It explains things most guys don’t think about. I also learned a lot from reading a book called Flirtosphere Seduction by Vexoner. The book helped me understand women better and feel more confident. Combining tips from videos like this and the book really made a difference for me.
Just try lowering your standards and and it will be much easier cause I used to like girls that were way prettier than me and they didn't like me but once I did that It worked.
I grew up in private school and without any friends until 7th grade, I had no experience talking to anyone nor did I have confidence. Now I’m in 8th grade and I’m working on myself :)
Can relate as a sophomore right now. Don’t lose hope man, work on your goals/dreams, and they’ll give you purpose. And don’t lose faith, these someone for everyone. Keep grinding
Im literally single, not in a friend group, not having a girlfriend, not going out at all, only video games make me feel good and the A grades that i get. I believe that one day i will be above everyone of my class, because im sure that i will get a nice job. I dont vape or smoke and i will never do it. The smoke just makes me suffocate. Also i never even get out in my classroom between the classes. The only thing that i want is to play video games with someone like me. I had a crush one time and i hate myself about that. Every time i get reminded i rage hard. I never cared about style, clothing.
@theprogamer2490 That's nice you're caring about your grades, but I think that enjoying only videogames is an issue. In my opinion you should also join some kind of friend group and get into sports of some sort (you didn't mention any sports) - trust me, if you get into it, you won't regret. With a lifestyle like this you might never get a girlfriend. I'm not an expert but once I was in that situation you are now. I got sick of it, stared doing sports, going to the gym, drawing, making music, going out with my friends and guess what - I am the happiest I've ever been in my life, everything changed. I wish you all the best and also Merry Christmas! And I want an update on your situation!
14 here, ive been told i shouldnt have a girlfriend at such a young age, which im thinking i probably should have a girlfriend. But all my friends my age have a girlfriend and they kind of put me out of the group for not having one.
at 14, having a gf and still being together after just 18 is very very rare, simply because of maturity, you shouldn’t let this get to you and instead focus on the things you currently have now. Furthermore, if your friends are making you left out just because you don’t have a gf might indicate that they aren’t truly friends, you gotta find people who make you feel welcome, whether you have a gf or not, whether they have a gf or not
If I where to try to talk to a girl I'd get called gross or emberising or ugly or just get called ugly... or that's what I think would happen. And that's not why I hide my face, but sometimes I just hate how I look.
@tiny_dinosaur2946 hey bro, I don't know you but I do have advice for you, back in 8th grade I used to have the lowest confidence used to be scared to talk to girls I was the shortest in my school and I only weight 90 lbs, I started working out at the gym learning about self improvement and now 2 and a half years later I gained so much confidence, I got my dream physic and I learned to talk to girls too, if you do read this and have a question about anything please ask I would love to help you get on track
just so u guys know I met this girl who I really liked but it didn't work out and honestly I was sad for months but seriously just wait till u find someone who likes u too and find something that u can do on ur own that makes u happy (that's not video games or social media) and wait till u find the right girl
I just know that I’ll never find the right girl for me, I I like this one girl but I really don’t know what to do or say and I feel like I’ll never find the right one for me
I haven't had a single date or gone out with someone. The times I have talked to the girl I liked only ended up hurting me more. I feel like I can't relate to anyone, and it takes a lot for me to trust someone.
I have a kind of similar story. Haven’t really told anyone the full story other than my close friends about it really. There was a girl I met when I was 14 through my geography class which I sat next to her in. Sat next to her for a whole year. I wasn’t exactly a popular kid but I was friends with a couple of well known people so we had some mutuals. She was pretty popular as well, popular enough that I knew her long before she knew me. She had a boyfriend the whole time I sat next to her until the very end of the school year. Around a month before school ended, she started snapping me out of nowhere. We’d talked before on Snapchat, but never anything serious. She would text me literally every day. I knew she had a boyfriend, who was a pretty big asshole, so I didn’t get my hopes up too much. Then, just a week or two into summer break, the two broke up. She texted me that whole night saying shit like how she hated him and wished she never was with him and I just agreed (as you do.) From there she would start texting me even more, she would even say things like how she wished I was in Greece with her when she was on holiday. I’d never had a ‘talking stage’ with a girl before so I had no idea what to do or say. I was going off my friends’ advice, all of which had girlfriends or did at one point. Anyway, I started asking her things like did she want to meet or did she want to call or stuff like that. She’d always say stuff like ‘omg we should do this together’ and send me pics of stuff so I was like sure why not. None of that ever happened. Once the next year of school started, I didn’t see her as much since I no longer had her in some of my classes. I still texted her now and again but I started to lose hope since she barely replied to me at all. To make matters worse I kept asking things like ‘are you okay did I do something wrong’ which wasn’t helping. She got another boyfriend a few months after that. I still spoke to her, but she was a completely different person to the girl I met. The new boyfriend didn’t last long either, only around 6 months. From that point, I never really moved on. I would always think about texting her and sometimes I’d even follow through with it. There was a time in early 2024 where I was actually decently close with her again but it didn’t lead anywhere obviously. I was really making any progress towards letting go of her. She was the only person I’d ever felt a true connection with and it was most likely just her distracting herself from her shitty relationship. Anyway, that happened mostly when I was 14 and im a few months away from being 18 now. I haven’t spoken to her in about 7/8 months but I still see her around at school quite often. I think im pretty much over it now but it’s hard for me say. All my friends say ‘oh just move on, get with another girl’ but for someone like me it’s really not easy. I overthink everything and have zero confidence in myself so most of the time I just don’t bother trying. I’ve been single my entire life and im scared I’ll make it to 18 with that statement. I want to do better for myself but I don’t know where to start. I float in and out of the gym because I like working on myself but sometimes I just lack the motivation. I just feel like it isn’t worth it. But what scares me more than never finding the right girl is finding the right girl but not being ready or it. And I think that’s the lesson ive learnt from all this. Even if you find the perfect person, you might not be ready enough to take the opportunity. So always work on yourself and that person will find you.
Hey bro, I don't usually comment or reply here but I feel your story man and seems like you're a really good guy. Honestly, I feel like if you truly like her you should send her this and tell her how you truly feel. I had a similar experience where I lost touch with a girl but after messaging her again after many months explaining everything it all worked out in the end. You got this bro :)
Man i wish i had high school like yours yk. Some people are just lucky to be in these big and more rich high schools that actually has ton of people to talk to and overall meet and shit. In mine almost everyone smokes, vapes and yk. It feels so empty.
5:10 seeing a lot of people you know/ from your school outside of school feels like paradise, gives such a fresh highschool movie good vibes type of vibes lol, wish I had more like these but this year I did have a lot of moments like this, crazy thing is how mixed my year went because I don't reallly remember that much from it but a lot has been from this year - 12th grade, it feels like last year because the holidays were very long, weird feeling weird year and a very important one in my life too, jan 21 2025
Good for you dude. Ask her/him out. The worst that can happen is rejection, and at least you know. Realistically the most important thing is personality, so get to know them and then ask them out!
I’m 20 now never had a girlfriend never been on a date still a virgin been trying to play the game I haven’t been playing hard enough and I haven’t been bold enough
My relationship status: Has a crush: Yes Has hope: Some Confidence: Not much Signs if interest from crush: • Making small talk • Smiling and saying hello • Giving me looks • Asking for help with things Side note: None of the above have to indicate romantic attraction, but very well could
Hey Dillon! I'm a 13y male and I just want to say that your content has helped me a lot with friendships, struggles, depression, anxiety, and other things. Thank you so much for all the things you've done and I hope you continue making videos. 🔥 love you
Dude. I’m 31 and you’re wayyyy ahead of where most people my age were at 13. Thank God for TH-cam and the internet bro. When I was 13 I was playing video games and lost in my own little world.
I lacked self confidence and never could talk to girls, all of my friends have girlfriends already and I felt embarrassed. At around 6th grade my friend got his girlfriend, the first one. I said whatever, I had a crush on this on girl but thought she was WAY too far out of my league, I went into a small depression because I was disappointed on how I looked, my sweater was barely fitting me in old photos. Do later I joined the school sports, I lost 30 pounds and was at an all time high in 8th. 4 other friends with 4 other girls, still I had my eyes set on my crush. She was then dating another guy, another small depression… I was starting to talk to a different girl, one that I now view as more than a friend. She went with me to a school festival and we vibed, we were having a blast. But the December of 8th grade I realized that she dated half of my friend group. I went into the great girl depression and didn’t know what to do, get with her as my first girlfriend and get laughed at when we break up or don’t and wait longer. I also figured out she developed feelings for me at the exact same festival in the exact same way. Present time(1 month later) and I need help.
That sounds exactly like me… There’s this girl I’ve never talked to, and she’s not even in the same class as me, but I find her really attractive. I can’t stop thinking about her ever since the first day of school (back in September). The thing is, I’m too scared to make a move or try talking to her-I have no idea how to even start because I’ve never done anything like that before. Maybe, like you, it’s just not the right time for me yet. (I’m 15)
Look man, just grow some balls and approach her man, dont overthink shit brother just go up to her when it seems like the right time. If she rejects you or anything just deal with it, you dont need no bitch to be happy dawg, work on yourself in the gym or something cuz at the end of the day only you and God matter in your life. Ik it hurtz like shit if you do get rejected and the 'idgaf' mindset is hard to have, but try your best, either way youll gain knowledge.
I gotchu. “yo wsp I don’t think I’ve talked to you yet. What’s your name?” *they say their name* “You don’t look like a *their name*” *they ask what they look like* “My type”
@@glide325real alr ty but isn’t it too direct I’d like to build a little friendship with her before I go straight to ask her out, i wanna see if her personality matches with mine
15 years old here, my mate left me after 5 months of relationship because he grew affection to another girl. We kept contact because we decided to stay friends after the break up but a month later, he gets rejected by the same girl, i didn't want to go back to him at first but the day i was ready to ask him out again, he told me he got a 3rd girl. That's 3 girls in less than a year, while i've been trying to get someone for months and no results. i gave up and now i believe love does NOT exist :)
My problem isn’t confidence, I asked a girl to hoco and she said yes, but most people don’t get my sense of humor/personality unless they know me super well. So I’ve often come across as mean or weird. So anyone I end up with ends up leaving because I’m too awkward or weird. But my close friends say I’m chill, and a “nonchalant dread head” and I think I’m considered attractive.
There's a book called Flirtosphere Seduction by Vexoner and it talks from body language and conversation starters to dark mind tricks and flirting through texts, it's the real deal
You want to know what’s crazy for me as a teenager it’s gotten to the point where I don’t care about being rejected because it’s happened so much I’m more used to being rejected the actually knowing someone that likes me and the worst part is is that so many people like me but I don’t like them
Well, i can imagine how hard is that bro, but i can tell that you are not ugly, so no offense, but the problem must be your confidence or the way you talk to them. It's hard to tell you 100% surelly what's the problem since i don't know you, but i'm pretty sure, it must be that.
@ I was homeschooled and sent to a fundamentalist Christian school, commuted for college and parents wouldn’t list me date until into my 20s. Now I don’t know how to meet women or even make friends. Cults are bad.
@@thomascraig6814 That's understandable, but simply, it's about confidence and respect, when you talk to a girl, you can just simply walk to a girl on street and just be open, tell her that you like how she looks ask for her name and ask if she would like to go somewhere with you. I know it might be hard, since you have not dated a girl before, but you have nothing to lose.
I’m in 7th grade and unlike many of these story’s I feel pretty confident. I don’t think that I’m ugly. I’m often talking to girls but it never ever feels like they’re reciprocating that interest. Iv been told that I’m funny and pretty good looking compared to some of the other guys at my school and I don’t disagree, I’ve just never had a girl feel the same way or like me. I’m not mean and the only reason that I can imagine this being about is that I’m pretty short and I used to be really ugly, but I’m not anymore. Someone give me your thoughts.
I was in a relationship with this cute girl that asked me out and she left me because her parents forced her to.Am single right now but it doesn't really bother me anymore I handled it pretty well when she texted me that she had to break up with me
I have this 10/10 girl who keeps looking at me and smiles at me but whenever I talk to her, she blushes and stuff like that but at the sometime my generation just acts like she hates me around other people and I can't find 2 flying ducks if she likes me or not? She acts like she likes me when it's just us 2 but when there's other people she acts like she hates me? Shes single and I don't know what to do. Any advice please middle school is a ducked-up place so please any advice please!
im 18, never asked a girl out only ever been cold aproached and I fumbled them every time once by literraly hiding behind my friends. Now that im mature I relise how pathetic I was and still am. I genuinly have no more easy ways of meeting girls.
The tip is to do your best focus on big life goals and get girls later I’ve dated 3 girls in the course of a year and I don’t like it at all yeah sure ppl say I’m attractive and I pull “baddies” but ya’ll gotta realize that dating shit is literally being pushed on my little sister now and she’s in 5th grade yet there’s no one dating in 9th grade at all it’s taken a huge tole on kids lives and heartbreak ruins lives trust me because you’re either gonna be disciplined enough to work hard and achieve great things and party later or party now date girls and sit by doing nothing then scramble out of the hole you’re in to make success it’s not worth it I know people who’ve been there
I just told my crush I liked her which was a big deal for me because she was one of my best friends and I didn’t want to ruin that. She ended up likeing me back which is amazing but now I don’t know what I should do. I don’t know whether to ask her on a date, talk about what is going on between us or something. I’m just confused
I had liked a girl had her number she ended up getting a boyfriend and completely changed to the point I went up to said boyfriend and told him I had deleted her number. I ended up deleting her number because I was “staking her” I wasn’t I was legit just walking around and some how I was “stalking her” so yeah the one person I thought was nice and thing turned out to be an asshole.
So basically I have a crush on that one girl that is really attractive and she is always super nice to me, and on the last school trip my 'buds' told her that. After all of that i heard that she felt sorry about me being treated by the guys in my class like that. I really want to hit on her but dont know how and especially because she almost has a bf. Can anyone help me with this and give me some advise pls?
I've always had trouble talking to girls, no matter how many vids of this kind I watch, I can never flirt or attract a girl I like, so I quit, ya, I quit flirting with girls. now I just talk to each as 'just another one of them'😑😑😑😑😑
I am in middle school i can talk to girls and i am very nice to them but i am just scared to ask them because of how girls reject boys now like making fun of you and that will make your self esteem at a all time low which would be bad for me because my mom and dad divorced then my dad got with a toxic girl that made him an abusive alchoholic and was mean to me and my brothers and we could not get him out of this relationship until we got with cps or child protective services and told them what was wrong and that got my dad out of it and also divorced her and now my dad has a good job and has been sober for over a year Sorry for venting but i have not really talked about this
14 years old, and I need help with relationships, there is one girl in my school that it's smart and pretty, I really like her, but I just haven't spoken too much with her, we have been locking eyes with eachother, and there was a day that we were locking eyes and she blushed and giggled, I think that she likes me a little, but at the same time I don't know. If anyone could help me by giving me tips of what to do, please comment 👇 Thank you if you read until here (and sorry if I got some words wrong, it's because english it's not my mother language)
Honestly just be yourself if she likes you she likes you if she doesn't like you she doesn't like you win win either way because if she doesn't like you because of you just being you she's not for you, If I were you I'd just go for it maybe try to be friends with her too if I were you, but good luck you got this
It explains things most guys don’t think about. I also learned a lot from reading a book called Flirtosphere Seduction by Vexoner. The book helped me understand women better and feel more confident. Combining tips from videos like this and the book really made a difference for me.
I really needed this 🙏🏼
Me to bro
me to
These videos are useful, fun and informative at the same time! Keep making these Dillon
No its not. Its not fun nor "informative." Times have changed SOOOO much. Kids dont need this bullshit sappy shit.
@RickyRat8755 another internet device in wrong hands, go to bed lil timmy
Almost 18 now. Never been on a date. Been rejected over 20 times. There is no hope 🙃
Don't chase but attract
I feel you
I’m 23 and I’ve never really had much luck with girlfriends!
Don't lose hope you will find the right one, one day
Just try lowering your standards and and it will be much easier cause I used to like girls that were way prettier than me and they didn't like me but once I did that It worked.
I grew up in private school and without any friends until 7th grade, I had no experience talking to anyone nor did I have confidence. Now I’m in 8th grade and I’m working on myself :)
I was in public school and got put into private at high. Lets just say im kinda shy there bc i dont know anyone.
W tho
@@GhosthammerGames Man I Feel You
Can relate as a sophomore right now. Don’t lose hope man, work on your goals/dreams, and they’ll give you purpose. And don’t lose faith, these someone for everyone. Keep grinding
exact same thing happened to me
Yesss dillon don't panic stop worrying that your missing out.... there's loads more out there
Im literally single, not in a friend group, not having a girlfriend, not going out at all, only video games make me feel good and the A grades that i get. I believe that one day i will be above everyone of my class, because im sure that i will get a nice job. I dont vape or smoke and i will never do it. The smoke just makes me suffocate. Also i never even get out in my classroom between the classes. The only thing that i want is to play video games with someone like me. I had a crush one time and i hate myself about that. Every time i get reminded i rage hard. I never cared about style, clothing.
@theprogamer2490 That's nice you're caring about your grades, but I think that enjoying only videogames is an issue. In my opinion you should also join some kind of friend group and get into sports of some sort (you didn't mention any sports) - trust me, if you get into it, you won't regret. With a lifestyle like this you might never get a girlfriend. I'm not an expert but once I was in that situation you are now. I got sick of it, stared doing sports, going to the gym, drawing, making music, going out with my friends and guess what - I am the happiest I've ever been in my life, everything changed. I wish you all the best and also Merry Christmas! And I want an update on your situation!
@EnterSpaceOff Thank you for phrasing that way better than I could lol
Dude this gave me so much hope. Now I have so much more confidence and think I’m not ugly ☺️
😁
14 here, ive been told i shouldnt have a girlfriend at such a young age, which im thinking i probably should have a girlfriend. But all my friends my age have a girlfriend and they kind of put me out of the group for not having one.
at 14, having a gf and still being together after just 18 is very very rare, simply because of maturity, you shouldn’t let this get to you and instead focus on the things you currently have now. Furthermore, if your friends are making you left out just because you don’t have a gf might indicate that they aren’t truly friends, you gotta find people who make you feel welcome, whether you have a gf or not, whether they have a gf or not
same bro i want girlfriend so bad and i tried but it didnt work and she declaine me ofc😭😭😭
If I where to try to talk to a girl I'd get called gross or emberising or ugly or just get called ugly... or that's what I think would happen. And that's not why I hide my face, but sometimes I just hate how I look.
@tiny_dinosaur2946 hey bro, I don't know you but I do have advice for you, back in 8th grade I used to have the lowest confidence used to be scared to talk to girls I was the shortest in my school and I only weight 90 lbs, I started working out at the gym learning about self improvement and now 2 and a half years later I gained so much confidence, I got my dream physic and I learned to talk to girls too, if you do read this and have a question about anything please ask I would love to help you get on track
@@MrSmile-312 Thats your problem. Your chasing sex.
This one girl man, she won’t leave my head
9:04 "Oppa Gangnam Style" 😂😂😂
Step 1: Find a girl (clicks off because its impossible for me XD)
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Clicks off but comments on this video 😂. Dw ik its a joke guys😊
it’s easy my girl came to me you just gotta wait it’s worth it trust me my guy
Dude i got impressed by your story ! you did manly thing at 15 !❤❤❤
just so u guys know I met this girl who I really liked but it didn't work out and honestly I was sad for months
but seriously just wait till u find someone who likes u too and find something that u can do on ur own that makes u happy (that's not video games or social media) and wait till u find the right girl
the minecraft music in the background is so calming
I agree
13:11 blud sold the bag😭😭
Bro did the equivalent of selling your house for 2 cents
she was for the streets lowk
Bro literally confidence is the only thing u need and all it takes is practice. 10 seconds of confidence = several weeks, months, years of happiness.
That "emptiness" thing at the end is God
No its not.
Shhhhh lil boy. We aint all part of a cult
@Footy13s Shhhh lil boy. We aint all scientologists
@ Scientologist, bore off
@ what...
I just know that I’ll never find the right girl for me, I I like this one girl but I really don’t know what to do or say and I feel like I’ll never find the right one for me
Axe body spray sold the bag
What is axe body spray?
@Footy13s deodorant/ body spray
@ Oh, never heard of it
Its lynx spray everywhere else like here in ireland so maybe you know lynx
3:14 A SCHOOL IN CZECH REPUBLIC YEEES
Prostě cz nejlepší
I haven't had a single date or gone out with someone. The times I have talked to the girl I liked only ended up hurting me more. I feel like I can't relate to anyone, and it takes a lot for me to trust someone.
I have a kind of similar story. Haven’t really told anyone the full story other than my close friends about it really. There was a girl I met when I was 14 through my geography class which I sat next to her in. Sat next to her for a whole year. I wasn’t exactly a popular kid but I was friends with a couple of well known people so we had some mutuals. She was pretty popular as well, popular enough that I knew her long before she knew me. She had a boyfriend the whole time I sat next to her until the very end of the school year.
Around a month before school ended, she started snapping me out of nowhere. We’d talked before on Snapchat, but never anything serious. She would text me literally every day. I knew she had a boyfriend, who was a pretty big asshole, so I didn’t get my hopes up too much.
Then, just a week or two into summer break, the two broke up. She texted me that whole night saying shit like how she hated him and wished she never was with him and I just agreed (as you do.) From there she would start texting me even more, she would even say things like how she wished I was in Greece with her when she was on holiday. I’d never had a ‘talking stage’ with a girl before so I had no idea what to do or say. I was going off my friends’ advice, all of which had girlfriends or did at one point.
Anyway, I started asking her things like did she want to meet or did she want to call or stuff like that. She’d always say stuff like ‘omg we should do this together’ and send me pics of stuff so I was like sure why not. None of that ever happened.
Once the next year of school started, I didn’t see her as much since I no longer had her in some of my classes. I still texted her now and again but I started to lose hope since she barely replied to me at all. To make matters worse I kept asking things like ‘are you okay did I do something wrong’ which wasn’t helping.
She got another boyfriend a few months after that. I still spoke to her, but she was a completely different person to the girl I met. The new boyfriend didn’t last long either, only around 6 months.
From that point, I never really moved on. I would always think about texting her and sometimes I’d even follow through with it. There was a time in early 2024 where I was actually decently close with her again but it didn’t lead anywhere obviously. I was really making any progress towards letting go of her. She was the only person I’d ever felt a true connection with and it was most likely just her distracting herself from her shitty relationship.
Anyway, that happened mostly when I was 14 and im a few months away from being 18 now. I haven’t spoken to her in about 7/8 months but I still see her around at school quite often. I think im pretty much over it now but it’s hard for me say. All my friends say ‘oh just move on, get with another girl’ but for someone like me it’s really not easy. I overthink everything and have zero confidence in myself so most of the time I just don’t bother trying.
I’ve been single my entire life and im scared I’ll make it to 18 with that statement. I want to do better for myself but I don’t know where to start. I float in and out of the gym because I like working on myself but sometimes I just lack the motivation. I just feel like it isn’t worth it.
But what scares me more than never finding the right girl is finding the right girl but not being ready or it. And I think that’s the lesson ive learnt from all this. Even if you find the perfect person, you might not be ready enough to take the opportunity. So always work on yourself and that person will find you.
Hey bro, I don't usually comment or reply here but I feel your story man and seems like you're a really good guy. Honestly, I feel like if you truly like her you should send her this and tell her how you truly feel. I had a similar experience where I lost touch with a girl but after messaging her again after many months explaining everything it all worked out in the end. You got this bro :)
The way bro just got so excited when he started talking about that girl is hilarious😂
No one is ugly but some peoble think they are
I am one of those people
@@MouhammedChafai2007 im right there with you
@@Cole_B-v4i wow, at least I'm not alone here
Nah, there's definitely ugly people.
Nah bruh I’m ugly as fuvk
Man i wish i had high school like yours yk. Some people are just lucky to be in these big and more rich high schools that actually has ton of people to talk to and overall meet and shit. In mine almost everyone smokes, vapes and yk. It feels so empty.
Yea everyone vapes in my school like breath air
@memesLordyt are you in middle school?
@@RitamSengupta-vo7ly maybe if I was in England or America but Scotland doesn't have middle schools it's only high school and primary
@memesLordyt Are you in S6?
@@RitamSengupta-vo7ly nope s2 in Scottish schools
What were "Marissa's" intentions if she had a boyfriend?
head😊
Prick teaser
the im drunk in nyc video hit hard
0:24 caught me off guard (ifykyk)
💀💀💀
Broooo I was like YOOO WAIT WAIT WAIT WAIT WAIT 😭
HOW HARD IS IT NOT TO LIKE KIDS BRUH
Brick by brick
5:10 seeing a lot of people you know/ from your school outside of school feels like paradise, gives such a fresh highschool movie good vibes type of vibes lol, wish I had more like these but this year I did have a lot of moments like this, crazy thing is how mixed my year went because I don't reallly remember that much from it but a lot has been from this year - 12th grade, it feels like last year because the holidays were very long, weird feeling weird year and a very important one in my life too, jan 21 2025
14:00 that emptiness feeling is the need for Jesus Christ. Repent and believe in the gospel
Amen!
Amen
No its not but ok.
@RickyRat8755 i think it is
@PaulieZaharopoulos ok
I've had a crush who I couldn't talk to but the good part was that I maintained discipline in workingout and I began to improve myself as a human
Good for you dude. Ask her/him out. The worst that can happen is rejection, and at least you know. Realistically the most important thing is personality, so get to know them and then ask them out!
The new videos you post hit different
My story 😂 literally me 😅 I needed this😢 thank you 😭
I’m 20 now never had a girlfriend never been on a date still a virgin been trying to play the game I haven’t been playing hard enough and I haven’t been bold enough
My relationship status:
Has a crush: Yes
Has hope: Some
Confidence: Not much
Signs if interest from crush:
• Making small talk
• Smiling and saying hello
• Giving me looks
• Asking for help with things
Side note: None of the above have to indicate romantic attraction, but very well could
I had a really bad breakup at 15. I've been single for 7 years now.
Hey Dillon! I'm a 13y male and I just want to say that your content has helped me a lot with friendships, struggles, depression, anxiety, and other things. Thank you so much for all the things you've done and I hope you continue making videos. 🔥 love you
Hey Im 13 too
Same
Dude. I’m 31 and you’re wayyyy ahead of where most people my age were at 13. Thank God for TH-cam and the internet bro. When I was 13 I was playing video games and lost in my own little world.
@@thomascraig6814 Thank you!
He isn’t 13 though…
I lacked self confidence and never could talk to girls, all of my friends have girlfriends already and I felt embarrassed. At around 6th grade my friend got his girlfriend, the first one. I said whatever, I had a crush on this on girl but thought she was WAY too far out of my league, I went into a small depression because I was disappointed on how I looked, my sweater was barely fitting me in old photos. Do later I joined the school sports, I lost 30 pounds and was at an all time high in 8th. 4 other friends with 4 other girls, still I had my eyes set on my crush. She was then dating another guy, another small depression… I was starting to talk to a different girl, one that I now view as more than a friend. She went with me to a school festival and we vibed, we were having a blast. But the December of 8th grade I realized that she dated half of my friend group. I went into the great girl depression and didn’t know what to do, get with her as my first girlfriend and get laughed at when we break up or don’t and wait longer. I also figured out she developed feelings for me at the exact same festival in the exact same way. Present time(1 month later) and I need help.
That sounds exactly like me…
There’s this girl I’ve never talked to, and she’s not even in the same class as me, but I find her really attractive. I can’t stop thinking about her ever since the first day of school (back in September).
The thing is, I’m too scared to make a move or try talking to her-I have no idea how to even start because I’ve never done anything like that before. Maybe, like you, it’s just not the right time for me yet. (I’m 15)
Look man, just grow some balls and approach her man, dont overthink shit brother just go up to her when it seems like the right time. If she rejects you or anything just deal with it, you dont need no bitch to be happy dawg, work on yourself in the gym or something cuz at the end of the day only you and God matter in your life. Ik it hurtz like shit if you do get rejected and the 'idgaf' mindset is hard to have, but try your best, either way youll gain knowledge.
I gotchu. “yo wsp I don’t think I’ve talked to you yet. What’s your name?”
*they say their name*
“You don’t look like a *their name*”
*they ask what they look like*
“My type”
Then ask for their number
@@glide325real sounds good thank you
@@glide325real alr ty but isn’t it too direct I’d like to build a little friendship with her before I go straight to ask her out, i wanna see if her personality matches with mine
We love you Dillon 🙏
I have no idea what to do. My girlfriend told her best friend that she doesn’t even like me and I have no idea what to do.
dang bro im sorry
Do her best friend ?
😂😂cooked. Updates?
that was so wholesome
This story is so similar to my life recently
15 years old here, my mate left me after 5 months of relationship because he grew affection to another girl. We kept contact because we decided to stay friends after the break up but a month later, he gets rejected by the same girl, i didn't want to go back to him at first but the day i was ready to ask him out again, he told me he got a 3rd girl. That's 3 girls in less than a year, while i've been trying to get someone for months and no results. i gave up and now i believe love does NOT exist :)
You're a really good storyteller
I meet a girl to, after a couple months she had same intentions as i had but i realized this is not who i am
i feel u brother
My problem isn’t confidence, I asked a girl to hoco and she said yes, but most people don’t get my sense of humor/personality unless they know me super well. So I’ve often come across as mean or weird. So anyone I end up with ends up leaving because I’m too awkward or weird. But my close friends say I’m chill, and a “nonchalant dread head” and I think I’m considered attractive.
There's a book called Flirtosphere Seduction by Vexoner and it talks from body language and conversation starters to dark mind tricks and flirting through texts, it's the real deal
omg early!! we love us some Dillon content!
2:01 what was that
Voice crack
Voice crack it happens to everybody bro
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0:16 relatable af
You want to know what’s crazy for me as a teenager it’s gotten to the point where I don’t care about being rejected because it’s happened so much I’m more used to being rejected the actually knowing someone that likes me and the worst part is is that so many people like me but I don’t like them
Nice one bro... I just thought everyone knew this or been through this 😂
Bro I’m 31 and never been on a date. I need help, bro.
Well, i can imagine how hard is that bro, but i can tell that you are not ugly, so no offense, but the problem must be your confidence or the way you talk to them. It's hard to tell you 100% surelly what's the problem since i don't know you, but i'm pretty sure, it must be that.
@ I was homeschooled and sent to a fundamentalist Christian school, commuted for college and parents wouldn’t list me date until into my 20s. Now I don’t know how to meet women or even make friends. Cults are bad.
@@thomascraig6814 That's understandable, but simply, it's about confidence and respect, when you talk to a girl, you can just simply walk to a girl on street and just be open, tell her that you like how she looks ask for her name and ask if she would like to go somewhere with you. I know it might be hard, since you have not dated a girl before, but you have nothing to lose.
@@thomascraig6814the time will come bro you just gotta find the right one don’t chase anyone
@@thomascraig6814 Christianity isnt a cult. Your giving r/atheist vibes so maybe thats your problem. Maybe try and act normal and youl be good.
I’m in 7th grade and unlike many of these story’s I feel pretty confident. I don’t think that I’m ugly. I’m often talking to girls but it never ever feels like they’re reciprocating that interest. Iv been told that I’m funny and pretty good looking compared to some of the other guys at my school and I don’t disagree, I’ve just never had a girl feel the same way or like me. I’m not mean and the only reason that I can imagine this being about is that I’m pretty short and I used to be really ugly, but I’m not anymore. Someone give me your thoughts.
Don't stress about getting a gf in middle school man just enjoy your time you have before highschool
I was in a relationship with this cute girl that asked me out and she left me because her parents forced her to.Am single right now but it doesn't really bother me anymore I handled it pretty well when she texted me that she had to break up with me
Great video bro
My best friend told me he won’t date my ex but now he is
Bro I find it funny how I literally got the number of the person I like TODAY and then Dillon uploads this 😂😂
The fact that nobody talks about the forbidden book Flirtosphere Seduction on Vexoner speaks volumes about how people are stuck in a trance
I have this 10/10 girl who keeps looking at me and smiles at me but whenever I talk to her, she blushes and stuff like that but at the sometime my generation just acts like she hates me around other people and I can't find 2 flying ducks if she likes me or not? She acts like she likes me when it's just us 2 but when there's other people she acts like she hates me? Shes single and I don't know what to do. Any advice please middle school is a ducked-up place so please any advice please!
I wouldn’t talk to her man she doesn’t sound worth it
Nah man just go chat to her with confidence believe me even if she says no its alright
Idk why why when unc crafted the salt spray had me dying
bro how had you never been too a football game untill middle school ive been going since preschool
i relate so much in the beginning lol
U been completely different in my mind until I watched this video
Bro i actually felt really sad when he said that he just turned around and left😢
this video made me more hopeless
Realest video ever
im 18, never asked a girl out only ever been cold aproached and I fumbled them every time once by literraly hiding behind my friends. Now that im mature I relise how pathetic I was and still am. I genuinly have no more easy ways of meeting girls.
The Lord is the "thing" ur missing my brother🙏
Good for u bro. God bless👍
bro he just left the guy that he was talking to before the girl 😂
The tip is to do your best focus on big life goals and get girls later I’ve dated 3 girls in the course of a year and I don’t like it at all yeah sure ppl say I’m attractive and I pull “baddies” but ya’ll gotta realize that dating shit is literally being pushed on my little sister now and she’s in 5th grade yet there’s no one dating in 9th grade at all it’s taken a huge tole on kids lives and heartbreak ruins lives trust me because you’re either gonna be disciplined enough to work hard and achieve great things and party later or party now date girls and sit by doing nothing then scramble out of the hole you’re in to make success it’s not worth it I know people who’ve been there
I just wonder WHAT to talk about if i ever go for a girl
Talk about things that you enjoy
Ask what they enjoy
@@Tobias_2008 honestly idk
Honestly don’t sweat it it’ll come naturally
I just told my crush I liked her which was a big deal for me because she was one of my best friends and I didn’t want to ruin that. She ended up likeing me back which is amazing but now I don’t know what I should do. I don’t know whether to ask her on a date, talk about what is going on between us or something. I’m just confused
Be honest w her abt your feelings, if she rly likes you back than she will appreciate you being honest.
LOL. You 2 are going to break up. At least this is a learning experience.
@RickyRat8755 never were technically together yet but what makes you think that we would break up?
@@Kaiprodz12321 Most relationships that start in schools dont last.
look mate if she likes u that's great and just do what u think feels right and just go from there
I had liked a girl had her number she ended up getting a boyfriend and completely changed to the point I went up to said boyfriend and told him I had deleted her number. I ended up deleting her number because I was “staking her” I wasn’t I was legit just walking around and some how I was “stalking her” so yeah the one person I thought was nice and thing turned out to be an asshole.
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Tbh, it is actually really easy as long as you do it right
It’s surprising how people are only scratching the surface and don’t take the time to read Flirtosphere Seduction. Go out of the rabbit hole guys
So basically I have a crush on that one girl that is really attractive and she is always super nice to me, and on the last school trip my 'buds' told her that. After all of that i heard that she felt sorry about me being treated by the guys in my class like that. I really want to hit on her but dont know how and especially because she almost has a bf. Can anyone help me with this and give me some advise pls?
wym almost has a bf?
Nice vid I enjoyed it dillon
I've always had trouble talking to girls, no matter how many vids of this kind I watch, I can never flirt or attract a girl I like, so I quit, ya, I quit flirting with girls. now I just talk to each as 'just another one of them'😑😑😑😑😑
Ah yes as a gay person (yet to come out to people I know) this most definitely applies to me
half a can of ax body spray is not going to help
I am in middle school i can talk to girls and i am very nice to them but i am just scared to ask them because of how girls reject boys now like making fun of you and that will make your self esteem at a all time low which would be bad for me because my mom and dad divorced then my dad got with a toxic girl that made him an abusive alchoholic and was mean to me and my brothers and we could not get him out of this relationship until we got with cps or child protective services and told them what was wrong and that got my dad out of it and also divorced her and now my dad has a good job and has been sober for over a year
Sorry for venting but i have not really talked about this
out of no where she unadded me today, its bad
14 years old, and I need help with relationships, there is one girl in my school that it's smart and pretty, I really like her, but I just haven't spoken too much with her, we have been locking eyes with eachother, and there was a day that we were locking eyes and she blushed and giggled, I think that she likes me a little, but at the same time I don't know. If anyone could help me by giving me tips of what to do, please comment 👇
Thank you if you read until here (and sorry if I got some words wrong, it's because english it's not my mother language)
Honestly just be yourself if she likes you she likes you if she doesn't like you she doesn't like you win win either way because if she doesn't like you because of you just being you she's not for you, If I were you I'd just go for it maybe try to be friends with her too if I were you, but good luck you got this
Im friends with a girl but as of now we’re just very close mates lol 😂😂
i had to look up what bleachers meant because im just a poor auzzie who doesnt understand amarican laguage
Today i texted the girl i have crush on and did not get a reply yet wish me luck
How did it go?
@ still didnt react
@@Nielsdeman-m9owhat happened bro
@ didn’t read it yet
Literally almost the same thing that happened to me
v tom videu je česká škola!!!lets goooooo!!!!
This guy doesn’t fill me with wisdom the way Lance does
Where was this guy when I was still in highschool
Wish me luck bois
gl bro
Goodluck bro
Nobody loves me whether i have money or not
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