The sadness and depression is temporary. Loneliness needs to be embraced. Your mental and physical health is lifelong. Focus on building the body only you can sculpt. Focus on mental clarity and mastering being alone. Eat out alone, go To a movie alone. Take a trip alone or with like minded friends. Find hobbies, Along this journey you’ll become so self sufficient that you’ll only want to deal with what makes sense and is smooth flowing. Attitude towards life, all the lessons learned and the confidence gained along the way will yield this.
This is all facts. Guys HAVE to spend an extended period alone *to learn how* to be self sufficient. You can still be social while being single and learning how to be with yourself, create value, build wealth/businesses and redirecting sexual energy
@@truthtelleranon that’s exactly what I’m saying. I’m not telling me to be celibate. I’m just saying don’t FALL IN LOVE, and not get attached to anyone you’re not willing to walk out on in 30 seconds flat if you feel the heat coming around the corner.
Watching your videos helps me a lot . I try dating more than four time. Always get use, friend zone, fake love. I stop all that for good. Walk with God. Do a lot walking, jogging, push ups, listening to music, bike ride.
Some woman don’t appreciate presence they always need more lol that why as a woman perspective I stay single because of others woman mess it up in my gender
Coming from an old guy and appreciate the younger getting down to business. Put this one tool in your tool chest it's meditation learn the skill it's very easy no classes needed no groups nada. In a nutshell close your eyes count backwards 25 to 1 then do it again 25 to 1 do it again do it again. Get out of your thoughts be present listen to your breath quiet the mind and good luck Bros.
I have come to the realization; at: 36 years old, I am tired of being Mr. Nice muthrfuckin. nothing ever changes. Everyday is the fucken same; same godamn daily grind.
@@cristobal.ashton that’s this risk I warn men about on my channel. We’d all love to be married and spend the rest of our lives with a woman. But the modern day way has drank the koolaid, therefore has become poison.
Hi, Sosa2Real, my name is Malcolm White, and I just wanted to say that I am such a big fan of your TH-cam educational channel. The contents that you post about are so amazingly spot-on, and also, the value that you add to your video topics are absolutely incredible, and insightful, as well. Please keep continuing to do this brilliantly motivational page up, and running, my good friend 💯👍 😎!!! PS: Do you think that you can please do a video topic, and analysis, about why men should have street smarts in their own lives? If you don't mind?
@@sosa2real744I was just wondering that if you can please do a video topic about why men should have street smarts in their own lives because they lack them? If you don't mind?
sadly woman take advantage of vulnerable man, it's best to be strong alone and independent, than weak together and co-dependent /woman feed off weak man, strong man they run from.. 💡
whenever you feel lonely, just remember you have the privilege of peace & silence, not tolerating nagging, you don't have to conform to unrealistic demands, you don't have to worry about a woman doing you dirty, you don't have to worry about being put on child support or having a kids and taking care of it when it's not yours, you don't have someone watching your every move, calculating all the money you make so they can plan a vacation or go out on your dime you worked hard for, someone to sabotage you, when they see you making improvements and making more money, you don't have to spend extra money you save on dumb and useless things, you can play the "5" for as long as you want, with no interruptions, don't have to have pointless conversations, no one timing you on when you get home, when you go to bed, randomly unwanted checking your phone, someone trying to stop your future plans or goals... woman are liabilities not assets, because as soon as she don't feel happy no more, you're fucked... stay single, stay sane - 💡
I decided to end a relationship i had 3 years ago now i do miss the companship intimate time the understanding but im still lonely years later i feel unimportant in the grand scheme of things there's just thngs friends and family can't do for me
While solopsism light works for some, others are just made to be in relationships. I cant avoid the feeling of loneliness when my wife isnt around and i did literally everything i was supposed to do in general.
All the jobs I’ve had in my lifetime I have got fired either because the managers girl or wife wanted me or if Supervisors had a crush on a girl but they girls wanted me it’s crazy and also guys always wanted to fight me at work because I would pipe there crush within that same week of getting that job the would see me getting in her car that’s why I don’t fuck with no friends or anything they wanna be my homie for the girl perks or get info on me and talk bad about to women to make them feel better and try and get with them they would copy my style as well and all my homies girls wanted to mess with me I have crazy life at times and I was doing all this without a car back then the girls would pick me up and buy me food 😂
Every time I consider dating again, I think of all the nonsense that goes with it. I had several long term relationships in my life with beautiful women, but it comes at a high emotional price with no guaranties. If they show you red flags, run, don’t hesitate. You are never going to be more in control of your life than when you’re single. Your mental and physical health and your freedom are paramount, and will become even more important as you age. Thank you for your pep talk!
Guys I do have a question for all of you , what do you think about never been in a relationship?, it is my case, I'm not ugly, let's say I am a 7 Caribbean latino, but I think being 27 and never been in a relationship is strange, I just don't want to have a relationship with a person isn't worth it for me.
Relationship are overrated. You can have a good relationship if you have your sh* together. Just don't rush it. Is like wanting to have an adult voice before time. It will come without you having to do anything. Now there is thing you can do to self-improve/spend time on yourself. Like for example knowing people at work, gym, extra-curricular activities, estudies, anywhere that might or might not have women on it. IF you show yourself on places and have an online present, will be easier to find you (lets say your... future significant other , will not knock your door -most times- ). Also, you care for thing that are not in your control, don't expend time worrying for someone you are yet not know. Worry only for what you can do at this moment on time.
Bro your gonna have to be a little more creative - every single video you have made so far is entitled “stay single”….there is more to discuss that just that…it seems like you were hurt…nobody is saying get married…but why stay single if you pump and dump? Smash and grab? Your basically preaching for men to go monk mode…that isn’t gonna work…I agree never to get married but there is never a reason to be single…as men we have needs that must be met.
you can get your needs met while being single. i hear you but this guy can talk about what he wants to talk about right? it’s his channel the thing is, repetition is a key tool in learning
@@slowly707 what’s dangerous about encouraging men to develop self sufficiency? Incel means involuntary celibate. He is not saying to refrain from sex and this is totally voluntary
@@GL0DE3N idk what kind of disability you have. i know a guy who i believe was born without a disability but has been in a wheelchair for as long as ive known him. he always has girls around him and a girlfriend lol. he even wheels to clubs. active social life. idk if he’s rich but i don’t think so.
Stay active!! Make money and save money. Enjoy life and your freedom!! Timmy C Arizona
You say make money like we all have printing machines in our basements. LOL! It's not that easy bro! Bills are killing us . 😢
@@josebro352 Cheap Frugal and Thrifty are 3 of my favorite words!! Lol
"rub one out!" 😂😂😂😂😂 Sosa's off the hook 🪝
@@Mr.EastCoast-oj2xk lol post nut clarity will change your mind about a lot of things.
@@sosa2real744semen retention feels even better
believe it or not, woman do the same thing.. they can't fool us.. smh - they want sex more than man.. trust me..
Oh damn I wish you guys didn't bring that up. That made me think about needed to polish my wood
The sadness and depression is temporary. Loneliness needs to be embraced. Your mental and physical health is lifelong. Focus on building the body only you can sculpt. Focus on mental clarity and mastering being alone. Eat out alone, go
To a movie alone. Take a trip alone or with like minded friends. Find hobbies, Along this journey you’ll become so self sufficient that you’ll only want to deal with what makes sense and is smooth flowing. Attitude towards life, all the lessons learned and the confidence gained along the way will yield this.
@@sickek4 👏🏽 very well said
Hey brother. I appreciate the videos. Its good to see men looking out for other men. Keep it up, man!
This is all facts. Guys HAVE to spend an extended period alone *to learn how* to be self sufficient. You can still be social while being single and learning how to be with yourself, create value, build wealth/businesses and redirecting sexual energy
@@truthtelleranon that’s exactly what I’m saying. I’m not telling me to be celibate. I’m just saying don’t FALL IN LOVE, and not get attached to anyone you’re not willing to walk out on in 30 seconds flat if you feel the heat coming around the corner.
Watching your videos helps me a lot . I try dating more than four time. Always get use, friend zone, fake love. I stop all that for good. Walk with God. Do a lot walking, jogging, push ups, listening to music, bike ride.
@@perrykim5732 thank you Perry. Makes me feel like my videos have a purpose when I read messages like this.
Watching your videos help me a lot as will.
@@perrykim5732 thank you Perry. Makes me feel like my videos have a purpose.
Unfortunately, coworkers are not your friends. I learned this the hard way.
Never make your coworkers your friend!!! Bunch of snakes
I've been through so many bad relationships I gave up I love being single no drama more 💰 yes sir I avoid woman
Some woman don’t appreciate presence they always need more lol that why as a woman perspective I stay single because of others woman mess it up in my gender
@@WayneHowland-d3u that’s why I want my channel to be a place you can come and vent and share your stories. Stay tuned
all single men need to watch this video
@@User11367 spread the word
Thank u bro , we need more men out here like u🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
@@jaymcmillanhq thank you I’m trying. I know the hate is coming tho 🤯
@sosa2real744 for sure but we got your back
Congratulations on your success so far! You are very good at what you do, brother!👍
@@rogerheisler2554 thank you brother Roger. I’m trying my best. My home studio project begins tomorrow.
Better quality content coming soon
Coming from an old guy and appreciate the younger getting down to business. Put this one tool in your tool chest it's meditation learn the skill it's very easy no classes needed no groups nada. In a nutshell close your eyes count backwards 25 to 1 then do it again 25 to 1 do it again do it again. Get out of your thoughts be present listen to your breath quiet the mind and good luck Bros.
@@sandecoffey9125 I agree 💯
im glad im a introvert. 😊 peace is my happiness. lonley but im used to it.😊 i do enjoy going to sport events though.😊
@@sirgigglez it’s all a mindset at the end of the day
real spill !
Thank you brother!
@@apacheyt698 thank you. Join the community
I have come to the realization; at: 36 years old, I am tired of being Mr. Nice muthrfuckin. nothing ever changes. Everyday is the fucken same; same godamn daily grind.
I'm with u bro! 44 here and I'm done with the bs finally
@@IgorMironov-rq4yeI understand your pain. It’s like being a angel surrounded by demons.
@@sosa2real744 it feels that way at times. Feels like I'm the only celibate man, or human within a hundred mile radius.
This guy is definitely up next man 1k subs already is crazy !💯
Thank you. Fingers crossed
Excelente. Greetings from Ecuador. No hay botón de love sino también lo diera. Kudos Mister.
@@andresa5384 muchas gracias hermano. Agradezco el apoyo.
Your hope is in God/Jesus and finding a woman who is also of that.
I want to get married and look after my wife. My biggest problem/fear is she'll leave me after she thinks she's not getting a good deal
@@cristobal.ashton that’s this risk I warn men about on my channel. We’d all love to be married and spend the rest of our lives with a woman. But the modern day way has drank the koolaid, therefore has become poison.
Do not marry in western countries it’s rigged against men
Hi, Sosa2Real, my name is Malcolm White, and I just wanted to say that I am such a big fan of your TH-cam educational channel. The contents that you post about are so amazingly spot-on, and also, the value that you add to your video topics are absolutely incredible, and insightful, as well. Please keep continuing to do this brilliantly motivational page up, and running, my good friend 💯👍 😎!!! PS: Do you think that you can please do a video topic, and analysis, about why men should have street smarts in their own lives? If you don't mind?
@@malcolmwhite6204 send me a email
Explaining the topic you want me to discuss
alexsosa121494@gmail.com
@@sosa2real744I was just wondering that if you can please do a video topic about why men should have street smarts in their own lives because they lack them? If you don't mind?
sadly woman take advantage of vulnerable man, it's best to be strong alone and independent, than weak together and co-dependent /woman feed off weak man, strong man they run from.. 💡
whenever you feel lonely, just remember you have the privilege of peace & silence, not tolerating nagging, you don't have to conform to unrealistic demands, you don't have to worry about a woman doing you dirty, you don't have to worry about being put on child support or having a kids and taking care of it when it's not yours, you don't have someone watching your every move, calculating all the money you make so they can plan a vacation or go out on your dime you worked hard for, someone to sabotage you, when they see you making improvements and making more money, you don't have to spend extra money you save on dumb and useless things, you can play the "5" for as long as you want, with no interruptions, don't have to have pointless conversations, no one timing you on when you get home, when you go to bed, randomly unwanted checking your phone, someone trying to stop your future plans or goals... woman are liabilities not assets, because as soon as she don't feel happy no more, you're fucked... stay single, stay sane - 💡
I decided to end a relationship i had 3 years ago now i do miss the companship intimate time the understanding but im still lonely years later i feel unimportant in the grand scheme of things there's just thngs friends and family can't do for me
i love YOU
While solopsism light works for some, others are just made to be in relationships. I cant avoid the feeling of loneliness when my wife isnt around and i did literally everything i was supposed to do in general.
Prayer helps.
All the jobs I’ve had in my lifetime I have got fired either because the managers girl or wife wanted me or if Supervisors had a crush on a girl but they girls wanted me it’s crazy and also guys always wanted to fight me at work because I would pipe there crush within that same week of getting that job the would see me getting in her car that’s why I don’t fuck with no friends or anything they wanna be my homie for the girl perks or get info on me and talk bad about to women to make them feel better and try and get with them they would copy my style as well and all my homies girls wanted to mess with me I have crazy life at times and I was doing all this without a car back then the girls would pick me up and buy me food 😂
Thank you so much 😊. I will definitely give all of your advice a try
Thank you brother. Let me know how it goes and stay stunned for the lives coming up soon
@@sosa2real744 thank you for your kind reply. I really appreciate it
i want to know if anyone here is happily married aand im not being smart im total serious. i need to know more ,please
Every time I consider dating again, I think of all the nonsense that goes with it. I had several long term relationships in my life with beautiful women, but it comes at a high emotional price with no guaranties. If they show you red flags, run, don’t hesitate. You are never going to be more in control of your life than when you’re single. Your mental and physical health and your freedom are paramount, and will become even more important as you age. Thank you for your pep talk!
What would someone have to do in order to blow you?
awesome video...
hope u fix the audio 😅
the audio is always low and kinda echoey
@@rhylpancakesph I’m trying my best. Better equipment on the way
Do you have fb group or tgram group
Had me up till you said “rub one off” nah
fax
@@miguel.99ovr post nut clarity is a real thing. It will help you make better decisions with who you sleep with and give your time to.
Guys I do have a question for all of you , what do you think about never been in a relationship?, it is my case, I'm not ugly, let's say I am a 7 Caribbean latino, but I think being 27 and never been in a relationship is strange, I just don't want to have a relationship with a person isn't worth it for me.
@@eudisgomezmercedes9269 nothing is wrong with that. If it’s meant for you to happen it will happen.
Relationship are overrated. You can have a good relationship if you have your sh* together. Just don't rush it. Is like wanting to have an adult voice before time. It will come without you having to do anything.
Now there is thing you can do to self-improve/spend time on yourself. Like for example knowing people at work, gym, extra-curricular activities, estudies, anywhere that might or might not have women on it. IF you show yourself on places and have an online present, will be easier to find you (lets say your... future significant other , will not knock your door -most times- ).
Also, you care for thing that are not in your control, don't expend time worrying for someone you are yet not know. Worry only for what you can do at this moment on time.
Bro your gonna have to be a little more creative - every single video you have made so far is entitled “stay single”….there is more to discuss that just that…it seems like you were hurt…nobody is saying get married…but why stay single if you pump and dump? Smash and grab? Your basically preaching for men to go monk mode…that isn’t gonna work…I agree never to get married but there is never a reason to be single…as men we have needs that must be met.
you can get your needs met while being single.
i hear you but this guy can talk about what he wants to talk about right? it’s his channel
the thing is, repetition is a key tool in learning
@@truthtelleranon he’s creating a dangerous incel culture
@@slowly707 what’s dangerous about encouraging men to develop self sufficiency? Incel means involuntary celibate. He is not saying to refrain from sex and this is totally voluntary
@@GL0DE3N idk what kind of disability you have. i know a guy who i believe was born without a disability but has been in a wheelchair for as long as ive known him. he always has girls around him and a girlfriend lol. he even wheels to clubs. active social life. idk if he’s rich but i don’t think so.
Damn almost a stack already!!! LFG!!!!
I’ll be there at the live