4:23 - Having a supportive spouse 5:30 - Benefits of marrying for the Deen 7:22 - Growing up as an orphan without a father figure 11:40 - Importance of circles of knowledge for women 13:04 - Helping women take care of themselves 15:30 - A good marriage requires hard work 21:40 - Self-care 29:35 - Overcoming Isolation and loneliness 31:21 - Strengthening marriages 33:41 - The 5 love languages 44:20 - Tackling problems in marriages & divorce 58:09 - Balancing Parenting & marriage
@@fathimahusain2668و عليكم السلام و رحمة الله و بركاته Check @MaritalArts on instagram. It has the information about her weekly structured study circles, on Saturday, with the times and address.
@@user-qe1mk6xk1z 786 number might be from numerology which is from judeo devil worship qabalah which they likely learned from babylonion star and devil worship captivity! sao you should fic your account!
host fatima has her friend umm talha, founder of marital arts a Muslim woman's organization trying to help marraiges, worked in home schooling, studied tajwid, spouse studied in Medina university, has an Islamic preschool! sister says its romantic your husband is your mentor, propsed in 01. she wanted someone who can teach and not get into wrong group. and he helped her study in Egypt, sheikh of jeddah was there. says when she teaches she gives deeds to her teachers. Masha Allah she said southern and northern bengalis don't get married, i never heard of it. she said shes from north and hes from south. and said hadith is to Marry for din, its blessing you! Shes active in east london! came to london at 5 or 6 in 85. her dad became ill and went back to Bangladesh to live last days, he passed away in 87 in Bd. she grew up as an orphan. 3 girls and 1 boy, mom widow in 30s. nothing like having a father. even Prophet peace and blessings on him grew up as an orphan made them empathy. says if someone is genuinely interested in your life they think you want good, its like a great trust. says she can help others when she can seek help. Fatima's mom's dad died before she was born. says you can't be spoiled as an orphan. you end up at others service at young age. 10,00 - umm talha went to weekly halaqa introduced by her friend, but now she teaches there and through the halaqa she met her spouse. halaqa started in 99. fatima says doing something weekly is important to refocus, rethink about Allah! umm talha says bros have jumma and many sisters can't so there needs to be a time for sisters. Prophet peace and blessings be upon him used to give time for the women! says shes been invovled in different dawa but home is an important space and if that is healthy and Islamic it develops everyone, says its head mother and wife needs to be taken care of and who takes care of her. says she takes care of her like the older sister. as saying goes don't be a candle that burns itself. her organization helps this. says the cirlce & halaqa refuels them! it sounds like a lifeline (sounds like a hard week). ppl underest. great marriage, ppl think its just perfect ppl, but its hard work the host reminds! sister says having healthy marraige is like a healthy weight its something that takes regular input! Even Prophet peace and blessings on him marriage had conflicts. don't be in a rush to run to d word of j word(?). Many sister think they can't manage problems, sometimes marriage isn't the problem, she goes through her own personal issue. she gave advice to take care of yourself and she said i took care of myself and my marriage life got better. marriage isn't just about their relationship together but their relationship with themselves as an individual and woman should look inward as they project tbh. 20,30 - try to analyze why there are problems, before divorcing. so marital arts is to reassess. they do ramadan events, dazzle and dine and hajj and regular halaqa! says theres self care, relationship and parenting. get into self well being! ( a Person self taken care of sees the world differently then someone unsure) whatever she does will reflected , she will be conscious parent present wife etc. like airplane scenario, take care of yourself and parent instinct says take care of others. Surah Tahrim, save yourself and then your family from the fire. fatima was reading biography of michelle obama. she talked about her marriage. even though she seesm happy she talks marraige counseling and she had her own issues but expected her marriage to fix and blame others! spend time doing things you need to do, it will make you feeled forfilled and feel better in other relationship. says its a need and you need to make time! in Muslim community there is a sense of guilt if you do for yourself (sufism?) simetimes halaqa helps them talk to friends and says women like to talk to women and they need emotional companionship days love has different compartments! friends and children is different then spouse and says all are important! says girls together can talk about things that are different! got to make time. says despite london is big city ppl are lonely. 30,00 - Sister may want man to spend time and time is limited due to work! says others liek gfs and good Muslim sisters can help, says its a need and they feel guilty not being with kids! umm talha says give yourself time and fatima says don't need to be a martyr, lolz! umm talha says theres wedding emphasis and divorce couceling but how about whats in between! how to strengthen and nurture the relationship! says share recipe! taking guideline from Quran and Sunnah, and communication! how to build from beginning, compassion in marriage! 5 love languages, express love! book by gary chaplain christian and alot of teaching is in congruence to Quran and Sunnah. there are 5 , how communicate love! how do i feel love? Says each person has 1 or 2 dominant, and the rest are recessive! one of her love language is gifts! others may not like it so its a blind spot. Prophet peace and blessings be upon him said give gifts and it will spread love. another is acts of service so that can help ppl appreciate it. 1. is words of affirmation! - i love you, its special etc. Prophet peace and blessings be upon him said he expressed his Love about Aisha, and then said Her Father, tying it to her! 2. spend time, quality time, not phone time. Prophet peace and blessings be upon him used to turn his whole body when talking to people! 3. (gift givings) 40,00 - 4. Kidma or acts of service, key to happy marriage is to be a team and make them feel special on the other end, make them feel dependant so they can't live without you (really? just don't make it literal) says one can attend to a husband when arrival then they want to listen! sister um talha says this works for me! then said if she needs to go out then the spouse is more happy to give into. its just human nature. 5. Is physical touch. its sacred between spouses. a companion said when we get intimate do we get a reward, he said yes, if you were to do it sinfully you would get a sin. intimacy in marraige is something highlighted, bed of roses! says one can be prudish but it has to be taken care of and problems can be from spouses feel unforfilled! fatima says its a gift from life. and she says divorce is not being demonized and it may be needed! says it wants it to be last resort and says to take problems out of marriage in our generation it would be really bad! says family may not want them to split. says a person can have a bad day and then fight and then next day ask what its about (the other spouse may remember). so does going outside make it worse. Umm talha said satan in his sermons says those who break up marraiges says you are the one , because it opens up families to vices! says in her councel they saved 3 marraiges! says don't break marriage in first calamity, and in this society ppl are so pro divorce and sisters friends are so pro divorce (sometimes because they are lonley and single and make there girlfriend there husband acc. to some) 50,00 - marriages can have a good wider part in society, and communities are strong because family through marriages are strong! says sometimes ppl they reach out to in relationships they reach out to wrong ppl. and sister um talha says be mindful of who you tell, who can have your best interest at heart and able! keep it in confidence! it shouldnt be a tabloid where they don't care and just get a judgement, and if you stay what if you are viewed in a negative way. there are some things that can't be unsaid! and this can prevent moving on and now pushes counter productively and wanting to break a now stable marraige later on. think carefully on who to consult! mufsed (breaker vs rectifier) musleh.. um talha says saving a marriage saves a community (similar to saving a life saves humanity) kids can see marraiges as bad! they get a positive light and learn its optimizing good! girls in the event said we should start to think about marraige when she was 14 , sees how powerful it is! we have human needs and see it can be halal in marraige and sing its "praises" bwa ha. says sometimes when a mom is a mom forgets she used to be a wife! still be an individual too. balance is key to success. talk about hadith of salman farisi and abu darda, he saw his wife shabby and asked what went on. she said your friend has no need for me, this was before hijab. Salman went to his house and said i won't eat until you eat. and then during the night told him to sleep until the last 1/3. then said your Lord, body and family has right for you. Abu Darda went to Prophet peace and blessings be upon him said , Salman spoke the truth! 1,10,00 - balance is key! Islam isn't about being a hermit, bwaha. Allah is beautiful and Loves beauty! says even women who practice should embrace feminity and this can have a good balancing effect on their daughters! and this is good modeling, time to pray and learn and socialize etc. Balance was given by Prophet peace and blessings on him! sometimes they were serious sometimes they had a good time! says there used to be good aunties, now that kind of role. even Prophet peace and blessings be upon him got a proposal from Nafisa who was confided in by Khadija Radiyallahu anha. There should be a musleha a mender! last advice from umm talha is try to be a marriage mender. Fatima makes dua and shows end! WA Aleikum Asalam wa Rahmtulah wa Barakatuh
Masha'Allah this was an excellent episode! Refreshing to hear punchy and powerful truths and also to see two female professionals in niqaab, definitely in need to be normalised Alhamdulillaah. Jazakillah khayran for your efforts and time :)
@@FatimaBarkatulla The genuine advice given regarding marriage, it's open honest yet positive stance. Women do not realise how difficult marriage can be "in general" it's the day to day, mundanity, routine, loneliness, these things are never discussed yet are so so so important to discuss because we are all experiencing them at some point in our marriage, it's trying to work through these difficult moments "seeing the light at the end of the tunnel moment" that needs to be discussed. Hope I make sense, I am currently a stay at home mom of 3, youngest is 1 and I love my children with all my heart and soul, yet experiencing "losing myself" but I know with experience this is a passing moment, it won't last forever, I'm quite a strong person and remind myself "this to shall pass" JazakAllah x
Could the sisters do another podcast on parenting and raising children in an Islamic manner as well as disciplining them in the correct manner esp as they turn into teenagers?
Sister in Islam.I am keen to find a deendar spouse who would be my mentor and coolness of my eyes but I am afraid I lack the qualification needed for getting such spouse and mentor but indeed I trust Allah that Allah would be merciful enough to grant me a pious ,honest,loving and ideal spouse who will be coolness of my eyes and give me tawfeeq to be like that too and grant us pious offsprings.fee amanillah.please pray for me..I really want to know my deen and Quran better before dying ..I am really inspired hearing you are a Bangladeshi.I am Bangladeshi too.
Keep praying this supplication! Rabbana Hablana minn azwaajina wazuriyyathi kurathaa aayunniwaj allna lill muthakeena imaama! Pray this in sajood 3 x after your Salah.
Why do muslims always shame other muslim. Give her the compliment and leave it at that. People’s level of iman varies from low to high, and that is between them and their Lord Allah(swtk).
Amin, brothers teach women in their fam and vice versa and understand each other and know about the bad in your area and use your sunnah and modesty as a guide!
Pain , strangling live tests are blessings from Allah that makes u understand other people pain and tried to help. But not everyone can understand when u have been tested every day just few 👌some may think Allah hate u no is a sign of love most of the time ,u won’t understand ur self right a way but one day surely u will. May Allah azawajal make it easy for all of us
Maashaallah very nice to see sisters having a discussion to help empower our mother's and sisters. May Allah swt allow the brother to become the role models for the sisters and the sisters to learn to obey their husbands and break for free from the conditioning in the West. Ameen
Alhamdulilah I found the podcast really beneficial. The point about making self care a priority. And that as a woman our role in the house is to care for others, but that also includes caring for ourself. I know it’s such a simple statement but when you’re overwhelmed with the day to day tasks, to hear that really soothes the heart. Also the point about growing up without a father and how that created a desire/builder empathy towards others. I believe this to be so true after my mum passed away (Allah yarhamha)I ‘feel’ the pain of others now in a more deeper level. I just never knew how to word it. Subhan Allah. Also the point about sisterhood and feeling isolated/lonely. Subhan Allah all mothers (to young children) that I know feel this. I liked the action point to go out your way and contact others and not wait for them to contact you. This is something that will be completely out of my comfort zone but perhaps this is what Allah wants me to do so I don’t feel so isolated. In Sha Allah khayr. One sister who also watched the podcast told me that it made her feel more sane again Subhan Allah and said she will be making Du’a for you and your family. May Allah bless you and accept it from you and Sr Fatima ❤️
Aslamalakum sisters, jazakallah khayr for this video. Could you please discuss what you do in sister halaqas? I started a small group chat with fellow sisters since I have met fellow Muslim sisters which felt like there was no beneficial Muslim groups that they can turn to who focus solely on Islam. I am from the U.S. and at university, I have been to two colleges and I am at my third university and the Muslim Student Associations here are lacking in so many aspect, they encourage mixing between genders and focus on playing games rather than focusing on learning about Islam, may Allah guide us all, so I wanted to form a group where sisters can come together in a nonjudgemental environment, connect, and learn about their deen together. I want to come together beyond the group chat so that as you said, we can form sister halaqas where it is a habit, but what can we do during sister halaqas? I was born Muslim and I am trying to gain knowledge in my deen, I just recently started wearing the niqab alhamdulillalah, but I am not a scholar and I am not an expert in any way so what can I do? This is long but inshallah you will read it, jazakallah khayr again sisters, I will make dua for your wellbeing inshallah
Gung Shim One way dear sister, is to take a book of Tafseer or Hadith like Riyadhussaliheen with commentary and go through it. On theme or section at a time to read with commentary in the Halaqah. One person each week prepares the halaqah and presents and the others listen & benefit.
@@FatimaBarkatulla Thank you sister, I did not think of this, inshallah I will do that and will try my best to start a sister halaqa. As for bringing a speaker to my university, sadly this is out of my power because I am not associated with the MSA and therefore, I do not have a connection to funding or authorization to reserve an area and request a scholar to come. Inshallah I will work on finding someone who is more knowledgeable, all of us are genuine in our niya to gain knowledge so inshallah we will acheive that one way or another. Thank you for replying sister (:
Gung Shim many sisters have halaqahs where they read Quran, translate, read the tafsir and then reflect on the verses together. Now you have great scholarly lectures on TH-cam from which you can research any verse or theme and then share that in your halaqah. You can do it!
@@FatimaBarkatulla Mashallah ukhti Fatmah and umu Talha.You have inspires me deeply and am very excited to pursue what you'ee advocating for,marriage -musliha inshaAllah. I am not a scholar but a student of deen and deeply interested in discussing issues of marriage,parenting and positive companionship inshaAllah. I live in U.S. I will appreciate getting connected with you inshaAllah
*SubhanAllaahi wa bihamdihi, ‘Adada khalqihi, wa ridhaa nafsihi, wa zinata ‘arshihi, wa midaada kalimaatihi.* ❤ *How perfect Allaah is and I praise Him by the number of His creation and His pleasure, and by the weight of His throne, and the ink of His words.* 👏 𝙍𝙚𝙘𝙞𝙩𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙨 𝙙𝙝𝙞𝙠𝙧 𝙩𝙝𝙧𝙚𝙚 𝙩𝙞𝙢𝙚𝙨 𝙞𝙨 𝙚𝙦𝙪𝙖𝙡 𝙩𝙤 𝙢𝙖𝙠𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙙𝙝𝙞𝙠𝙧 𝙛𝙤𝙧 𝙨𝙞𝙭 𝙝𝙤𝙪𝙧𝙨 🤲
Salaams Sister's MashAllah loved your real life topics very open Could you do a talk on mental abuse Marrying second time for women Marrying out side your own community And the halal way to look for a spouse jzkl
Mashaa Allah So Good To See These 2 Beautiful Women Giving Advice Well Am Not Married Yet But I Would Like To Have A Direct Source Of Umm Talha Can U Please Give Me A Source To Interact With Umm Talha.. A TH-cam Channel or any other website so that i can give few of my married sisters her Source So That May Help My Married Sisters.... Jaza Kallah Hu Khayran
Shagufta Khadeer best way to connect with Umm Talha is by attending one of Marital Arts’ events. Please look them up online. Jazakillahu khairan for the feedback!
*SubhanAllaahi wa bihamdihi, ‘Adada khalqihi, wa ridhaa nafsihi, wa zinata ‘arshihi, wa midaada kalimaatihi.* ❤ *How perfect Allaah is and I praise Him by the number of His creation and His pleasure, and by the weight of His throne, and the ink of His words.* 👏 𝙍𝙚𝙘𝙞𝙩𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙨 𝙙𝙝𝙞𝙠𝙧 𝙩𝙝𝙧𝙚𝙚 𝙩𝙞𝙢𝙚𝙨 𝙞𝙨 𝙚𝙦𝙪𝙖𝙡 𝙩𝙤 𝙢𝙖𝙠𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙙𝙝𝙞𝙠𝙧 𝙛𝙤𝙧 𝙨𝙞𝙭 𝙝𝙤𝙪𝙧𝙨 🤲
4:23 - Having a supportive spouse
5:30 - Benefits of marrying for the Deen
7:22 - Growing up as an orphan without a father figure
11:40 - Importance of circles of knowledge for women
13:04 - Helping women take care of themselves
15:30 - A good marriage requires hard work
21:40 - Self-care
29:35 - Overcoming Isolation and loneliness
31:21 - Strengthening marriages
33:41 - The 5 love languages
44:20 - Tackling problems in marriages & divorce
58:09 - Balancing Parenting & marriage
Jazakallah 4 this..
السَّلاَمُ عَلَيْكُمْ وَرَحْمَةُ اللهِ وَبَرَكَاتُهُ. Where does she doing khalaka please tell me so اِ نْ شَآ ءَ اللّهُ i can attend
@@fathimahusain2668و عليكم السلام و رحمة الله و بركاته
Check @MaritalArts on instagram. It has the information about her weekly structured study circles, on Saturday, with the times and address.
@@user-qe1mk6xk1z 786 number might be from numerology which is from judeo devil worship qabalah which they likely learned from babylonion star and devil worship captivity! sao you should fic your account!
host fatima has her friend umm talha, founder of marital arts a Muslim woman's organization trying to help marraiges, worked in home schooling, studied tajwid, spouse studied in Medina university, has an Islamic preschool!
sister says its romantic your husband is your mentor, propsed in 01. she wanted someone who can teach and not get into wrong group. and he helped her study in Egypt, sheikh of jeddah was there. says when she teaches she gives deeds to her teachers. Masha Allah she said southern and northern bengalis don't get married, i never heard of it. she said shes from north and hes from south. and said hadith is to Marry for din, its blessing you! Shes active in east london!
came to london at 5 or 6 in 85. her dad became ill and went back to Bangladesh to live last days, he passed away in 87 in Bd. she grew up as an orphan. 3 girls and 1 boy, mom widow in 30s. nothing like having a father. even Prophet peace and blessings on him grew up as an orphan made them empathy. says if someone is genuinely interested in your life they think you want good, its like a great trust. says she can help others when she can seek help. Fatima's mom's dad died before she was born. says you can't be spoiled as an orphan. you end up at others service at young age.
10,00 - umm talha went to weekly halaqa introduced by her friend, but now she teaches there and through the halaqa she met her spouse. halaqa started in 99. fatima says doing something weekly is important to refocus, rethink about Allah! umm talha says bros have jumma and many sisters can't so there needs to be a time for sisters. Prophet peace and blessings be upon him used to give time for the women! says shes been invovled in different dawa but home is an important space and if that is healthy and Islamic it develops everyone, says its head mother and wife needs to be taken care of and who takes care of her. says she takes care of her like the older sister. as saying goes don't be a candle that burns itself. her organization helps this. says the cirlce & halaqa refuels them! it sounds like a lifeline (sounds like a hard week).
ppl underest. great marriage, ppl think its just perfect ppl, but its hard work the host reminds! sister says having healthy marraige is like a healthy weight its something that takes regular input! Even Prophet peace and blessings on him marriage had conflicts. don't be in a rush to run to d word of j word(?). Many sister think they can't manage problems, sometimes marriage isn't the problem, she goes through her own personal issue. she gave advice to take care of yourself and she said i took care of myself and my marriage life got better. marriage isn't just about their relationship together but their relationship with themselves as an individual and woman should look inward as they project tbh.
20,30 - try to analyze why there are problems, before divorcing. so marital arts is to reassess. they do ramadan events, dazzle and dine and hajj and regular halaqa!
says theres self care, relationship and parenting. get into self well being! ( a Person self taken care of sees the world differently then someone unsure) whatever she does will reflected , she will be conscious parent present wife etc. like airplane scenario, take care of yourself and parent instinct says take care of others.
Surah Tahrim, save yourself and then your family from the fire. fatima was reading biography of michelle obama. she talked about her marriage. even though she seesm happy she talks marraige counseling and she had her own issues but expected her marriage to fix and blame others! spend time doing things you need to do, it will make you feeled forfilled and feel better in other relationship. says its a need and you need to make time! in Muslim community there is a sense of guilt if you do for yourself (sufism?) simetimes halaqa helps them talk to friends and says women like to talk to women and they need emotional companionship days love has different compartments! friends and children is different then spouse and says all are important! says girls together can talk about things that are different! got to make time. says despite london is big city ppl are lonely.
30,00 - Sister may want man to spend time and time is limited due to work! says others liek gfs and good Muslim sisters can help, says its a need and they feel guilty not being with kids! umm talha says give yourself time and fatima says don't need to be a martyr, lolz! umm talha says theres wedding emphasis and divorce couceling but how about whats in between! how to strengthen and nurture the relationship! says share recipe! taking guideline from Quran and Sunnah, and communication! how to build from beginning, compassion in marriage!
5 love languages, express love! book by gary chaplain christian and alot of teaching is in congruence to Quran and Sunnah. there are 5 , how communicate love! how do i feel love? Says each person has 1 or 2 dominant, and the rest are recessive!
one of her love language is gifts! others may not like it so its a blind spot. Prophet peace and blessings be upon him said give gifts and it will spread love. another is acts of service so that can help ppl appreciate it.
1. is words of affirmation! - i love you, its special etc. Prophet peace and blessings be upon him said he expressed his Love about Aisha, and then said Her Father, tying it to her!
2. spend time, quality time, not phone time. Prophet peace and blessings be upon him used to turn his whole body when talking to people!
3. (gift givings)
40,00 - 4. Kidma or acts of service, key to happy marriage is to be a team and make them feel special on the other end, make them feel dependant so they can't live without you (really? just don't make it literal) says one can attend to a husband when arrival then they want to listen! sister um talha says this works for me! then said if she needs to go out then the spouse is more happy to give into. its just human nature.
5. Is physical touch. its sacred between spouses. a companion said when we get intimate do we get a reward, he said yes, if you were to do it sinfully you would get a sin. intimacy in marraige is something highlighted, bed of roses! says one can be prudish but it has to be taken care of and problems can be from spouses feel unforfilled! fatima says its a gift from life.
and she says divorce is not being demonized and it may be needed! says it wants it to be last resort and says to take problems out of marriage in our generation it would be really bad! says family may not want them to split. says a person can have a bad day and then fight and then next day ask what its about (the other spouse may remember). so does going outside make it worse. Umm talha said satan in his sermons says those who break up marraiges says you are the one , because it opens up families to vices! says in her councel they saved 3 marraiges! says don't break marriage in first calamity, and in this society ppl are so pro divorce and sisters friends are so pro divorce (sometimes because they are lonley and single and make there girlfriend there husband acc. to some)
50,00 - marriages can have a good wider part in society, and communities are strong because family through marriages are strong! says sometimes ppl they reach out to in relationships they reach out to wrong ppl. and sister um talha says be mindful of who you tell, who can have your best interest at heart and able! keep it in confidence! it shouldnt be a tabloid where they don't care and just get a judgement, and if you stay what if you are viewed in a negative way. there are some things that can't be unsaid! and this can prevent moving on and now pushes counter productively and wanting to break a now stable marraige later on. think carefully on who to consult! mufsed (breaker vs rectifier) musleh.. um talha says saving a marriage saves a community (similar to saving a life saves humanity) kids can see marraiges as bad! they get a positive light and learn its optimizing good! girls in the event said we should start to think about marraige when she was 14 , sees how powerful it is! we have human needs and see it can be halal in marraige and sing its "praises" bwa ha.
says sometimes when a mom is a mom forgets she used to be a wife! still be an individual too. balance is key to success. talk about hadith of salman farisi and abu darda, he saw his wife shabby and asked what went on. she said your friend has no need for me, this was before hijab. Salman went to his house and said i won't eat until you eat. and then during the night told him to sleep until the last 1/3. then said your Lord, body and family has right for you. Abu Darda went to Prophet peace and blessings be upon him said , Salman spoke the truth!
1,10,00 - balance is key! Islam isn't about being a hermit, bwaha. Allah is beautiful and Loves beauty! says even women who practice should embrace feminity and this can have a good balancing effect on their daughters! and this is good modeling, time to pray and learn and socialize etc. Balance was given by Prophet peace and blessings on him! sometimes they were serious sometimes they had a good time! says there used to be good aunties, now that kind of role. even Prophet peace and blessings be upon him got a proposal from Nafisa who was confided in by Khadija Radiyallahu anha. There should be a musleha a mender!
last advice from umm talha is try to be a marriage mender. Fatima makes dua and shows end!
WA Aleikum Asalam wa Rahmtulah wa Barakatuh
Masha'Allah this was an excellent episode! Refreshing to hear punchy and powerful truths and also to see two female professionals in niqaab, definitely in need to be normalised Alhamdulillaah. Jazakillah khayran for your efforts and time :)
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Please record more of these podcasts. Loved this.
Shaz Faz what do you like most about the podcast?
@@FatimaBarkatulla The genuine advice given regarding marriage, it's open honest yet positive stance. Women do not realise how difficult marriage can be "in general" it's the day to day, mundanity, routine, loneliness, these things are never discussed yet are so so so important to discuss because we are all experiencing them at some point in our marriage, it's trying to work through these difficult moments "seeing the light at the end of the tunnel moment" that needs to be discussed. Hope I make sense, I am currently a stay at home mom of 3, youngest is 1 and I love my children with all my heart and soul, yet experiencing "losing myself" but I know with experience this is a passing moment, it won't last forever, I'm quite a strong person and remind myself "this to shall pass" JazakAllah x
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Could the sisters do another podcast on parenting and raising children in an Islamic manner as well as disciplining them in the correct manner esp as they turn into teenagers?
In west
Rizwana Ali great topic. Insha Allah will do.
More podcast from these great sisters plz insha Allah
alMuslimah 123 Jazakillahu khairan Sister. What kinds of topics would you like to hear discussed on the show in future?
Sister in Islam.I am keen to find a deendar spouse who would be my mentor and coolness of my eyes but I am afraid I lack the qualification needed for getting such spouse and mentor but indeed I trust Allah that Allah would be merciful enough to grant me a pious ,honest,loving and ideal spouse who will be coolness of my eyes and give me tawfeeq to be like that too and grant us pious offsprings.fee amanillah.please pray for me..I really want to know my deen and Quran better before dying ..I am really inspired hearing you are a Bangladeshi.I am Bangladeshi too.
Keep praying this supplication!
Rabbana Hablana minn azwaajina wazuriyyathi kurathaa aayunniwaj allna lill muthakeena imaama!
Pray this in sajood 3 x after your Salah.
MaShaaAllah. She is from Bangladesh 🇧🇩, my homeland. Take love sister 💕
Allahumma barik, nice to see sisters podcast. 💞
33:41 Masha Allah great discussion by Sisters
5 love language is beautifully described .
Salam from India
Alhamdulillah. She was in perfect hizab, not like other fashion hizabist!!
Mashallah☺️
Why do muslims always shame other muslim. Give her the compliment and leave it at that. People’s level of iman varies from low to high, and that is between them and their Lord Allah(swtk).
@@khadijafulan8308 really good point
@@khadijafulan8308 agree with you completely. When it comes to women's hijab, ppl just wanna point it out.
she choose to cover her face..but not manditory.
May Allah make our husbands our mentor 😭😭😭
you should aim to be your husbands mentor
AMAZING. .....MUSLIM WOMEN NEED MORE KNOWLEDE IN THESE DAYS
Amin, brothers teach women in their fam and vice versa and understand each other and know about the bad in your area and use your sunnah and modesty as a guide!
Pain , strangling live tests are blessings from Allah that makes u understand other people pain and tried to help. But not everyone can understand when u have been tested every day just few 👌some may think Allah hate u no is a sign of love most of the time ,u won’t understand ur self right a way but one day surely u will. May Allah azawajal make it easy for all of us
Mashaa Allah ! Very useful !
Keep up the good work !
May Allah reward you with all good.
Let's talk in Arabic ツ ameen & you too
@@FatimaBarkatulla Ameen
Maasha Allah so happy to see this video . Jazaka Allahu khayr sisters.
rasmi r do share it with friends & family!
Need more informative podcasts like these Allahuma Barik
Maashaallah very nice to see sisters having a discussion to help empower our mother's and sisters.
May Allah swt allow the brother to become the role models for the sisters and the sisters to learn to obey their husbands and break for free from the conditioning in the West. Ameen
Alhamdulilah I found the podcast really beneficial.
The point about making self care a priority. And that as a woman our role in the house is to care for others, but that also includes caring for ourself. I know it’s such a simple statement but when you’re overwhelmed with the day to day tasks, to hear that really soothes the heart.
Also the point about growing up without a father and how that created a desire/builder empathy towards others. I believe this to be so true after my mum passed away (Allah yarhamha)I ‘feel’ the pain of others now in a more deeper level. I just never knew how to word it. Subhan Allah.
Also the point about sisterhood and feeling isolated/lonely. Subhan Allah all mothers (to young children) that I know feel this. I liked the action point to go out your way and contact others and not wait for them to contact you. This is something that will be completely out of my comfort zone but perhaps this is what Allah wants me to do so I don’t feel so isolated. In Sha Allah khayr.
One sister who also watched the podcast told me that it made her feel more sane again Subhan Allah and said she will be making Du’a for you and your family.
May Allah bless you and accept it from you and Sr Fatima ❤️
Hanaa Ibtes Jazakillahu khairan Sister! Do share with family & friends.
Wa iyaaki. Yes in sha Allah
Wow..She is Bangladeshi!!
This was such a refreshing talk to listen to, I really enjoyed everything you talked about and the genuine advice you gave
JazakAllah so productive.i inshallah am soon going to marry.
JazakAllah one of the best podcasts i listened to.
JazakAllah u both.
Alhamdulillah, I studied with ustaz abu Talhah. Interesting podcast. Insightful.
Subhanallah!what a great episode...
Thank you dera syster
Very important conversation
Really really benefcial....especially the last part....JazakAllahu khair ilmfeed
Mohd. Yasir Amin what in particular did you benefit from in the last part?
Good idea
Aslamalakum sisters, jazakallah khayr for this video. Could you please discuss what you do in sister halaqas?
I started a small group chat with fellow sisters since I have met fellow Muslim sisters which felt like there was no beneficial Muslim groups that they can turn to who focus solely on Islam. I am from the U.S. and at university, I have been to two colleges and I am at my third university and the Muslim Student Associations here are lacking in so many aspect, they encourage mixing between genders and focus on playing games rather than focusing on learning about Islam, may Allah guide us all, so I wanted to form a group where sisters can come together in a nonjudgemental environment, connect, and learn about their deen together. I want to come together beyond the group chat so that as you said, we can form sister halaqas where it is a habit, but what can we do during sister halaqas? I was born Muslim and I am trying to gain knowledge in my deen, I just recently started wearing the niqab alhamdulillalah, but I am not a scholar and I am not an expert in any way so what can I do?
This is long but inshallah you will read it, jazakallah khayr again sisters, I will make dua for your wellbeing inshallah
Gung Shim One way dear sister, is to take a book of Tafseer or Hadith like Riyadhussaliheen with commentary and go through it. On theme or section at a time to read with commentary in the Halaqah. One person each week prepares the halaqah and presents and the others listen & benefit.
Gung Shim You could also try to find a more knowledgeable person to come in to uni and give talks regularly.
@@FatimaBarkatulla Thank you sister, I did not think of this, inshallah I will do that and will try my best to start a sister halaqa. As for bringing a speaker to my university, sadly this is out of my power because I am not associated with the MSA and therefore, I do not have a connection to funding or authorization to reserve an area and request a scholar to come. Inshallah I will work on finding someone who is more knowledgeable, all of us are genuine in our niya to gain knowledge so inshallah we will acheive that one way or another. Thank you for replying sister (:
Gung Shim many sisters have halaqahs where they read Quran, translate, read the tafsir and then reflect on the verses together. Now you have great scholarly lectures on TH-cam from which you can research any verse or theme and then share that in your halaqah. You can do it!
@@FatimaBarkatulla Mashallah ukhti Fatmah and umu Talha.You have inspires me deeply and am very excited to pursue what you'ee advocating for,marriage -musliha inshaAllah. I am not a scholar but a student of deen and deeply interested in discussing issues of marriage,parenting and positive companionship inshaAllah. I live in U.S. I will appreciate getting connected with you inshaAllah
MASHA ALLAH
I love this so much
Barack’Allah oufik❤️❤️❤️
Wa laikum slam dear Fatima
Soul Ease hope you benefit... do share with your friends and family!
@@FatimaBarkatulla In Sha Allah zrur
I like your channel all programmes
Ma Sha Allah
Hear is a great inspirational n motivational talks.
The peace be upon you ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Wa ‘alaykum as-salaam!
*SubhanAllaahi wa bihamdihi, ‘Adada khalqihi, wa ridhaa nafsihi, wa zinata ‘arshihi, wa midaada kalimaatihi.*
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*How perfect Allaah is and I praise Him by the number of His creation and His pleasure, and by the weight of His throne, and the ink of His words.*
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𝙍𝙚𝙘𝙞𝙩𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙨 𝙙𝙝𝙞𝙠𝙧 𝙩𝙝𝙧𝙚𝙚 𝙩𝙞𝙢𝙚𝙨 𝙞𝙨 𝙚𝙦𝙪𝙖𝙡 𝙩𝙤 𝙢𝙖𝙠𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙙𝙝𝙞𝙠𝙧 𝙛𝙤𝙧 𝙨𝙞𝙭 𝙝𝙤𝙪𝙧𝙨
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Thank you. Boost your sound plz.
Salaams
Sister's MashAllah loved your real life topics very open
Could you do a talk on mental abuse
Marrying second time for women
Marrying out side your own community
And the halal way to look for a spouse jzkl
Yasmin Raje Jazakillahu khairan for the feedback! Will definitely take your suggestions into consideration.
@ilmfeed can you please share a bit about his husband?
Glory to be Allah ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
MashaAllah may Allah bless you all
Very nice talk....do more sessions
Waalaikum assalam Warahmatullahi wabarakatahu.Alhamdulillah.Aameen.Waiyyakum.Subhanallah.Tabarakallah.
Ma Sha Allah. Subhan Allah. Such a beautiful person to be a wife to.
جزاك اللهُ خيرًا
MashaAllah ☺️❤️
I want to ask umme talha how is it possible to carry herself in parda in UK what problems she face?
if you have allah with you dodn't need to worry at all
Mashaa Allah
So Good To See These 2 Beautiful Women Giving Advice
Well Am Not Married Yet But I Would Like To Have A Direct Source Of Umm Talha
Can U Please Give Me A Source To Interact With Umm Talha..
A TH-cam Channel or any other website so that i can give few of my married sisters her Source
So That May Help My Married Sisters....
Jaza Kallah Hu Khayran
Shagufta Khadeer best way to connect with Umm Talha is by attending one of Marital Arts’ events. Please look them up online. Jazakillahu khairan for the feedback!
Where do these women live?? I mean from which country this program is going on??
England
*SubhanAllaahi wa bihamdihi, ‘Adada khalqihi, wa ridhaa nafsihi, wa zinata ‘arshihi, wa midaada kalimaatihi.*
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*How perfect Allaah is and I praise Him by the number of His creation and His pleasure, and by the weight of His throne, and the ink of His words.*
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𝙍𝙚𝙘𝙞𝙩𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙨 𝙙𝙝𝙞𝙠𝙧 𝙩𝙝𝙧𝙚𝙚 𝙩𝙞𝙢𝙚𝙨 𝙞𝙨 𝙚𝙦𝙪𝙖𝙡 𝙩𝙤 𝙢𝙖𝙠𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙙𝙝𝙞𝙠𝙧 𝙛𝙤𝙧 𝙨𝙞𝙭 𝙝𝙤𝙪𝙧𝙨
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