I let my pup sleep with me when I was single and when I got married I never regretted that I did. Max isn’t a Saint Bernard, he can be a small snuggly guy at the foot of your bed. With my current dog, I just make sure that he only gets on the bed when I invite him and he responds when I say off. Allow yourself some max snuggles 💛
Michel, brain fog is completely normal. Eleven years ago, my husband passed away from cancer, leaving me with a 10,13,and 15 year old to raise on my own. I am not exaggerating when I say that I felt like a zombie(best word that I can think of) for years….it was as if somebody had cut me open, scooped out all of my essential organs, then sewn me back up and ordered me to keep on living. Wow, I just read that back to myself and it sounds so extreme and probably TMI. But I just wanted you to know that you are not alone. What you are experiencing is normal and cut yourself as much slack as you can
Not TMI ❤️To know that others share that feeling of grief...there is solace in knowing you're not alone. And knowing that the awful feeling is not forever is equally as consoling. Sending you light & healing✨
I’m a new viewer and much older than you, but I wanted to pass along something I learned about our brains when in crisis. When one of my kids was going through a very serious health crisis and we were in the midst of chemo and hospitalizations, I felt like my brain just wasn’t working. I would forget things like my purse, couldn’t make decisions about food or dinner, struggled with ordinary life stuff, etc. Our wonderful child life therapist told me this and it has stayed with me for years: “Think of your brain as a spaghetti colander. When we are in crisis, a healthy brain sheds what isn’t vital or necessary and holds on to what is needed in order to keep us functioning. You aren’t forgetting things or being lazy or slow…your brain is merely shedding what isn’t necessary in that moment in order to protect you”. Much love to you and blessed be 💕~Krislynner
I definitely feel you on how small talk can sometimes bring up painful topics. I'm not close with my family, so whenever colleagues or even cashiers at the grocery store ask about my holiday plans, or assume I'm going to see family, I just force a smile and answer something generic. I know their questions are their way of showing they care so I've been trying not to dwell on it too much. Easier said than done though. Sending a warm virtual hug Michel 🥰
This. It happens to me often and I try to remember that they could say nothing at all and that they don’t know my story or how those little things may hurt some.
Michel, I am so grateful for you and your videos. Grief comes in different stages and they don’t come in order. I’ve learned over the years that when you’re grieving it’s like a roller coaster, one moment you’re just enjoying the breeze on your face and then all of a sudden here comes a great big mountain and then Bam downhill you go, but the most amazing thing about roller coasters is that you know you’re not gonna be down for long. I feel like life is like a roller coaster ride, no matter what stage or age or season that you’re in, you just need to hold on. I love you girl, thank you for being so brave and sharing your life with us.
@@ccryder654 I will 50 next year, and life has been a wild ride. Yes, the Bible does describe it as peaks and valley’s :-) whenever I am feeling like the dip is so low, I repeat to myself Roman 8:28 “And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.”
Oh yes those little casual conversations with strangers can be so hard at times. I can remember breaking down sobbing in the middle of a book store a couple month after losing my mom when a well meaning store employee asked if I needed help finding a Mother’s Day gift. It does get easier though as time goes.
An upside to living on your own is that you can decorate a space exactly how you want. It looks beautiful and so peaceful. A great space for reflecting and time for you. Lots of love to you ❤️
Hi Michel. My 1st and 3rd marriages were both very violent so the separation was very different. My 1st involved 2 children who weren't able to be with me because of the violence so they were somewhere where they could be protected and although it's different, being alone, without my children, was excruciating. Starting over...new place, new things...I felt a sense of accomplishment. I know the reason is totally different as to why our marriages ended but , they still ended, and I did love him ( and hate ) at the same time so the pain is still there. I caught the comment about the sheets...I get it... sleeping on the same ones that you slept on with Brook.... so tough...so you need to get some new ones dear. As I said...the reasons are different, but it will get easier...with time. LOTS OF TIME in some cases. That ended 26 years ago. My children are in their 30's. You do whatever you need to do, with no guilt, to be at peace. I'm so happy that you got Max. I love your spirit dear.
I just adore you. You remind me of my oldest daughter. I hate that you are going through a tough spot but am confident that you will come out of it in a much better place. Keep your head up. The Lord never gives you more than you can handle. You got this girl. ❤️❤️
They say you should always take time for the little things, because one day they might be something big 🤍 Take the time to treat yourself because the longest relationship you will have in life, is the one with yourself.
Just came across your channel. Now I’m obsessed! You are so real, so genuine yet so kind and very relatable. I just want to let you know that you are a source of light to the people watching you. Speaking Jeremiah 29:11 into your life. Feel all the emotions you have yo feel but always remember that each day that God blesses you, is a day closer to you getting to where God plans you to be. ❤️
Your apartment looks lovely, definitely much more Michel-ish now 😊 💖 love all the little touches so far and you can always keep moving things around until things feel settled.
Might be fun to get some pretty, lightly scented drawer paper for your dresser drawers. I love having them. Just a nice, elegant little touch and it's those little things like that which can be cozy and comforting.
Your new home is lovely !!! When I got divorced I cried every day for a year!!! That was not a sad thing as I came to realize tears can be a gift of healing!!! After the year of tears was done, I I woke up one morning and I knew I was going to be okay!!! Jesus was with me through all the sadness, and I know that you go to Him for strength!!! As the book of Ecclesialtes says There is a time for everything...a time to mourn and a time to dance... You will dance again in His time!!! Blessings and love ❤
Thank you for sharing and being so open. I’m separating after 26 years so seeing you make beautiful moments amongst the hardest of changes is reassuring everything will be ok 🦋
love the aesthetics of how you're styling the place . it's so clean, minimal, fresh, and it's the perfect combo of modern and cozy . p.s. you're doing way better than you're giving yourself credit for . you moved States, moved homes, moved to a new city, set up an entire apartment, done a bunch of partnerships, made content, and all in a matter of a couple weeks, while also going through the toughest ish, that's enough productivity to last you the rest of the year . honestly at this point you could nap the rest of the year and i'd still say you be thriving lool .
New sheets and bedding are definitely a good step in the process of making it feel like home. Loving your new place and Max being such a cutie pie! ❤️ I went through a loss last year at this time, it was the hardest thing I've ever done. The biggest step I took was doing small moments of self care for myself along with starting therapy. Those and having patience with myself that I wasn't going to be my usual self. It has taken a while, but I have started to feel more like myself as the year progressed. I suggest finding ways to acknowledge your grief and loss. That to me seemed so important rather than ignoring it all the time. (I did both as needed though) sending you love!!!
New bedding was an absolute must . You are such a sensitive sweet person. I've had a hard year . I often wonder if people think about what they are saying when they make small talk . Sometimes it's been extremely hard to smile through the pain . 💚
I'm really enjoying your videos. I divorced at 25 and I went out and bought bright red sofas because my ex had only wanted everything white. Getting divorced is very freeing.
The song playing 20 mins in seems so apt for how you are likely feeling rn. I can feel your heartache through the lense and I wish we could give you a hug. You are doing so so well though. Please keep going as you are giving so many people strength as they navigate their own ups and downs💜💜💜 xxx
I'm so happy you described that simple conversation and how it affected you! I was at the exact same place and I used to wonder those exact same questions. *vulnerability* gotta love it! Joy comes in the morning sis! 💜
Was not having a good day today so I decided to watch something that makes me smile... I just want you to know I know you keep saying that you are thankful for having us to help you make it through your day but, honestly you help me make it through my day too. A lot of different things going on in my life right now and November December is the hardest part of the year for me but I can always turn on my TH-cam and watch a blog of yours or an unboxing and it makes me smile. And I thank you for that
Michel your videos are what I look forward to! You have been through such a heartbreak but yet you are so diplomatic, honest, and graceful through it all! I genuinely wish you all the best and hope this new chapter in Austin is healing and joyful for you!!! ☺️❤️
I love all of your vlogs!! They remind me that I am somewhat of a normal human! I love you so much! You are amazing! Thank you for being very honest and very authentic!
Thank you!! Truly, from the bottom of my heart. I am a new subscriber and love your journey. Currently going through the same journey. It’s nice to see that I’m not alone and that so many others go through this. Always remember, your heart wasn’t broken, your expectations were. Stay strong❣️
When I went through a breakup with my longterm partner, I remember how frustrated i felt about my brain not working. I found the TEDtalks/books by psychologist, Guy Winch, incredibly helpful. He talks a lot about the science/brain impacts of break ups, and it made me feel more normal regarding how physically and emotionally "off" I felt at the time. Sending you so many healing thoughts- but kind and patient with yourself. Grief isn't linear.
I have to say that I felt your comment about having bedding that is yours alone. After my divorce I did the same and had to get new bedding and towels and stuff that was mine only and it was so comforting
Michel I lost my 20 year old daughter five years ago and I can relate to your comment about your brain being at 10 percent. I remember not being able to do the basic functions like brushing my teeth or bathing. I couldn't drive my car as it was too dangerous because I couldn't concentrate. I know the saying Time does help to heal is trite but time does soften the edges. I am happy to hear you are trying to be kind to yourself because it is important to give yourself the time and permission to grieve.
I just came across your videos, love them! We also live in Austin Texas. Have been here about 25 years! Bought a house in the Pflugerville area 3 years ago and our oldest daughter will graduate The University Of Texas in May 2022! Wishing you many more blessings and lots of happiness 🙏🏽🤘🏽
Michel I’ve also wondered multiple times if I’ve made someone talk about something or bring up memories that could be painful or hard… I know it’s so rare but I am still sometimes scared of it! I think it’s probably important to be aware of it, and sensitive but not scared of talking to someone because of that reason.
I have a possible, and easy, idea for covering the metal electrical door on the wall in bedroom. Maybe put a decorative hook or knob of some kind above it and use it to hang a favorite piece of clothing or outfit of the moment, something you enjoy looking at, i.e. a blouse (maybe paired with skirt or pants hung together) or dress on a special decorative hanger, maybe a wooden one.
I love your channel. And I love how genuine you’re are, it’s like I can tell it’s a difficult time for you, but the fact that you’re finding positivity in the little things is very encouraging for me. I suffer from fibromyalgia, depression, and anxiety. And watching your videos are very comforting to me. Also, I love your filming techniques, how did you do the transitions for the variety of clips? It was so smooth. I’m a new TH-camr, so I’m still learning a lot, but just wanted to let you know, you’re doing great even under difficult circumstances. Sending you a hug. Thanks for being you.😌
Michel, please know everything you are feeling is normal and there are stages of grief. Allow yourself to feel the pain YET move through it and you will come through this tunnel on the other side with peace and new meaning with a new direction for your wonderful life ahead. Make peace with it. God has your back and so do your viewers. Hugs and eyes on the end of that tunnel. Sunshine ahead!!
I really enjoy watching your videos and today especially since I had to put down my cat today 😿 your videos are so relatable and refreshing. I like your energy and honesty, I also really like your decorative style. This video was a blessing 🙌
I'm so pleased Max is with you. My dog is my constant companion. And I am also obsessed with nice bedding. It's definitely the thing I spend the most money on. I've been a widow for 15 years and my daughter is your age and has moved out of home. My son is 17 and has autism so is not the most sociable person, although he is very loving. My bedroom is definitely my sanctuary and is the one room that is definitely all mine (and Coco's - my Labradoodle!) Take care of yourself. xxx
Sending you hugs! Your videos help me and inspire me to create a cozy beautiful space for myself. Seriously contemplating getting the whole Cozy Earth bedding bundle. I feel splurging on luxury bedding is so worth it too!!
It’s very nice to see the real Michel come out. I love that Max looks comfortable too. The one thing I miss about being single is the organization of the home. I have 3 rooms all my own and am going to paint and wallpaper next year (in my space) . I’m so excited about that.
Good timing for the holidays! I JUST commented on your most recent vid asking about ur Cozy Earth promo code bc I tried using your old one to buy a duvet cover but it didn’t work- I’m so happy! I hope they give you more than free pajamas for being affiliated with them bc I’m sure you’ve made them a ton of sales! Thanks for keeping a good relationship with them bc I really wanted to buy something to treat myself too! The only thing that bothers me is that it’s not fair that rrrrqyyyyhh haha my husband always gets to benefit from the things I treat myself with and rarely happens the other way around🙄😂 But I also like to have a nice, comfortable guest room- especially linens bc they’re isn’t much else they’re guaranteed to use or see so intimately/closely and it reflects a lot to provide nice guest accommodations- some ppl disagree bc the guest will overstay their welcome, but I have no problem kicking ppl out or making up an excuse when I don’t want them to visit. But thats just something else my husband ends up benefiting from too. 🤷🏼♀️ haha
I haven't replaced my sheets since 2006! I wash them twice a month but it was well passed time to get some new ones! Love the 40% off code and supporting one of my favorite content creators.
Keep focusing on the little things and eventually, one day, you'll not feel pain. You'll look back to good memories but be grateful that things turned out this way. Everything happens for a reason
Hii michel! Hope you are doing great 🤍 I just wanted to tell you that I'm a new subscriber and the first video i saw of you is the divorce one unfortunately , but I just felt so much love for you and felt so related, you are so sweet and kind and get to the heart so easly 🤍also I've seen a lot of comments saying that they are a recent subscribers which seemed to me like a way of god to support you and make you feel his love and presence and showing you that you are on the right road🤎 looking forward to see you flourish again🤍
When I went through my divorce I had a hard time focusing. I felt "spacy".....I would set my purse down while shopping, at restaurants, etc and I would forget to grab it before I left. It's normal!! Take this time to focus on you and what your needs are and what you want out of life...You deserve so much more and God is showing you this!!
I came across your channel and I just want you to know how grateful I am for your videos. My husband asked me for a divorced a couple days ago because of the strained relationship I have with my in laws. I think the most heart breaking part is that our relationship is great but because of this he decided to leave our marriage of 6 years for his family. And I am completely lost and feel like my whole world is falling apart. Seeing your videos of you making progress and that it does get better even though there is a lot of healing ahead gives me so much hope.
Love you both he's so sweet and cute max. Beautiful start on the bedroom thanks u for sharing great ideas. You can do it. You are beautiful and smart. Keep up great work.
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Max saying “it’s soft” killed me 😂
HAHAHAHAH 😂
Omg he’s British! Who knew? 😂
I let my pup sleep with me when I was single and when I got married I never regretted that I did. Max isn’t a Saint Bernard, he can be a small snuggly guy at the foot of your bed. With my current dog, I just make sure that he only gets on the bed when I invite him and he responds when I say off. Allow yourself some max snuggles 💛
Michel, brain fog is completely normal. Eleven years ago, my husband passed away from cancer, leaving me with a 10,13,and 15 year old to raise on my own. I am not exaggerating when I say that I felt like a zombie(best word that I can think of) for years….it was as if somebody had cut me open, scooped out all of my essential organs, then sewn me back up and ordered me to keep on living. Wow, I just read that back to myself and it sounds so extreme and probably TMI. But I just wanted you to know that you are not alone. What you are experiencing is normal and cut yourself as much slack as you can
So sorry for your loss.
Not TMI ❤️To know that others share that feeling of grief...there is solace in knowing you're not alone. And knowing that the awful feeling is not forever is equally as consoling. Sending you light & healing✨
I’m a new viewer and much older than you, but I wanted to pass along something I learned about our brains when in crisis. When one of my kids was going through a very serious health crisis and we were in the midst of chemo and hospitalizations, I felt like my brain just wasn’t working. I would forget things like my purse, couldn’t make decisions about food or dinner, struggled with ordinary life stuff, etc. Our wonderful child life therapist told me this and it has stayed with me for years: “Think of your brain as a spaghetti colander. When we are in crisis, a healthy brain sheds what isn’t vital or necessary and holds on to what is needed in order to keep us functioning. You aren’t forgetting things or being lazy or slow…your brain is merely shedding what isn’t necessary in that moment in order to protect you”.
Much love to you and blessed be 💕~Krislynner
I definitely feel you on how small talk can sometimes bring up painful topics. I'm not close with my family, so whenever colleagues or even cashiers at the grocery store ask about my holiday plans, or assume I'm going to see family, I just force a smile and answer something generic. I know their questions are their way of showing they care so I've been trying not to dwell on it too much. Easier said than done though. Sending a warm virtual hug Michel 🥰
This. It happens to me often and I try to remember that they could say nothing at all and that they don’t know my story or how those little things may hurt some.
Michel, I am so grateful for you and your videos. Grief comes in different stages and they don’t come in order. I’ve learned over the years that when you’re grieving it’s like a roller coaster, one moment you’re just enjoying the breeze on your face and then all of a sudden here comes a great big mountain and then Bam downhill you go, but the most amazing thing about roller coasters is that you know you’re not gonna be down for long. I feel like life is like a roller coaster ride, no matter what stage or age or season that you’re in, you just need to hold on. I love you girl, thank you for being so brave and sharing your life with us.
Your right, I believe the Bible describes it as peaks and valley's!! At 54 I can sure say that's definitely an accurate description!!
@@ccryder654 I will 50 next year, and life has been a wild ride. Yes, the Bible does describe it as peaks and valley’s :-) whenever I am feeling like the dip is so low, I repeat to myself Roman 8:28 “And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.”
Oh yes those little casual conversations with strangers can be so hard at times. I can remember breaking down sobbing in the middle of a book store a couple month after losing my mom when a well meaning store employee asked if I needed help finding a Mother’s Day gift. It does get easier though as time goes.
You’re so strong! Appreciate you showing both sides of this grief and not only the “happier” times but also some of the sadness!
Max is perfectly at home on your bed nothing wrong with that at all , my fur babys were much bigger and both slept on my bed xx
An upside to living on your own is that you can decorate a space exactly how you want. It looks beautiful and so peaceful. A great space for reflecting and time for you. Lots of love to you ❤️
Hi Michel. My 1st and 3rd marriages were both very violent so the separation was very different. My 1st involved 2 children who weren't able to be with me because of the violence so they were somewhere where they could be protected and although it's different, being alone, without my children, was excruciating. Starting over...new place, new things...I felt a sense of accomplishment. I know the reason is totally different as to why our marriages ended but , they still ended, and I did love him ( and hate ) at the same time so the pain is still there. I caught the comment about the sheets...I get it... sleeping on the same ones that you slept on with Brook.... so tough...so you need to get some new ones dear. As I said...the reasons are different, but it will get easier...with time. LOTS OF TIME in some cases. That ended 26 years ago. My children are in their 30's. You do whatever you need to do, with no guilt, to be at peace. I'm so happy that you got Max. I love your spirit dear.
I just adore you. You remind me of my oldest daughter. I hate that you are going through a tough spot but am confident that you will come out of it in a much better place. Keep your head up. The Lord never gives you more than you can handle. You got this girl. ❤️❤️
They say you should always take time for the little things, because one day they might be something big 🤍 Take the time to treat yourself because the longest relationship you will have in life, is the one with yourself.
***likes the video before even watching because I already know it’s going to be gooood*** happy new subscriber here 🙋🏼♀️ have a lovely day Michel 💕
Just came across your channel. Now I’m obsessed! You are so real, so genuine yet so kind and very relatable. I just want to let you know that you are a source of light to the people watching you. Speaking Jeremiah 29:11 into your life. Feel all the emotions you have yo feel but always remember that each day that God blesses you, is a day closer to you getting to where God plans you to be. ❤️
Your apartment looks lovely, definitely much more Michel-ish now 😊 💖 love all the little touches so far and you can always keep moving things around until things feel settled.
Might be fun to get some pretty, lightly scented drawer paper for your dresser drawers. I love having them. Just a nice, elegant little touch and it's those little things like that which can be cozy and comforting.
Your new home is lovely !!! When I got divorced I cried every day for a year!!! That was not a sad thing as I came to realize tears can be a gift of healing!!! After the year of tears was done, I I woke up one morning and I knew I was going to be okay!!! Jesus was with me through all the sadness, and I know that you go to Him for strength!!! As the book of Ecclesialtes says There is a time for everything...a time to mourn and a time to dance...
You will dance again in His time!!! Blessings and love ❤
Thank you for sharing and being so open. I’m separating after 26 years so seeing you make beautiful moments amongst the hardest of changes is reassuring everything will be ok 🦋
That little snippet of Max saying 'it's soft' is adorable and hilarious 😂
Sending love Michel - your place is looking gorgeous & Max seems right at home. You've got this girl 💛
love the aesthetics of how you're styling the place . it's so clean, minimal, fresh, and it's the perfect combo of modern and cozy .
p.s. you're doing way better than you're giving yourself credit for . you moved States, moved homes, moved to a new city, set up an entire apartment, done a bunch of partnerships, made content, and all in a matter of a couple weeks, while also going through the toughest ish, that's enough productivity to last you the rest of the year . honestly at this point you could nap the rest of the year and i'd still say you be thriving lool .
New sheets and bedding are definitely a good step in the process of making it feel like home. Loving your new place and Max being such a cutie pie! ❤️ I went through a loss last year at this time, it was the hardest thing I've ever done. The biggest step I took was doing small moments of self care for myself along with starting therapy. Those and having patience with myself that I wasn't going to be my usual self. It has taken a while, but I have started to feel more like myself as the year progressed. I suggest finding ways to acknowledge your grief and loss. That to me seemed so important rather than ignoring it all the time. (I did both as needed though) sending you love!!!
You have the most kind soul I ever have seen. May God continue to bless you in this journey
Hi Michel! I so admire you! You’re still young but you have a mind of an old soul! Keep moving forward and expect only the best in your life!
New bedding was an absolute must . You are such a sensitive sweet person. I've had a hard year . I often wonder if people think about what they are saying when they make small talk . Sometimes it's been extremely hard to smile through the pain . 💚
Hi Michel, long time subscriber.....first time commenting. You are such an inspiration.....so courageous and strong. Thank you
I'm really enjoying your videos. I divorced at 25 and I went out and bought bright red sofas because my ex had only wanted everything white. Getting divorced is very freeing.
You're the sweetest thing Michel. Hugs to you
The song playing 20 mins in seems so apt for how you are likely feeling rn. I can feel your heartache through the lense and I wish we could give you a hug. You are doing so so well though. Please keep going as you are giving so many people strength as they navigate their own ups and downs💜💜💜 xxx
We love you, too. Love how you're taking it...one moment at a time.
Your bedroom looks so nice, very cozy for you & Max. Love him saying "It's soft", made me laugh.
The olive tree has the perfect cozy green for that space! Everything is looking so nice & fresh. Praying for this new season, friend🤎
I'm so happy you described that simple conversation and how it affected you! I was at the exact same place and I used to wonder those exact same questions. *vulnerability* gotta love it! Joy comes in the morning sis! 💜
Your room looks so peaceful. I am so glad that you started with your bedroom to give yourself a space that is calm and expresses who you are.
Was not having a good day today so I decided to watch something that makes me smile... I just want you to know I know you keep saying that you are thankful for having us to help you make it through your day but, honestly you help me make it through my day too. A lot of different things going on in my life right now and November December is the hardest part of the year for me but I can always turn on my TH-cam and watch a blog of yours or an unboxing and it makes me smile. And I thank you for that
I agree! I hate when people assume things. You never know why someone is doing something. It’s frustrating.
I do like the categorized vlogs. You do it all so well
Michel your videos are what I look forward to! You have been through such a heartbreak but yet you are so diplomatic, honest, and graceful through it all! I genuinely wish you all the best and hope this new chapter in Austin is healing and joyful for you!!! ☺️❤️
I love Cozy Earth sheets. So worth it and one of my favorite purchases. I also have the silk pillows and 2 sets of pajamas. 😍🥰
Your new place already looks very pretty
I love all of your vlogs!! They remind me that I am somewhat of a normal human! I love you so much! You are amazing! Thank you for being very honest and very authentic!
Thank you!! Truly, from the bottom of my heart. I am a new subscriber and love your journey. Currently going through the same journey. It’s nice to see that I’m not alone and that so many others go through this. Always remember, your heart wasn’t broken, your expectations were. Stay strong❣️
I am so glad your room is cozy and personalized to you. Max is too cute. Take care ❤
You have a very peaceful aesthetic, and it so nice to see that your smile is gradually beginning to reach your eyes again❤️
When I went through a breakup with my longterm partner, I remember how frustrated i felt about my brain not working. I found the TEDtalks/books by psychologist, Guy Winch, incredibly helpful. He talks a lot about the science/brain impacts of break ups, and it made me feel more normal regarding how physically and emotionally "off" I felt at the time. Sending you so many healing thoughts- but kind and patient with yourself. Grief isn't linear.
Just want to wish you well with the new chapter in your life. Good that you are enjoying the little things to get through it.
Don't be so hard on yourself! You seem to be very productive in this season. The room looks great!
So excited for the Cozy Earth discount!! Thank you! Much love to you .
The plants really perked up the room. Great job👍🏽
I have to say that I felt your comment about having bedding that is yours alone. After my divorce I did the same and had to get new bedding and towels and stuff that was mine only and it was so comforting
Michel I lost my 20 year old daughter five years ago and I can relate to your comment about your brain being at 10 percent. I remember not being able to do the basic functions like brushing my teeth or bathing. I couldn't drive my car as it was too dangerous because I couldn't concentrate. I know the saying Time does help to heal is trite but time does soften the edges. I am happy to hear you are trying to be kind to yourself because it is important to give yourself the time and permission to grieve.
Love real time/as it comes, instead of categorized and structured 💓💓💓
I bought sheets and the comforter with your discount from last year, they're such a game changer, my favorite is the comforter
Need all the bedding! If you have a clothing steamer you can use it on your pillow and on comforters too.
I just came across your videos, love them! We also live in Austin Texas. Have been here about 25 years! Bought a house in the Pflugerville area 3 years ago and our oldest daughter will graduate The University Of Texas in May 2022! Wishing you many more blessings and lots of happiness 🙏🏽🤘🏽
Michel I’ve also wondered multiple times if I’ve made someone talk about something or bring up memories that could be painful or hard… I know it’s so rare but I am still sometimes scared of it! I think it’s probably important to be aware of it, and sensitive but not scared of talking to someone because of that reason.
I have a possible, and easy, idea for covering the metal electrical door on the wall in bedroom. Maybe put a decorative hook or knob of some kind above it and use it to hang a favorite piece of clothing or outfit of the moment, something you enjoy looking at, i.e. a blouse (maybe paired with skirt or pants hung together) or dress on a special decorative hanger, maybe a wooden one.
I love your channel. And I love how genuine you’re are, it’s like I can tell it’s a difficult time for you, but the fact that you’re finding positivity in the little things is very encouraging for me. I suffer from fibromyalgia, depression, and anxiety. And watching your videos are very comforting to me. Also, I love your filming techniques, how did you do the transitions for the variety of clips? It was so smooth. I’m a new TH-camr, so I’m still learning a lot, but just wanted to let you know, you’re doing great even under difficult circumstances. Sending you a hug. Thanks for being you.😌
There is nothing better than new fresh linens! Your room is looking so cozy! ❤️
Healing is a process, keep going and rising girl. You'll look back and be amazed on what the future held for you.
Michel, please know everything you are feeling is normal and there are stages of grief. Allow yourself to feel the pain YET move through it and you will come through this tunnel on the other side with peace and new meaning with a new direction for your wonderful life ahead. Make peace with it. God has your back and so do your viewers. Hugs and eyes on the end of that tunnel. Sunshine ahead!!
I really enjoy watching your videos and today especially since I had to put down my cat today 😿 your videos are so relatable and refreshing. I like your energy and honesty, I also really like your decorative style. This video was a blessing 🙌
I'm so pleased Max is with you. My dog is my constant companion. And I am also obsessed with nice bedding. It's definitely the thing I spend the most money on. I've been a widow for 15 years and my daughter is your age and has moved out of home. My son is 17 and has autism so is not the most sociable person, although he is very loving. My bedroom is definitely my sanctuary and is the one room that is definitely all mine (and Coco's - my Labradoodle!) Take care of yourself. xxx
Your room looks lovely. Prayers you find comfort & peace.
I love how beautiful you are setting up your new home.
This would be sooo fun michel I'm excited ummm I always enjoyed your channel because you are sweetheart
You are such an inspiration to me given the circumstances. Continue to be encouraged. God bless
I can’t. cannot. get enough of your videos!
Sending you hugs! Your videos help me and inspire me to create a cozy beautiful space for myself. Seriously contemplating getting the whole Cozy Earth bedding bundle. I feel splurging on luxury bedding is so worth it too!!
Yaaay just in time for my lunch break😁
Moving forward with grace is powerful! You are powerful!
It’s very nice to see the real Michel come out. I love that Max looks comfortable too. The one thing I miss about being single is the organization of the home. I have 3 rooms all my own and am going to paint and wallpaper next year (in my space) . I’m so excited about that.
I love you too. Be good to yourself ❤️. One step at a time, you got this 💪
You are dealing with so so much- your word "Grace" is perfect. Rest and recuperate!!!
I love the room. Looks very peaceful and it's perfect. 🤍
Good timing for the holidays!
I JUST commented on your most recent vid asking about ur Cozy Earth promo code bc I tried using your old one to buy a duvet cover but it didn’t work- I’m so happy!
I hope they give you more than free pajamas for being affiliated with them bc I’m sure you’ve made them a ton of sales!
Thanks for keeping a good relationship with them bc I really wanted to buy something to treat myself too!
The only thing that bothers me is that it’s not fair that rrrrqyyyyhh haha my husband always gets to benefit from the things I treat myself with and rarely happens the other way around🙄😂
But I also like to have a nice, comfortable guest room- especially linens bc they’re isn’t much else they’re guaranteed to use or see so intimately/closely and it reflects a lot to provide nice guest accommodations- some ppl disagree bc the guest will overstay their welcome, but I have no problem kicking ppl out or making up an excuse when I don’t want them to visit.
But thats just something else my husband ends up benefiting from too. 🤷🏼♀️ haha
Your bedroom looks very cosy 🙂 And yes, your brain shuts down quite a lot when you're grieving. Just give it time, it will get better, I promise! 💖
Sweetie your doing just fine! Remember go at your own pace whatever makes you comfortable do it and remember “WE L❤️VE YOU!!!!
YES for the categorized vlogs! I love to see it :)
Happy almost thanksgiving Michel! ❤️
I haven't replaced my sheets since 2006! I wash them twice a month but it was well passed time to get some new ones! Love the 40% off code and supporting one of my favorite content creators.
Keep focusing on the little things and eventually, one day, you'll not feel pain. You'll look back to good memories but be grateful that things turned out this way. Everything happens for a reason
You’ve inspired me to re organise my bedroom to make it more peaceful.. so out of control right now. Thanks for sharing your time❣️ Sending hugs x
Your Apartment beautiful aww Max is adorable 🥰
Take care .
Your bedroom came out so well! It’s adorable 🥰
Hii michel! Hope you are doing great 🤍 I just wanted to tell you that I'm a new subscriber and the first video i saw of you is the divorce one unfortunately , but I just felt so much love for you and felt so related, you are so sweet and kind and get to the heart so easly 🤍also I've seen a lot of comments saying that they are a recent subscribers which seemed to me like a way of god to support you and make you feel his love and presence and showing you that you are on the right road🤎
looking forward to see you flourish again🤍
When I went through my divorce I had a hard time focusing. I felt "spacy".....I would set my purse down while shopping, at restaurants, etc and I would forget to grab it before I left. It's normal!! Take this time to focus on you and what your needs are and what you want out of life...You deserve so much more and God is showing you this!!
So proud of you hun. Sometimes things don’t work out. You are amazingly strong. ❤️
I am loving the decor/styling content. Serious aesthetic goals. And very inspiring as I continue to decorate my own apartment
It’s good to see a genuine Amalie in your face girl!!
You would enjoy bamboo pillows as well. Plus you need satin pillowcases to protect your hair.
I love the categorized vogs! I had a thought idea for covering the electrical box behind your bedroom door. You put a nice macrame hanging to hide it😊
I just love how you styled your bedroom! So simply beautiful!
I came across your channel and I just want you to know how grateful I am for your videos. My husband asked me for a divorced a couple days ago because of the strained relationship I have with my in laws. I think the most heart breaking part is that our relationship is great but because of this he decided to leave our marriage of 6 years for his family. And I am completely lost and feel like my whole world is falling apart. Seeing your videos of you making progress and that it does get better even though there is a lot of healing ahead gives me so much hope.
The amount of bras you have just floored me! 😂😅 I don’t have enough or nice ones! I really need to get some good ones snd build up my collection!
You are doing a really good job with your decorations. Looking forward seeing everything when you finish.😊
Love you both he's so sweet and cute max. Beautiful start on the bedroom thanks u for sharing great ideas. You can do it. You are beautiful and smart. Keep up great work.
Everything’s coming together so nicely!!!! 💓💓💓 big hugs 🤗
Like the blogs that might be room by room as you go. Much love friend