MERCY!😱 I MARRIED A DOWN LOW MAN! | MY HUSBAND IS ON THE DL: SIGNS OF A DOWN LOW MAN |TikTok Comp

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  • @msdeeds4165
    @msdeeds4165 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +100

    New title - woman with full information leaps into bad decision 😂 girl okkkk 🤷🏾‍♀️💅🏽

    • @KimberlyMattison
      @KimberlyMattison 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

      Right?! 😂😂😂

    • @JodiTheIslandGirl
      @JodiTheIslandGirl  16 วันที่ผ่านมา +15

      She was focused on getting that baby

    • @sarahcaitlyn88
      @sarahcaitlyn88 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@JodiTheIslandGirl which is selfish A.F. she came from a broken home and is now going to purposefully bring a child into the world the same way AND is posting it all online so everyone will know the daddy's with the rainbow crew and was on substances, etc... the main victim is the child and it isn't even born yet!

    • @aundreabunnie
      @aundreabunnie 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      Psssd me clean off! 😆 🎀

  • @Anna-xd5to
    @Anna-xd5to 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +21

    She ignored the rainbow flags. He wasn't down low. he was up high but desperation got the best of her.

    • @healing_tyme
      @healing_tyme 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      😂😂😂

  • @SoftNSpicey
    @SoftNSpicey 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +63

    I'm still stuck on her father and stepmom treating her like crap when she was a child. I'm glad she was able to go to the military and do real estate. This dude being a former drug addict, an open court case, and not having his own stable place to live should have disqualified him from jump. Him being gay is not even the first issue.

    • @JodiTheIslandGirl
      @JodiTheIslandGirl  16 วันที่ผ่านมา +14

      I pray for the day when women start choosing themselves and stop playing Bob The Builder

    • @annemakoha5671
      @annemakoha5671 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      People reenact their childhood trauma in their adult relationships. It can take a while to see that and break the cycle. Also on brand is choosing a partner with an addiction issue similar to her parents having their own addiction issues. Im glad she has insight and wants to do better.

    • @trixieke8462
      @trixieke8462 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Being gay is the biggest issue cos only God can fix it

  • @antoinetteanderson881
    @antoinetteanderson881 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +66

    Thank you for putting all the parts in ONE video 😂😂😂 I hate having to search for the rest of the story

    • @JodiTheIslandGirl
      @JodiTheIslandGirl  16 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

      We just love a convenient channel…lol…You’re welcome babe…Enjoy 🌴❤️

  • @Ch33t4h
    @Ch33t4h 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +26

    Why does no one care about how she willingly gave a child a loser like that for a father and what kind of trauma this story is going to give them along with a loser like that for a dad.
    "She can pour her love into a baby" so that makes it all ok? They are a child, not a doll, and a future adolescent and teen having to deal with these two pathetic people as parents.

    • @JodiTheIslandGirl
      @JodiTheIslandGirl  15 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

      You are absolutely correct….having a child is a permanent decision. It was a selfish decision on her part.

  • @plume___
    @plume___ 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +24

    That whole part with her wanting to call up the dudes and even warning him that she would tell everyone was dangerous af. This is how women end up gone because these men take their rage out on them.

    • @JodiTheIslandGirl
      @JodiTheIslandGirl  15 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      I’m happy she still around to share her story and I hope as much as she wants to share and possibly help someone- she’s staying safe most of all

    • @QueenD75172
      @QueenD75172 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I was thinking the same thing. I hope nothing happens to her or her child

  • @JenThatGurl
    @JenThatGurl 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +45

    Not her wanting to ‘monitor’ a grown man who is clearly into James and every gender like him….I would be traumatized 😮

    • @JodiTheIslandGirl
      @JodiTheIslandGirl  16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      ….After everything she saw on that phone

  • @Sunflowers_220
    @Sunflowers_220 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +41

    This story is sick. She has no self respect. Why, just why would you STILL proceed to sleeo with somebody with extreme poor hygiene.... like the shit part in his pants made me puke :/
    And he is meeting random men on apps etc filming the doing the deed with them WITHOUT protection. I'm not done with the story yet but sis needs serious therapy. Because at that point. That whole marrige is just self hate and desparation.

    • @jackieo2294
      @jackieo2294 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Omg yes spot on how I felt!! Like I would not want any child with that man at all and especially not made the conventional way.. barf!

    • @JodiTheIslandGirl
      @JodiTheIslandGirl  15 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      🤢🤢

    • @hershekissed
      @hershekissed 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Huh? I'm on part 5 rethinking this life decision now😂😂😂

  • @charleejefferson2574
    @charleejefferson2574 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +35

    She done started a new term. A Raging Rainbow 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @emmr2739
    @emmr2739 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +21

    I wish her all the best. Childhood trauma set her up to being played and abused again. I am hoping she will see the red flags next time. She deserved so much more.

  • @Sarah_Black_Sheep_Unite
    @Sarah_Black_Sheep_Unite 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +21

    I am still here 43:20 😆 oh my this is the craziest experience ever! LOL epic! 🤣

  • @MissDeemonseed
    @MissDeemonseed 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +26

    eeeeeeeeeewwwwwwwwwwwww he was going at guys with no protection AND she did the same cause she wanted a baby?..........................................
    I JUST COULDNT!!! Thats disgusting and your not only risking your health but your unborn baby?????????????
    What is wrong with these people like seriously

    • @kristenb5177
      @kristenb5177 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      the same people that support the ABC community

    • @JodiTheIslandGirl
      @JodiTheIslandGirl  16 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      Just the thought…..

  • @IndigenousExotical
    @IndigenousExotical 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +26

    She said she this wasn’t desperation but she continued to have sex with her cheating DL husband to the point it was a chore… she was desperate for a baby in the traditional way instead of moving forward as a solo parent (her frozen eggs) where she is at right now anyways. I know she said she has a fiancé but if this happened not even a year ago, that shows she got some desperation for a partner/husband as well. I sympathize for her family trauma and having a crack addicted mother/mother wounds, so i understand why she made poor choices but to say this isn’t desperation is another level of pure delusion.

    • @tasheannaw.4537
      @tasheannaw.4537 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yep. And I only feel sorry for the kid. She voluntarily had a baby with a man who didn't want her AND saw the texts, videos etc to prove it before the pregnancy even happened

  • @canawolford4491
    @canawolford4491 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    Her lack of self respect is appalling!!! It’s hard for me to sympathize with her when she keeps making the worst decision every time she has a chance to get out!!! 😢 😡 🙄

  • @BC-WDDA
    @BC-WDDA 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +18

    She knew, she just didn't care. She can try to tell a story to herself to it make it make sense but she knew.
    Yes, definitely she is a goofy!
    I thought she was young, this girl is almost 40. She needs therapy ASAP!!!!

  • @nicolastewart4419
    @nicolastewart4419 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    She didn't think her videos would reach that far. She's reached all the way to Scotland! I love these storytimes

    • @QueenD75172
      @QueenD75172 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Germany, near Stuttgart 🎉

  • @legitfitllc787
    @legitfitllc787 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Sitting here eating popcorn listening to this tea…. Tea flavor? Delusion

  • @angelamack5300
    @angelamack5300 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +18

    Does anyone else find it weird that the uncle wanted to see the footage?🤔

    • @JodiTheIslandGirl
      @JodiTheIslandGirl  16 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      Lol…I was thinking he probably wanted the solid proof but now you have me thinking 🤔

    • @gwendolynallen3218
      @gwendolynallen3218 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Yes! That isn't normal.

  • @SunniBlazing
    @SunniBlazing 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    That man's mama knew... she knew and convinced him to give his childhood crush a chance... his mama knew!!!!

    • @thebilliexojean
      @thebilliexojean 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Absolutely! And the birthday gift thing is so crazy too - your son is living a double life and now you want to qualify the kind of relationship you have with this woman who married your son. And this woman WENT AHEAD AND HAD HIS BABY? Omg go to a sperm bank.

  • @Maialeen
    @Maialeen 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +31

    I haven't reached the end of this and I'm already so tired of her. I feel for her as far as her sorry excuse for a family goes. But she walked into everything else. Some of the people who make these kinds of decisions should maybe think about the fact that chiIdren aren't in their future. Maybe don't do it and focus on other, better things for your life. But they won't do it because deep down they don't want peace and they crave chaos.

    • @JodiTheIslandGirl
      @JodiTheIslandGirl  16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      This‼️👏🏾

    • @allen9584
      @allen9584 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Only god can judge

    • @Maialeen
      @Maialeen 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      @allen9584 Wrong. Everyone who read what you wrote, including me is now judging your simpIe azz for saying this corny, empty falsehood.

    • @allen9584
      @allen9584 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @ you are beyond negative and judgmental i pray for you that’s all we can do

    • @tiahnarodriguez3809
      @tiahnarodriguez3809 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@allen9584 girl, we all know you judged this woman like the rest of us. Have serval seats.

  • @Lacavadoe
    @Lacavadoe 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    I dated a down-low man for a while. The same thing happened to me, I saw who he was talking to, he had a gay best friend, and other men he was super close to (his lovers), etc a nasty mess. I left and never looked back. What's funny is they hate women yet will beg us back to mistreat us. Crazy. I'm glad she made it out alive.

    • @JodiTheIslandGirl
      @JodiTheIslandGirl  16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I’m so sorry this happened to you. They treat us poorly because they want to be like us but are afraid to live in their truth.

  • @ItsMe-xx9qm
    @ItsMe-xx9qm 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Wow that was the breaking point huh around 58:07?
    😂
    I laugh out of anger, but it obvious she has never been loved

  • @mrs.w8193
    @mrs.w8193 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +23

    This is past being a “goofy” yeah I can’t with her. This is too much. She needs more self love. This is ridiculous.

    • @yallcrazy302
      @yallcrazy302 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Her childhood didn’t set her up to automatically have self love as an adult

    • @aundreabunnie
      @aundreabunnie 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Literally aggravated listening to this woman 🤦🏽‍♀️ 🎀

  • @RoshonVocational
    @RoshonVocational 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    I'm glad you broke down the 80 s crack era Some people didnt get that .I'm sorry for your journey.Ask God for strength

    • @JodiTheIslandGirl
      @JodiTheIslandGirl  16 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Oh yes! Crack and Jheri Curl 😥

  • @TransformwithTayani
    @TransformwithTayani 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Aww the Poconos is far out there. It’s beautiful but that gives me perspective of where here house was.

  • @christinerodriguez3976
    @christinerodriguez3976 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    I cannot believe this dude was with other men WITHOUT protection and then going to his wife. It's bad enough he is down low, but then no condoms...that is nasty behavior if I've ever seen it.🤢

  • @yallcrazy302
    @yallcrazy302 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Can’t believe Natalie ended up saying that to her. Horrible when ur heart is broken and ppl who are supposed to be your support are like this. And when she had such an awful childhood. Ugh my heart breaks 💔

  • @canawolford4491
    @canawolford4491 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I understand her more now that she brought up the familiarity as one of the reasons she overlooked a lot. She is beautiful and I think she will be an awesome mama despite the poor examples she’s had and I hope she heals and helps others who were in similar situations!❤

  • @charleejefferson2574
    @charleejefferson2574 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    This is so sad. Her family treated her like she was Cinderella. Smh

    • @JodiTheIslandGirl
      @JodiTheIslandGirl  16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Happy she took some accountability as well

  • @shortcake9826
    @shortcake9826 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    I'm not shaming her because I completely understand her as I've been through all types of abuse. Of course everyone makes mistakes but this wasn't a mistake, it was a choice. I've been in her shoes making poor decisions desperate to be loved to be chosen. However in this situation she's just like her father. She desperately wants to keep that man like her dad desperately wanted to keep his wife. That's why she kept sleeping with him and making all those excuses for him. Her dad did the same for his wife. He turned a blind eye to his wife abusing his daughter.

    • @JodiTheIslandGirl
      @JodiTheIslandGirl  16 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      I’m so sorry for your experience and I absolutely love your analogy👏🏾Thank you so much for watching 🌴☺️

  • @holliemcculley9191
    @holliemcculley9191 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    The no protection part 😮😮

    • @JodiTheIslandGirl
      @JodiTheIslandGirl  15 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      …and then proceeded to lay down and make a whole baby with him 😣

    • @holliemcculley9191
      @holliemcculley9191 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @ straight goofy!!😞

  • @sickvictorianchild
    @sickvictorianchild 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    "size 15 feet in the air" i'm crying

  • @AuroraCreator555
    @AuroraCreator555 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    She says it wasn’t desperation but it was desperation for a baby that made her stay in this situation. I understand the fear surrounding “running out of time,” to have children but she’ll have this man in her life until their child is old enough to make their own decisions.

  • @chinesefood2222
    @chinesefood2222 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Magic Mountain ain’t got sh!t on this rollercoaster 🎢 of a ride 😳😱

  • @darthvadersmom1192
    @darthvadersmom1192 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    she is so pretty and authentic

    • @JodiTheIslandGirl
      @JodiTheIslandGirl  15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      She is ☺️

    • @darthvadersmom1192
      @darthvadersmom1192 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@JodiTheIslandGirl it makes me even more sad some demon betrayed her and hurt her she is like many women the perfect friend and lifetime loyal lover. What a shame she is a diamond why does this happen to all the georgious women it makes me so very sad!!!

  • @erickare1
    @erickare1 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    10 minutes in, and I’ve asked, “And you still married him???” No less than 5 times

  • @QueenD75172
    @QueenD75172 วันที่ผ่านมา

    She is showing her whole face telling this whole story. I am amazed by today's people. Just amazed.

  • @ashleyskitchen6711
    @ashleyskitchen6711 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    That girl is more then goofy 😂😂 but I'm not going to judge because she didn't get the proper love from her parents but I pray she gets the help she may need

  • @KimberlyMattison
    @KimberlyMattison 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    I’m definitely still here…Ooh lord!

  • @sistascientist
    @sistascientist 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    She sent his homeboy a nude video but we don’t know fs if he like her like that either 😅.
    And then she continued trying to have a baby after finding all this out? I don’t know about this one y’all…

    • @JodiTheIslandGirl
      @JodiTheIslandGirl  16 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Lol…yes…when she said she sent the pic I was like that man don’t want you.

  • @Grandma_Jizzzzzzzard
    @Grandma_Jizzzzzzzard 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    Thank you very much for organizing and putting together the entire story in one place for those of us with no patience or TikTok!
    We appreciate your hard work, Jodi!! Starting off the new year strong! ✨💫🤍🤍

    • @JodiTheIslandGirl
      @JodiTheIslandGirl  16 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      You are most welcome! Thank you too for your tremendous support…I take nothing for granted ❤️🌴

  • @FREEDOMImFree
    @FREEDOMImFree 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    SO….let me get this straight !!! You knew he was DLing with men AND you still give him the opportunity to “have an explosion w/ you”… I can’t / l’m dead😳😵🧐

  • @Vinodevita
    @Vinodevita 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Still here! This poor Woman 😢 I would feel so destroyed..

    • @JodiTheIslandGirl
      @JodiTheIslandGirl  16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you so much for watching ☺️

  • @jazmindixon7814
    @jazmindixon7814 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I am stillll here girl lol. I’m shook

  • @thebilliexojean
    @thebilliexojean 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Not Bussy Bandit 😅😅😅😅

  • @iamchanel_b
    @iamchanel_b 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    She too calm for me and the fact that she was still willing to stay with him. She's mentally ill and I am almost believing she's lying.

  • @helltookkevinsamuelsoutoff1546
    @helltookkevinsamuelsoutoff1546 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Natalie gifted her BB

    • @JodiTheIslandGirl
      @JodiTheIslandGirl  16 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      You know you wrong for this 😂😂….but now you really have me thinking about it, you might be on to something 🤔

    • @canawolford4491
      @canawolford4491 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      😂😂😂

  • @Essence-d9v
    @Essence-d9v 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    First I don't understand you and this guy didn't get along now all of a sudden you spend a little time little and now you get along. Come on now if his mother didn't want him in her home which you knew for many many years. Why would you get involved you saying that he was a walking wreck now you have to shine that dusty ass car. Long story short girl you play yourself and was gaslit by an on the low loser that basically wanted his cake and ate it too ...

    • @JodiTheIslandGirl
      @JodiTheIslandGirl  16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      She wanted to be with someone that was ‘familiar’…. she’ll have a healthy baby that she can pour all her love into ☺️

  • @sunnysunshine6271
    @sunnysunshine6271 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Wow, that was a lot.

  • @moneygrowz
    @moneygrowz 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Women were sharing stories BEFORE Ressa Tessa. She deserves flowers but not those flowers

  • @none0924
    @none0924 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I'm still here!

  • @JenThatGurl
    @JenThatGurl 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    Hey Island Family!😊

    • @JodiTheIslandGirl
      @JodiTheIslandGirl  16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Hey hey! Happy new week fam 🌴❤️

  • @JenThatGurl
    @JenThatGurl 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    I’m still here 🍿🥤

  • @blushface
    @blushface 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    BB bussy bandit 😂😂😂

  • @marinaprosperina
    @marinaprosperina 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Sometimes, when a child has been abused or mistreated, even if they can get their life together in most respects -- good job, smart with money, etc., they can still be damaged emotionally and in matters of the heart. I'm not a psychiatrist or clinical therapist, but I certainly can see how someone who's been through childhood trauma can have blind spots. In this case, the woman really loved this dude's mother -- she trusts her. I agree with Jodi; I think her mother knew her son was gay, but she wanted this to happen. Hard to listen to, but she's hardly a criminal.

    • @JodiTheIslandGirl
      @JodiTheIslandGirl  15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Thank you so much for watching 🌴☺️

  • @ItsMe-xx9qm
    @ItsMe-xx9qm 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    The way she kind of laughs it off…
    She is in no way ready to be a mother. I see her bringing men around her baby when she “thinks” she’s ready.
    It’s something off with her too.

  • @dallasjayce
    @dallasjayce 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This girl making me so mad !!!!!! How many signs do you need to see the best friend would’ve been enough for me !!!!! Baby this is too much

  • @ingerjackson3809
    @ingerjackson3809 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Trying not to judge... but me personally would divorce and move on...no child support and no contact. My child would never go around him 🙄

  • @tracyparker2087
    @tracyparker2087 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I normally don’t listen to these stories but I wanted to hear your story. I will say find God & trust him. No one can ever love you like him. God will supply all your needs. Find a good church home for you and your child and start life over. I’m praying for you & your child.

  • @JajaTaj
    @JajaTaj 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I think it was the sons mom who set it up all along …

    • @SunniBlazing
      @SunniBlazing 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫‼️‼️‼️

  • @traceydean2803
    @traceydean2803 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Everybody knew he was gay, even Jennifer 😒. So I’m not getting why she’s saying how she got married to a DL man. She knew he was before marriage

  • @bbraswe2
    @bbraswe2 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    He knew she had no spine and would tolerate this. That sucks. Hope she’s ok.

  • @renealee
    @renealee 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    😮 This story takes you through it but I don't feel sorry for her. Chosen choices. Although, she still has not developed any self respect. There is NO way anyone but my therapist would have heard this story. I dang show won't have put it on the internet, where my child may one day see it. Craziness!!

  • @Princess.Aary.
    @Princess.Aary. 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    It’s so weird seeing this pop up here bc I know this woman 😂

    • @JodiTheIslandGirl
      @JodiTheIslandGirl  16 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Like in real life? ….So you know her husband as well? 👀….Lawdddd…..

  • @sandycloss2840
    @sandycloss2840 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Not gonna shame you; most of us women ignore the RED flags. I certainly have. I admire your strength. May JESUS bless and keep you! No doubt your childhood abandonment/mistreatment led you here. You're gonna be fine ! He needs THERAPY ASAP!

  • @Kali-m8m
    @Kali-m8m 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    1:14:40 Most recent fiancé 😳 But she also says she isn’t dating🤔 This is all confusing

  • @tawrencenoblesr1902
    @tawrencenoblesr1902 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I'm At You're GOOFY #4 At 32:12 🤦‍♂️

  • @thebilliexojean
    @thebilliexojean 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    She’s saying he pushed for a baby. Y’all both did! Y’all both have terrible judgment.

  • @Liviebaby333
    @Liviebaby333 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Woooooshhh what a story😅
    My only remark is really at the end of the video.
    She shouldn’t have posted a picture of anyone..they obviously would reach out when they see it so I find that it was unnecessary to do alll of that at the end .
    But moral of the story.. impatience can put you in a tight &&’ nasty spot

    • @JodiTheIslandGirl
      @JodiTheIslandGirl  16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      You are absolutely right!

    • @tasheannaw.4537
      @tasheannaw.4537 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Yep Ferris could be closeted too! Or just not want to be involved in this circus anymore

  • @shannonriddell1056
    @shannonriddell1056 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Wowwwww :) :)

  • @ibrahim_khalilx
    @ibrahim_khalilx 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Not wanting to victim blame but ........

  • @Poeticfloetic
    @Poeticfloetic 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Wow 👂🏽😳🤯😬☣️🤐❤️

  • @bigkhristv
    @bigkhristv 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    The mother is a predator too. She knew about her son being rainbow 🌈 at a young age that’s the real reason why she stepped in to this girls life as a mother figure.

    • @JodiTheIslandGirl
      @JodiTheIslandGirl  16 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      I’m happy to see I’m not the only one who thought so

    • @kameralkutie5594
      @kameralkutie5594 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      I understand it, but she said the mother told her several times he was gay even before they got together. She is a grown woman that decided to stay.🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @sarahcaitlyn88
      @sarahcaitlyn88 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      So, I'm sure this will tick people off... however, look at it with common sense..
      I was feeling bad for her... then the longer the story went on... the less sympathy I felt..
      Because what about the woman knowing her husband is a rainbow, unstable, etc... yet had a child with him!? Knowingly bringing a child into not just a broken home, but one with so much turmoil and drama.
      She said she did it AFTER knowing it all.... She's selfish.

    • @kameralkutie5594
      @kameralkutie5594 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      @@sarahcaitlyn88 this one☝🏽 I had to leave a few times then come back because I was just over it.

    • @tiahnarodriguez3809
      @tiahnarodriguez3809 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@kameralkutie5594 That part. She was warned and still did it cuz she wanted a baby. I always side eye when people say they didn’t know cuz like 90% of the time they did. Straight foolishness on this woman’s part.

  • @gailainsley6939
    @gailainsley6939 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Do they pay them to make multiple videos or something? . Girl was soo annoying. Just record in one take. Sheesh. 😅😴🚮

    • @sunnysunshine6271
      @sunnysunshine6271 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      It's TikTok....there is a time limit.

  • @shishi48
    @shishi48 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This story was good minus the incessant lip smacking and repeating open case and angry rainbow was a little derogatory coming from someone who chose to ignore every red flag along with his mother, literally telling her to leave because he was rainbow.
    I don’t really have too much sympathy for her. Honestly, she put herself in the situation halfway out of desperation, halfway out of grasping for what she didn’t have when she was a kid.

  • @emmr2739
    @emmr2739 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I think she explains to the best of her ability the mind control an abuser can put you through. He took her advantage of her willingness to understand and work towards a solution. He knew he was being unfaithful and lying about his inclinations and future intentions. That is on him. She was targeted and victimised.

    • @JodiTheIslandGirl
      @JodiTheIslandGirl  16 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      I totally understand this perspective but remember when she found out about everything she still chose to move forward with the baby….his own mother advised against her continuing the relationship.

    • @emmr2739
      @emmr2739 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @JodiTheIslandGirl Absolutely, and she did eventually wise up. Despite her finding evidence, he continued to gaslight and deflect the accusations. He continued to deny and future faked her into thinking his priority was her and having a family. She had moments of clarity, but he had deliberately caused her confusion, causing her to doubt her own perceptions.

  • @lindsaymacklin8220
    @lindsaymacklin8220 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    What’s Poom poom??!

    • @JodiTheIslandGirl
      @JodiTheIslandGirl  16 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      Vag, Coochie, Kitty Cat…lol 😂

  • @yallcrazy302
    @yallcrazy302 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I feel sad for her. This is something I feel like any of us would do given the right circumstances. Always looking for the best in people who don’t deserve it because we think this person loves us and we love that feeling so much.

  • @Lonerstoner21
    @Lonerstoner21 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    It could just be me, but this doesn’t seem like a true story…

    • @JodiTheIslandGirl
      @JodiTheIslandGirl  16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Someone in the comments says they know her

  • @EBAYBONNIE
    @EBAYBONNIE 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +20

    Yall always want to feel sorry for these women. Clearly they all knew he was dl and turned their heads. That women was good to her don’t make her a villain. She decided to be with a dl man and admits on this video that she knew.

    • @riquittamoore4874
      @riquittamoore4874 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Exactly no DL but she knew he was bi..

    • @JodiTheIslandGirl
      @JodiTheIslandGirl  16 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      They definitely had an idea…I think she wanted the baby so bad she chose to lie to herself

    • @Maialeen
      @Maialeen 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Not this one. Still so deIusional. She wishes it was "one of the dolls". It's her issue that he was doing that with "a full blown man". As if "one of the dolls" isn't still a man and he still isn't straight.

    • @Ch33t4h
      @Ch33t4h 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      👏👏 thank you I am so sick of people setting their children up like this with these notshyt parental figures, and then crying that it’s because of their trauma...ok..so therefore, you should actually know better. One thing people can’t seem to wrap their head around is that just because someone was a victim as a kid does not mean that they can't grow up to be extremely selfish themselves. No pass on this one.