I was surprised that crying over a failed relationship didn't make the list. We've all had them. Surely someone as attractive as you must have had some relationship in the last 10 years.
avoidant bpd people dont get hung up on other people and relationships, their defense mechanism is to instantly gaslight themselves into forgetting/demonizing whoever doesnt approve/fit into their world view/wants and needs. crying about others implies caring for them and thats like kryptonite to superman for them
You once inspired me maybe 6 years ago to get into van life with my wife. We ended up bailing, and now won’t ever try again with a 1 year old son and another child on the way. Glad to see you’re doing well!
3:30 to 4:30 those times in a seemingly random friend group/circles are my favorite, bitter sweet, yes. I ran my 1st 50mile ultra marathon this year, mid race I became part of a group for awhile, it is now one of my favorite marathon memories.
We all go through the emotions at different times, and different things are going on in our lives. The only time I did not like sleeping in my vehicle and I was so packed with stuff. I like to try to have some where to put all the stuff so it won't be difficult to sleep.
Ahle, you are one of the faster talkers I have ever encountered. Someday when you get off road you should go into sales, I have a feeling you could sell anything to anyone in a matter of minutes. One good things about sales is the amount of money you can make. It can be a bunch.
I've cryed or my eyes just welled up because of how bad the BO was. I work in the trades and the summer is very busy for me. God Bless and be safe. Protect yourself with bear spray.
I've missed you so much! You're my first van-lifer! I'll never forget the purple mattress you made a slumber party for those sweet little girls! I'm happy every time I see you.
Have you tried the rock style deodorant? It doesn't help with sweat at all but is supposed to kill/prevent the bacteria that causes odor. And people say it's heathier/better for you than standard deodorant.
Have you tried using diluted vinegar (1 part vinegar to 4 or 5 parts water) to wash with? It does a pretty good job of knocking out bad smells and bacteria if you let it sit for a minute or two before rinsing, and sort of conditions your hair. Apple cider vinegar is the best, just don't get it in your eyes!
The stinky underarms even after showering is a very common sign of low magnesium,most ppl have low magnesium actually sk try tsking 400mg of magnesium glycinate and notice the change ....if u r low in magnesium means u r low on vitamin d as well ....so in that case u would need to take k2 mk7 and d3 along with the magnesium
I just wrote a song inspired by van life and camping 😂 I bought a vehicle last year in hopes of camping and check engine light came on and was just a waste of $. So I admire what you guys go through and all the dangers and everything that comes with it.would be funny if it becomes a popular song.
I can totally understand the smell part. I'm like that myself and once I couldn't stand the smell of my husband's new soap and he had to wash his hands, again, with the old one...fortunately, he's very accommodating.
Maybe try taking an electric vehicle for a spin some time, a lot of them will let you run the A/C overnight while the car is off and it doesn’t use as much battery as you might suspect.
Thanks for sharing the video with us. Personally if you have enough space for everything you need living in some type of a vehicle is good. Think of all the money you can save or use for other things like vacations
Colorado is so beautiful, all of the plants are so lush. The delivery of your experiences is so hilarious, I would laugh harder but some your list items hit to close, lol
From your 1st video to now. I've always wondered how stinky you were 😂😂😂 - Thank you for this. I would definitely put up with it (you). MAYBE 😂❤😂❤ Lov ya 😘 💓 💗
I was going to share something I noticed about a speech pattern of yours (it’s not bad, don’t worry) but I don’t want to offer unsolicited advice so it seems wiser to keep it to myself unless you’re feeling curious (jlmk if you are). Regardless, I want to specifically thank you for your videos because I’ve been doing Prius life for about 10 months now and seeing people like you who’ve been doing this for much longer than I have makes me feel more connected to my own humanity. So cheers to you! And also, you’re objectively right about all of the smell stuff you talked about in this vid.
your story about not seeing someone again at 4:18 litterly made me do what you described as your number 5, , it weird but im very much like i you in the sense that when i see some else appreciate/describe something i value deeply it touches me deeply, the word deeply isnt deep enought a descriptor.. . . its a weird thing and cant say i have ever heard any one else articulate this. . I suspect your probably an empath as well
Somewhere you pronounced 'Taos-ian', but being that I was one, and am part-time, so to speak, I am not sure that it needs to be said that way, but anyway...I havent checked where you are now, or what places you are most of the time, but I have been meaning to tell you I have a 1 acre property you might find useful, so you are 11mi from shops and gas and restarants (Belen [sort of Mountainair/Valencia), and one could set up something a little more permanent, maybe with some kind of power or water tank. And it is navigable and kind of marked off. Last time I checked, there were only 3 or 4 groups of people / owners out there, besides a few near the highway. ( I can tell you where that is later). I just dont think I am going to get out there this year but I own it and I say you are welcome to use it. It is getting to be a good time of year too, after windy(mar), dry(june), hot(july), and into monsoonish(aug) and fall. Maybe I already told you this, or dropped a clue, and I have ADHD too! (or however it is spelled)! later...hope u see this.
How could vehicle breakdowns or high cost of repairs in fixing/maintenance not be included in this list? I recall you said dealing with Bertha breakdown/repair problems gave you so much stress that you fainted and injured yourself in the fall. Vehicle problems can be a main source of grief for those who are not a part of van life and live in apartments/homes. One would think the issues would be much more hyper for those whose vehicle serves as both home and transportation.
Totally get how the senses can be a deal breaker. It's hearing for me, particularly mouth noises. And you feel like such a jerk explaining it to people 🤦♂️
Just my two cents… I think you are strong and brave but my perspective is you would be good to have a real home base. Nothing wrong with traveling and making many many friends along the way. I went to a digital detox camp for three days and made lots of friends. I was glad we all were willing & able to stay in touch with snail mail. Maybe you could just do the ‘Van Life’ in the summer, but even then I still think you need to travel maybe in a group( like a convoy).I am 62 and as a father you need a man as a protector especially in this world today. I am sensing that you talk so fast because of a certain anxiety of being alone a lot. There is a 2014 film with Reese Witherspoon called ‘Wild’ that would resonate with what you are going through. Take care and God bless you.
That 1st example where others are pointing out the beautiful things first is SO relatable fr 😭✌️🩷 ..especially when you have had experiences where the response to you pointing it out was dead😣
Stay stong. You are inspiring many people. Jesus will never put you in a situation you can't handle. Mat 5:16 ISV In the same way, let your light shine before people in such a way that they will see your good actions and glorify your Father in heaven.” 2:02
First I want to say you are beautiful woman and if possible have a companion will help. If you can somehow find a small trailer that your car can tow than leave and find a Van. Well I can understand why you travel alone bc you the type of person that needs space. Put sticker on your car that gun is always present on board.
Investment banker, %&^#* dude she ain't that type, plus she's still so young and she's gotta do things her way. Get married to soon and people ask themselves what the he'll did I do that for????, She's learning to tough things out like I never did till I got to my fifties,,, now I'm a Roady/ Transporter a working one at that and makin good money...
I was surprised that crying over a failed relationship didn't make the list. We've all had them. Surely someone as attractive as you must have had some relationship in the last 10 years.
My tears are for the mosquitoes 🦟🥲
avoidant bpd people dont get hung up on other people and relationships, their defense mechanism is to instantly gaslight themselves into forgetting/demonizing whoever doesnt approve/fit into their world view/wants and needs. crying about others implies caring for them and thats like kryptonite to superman for them
You once inspired me maybe 6 years ago to get into van life with my wife. We ended up bailing, and now won’t ever try again with a 1 year old son and another child on the way. Glad to see you’re doing well!
3:30 to 4:30 those times in a seemingly random friend group/circles are my favorite, bitter sweet, yes. I ran my 1st 50mile ultra marathon this year, mid race I became part of a group for awhile, it is now one of my favorite marathon memories.
It is good to be around people with different points of view so you don’t become narrow minded.
All these reasons were relatable, specially realizing how fleeting moments can be.
so random, but I appreciate the footage you have on the top right corner. It's nice to realise there's so much more to explore!
11:41 "its not that you smell bad "", , its just that make me want to throw up. .. ROTFL freaking absolutley hilarious
Great comedic timing in yr delivery and material! Thank you
Continue what ur doing. Godspeed
Classic Ahle, A return to form!
🙌💯
We all go through the emotions at different times, and different things are going on in our lives. The only time I did not like sleeping in my vehicle and I was so packed with stuff. I like to try to have some where to put all the stuff so it won't be difficult to sleep.
Ahle's cuteness is out of control! 😂
Indeed !
Try cool mint listerine for mosquito repellant. Just put some in ur hand and rub into skin!
I agree with #1 #2 sleep and showers, definitely!!!
Thanks for the tip!! 🙏
Ahle, you are one of the faster talkers I have ever encountered. Someday when you get off road you should go into sales, I have a feeling you could sell anything to anyone in a matter of minutes. One good things about sales is the amount of money you can make. It can be a bunch.
Apparently you’ve never heard Ben shipiro talk
I was wondering if she's on some kind of simulant. Girl talks so unnaturally fast and non-stop!
Love this video, all of that is relatable (try to put vinegar on the mosquito bites, sometimes it helps at least for a while)
Omg thank you 🙏 I’m all out of calamine lotion lol
I've cryed or my eyes just welled up because of how bad the BO was. I work in the trades and the summer is very busy for me. God Bless and be safe. Protect yourself with bear spray.
reminded me of the Seinfeld episode where the valet gave Jerry's car tremendous BO that he could not get rid of. 😅
Hey,great video! You might try activated charcoal bar soap.i work maintenance and found that helps a lot with the sweaty smell from working all day.
Hahaha, Stinky Ahle! Tea tree oil products help to fight the stank too.
You just make me happy! Everytime I hear you. So now you can have number 11. :)
No simping please.
Here after seeing you with our legendary Sue Perkins, you’re absolutely awesome hun 🇬🇧❤️
Ahle ur sooòoo cool , U just keep laughin and bein you !!!!
I've missed you so much! You're my first van-lifer! I'll never forget the purple mattress you made a slumber party for those sweet little girls! I'm happy every time I see you.
Omg Michele!!!! And I’ll never forget the artwork you made me that one time 🙏😊 so happy to see your name pop up ☺️
@@HoboAhle thanks! Never stop being your authentic you because it's all your subs care about. 💞
Have you tried the rock style deodorant? It doesn't help with sweat at all but is supposed to kill/prevent the bacteria that causes odor. And people say it's heathier/better for you than standard deodorant.
I relate to your 4th and 5th so much. Especially your 4th reason. Miss you. 😂💔
U tuff......handle tuff girl...Berwyn Illinois here
ADHD with autistic traits goes hard on smells. I completely relate.
Nice video stinky 😂 it's funny cuz I haven't showered in a week 😅 sometimes working full time out of a van has its struggles. Ty for the tips!
🤣
Have you tried using diluted vinegar (1 part vinegar to 4 or 5 parts water) to wash with? It does a pretty good job of knocking out bad smells and bacteria if you let it sit for a minute or two before rinsing, and sort of conditions your hair. Apple cider vinegar is the best, just don't get it in your eyes!
The stinky underarms even after showering is a very common sign of low magnesium,most ppl have low magnesium actually sk try tsking 400mg of magnesium glycinate and notice the change ....if u r low in magnesium means u r low on vitamin d as well ....so in that case u would need to take k2 mk7 and d3 along with the magnesium
That's Kool u came out to Shiprock N.M I'm 30mins away ❤
Heat and Sun wake me up even in my van with shades drawn!
Its good to cry
I just wrote a song inspired by van life and camping 😂 I bought a vehicle last year in hopes of camping and check engine light came on and was just a waste of $. So I admire what you guys go through and all the dangers and everything that comes with it.would be funny if it becomes a popular song.
Watching from Florida
Forgive me for complaining about the heat 🤣
I can totally understand the smell part. I'm like that myself and once I couldn't stand the smell of my husband's new soap and he had to wash his hands, again, with the old one...fortunately, he's very accommodating.
Number 2 though 😭😭 I did car life in Vegas
Awesome trip! You were in my home areas 🙌🏽
Ahle - Are you searching for something or avoiding something?
Searching for what I’m avoiding 🕵️♀️👀🤷♀️
@@HoboAhle Look Upward and inward, not outward.
@@bluenetmarketing No, do NOT look inward. That is a doom spiral.
Maybe try taking an electric vehicle for a spin some time, a lot of them will let you run the A/C overnight while the car is off and it doesn’t use as much battery as you might suspect.
Thanks for sharing the video with us. Personally if you have enough space for everything you need living in some type of a vehicle is good. Think of all the money you can save or use for other things like vacations
Colorado is so beautiful, all of the plants are so lush. The delivery of your experiences is so hilarious, I would laugh harder but some your list items hit to close, lol
I love you Ahle! You may not be aware of how many times that you use the word “like.” I counted 235 times in this video. 😂
Do you find you hold back or guard yourself more knowing you will be leaving a place?
From your 1st video to now. I've always wondered how stinky you were 😂😂😂 - Thank you for this. I would definitely put up with it (you). MAYBE 😂❤😂❤
Lov ya 😘 💓 💗
Are you a book reader? 📖 or what do you do on your downtime just sitting in a car??
What do you do with your hair? We need to know!
🤣 I shall drop some tips soon
I can't wait!
I was going to share something I noticed about a speech pattern of yours (it’s not bad, don’t worry) but I don’t want to offer unsolicited advice so it seems wiser to keep it to myself unless you’re feeling curious (jlmk if you are). Regardless, I want to specifically thank you for your videos because I’ve been doing Prius life for about 10 months now and seeing people like you who’ve been doing this for much longer than I have makes me feel more connected to my own humanity. So cheers to you! And also, you’re objectively right about all of the smell stuff you talked about in this vid.
your story about not seeing someone again at 4:18 litterly made me do what you described as your number 5, , it weird but im very much like i you in the sense that when i see some else appreciate/describe something i value deeply it touches me deeply, the word deeply isnt deep enought a descriptor.. . . its a weird thing and cant say i have ever heard any one else articulate this. . I suspect your probably an empath as well
Somewhere you pronounced 'Taos-ian', but being that I was one, and am part-time, so to speak, I am not sure that it needs to be said that way, but anyway...I havent checked where you are now, or what places you are most of the time, but I have been meaning to tell you I have a 1 acre property you might find useful, so you are 11mi from shops and gas and restarants (Belen [sort of Mountainair/Valencia), and one could set up something a little more permanent, maybe with some kind of power or water tank. And it is navigable and kind of marked off. Last time I checked, there were only 3 or 4 groups of people / owners out there, besides a few near the highway. ( I can tell you where that is later). I just dont think I am going to get out there this year but I own it and I say you are welcome to use it. It is getting to be a good time of year too, after windy(mar), dry(june), hot(july), and into monsoonish(aug) and fall. Maybe I already told you this, or dropped a clue, and I have ADHD too! (or however it is spelled)! later...hope u see this.
I know . . . It's tough at the top 😊
It is so stress relieving your beautiful (FACE)🤗🤗🤗
Sense of Smell has to be like the worst Sense ever.
Wouldn't snoring also be a dealbreaker for you? In terms of having someone share your space?
Tip hand sanitizer with wipes you make a habit of it and the smelly bacteria won't have time to reproduce 👍
🙏🙏🙏
How could vehicle breakdowns or high cost of repairs in fixing/maintenance not be included in this list? I recall you said dealing with Bertha breakdown/repair problems gave you so much stress that you fainted and injured yourself in the fall.
Vehicle problems can be a main source of grief for those who are not a part of van life and live in apartments/homes. One would think the issues would be much more hyper for those whose vehicle serves as both home and transportation.
That’s so few and far between lol. Maybe it’d make a Top 10 list tho 🙌
I just just worry about candlefire lol
The air is crying 😢
I like it when you say like a lot of likes. 😊 😁👍
Poor lil hobo
Totally get how the senses can be a deal breaker. It's hearing for me, particularly mouth noises. And you feel like such a jerk explaining it to people 🤦♂️
Just my two cents… I think you are strong and brave but my perspective is you would be good to have a real home base. Nothing wrong with traveling and making many many friends along the way. I went to a digital detox camp for three days and made lots of friends. I was glad we all were willing & able to stay in touch with snail mail. Maybe you could just do the ‘Van Life’ in the summer, but even then I still think you need to travel maybe in a group( like a convoy).I am 62 and as a father you need a man as a protector especially in this world today. I am sensing that you talk so fast because of a certain anxiety of being alone a lot. There is a 2014 film with Reese Witherspoon called ‘Wild’ that would resonate with what you are going through. Take care and God bless you.
What was your job in Colorado? A river siren to lure the knights to their doom?
I was crying
Looks like Telluride
Spot onnnn
@@HoboAhle quite pretty, and spectacular. You kind of have to be there to appreciate it. IFKYK
OMG I watching you 10 years😱😳😲
That 1st example where others are pointing out the beautiful things first is SO relatable fr 😭✌️🩷
..especially when you have had experiences where the response to you pointing it out was dead😣
You said like... like 200 times.
Her speech is much more Californian than Texan, imo...
Agreed.
It only comes back once I’m home for a bit 😂🤠
Ahle, I'm here if you need a shoulder to cry on forever.. After I take you to Applebee's..
Gr8 video Ahle. Smells - there's lots of interesting stuff about human pheromones. They can help us find out perfect match 😂
I love you Alexandra
Stay stong. You are inspiring many people. Jesus will never put you in a situation you can't handle.
Mat 5:16 ISV In the same way, let your light shine before people in such a way that they will see your good actions and glorify your Father in heaven.” 2:02
♥️
Sorry but I laughed at your pain 😂 mainly because I pretty much resonate with them all except the mosquitoes. I weirdly like the itch 🙃 lol
Hahah I’m sorry you can relate. But I also find this list to be hilarious 🤣🤣🤣 it’s too real
"WHY WOULD YOU SAY THAT, it's so true" - women in a nutshell 😂.
You are so so so much i love🫶
I wish you can be ,, just mine😊
Yo😂 😃💯🙊 Same 👍😊❤️😎
❤😍😘
@8:50 I could understand getting nauseous from other peoples BO but you get nauseous from your own? It must be pretty bad
@11:30 there it is haha. I think it's racial.
First time here, you look 21, so you been on the road since you were 11?
No simping please.
I was born on the road 🤠
You used to wake up at 4 and read your Bible . Do you still do that?
First I want to say you are beautiful woman and if possible have a companion will help. If you can somehow find a small trailer that your car can tow than leave and find a Van. Well I can understand why you travel alone bc you the type of person that needs space. Put sticker on your car that gun is always present on board.
I can't believe I am going to say this but I must say, I don't know how you live in a vehicle during that time of month.
That and being sick is honestly the worst times. But it’s doable lol
Girl I can smell you from here! Just kidding! Nice clips. How did you find out about the job and what was it?
Yes, homelessness is hard. You should stop encouraging it.
ALI YOUR SO COOL AND SWEET A TARE BOUTY😊😊😊😊😅😅🎉🎉🎉🎉
A VERY RARE BOUTY..😅😅😅😅😊😊😊🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
I like sticky 😂
#1 Men
FYI, I smell awesome. 😉
Lol
Ur hungry.
Please the “like” count is very high and hard to listen to at 4.30 am. You managed to fit four likes into one sentence. I’ll come back later.
It's ok, you don't have to come back :)
Ahle, why live in a car when you can marry an investment banker and live in a nice house? You can go camping and climbing on the weekends instead.
Investment banker, %&^#* dude she ain't that type, plus she's still so young and she's gotta do things her way. Get married to soon and people ask themselves what the he'll did I do that for????, She's learning to tough things out like I never did till I got to my fifties,,, now I'm a Roady/ Transporter a working one at that and makin good money...
@@ronmoore3987 more than an investment banker though?
Because then she would be putting up with an investment banker... 😂
...and home repairs, house stuff, and same plot of yard...🙄🤣