClaim It is sad and nearly 100% true you can't understand unless you have been with one.

    • @boohoo4416
      @boohoo4416 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Very true. What's really frustrating is trying to get that across to others. If there's a narc in your group of friends or family & you're trying to warn others you yourself at times can come across as the loony one because they're not open to the signs.

    • @andromedastar4900
      @andromedastar4900 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      I knew one once. He did all the things Meghan does. The whole "loving stare", lavishing attention, making you feel like you're the most special person in the world, like you are the center of their world. But of course, that's just the courting phase, the tactics they use to ensnare you in their trap. Once they have you, they start showing their true colors, as they know they now have what they wanted so there's no need to cajole anymore. This is the part that Harry is in now and he needs to get out fast, because it only gets worse.

    • @brendakauffman2222
      @brendakauffman2222 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@BaggageClaim Yep, and clearly Harry is Trauma bonded to her, and the way she made him feel in the beginning stages.

  • @dingopisscreek
    @dingopisscreek 3 ปีที่แล้ว +510

    She wants privacy, but that is the last thing she wants. Without the oxygen of publicity her life would be meaningless.

  • @paulcastle1718
    @paulcastle1718 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    He does now know that he is under her control , the sadness is probably that he's trapped and hasn't a clue how to free himself .

    • @lilg2300
      @lilg2300 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      by now he surely must have realized that something in their relationship is not right, but having two small kids and having left everything behind for her, it will be most difficult to get out anytime soon.

  • @RettyBoop
    @RettyBoop 3 ปีที่แล้ว +325

    It sucks when you don’t know what you’re dealing with until after marriage and children.

    • @melacord7279
      @melacord7279 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      💔💔💔exactly so!

    • @RettyBoop
      @RettyBoop 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@melacord7279 I’m sorry if that happened to you, too. I still don’t have answers or much of a direction legally.

    • @eujrvision2296
      @eujrvision2296 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      it is still not too late for Harry, but he needs to act quickly and decisively now

    • @cheriem432
      @cheriem432 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Uh, "children"?

  • @guardian7keys
    @guardian7keys 3 ปีที่แล้ว +219

    rick sanchez said it best when "You act like prey but you're a predator. You use pity to lure in your victims. It's how you survive. ...you survive because people think, "Oh this poor piece of shit! He never gets a break. I can't stand the deafening wails of his wilted soul. I guess I'll hire him, or marry him!" "

  • @coranford7463
    @coranford7463 3 ปีที่แล้ว +752

    I might be wrong but I think Meghan will break Harry's heart.

    • @alandoyle8880
      @alandoyle8880 3 ปีที่แล้ว +76

      Yep and now he’s f****d his family off now so he’s screwed

    • @superflyingkick123
      @superflyingkick123 3 ปีที่แล้ว +87

      Not only his heart, but she literally stripped him off from his family and friends. He will be lost for sure

    • @keithchegwin1222
      @keithchegwin1222 3 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      He's love struck, he would do anything for her. She will divorce him once she's got the billions of dollars and high level of fame she wants.

    • @ashleighrose8115
      @ashleighrose8115 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      Same... I also think she manipulated and used him! And I honestly can't wait for her to dump him simply for the fact that I can't WAIT for harry to one day reveal the truth!

    • @ashleighrose8115
      @ashleighrose8115 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@keithchegwin1222 amen!!!

  • @pettybee3860
    @pettybee3860 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    One thing that narcissists tend to do in relationships is that they redirect the blame on you and make you feel like you're the narcissist instead. I had to go to therapy to figure out how to heal from that

  • @azafatamarion5821
    @azafatamarion5821 3 ปีที่แล้ว +290

    Looks like Harry is being pushed into the background by her and is being used as an accessory and steppingstone.

    • @literallybiras
      @literallybiras 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Shes far more interesting to watch than him...

    • @acb5245
      @acb5245 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Prince Harry needs an intervention. CIA should give MeMe on offer she cant refuse.

  • @lisarochwarg4707
    @lisarochwarg4707 4 ปีที่แล้ว +355

    Everything seems to be going to plan, so far. But narcissists tend to screw up in the long run, and she will.

    • @BaggageClaim
      @BaggageClaim  4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      You’re right!

    • @mirandam5746
      @mirandam5746 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      She’s doing way too much. It will backfire!

    • @lisarochwarg4707
      @lisarochwarg4707 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      @@mirandam5746 Actually, he's the one running around, trying to get her deals, trying to help her restart her career in Hollywood, sitting beside her like a whipped poodle during idiot interviews, and just generally acting like her butler.
      I think an awful lot of people have sussed out that something is wrong with her.
      I don't see her becoming achieving the career she wants. At that point, she may dump Harry, because he has become useless to her. Narcissists don't keep useless people around.

    • @riciunderwood4835
      @riciunderwood4835 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Yes, the web of lies will eventually break, as they always do. I will laugh my bollocks off when it does.

    • @lurenjia3058
      @lurenjia3058 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      There are plenty of narcissists in Hollywoods, they mutually benefit each other. That is all.

  • @sylvialaney4138
    @sylvialaney4138 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1196

    Tripped and fell into his life, she planned it like well mapped out army maneuver

    • @seanahughes2142
      @seanahughes2142 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      AM

    • @kelleeking5340
      @kelleeking5340 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      More like fell on to his little harry omg but you are so right.

    • @DarkroomMedia007
      @DarkroomMedia007 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Planning to make an encounter with someone to get their attention is not a bad thing really. I did this to get my husband's attention because I was so infatuated with him and he reciprocated and came after Me Harder. This is what you're supposed to do in a non manipulative way and it works. 😉

    • @sylvialaney4138
      @sylvialaney4138 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@DarkroomMedia007 Yes but she did it for all the wrong reasons

    • @W14baby
      @W14baby 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @Ann Smith she’s also in 🛌 w Oprah because she invested shares in a company w her... something to do w high end 🍫 so anyone taking that oprah Interview at face value, think twice

  • @energyhealing11
    @energyhealing11 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I feel for everyone who has been dating narcissists it’s so trauma causing and confusing and painful and it takes a long time to recover but it’s possible 💜

  • @TantėsTelikas
    @TantėsTelikas 3 ปีที่แล้ว +459

    I found that a reliable indicator of narcissism is absense of close, long term friendships in the life of a person who otherwise projects popularity and charisma.

    • @Alexithymiander
      @Alexithymiander 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Spot on. I wouldn't have survived my last relationship if it hadn't been for my real friends. What's super scary is how deluded you can be about who actually cares about you. Best people rarely ask to receive anything from anyone... narcissists always want favours. Look up Richard Grannon and Doctor Ramani for good videos. The term 'supply' is important. That is all you are in the eyes of a narc.

    • @missd3605
      @missd3605 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      100%

    • @ThePlataf
      @ThePlataf 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Yes, that's my sister. An attractive and charismatic woman with ice on her veins. Everyone exists for her benefit. Strings of failed relationships, which ALWAYS begin with some besotted man drooling over her and telling her how wonderful she is. But 6 months later, when he ceases to turn on the 24/7 worship, the trouble starts, and the hysterics, accusations, threats and blackmail are relentless.. She has no friends, none of us family members go near her. Naturally, it's all everyone else's fault, because she's perfect.
      Oh yes, she's also strongly into *woke* causes, too, but I guarantee that if she saw someone collapse in the street, she'd step right over them and accuse them of trying to impede her progress.

    • @Flutterbyby
      @Flutterbyby 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Not always true, as my narc ex had bffs and made many long term friends.

    • @Hearth123
      @Hearth123 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I'd say this is mostly true with emphasis on the outgoing component because some introverts just don't have a lot of friends and it's not a character flaw, it's just that they don't get out much. My mom is an extreme narcissist and she has a trail of shattered relationships behind her. She left my dad after 30 years and 6 kids, doesn't have a relationship with any of us, she even kicked her own mother to the curb for not singing her praises adequately.

  • @melania239
    @melania239 3 ปีที่แล้ว +255

    my ex boyfriend was a narcissist. But the worst part was that everybody thought he was a good guy, but he manipulates, he was changing his personality to try to be good to everybody, he lied, he loved attention, and he only treated me nice when there was more people, when we were alone he was nasty to me.
    I remember one night in bed he asked me : "do you think i am selfish ?" and I said "no". I was not confident enought to tell him what I though about him.

    • @kamka8149
      @kamka8149 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      My ex-husband (sadly; sadly I did end up marrying him at my mother's behest, which ruined my life) was the exactly the same as you describe... The sad part is that many people (to whom the narc is or appears nice) will not believe you, and will instead see you as the problem when you are rightly affected by their abuse.

    • @schlkey8089
      @schlkey8089 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Same as described 😔

    • @heviutza
      @heviutza 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      exactly same. I understand completely! I am still in that relationship, but It's easier now that I know who I am dealing with. I don't give him my full attention anymore and most of the times I put myself first.

    • @slaws2279
      @slaws2279 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same with my brother.

    • @lisitchkajojo
      @lisitchkajojo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Ugh, same. They are master charmers. One of the worst things is seeing everyone think a narcissist is a great person despite the terrible abuse they put you through behind closed doors. It makes you doubt yourself and your sanity.

  • @SuperValaVala
    @SuperValaVala 3 ปีที่แล้ว +127

    1. Obsessed with what people think of them
    2. Love to Love Bomb !
    3. Manipulation
    4. Love for Attention
    5. They can't they criticisms
    6. Narcissist use people

    • @liesmies6280
      @liesmies6280 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      one more though . . . number 7: If their plan fails, they become physically agressive.
      In de long run i see harry coming back with his son alone ;) she would not be the first one to throw a vase at his head because he can no longer be used by her and then she wants him gone. you'll see

  • @mirandarosman3721
    @mirandarosman3721 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    My mother is a narcissist who has changed my father completely. I luckily escaped following my mother's footsteps thanks to my husband who saw right through her. I still struggle now dealing with my mother's ways. It's extremely difficult. She has zero friends at 70 bc they have all distanced themselves from her. Its very sad. I see the exact same thing happening to Harry. He is a changed man however you want to excuse it and there's only one reason why...Megain. I speak from my own childhood experiences which were traumatic living with a narcissist. Things will only get worse for Harry. Pity he cannot see it.

  • @gottelandet
    @gottelandet 3 ปีที่แล้ว +357

    She talked about being depressed and yes a narcissist can be depressed when they find out that people don’t understand how wounderful they are. When other people stop admiring them and withdraw they cannot understand that.

    • @varrantgreen4259
      @varrantgreen4259 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Haha you really beleive the shit you say? Shes not depressed because people didn't think she was wonderful. Shes depressed becuase the british media was worse than the american popperazi. And that's quite a high bar to pass.

    • @rosannecole4992
      @rosannecole4992 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yes " they want to be on a pedestal giving orders and telling others they are worthless ..!

    • @puregold6139
      @puregold6139 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You say this as if she didn't get shit on by the British media 24/7

    • @nataliewalton5118
      @nataliewalton5118 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah cause you know her??

    • @seriouslyjoking2
      @seriouslyjoking2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@varrantgreen4259 You mean they weren't putting her on a pedestal?

  • @av201
    @av201 3 ปีที่แล้ว +380

    She's such a terrible actress, she can't even hide her annoyance at him in several clips. Probably he was speaking then and taking the spotlight off HER. She is a monster.

    • @dustyrhodes8147
      @dustyrhodes8147 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Superb, AJ. She really is a monster.

    • @elizabethdoherty318
      @elizabethdoherty318 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@dustyrhodes8147 Get a grip for crying out loud!!! A monster really??

    • @ilikefootball1239
      @ilikefootball1239 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Elizabeth Doherty what, do you think she’s a truly kind human being 😂😂

  • @sophiethepillowqueen
    @sophiethepillowqueen 3 ปีที่แล้ว +189

    Harry has been a philanthropist and humanitarian for a lot longer than Snarkle, yet she does the majority of the talking and the one who’s ’s always upfront and center stage, with Harry as the second banana. This shows you the dynamics of the relationship. He’s nothing but her second stringer. It’s not like he wasn’t warned, though.

  • @Mark-fx4uj
    @Mark-fx4uj 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This was so spot on!
    Now I'm no prince, rather just an average dude who fell victim to a narcissist. The parallels are striking, from the first time we met until she decided I wasn't useful anymore and dropped me after 20 years of marriage. My usefulness ended after I was diagnosed with a chronic illness that changed the course for the future we had hoped for. She didn't like the attention I was getting because of my disease, so she hopped on the next man who gave her sympathy for how difficult things must be for her because of my illness. And I mean the literal "hopped on" the next man. It took me a long time to fully understand what had happened, but now I do see what the 20 years of marriage had been all along. The narcissist will never change and will have you believe that every problem is your fault. Poor Harry because his eyes will soon see that his relationship is all about what Meghan can get out of him.
    Everyone I see her clutching his hand or her touching his arm or his back in public I cringe because none of it comes from a genuine place of love that she has for him. This marriage will come to a painful end for Harry and it saddens me.
    His family knows what a fraud Meghan is and welcome him back with open arms of forgiveness when it happens.

  • @sylvianblue
    @sylvianblue 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1016

    Why was Oprah at the wedding when they didn’t know each other...because she knew there’d be an interview one day?

    • @Richard-vq7ud
      @Richard-vq7ud 3 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      It is the narcissist hive mind

    • @ACS402010
      @ACS402010 3 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      Apparently Meghan wanted Oprah to intervie her BEFORE the wedding, but the Royal Family shot that idea down. So clearly Meghan has always had an agenda...and that agenda is clout, and using the Royal Family for prestige. She is FULL of her self.

    • @dankhnw8
      @dankhnw8 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      A lot of celebs were present, so i doubt it

    • @shaniadirstein3650
      @shaniadirstein3650 3 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      Lol she invitied George and Amal Clooney even though THEY DIDNT EVEN KNOW HER. Yet she didnt invite ANY family besides her mother. Her wedding invites were mainly A list celebs and her mother. If that doesnt say something about a person....

    • @nv7287
      @nv7287 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      @@dankhnw8 A lot of celebs were present but who she had never met!
      (she didn't invite family or old time friends - but only her mother) On the most important day of her life! Who did she want with her... Celebrity, and power - not family or friends.

  • @evehargmm
    @evehargmm 3 ปีที่แล้ว +598

    She is still a D list actress. I think most of us see through her acting.

    • @lisarochwarg4707
      @lisarochwarg4707 3 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      She gave a poor performance on Oprah. The pity play was overdone. She has to learn not to lay it on so thick. But she's not a particularly skilled actress.

    • @NN-re7cy
      @NN-re7cy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@lisarochwarg4707 So true 😂😂

    • @lanakorvin2445
      @lanakorvin2445 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Even in bed scenes in Suits she can't act, she hasn't got a sexy body or face for that matter, she's just this Drama Queen, fame and fortune, her lies shine thru, call the 'Me Gain Remarkable Helpline, now ! '

    • @lisarochwarg4707
      @lisarochwarg4707 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@lanakorvin2445 I'd say that she's quite attractive, but if the Oprah interview was anything to go by, she's a bad actress. If you can tell that someone's acting, they're just not any good at it! And what little I saw looked like an acting job.
      I never watched Suits. I hardly watch TV these days. Aside from educational TV, it's all pure crap.

    • @scipioafricanus5871
      @scipioafricanus5871 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      But... but she was in that "super-famous" tv show Suits...

  • @veronicamorgan8103
    @veronicamorgan8103 3 ปีที่แล้ว +114

    Harry has no idea what he's dealing with, he'll never be in control of their relationship. She knew what she was doing right from the start, she's a gold digger, wanted to be noticed! If his mother was alive, Megan would not have gotten in.

    • @katharinak.1467
      @katharinak.1467 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Who knows. Diana would have warned him. BUT ...they often dont listen. Only after the breakup they wake up. And need YEARS to heal. One day Harry will wake up.

    • @mariemarilynbp9865
      @mariemarilynbp9865 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@katharinak.1467 Yes

    • @floatingsara
      @floatingsara 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@katharinak.1467 I think Harry is deeply traumatised by his mother's death. One of the effects of trauma is the tendence to look for partners who re-create dramas. So yes, if Diana were alive, Harry would probably be in a better mental health condition.

    • @shimmeringchimps3842
      @shimmeringchimps3842 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I wonder that same thing every time I see Harry in the news. If Diana were still alive, would Harry be with Meghan or with someone sane instead? Diana was an empath and so open and giving, she may have felt deeply for Meghan's stories, at least in the beginning. But Diana certainly would have never allowed her beloved sons to be estranged either, their close relationship torn apart by some random American D-list actress.

    • @giselle.9325
      @giselle.9325 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@shimmeringchimps3842 but Diana was also really intuitive, even predicted her own death. I think she would have eventually figured out about Meghan.

  • @Anoppinion
    @Anoppinion ปีที่แล้ว +3

    She should have an award for her work on mental health. Being a prime example. showing us the damages it does to those around her.

  • @orwellwasrightabouttheleft7549
    @orwellwasrightabouttheleft7549 3 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    If you're in a relationship with a narc the thing to remember is that the 'good times' are fake. The bad times are when you see the real narc. Get out and get away from them.

    • @tusiamilusia40
      @tusiamilusia40 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      thats so bad, i realised it only after i got out of it

  • @suzanneraymundo5835
    @suzanneraymundo5835 3 ปีที่แล้ว +223

    Everytime I see him recently, I just want to ask, "you ok bro?"

    • @manjudhaliwal6383
      @manjudhaliwal6383 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Mental Health - awareness week
      “ R U. OK “

  • @someguy1243
    @someguy1243 3 ปีที่แล้ว +83

    No. 7 - Narcissists don't know they are narcissists. They think they are simply getting what belongs to them.

    • @seriouslyjoking2
      @seriouslyjoking2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      They have limited self-awareness as the trauma (or Narcissistc parenting) happened very early in their development

    • @naturefleur2062
      @naturefleur2062 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Truth 100% because they deserve it all!

    • @thelasttrumpet2915
      @thelasttrumpet2915 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Some actually do know what they are but don’t give a sh*t, because they’re ”entitled”. My ex definitely knew.

    • @sandracaster9516
      @sandracaster9516 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Mid range narcissists don’t realize, they just act

  • @FayeIL
    @FayeIL 3 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    “She’s capable of anything” oh buddy, you have no idea.

  • @Iriss89
    @Iriss89 4 ปีที่แล้ว +329

    Omg, the clip of her pushing her coat back to make her baby bump more noticeable is soooo cringe!!! Yikes.

    • @BaggageClaim
      @BaggageClaim  4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Oh it's unbelievable!

    • @W14baby
      @W14baby 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yikes is right 😳

    • @doubledouble7374
      @doubledouble7374 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Maybe because she felt the itchy belly. I still think Harry has made a mistake by marrying her. It's clear his wife doesn't love him

    • @puregold6139
      @puregold6139 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Kate literally did the same thing, but it's only a problem with Megan. Like pregnant woman do this all the time because it's something t be proud of I mean your carrying a baby for 9 months???

    • @puregold6139
      @puregold6139 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Y'all are weird

  • @misssasha168
    @misssasha168 3 ปีที่แล้ว +513

    When I saw their engagement interview years ago I felt like she wasn’t genuine at all, it looks like she was acting like she was so in love with Prince Harry.

    • @dbedazzling1
      @dbedazzling1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Agreed. She loves to me admired n will do whatever it takes to be that perfect person to the ppl she can fool.

    • @DylanGirl1963
      @DylanGirl1963 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@dbedazzling1 She is constantly looking at the camera, wherever they go. ME ME MEGHAN.

    • @dbedazzling1
      @dbedazzling1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@DylanGirl1963 it's funny I called her that in another post lol. She wants what she wants and retaliates if she does not get it.

    • @dbedazzling1
      @dbedazzling1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@GieLee159 she had books on Diana. Studied her n made herself involved in Diana charities. She always went to the UK and asked a friend who was a tv host to set her up with wealthy Brit guys. When she met Harry she ghosted the friend. That's some of the character she displays.

    • @Grace-zz7pu
      @Grace-zz7pu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Me too!!! Within a minute I was like ‘she is soo fake and he’s getting played’ and everything she has done since has confirmed it. Harry used to be so happy with her in public and now he’s so miserable.

  • @robertkaitas162
    @robertkaitas162 3 ปีที่แล้ว +193

    I don’t think their marriage gonna last... if she keeps pushing him out from his family😳

    • @seriouslyjoking2
      @seriouslyjoking2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      How many marriages last in LaLa Land?

    • @marleneg7794
      @marleneg7794 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      No it w
      Will because she will have nothing and No one when she is done.

    • @aeoligarlic4024
      @aeoligarlic4024 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      If the marriage fell apart we know harry's gonna be villainized this time

    • @gingermaisie
      @gingermaisie 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Look at our Late Monarch's face at their wedding.....she knew this entire fiasco was a farce and poor Henry had already fallen into the trap😅...way before the wedding. It'll all be disclosed one day . Unfortunately the RF are aware of her tangle weaved web but their hands tied in attempt to protect whats left...and soon as the divorce is underway she will open up to the world the truth....but utll come at a price, I have no doubt of that!

  • @alirussell-hayward6279
    @alirussell-hayward6279 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    These are so good. You get so much great footage. You give a lot as well - others get one small piece of info and spin it out for an hour. Very clear. Nice!! Really interesting- thank you

  • @johnjriggsarchery2457
    @johnjriggsarchery2457 3 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    Boy, he's gonna be screwed when they get divorced.

  • @ibi137
    @ibi137 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1496

    As Trump once said : "I wish a lot of luck to Harry, cause he's gonna need it."

    • @rordongamsey3057
      @rordongamsey3057 3 ปีที่แล้ว +134

      I wonder how Harry feels how about trump. He must’ve been laughing with markle when trump first said that and now he prolly must be like “damn I guess he was right”

    • @cozy46
      @cozy46 3 ปีที่แล้ว +85

      Yeah, I wouldn't pay any attention to trump. Talk about a narcissist!!!

    • @imintheghettoratatata6593
      @imintheghettoratatata6593 3 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      It’s like Donald trump always predicts the future 😭

    • @imintheghettoratatata6593
      @imintheghettoratatata6593 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      @@cozy46 I would say the same for Biden

    • @shaysbookshelf
      @shaysbookshelf 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      Trump should be the last one talking

  • @americanwoman445
    @americanwoman445 3 ปีที่แล้ว +270

    1:26.. I'll never forget how shamelessly she tried to go first but the lady in charge reminded her who the real royal was...poor Harry was already afraid of her.

    • @samk2283
      @samk2283 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Haha 😄... just noticed that, noticed she is first in everything like she is the royal

    • @marjanp4784
      @marjanp4784 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Who the hell she thinks she is!!!! She acts like she has done a great favor to the Royal family by marrying their prince! She was nobody, I've never heard of her name or her serial, I had to Google her coz when it was announced that "Prince Harry and Meghan Markle,a Hollywood actress are engaged" I was like- which actress??? And here she is acting like a big shot, I wonder if she had been someone like Angelina Jolie or even Meghan Fox, what would have happened!!😂🤣

    • @sushmanath1173
      @sushmanath1173 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Lol. 06:58 too.. unbelievable.

    • @cloroxbleach8614
      @cloroxbleach8614 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sushmanath1173 IKR!? In this short clip, there are TWO instances. My Gawd, she's pitiful. "Give me the attention!!!"

    • @aliemorgan4881
      @aliemorgan4881 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @ Marjan P, STill is a nobody

  • @marlsberlin7716
    @marlsberlin7716 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I grew up with two. My mother who was a "born victim" and used that to manipulate my dad and everyone else, and my sister who was a born bloody "manipulator" and liar and used that for her exclusive benefit. Both of them ended up ruining mine and others' lives. Thank god they are not in my life anymore. And I'm happy.

  • @peterpanse7472
    @peterpanse7472 3 ปีที่แล้ว +365

    We need to start some sort of Free Harry campaign 😆😆

    • @3kcs3kcs41
      @3kcs3kcs41 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      🤣

    • @lanakorvin2445
      @lanakorvin2445 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      i got the cramps now !!! and call the 'Me Gain Remarkable' Helpline now !

    • @ernestchoi7891
      @ernestchoi7891 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Id love that 😅

    • @fnma21
      @fnma21 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @joyceneville9214
      @joyceneville9214 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      The best way to free Harry will be to ignore the Harry and Meghan show completely. No press attention, no stories, no interviews. Then Meaghan’s need for attention will drive her to discard Harry and he can grab his kids and go back to England. But the only way this will work is if Harry himself is ready to leave. I don’t think he’s there yet.

  • @debbieduffy5121
    @debbieduffy5121 4 ปีที่แล้ว +457

    They can be very charming. And make you feel so special.

    • @BaggageClaim
      @BaggageClaim  4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Yes, they really do!

    • @cristinajuan3866
      @cristinajuan3866 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@BaggageClaim 5yy5y5y5yy55y55y5yyy55555y55yy5y55555555555555555555R5eEe5e5ey5R5e555eY5RR5RRR5YRy4a574⁶u5⁶u5ýu5⁶u5⁶u5⁶⁶u56⁶u56u566u5675675u56756756756756756756756757575675757567567567575675675675675675555675675675675675675675675675575675675756756756756756756755756756755675675675675757567567567567575675675675675675⁶756756756757567575556756756755767567567757567567567567567575755556756755675755675675675675556756756567566757657756575765755667575675675657567567566767557567567575775565557657657567575555555757657767755756556556757555575675756r

    • @toothdoc215
      @toothdoc215 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yep they sure can !!! I was fooled for 30 some years !! stupid me😞😳

    • @sirennem.6890
      @sirennem.6890 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      lies

    • @danielmcgloin3431
      @danielmcgloin3431 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Me gain a a dose of shite. She so fake

  • @westindiesgalfruits2335
    @westindiesgalfruits2335 3 ปีที่แล้ว +133

    The fact they fell in love quickly is a BIG RED FLAG and he didnt knoweth what hitteth him lol, narcissist make the other person fall in love quickly because of their beauty and fake nice traits..pray for him.

    • @seriouslyjoking2
      @seriouslyjoking2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      It is the reason Prince William wanted him to slow the relationship. Develop it.

    • @manjudhaliwal6383
      @manjudhaliwal6383 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      When you meet a potential marriage partner you take them to meet mum & dad and friends n family they are the best judge if he/she is Right One because they have known you for very long time and also they want the Best for you and want a Happy marriage for you
      Here Harry was lonely n became easy target he was hunted. He made mistake of not listening to his brother !

  • @lillianabuoro6837
    @lillianabuoro6837 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I feel for Harry, Meghan is a narcissist! It's just so sad

  • @corinnewoolley4638
    @corinnewoolley4638 3 ปีที่แล้ว +319

    On the nose analysis, if I was Harry I’d worry about how jealous she will become when her children are older and get a lot of attention, she’s deranged now, God help those children.....

    • @rachaelclarke9951
      @rachaelclarke9951 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      My mum was jealous of her children

    • @imintheghettoratatata6593
      @imintheghettoratatata6593 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@rachaelclarke9951 I hope there ok x

    • @TVwriter23
      @TVwriter23 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@rachaelclarke9951 My great grandmother the same.

    • @hannahscarlettsmith7651
      @hannahscarlettsmith7651 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Absolutely. My mom was a narcissist. It only got bad once her daughter's began to become young women.

    • @ambersummer2685
      @ambersummer2685 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      And when they snitch on her too when they're old enough to speak up about it.

  • @SigrunHT
    @SigrunHT 3 ปีที่แล้ว +120

    My mother was a narcissist. Always wanted to be put on a pedestal. When I was old enough I unknowingly chose narcissists as partners and stayed married to one for 23 years. Until he did something so completely unforgivable and hurtful that finally I left. I was so used to being put down I didn't realise that I didn't have to be. So I spotted Markle from the beginning, he's a stepping stone and when she's used him up and he has nothing left to give her she'll leave him. She'll weaponise their children against Harry and his family all the while playing the victim. He doesn't dare disagree with her about the lies she's telling the world about his family because if he does she'll reject him as being the ultimate betrayer, but I'm sure he's seen the signs and doesn't want to rock the boat because at this stage in time she's everything to him. He has a very painful and steep learning curve ahead of him.

    • @seriouslyjoking2
      @seriouslyjoking2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I began reading your comment and thought it was my comment. My mother was my first Narcissist & I became an empath with a victim mentality. After several Narcissists, I lost my victim mentality when I left the vampire who was sucking the life out of me.

    • @SigrunHT
      @SigrunHT 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@seriouslyjoking2. Good for you. It takes quite some time to figure all this out doesn't it? It's even harder to leave when there are children involved. I agree I'm sure our stories are very similar to whole lot of people, wether they be male or female. Unfortunately right now we seem to be going through a time when narcissists (the 'woke' people) seem to telling us how to think and what to do. We need more education about the subject to help people be aware and to know when they're involved with one before they have kids with them. Thanks for your comment. Stay safe.

    • @mjp.7765
      @mjp.7765 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      The problem is we (real victims) often believe that we can help and save them… cause they from the beginning played the victim role.

    • @mjp.7765
      @mjp.7765 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      But this experience makes us stronger 💪🏼

    • @TedEhioghae
      @TedEhioghae ปีที่แล้ว

      Adultery is a sin.
      Please, repent before it is too late.

  • @Yana-xs5se
    @Yana-xs5se 3 ปีที่แล้ว +172

    Even if one knows any smallest thing about body language, one can tell, she is very in control, he is miserable and very insecure, not himself. Its like he is under a spell with her. If he would to wake up and look at himself on the videos, he i bet he would be shocked nad not aware he was that man. I pray he wakes up one day , be brave and get healing.

    • @munterboy9298
      @munterboy9298 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm in a similar position to him. He's trapped and has 2 kids, I say he will stick it out till the kids are older

    • @morganjames5180
      @morganjames5180 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Shes probably got 100s of secret codes for harry to follow.....
      " if I touch your back ...you walk ahead of me ...but slowly "
      " if I tug at your shoulder ...you stop and let me walk ahead and do all the talking "
      " if I touch your hand ,....you must look at me adoringly"
      " if I pull you when I sit...you must sit immediately"
      " if I touch your chest ....you must laugh with me straightaway"
      " if I'm looking at you and blinking fast .....it means I'm angry .....you must give me complete control"
      " if I ignore you and stare ahead with a grin .....it means you are in major trouble......pack your bags now"
      " if I say I love you .....it means I want your wealth and status "
      " if i .........
      ........
      ......
      ........
      Practically perfect codes for every perfect situation .

    • @morganjames5180
      @morganjames5180 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I think it will be a long while till they separate .....
      They need to build their empire first and manipulate their kids to their own gains....
      ....once the kids start disobeying her rules ...
      ....it will all crumble...
      ..the fairy tale ends .

  • @katieann1785
    @katieann1785 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    He was so happy and always smiling before he met her now she has to remind him to smile and treats him like a child

  • @bitturuyal6850
    @bitturuyal6850 3 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    I dated a narcissist once and after 3 years i'm still not able to trust or love anyone anymore.

    • @seriouslyjoking2
      @seriouslyjoking2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Look for action and don't believe the words. Narcissists are only good with words.

  • @seriouslyjoking2
    @seriouslyjoking2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    I was born to a Narcissist. Later, I dated Narcissists & chose friends who were Narcissists. Someone like me are attracted to the love-bombing. But the last Narcissist changed all that. I know them a mile away and NO contact is the best way to deal with them or Gray Rock, if one can't.

  • @annarubin4089
    @annarubin4089 3 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    My 2nd husband was a textbook narcissist. Thank God I survived that relationship. It is hard to watch it happen to others and when you try and warn them they look at you like you're crazy. One of his victims asked me why I didn't warn her and I asked if she would have believed me. The answer was No.

  • @kyote1089
    @kyote1089 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    ALL of my exes were narcissists... I have a knack for finding the best of them too! 😂
    My Therapist: "There must've been red flags/signs?"
    Me: "Yes, but I thought it was a carnival!" 😂

  • @puffpiece1375
    @puffpiece1375 4 ปีที่แล้ว +224

    Meghan Markle and truth are very distant acquaintances. There is no bottom to how low she will go.

    • @BaggageClaim
      @BaggageClaim  4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      She really does perceive a different reality

    • @rileyrayemckinnon3063
      @rileyrayemckinnon3063 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Distant? Huh. I didn't know they had ever met to begin with ;)
      Yeah, she sucks a lot.

    • @micolagnelli8441
      @micolagnelli8441 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      TRUE, detest M.M. it does not derive from racism, it is 100% absurd.
      We all thought the slight racial difference was good and fair.
      Is she bad, both white ... both black ... and green .....
      The problem is that you make fools believe this ridiculous thing.

    • @denzilemmanuel93
      @denzilemmanuel93 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Have any of you met Meghan? Aren’t you embarrassed that you speak so confidently of things you literally don’t know

    • @micolagnelli8441
      @micolagnelli8441 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@denzilemmanuel93 What the "reptile" and the toad prince do is UNFORTUNATELY under the eyes of all because they have no balanced limits in behaving as important people (and in any case certainly NOT for their individual merits) but instead they are just mean beings greedy for money and fame, full of stupid envy of those who are better than them and manipulators of the most stupid minds.
      The behavior of the excellent street sweeper who cleans my street is 1000 times more civilized than they are.

  • @Woodman-Spare-that-tree
    @Woodman-Spare-that-tree 4 ปีที่แล้ว +270

    She lied about having a degree in international relations. She lied about the diplomatic internship in Argentina - she was only there a few weeks before she was asked to leave. She lied about only having been married once before.

    • @BaggageClaim
      @BaggageClaim  4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      So many lies!

    • @shannondelp9898
      @shannondelp9898 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      And her uncle got her the Argentina spot.

    • @xyz-in2ti
      @xyz-in2ti 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Wait hold up....how many times has she been married before Harry? I thought it was just that once for 2 years

    • @Mel-zv1gf
      @Mel-zv1gf 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      She has a degree in international studies and theater, she has only been married once before, and she did have a diplomatic internship in Argentina... the person who hosted her praised her. I don’t know where you got this information but it simply isn’t true.

    • @Mel-zv1gf
      @Mel-zv1gf 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I’m not saying that I am taking her side in this bc there are two sides in every story. However, I just felt obligated to say something because although she has lied, those aren’t things she lied about.

  • @vandaahll
    @vandaahll 3 ปีที่แล้ว +212

    Look how she always walks infront of Harry, first through the door , first to shake hands

    • @Mikrokozma33
      @Mikrokozma33 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I think he needs that. How are we to judge? And why we don't like woman who Clearly gives a huge support to her man?

    • @Noutelus
      @Noutelus 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@Mikrokozma33 Haha is that what you call a supportive relationship?

    • @AndreeaDaniela.28
      @AndreeaDaniela.28 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Maybe because in that world the woman enters first.

    • @arnaudinstalle
      @arnaudinstalle 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      My ex was like that. And after that she complained that I walked too slowly. She basically always made me feel like I was not good enough. I do understand Harry's sad face 100%.

    • @salladinthegreat
      @salladinthegreat 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@Mikrokozma33 Support? If she loved him she would help him assume HIS rightful role as a god damn Prince. Prince Philip always let the Queen take the spotlight for so long, well that's support. BTW I just learned that he died at age 99.

  • @Boo-jy5ju
    @Boo-jy5ju ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Look at that wedding day smile! It says, HA!! I did it!!! Now wait and see what's next! That what it said to me. The wedding itself was hysterical!

  • @ninjacat4929
    @ninjacat4929 4 ปีที่แล้ว +491

    My God he didn’t realize what he was saying when he stated “I think she’s capable of anything “ in the engagement interview !

    • @BaggageClaim
      @BaggageClaim  4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      He had no idea!

    • @yvettevernet4759
      @yvettevernet4759 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      It is called "a Fraudian slip"

    • @charlesvanderhoog7056
      @charlesvanderhoog7056 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Harry is not a very smart person. He never needed to be smart. He always was protected by one and all. And he fell for an image on a screen! Jeez.

    • @emroach5945
      @emroach5945 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Good one! Harry had no idea!!!

    • @lisawentworth6831
      @lisawentworth6831 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I know! I was just about to say that! Anyone who is capable of anything, will do anything to get what they want.

  • @suryasusanto89
    @suryasusanto89 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    A narcissist likes to manipulate people. I married one and I am happy now as I am free from her. Her words and the way she acted like a victim, distant me from my family and my friends. She acted like she was abused by my family and friends and prevent me from seeing them. It took me quite sometime to get my sense back

    • @melisaalto
      @melisaalto 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Almost a copy of their story

  • @puffpiece1375
    @puffpiece1375 4 ปีที่แล้ว +372

    Do these awful people ever get their karma? To all those people who think Meghan is not liked because of her race....that’s not it.

    • @BaggageClaim
      @BaggageClaim  4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Yeah can’t argue though when people say we’re racist for not liking her. 😬

    • @puffpiece1375
      @puffpiece1375 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@BaggageClaim I do. Bring up real examples of what she has done and see if they can argue. They can’t. The Wimbledon behaviour is the best.

    • @Tamarindos9
      @Tamarindos9 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      It is very odd, isn't it? It's like some sort of weird cult! I lurked around on Twitter for a while and some (not all) of these people are truly vile wishing evil on the rest of TRF, even the little ones. And MM has actually thanked some of them!! She is the most extraordinarily divisive person, certainly not someone who promotes peace and harmony.

    • @BaggageClaim
      @BaggageClaim  4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@Tamarindos9 Oh that's so interesting!! I didn't know she thanked those people. Very divisive!!

    • @Tamarindos9
      @Tamarindos9 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@BaggageClaim some of the UK tabloids reported it, so should be easy to find.

  • @ellenfoster9764
    @ellenfoster9764 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Initially I was inclined to give her the benefit of the doubt. Problematic family relations- hard to know which party is responsible. Claims of racism- well the dominant group often doesn’t recognize micro-aggressions. However, she’s not even a good narcissist- it quickly became clear what she was really like. She is so self-centered it is amazing. I think Harry is the only person who doesn’t see.

  • @dorisfischer3132
    @dorisfischer3132 3 ปีที่แล้ว +192

    The engagement interview was a huge red flag!

    • @hr-qi9po
      @hr-qi9po 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Yes! I think it was for a lot of people.

    • @saywhatyouwant888
      @saywhatyouwant888 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      So true ,damn it seeing her lie so brazenly no guilt

    • @eendo_4406
      @eendo_4406 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ikr

    • @merddd190
      @merddd190 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I knew after watching the engagement interview that mm was a social climbing opportunist and I did not watch wedding, her interviews, etc…..can’t stand her face, it is so fake..👎🏼👎🏼👎🏼👎🏼👎🏼👎🏼👎🏼

  • @iamlekat
    @iamlekat 3 ปีที่แล้ว +101

    When Harry said "What meghan wants, meghan gets', I was shocked of what came outta his mouth. Plus hearing a lot of bad stories about her😬 but what got me the most was she went to Harry friend wedding uninvited and tried to get back with him after a breakup, yeah noo that's a red flag right there in my opinion. For him to marrying her within 3 months was quite quicker than I thought cause usually it takes year's or so to get that full image of "She's the one" click. Like for Prince William an Kate (love them) for example, he waited for 9 or 10 year's to know that "she is the one" and for her to handle all the things that's been thrown at her, really shows that SHE IS THE ONE for him.

    • @jacquelineess1141
      @jacquelineess1141 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      She could have something dirty against him...lol. Or she did what every malevolent narc does, find out what his hidden but true passion is and exploited it.

  • @kirkkirk7840
    @kirkkirk7840 3 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    markel has the most evil eyes. What the hell was Harry thinking?

    • @lindatruax8319
      @lindatruax8319 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Harry wasn't thinking - she was excuse the expression - "screwing him stupid!"
      And her eyes are pure evil when she wasn't simmering and sucking up to him in an overacted love obsessed imitation part - it's easy to see why she was never more than a "d" or much less rated actress!! Over kill isn't professional it's just bad acting!!

    • @jesusismykingforever8882
      @jesusismykingforever8882 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      He wasn't think with the head on his shoulders.

    • @mariacardenas4665
      @mariacardenas4665 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He Was Not Thinking At All

  • @wendytaylor72
    @wendytaylor72 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Harry was warned about Meghan but he would not listen. He should have looked at her past behaviour and ran a mile. Those who tried to talk sense into him were turned against. This is not going to end well.

  • @Anna.T.
    @Anna.T. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Today, on Me-gain and Haz-Been’s 3rd wedding anniversary, Princess Beatrice announced her first pregnancy.
    - Congratulations Princess Beatrice and husband Edo Mapelli Mozzi! Wishing you a safe pregnancy and delivery.

  • @boxingfit
    @boxingfit 3 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    I actually worry for harry in years to come over this girl

  • @bongiwegxagxama5879
    @bongiwegxagxama5879 3 ปีที่แล้ว +394

    This is true.. I said it. She's gonna hurt harry like how she dumped her first husband by email 😆 and the guy shame was left broken. Harry must go back to his family. This woman after realizing that she won't be a queen she was livid. Now I see the manipulation going on. She felt rejected a long time ago she needs to therapy

    • @peacehappyb237
      @peacehappyb237 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      I know she will. She gives me the creeps on top of it. The way she treats people is horrific.

    • @thetheraine
      @thetheraine 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      Bongiwe Gxagzama - I think her real target was William... I think she thought she could oust Kate and get to be Queen... which I think is what Kate was upset about... and then William rejected her and then little megs had to leave town real quick under the guise of privacy and then had to make up lots of lies to cover up her real tracks... because the Royals won't tell... but obviously she will tell anything... if she gets paid... sad...

    • @cmr_77
      @cmr_77 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@thetheraine ohhh that’s a big story there🙆🏽‍♀️

    • @ljustme3183
      @ljustme3183 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      YOU ARE SO RIGHT!

    • @AllIsWellaus
      @AllIsWellaus 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Your comment isn't even true. She was upset that they had been bumped off the streamlined royal family despite Prince Harry was with the other members on the balcony during the Queen's Diamond Jubilee. Its more than an insult to say that Harry is so broken that he doesn't even understand the state of his relationship with his family. Harry has been one of the few royal members of late to go into a warzone, over see other soldiers. They waited a year before finally deciding to leave the royal family. Despite I can only speculate over their relationship, I don't think Meghan is such a monster that she has managed to manipulate her Mother, her husband and other loved ones. Seriously where does all this anger, this venom come from. Please, get help.