What he should have done, was after she said she don't love him and want a divorce, is tell her fine I will get ahold of a lawyer tomorrow. Then stand his ground by doing it.
Yes, immediately see an lawyer and immediately remove all benefits of the marriage -- financial (sever bank accounts, cancel credit cards, she pays the mortgage, she makes any car payments, etc. until the divorce is finalized, etc.), emotional (leave, block her, only speak through your lawyer, etc.), social (tell everyone she initiated this, sever ties with her family, don't live with her, don't let others think you are friends, etc.), physical (no helping with choirs, house work, etc.) You wouldn't be there for a stranger, so why support someone who doesn't love you, but still expects you to pay for her? Also, probably time to get a PI because few women break off a relationship (let alone a marriage) unless she's darn sure there is another man to jump to. Even if you hurt like stink inside -- it's better for the divorce, you have time to focus on yourself, you aren't involved in her drama, she immediately sees actual consequences for a the divorce, and it protects you when things turn nasty.
Actually, she does not know what she wants...female is a very complicated species. When easy to get they don't want it, when it is hard to get they will fight with their lives for it until they get it. You will notice it on the black Friday sale at any women's dept. Been there once with my wife, it was my first and last.
You played it perfectly. My wife got angry and said ": well you are tired of me and I am tired of you so I think I will just take off." I stood in the doorway, did not say a word, smiled and just waived goodbye and walked away. 30 minutes later she bounced out of the bedroom saying ":hey homey, what you want for dinner?" Then gave me a big hug ;like the conversation never occured. You cannot take crap and disrespect from a woman for if you do they lose respect for you. Women are like children, always testing you and trying to see how much you will put up with and capitulater to them. Never give an inch and they respect you. makes no sense to a man but is how it is.
What a hypocrite wow who is she that told her hubby that she doesn't love him anymore, , his such a good husband , you lost a jewel but now she wants him back, think before you take her back as they say Don't Hold on to someone who's leaving, or otherwise you wont meet the ones that coming ,
If a spouse changes, immediately start protecting finances, credit locks, lock down monies. start your own subterfuge getting records changed and ownership divided. Find a lawyer and make the initial introductions and find out documents needed for the divorce. Throw it all back at them.
Good story. The psychology of the events, both his earlier mistake of not taking her feelings seriously, and accepting her divorce wish and next simply moving on and showing he had options, are totally on target.
I guess "good" is in the eye of the beholder. His wife got rodded out by other dudes and threw him away by asking for a divorce. He played a psychological game to get back this cheating, ran through chick and he went back happily. Yeah, 'good' is definitely subjective.
Ha, ha, ha, ha. Great story. I’m that it worked out for the 2 of them. Boy oh boy, he sure took a chance, but he was already prepared to end their marriage if that was what she was going to do.
Yes, but it was the necessary chance. He had to show her what she's walking away from, what she's giving up with her decision. The only way to do that is to act according to her decision, so she's making a fully informed choice. And part of that information is that her husband isn't going to be sitting around at home broken, waiting and hoping she returns to him when her adventures grow tiresome.
The chances are slim. The power dynamic has definitly changed. The problem occurse when a women starts to take a husband for granted and lost respect. If then the husband tries to hard to close the distance, she is distancing her self even more and is loosing even more respect. the right idea is to let her feel the consequences and "walk away" while telling her this iss not working if she does not her part and working in seriousness on the relation ship and looking out side for "fun".
@@rapsack7058 from my point of view once a partner thinks about cheating or stat acting like they are heading that way no need to stay in the relationship and have to be on alert 24 by 7 better to part away on good terms respecting each other once The seed of doubt was planted thats it trust is gone
Well, she did emotionally cheat, but not physically. I think she probably got slightly emotionally involved with some dude because she was not getting “heard” at home. As her husband stated several times, when she expressed her feeling, he pretty much negated them and argued with her. Anyways, they worked it out and have a different marriage now. Good for them.
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I love how Linda was SO happy to tell her husband she no longer loved him and wanted a divorce, but the moment he decided he would give her exactly what she wanted, she suddenly wanted the relationship back. Almost like she was probably listening to her shitty single friends like all stupid women do.
Omg! Who is this guy? Talk about a giga-chad! Less than 24 hrs and he was needing a secretary to schedule his dates! He had scheduled out 6 months at least… Wow, impressive. Must be nice to be that handsome and have that much money to have life handed to you on a silver platter with zero effort and as a man who’s getting that treatment instead of average women is mind blowing!
Unlikely. They cast their hat in the ring for a husband that was looking to be back on the market. He enjoyed their dates, but never actually slept with any of them--so he didn't "use" them anymore than they used him for an enjoyable evening. The fact that he reconciled with his wife actually probably ups his value in their eyes. Someone that will not abandon a relationship easily.
user what do mean stand your ground?The husband's a simp.He found out about guys she dated when they were married.She cheated on him.Since when does a wife who dates other men when married not cheating?Ya,since when.Many men don't know how to handle a situation like that.He should have grilled his wife right then.Asking how many men have you dated while we were married.I want to know the days she went out with other men,where they went.What time she got home and the places she went with them.Then dump her,close bank accounts,get a divorce attorney.Move out.Block her number and never look back.
The good looking confident guys seem to have less of a problem/issue with this type of stuff.They give just enough tenderness/affection to keep the wife satisfied. The wife is well aware of her boundaries. Too many girls nights out...Late night working with a male boss....Getting too close with male friends/male co-workers is a recipe for marital issues. Of course he respects and adheres to similar wishes of his wife.
This is not Alpha. This is Sigma. "I'm committed to someone who's committed to me. If you're not committed to me anymore, I'll respect your decision and act accordingly for my best interests."
You are a goofball. Working to "win" back your used wife after she cheated and told you she no longer wanted to be with you is neither an Alpha move or even a Sigma move...its a wimp move of the highest order. A real man would have kicked her out of the house and found another chick immediately. He would have filed the divorce papers and not played around like an idiot giving her the power to choose if she wanted him back. Stupid story and clown behavior.
Women love to watch men fighting for them and begging them to please don't leave them but when they see Men are not doing what they anticipated then all of sudden they become loving, caring and submissive.... Don't be someone's entertainment or doormat
Man thinks straight for an answer but women's thoughts are super complicated. When they say they don't mind it can be either way and can't predict based on their body language(occasionally manages). They can accumulate all your disliked answers for years. Been married to the same woman for 36 years and life is hard.
Can't keep listening to this. Dude started out ok, then a tailspin. Thinks his wife might be having an emotional affair, but gives not a lick of evidence, then admits to sometimes flirting with a woman at work. Uses said woman as an emotional crutch and kisses her in the parking lot. All this is while he has only a tentative agreement for divorce. Had she followed him and taken pictures he'd be the one in trouble. Thought maybe he had a brain at the start, but he proved me wrong early on.
Wow, how many women in less than a day? 5? Damn! All lined up around the block within the first day, each one more beautiful than the last. How convenient for the story… If only the 30% of guys under 30 that are virgins had known it was THAT easy! This story must take place in the world of beautiful, perfect people! Or as I like to call it, fantasy land!
both are guilty off there ending off there marriage becors both stoped whit communication and lost each other and stoped fighting for there marriage and one is already ending there marriage and start a affaire and thats wrong becors they just ask for a divorce instead cheating
And then, everyone clapped for OP, and he was awarded the Nobel prize from miss universe, along with her phone number and request for a date......honestly, who believes this garbage?! Lmao
@@robertnoble6661 Of course. And my response to you, and everyone else who posts the ‘it’s fiction’ comment, is that I am responding to the message of the story. Hopefully men will start thinking like men again and stop putting themselves so far down the priority list!
What he should have done, was after she said she don't love him and want a divorce, is tell her fine I will get ahold of a lawyer tomorrow. Then stand his ground by doing it.
Yes, immediately see an lawyer and immediately remove all benefits of the marriage -- financial (sever bank accounts, cancel credit cards, she pays the mortgage, she makes any car payments, etc. until the divorce is finalized, etc.), emotional (leave, block her, only speak through your lawyer, etc.), social (tell everyone she initiated this, sever ties with her family, don't live with her, don't let others think you are friends, etc.), physical (no helping with choirs, house work, etc.) You wouldn't be there for a stranger, so why support someone who doesn't love you, but still expects you to pay for her?
Also, probably time to get a PI because few women break off a relationship (let alone a marriage) unless she's darn sure there is another man to jump to.
Even if you hurt like stink inside -- it's better for the divorce, you have time to focus on yourself, you aren't involved in her drama, she immediately sees actual consequences for a the divorce, and it protects you when things turn nasty.
@@BW022 Damn bro, sounds like you been through a divorce or two. Sorry for your loss.
THE wife doesn't want Him but she doesn't want anyone else to have him, move ON
Actually, she does not know what she wants...female is a very complicated species. When easy to get they don't want it, when it is hard to get they will fight with their lives for it until they get it. You will notice it on the black Friday sale at any women's dept. Been there once with my wife, it was my first and last.
Never be afraid to let go of something, or someone that doesn’t want to be there.
You played it perfectly. My wife got angry and said ": well you are tired of me and I am tired of you so I think I will just take off." I stood in the doorway, did not say a word, smiled and just waived goodbye and walked away. 30 minutes later she bounced out of the bedroom saying ":hey homey, what you want for dinner?" Then gave me a big hug ;like the conversation never occured. You cannot take crap and disrespect from a woman for if you do they lose respect for you. Women are like children, always testing you and trying to see how much you will put up with and capitulater to them. Never give an inch and they respect you. makes no sense to a man but is how it is.
Loved it.
Why would I want to marry a child
What a hypocrite wow who is she that told her hubby that she doesn't love him anymore, , his such a good husband , you lost a jewel but now she wants him back, think before you take her back as they say Don't Hold on to someone who's leaving, or otherwise you wont meet the ones that coming ,
If a spouse changes, immediately start protecting finances, credit locks, lock down monies. start your own subterfuge getting records changed and ownership divided. Find a lawyer and make the initial introductions and find out documents needed for the divorce. Throw it all back at them.
Good story. The psychology of the events, both his earlier mistake of not taking her feelings seriously, and accepting her divorce wish and next simply moving on and showing he had options, are totally on target.
I guess "good" is in the eye of the beholder. His wife got rodded out by other dudes and threw him away by asking for a divorce. He played a psychological game to get back this cheating, ran through chick and he went back happily. Yeah, 'good' is definitely subjective.
Ha, ha, ha, ha. Great story. I’m that it worked out for the 2 of them. Boy oh boy, he sure took a chance, but he was already prepared to end their marriage if that was what she was going to do.
Yes, but it was the necessary chance.
He had to show her what she's walking away from, what she's giving up with her decision.
The only way to do that is to act according to her decision, so she's making a fully informed choice.
And part of that information is that her husband isn't going to be sitting around at home broken, waiting and hoping she returns to him when her adventures grow tiresome.
I totally enjoyed this story, had to smile to my self.
Well done but don’t forget that she cheated on you keep your eyes open maybe after some time she will try to do it again
The chances are slim. The power dynamic has definitly changed. The problem occurse when a women starts to take a husband for granted and lost respect. If then the husband tries to hard to close the distance, she is distancing her self even more and is loosing even more respect. the right idea is to let her feel the consequences and "walk away" while telling her this iss not working if she does not her part and working in seriousness on the relation ship and looking out side for "fun".
No maybe about it! Once a cheater always a cheater,
@@rapsack7058 from my point of view once a partner thinks about cheating or stat acting like they are heading that way no need to stay in the relationship and have to be on alert 24 by 7 better to part away on good terms respecting each other once The seed of doubt was planted thats it trust is gone
Well, she did emotionally cheat, but not physically. I think she probably got slightly emotionally involved with some dude because she was not getting “heard” at home. As her husband stated several times, when she expressed her feeling, he pretty much negated them and argued with her. Anyways, they worked it out and have a different marriage now. Good for them.
This is like my life story, but I only used 1 lady 😅
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I love how Linda was SO happy to tell her husband she no longer loved him and wanted a divorce, but the moment he decided he would give her exactly what she wanted, she suddenly wanted the relationship back. Almost like she was probably listening to her shitty single friends like all stupid women do.
Omg! Who is this guy? Talk about a giga-chad! Less than 24 hrs and he was needing a secretary to schedule his dates! He had scheduled out 6 months at least… Wow, impressive. Must be nice to be that handsome and have that much money to have life handed to you on a silver platter with zero effort and as a man who’s getting that treatment instead of average women is mind blowing!
I'll bet those other women feel pretty used.
Unlikely. They cast their hat in the ring for a husband that was looking to be back on the market. He enjoyed their dates, but never actually slept with any of them--so he didn't "use" them anymore than they used him for an enjoyable evening.
The fact that he reconciled with his wife actually probably ups his value in their eyes. Someone that will not abandon a relationship easily.
Good job OP!! Stand your ground
user what do mean stand your ground?The husband's a simp.He found out about guys she dated when they were married.She cheated on him.Since when does a wife who dates other men when married not cheating?Ya,since when.Many men don't know how to handle a situation like that.He should have grilled his wife right then.Asking how many men have you dated while we were married.I want to know the days she went out with other men,where they went.What time she got home and the places she went with them.Then dump her,close bank accounts,get a divorce attorney.Move out.Block her number and never look back.
Gezz Frank She Tryin To Control U Gezz😮😮😮😮
Well played!
What a fantastic mental gymnastic OP put her wife through. He said it perfecly: you don't realise what you have until what you had is now missing
Man cheats: yyaaaay justified
Woman cheats: grrrr evil
Woman neglects husband: evil
Man neglects wife: hes just providing for his family
Sounds like what happened to me.
All that to for him to pretty much tell us he's a simp ? 😂 they both goofy
She wasn’t planning to see other men. Really. That’s not a “I won’t see other men” just not planning. Once a cheater.
The good looking confident guys seem to have less of a problem/issue with this type of stuff.They give just enough tenderness/affection to keep the wife satisfied. The wife is well aware of her boundaries. Too many girls nights out...Late night working with a male boss....Getting too close with male friends/male co-workers is a recipe for marital issues. Of course he respects and adheres to similar wishes of his wife.
You are the man, more power to you. A great story told by an Alpha Male and not some dumm wimp.
Actually I think it is AI generated.
This is not Alpha. This is Sigma.
"I'm committed to someone who's committed to me. If you're not committed to me anymore, I'll respect your decision and act accordingly for my best interests."
You are a goofball. Working to "win" back your used wife after she cheated and told you she no longer wanted to be with you is neither an Alpha move or even a Sigma move...its a wimp move of the highest order. A real man would have kicked her out of the house and found another chick immediately. He would have filed the divorce papers and not played around like an idiot giving her the power to choose if she wanted him back. Stupid story and clown behavior.
Women love to watch men fighting for them and begging them to please don't leave them but when they see Men are not doing what they anticipated then all of sudden they become loving, caring and submissive.... Don't be someone's entertainment or doormat
Man thinks straight for an answer but women's thoughts are super complicated. When they say they don't mind it can be either way and can't predict based on their body language(occasionally manages). They can accumulate all your disliked answers for years. Been married to the same woman for 36 years and life is hard.
Let her go... it's over. Move on.
Can't keep listening to this. Dude started out ok, then a tailspin. Thinks his wife might be having an emotional affair, but gives not a lick of evidence, then admits to sometimes flirting with a woman at work. Uses said woman as an emotional crutch and kisses her in the parking lot. All this is while he has only a tentative agreement for divorce. Had she followed him and taken pictures he'd be the one in trouble. Thought maybe he had a brain at the start, but he proved me wrong early on.
Here's another blue pill for you.
Another day, another new channel… New Channels pop up faster than new stories.
And they just retell old, stale stories using horrible AI narration. Just lazy…
The husband's a simp.
That's Right Frank Now Tell Carol What's Up😮😮😮
Omg these chat gpt stories and fake bot comments are getting out of hand
Perhaps if you allow evil in your home you reap the wind.
Wow, some fake AI-generated people are truly awful.
Wow, how many women in less than a day? 5? Damn! All lined up around the block within the first day, each one more beautiful than the last. How convenient for the story… If only the 30% of guys under 30 that are virgins had known it was THAT easy! This story must take place in the world of beautiful, perfect people! Or as I like to call it, fantasy land!
Damn She Cheated On U😮
Good story
Absolute alpha! You go!
Well done sir, well done.
Tedious story.
You are The Alpha Male, great job!
❤❤❤
I don't know what I think about this one I don't know 🤔
Wow Go Frank Tell Carol Off😮😮
Remaining man is important
both are guilty off there ending off there marriage becors both stoped whit communication and lost each other and stoped fighting for there marriage and one is already ending there marriage and start a affaire and thats wrong becors they just ask for a divorce instead cheating
The volume was so low, I had to stop!
And then, everyone clapped for OP, and he was awarded the Nobel prize from miss universe, along with her phone number and request for a date......honestly, who believes this garbage?! Lmao
The whole thing is just a childish story. Both parties are at fault so this is a non-story.
Jesus Carol Needs To Shut Up Linda Cheated Damn😮
Tell Linda She Gets Nothin😮😮
Oh Shit Frank She Got Someone Ok Damn 😮😮😮😮
Wow Frank No Wedding RING Nice😮😮😮😮
Frank She Gose To The Spare Room Frank😮😮
Wow Jesus 15 Years Sorry Hubby Am In The Same Boat😮😮😮😮😮
Jesus Carol Needs To But Out😮😮😮
It's hard to keep up on who's doing the talking. You need to improve on that.
Alright Go Frank
Simp alert! She’s already cheated on him and he’s entertaining this fiasco. They deserve each other.
Simp-caller alert. There's always at least one.
Stays with a cheater = simp, it's that simple.
You know this story is fiction Right?
@@jakeand9020 That isn't what is simple.
@@robertnoble6661 Of course. And my response to you, and everyone else who posts the ‘it’s fiction’ comment, is that I am responding to the message of the story. Hopefully men will start thinking like men again and stop putting themselves so far down the priority list!
Gray rocking works
Then Carol Shut Up😮😮😮😮😮
Nice Frank Get Jessica Nice😮😮
Alright Frank😮😮
Linda Shut Up Not U R Business 😮😮😮😮😮😮😮
Hubby Get Credit Cards And Money
Good Story🎉🎉
Go Jessica😮😮😮
The goal of these stories is for men to accept cheating.
Good story.