@@artisanshrew I honestly don’t know if there are any. This judge is super hard to catch. If they were out there, someone would have seen it and said something in the comments. I read 95% of the comments and I’ve seen nothing.
@@peopleincourt You had me in limbo there for a hot minute, when she said our family wizard my first thought was ok she cuckoo for cocoa puffs, and then as this played out I'm watching and waiting for the orderlies and psychiatrist to just pop on her screen with "Ok judge we just sedated and put her in a straight jacket so she can't harm any one and will put her threw a full spectrum psych eval", cause this lady is bat shit crazy. Then you put on the screen what the OFW app was, never heard of anything like that so when polly said OFW I took the loony at her word lol. YOU CHECKY BASTARD LMFAO, you got me real good with this one.
I just have to say that it’s really nice to see a dad protected by the court. This judge is wonderful. So is his attorney. Shout out to the other Judge that denied the PPO.
Samantha represented me in my divorce and she was absolutely fantastic. My ex wife didn't even respond and Samantha gave me partial payment back, she could have kept every bit but she is just rock solid.
only because he had money for a attorney. cost me 10k to get custody of my son while she got the state for free, then after wining zero money for dad child support never brought up. year later she gave up her right's. if you dont have a attorney your screwed.
All the props go to the Lady Attorney. The judge was fully prepared half-ass his way through this; and the attorney was like "No judge, you're going to take this seriously, and you're going do your job."
I know. I taught high school English for years. As devastating as it is, I wish I could say it was the saddest thing I’d ever seen. Education is harder than it looks. ❤
I don't think it's fair to say that any parent hates the other parent. More than they love their kids, but some parents can make bad decisions based on emotions and based on feeling like they are being slighted by the other parent. It doesn't mean that they don't love their kids. But it does mean that they are a bit short-sighted, which is actually fairly common among human beings. We are emotional creatures and it takes a lot sometimes to control yourself. And some people are better at it than others. But that doesn't give you the right to judge whether somebody loves their kid or not. She wouldn't be doing this if she didn't love her kid. She's just making selfish decisions in the process. That makes it look like she's trying to make things difficult.
I understand your concern. It’s just that in my previous life ( school principal) I was always amazed when separated/divorced parents turned up to meetings with solicitors, took the other parent to court accusing the other parent of sexualising abusing the child ( in spite of the child protests) or only communicated with that other parent through letters. THESE parents defiantly did not think about the child. Granted, I have a number parents, who after going it alone, were unbelievable and had a very good relationships with their ex-spouse. I suppose the quality of their on- going relationship depended on their emotional intelligence or even the nature of their break- up. I just always felt very sorry for the poor children when the parents made it very obvious of their intense dislike of each other- the children often ended up confused and very anxious. Just my observations and from a middle class view. Sorry/
No doubt you can see who the true adult in the situation is and why he has custody because he's not some raging lunatic trying to use his kids as a weapon like she is. She's powerless to the situation so that's her way of trying to be vindictive and separate the child from their father
@@cynthia6407 Is THAT what "Grey Rock" is? Thanks for pointing out the example. I had a long term with a malignant narcissist. I'm still having trouble opening up; Grey Rocking it.
OMG YES! The term for that is 'emotional incest', and it's absolutely insane. Your son is not your partner, he's your son! Putting children in situations like this is literally psychological abuse. Hopefully their son comes through this unscathed.
Yes, agreed 100% on the concept of emotional incest and its impact on parent/child relationships. Often results in anxiety and troubles in future romantic relationships. This woman is losing long-term in order to serve her need for absolute control in the present.
A teacher without custody of her own children yet has everyone elses children 7-8hours a day? Add this case along with that bow and I'm convinced that she shouldn't be around other peoples children....
I see nothing wrong with that. Lol I have friends who take care of kids all day long but say that if they don't want their own. That they don't have the patience or wherewithal to be a parent. As long as they can give kids back... 🤣 They want to be childfree.
@@likeagdphoenixAnd teaching and having kids are two different things. Teachers are not there to parent the kids. That are there to teach and enforce school rules
I’m only halfway thru the video, maybe you’re talking about something I haven’t seen yet, but the part I think you’re talking about, she didn’t quite exactly say that
@@bravetitangrizzly Idk I just watched the whole video and that's exactly what she meant when she said she's not responsible if the son she has custody of at the time doesn't do the right thing. Not word for word of course, but I think that's just splitting hairs, non?
It's pathetic to waste court time to resolve issues like this. That mother is going to end up having a grown son who wants nothing to do with her. It sounds like she just wants to know everything her ex says to their son so she can have a hissy fit to use against him. She needs help. Control freak.
@@hoffpbassThere needs to be a new diagnosis called mom thinks she should be in control because I am the woman disorder because it sure seems to be happening a lot.
My sons father and I split up after 10 years together. Now 7 years later and he recently passed away. I would give anything in the world to have him back here to watch our child grow up. There is no greater show of love than to work together and model maturity and mutual respect. This Mother makes me sick!! It’s all about control. She is the problem
I'm sorry for your loss. My daughters father was murdered when she was 13 months old. She is now 20. Even after all these years id give anything for her to have one memory of him and how much he loved her.
Ikr! My husband/children father was together 15 yrs when he passed away in 2011. Now our kids are grown and we have grandchildren. It makes me frustrated and sick to my stomach watching this!
My ex and had 5 children together. When we divorced, we were still best friends and raised our children together. I understand most can’t, but it’s not unheard of and our children grew up just fine. We still have all of our holidays together, including new spouses. A big happy family. We do have our moments, but nothing we can’t solve.
@@roxanne2881So glad to see others doing this. I was married 20 years but were friends for 36. My son even said one time, 'Mom, I'm glad you & dad are friends. It makes it so much nicer for us and appreciate this.' I just don't think people should act like idiots! My children & grandchildren were more important to me & should be to every parent! We have had holidays together with him remarried, stayed at each other's house, I've taken grands to see him, & friends with his wife. It has been the very best. December 19th will be 4 years since he died of cancer. I miss his friendship immensely. Six months later lost my baby sister to cancer. A year later, I lost a dear friend sister to cancer. Life is short...no time for BS. So glad the judge saw through her shenigans!! ❤
This guy is really getting his money worth with his lawyer. She argues for him in a calm way, winning over the judge, and he gets to sit there in silence, which is the best strategy.
Attorney is great but overall he is losing. It sounds like they are long divorced and she’s since lost custody of the children due to her behavior. Instead of the situation being settled after a few years he has to continue to keep an attorney on retainer and pay an attorney to respond to nonsense motion after motion. There is another video of them on TH-cam from maybe a week ago that again was a bunch of nonsense. And there may of even been another hearing in between because the mother was ordered to pay the attorney 4,000 at some point because of her nonsense motions. At least that’s how it sounded in the most recent video because the attorney was asked if she had received payment. She’s a great attorney just sad that he has to keep an attorney forever because he has to constantly protect himself from her.
As a family custody psych expert, if you're going through a contentious divorce/custody case, consider "parallel parenting" where you communicate as little as possible with the contentious spouse. Communicate only through parenting apps that record every text and conversation so there is no misunderstanding on who said what. The dialogue can easily be downloaded for court. Record every conversation. There are free apps for that. There is also a children's Bill of Rights in every state. Children are not to be Messengers, they're not to be used to pit one parent against the other, and parents are not allowed to denigrate each other in front of the child. There's more but that's a good start.
@@minarosered6699 They have other Videos. I believe in one if I Remember correctly they used our family wizard..dad was fine with it..she wasn't. That's when she purchased the child his own phone and again if I remember correctly instructed child to hide it from dad..dad caught him awake playing games on it about 2 in the morning..
This is Michigan. My ex-boyfriend (whom I broke up with after 4 years in large part because of his ex) had an ex just like this woman. She employed every parental alienation tactic possible. Even moved and moved farther away and told the kids not to tell their Father. Only had her boyfriend on their school information and even the school put up a fight with my ex requesting to be added because her Mom worked at the school. I had to compose several show cause motions as she did this kind of stuff time and again. All of the kids were flunking even in elementary school. She would then blame my ex even though he had them every other weekend. When I noticed that his 9 year old was struggling with reading a first grade level book at bedtime, I told my ex he needs help and needs an IEP. I encouraged him to request to be tested and she pitched a fit and told the teachers Dad had no right to make the request. She did not care at all that her son (and one of his daughters) was struggling with learning disabilities. She was more upset that he was exercising his parental rights and it made her look bad that he took the initiative to get his kids help. She would enroll the kids in extracurricular actives like competitive Pom and Cheer (rather than at the school) so that he would have to drive one hour away to get one daughter to pom at 3, so he would have to leave work at 2 pm, and the other daughter to cheer that started at 5 and got out at 8 and then get home at 9 pm (also have to buy dinner for the kids to go) - four days a week during his summertime parenting. She was intentionally taking over his parenting time, creating financial gas and food hardships and taking time off of work everyday to accommodate . Because I had to be the one to compensate and drive his kids to and from so he didn’t have to take the time off work that work wouldn’t even let him, and it was causing financial and logistical hardship, I composed another show cause motion. Three in total and she was held in contempt every single time. She was finally fined, which she refused to pay so they put a warrant out for her arrest and was arrested when she got pulled over. Then she blamed ME to the kids because I filed the motion. Then the kids would terrorize me and my child when they came to our home for parenting time. She also retaliated and filed a false CPS report shit my son’s father was dying of cancer. That was last straw for me. Parents like this need forensic evaluations and if they have ASPD or NPD they should not have custody. Parents like this destroy children’s relationships with people that love them, destroy their education, their trust in the world around them - all for power and control. Parental alienation laws need to be passed.
I think they should be made to pay all attorney fees. That would probably stop that nonsense, but part of taking them to court for frivolous things is they are making their ex pay. And it doesn't only cost for the courtroom time, but any phone calls you make to discuss their case. It's expensive...I know.
I 100% agree! I just chose to "eat" a $5,000 legal bill with my attorney that my ex ran up for me and then just offered to drop his case against me if I give him $3000 and pay my lawyer. He makes more than $150,000/year and I am disabled making less than $50,000/year. He has dragged me through court for 8 years now and lost every single time and every single time he had to pay my lawyer because the judge could see he was harassing me. He was using my daughter to hurt me at the last minute she told him no more. I ate the expense to stop her suffering in the middle. I wish he would go to jail for the emotional and mental abuse but I can't prove it. So, this will be a no present Christmas at my house because I have to pay a legal bill I can't afford. My relationship with my daughter is now better than ever before. I am not innocent of ever saying a negative thing about him but I made deliberate efforts at saying good things about him to my kids...looking for positives. I am disappointed in myself for not always having the emotional fortitude to always say the right things but I have tried for sure and been more successful than not. Kids eventually see the truth.
Can you even imagine being such a terrible and crazy person that you lose full physical and legal custody of your children just because you get a divorce?
Seriously, him letting his lawyer talk is EXACTLY what people need to do. I did get frustrated at the judge for asking the dad questions directly since he had representation, but it's likely the judge deals with mostly pro se litigants so it's probably just habit.
You can tell he's really beat down. I feel for him. But he's doing good having the lawyer talk for him. It shows constraint on his end, among many other things.
I am so infinitely grateful that when my parent’s split up that they were ADULTS and put my sibling and I first. It is possible to create a positive co-parenting plan outside of the courts.
You are very lucky indeed! I’m sorry you had to go through that! I hate when people create human beings and then decide to split and destroy their kids’ lives.
Yes me and my ex have a wonderful coparenting relationship and it’s because we are not bitter and we put our kid first. We are both very happy to not be in a relationship with each other and we’re both very logical and rational people so it’s been easy. It angers me to see people emotionally abuse their children by being so vindictive towards their ex.
You should see the first video I did on this judge, it’s shorter but he’s at least 20x more mad. Here’s the link… th-cam.com/video/RLo8papHjv4/w-d-xo.htmlsi=hzPYhwBP4JsQ07sM
I have a friend who is going through this EXACT same shit. His ex wife is a real pain in the behind. Drags him to court of the littlest stupidest things. She has lost physical sole custody. He has custody of the 3 kids. He is hard working and minds his own, he is a great Dad. On weekends she has the kids, when they return it's an absolute nightmare. She doesn't pay support as ordered and he has had to file contempt on her. It's just ridiculous. LOVE your kids more than you HATE your ex. Kids REMEMBER stuff.
My adult friend still speaks of his experiences being constantly dragged through family court as a kid. With his mom primarily bringing dad to court over the pettiest stuff. She's also a little cuckoo like this mom. It has permanently impacted their relationship long into adulthood, and likely always will. It always hits the kids the hardest.
@@flowerpower3618 not really. He hired a lawyer to represent himself he doesn't need to speak and if h showed any anger etc the ex wife would surely point that out. He's being smart.
@@flowerpower3618that’s literally what Lawyers advise. Be quiet and show no emotions everything can be used against you. I’ve noticed that men in family court that have lawyers follow that simple instruction to a T then mothers that do have an attorney from what ive seen in these court videos do the opposite and their attorney have to REPEATEDLY tell them to stop. I even seen a couple lawyers get annoyed enough with the wife/mom that they had to yell at them to shut up🤣 its hilarious. Just aggressive, argumentative, and selfish. And what was that insult at the end for? I saw what you did there💀. I’ve noticed women do that. Take little unnecessary digs for no reason then will instantly play victim if the favor is returned
I'm shocked. She lost custody but wants to drown Matt in court hearing and costs to make him look like a bad father and person, but meanwhile she did this to herself. For the judge to mention he knew what she was up to since their divorce is some monumental history and he's sick of it. And the dad having to raise his kids alone, along w/an exwife who wants to weigh him down, is so unfair. He must be exhausted. I am just by seeing this for the entirety of the video. Using her kids to do her dirty work really is low and something that if it doesn't stop, I hope she loses the little time she has to spend with her kids.
I love this judge, he clearly can't stand this lady and everyone watching can tell why. She is dangerous and the father has to protect himself and his kid's because it's clear she doesn't care about her kid's.
lol it’s very very rare that a woman is ordered to pay child support to a man. And even rarer for her to ever actually pay. This mum will continue to do crazy bs and there will never be any consequences. But if dad slips up even once just a little bit he will face serious consequences. That is family court in the USA. “In the best interest of the strong single mother who can do no wrong. The living goddesses of victimhood”.
@@ann316I don’t think it’s that much for 1 hearing especially with no prep needed on her behalf cause there is no real issue. He’s proably spent much more than that over the years but it might be 500 to 1000. Not 10000
Right, these judges need to start making them pay attorney fees. Especially when they have full/sole custody and the other person is filing for ridiculous things. That money could've gone toward the children instead of her ridiculous accusations.
It’s rare that women pay the same amount of child support, I had custody of my three kids and I had to wait two years and fight just to get child support
Why doesn’t the judge order a mental health evaluation? She obviously has issues, and that poor kid will be messed up by her. She shouldn’t have any contact with these kids,it’s child abuse.
Judges have to be objective. He's not a psychologist, so he can't recommend that. I have been required to go to court, but that's because I claimed that a temporary situation is what caused me to be in court in the first place. The psychologist agreed and everything was dropped. But unless you're trying to use mental health as a crutch. Or logical reason for anything, they cannot suggest you go get mental health help. It's considered uncouth and beyond a judge's reach.
Yeah, he is judge grand daddy. That's why he couldn't handle listening to the defense attorney. Explain a few things he actually complained about listening to her. Clarify something it's his job. And if he can't handle it. He should go home and retire.
Apparently this has been a couple years of this and another judge dealing with her craziness. She seems extremely unhinged and exactly the type that you read about on the news, jealous psychopath drives into a lake with kids in the back seat.
I realize this was posted 7 mos ago, but I just found it. I am thoroughly enjoying it, in the most horrified way possible. This is two children’s mother& instead of cuddling, loving, encouraging, building them up, she is trying to traumatize them. This is absolutely terrible, but engrossing all the same. Thank you for your work & for sharing it.
Her smirk when she found out she was going to get the medical information is sick this woman is emotionally unwell she doesn’t care if she loses everything, get scolded, loses parenting time. She only cares about feeling like she’s winning something and irritating him. One thing went “her way” and she felt vindicated she needs help!
Wow, I didn't realize that Karen had 0 legal custody! I would think that a mother would have to Efff up pretty badly to lose legal custody? No drugs or alcohol and she is THAT BAT SHIT CRAZY?
I know. Based on the judges attitude and comments towards her. I’m surprised charges weren’t pressed. You shouldn’t be able to legally do stuff like that.
Normally I’m not a fan of little edits added in, but the short sound effects and clips throughout made this entire mess even more entertaining of a mess.
This lady is INSANE! And no I don’t mean it loosely I mean like CLINICALLY INSANE!!! This is a waste of the court’s time to have a judge referee minuscule issues!
A big part of the game is to keep the ex husband wrapped up in attorney fees fighting false statements so it was satisfying to see the judge call that out.
Unfortunately he didn’t make her pay for the dads attorneys fees. That would have been justice. Not a warning since it’s clear she keeps filing false motions
I don’t have those, but this is an even better hearing of this Judge if you haven’t seen it. th-cam.com/video/RLo8papHjv4/w-d-xo.htmlsi=hzPYhwBP4JsQ07sM
I *had* a friend like this. Her only goal was to make her ex miserable. Her poor child still suffers... insane that any parent could not see the clear damage they're doing to their child.
My parents divorced when I was 11 and HATED each other. My dad moved out and got a place about a mile away. I went back and forth freely - if one had primary custody of me, i never knew. They also never badmouthed each other around me (and they both had plenty to say which came out after I became an adult!!!) I see parents like this and just want to puke. PUT YOUR KIDS FIRST.
How much yall wanna bet that co worker who walked in the room towards the end was standing there with her ear to the door listening to her crazy ass? lol
So let me tell you what is going to happen with the insurance card. Now anytime the kids get the sniffles she's going to go to the emergency room to rack up as much debt for him as possible.
I think it’s sad that this is happening to this child. I have a 15 year old, and a 12 year old and a 17 year old and I cannot imagine ever dragging their dad back and forth to court over this kind of stuff like it ONLY hurts the kids.
Its Not her bow..ist s her Soul !! She needs Help urgently!!! She ist helpless and having a poor mind..Hope i wrote this right... ..i Had a husband Like her..he accused me doibg Things i have never done, 2..that was so so Strange....he endet Killing him self...i am so sorry for this...
I went through this kind of legal abuse with my first husband, he took me to court a lot over a 14 year period, I never did it to him. He was totally trying to have my custody away, when our daughter grew up and started a family of her own, I told her and her husband that should the marriage end, they need to put the children before their personal feelings towards each other. Thank heaven, they listened, they do things together with the children and don’t have the same adversarial relationship that they did at the end of their marriage. For my grandchildren, I am grateful.
Do you know what a Mother has to do to NOT have legal custody of her children? I’m SO glad that this judge shut down her BS and put her in her place. She came in there with a Christmas bow or a children’s headband in her hair talking about, “he complains about what I wear… and we all see why !😂😂
Yeah that blows my mind. A mother who loses custody to a man is sooooo rare that she must have pulled some serious bs. The sad reality is that if she just toned down her insanity just a little bit she would still have primary custody.
@@jalcoboit must be really bad cuz my friend her husband was fighting for custody and his ex-wife was on drugs . Even had cops come open door when time for pick up she high like wtf . After 5 yr he won
While true, it’s obviously not as simple. There are no car fax reports on people and some people are good at hiding there ills, while they may seem pretty normal until things go sour. It’s unfortunate so many people use their kids as weapons, it’s disgusting.
Willing to bet this was one of those situations where parent A thought all of their problems would be fixed if they just had a baby. This is how that plays out… amplifies the problems.
I think this is the problem when people go looking for love. Like "I'm going to get married in the next year" and they start looking for a husband or wife. I'm older now and my friends that have been and still are married long time are ones who met there partner unexpectedly, weren't looking for love and just met someone. Opposed to my friends who were looking for a wife or husband there relationships are terrible and don't last as they married there other half based on there criteria of a good partner
You do realize that some people change over time right?!. They may be great for several years and then all of a sudden turn bad. they may put on a show until you tie the knot and then show their true colors. We don't know anything about this couple so it would be incredibly wrong to just assume that he knew all these issues before he married her
This woman is deeply disturbed. She will not be able to stop this behavior. As a former social worker with children, I sadly have witnessed the damage she is continuing to inflict upon Jude. I'm sure Jude feels as if mom needs to be protected, and he is the only one that can save her. She has spun her web and firmly entrapped him. He needs to be in therapy. His refusal to open up can be dealt with by the therapist as that is rather common in these situations. It's a very sad but not unusual scenario in divorce cases where the sole purpose becomes revenge even if the perpetrator cannot see it. I, as others on here, would like to know what she did to lose custody. It had to be extreme.
Agreed! And if she’s a teacher, I’m sure after they see this video, they will be putting her on administrative leave until she gets psychiatric help or an evaluation that clears her to work with children. She’s a huge liability!
My ex took me to the cleaners after we split. Twin boys I got every other weekend and two weeks in the summer. Child support etc. I went for full custody. Within a month she had changed her mind, and allowed joint custody as long as I paid child support. After ten years she cut that off as well. My boys are with me usually 4-5 days a week now at 13. To all my fathers out there that just wanna be dads it is possible if they aren’t completely nuts. Don’t give up
To bring up the fact that the father spoke to HIS children on her “parenting time” is BEYOND ME! You want the father of a child to not speak to them because it’s your parent time??? WTF!!!!
Shes a child. The way she looks and acts shows she never grew up. The bow in her hair, the oversized cup and the way she responds to the judge when he tells her to be quiet around 11 mins is just crazy
The fact that she doesn't argue her case, she's not committed to any of her false statements. She thanks the judge and even smiles sweetly at the end. She's happy because she's been in front of an authority figure and been shut down, in her mind she isn't to blame for any of the restrictions placed on her because "the judge did it". She can be the victim, she can blame everyone else. Oh, bloody hell, this is such a familiar game being played. After 20 years being married to the same type of sociopath, I got full custody of my kids and my ex got alternate weekends. I'm not sure if we differentiate the type of custody granted here in the UK but I got full custody - which isn't easy as a man.
Jude will grow up to resent his mother. She may have him under her control for now, however once he matures and sees what his mother really is, it will destroy her relationship with him. Can you imagine living with this manipulator?
If you think Judge mad at her, watch him lose it on this guy…th-cam.com/video/RLo8papHjv4/w-d-xo.htmlsi=f9Y1_EsVt7kGVraS
*Wonder if there are more court vids on the nightmare ex...?*
@@artisanshrew I honestly don’t know if there are any. This judge is super hard to catch. If they were out there, someone would have seen it and said something in the comments. I read 95% of the comments and I’ve seen nothing.
@@peopleincourt You had me in limbo there for a hot minute, when she said our family wizard my first thought was ok she cuckoo for cocoa puffs, and then as this played out I'm watching and waiting for the orderlies and psychiatrist to just pop on her screen with "Ok judge we just sedated and put her in a straight jacket so she can't harm any one and will put her threw a full spectrum psych eval", cause this lady is bat shit crazy. Then you put on the screen what the OFW app was, never heard of anything like that so when polly said OFW I took the loony at her word lol. YOU CHECKY BASTARD LMFAO, you got me real good with this one.
If we know their location and the names we can do a freedom of information request and see what they have.
@peopleincourt I asked a lawyer to look for prior vids on this couple, do you want me to link them to you?
I just have to say that it’s really nice to see a dad protected by the court. This judge is wonderful. So is his attorney. Shout out to the other Judge that denied the PPO.
Yeah sadly the court normal believes the females.
Samantha represented me in my divorce and she was absolutely fantastic. My ex wife didn't even respond and Samantha gave me partial payment back, she could have kept every bit but she is just rock solid.
only because he had money for a attorney. cost me 10k to get custody of my son while she got the state for free, then after wining zero money for dad child support never brought up. year later she gave up her right's. if you dont have a attorney your screwed.
All the props go to the Lady Attorney. The judge was fully prepared half-ass his way through this; and the attorney was like "No judge, you're going to take this seriously, and you're going do your job."
@@beekeeper8474 I think anyone who lies to get a ppo should be criminally charged. It’s ridiculous
As a retired principal, I met many parents who hated each other more than they loved their kids. So much bitterness!!
I know. I taught high school English for years. As devastating as it is, I wish I could say it was the saddest thing I’d ever seen. Education is harder than it looks. ❤
The way schools are now be happy you're retired!
Yes I am Margie.⭐️⭐️⭐️
I don't think it's fair to say that any parent hates the other parent. More than they love their kids, but some parents can make bad decisions based on emotions and based on feeling like they are being slighted by the other parent. It doesn't mean that they don't love their kids. But it does mean that they are a bit short-sighted, which is actually fairly common among human beings. We are emotional creatures and it takes a lot sometimes to control yourself. And some people are better at it than others. But that doesn't give you the right to judge whether somebody loves their kid or not. She wouldn't be doing this if she didn't love her kid. She's just making selfish decisions in the process. That makes it look like she's trying to make things difficult.
I understand your concern. It’s just that in my previous life ( school principal) I was always amazed when separated/divorced parents turned up to meetings with solicitors, took the other parent to court accusing the other parent of sexualising abusing the child ( in spite of the child protests) or only communicated with that other parent through letters. THESE parents defiantly did not think about the child. Granted, I have a number parents, who after going it alone, were unbelievable and had a very good relationships with their ex-spouse. I suppose the quality of their on- going relationship depended on their emotional intelligence or even the nature of their break- up. I just always felt very sorry for the poor children when the parents made it very obvious of their intense dislike of each other- the children often ended up confused and very anxious. Just my observations and from a middle class view. Sorry/
The way the father just sits there and allows his attorney to take care of things is awesome. Not shaking his head, not vindictive. Just mature.
Wii music is definitely going off in his head.
An inspiration to us all.
Best to say nothing
No doubt you can see who the true adult in the situation is and why he has custody because he's not some raging lunatic trying to use his kids as a weapon like she is. She's powerless to the situation so that's her way of trying to be vindictive and separate the child from their father
I think you can see how tense and stressed he is.
The guy must have nerves of steel.
That father is epic. Does not change facial expressions, does not talk. Just sits there. Incredible self restraint. I could never do that. Respect. .
This is the way
He’s learned to Grey Rock. It’s the best way to deal with a malignant narcissist.
@@cynthia6407 Is THAT what "Grey Rock" is? Thanks for pointing out the example. I had a long term with a malignant narcissist. I'm still having trouble opening up; Grey Rocking it.
It helps that his lawyer is good
That's because he knows he's in the right.
This woman is psycho. To have a weird conspiratorial relationship with your teenage son just creeps me out.
This woman's actions will affect his relationships with the opposite sex. She's disgusting and deranged.
OMG YES! The term for that is 'emotional incest', and it's absolutely insane. Your son is not your partner, he's your son! Putting children in situations like this is literally psychological abuse. Hopefully their son comes through this unscathed.
She is a psycho. Very sketchy.
I guarantee 100% that he will turn on her in adulthood once he realises what's gone on.
Yes, agreed 100% on the concept of emotional incest and its impact on parent/child relationships. Often results in anxiety and troubles in future romantic relationships. This woman is losing long-term in order to serve her need for absolute control in the present.
A teacher without custody of her own children yet has everyone elses children 7-8hours a day? Add this case along with that bow and I'm convinced that she shouldn't be around other peoples children....
You'll notice a similar behavior pattern among a majority of new(ish) teachers in the public education system
I see nothing wrong with that. Lol I have friends who take care of kids all day long but say that if they don't want their own. That they don't have the patience or wherewithal to be a parent.
As long as they can give kids back... 🤣
They want to be childfree.
@@FionaChandollChoosing to be child free and not having custody of your kids are two totally different things.
@@likeagdphoenixAnd teaching and having kids are two different things. Teachers are not there to parent the kids. That are there to teach and enforce school rules
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The judge sounds like a grandfather who is tired of dealing with his entitled granddaughter and is laying down the law.
Thats a perfect description
I love that judge!
I wish we had a million judges just like him.
He's a good judge I seen him in another video
This is a judge sick of women doing this to men
The fact that she said “I’m not responsible for my 14 YEAR OLD,” shows she is not an adequate parent.
I’m only halfway thru the video, maybe you’re talking about something I haven’t seen yet, but the part I think you’re talking about, she didn’t quite exactly say that
@@bravetitangrizzly
Idk I just watched the whole video and that's exactly what she meant when she said she's not responsible if the son she has custody of at the time doesn't do the right thing. Not word for word of course, but I think that's just splitting hairs, non?
Guess she thinks the ribbon makes her look like an innocent little girl is what she wants to portray!
Exactly!!!
She's a "teacher" and doesn't have custody of her children... Disturbing.
That’s crazy!
Goes to show you why our education system is in such a mess.
She appears to be attending court from the school, or at least it looks that way.
Being a teacher doesn't make you a good parent. Most teachers are crap anyway
She has custody of other's children 8 hours per day.
you know a grown woman who wears a childish bow in her hair just aint right...and she is about to prove it !!!
She’s on her way to her first communion
Right?.....😂😂😂😂😂👉🏻👉🏻👉🏻
lol spoiler alert 🤣
I just can't take her serious for that reason 😂😂
It’s distracting 😅😂
It's pathetic to waste court time to resolve issues like this. That mother is going to end up having a grown son who wants nothing to do with her. It sounds like she just wants to know everything her ex says to their son so she can have a hissy fit to use against him. She needs help. Control freak.
It sounds like she already has one who doesn’t.
That's EXACTLY what I said too
Control freak is very appropriate
Either that or she’s gonna end up with a grown son who is neurotic curled up in the fetal position in a corner, like she’s going to be soon.
She needs a psych evaluation ASAP. This woman is off balance… truly concerning.
Clinical Depression is a poor name. Generalized Psychosis is more apt.
@@hoffpbassThere needs to be a new diagnosis called mom thinks she should be in control because I am the woman disorder because it sure seems to be happening a lot.
@@hoffpbasswho said that
I can fix her 💪🏻
What a tnuc
My sons father and I split up after 10 years together. Now 7 years later and he recently passed away. I would give anything in the world to have him back here to watch our child grow up. There is no greater show of love than to work together and model maturity and mutual respect. This Mother makes me sick!! It’s all about control. She is the problem
I'm sorry for your loss. My daughters father was murdered when she was 13 months old. She is now 20. Even after all these years id give anything for her to have one memory of him and how much he loved her.
I know, she can’t see past herself or get out of her own head. She’s hurting the kids.
Ikr! My husband/children father was together 15 yrs when he passed away in 2011. Now our kids are grown and we have grandchildren. It makes me frustrated and sick to my stomach watching this!
My ex and had 5 children together. When we divorced, we were still best friends and raised our children together. I understand most can’t, but it’s not unheard of and our children grew up just fine. We still have all of our holidays together, including new spouses. A big happy family. We do have our moments, but nothing we can’t solve.
@@roxanne2881So glad to see others doing this. I was married 20 years but were friends for 36. My son even said one time, 'Mom, I'm glad you & dad are friends. It makes it so much nicer for us and appreciate this.' I just don't think people should act like idiots! My children & grandchildren were more important to me & should be to every parent! We have had holidays together with him remarried, stayed at each other's house, I've taken grands to see him, & friends with his wife. It has been the very best. December 19th will be 4 years since he died of cancer. I miss his friendship immensely. Six months later lost my baby sister to cancer. A year later, I lost a dear friend sister to cancer. Life is short...no time for BS. So glad the judge saw through her shenigans!! ❤
This guy is really getting his money worth with his lawyer. She argues for him in a calm way, winning over the judge, and he gets to sit there in silence, which is the best strategy.
Winning at all cost
He’s not 💯 innocent, there must be at least one screw loose if you choose to marry and reproduce with her. 😳😉
Attorney is great but overall he is losing. It sounds like they are long divorced and she’s since lost custody of the children due to her behavior. Instead of the situation being settled after a few years he has to continue to keep an attorney on retainer and pay an attorney to respond to nonsense motion after motion. There is another video of them on TH-cam from maybe a week ago that again was a bunch of nonsense.
And there may of even been another hearing in between because the mother was ordered to pay the attorney 4,000 at some point because of her nonsense motions. At least that’s how it sounded in the most recent video because the attorney was asked if she had received payment.
She’s a great attorney just sad that he has to keep an attorney forever because he has to constantly protect himself from her.
This attorney seems right through all this woman’s nonsense
It’s so refreshing to see a judge call someone out on their horrible behavior.
Especially a mother.
Especially a judge calling out toxic woman
"This is just bizarre to me" - Judge Frederick. :)
She’s not very bright
I was thinking the same exact thing. I think he's at his wits end at this point 😂.
As a family custody psych expert, if you're going through a contentious divorce/custody case, consider "parallel parenting" where you communicate as little as possible with the contentious spouse. Communicate only through parenting apps that record every text and conversation so there is no misunderstanding on who said what. The dialogue can easily be downloaded for court. Record every conversation. There are free apps for that. There is also a children's Bill of Rights in every state. Children are not to be Messengers, they're not to be used to pit one parent against the other, and parents are not allowed to denigrate each other in front of the child. There's more but that's a good start.
Excellent advice!
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They have other Videos.
I believe in one if I Remember correctly they used our family wizard..dad was fine with it..she wasn't.
That's when she purchased the child his own phone and again if I remember correctly instructed child to hide it from dad..dad caught him awake playing games on it about 2 in the morning..
I just went full NC to protect myself.
This is Michigan. My ex-boyfriend (whom I broke up with after 4 years in large part because of his ex) had an ex just like this woman. She employed every parental alienation tactic possible. Even moved and moved farther away and told the kids not to tell their Father. Only had her boyfriend on their school information and even the school put up a fight with my ex requesting to be added because her Mom worked at the school. I had to compose several show cause motions as she did this kind of stuff time and again. All of the kids were flunking even in elementary school. She would then blame my ex even though he had them every other weekend. When I noticed that his 9 year old was struggling with reading a first grade level book at bedtime, I told my ex he needs help and needs an IEP. I encouraged him to request to be tested and she pitched a fit and told the teachers Dad had no right to make the request. She did not care at all that her son (and one of his daughters) was struggling with learning disabilities. She was more upset that he was exercising his parental rights and it made her look bad that he took the initiative to get his kids help. She would enroll the kids in extracurricular actives like competitive Pom and Cheer (rather than at the school) so that he would have to drive one hour away to get one daughter to pom at 3, so he would have to leave work at 2 pm, and the other daughter to cheer that started at 5 and got out at 8 and then get home at 9 pm (also have to buy dinner for the kids to go) - four days a week during his summertime parenting. She was intentionally taking over his parenting time, creating financial gas and food hardships and taking time off of work everyday to accommodate . Because I had to be the one to compensate and drive his kids to and from so he didn’t have to take the time off work that work wouldn’t even let him, and it was causing financial and logistical hardship, I composed another show cause motion. Three in total and she was held in contempt every single time. She was finally fined, which she refused to pay so they put a warrant out for her arrest and was arrested when she got pulled over. Then she blamed ME to the kids because I filed the motion. Then the kids would terrorize me and my child when they came to our home for parenting time. She also retaliated and filed a false CPS report shit my son’s father was dying of cancer. That was last straw for me. Parents like this need forensic evaluations and if they have ASPD or NPD they should not have custody. Parents like this destroy children’s relationships with people that love them, destroy their education, their trust in the world around them - all for power and control. Parental alienation laws need to be passed.
@@Enoughalready20237You did wayyyyyy too much for that man.
Parents who use court to harass the other parent should be held financially responsible and or held in contempt
the child suffers from all these expenses.
Amen
I think they should be made to pay all attorney fees. That would probably stop that nonsense, but part of taking them to court for frivolous things is they are making their ex pay. And it doesn't only cost for the courtroom time, but any phone calls you make to discuss their case. It's expensive...I know.
I 100% agree! I just chose to "eat" a $5,000 legal bill with my attorney that my ex ran up for me and then just offered to drop his case against me if I give him $3000 and pay my lawyer. He makes more than $150,000/year and I am disabled making less than $50,000/year. He has dragged me through court for 8 years now and lost every single time and every single time he had to pay my lawyer because the judge could see he was harassing me. He was using my daughter to hurt me at the last minute she told him no more. I ate the expense to stop her suffering in the middle. I wish he would go to jail for the emotional and mental abuse but I can't prove it. So, this will be a no present Christmas at my house because I have to pay a legal bill I can't afford. My relationship with my daughter is now better than ever before. I am not innocent of ever saying a negative thing about him but I made deliberate efforts at saying good things about him to my kids...looking for positives. I am disappointed in myself for not always having the emotional fortitude to always say the right things but I have tried for sure and been more successful than not. Kids eventually see the truth.
Can you even imagine being such a terrible and crazy person that you lose full physical and legal custody of your children just because you get a divorce?
No, I can’t. I don’t think that many people can. And she doesn’t even have an addiction to alcohol or drugs as an excuse. Period.
@@peopleincourtShe doesn't need drugs or alcohol, she's just psycho on her own. Smh
As a single Dad with full custody, yes, yes I can imagine that person.
@@ugleduklin3430 One son can totally imagine too and is a single father!!
@@ugleduklin3430 Good grief, I am so sorry to hear that. 💖💖
Dad deserves an award. Cool, calm, collected. Just letting the crap roll right past him.
Seriously, him letting his lawyer talk is EXACTLY what people need to do. I did get frustrated at the judge for asking the dad questions directly since he had representation, but it's likely the judge deals with mostly pro se litigants so it's probably just habit.
You can tell he's really beat down. I feel for him. But he's doing good having the lawyer talk for him. It shows constraint on his end, among many other things.
His soul has been destroyed by a psycho woman
Every parent going into court needs to be shown this man, and told that is how they need to act in court.
Why doesn’t this judge just flat out..Strip her of her parental rites altogether knowing what she has done…and continues to do….🤬🤯🤯
I am so infinitely grateful that when my parent’s split up that they were ADULTS and put my sibling and I first.
It is possible to create a positive co-parenting plan outside of the courts.
You are very lucky indeed! I’m sorry you had to go through that! I hate when people create human beings and then decide to split and destroy their kids’ lives.
lol my children were adults and took it worse and complained to me then when I split for while with them when they were in middle school.
Yes me and my ex have a wonderful coparenting relationship and it’s because we are not bitter and we put our kid first. We are both very happy to not be in a relationship with each other and we’re both very logical and rational people so it’s been easy. It angers me to see people emotionally abuse their children by being so vindictive towards their ex.
This judge is just straight up roasting her 🤣🤣🤣 I love it! 🤣🤣
You should see the first video I did on this judge, it’s shorter but he’s at least 20x more mad. Here’s the link… th-cam.com/video/RLo8papHjv4/w-d-xo.htmlsi=hzPYhwBP4JsQ07sM
I bet he was thinking over every red flag he ignored when he first started dating her while he was sitting there.
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You know he had those thoughts going through his head almost every day since he said “I do”.
Yep yep yep
I was thinking the same. However, my man stayed as calm as a glass of water.
Right his face says it all. WTF was I thinking..
I have a friend who is going through this EXACT same shit. His ex wife is a real pain in the behind. Drags him to court of the littlest stupidest things. She has lost physical sole custody. He has custody of the 3 kids. He is hard working and minds his own, he is a great Dad. On weekends she has the kids, when they return it's an absolute nightmare. She doesn't pay support as ordered and he has had to file contempt on her. It's just ridiculous. LOVE your kids more than you HATE your ex. Kids REMEMBER stuff.
My adult friend still speaks of his experiences being constantly dragged through family court as a kid. With his mom primarily bringing dad to court over the pettiest stuff. She's also a little cuckoo like this mom. It has permanently impacted their relationship long into adulthood, and likely always will. It always hits the kids the hardest.
I love how the dad is looking blankly most of the time, like “you see the shit I have to put up with?” 🙄
“See why I got a divorce?” Lol
That why he has a lawyer. He won’t look like a fool
@@MariaMaynard-yg8gyinstead he looks mean, disinterested, bored and out of shape.
@@flowerpower3618 not really. He hired a lawyer to represent himself he doesn't need to speak and if h showed any anger etc the ex wife would surely point that out. He's being smart.
@@flowerpower3618that’s literally what Lawyers advise. Be quiet and show no emotions everything can be used against you. I’ve noticed that men in family court that have lawyers follow that simple instruction to a T then mothers that do have an attorney from what ive seen in these court videos do the opposite and their attorney have to REPEATEDLY tell them to stop. I even seen a couple lawyers get annoyed enough with the wife/mom that they had to yell at them to shut up🤣 its hilarious. Just aggressive, argumentative, and selfish. And what was that insult at the end for? I saw what you did there💀. I’ve noticed women do that. Take little unnecessary digs for no reason then will instantly play victim if the favor is returned
I'm shocked. She lost custody but wants to drown Matt in court hearing and costs to make him look like a bad father and person, but meanwhile she did this to herself. For the judge to mention he knew what she was up to since their divorce is some monumental history and he's sick of it. And the dad having to raise his kids alone, along w/an exwife who wants to weigh him down, is so unfair. He must be exhausted. I am just by seeing this for the entirety of the video. Using her kids to do her dirty work really is low and something that if it doesn't stop, I hope she loses the little time she has to spend with her kids.
For their sake, I kind of hope you’re right.
Those two look like such an unlikely pair...and I guess they were.
They need their Mother.
@purplequeen1727 not if the mother is so toxic that she is mentally abusing him. Using the child as a weapon
@@purplequeen1727 only the mother would say that
The second she started blaming the child, the judge knew what was up.
Kids should not have to be the go between for parents.
I like this judge. He called her out on being deliberately stupid. She is so selfish she can't see she is only hurting her children.
I don't get it an̈d neither does she
I’m DYING to know what she did to lose physical AND then legal custody.. like the judge says, it takes a LOT for that to happen.
Me too….
I would like to know as well
This judge is great. He’s a bit grumpy. But he doesn’t take any BS. Sometimes that’s exactly what’s needed
Agree,he’s the “just right” Judge for her shenanigans,💯,goodness she’s ruining the kids 😡….✌🏻
That’s how judges should be.
I'm grumpy right alongside him.
I think he's seen her several times over the years & is done with her ass.
I think that he has been slack . I would be livid if I was the father . The judge is letting her get away again .
I love this judge, he clearly can't stand this lady and everyone watching can tell why. She is dangerous and the father has to protect himself and his kid's because it's clear she doesn't care about her kid's.
Yeah, she can’t see past her hate for dad.
Her kid's what?
@@y_strikes2770 i don't know
@@y_strikes2770???
I like this judge because he is one of the few that is calling it like it is.
Someone needs to
1. Pray for Matt
2. Start a ‘Go Fund Me’ for Matt to pay his legal fees
This judge needs some credit too.
Seeing through her BS and calling her out on it LIVE in the courtroom, to her face.
Dad has clearly moved on and her true crazy is coming out. The sad part is she's trying to use the kids for it.
What a horrible "mother". Her hatred is apparent on her face.
Absolutely
This is most moms in family courts.
@@Roosters-rants1977 even more so of one's who have lost custody to dad
It’s outrageous the judge didn’t order her to pay attorney fees. Ridiculous. I wonder if she’s paying child support in any reasonable amount.
lol it’s very very rare that a woman is ordered to pay child support to a man.
And even rarer for her to ever actually pay.
This mum will continue to do crazy bs and there will never be any consequences.
But if dad slips up even once just a little bit he will face serious consequences.
That is family court in the USA. “In the best interest of the strong single mother who can do no wrong. The living goddesses of victimhood”.
Exactly! He is trying to support kids, but legal fees are expensive. I bet no less than $5 - $10,000 for just this hearing with prep.
@@ann316I don’t think it’s that much for 1 hearing especially with no prep needed on her behalf cause there is no real issue. He’s proably spent much more than that over the years but it might be 500 to 1000. Not 10000
Right, these judges need to start making them pay attorney fees. Especially when they have full/sole custody and the other person is filing for ridiculous things. That money could've gone toward the children instead of her ridiculous accusations.
It’s rare that women pay the same amount of child support, I had custody of my three kids and I had to wait two years and fight just to get child support
This poor judge is just exasperated. Matt, I'm surprised you put up with this person for so long. This woman is a piece of work.
The judge "What do you want?!" Ok Matt stop doing that!! LOL!! I ❤️ this judge. He's no nonsense.
LOVED this judge. No nonsense guy lol 😂
This is a case of be wary of who you have children with!
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That was my fave part too!
This poor guy has to deal with this woman everyday. Good grief, have mercy on his soul.
Yes. He chose that.
@@CH-px1fw Yeah but you don't really know who people are until a few years into marriage.
@@nerthus4685 I think maybe we just ignore some red flags.
"Do you know why divorce is so expensive? ... because they are worth it." (Thank you, Willie Nelson for the quote!)
Has her hatredmade her so ugly or has she always been ugly inside and out
Why doesn’t the judge order a mental health evaluation? She obviously has issues, and that poor kid will be messed up by her. She shouldn’t have any contact with these kids,it’s child abuse.
Because, this is the norm.
Very rarely do you see complete co-parenting w/out adversity and using the children as pawns.
First hand knowledge.
They probably did one for the custody hearings and FOC investigation, which is why she lost ohysical and legal custody
She lost physical custody period and on the verge of losing parenting time, those evaluations happened one way or another.
Over 52% of liberal women in the US have one or more mental health disorders , and are on 1 or more psych meds , they are literally nuts.
Judges have to be objective. He's not a psychologist, so he can't recommend that. I have been required to go to court, but that's because I claimed that a temporary situation is what caused me to be in court in the first place. The psychologist agreed and everything was dropped. But unless you're trying to use mental health as a crutch. Or logical reason for anything, they cannot suggest you go get mental health help. It's considered uncouth and beyond a judge's reach.
This judge radiates common sense. She will never change. This woman is constitutional incappable of being honest with herself or anyone else.
Have never seen a judge nearly say bullshit as many times as i have while watching this. He had to correct himself a fair few times there 😂😂😂
Can we all just agree that this Judge is Judge Great Granddaddy that tells it how it is and gives no F🙅🏾♀️@k about feelings
Yes. I have another video on this judge where he is about 20x more mad than he was in this hearing. I pinned the link to the top comment.
Absolutely! This is exactly how a judge/referee should react/respond. Zero bias. Except for whatever will benefit the children.
@@peopleincourtOhhhh, I'll go watch it. I like him so far.
Yeah, he is judge grand daddy. That's why he couldn't handle listening to the defense attorney. Explain a few things he actually complained about listening to her. Clarify something it's his job. And if he can't handle it. He should go home and retire.
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The "What else you want?" is hilarious! He's so done with mom
Apparently this has been a couple years of this and another judge dealing with her craziness. She seems extremely unhinged and exactly the type that you read about on the news, jealous psychopath drives into a lake with kids in the back seat.
I realize this was posted 7 mos ago, but I just found it. I am thoroughly enjoying it, in the most horrified way possible. This is two children’s mother& instead of cuddling, loving, encouraging, building them up, she is trying to traumatize them. This is absolutely terrible, but engrossing all the same. Thank you for your work & for sharing it.
This judge is quickly becoming my favorite ❤️
Aww, thanks Mel. I hope you’re well 🩷🩷🩷
I really am so happy to finally see a judge that doesn't just believe the moms every word and just go along with her bad behavior.
This judge usually does, but there is so much history on this particular mom even he can’t ignore it. And he loves having somebody to chew out.
Imagine how much of a nightmare this woman is to have lost custody.
I love a crotchety old judge that still takes the time to be thorough 🤣 he’s just gonna give you sass along the way
Her smirk when she found out she was going to get the medical information is sick this woman is emotionally unwell she doesn’t care if she loses everything, get scolded, loses parenting time. She only cares about feeling like she’s winning something and irritating him. One thing went “her way” and she felt vindicated she needs help!
This isn't uncommon behavior by women in family courts.
She is going to use the doctors office now to make up cases, abuse, malnutrition issues, etc
The Christmas bow stuck in her hair looks STUPID...😂😂
I was thinking that she whole time. Reminds me of that chick from the 80’s show, blossom.
@@peopleincourt oh my God, I forgot about that show!....😁
@@peopleincourt And she went on to become amy farah fowler
@@grbenway not gonna lie, had to google that, but you’re so right 🤣
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Wow, I didn't realize that Karen had 0 legal custody! I would think that a mother would have to Efff up pretty badly to lose legal custody? No drugs or alcohol and she is THAT BAT SHIT CRAZY?
I know. Based on the judges attitude and comments towards her. I’m surprised charges weren’t pressed. You shouldn’t be able to legally do stuff like that.
She a grown ass woman wearing Christmas bows in her hair! You really gotta ask that question? 😂😂
She is making drug and alcohol dependent people look good!
@@peopleincourtAgreed!
@felicialindley8906 that seems weird to judge someone based off of a bow in her hair?
What a piece of work. That father is lucky to be away from her. Marriage must have been hell on earth
Matt was brilliant here! He did EXACTLY the right thing. He kept quiet, and let her keep digging herself deeper.
She’s a narcissist who loves talking. He’s well aware how nuts she is.
Poor kids. They will resent all of this😢 She’s the type that thinks she will make his life hell because they had a child together.
Judge should order a mental evaluation for Mom. This is unreal
I’m guessing there’s already been several, hence her loss of custody
For real!!!
Probably been done
Judge didn't want tp micromanage at the start... He ended up micromanaging 😂😂. She is nuts!
"Lord he talked to the childern" lmfao. This lady has issues lol
" I'm not responsible for a 14 year old" 😂😂
@@TheRandompaint I read this as she was saying it lmao
This woman is petty and unhealthy! She should NOT have custody of this young child!! Supervised visits only!! I hope CPS is involved.
She doesn’t have custody
She’s paranoid / she said so herself and she’s delusional - she needs intense therapy
Apparently shes a teacher too @@blunttlynxx1973
She sounds like me ex wife but the courts in Philly don't treat the cases like this judge does
Normally I’m not a fan of little edits added in, but the short sound effects and clips throughout made this entire mess even more entertaining of a mess.
It's was good
Yes! Worth the follow
Totally agree. I followed because of the sound effects that were perfectly placed.
😂😂😂😂😂😂the meme with the girl that said "how dare you" cause he talked to kids I was deaddddddd😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
It did
This couple needs to be a series here. I would totally binge watch this😂
There are other videos about them on TH-cam. Saw one not so long ago. Pretty sure it's the aftermath of the events in this one.
It’s one on Court Archives channel from two weeks ago.. after this.
Find the original video on why she lost custody! We need to see.
Pin this to top comment so we can make it happen. WE NEED THE LORE.
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Big facts!
It's just shared custody with visitations.
@@Roosters-rants1977 she does not have legal custody. Just visitation
He's taking pictures of her to create a dating app so someone else will take her off his hands...lol😂
😂😂😂
Plot twist!!😂
It's not gonna work with that bow 😅
No guy won't want her that she wants. She should just get her cats and wine boxes now.
@@stephaniec0625 you can Photoshop out the bow, but it's gonna take one monumental filter to get rid of the crazy.
It’s nice to see a judge that’s willing to throw out the BS FLAG!
She should have been offered to pay attorney fees all along! The poor dad is being drained financially, mentally, and physically!
This lady is INSANE! And no I don’t mean it loosely I mean like CLINICALLY INSANE!!! This is a waste of the court’s time to have a judge referee minuscule issues!
The mother is a pathological liar. What a narcissistic trouble maker. She should have supervised visits only!
It's exactly like my stepkids' mom. She dresses the same too, and they look a LOT alike. Creepy.
A big part of the game is to keep the ex husband wrapped up in attorney fees fighting false statements so it was satisfying to see the judge call that out.
Oh yeah. Nothing gets by this judge.
Unfortunately he didn’t make her pay for the dads attorneys fees. That would have been justice. Not a warning since it’s clear she keeps filing false motions
He should have made her pay this time! That was ridiculous!😡
He should have charged her at least 50% of the fees for this one.
Things like this make me very grateful that my husband and myself had a good divorce. We became friends again and co-parented very well.
You’re both very, very, very lucky.
The bow in the hair, that's a red flag LOL
Omg iykyk it's the symbol of IM FKN NUTS 😂😂
Yesssssss!!!! It's a red flag disguised as a green hair bow! I'm so happy to have found you 🙈😁🙈
LOL, I was thinking the same
Please explain for us lost men that don't wear bows lol. I want to make sure I stay from others with bows!
@@TopBamit’s juvenile
Man, I would love to watch past hearings of these two. Sounds like a total shitshow. Poor kids 😢
I don’t have those, but this is an even better hearing of this Judge if you haven’t seen it.
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@@peopleincourtThank you!
If you caught her name search the court records of where this judge presides and you'll be be able to pull the whole case
Ex wife: 🥺😩😡😭🤥🤧🥴😔😩
Ex husband: 🗿🗿🗿
Smart
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A Man with elite level self control. Lucky kids having him
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I *had* a friend like this. Her only goal was to make her ex miserable. Her poor child still suffers... insane that any parent could not see the clear damage they're doing to their child.
My parents divorced when I was 11 and HATED each other. My dad moved out and got a place about a mile away. I went back and forth freely - if one had primary custody of me, i never knew. They also never badmouthed each other around me (and they both had plenty to say which came out after I became an adult!!!)
I see parents like this and just want to puke. PUT YOUR KIDS FIRST.
Your parents rock and waited until you could understand to dish the drama - that must have been a roller coaster for you! Now I wanna know 😭🤣
How much yall wanna bet that co worker who walked in the room towards the end was standing there with her ear to the door listening to her crazy ass? lol
Dude got out of this marriage luckily. She is a control freak and a psycho. Believe me lady no one is taking pics of you for real
So let me tell you what is going to happen with the insurance card. Now anytime the kids get the sniffles she's going to go to the emergency room to rack up as much debt for him as possible.
I think it’s sad that this is happening to this child. I have a 15 year old, and a 12 year old and a 17 year old and I cannot imagine ever dragging their dad back and forth to court over this kind of stuff like it ONLY hurts the kids.
"Oh good lord he talked to the children?" 🤣🤣🤣
Grown woman wearing a hair bow and apparently crop tops?! 14 year old son must be mortified
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Typical “educator” today.
Its Not her bow..ist s her Soul !! She needs Help urgently!!! She ist helpless and having a poor mind..Hope i wrote this right... ..i Had a husband Like her..he accused me doibg Things i have never done, 2..that was so so Strange....he endet Killing him self...i am so sorry for this...
As a retired teacher, this is terrible. It speaks volumes to her character as having children in her care.
Agree. It’s terrifying because only God knows what she does to parents that she doesn’t like or kids in her care that she doesn’t like.
She’s freaking dangerous. Never thought I’d say that about a grown woman in a bow but dang she needs some serious mental health treatment.
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I just spat my water 💦 out. 😂
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Y'all, this woman made herself a go fund me to help her "escape DV"
I broke a nail, I need a GoFundME.
I’m not surprised at all!
She really did a go fund me to get a Disney vacation? Wow just wow. I pray for all and i pray mom gets the help she needs. 😢
No surprise. She is lifetime victim. I feel awful for the children.
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Shame on her! Any mother who uses her child against the father is an evil 😈 person.
Leave the kids out of it.
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Well, this is most women in family courts. None of this is uncommon. Happens every day
Any parent that uses a child to get back at the other person is evil
Hard to have a custody battle without including children
@@Farce13 The judge found out she lied many times. She's vindictive.
I went through this kind of legal abuse with my first husband, he took me to court a lot over a 14 year period, I never did it to him. He was totally trying to have my custody away, when our daughter grew up and started a family of her own, I told her and her husband that should the marriage end, they need to put the children before their personal feelings towards each other. Thank heaven, they listened, they do things together with the children and don’t have the same adversarial relationship that they did at the end of their marriage. For my grandchildren, I am grateful.
Do you know what a Mother has to do to NOT have legal custody of her children? I’m SO glad that this judge shut down her BS and put her in her place. She came in there with a Christmas bow or a children’s headband in her hair talking about, “he complains about what I wear… and we all see why !😂😂
Yeah that blows my mind. A mother who loses custody to a man is sooooo rare that she must have pulled some serious bs.
The sad reality is that if she just toned down her insanity just a little bit she would still have primary custody.
sorry, hubby does not get to dictate what ANYONE wears.
@@jalcoboit must be really bad cuz my friend her husband was fighting for custody and his ex-wife was on drugs . Even had cops come open door when time for pick up she high like wtf . After 5 yr he won
@nikiryan8648 I thought he meant the kid is embarrassed by what she wears.
The mom saying her son isn't her responsibility is CRAZY.
It baffles me that people seem to do more research before buying a car than getting to know people they have kids with.
While true, it’s obviously not as simple. There are no car fax reports on people and some people are good at hiding there ills, while they may seem pretty normal until things go sour. It’s unfortunate so many people use their kids as weapons, it’s disgusting.
Willing to bet this was one of those situations where parent A thought all of their problems would be fixed if they just had a baby.
This is how that plays out… amplifies the problems.
I think this is the problem when people go looking for love. Like "I'm going to get married in the next year" and they start looking for a husband or wife. I'm older now and my friends that have been and still are married long time are ones who met there partner unexpectedly, weren't looking for love and just met someone. Opposed to my friends who were looking for a wife or husband there relationships are terrible and don't last as they married there other half based on there criteria of a good partner
You do realize that some people change over time right?!. They may be great for several years and then all of a sudden turn bad. they may put on a show until you tie the knot and then show their true colors. We don't know anything about this couple so it would be incredibly wrong to just assume that he knew all these issues before he married her
cars don't have personalities that can shift over their lifespan lol
I think I see a parent whose children are going to go NO CONTACT with as soon as they are able to.
I guaranteeeeee that she left him because she "just wasnt happy anymore and needed to find herself and follow her dreams".
Or found some new D
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And rhat hw neglected her and he was toxic when really she was the toxic one lol
FemaNazi!
Ha!
This is why you don't have babies with a crazy person! She should of never been a parent, she acting like a 5 year old!
Idk, I know a 5yr old with a lot more sense than her. Insult to 5 yr olds 🤣🤣🤣
This woman is deeply disturbed. She will not be able to stop this behavior. As a former social worker with children, I sadly have witnessed the damage she is continuing to inflict upon Jude. I'm sure Jude feels as if mom needs to be protected, and he is the only one that can save her. She has spun her web and firmly entrapped him. He needs to be in therapy. His refusal to open up can be dealt with by the therapist as that is rather common in these situations. It's a very sad but not unusual scenario in divorce cases where the sole purpose becomes revenge even if the perpetrator cannot see it. I, as others on here, would like to know what she did to lose custody. It had to be extreme.
Agreed! And if she’s a teacher, I’m sure after they see this video, they will be putting her on administrative leave until she gets psychiatric help or an evaluation that clears her to work with children. She’s a huge liability!
Social workers aren’t any better. Too many kids are harmed for “social workers” to take a victory lap.
I wouldn't be surprised if all of a sudden she starts creating all these emergency visits to the E.R. just to get back at him.
Well, the judge did warn her about that.
My ex took me to the cleaners after we split. Twin boys I got every other weekend and two weeks in the summer. Child support etc. I went for full custody. Within a month she had changed her mind, and allowed joint custody as long as I paid child support. After ten years she cut that off as well. My boys are with me usually 4-5 days a week now at 13. To all my fathers out there that just wanna be dads it is possible if they aren’t completely nuts. Don’t give up
Thanks man.
Us women see you and appreciate you.
Thank bro!! I'm staying strong
To bring up the fact that the father spoke to HIS children on her “parenting time” is BEYOND ME! You want the father of a child to not speak to them because it’s your parent time??? WTF!!!!
Shes a child. The way she looks and acts shows she never grew up.
The bow in her hair, the oversized cup and the way she responds to the judge when he tells her to be quiet around 11 mins is just crazy
The fact that she doesn't argue her case, she's not committed to any of her false statements. She thanks the judge and even smiles sweetly at the end. She's happy because she's been in front of an authority figure and been shut down, in her mind she isn't to blame for any of the restrictions placed on her because "the judge did it". She can be the victim, she can blame everyone else. Oh, bloody hell, this is such a familiar game being played.
After 20 years being married to the same type of sociopath, I got full custody of my kids and my ex got alternate weekends. I'm not sure if we differentiate the type of custody granted here in the UK but I got full custody - which isn't easy as a man.
Jude will grow up to resent his mother. She may have him under her control for now, however once he matures and sees what his mother really is, it will destroy her relationship with him. Can you imagine living with this manipulator?
Yep. She's like my late Grandma. 3 generations resent her for her craziness and my one cousin even refused to go to her funeral
My dad was like this. He would give me 600 a month to spend on "me." Once I realized it was a bribe I stopped taking his money
This man is the G.O.A.T. His facial expression never changed throughout the whole case!
Hell of a pocker face.
This is an example of what happens when you make babies with crazy.