Hey Yall...Great topic! Currently I value the peace and solace I have so I won't entertain anyone toxic...BUT in my past I did entertain a major 'project' and a couple of mini ones (until I decided to move around). One thing about us, is we're going to see things through when we have a vision....and it can definitely be to our detriment. Becuase we want to reap the 'reward' of the hard work and intentionality we put towards improving the life a partner we'll stick it through. Are we ever 'dumb'....I would say No....just INVESTED (to a fault). We're too observant to be 'blinded' by things. We may let you rock with B.S, but as you all said----we see it and know it's there. I believe this pattern of accepting toxicity and overall foolishness stops when we grow to understand OUR value as a partner is NOT tied to our ability to 'heal the wounded'. And in understanding we deserve HEALED partners who can also pour into us just as we'd do them.
As a virgo, we all need growth and maturity of age. To really understand are worth. I would never now be with anyone that did not believe in full reciprocity in a relationship with me. Don't get me wrong I absolutely love my freedom and total independence now, so would find it hard to give it up for anyone, when I meet people my bluntness can really put people off, so guess I'm safe in that respects now😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Wow I thought I was the only one that felt like this 9/1 I’ll think he’s cute and if it gets serious to fast I get skeptical start watching patterns and if they are consistent and persistent and I’m doing so much analysis that IT drives me crazy cause ion gotta go thru all that single. But it’s hard af to stay single cause when u don’t want anyone it seems everyone wants u. And I agree we know how loyal we are so that’s y we analyze tf outta them after we get over the puppy love part smh then be like damn he’s cute but ion know if he’s it cause I’m seeing now he’s doing this n that. N like y’all said we dumb from the start n get smart as we go 😂 after we’re invested
Yall both right asf! We don't even like ppl like that. To be chosen by us means ur truly special. We just try to teach them how special they are or could be. We see the best in the ppl we love. 1. We fall in love very slowly. 2. Once completely in love, we put up with alot CUZ WE LOVE U N WE WANNA FIX U not cuz we're dumb, but we know we can n want to help. 3. Once we realize we can't fix u, the potential of what it COULD BE isn't enough that's when we dip NEVER to return. 4. God bless u n good luck but I'm ✌🏾 5. Repeat with someone new 6. IM TIRED, COME FIXED ATP!!!
It’s the 3,4,5,6 for me 😂😂😂….I feel like because we be knowing the root of why someone is the way they are we be wanting them to heal & become their greater selves
It’s beautiful to see how much I’ve evolved. In the past, I’ve definitely been the fixer (I still have that strange attraction but I recognize it & don’t entertain). I’ve stayed in things till I got to “that point” when really my spirit team pushed my ass out since I wasn’t making a firm decision. But I wouldn’t DARE do those things again. I remind myself how that hurt me in the past & I won’t have it!
An excellent topic today: I am at the age that I do not want any more Projects. I considered myself "dumb" in past relationships when I knew he had flags and didn't want to leave because I loved him and the feeling that I didn't finish making the person RIGHT in my mind and eyes... the finished project. Im good being dumb in love ❤️
Virgo’s love LOVE & longevity I hate that for us…😭😭😭😭 once we realize it’s not working we still stay and and let the other person play themselves right out of lives to have a reason to leave OR once we have that opportunity to bounce we gone and we gone FA EVA 😂😂😂😂
I used to be like that, i grow out of it because i was drained by trying to fix people. Now I'm aware of that behavior in me so I'm trying my best to not include myself in people's business
I'm not gona lie i was stuck on stupid for a good three years with a cancer guy who wasn't taking me serious. I don't know where all those feelings I had for him came from but I lost myself. It was hard but I had to cut myself off from him, I had to block and then deleted him off everything and stay away from him. It took me a long time to get over him. I wasn't eating, I was crying all the time, I wouldn't see no one I was a mess.
Exactly sis ! I feel like whenever we loose ourselves in a relationship we give them out power which we then are weak and allow someone to just play in our face because we don’t be having the strength to fight back right away
I hope you have become more of yourself again. Us Virgos usually always come back wiser and stronger with experience. I was dumb married and in love for 4 years myself. Didn’t even know I was that dumb until after I left.
I don't like “fixing” ppl I ultimately want that person to have their ish together!! That is my dream but do I like mysteriousness at times yes, I like space too, I like things to be a bit spontaneous! But if you come with too many problems its a major turn off for me and i’m already planning a ending especially if I see you handling your self and problems the “wrong” way or you’re being too needy. And another thing ppl be hiding so well and by the time u find out who they really are it be too late to turn your feelings off so the Virgo and noble thing to do is “Try” to work out the kinks. But i’ve been learning to think while i’m emotionally involved and I have a small problem with going back at times & i’m trying to cut that out as well. But overall being dumb is enough to make me chill out for awhile until I actually learn to stop hurting myself for the sake of love!
Absolutely!!!! These people be out here wearing MASK hiding their whole identity 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️… it’s disgusting out here ! I agree 💯 percent with “STOP HURTING YOURSELF FOR LOVE “ !!!!
Yes Virgos are very intelligent can’t hold shit past us for long. We definitely are well aware of the issues at hand but we won’t away until we had absolutely have had enough! U Won’t break my soul
@@VirgoTherapyDefinitely! I’m learning to remain detached though so that I don’t become emotionally exhausted 😩. Im all for that old analogy if u love something let it go if it comes back it must be something there 🥴lol! 1❤️! If they were toxic don’t come back let that shit go! Toxic is definitely not worth reconciling once you burned your bridges 🌁
I've been dumb before, but now I'm older and more wise, no. I have zero tolerance for so many things that it's half for me to date. That's why I'm single because I'm too picky, st in my ways, and I'm not going, lol😂. And you're right. my relationship has to be meaningful. Like, I'm working towards something, lol, but not to fix a man, etc
Absolutely true. I am a fixer and always attracted to the toxic broken ones. But after they get healed they like to up and leave for some other chick they think suits them and gets broken and wants to come back. Lol that is a karmic cycle that just gets to me.
Very accurate! Yes we can be dumb in love. Alwats giving people to much benefit of doubt. Being too trusting and forgiving. When we know these people aubt shit! But we do grow in to an evolved Virgo and know how to spot BULLSHIT a mile away. Once we learn this we remove people from our life a lot sooner. 💜
I’ve definitely been dumb in love 🤣😫💪🏾❤️🩹 and when she said that “15-20yrs”🎯 but when u mature emotionally and mentally man…u be so quick with them ✂️ 😂…this was on point #BygVyrgoatVybez🔊🫶🏽💫✨🧘🏾♀️💨 #919
Virgos ♍️ are attracted to love automatically. We're the lovers of the zodiacal signs. We're not dumb or stupid when it comes to love, but no one put us under no man, no man. I ain't having it. Virgos ♍️ Rules The World. I prefer long-term, but I don't take any mess. Straight like that.
I guess I've outgrown that faze. You broken, toxic and all that I'M OUT!!! 3 YRS FROM 50 I ain't got the time. Once I smell you broken I'm running. Ask the last 2..😂
I am a Virgo and love is a pain in the ass, I would rather live with myself than start another relationship. There is not a single person that could persuade me to this again.
😂😂😂 if it doesnt serve us we are out. dumb or not we will exhaust all measures b4 exiting. like Jill Scott said slowly surely I walk away from misusing love abusing love just cant be. ❤ . great topic. And definitely resonate with me. Im unfazed n don't wanna b bothered at this time doing me self❤ is the best ❤ and project for this Virgo no more toxic fuxx boy or broken souls to fix Im all the way good. 😂😂😂 and yes we be knowing everything b4 we leave cuz at that point we aint coming back unless shxx changed for the better as we pictured.😊
I'm dumb in love for facts My endurance is HIGH I have taken a lot of jabs and dabs but no more!! Tired of getting my feelings hurt and trying to convince people I'm really who I say I am
Yes, I am a Virgo and I have been dumb in love. However, I feel even dumber after it's over because once again, I have allowed someone to come into my personal space, and lie and play in my face, when all of the signs have been there. When I'm in, I'm all in, I want to love the man I'm with, and I want him to know that he is loved, and have my full attention. I go into these situations with my heart fully open, even when my brain is screaming at me, and the red flags are there. I never expect really, but hope that he will see the effort that I am putting forth, and follow suit, and return that same type of love. Love truly can blind you. But in the end it's always the same old mess. I have experienced enough pain, disappointment, and hurt in that aspect of my life. So when I turned 50, I decided that I was done. Yeah, it gets lonely sometimes, but I desire my peace. I'm not sitting around waiting for a text, or pondering over who they're out with, when they're not with me. To some it's a sad existence, but I was just really tired of getting the short end of the stick.
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽… ALL OF THIS 💯💯💯… it’s that good heart we have. We try our best to see the good in everyone & our hurts won’t allow us to mistreats others especially because we be knowing the root of why they are the way they are ! & we always love our life knowing that GOD GOT US & will bring us OUR PERSON !! So we remain with a good heart
We are really tolerant in love will also fantasize romantic scenarios with you it's could be a dance a date a serenade maybe a day dream, when I was a little girl I used to be attracted to the bad boys the "broken ones" to fix them but now I'm not attracted to anybody.
Dang I don't want no more fixer uppers I gott it 10x worst because my Dad was a fixer he was the dominant parent growing up and I have taken on a lot of his characteristics
Hey Yall...Great topic!
Currently I value the peace and solace I have so I won't entertain anyone toxic...BUT in my past I did entertain a major 'project' and a couple of mini ones (until I decided to move around).
One thing about us, is we're going to see things through when we have a vision....and it can definitely be to our detriment. Becuase we want to reap the 'reward' of the hard work and intentionality we put towards improving the life a partner we'll stick it through.
Are we ever 'dumb'....I would say No....just INVESTED (to a fault). We're too observant to be 'blinded' by things. We may let you rock with B.S, but as you all said----we see it and know it's there.
I believe this pattern of accepting toxicity and overall foolishness stops when we grow to understand OUR value as a partner is NOT tied to our ability to 'heal the wounded'. And in understanding we deserve HEALED partners who can also pour into us just as we'd do them.
Love this comment. ❤ - the growth and healing is def needed to get to where you know your worth and won’t accept anything less
EXACTLY THIS !!!! This is what we were saying in a nut shell 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽…. Your comments are always on the money ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Yeess 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 you know 💯
As a virgo, we all need growth and maturity of age. To really understand are worth. I would never now be with anyone that did not believe in full reciprocity in a relationship with me. Don't get me wrong I absolutely love my freedom and total independence now, so would find it hard to give it up for anyone, when I meet people my bluntness can really put people off, so guess I'm safe in that respects now😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
We put our all into them damn projects too.😂😂😂
FR THO 😂😂😂😂…. They lil raggedy selves 😭😭😭
😂😂😂😂😂
I don't like myself when I like someone. I like being single better more self love for me
😂😂😂… being single is definitely less stressful
Wow I thought I was the only one that felt like this 9/1 I’ll think he’s cute and if it gets serious to fast I get skeptical start watching patterns and if they are consistent and persistent and I’m doing so much analysis that IT drives me crazy cause ion gotta go thru all that single. But it’s hard af to stay single cause when u don’t want anyone it seems everyone wants u. And I agree we know how loyal we are so that’s y we analyze tf outta them after we get over the puppy love part smh then be like damn he’s cute but ion know if he’s it cause I’m seeing now he’s doing this n that. N like y’all said we dumb from the start n get smart as we go 😂 after we’re invested
Yall both right asf! We don't even like ppl like that. To be chosen by us means ur truly special. We just try to teach them how special they are or could be. We see the best in the ppl we love.
1. We fall in love very slowly.
2. Once completely in love, we put up with alot CUZ WE LOVE U N WE WANNA FIX U not cuz we're dumb, but we know we can n want to help.
3. Once we realize we can't fix u, the potential of what it COULD BE isn't enough that's when we dip NEVER to return.
4. God bless u n good luck but I'm ✌🏾
5. Repeat with someone new
6. IM TIRED, COME FIXED ATP!!!
It’s the 3,4,5,6 for me 😂😂😂….I feel like because we be knowing the root of why someone is the way they are we be wanting them to heal & become their greater selves
Virgos love people who don’t deserve it. Time to switch it up. X
THIS !!!!!! Definitely have to start choosing better
Yes. I put up with a lot in relationships. But, when I leave... I never go back. Lol😊
THAT PART !!!!! & easier to leave because we know we’ve tried EVERYTHING to make it work
It’s beautiful to see how much I’ve evolved. In the past, I’ve definitely been the fixer (I still have that strange attraction but I recognize it & don’t entertain). I’ve stayed in things till I got to “that point” when really my spirit team pushed my ass out since I wasn’t making a firm decision.
But I wouldn’t DARE do those things again. I remind myself how that hurt me in the past & I won’t have it!
Definitely be the spirit team that get us out 😂😂😂. But I agree as we heal & learn our worth we stop accepting just anything
Ommgeee I ain’t never said facts so many times watching a video. 🤣 this is crazy. Y’all helping me heal. 😂
😂👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽💪🏾💪🏾
An excellent topic today: I am at the age that I do not want any more Projects. I considered myself "dumb" in past relationships when I knew he had flags and didn't want to leave because I loved him and the feeling that I didn't finish making the person RIGHT in my mind and eyes... the finished project. Im good being dumb in love ❤️
I definitely understand. As we get older we don’t got time for the games 🙅🏽♀️🙅🏽♀️
Virgo’s love LOVE & longevity I hate that for us…😭😭😭😭 once we realize it’s not working we still stay and and let the other person play themselves right out of lives to have a reason to leave OR once we have that opportunity to bounce we gone and we gone FA EVA 😂😂😂😂
Straight facts 😂😂😂…. We definitely let them play themselves just so they know for future reference THEY BETTER NOT EVAAAAA LOOK OUR WAY AGAIN.
@@VirgoTherapy FACTS‼️😆😆
I used to be like that, i grow out of it because i was drained by trying to fix people. Now I'm aware of that behavior in me so I'm trying my best to not include myself in people's business
It definitely drains you
I've learned to have projects separate from my relationship. I want a partner to help me with the projects! We fix the projects together...lol 😊
Yes
That’s definitely how we gotta do it. Because if this brain isn’t occupied - our mates will become that project
I can second this but I feel like we ALWAYS gotta throw our lil razzle dazzle on our partners 😂😂😂
Facts !!!! 😂😂😂… we definitely have to stay occupied or we will definitely start picking lol
Why is this video so accurate?! 😂😂😂😂
😂😂..
I'm not gona lie i was stuck on stupid for a good three years with a cancer guy who wasn't taking me serious. I don't know where all those feelings I had for him came from but I lost myself. It was hard but I had to cut myself off from him, I had to block and then deleted him off everything and stay away from him. It took me a long time to get over him. I wasn't eating, I was crying all the time, I wouldn't see no one I was a mess.
Exactly sis ! I feel like whenever we loose ourselves in a relationship we give them out power which we then are weak and allow someone to just play in our face because we don’t be having the strength to fight back right away
I hope you have become more of yourself again. Us Virgos usually always come back wiser and stronger with experience. I was dumb married and in love for 4 years myself. Didn’t even know I was that dumb until after I left.
I don't like “fixing” ppl I ultimately want that person to have their ish together!! That is my dream but do I like mysteriousness at times yes, I like space too, I like things to be a bit spontaneous! But if you come with too many problems its a major turn off for me and i’m already planning a ending especially if I see you handling your self and problems the “wrong” way or you’re being too needy. And another thing ppl be hiding so well and by the time u find out who they really are it be too late to turn your feelings off so the Virgo and noble thing to do is “Try” to work out the kinks. But i’ve been learning to think while i’m emotionally involved and I have a small problem with going back at times & i’m trying to cut that out as well. But overall being dumb is enough to make me chill out for awhile until I actually learn to stop hurting myself for the sake of love!
Absolutely!!!! These people be out here wearing MASK hiding their whole identity 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️… it’s disgusting out here ! I agree 💯 percent with “STOP HURTING YOURSELF FOR LOVE “ !!!!
Yes Virgos are very intelligent can’t hold shit past us for long. We definitely are well aware of the issues at hand but we won’t away until we had absolutely have had enough! U Won’t break my soul
Your right !!! But we do have to learn how to stop staying so long & over exhausting ourselves
@@VirgoTherapyDefinitely! I’m learning to remain detached though so that I don’t become emotionally exhausted 😩. Im all for that old analogy if u love something let it go if it comes back it must be something there 🥴lol! 1❤️! If they were toxic don’t come back let that shit go! Toxic is definitely not worth reconciling once you burned your bridges 🌁
I've been dumb before, but now I'm older and more wise, no. I have zero tolerance for so many things that it's half for me to date. That's why I'm single because I'm too picky, st in my ways, and I'm not going, lol😂. And you're right. my relationship has to be meaningful. Like, I'm working towards something, lol, but not to fix a man, etc
Yeah once your older & healed it’s a wrap for all the games . Cause we don’t have no time t waste . & now a days the dating market is TRASH !!!
Great discussion 💯💯💯💯
Thanks sis ❤️
This is a great video ❤️👏🏽 and I believe all zodiac signs could relate to this.
Thank you ❤️❤️…. I believe so too
Absolutely true. I am a fixer and always attracted to the toxic broken ones. But after they get healed they like to up and leave for some other chick they think suits them and gets broken and wants to come back. Lol that is a karmic cycle that just gets to me.
😂😂😂😂…. AINT NOBODY BETTER THAN US ! That’s exactly why they always come back . Silly rabbit 🐇
Very accurate! Yes we can be dumb in love. Alwats giving people to much benefit of doubt. Being too trusting and forgiving. When we know these people aubt shit! But we do grow in to an evolved Virgo and know how to spot BULLSHIT a mile away. Once we learn this we remove people from our life a lot sooner. 💜
ALL OF THIS 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽…. We definitely have to stop being so understanding
We stay because we feel like we failed if we don’t fix them… but when we get to that stage of where we’re done, then we gawn!!
That’s exactly it ! But once we stop giving af IT’S A WRAP !!
This so accurate omg 😂😂 but us virgos dont like to start over when we are all invested in a connection 😩😩😩 I just can't tolerate toxicity tho ✌🏼
& we hate to waste INVESTED TIME!!! That’s the worst thing someone can do is have us waste our time 😮💨😮💨
@@VirgoTherapy yep that ish hits different 💯
Always made wrong choices in love.
We appreciate that honesty !!! That’s rs . We definitely make the wrong choices a lot
I’ve definitely been dumb in love 🤣😫💪🏾❤️🩹 and when she said that “15-20yrs”🎯 but when u mature emotionally and mentally man…u be so quick with them ✂️ 😂…this was on point #BygVyrgoatVybez🔊🫶🏽💫✨🧘🏾♀️💨 #919
I agree once we’ve healed ! Been dumbs a 100 times & learned our worth…. Wheeeewwww baby we disappear with no explanation 😂😂😂
Yup the toxic one the bad ass that i'on got no business being with them, i swear this me.....i hate starting over.
😂😂😂😂… we are a mess
@@VirgoTherapy Yessssssss OMG
I want to fix them up to my specifications
😭😭😭… we need them to operate perfectly in our lives
💯
Virgos ♍️ are attracted to love automatically. We're the lovers of the zodiacal signs. We're not dumb or stupid when it comes to love, but no one put us under no man, no man. I ain't having it. Virgos ♍️ Rules The World. I prefer long-term, but I don't take any mess. Straight like that.
💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽
I guess I've outgrown that faze. You broken, toxic and all that I'M OUT!!! 3 YRS FROM 50 I ain't got the time. Once I smell you broken I'm running. Ask the last 2..😂
Well that’s understandable especially with you being older .
The last person I tried to "fix" grew a lot of resentment towards me 😢😢😢
That can definitely happened when they’re making the changes cause of you & not themselves
I am a Virgo and love is a pain in the ass, I would rather live with myself than start another relationship. There is not a single person that could persuade me to this again.
Ohhh nooo trust me I GET IT !!! But we all need someone. God should of just made us our own set of people just for Virgos 😂😂😂
😂😂😂 if it doesnt serve us we are out. dumb or not we will exhaust all measures b4 exiting. like Jill Scott said slowly surely I walk away from misusing love abusing love just cant be. ❤ .
great topic. And definitely resonate with me. Im unfazed n don't wanna b bothered at this time doing me self❤ is the best ❤ and project for this Virgo no more toxic fuxx boy or broken souls to fix Im all the way good. 😂😂😂 and yes we be knowing everything b4 we leave cuz at that point we aint coming back unless shxx changed for the better as we pictured.😊
😂😂😂😂😂… we definitely be extremely happy single . We don’t be having all that unnecessary stress
I'm dumb in love for facts My endurance is HIGH I have taken a lot of jabs and dabs but no more!! Tired of getting my feelings hurt and trying to convince people I'm really who I say I am
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽… & gotta learn to leave AS SOON AS THEY SHOW YOU WHO THEY ARE THE 1ST TIME !!!!
@@VirgoTherapy Yes!!
We have to feel something to put up with yo shit. If we don't we don't TOLERATE SHIT❤❤❤❤❤
For sure !!! Well only do it for someone we love or like a lot . If we don’t like you WE DONT GIVE AF AT ALL . When going ghost expeditiously
Yes, I am a Virgo and I have been dumb in love. However, I feel even dumber after it's over because once again, I have allowed someone to come into my personal space, and lie and play in my face, when all of the signs have been there.
When I'm in, I'm all in, I want to love the man I'm with, and I want him to know that he is loved, and have my full attention. I go into these situations with my heart fully open, even when my brain is screaming at me, and the red flags are there. I never expect really, but hope that he will see the effort that I am putting forth, and follow suit, and return that same type of love. Love truly can blind you. But in the end it's always the same old mess. I have experienced enough pain, disappointment, and hurt in that aspect of my life. So when I turned 50, I decided that I was done. Yeah, it gets lonely sometimes, but I desire my peace. I'm not sitting around waiting for a text, or pondering over who they're out with, when they're not with me. To some it's a sad existence, but I was just really tired of getting the short end of the stick.
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽… ALL OF THIS 💯💯💯… it’s that good heart we have. We try our best to see the good in everyone & our hurts won’t allow us to mistreats others especially because we be knowing the root of why they are the way they are ! & we always love our life knowing that GOD GOT US & will bring us OUR PERSON !! So we remain with a good heart
I will leave toxic, I'm not Barbara the builder.
So you’ve never been “dumb” in a relationship?
@@VirgoTherapy when I was in my 20's
@@VirgoTherapy we Have 3 stages as virgos and not to remain in the Virgin stage as virgo women.
We are really tolerant in love will also fantasize romantic scenarios with you it's could be a dance a date a serenade maybe a day dream, when I was a little girl I used to be attracted to the bad boys the "broken ones" to fix them but now I'm not attracted to anybody.
It’s the “Not attracted to nobody “ ! It’s soooo horrible now a days 🤦🏽♀️
Virgo don’t like nobody lol 😆
AT ALL 😂😂😂
This is some crazy shat! 😅 Why do Virgos waste their time fixing people?
😂😂😂😂… Cause we believe we have the solution to every problem/broken person 😮💨😮💨
Dang I don't want no more fixer uppers I gott it 10x worst because my Dad was a fixer he was the dominant parent growing up and I have taken on a lot of his characteristics
Ahhhh mannnn & it’s crazy cause it’s in our nature to FIX … but it’s like all these broken people be attracted to us 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
@@VirgoTherapy *sighs*
It's rare for virgo men to fall in love... my 2nd was pisces ill get her after the crypto bullrun
Same goes for the women too
@@VirgoTherapy yes.. I have to LOVE. Woman deep to want to be with her.. otherwise I'll just be alone, think it's worse for virgo men.. lol
Not dumb enough to get married or say we go together.
😂😂😂😂… DEFINITELY NOT WALKING THAT AISLE with the WRONG person 🙅🏽♀️🙅🏽♀️🙅🏽♀️