[SUB] When Arguments Happen with Your Korean Boyfriend [M4F] [ASMR] [Sad]

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  • @binnieasmr
    @binnieasmr  19 วันที่ผ่านมา

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  • @nnnnnnnn-q2o
    @nnnnnnnn-q2o ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Him: You and I are a team!
    Me:✨We aRe NOt a TaEm ThIs iS a CoMpEtiTiOn✨

  • @Harleen_Roxy
    @Harleen_Roxy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    There is so much to say about this video... where do I start ? 😂
    First of all, thank you.
    Thank you for showing that not everything can be perfect in a relationship.
    Many people imagine themselves with a boyfriend, Korean or any nationality, (or a girlfriend, Korean or any nationality), and think that their relationship should be perfect, that he or she should be like this or that. This is selfish ! A relationship where one or both partners think only about themselves cannot last long. And this will cause a lot of arguments, resentment and finally suffering.
    But this is not the reality.
    The reality is that a long-lasting, happy and fulfilled relationship is built by both of partners, every day a little bit, step by step, patiently.
    Each partner has to work on himself, and each contributes to the happiness of the other, so that both are happy. As you say in your video, we all have moments when we are upset, when we are edgy, sensitive, tired, it happens and it's normal, it's life !
    One of the bases in a lasting and fulfilled couple relationship is communication. You explained it very well, and communication must be done in both directions if we want it to go as well as possible with our partner.
    Having consideration for our partner's feelings is very important. As you have shown it, to warn of a delay for example, it's a proof of love ! It prevents the other person from worrying (which is also a proof of love to worry sincerely about the other partner).
    Sometimes it's very difficult to talk about something, we can be embarrassed, or apprehensive to talk about something. It's normal, we all have our own feelings and opinions. And it's rewarding to see things differently, and then to share our points of view ! It's important to put the other partner at ease, by reassuring them gently.
    When a disagreement arises, and we are angry or feel hurt, it helps a lot to first calm down, isolate ourselves for a few minutes in another room, relax, let the tension fall. Or go out for a walk alone for a few minutes too, but not too long.
    Then, we come back, we can prepare hot drinks (or fresh according to the season), with small cakes for example, that will help to calm the tensions. Then we sit down together, calmly and we begin by listening to our partner. The goal is not to seek for being right, the goal is to try to understand the other partner, to understand why he or she acted like that. And this is only possible if we listen and put aside our resentment.
    And as we listen carefully, we will realize that his or her point of view is different, and that it's not so bad. We will feel calmed. We can then express our feelings, our point of view, but without getting angry or accusing the other partner.
    And then, we can discuss together to find solutions, to find how to modify certain things so that the problem does not recur.
    It is also very important for a woman to understand how a man thinks, reflects and feels. The same goes for men.
    It can be fun to ask each other questions, like: "How do you see things on this subject, what do you think? "etc... 😂
    It's by knowing how our partner works that we can defuse a lot of explosive or confusing situations, and to better feel his reactions, without being too upset.
    Crying together and hugging each other makes us feel the love of our partner and allows us to feel our love for our partner too. Taboos should have no place between two people who truly love each other.
    Anyway, sorry for the novel!
    Thank you so much for this video ( and I shed my little tear ... it hurts my heart to hear the pain in the voice of someone I care about ) 😭
    Thanks Binnie ! 🙌🏻🌸

  • @allyc4699
    @allyc4699 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    After listening to this audio, it just further proves that I’m right. It’s been nearly 3 years that you’ve been doing this and you just keep going and keep working so hard on all your audios. I’m so proud of how far you’ve come and you’re truly talented. When you love doing something it really shows. Amazing job Binnie. Thank you so much for bringing the scripts to life more than I imagine 💜

  • @Londieshc
    @Londieshc 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    This one begs for a part 2. Awesome!!! 💜💜💜

  • @belhadjwissal
    @belhadjwissal 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    the video is amazing i really love it and i appreciate your acting skills too

  • @blingblingchoi
    @blingblingchoi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you for continuing to post!

  • @babygirlnikcole5626
    @babygirlnikcole5626 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thanks!

  • @AmberU
    @AmberU 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I am still waiting…waiting for a man to feel this way and say this to me also. What is a relationship without honesty, trust equality, communication? It is nothing. My wait continues for partnership for support for love.

  • @whoami6601
    @whoami6601 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Just found this. AMAZING.

  • @ArcticFirepixy
    @ArcticFirepixy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Lol he sounds so pissed. This beginning part is uncomfortable. I wanna fight and its just a minute in to this. Lol im like pausing so much .... totally caught up in the angry feels. Lol why u gotta say babe like that? And why you saying you like that ohhhhhh!

    • @ArcticFirepixy
      @ArcticFirepixy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Great acting!!! 👏🏾 have you done local theater work ? 🤔

    • @binnieasmr
      @binnieasmr  2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I haven't 😭

    • @ArcticFirepixy
      @ArcticFirepixy 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@binnieasmr ohhhh you totally should one day 🥰

    • @candy12110
      @candy12110 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same but I felt bad at the beginning. Leaving someone waiting, wasting their time, and ignoring them when I know we have plans is foul but after that when he started sounding a little gaslighty I was getting upset.

  • @sophialis8779
    @sophialis8779 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    🥰🥰🥰 ...😥 ...😍 I like it, speak your soul 💌 that is the key in a relationship... the rest are things that you're not controling ...and are not related to you...

  • @coleenkang8013
    @coleenkang8013 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    *잘랫어 정말야 항상 건강하시고 아프지 마세요*

  • @Potatochipsarelovely
    @Potatochipsarelovely 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Have you considered acting ???🌚

  • @anthoniaumoh6125
    @anthoniaumoh6125 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    ❤️❤️❤️

  • @babygirlnikcole5626
    @babygirlnikcole5626 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜

  • @Kenyoi
    @Kenyoi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Haiii

  • @thatonebish9521
    @thatonebish9521 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Henloo