PlayList Global Gosh, that break up scene kinda hurt me...I have no idea why people would speak so badly of their union. She's adorable, to me, but I get it. I got my first boyfriend and he told me that a girl said that he could do better, so I understand.
I don't know if I'm crying because of their breakup or because Soo Ji's low self esteem issue is *extremely relateable.* Loving yourself is a constant heavy struggle.
Yeah people are always saying to "love yourself more before you love someone else" but you don't know what put them in that mindset and you can say that easily because you're looking in.
It's also an up and down shit too.. one day I will look at myself and be like "God damn I look hot" but a month later, I will look at the same face and think I'm the ugliest pos ever. It's hard, and it gets harder with mordern social media and social pressure
The girl's side is sad but the guy's side is equally sad. Doing nothing wrong and giving your all to make the person always comfortable. And then suddenly a break up which makes the person suddenly feel lost. Blaming himself that it was somewhere his fault for not being able to make her confident enough. She loved him and he loved her but she didn't love herself.
Yeah. And I kinda feel like the girl didn't think about his feelings, and broke up a lil/too harshly, and just walked away just like that. Though I do feel bad for them, but maybe a lil more for the boy this timw
I respect the fact that Chan Hyuk gave as much as he could in their relationship. He's such a good guy. But Soo Ji will never be happy if she couldn't truly appreciate herself, if she couldn't see that she too is also worthy of being loved.
@@caryljannielazo4988 I totally agree. 😥 If only she loved herself too and didn't care about what others said. Those people that talk about her like that won't even remember what they said but it effects the one that heard those things horribly.
That's why before you love someone you should first learn to love yourself, knowmatter how much love that person gives you you can never truly appreciate it if you yourself can't accept it.
He was right, she shouldn't let other people's opinions interfere but I totally understand her too. I feel like he was going to propose soon or something😭
@@aeri8327 I don't think that they will get back to their comfortable spot in their relationship even if they just became friends it would still be akward and hard for them both do u get the jiz ???
I don't understand why people are mad at chanhyuk. He didn't even cheat on her. It's the girl that is insecure and have a lot of inferiority complex. I just hope they get rid of their misunderstanding soon. Love this series.
True. Even chanhyuk knows sooji's insecurities but he still put all efforts to make her feel amazing about herself. The problem on their relationship lies on Sooji not loving herself enough, listening to others' thoughts and losing a little faith in the relationship just because she sees CH conversing with another girl. Hope she overcomes those things and get a good ending with CH. edited to avoid misunderstanding
@@andreya8289 I know. I feel/understand the girl's problem too but I feel more bad for the guy because we all can see how much he loves her. Let's hope the girl gets back her confidence and learn to love herself and appreciate the guy's effort to keep their relation going. Tbh, the girl is really pretty and cute too.😘
andreya they are both suffering. They both put efforts so don’t compare their efforts cos you don’t know what the girl feels. You can just simply say that Chan Hyuk didn’t cheat but to say that the problem is Sooji fyi, the society do have the problem too. A person will not feel bad about herself if only all of us aren’t insensitive towards people like you
i understand why she felt that way. don't condemn her for being weak because this is one of the toughest problem a person can face. insecurity is no joke, it eats every single happy cell in our body. the only way to cure this is to accept oneself, but it can take years before that happen. why, because it is part of our human nature to feel envious and compare ourself to other people when everything seems so bleak. i hope every insecure people can find an outlet (friends) that will listen and help you find what's good in yourself. kudos to the girl for being strong throughout those years. still communication is the key, also the guy really loves her. but sometimes love can be blurred by other bad stuffs. i hope she can see it really soon :)
Eversince i was young. I have never felt any envy towards other people. It is not always a part of someone's life.. But i think the secret of not getting envy is understanding that i have my own personality, likes and preferences.. That i don't ever compare my self to others.. I dont even care if someone is rich, looks good and smart. Hahah. They dont mean anything to me. I mind my own business. But i believe physical appearance is one of the major insecurities of humans. For ugly people, even if they say they are ok. I know it is not ok. They will say they are contented. But will always feel that low feeling. Everybody wants to be pretty. Whoever does not want is stupid.. So for me, i always offer something to my friends and encouraging them to do efforts on the way they look. Cuz like i said.. I am not envy if someone look prettier than me. For my friends. I want them to look at their best..
Too bad i don't have friends and good words don't affect me only bad ones do, because how i see myself matters the most (for example if i think my neck is ugly and someone else point out its flaw obv i would be hurt because i dont like it already, if someone insults my pale skin that wouldn't really affect me because i think pale or tan skin doesn't make someone prettier or uglier) nothing works...
*Y’know, I hope this beautiful girl doesn’t feel the same way irl. She’s so so gorgeous and precious. She’s a beautiful human being and I hope she knows that.* 💖 *P.S. You’re worth it. You’re good enough. You’re smart, intelligent, sexy and amazing.*
Isn't that the most heartbreaking reason to breakup with someone. Not because you don't love them but because you care so much about what other people say - even though you know it's a pathetic thing to do...This is the worst kind of heartbreak I think.
But i feel even more bad for Soo Ji because she had to pretend to be happy for those 4 yrs just to not hurt anyones feeling but herself. Its like loving Chanhyuk is a barrier from her loving herself
Yeah its is sad but at soo ji for thinking to much about what people think of her well in my opinon that is quite weak i mean ive never felt like that so i dont know also soo ji should have just let chan hyuk explain im so sorry for chan hyuk he didn't care what other people say about her or him but they were mostly compliments And him being "not right" for soo ji Just burns me
It’s no one’s fault here. I totally understand Soojin, especially in the society she lives in. GUYS, It’s Korea where beauty standard is off the roof! Just a little meat you are called fat, and in Korea Soojin is more than chubby. 😢😢 She probably couldn’t help hating herself even though her bf loves her for everything.
Yes! And many people in Korea, total strangers, even will tell people they are ugly or fat. Other cultures have people like that as well, but it seems more common in Korea and China. At least according to my friends from those countries...
Why are so many people hating on Chan Hyuk? Its not like he cheated on her ..he was just planning for her bday.....Soo Ji needs to learn to love herself ....I know people are insecure about themselves but still...why hate on chan hyuk?
@Alana Maloney Actually as someone who has seen one suffer from inferiority complex closely... to get over it is very difficult. No matter what others say or do there is always a chance you would feel insecure or inferior. Also while Soo ji was with him, others comments hurt her... just being with him caused those comments to start... so even though he tried to help her it might not have been that effective. To blame just one person for her insecurities is wrong. Although love helps conquer them but if just being with the loved one causes you to feel inferior ( because of various reasons in this case others comments) it becomes a lot difficult.
i dont think it is right to blame either of them. Chan Hyuk was probably the most perfect boyfriend. He just wanted to suprise his girlfriend with a sweet gift. And Soo Ji just needed time to learn to love herself more. She probably felt so insecure having to hear people drag her all the time. Neither of them were at fault.
It's okay. It's actually a good decision. In a relationship, both of them should be happy. Not just him or not just her, but both for a relationship to work and last. Fighting Sooji and Chanhyuk!! I love this series! 😹💓
Love is extending oneself, allowing your partner to grow with you whilst growing yourself in one's partner's presence. They thought they were doing the same thing, but unfortunately, Soo Ji couldn't keep up. It's a sad phase in their relationship, but they have to build and grow themselves better, individually I guess. But why am I blabbering about love when I don't have experience? HAHA anyways, Ssook's relationship is difficult as well.
I know they say love yourself but sometimes it’s not that easy to love yourself. It’s a process and like processes it takes time. Soo Ji fighting♥️ It takes a lot of guts to breakup even though you know you love someone because of your insecurities. I can relate to her so much
i totally understand how she feels, i’m pretty the same.. i’m in long distance relationship for an half of year we talk everyday but i don’t have much self confidence, i’m always scared if one day my bf goes with another girl. He’s always try to comfort me bc he knows that i don’t have much confidence, he said that he will never cheat on me but it’s hard for me. it’s really hard, the self confidence it’s really hard to build, i think it’s the most difficult thing to build. Before i met my bf my self confidence are really in the bottom now i’m with him my confidence start to growing up slowly and slowly, little and little so i’m still thankful to have my bf I hope everyone will build their own self confidence.
I really like this episode. It's such a mature and realistic portrayal of how love is not a black and white and straighforward thing. So many other circumstances can cause a break up, it doesn't always mean you don't love the person if it doesn't work out. Life just gets in the way, the timing may be off.
6:16 especially when he said “I spent all those years with you for you to act like that”, it made me really mad but I still understand he loves her. It’s just he didn’t have to say that especially when she feels the way she does.
i can understand her so much.. when u pretend everything was ok, try to ignore what people said but deep inside of ur heart feel hurt.. try to become the most happy person when u cry inside.. try to hold ur inner feeling for sake of ur relationship when u still dont hve much courage to deal.. its hard to love urself n hve high confidence level in ur luv, when ur bf was hot n handsome while u r so so.. but in this story, u should be secure to have that kind of bf.. he was someone accept who u r😊
Watching this reminds of the time someone used to make me feel special said "sorry I couldn't make you feel that you are enough, that you are beautiful". I feel bad for making him feel that way but at that time I always had insecurities and I just couldn't fight it.
Clap clap for these two actors! They are perfect for Sooji and Chan Hyuk's characters. Very effective. I lmao after feeling tears streaming down my cheeks. How could a webdrama make me cry?!? Hahaha! Excited to see what is in store for the both of them in the near future. Keeping my fingers crossed, wishing that they will get back together- soon!
this made me bawl me eyes out 🥺 that’s why loving yourself first is very important and what the boy said was right, she shouldn’t let others opinions or words affect her
I guess it's really the question, is she happier without judgement but without him or is she happier with judgement and with him. I'd say the latter, but I guess everyone has to love themselves before they can be prepared to love someone else.
I heard a saying, 'love yourself first before loving your significant other because if you're broken/deeply hurt from that relationship, at least you have the strength to get up again." The first rule of dating, is self love.
I would really love to see a relationship like Soo ji & Chan Hyuk but the other way round ( guy is insecure ) in a drama or web series?! I feel like it would be interesting to see
I understand Sooji's feelings because I ever felt it, but she must learn how to ignore people's words. For me, love is more valuable than my pride. I'll ignore anything as long as I can be with him.
This is just so heart breaking.... soo ji's bf must feel so broken cause we all know this guy gave so much love to soo ji. I think soo ji just found it hard with her bf because everyone is complimenting on his good looks. Tbh looks dont matter at all its the love u gave for eachother and we all know people can say a lot of shit but if u actually loved yourself u would'nt even care wat others think of u. Cause u r u and u cant change that so u got to learn love yourself for ur own happiness 💜
I love this show soo much and just discovered it! Honestly, I know where she comes from and even though she should have more self-esteem; having to deal with girls who vocally do that all the time just crushes you over time, no matter what. Not to mention that jewelry shop girl was acting a little too chummy - even for my taste.
Aw I totally agree with her decision to break up, you should always love yourself first. Her boyfriend was also really sweet to be able to accept that easily even if he didn’t feel like it.
Okay I honestly feel kinda guilty because when I first saw this couple together I did find chanhyuk attractive and wondered why he liked sooji, I was being judgemental but in my defense, korea has this image of giving too much value on looks (generally) so I thought typically (generally) good looking men might like a girl who matches their looks especially when I eavesdrop with my guy classmates they mostly just talk about girls looks, so I wondered maybe Sooji is kind or funny or he must like her as a person and not really for her looks, I am cruel I know buy really it was just an assumption I had from my first impression of them. I hope Sooji learns to love herself 😊 chanhyuk is boyfriendgoals tbh
I cried so much This is the only drama breakup that has made emotional tears come out It's just so relatable to the people that have confidence issues too.. too much to handle.. It made me cry so much because she loved him but her issues got in the way, and sometime I feel like that too, things that I love to do, people I love to be with, but my self esteem issues always get in the way and then I can't do what I love,, It just hurt so much because the people that know, know, we know exactly that feeling.. it's not that we don't want to love ourselves, it's not that we enjoy hating ourselves, people think we victimize ourselves and say things like he did "did I not give you enough faith in me" no, we appreciate even compliments our friends give, the love too, but no matter how much people praise you, it's an internal battle. And no amount of love or compliments can make someone love themselves but themselves,, I understand her so much. Thank you for shining light on this, most break ups would've taken the direction that he was cheating on her but you didn't disregard the fact that sometimes loving someone is so emotionally tiring when you can't love yourself, not many people pay attention to that because its burdensome, and aside from that it was executed perfectly, thank you playlist and to the actress who did such a beautiful job I feel represented Thank you
I hope Soo Ji finds her confidence & self love ❤️ (Also please make them get back together! The guy is so sweet for loving her no matter what others say ㅠㅠ)
Start lifting weights so you can threaten to physically lift them up every time they speak rubbish like that? It usually unnerves people, especially if you are shorter than them.
wait so chanhyuk didnt cheat on her right? he was just planning with that other girl how to get soo ji her gift? thats why the other girl said "send your girlfriend home first and just tell her youre at practice"?
Yup! It was all innocent. She broke up with him not because of any kind of cheating, but because the poison of other people's mean words making her always hurt when she was with him.
This epi broke my heart... I really understood both sides. She had to do what she thought was best. I just felt so sad they broke up and that peoples crappy comments was the cause
This was such an important episode because I think that it resinates with many young adult females. We have so many internal insecurities that can potentially ruin relationships. Likewise men are left unsure, confused and tainted when our baggage infuses with our relationships. As someone who is older, I watch this show and can see how it mirrored me from age 16-through my late twenties. I didn't realize how much of a train wreck I was. The great news is that time, situations, and maturity will take care of these things.
@@LeeW-i4t you never had issues with your own body if you cant understand that she never said she wants to be with an uglier guy, she doesnt like herself and she needs to learn it she loves him so much that she feels really bad about herself after some time... So yeah it's easy to say it's about love and not others, but that's hard to do it
I finally understand why it's most important to love yourself before loving someone else. Oh man, I feel so bad for Soo Ji, I hope she comes back for Chan Hyuk once she finds the courage to love herself.
Oh my! It's so sad! >< But I think there is a good side about doing what she did. It's the oportunity to grow up and learn to have more self confidence. I hope everything goes well with that lovely couple
I do understand where she is coming from. I sympathize with her but I do hope that they could go back together and over come this. Props to her for being finally honest about how she feels.
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PlayList Global Gosh, that break up scene kinda hurt me...I have no idea why people would speak so badly of their union. She's adorable, to me, but I get it. I got my first boyfriend and he told me that a girl said that he could do better, so I understand.
Please do a series of them getting back together pleaseeeeeee
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I don't know if I'm crying because of their breakup or because Soo Ji's low self esteem issue is *extremely relateable.* Loving yourself is a constant heavy struggle.
Yeah people are always saying to "love yourself more before you love someone else" but you don't know what put them in that mindset and you can say that easily because you're looking in.
i agree. its so easy to see the good in everybody else but so hard to see the good in yourself
It's also an up and down shit too.. one day I will look at myself and be like "God damn I look hot" but a month later, I will look at the same face and think I'm the ugliest pos ever. It's hard, and it gets harder with mordern social media and social pressure
True.
So true
The girl's side is sad but the guy's side is equally sad. Doing nothing wrong and giving your all to make the person always comfortable. And then suddenly a break up which makes the person suddenly feel lost. Blaming himself that it was somewhere his fault for not being able to make her confident enough. She loved him and he loved her but she didn't love herself.
finally, one comment about the guy... yeah i feel you... it's really unfair for the guy too, the one who shocked, the one who unprepared.... T_T
Yeah. And I kinda feel like the girl didn't think about his feelings, and broke up a lil/too harshly, and just walked away just like that. Though I do feel bad for them, but maybe a lil more for the boy this timw
Time* sorry, typo
I respect the fact that Chan Hyuk gave as much as he could in their relationship. He's such a good guy. But Soo Ji will never be happy if she couldn't truly appreciate herself, if she couldn't see that she too is also worthy of being loved.
@@caryljannielazo4988 I totally agree. 😥
If only she loved herself too and didn't care about what others said. Those people that talk about her like that won't even remember what they said but it effects the one that heard those things horribly.
That's why before you love someone you should first learn to love yourself, knowmatter how much love that person gives you you can never truly appreciate it if you yourself can't accept it.
True
that is right
Deep
@@wu_chang_sexy ARMY💜
I wish I there was a guide to loving ones self
He was right, she shouldn't let other people's opinions interfere but I totally understand her too. I feel like he was going to propose soon or something😭
@Coco Punch I'm sad too but that honestly probably won't ever happen
@@slugs.. wait wut?! Wut do u mean?
@@aeri8327 I don't think that they will get back to their comfortable spot in their relationship even if they just became friends it would still be akward and hard for them both do u get the jiz ???
@Coco Punch same 😄
A person can only try to stay strong for so long before they crack and can’t bear with it any longer.
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exactly!!!
It's so sad how she feels insecure even though he's clearly in LOVE with HER. I hope that she learns to love herself like Chanhyuk loves her.
I don't understand why people are mad at chanhyuk. He didn't even cheat on her. It's the girl that is insecure and have a lot of inferiority complex. I just hope they get rid of their misunderstanding soon. Love this series.
True. Even chanhyuk knows sooji's insecurities but he still put all efforts to make her feel amazing about herself. The problem on their relationship lies on Sooji not loving herself enough, listening to others' thoughts and losing a little faith in the relationship just because she sees CH conversing with another girl. Hope she overcomes those things and get a good ending with CH.
edited to avoid misunderstanding
@Coco Punch Yes!! 😍
@@andreya8289 I know. I feel/understand the girl's problem too but I feel more bad for the guy because we all can see how much he loves her. Let's hope the girl gets back her confidence and learn to love herself and appreciate the guy's effort to keep their relation going. Tbh, the girl is really pretty and cute too.😘
I don't think she has an inferiority complex.Hearing people's cruel words for 4 years,I think she just couldn't take it anymore.
andreya they are both suffering. They both put efforts so don’t compare their efforts cos you don’t know what the girl feels. You can just simply say that Chan Hyuk didn’t cheat but to say that the problem is Sooji fyi, the society do have the problem too. A person will not feel bad about herself if only all of us aren’t insensitive towards people like you
i understand why she felt that way. don't condemn her for being weak because this is one of the toughest problem a person can face. insecurity is no joke, it eats every single happy cell in our body. the only way to cure this is to accept oneself, but it can take years before that happen. why, because it is part of our human nature to feel envious and compare ourself to other people when everything seems so bleak. i hope every insecure people can find an outlet (friends) that will listen and help you find what's good in yourself.
kudos to the girl for being strong throughout those years. still communication is the key, also the guy really loves her. but sometimes love can be blurred by other bad stuffs. i hope she can see it really soon :)
Eversince i was young. I have never felt any envy towards other people. It is not always a part of someone's life.. But i think the secret of not getting envy is understanding that i have my own personality, likes and preferences.. That i don't ever compare my self to others.. I dont even care if someone is rich, looks good and smart. Hahah. They dont mean anything to me. I mind my own business.
But i believe physical appearance is one of the major insecurities of humans. For ugly people, even if they say they are ok. I know it is not ok. They will say they are contented. But will always feel that low feeling. Everybody wants to be pretty. Whoever does not want is stupid.. So for me, i always offer something to my friends and encouraging them to do efforts on the way they look. Cuz like i said.. I am not envy if someone look prettier than me. For my friends. I want them to look at their best..
Sometimes when I am with my boyfriend... People Say things like... "I wonder how much money she paid to get him" it hurts.
Too bad i don't have friends and good words don't affect me only bad ones do, because how i see myself matters the most (for example if i think my neck is ugly and someone else point out its flaw obv i would be hurt because i dont like it already, if someone insults my pale skin that wouldn't really affect me because i think pale or tan skin doesn't make someone prettier or uglier) nothing works...
it is really bad once your insecurities eat you up alive
Soooo true
True kinda relatable but u know u gotta love yourself in order for you to love another human being
*Y’know, I hope this beautiful girl doesn’t feel the same way irl. She’s so so gorgeous and precious. She’s a beautiful human being and I hope she knows that.* 💖
*P.S. You’re worth it. You’re good enough. You’re smart, intelligent, sexy and amazing.*
man, i kinda understand how she feels insecure.
Exactly. She feels insecure.
Yeah I think she needs time to find the power to love herself before she could be in any relationship
@@zzing8496 exactly. She isn't comfortable in her own self that's all.
me too:(
Me too
Isn't that the most heartbreaking reason to breakup with someone. Not because you don't love them but because you care so much about what other people say - even though you know it's a pathetic thing to do...This is the worst kind of heartbreak I think.
I feel bad for the guy trying to make Soo Ji happy all those 4 years
But i feel even more bad for Soo Ji because she had to pretend to be happy for those 4 yrs just to not hurt anyones feeling but herself. Its like loving Chanhyuk is a barrier from her loving herself
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Yeah its is sad but at soo ji for thinking to much about what people think of her well in my opinon that is quite weak i mean ive never felt like that so i dont know also soo ji should have just let chan hyuk explain im so sorry for chan hyuk he didn't care what other people say about her or him but they were mostly compliments
And him being "not right" for soo ji
Just burns me
@@rjlawnz5105 I think that girl who hers father sell jewelry telling smthing
It's like her boyfriends effort mean nothing because of what other people think
It’s no one’s fault here. I totally understand Soojin, especially in the society she lives in. GUYS, It’s Korea where beauty standard is off the roof! Just a little meat you are called fat, and in Korea Soojin is more than chubby. 😢😢 She probably couldn’t help hating herself even though her bf loves her for everything.
Yes! And many people in Korea, total strangers, even will tell people they are ugly or fat. Other cultures have people like that as well, but it seems more common in Korea and China. At least according to my friends from those countries...
I remembered "my friend" from SK called me squid and pig.
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My dream is too come to sk to see red velvet but I think I can't cause I may not be able to survive with my face
TaLuLuDAY yep knetz are way obsessed with looks
@@ncutca2909 really🙃
I understand y she broke up with him sometimes u have to fully love yourself before u can love others
true af
I'm learning how to love myself❤️
just be patient and never give up, loving ourselves is a really hard mental work, but I'm sure you will succeed ❤️
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Yass love yourself preach!! Tbh its so hard to love yourself more than you love others, its a life long lesson.
"That is why, you need to first love yourself to love others"
Why are so many people hating on Chan Hyuk? Its not like he cheated on her ..he was just planning for her bday.....Soo Ji needs to learn to love herself ....I know people are insecure about themselves but still...why hate on chan hyuk?
i totally agree with u
@Alana Maloney Actually as someone who has seen one suffer from inferiority complex closely... to get over it is very difficult. No matter what others say or do there is always a chance you would feel insecure or inferior. Also while Soo ji was with him, others comments hurt her... just being with him caused those comments to start... so even though he tried to help her it might not have been that effective. To blame just one person for her insecurities is wrong. Although love helps conquer them but if just being with the loved one causes you to feel inferior ( because of various reasons in this case others comments) it becomes a lot difficult.
i dont think it is right to blame either of them. Chan Hyuk was probably the most perfect boyfriend. He just wanted to suprise his girlfriend with a sweet gift. And Soo Ji just needed time to learn to love herself more. She probably felt so insecure having to hear people drag her all the time. Neither of them were at fault.
@@cait3196 I totally agree with you
It's okay. It's actually a good decision. In a relationship, both of them should be happy. Not just him or not just her, but both for a relationship to work and last. Fighting Sooji and Chanhyuk!! I love this series! 😹💓
Love is extending oneself, allowing your partner to grow with you whilst growing yourself in one's partner's presence. They thought they were doing the same thing, but unfortunately, Soo Ji couldn't keep up. It's a sad phase in their relationship, but they have to build and grow themselves better, individually I guess.
But why am I blabbering about love when I don't have experience? HAHA anyways, Ssook's relationship is difficult as well.
Ahahahaha sameeeee, that's so me !!! But i feel you :'(
I know they say love yourself but sometimes it’s not that easy to love yourself. It’s a process and like processes it takes time. Soo Ji fighting♥️ It takes a lot of guts to breakup even though you know you love someone because of your insecurities. I can relate to her so much
I love the three friends.! They are like sisters! Now it's Sook's turn!!!
i totally understand how she feels, i’m pretty the same..
i’m in long distance relationship for an half of year we talk everyday but i don’t have much self confidence, i’m always scared if one day my bf goes with another girl. He’s always try to comfort me bc he knows that i don’t have much confidence, he said that he will never cheat on me but it’s hard for me.
it’s really hard, the self confidence it’s really hard to build, i think it’s the most difficult thing to build.
Before i met my bf my self confidence are really in the bottom now i’m with him my confidence start to growing up slowly and slowly, little and little so i’m still thankful to have my bf
I hope everyone will build their own self confidence.
I felt nervous when I've read the title from the notification. 😢💔
I was like no no no that can't be happening.. They're perfect for each other!
saaame
And me guessing the worse scenario and damn....i saw it coming..aghhh..almost perfect but it made a twist..now im excited whats gonna be next😂
I knew I was gonna cry
I really like this episode. It's such a mature and realistic portrayal of how love is not a black and white and straighforward thing. So many other circumstances can cause a break up, it doesn't always mean you don't love the person if it doesn't work out. Life just gets in the way, the timing may be off.
My eyes are sweating, I kinda wish they get back together but I kinda get how she feels
When I'm with you my dignity keeps hitting rock bottom....thts so damn relatable and not enough talked about
Why did this have to happen, I hope that they get back together😭💖
Dreamy Nini they wont
@@hanashah8828 noooo 😭😭
@@hanashah8828 how do you know for sure??
@@hanashah8828 how do you know? :"(
6:16 especially when he said “I spent all those years with you for you to act like that”, it made me really mad but I still understand he loves her. It’s just he didn’t have to say that especially when she feels the way she does.
My heart- i feel so sad for her.
I'm just so proud how I met this guy here in playlist global before he went famous in crash landing on you as park gwang beom.
Ugh my favorite drama is back
i can understand her so much.. when u pretend everything was ok, try to ignore what people said but deep inside of ur heart feel hurt.. try to become the most happy person when u cry inside.. try to hold ur inner feeling for sake of ur relationship when u still dont hve much courage to deal.. its hard to love urself n hve high confidence level in ur luv, when ur bf was hot n handsome while u r so so.. but in this story, u should be secure to have that kind of bf.. he was someone accept who u r😊
Oh no my chubby bunny! Don't do it....nooooo
Soo ji is so pretty and cute at the same time...I dont get it why people keep judging other personality...like they have their own face right?😢😢
Watching this reminds of the time someone used to make me feel special said "sorry I couldn't make you feel that you are enough, that you are beautiful". I feel bad for making him feel that way but at that time I always had insecurities and I just couldn't fight it.
My favourite series, I seriously love how different their personalities are
Why did I cry.
Clap clap for these two actors! They are perfect for Sooji and Chan Hyuk's characters. Very effective. I lmao after feeling tears streaming down my cheeks. How could a webdrama make me cry?!? Hahaha! Excited to see what is in store for the both of them in the near future. Keeping my fingers crossed, wishing that they will get back together- soon!
You should always love yourself before you love someone else
this made me bawl me eyes out 🥺 that’s why loving yourself first is very important and what the boy said was right, she shouldn’t let others opinions or words affect her
Ahh my stress reliever drama💞
I guess it's really the question, is she happier without judgement but without him or is she happier with judgement and with him. I'd say the latter, but I guess everyone has to love themselves before they can be prepared to love someone else.
Teresa Li preach 🙌🏻
I knew it when i saw ben's music video 😢😢😢 no i hope all of them got happy ending
I heard a saying, 'love yourself first before loving your significant other because if you're broken/deeply hurt from that relationship, at least you have the strength to get up again."
The first rule of dating, is self love.
MY FAV SERIES!!!❤️❤️❤️❤️
I would really love to see a relationship like Soo ji & Chan Hyuk but the other way round ( guy is insecure ) in a drama or web series?! I feel like it would be interesting to see
Epiphany: You have to love yourself before you love someone else.
Armyyyyy
I don't know why but I cried. Playlist Global you did it again, you make me cry once again with your series
i feel bad that they're broke up but i clearly can understand sooji's feel.
I really understand Soo Ji on being upset and pressured all the time. I actually cried on the scene when they were fighting.
I’ve been waitinggggg
"Love yourself before you love others." If u want a stable relationship, it's vital to be able to get rid of those toxic insecurities 💜
I somehow relate to her so much
10:07 BROKE MY HEART JUST HEARING HER CRY 😭😭😭(even tho I know it’s acting ) 💖💖💖
I understand Sooji's feelings because I ever felt it, but she must learn how to ignore people's words. For me, love is more valuable than my pride. I'll ignore anything as long as I can be with him.
This is somewhat relatable. I truly believe that to be able to love someone, you must first love yourself.
Goodbye *A-TEEN*
Byanjana Pokharel LOL
i will miss A-TEEN but please don't break up just like that!😭😭 i was crying right now why do they have the best drama ever?😭😭
it's hard to choose sksksksk
I miss A- teen😭😭
Tenzing Chuki me too
I rarely ever cry when watching dramas but this scene made me cry my eyes out.
Is Chan Hyuk one of the soldiers in Crash Landing on You?
Yes
Oh yes, he is one who got many offers from entertainment company. I was wondering where did I see him?
I got confused with minho from shinee 😁😁😁😁😁
This is just so heart breaking.... soo ji's bf must feel so broken cause we all know this guy gave so much love to soo ji. I think soo ji just found it hard with her bf because everyone is complimenting on his good looks. Tbh looks dont matter at all its the love u gave for eachother and we all know people can say a lot of shit but if u actually loved yourself u would'nt even care wat others think of u. Cause u r u and u cant change that so u got to learn love yourself for ur own happiness 💜
I love this show soo much and just discovered it! Honestly, I know where she comes from and even though she should have more self-esteem; having to deal with girls who vocally do that all the time just crushes you over time, no matter what. Not to mention that jewelry shop girl was acting a little too chummy - even for my taste.
this is one of the most emotional episodes they have produced with great acting
*I read the title and I know I feel heartbroken. But I understand the situations.*
Aw I totally agree with her decision to break up, you should always love yourself first. Her boyfriend was also really sweet to be able to accept that easily even if he didn’t feel like it.
Okay I honestly feel kinda guilty because when I first saw this couple together I did find chanhyuk attractive and wondered why he liked sooji, I was being judgemental but in my defense, korea has this image of giving too much value on looks (generally) so I thought typically (generally) good looking men might like a girl who matches their looks especially when I eavesdrop with my guy classmates they mostly just talk about girls looks, so I wondered maybe Sooji is kind or funny or he must like her as a person and not really for her looks, I am cruel I know buy really it was just an assumption I had from my first impression of them. I hope Sooji learns to love herself 😊 chanhyuk is boyfriendgoals tbh
i think she is very very cute :) she must be proud of herself instead
I thought she was so cute, dunno why she playing “ugly” role. Kinda ridiculous
@@Internet_user777 nah she cute but Chan hyuk is like in a different league that's how it is
I cried so much
This is the only drama breakup that has made emotional tears come out
It's just so relatable to the people that have confidence issues too.. too much to handle..
It made me cry so much because she loved him but her issues got in the way, and sometime I feel like that too, things that I love to do, people I love to be with, but my self esteem issues always get in the way and then I can't do what I love,,
It just hurt so much because the people that know, know, we know exactly that feeling.. it's not that we don't want to love ourselves, it's not that we enjoy hating ourselves, people think we victimize ourselves and say things like he did "did I not give you enough faith in me" no, we appreciate even compliments our friends give, the love too, but no matter how much people praise you, it's an internal battle. And no amount of love or compliments can make someone love themselves but themselves,, I understand her so much. Thank you for shining light on this, most break ups would've taken the direction that he was cheating on her but you didn't disregard the fact that sometimes loving someone is so emotionally tiring when you can't love yourself, not many people pay attention to that because its burdensome, and aside from that it was executed perfectly, thank you playlist and to the actress who did such a beautiful job
I feel represented
Thank you
practice my Korean listening using this videos. Thank you
I hope Soo Ji finds her confidence & self love ❤️
(Also please make them get back together! The guy is so sweet for loving her no matter what others say ㅠㅠ)
i totally understand her becauss i dated one boy 3 years ago and people still tell me that i’m not the best for him because i’m chubby 😞
Start lifting weights so you can threaten to physically lift them up every time they speak rubbish like that? It usually unnerves people, especially if you are shorter than them.
Il Al thank you 💞
I’m in love with the actors in this series😍😍
2018 really is the year of BREAKUPS😭💔
rewatching this series and still love it
wait so chanhyuk didnt cheat on her right? he was just planning with that other girl how to get soo ji her gift? thats why the other girl said "send your girlfriend home first and just tell her youre at practice"?
Yup! It was all innocent. She broke up with him not because of any kind of cheating, but because the poison of other people's mean words making her always hurt when she was with him.
This epi broke my heart... I really understood both sides. She had to do what she thought was best. I just felt so sad they broke up and that peoples crappy comments was the cause
6:10 *Mr. Worldwide Handsome Kim Seokjin is that you?*
Samantha Apin omg i know right-
This legit made me cry. Thanks A lot😭😭😭🌸✨💞
aw man i actually cried at that breakup scene ;-;
This was such an important episode because I think that it resinates with many young adult females. We have so many internal insecurities that can potentially ruin relationships. Likewise men are left unsure, confused and tainted when our baggage infuses with our relationships. As someone who is older, I watch this show and can see how it mirrored me from age 16-through my late twenties. I didn't realize how much of a train wreck I was. The great news is that time, situations, and maturity will take care of these things.
I wish I didn't have insecurities.
I love the way they care about their friend
Who are watching this after breaking up with their partners ??
THIS IS MEEE
If only I had a partner 😭😭
Me.
Maaaannnm, forget what people say, as long as you two luv each other, that's all the matters!!
So if she’s with an ugly guy will she feel happier?! She needs to understand it’s about LOVE NOT OTHERS!
She loves him she just doesn't love herself.
Right? This doesnt really make sense to me? So she will be ok with an uglier guy?
@@LeeW-i4t you never had issues with your own body if you cant understand that
she never said she wants to be with an uglier guy, she doesnt like herself and she needs to learn it
she loves him so much that she feels really bad about herself after some time... So yeah it's easy to say it's about love and not others, but that's hard to do it
I finally understand why it's most important to love yourself before loving someone else. Oh man, I feel so bad for Soo Ji, I hope she comes back for Chan Hyuk once she finds the courage to love herself.
this is so freakin sad! can someone pass me the tissue?
社会主义者侦探 there were too many onions cut in this episode
Oh my! It's so sad! >< But I think there is a good side about doing what she did. It's the oportunity to grow up and learn to have more self confidence. I hope everything goes well with that lovely couple
That's literally me breaking up with A-teen.
I do understand where she is coming from. I sympathize with her but I do hope that they could go back together and over come this. Props to her for being finally honest about how she feels.
A-teen has left the chat
STOPPPPPPPPP
Omg I never even thought I would cry 😭 but she is the cutest thing ever and I just don’t want to see her get hurt or cry ❤️💕
I really love this series, huhuhuhuhu, I want more please 😭😭😭 This made my heart broke...😭😭😭 Uljima...
I love this playlist so much! Thank you for making such a great job! Fighting guys! Lot of love from France 🇫🇷 ❤️
Oh come on i know this will happen💔 i hope she's will getting out all of her insecurities 😭
I know she needs this break but I really hope they can find their way back to each other after she's learnt to love herself
I don’t want they to break up
Please🙏🙏🙏🙏
This is my favorite couple
Please
Please
Please
It’s true when people say that if you don’t love yourself then You are not capable of loving someone else. Remember you are more important and come first before anyone
Oh noooooo don't 😢
I love her. SHE is brave enough to be BRAVE.
Finally!