Relationship Turn-Offs: The Mama's Boy

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 21 ต.ค. 2024
  • Countess LuAnn de Lesseps, Steve Weatherford and Bevy Smith speak their minds about dating a mama's boy.

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  • @anthonyknepper8220
    @anthonyknepper8220 5 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    And yes i agree most of them aren't good to date because women Need a man, not a boy who acts like a child and needs constant reasurrance from his mom.

  • @ziggypip2938
    @ziggypip2938 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Right on for the mom raising the independent son!!

  • @kimvannote3690
    @kimvannote3690 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Narcissistic Mothers - Nightmare

  • @ThePoacherz
    @ThePoacherz 6 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    Mommas boys. Should marry Daddy's girls!

    • @aprilchow-chee5281
      @aprilchow-chee5281 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      They won't work out at all the Daddy won't allow his princess to be treated like crap

    • @TheOfficialPrettyPrincess
      @TheOfficialPrettyPrincess 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@aprilchow-chee5281 SOO TRUE

  • @annsarkar5724
    @annsarkar5724 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Exactly and sometimes you feel the line is being crossed and he just never feels for you and no woman will really want to stay in such a situation. Its pathetic

  • @Hannah.Alexia
    @Hannah.Alexia 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Try having a baby with a mommas boy 🙄 I also don’t understand how moms like the fact their sons are like this Bc if I had a son and he had a baby he would be taking care of that baby and I would tell him to move out and start providing more for his child it’s really sad...

    • @mariarobles3536
      @mariarobles3536 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Living this rn...My mother in law is so desperate to keep her son around her tht she was willing to sell the house she lives in so tht she can buy a house with 2 units so tht we can live in the same house with her smh🤦🏻‍♀️...I had to break up with her son in order for him to realize tht im not staying with him if he didnt man up nd stop putting his "origin family" first instead of me and his son...

  • @jesusislove3058
    @jesusislove3058 7 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Sometimes they are not good to date.

  • @neophantomyt1435
    @neophantomyt1435 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    It seems like I always wind up with a mama’s boy. My boyfriend mom tried being the mom of our son. When we brought our son home from the hospital she had moved the nursery around. She come over and moves our furniture to wear she likes it. Goes threw our fridge and throws out food. And she is wondering why I can’t stand her. She’s trying to be the women of the house. The guy in the audience definitely looks like a definite mamas boy.

    • @akhilbaliga5429
      @akhilbaliga5429 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      shawna jackson your man needs to stand by you .Its your house , your rules. She is just a guest

    • @marisafaith9975
      @marisafaith9975 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@samreenferdousi8634 Can't even answer you, lol.

    • @aprilchow-chee5281
      @aprilchow-chee5281 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @S S you are a real life bitch! Did your mother in law run your house and when she voiced her concerns you had the basic courtesy to listen to it. Did she raise your kids and tell you when and how and what you shouldn't do and be like her you absolute fucking bitch!

  • @elleworld4210
    @elleworld4210 8 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    mommas boy i was dating ran home back to his momma after living with me for 4 months lol.

    • @christywright5439
      @christywright5439 8 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      You can be sooooo thankful. They are awful people and you will always be second rate to their worshipped mamma's. Be glad.

    • @jessielyngriggs6738
      @jessielyngriggs6738 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      every time we have the come to rescue and both them headache

    • @nafeshaferdiand4430
      @nafeshaferdiand4430 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂😂

    • @dianasoriano2618
      @dianasoriano2618 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      This just happened to me 2 weeks ago. I call it incest. It's disgusting when mom's act like their son's are their man! Gross. I will never date a momma's boy again! Yikes!

    • @animalloverJen87
      @animalloverJen87 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My brother is a huge momma's boy

  • @brooklynrogers6932
    @brooklynrogers6932 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    My ex acted like he was married to his mom. That he was like a dad figure to his older brothers and his mother used to run to him about their house issues and we’d have to go over there all the time and I never got to even see my mom. I saw her twice in the 6 months we were leaving. I also was having bad bladder infections around this time, their toilet wasn’t always the nicest and I didn’t want to be rude and say that and take him away early so I stayed there holding my piss in for 3 hours to have surgery after and that’s how we broke up because he thought I was making it up. His mom always guilt tripped him staying there longer than we needed

  • @mysticstrikeforce5957
    @mysticstrikeforce5957 6 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    What about daddy's girl where every girl chooses her man who reminds her of her dad.

  • @firstlastname84
    @firstlastname84 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    That kid is obviously not ready for marriage.

  • @ZYaKnoe249
    @ZYaKnoe249 10 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Italians generally live with or close to their families so I don't know if you can truly consider him a "mama's boy"

    • @manuelgonzalez3644
      @manuelgonzalez3644 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Zuri Frazier The same applies to Mexicans. Latinos, in general, are very family oriented.

  • @jian3242
    @jian3242 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Momas boi should marry their mother
    -daddy's girl

  • @darrickadukes4046
    @darrickadukes4046 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    He ain't even great to date wtf

  • @anthonyknepper8220
    @anthonyknepper8220 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I don't think there's anything wrong with being close to my mom, sometimes when i need it she gives me encourgament and mostly listens when iam having problems. From a young age she taught me independence, i don't live with her and have been on my own since i was 18. I believe there comes a time when a man needs to be independent and obviously stick up for his woman to anyone and at the same time respects and loves his mother. I don't see anything wrong with getting guidence from your mom

    • @johnterry1911
      @johnterry1911 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Anthony Knepper 😂😂😂😂

    • @anthonyknepper8220
      @anthonyknepper8220 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@johnterry1911Your ignorance is your downfall

    • @God.sDaughter
      @God.sDaughter 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      John Terry I am surprised that these people aren’t mentioning their fathers. As if fathers don’t exist.
      Bet you if it was a girl saying how she loves dad and always asks him questions the dad would end up in prison.

    • @johnterry1911
      @johnterry1911 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Anthony Knepper I bet you are a beta male with a lot of feminine energy.

    • @anthonyknepper8220
      @anthonyknepper8220 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@johnterry1911 I'll let you think that. A lion does not concern himself with the opinion of sheep

  • @donnaallgaier-lamberti3933
    @donnaallgaier-lamberti3933 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My husband is Italian. It is a cultural thing for an Italian man to live at home until he is married.

  • @ricardopinto2741
    @ricardopinto2741 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I rather die single

  • @srankoutcast348
    @srankoutcast348 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Nowhere near as bad as a momma's girl... NEVER date a women who can't go half a day without talking to her mom.

  • @wictoriaojheden
    @wictoriaojheden 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I don't have kids but i think it is the mother responcibillity to make sure she has independent kids girls and boys, they know to do their own laundry and cook and use tools etc, not be waited on hand and foot by their mother, of course you should be there for your family and help out with stuff especially when they get older but independance is important for both sexes. A friend of my mum's a long time ago she did everything for her son he also was the only child and she washed his clothes and made him food and he lived at home until he was 30 and he never learned to do the things himself and you wonder what happen when the mother dies will he starve and just buy new clothes when they get dirty because he can't use the washmachine? now that is a scary thought...

  • @aspiknf
    @aspiknf 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Eww don't say they'll marry the mother, sounds wrong on all levels

    • @geegeepa8123
      @geegeepa8123 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      if you only care of your mom’s satisfaction and not prioritize your wife’s satisfaction first. Or if you always sacrifice you and your wife’s peace for your mom’s small issues, then yes marry your mom. Your wife isn’t a made or your caretaker or sex worker. Your wife deserves also to be taken care of and more attention than your mom.

  • @carmenconstantinescu814
    @carmenconstantinescu814 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I DON’T KNOW WHY THIS IS A TURN PFF. If a man loves his mom than that means he treats a woman correctly and is going to be a great husband. WHY WOULD THAT BE A TURN OFF?

    • @marisafaith9975
      @marisafaith9975 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      That's not the problem, some in laws are just crazy and annoying.

    • @aprilchow-chee5281
      @aprilchow-chee5281 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @Oscar Bastidas that's not the issue you should love and honour your parents but some in laws have a problem if your mother and sister come to see you and all its sick

    • @aprilchow-chee5281
      @aprilchow-chee5281 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I also don't live in a western country

    • @studentathlete7751
      @studentathlete7751 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You can love your mom without being a mama’s boy.

    • @svasianfilipiname6603
      @svasianfilipiname6603 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      They interfere too much (and not in a good way) in the couple's marriage/relationship! An intimate relationship usually only takes two not three!

  • @12Messenger
    @12Messenger 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    How is that a turnoff I have a strong special relationship with my mom but I don't get breast fed by her and live with her and let her wash my clothes and the typical mom's boy you see. I just trust in her advice for me like I've always have since I was 13 getting in trouble with friends and stuff and every advice about the friends I hung with and decisions I made failed but the advice my mom gave never did. To me she's my life manager like a accounting advisor except in life

    • @donquixote7056
      @donquixote7056 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Not everyone has the same moral as you. I think in English speaking countries, people hate guys who live with and take care of their mom. I think they also hate women who take care of their adult son(s).

    • @12Messenger
      @12Messenger 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Ok, that's great. If you read through I don't live with my mother. But still I don't care what a girl thinks of me and my mom's relationship because we guys can always find another girl or wife but I can't find anyone to replace my mom.

    • @donquixote7056
      @donquixote7056 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I can't agree with you more. Mom is irreplaceable.

    • @redevous
      @redevous 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Hahah you’re sick. Gross. I hope you never marry.

    • @HatovimLeTayis
      @HatovimLeTayis 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Js399 Because as a grown man you need to make and act upon your own decisions. If you are depending on your mom’s advice to choose left or right, your wife isn’t married to an independent man, but to your mom’s parrot.

  • @Gemsofafrica
    @Gemsofafrica 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    HALLELUJAH! SO DAMN TRUE. THEY AGREE TO DATE BUT NOT TO MARRY. COS THEY WANT TO MARRY THEIR MOTHER

  • @victorthomas8481
    @victorthomas8481 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    25 looking like she 40

  • @NMA635
    @NMA635 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Is leaving with you're mother is a sign of useless people in western countries In my country we life with our parents until marriage then if all us got married we take our parents with us ...I can't relate...

    • @aprilchow-chee5281
      @aprilchow-chee5281 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I don't live in the western country and I also live with in laws but there are boundaries and some things shouldn't be said and done

    • @NMA635
      @NMA635 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@aprilchow-chee5281 I can understand where are you coming and I never said they should cross their boundaries but they take for example the Italian guy that's their culture doesn't make him less commitment to his girlfriend/ wife they are family oriented people it's not like those men are living the basement of their parents without proper job

    • @geegeepa8123
      @geegeepa8123 ปีที่แล้ว

      you take your parents with you, as in, the bride’s parents live with you?

    • @NMA635
      @NMA635 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@geegeepa8123 at the end one of the siblings take care of the parents, you can’t leave old folks alone, they entertain us, we entertain them😂

  • @dls8139
    @dls8139 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I NEED BEVY 🤩

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