Saying it's "too late" to forgive her just for walking away to take a moment to breathe after he judged her and told her to convert is ridiculous. So dramatic. Never even gave her a chance since the beginning. Yet Sunny gave him a chance and forgave him when he wasn't always there for him during his childhood.
dad work in Africa and sent money to India until sunny mom went to heaven. But that girl is evil she made him tell his dad that they are getting marry and left him alone and went back home and got another dude. Dad's know a thot when he sees one.
@@GeoffRosenstein you may not believe in that religion but there's no need to be disrespectful. If that's how you feel then okay but speaking badly about it just because you don't like it isn't right. Chill.
So let me get this straight...It wasn't a shame when he abandoned his family- but the line is drawn when his son decides to marry a christian woman?? Okay😒😒 Sunny, you don't owe this man a SINGLE explanation. Do you honey 🤵♂👰💍
@@Dongdong497 who in a nutshell? you have no idea at all about Islam. Muslim men are allowed to.marry christian women so where's the nutshell you speak of? This is an individual making his own rules. You can leave your islamaphobia out of it
The father moved to South Africa for work to send money back to Bangladesh. Sunny joined his father in South Africa when he was older. I don’t agree with anything the father has said at all, but it’s important to not misconstrue what happened. It’s more accurate to say that Sunny felt abandoned by his father.
Father seems to know best because Sunny made her boyfriend tell his dad that he is marrying her and he didn't want to but later she went back home and left sunny alone and now she cheating on him with another dude. That's why Sunny should have listen to his father because dad knew that she was a thot.
@@EricaEarth No. Cheaters dont have "bad" tattoed on their foreheads. The dad is absolutely shite, especially if she ended up cheating on him he would need his dad but no dad is a narcissist that only cares about himself.
@@EricaEarth Are you seriously asking .e what it has to do with it when his father wont be there when sunny needs him the most?? You dont think he needs his dad especially after such a betrayal????? His dad is failing him in a massive scale by not being there when sunny needs him the most. You dont think you would want your family or someone who says they care about you if someone cheated on you???
being a parent, its hard to watch kids wanting to be loved/accepted by their parents so much that they become someone they don't want to be. i love my kids so much and i can't imagine putting them under that much pressure for the sake of religion.
Totally. I was just going to say the same thing. If someone's religion makes them disown their child, simply for wanting to choose who they marry, then that religion is frankly horrible.
I bet you if you put his dad on a lie detector and asked him if he truly believes his religion, he probably doesn't. I grew up in a religious home and most ppl like that just use it as an excuse to be controlling and act holier than thou.
You are a good person and a good parent. But it’s a very western way to think. What is hard for you to watch is the exact premise of parenthood in other cultures.
@@Limitedonathios Loving your children is a "western way to think"? I disagree. I think people all over the world love their kids. Hating people because of some religious nonsense, on the other hand, is something you see all over the world. And it's wrong.
I think it’s funny when Parents that left you as a child and never took responsibility for you in anyway want to hop back in randomly “ As Your Father “. Nah Sir, you’re a speed donor.
And when they are nice to everyone else, with others not knowing who they truly are. Choosing who to throw to the wolves and who to respect.Disgusting, I stopped talking to my parents three years ago! Best decision of my life.
Not surprised seeing that he abandoned sunny as a child and his mother. He claims to be so religious yet he chooses to abandon his son once again. He’s a hypocrite and doesn’t have a good heart
VEAH RUN. I’m sorry but NOBODY should be disrespected like that just because their a Christian. His dad is disgustingly rude and sunny spoke to her like 💩’come if you want’. So much hypocrisy
Its also totally against islam. The Quran is VERY CLEAR about this, Jews and Christians are people of the book and completely allowed to marry muslims. The fact his father apparently cant even read, i mean... come on.
I can understand why he was upset, although I agree the tantrum was a bit much. Seeing as how his dad probably wouldn't let him have any dating experience, I wonder if it's partially a result of his inexperience. He hasn't learnt when to just walk away and meet someone else.
Muslim convert and former Catholic here: A muslim man can marry a ‘woman of the book’ meaning Jewish, Christian or Muslim. The issue here with his father is not religious, it’s cultural. I hope he protects Veah as she’s been through so much especially with religion. It’s unfair and wrong the demand/expect her to convert when you’ve been telling her it’s no problem, being intimate and misleading her. Very hypocritical.
Christian here, but came to say exactly this. It's about cultural pressures not religion. If religion was REALLY that big of a deal you would not be seeing them sharing a bed either.
The weirdest thing is is that both sunny and his dad didn't mention to veah that a Muslim man can marry woman that isn't Muslim like from other religions like Christianity and Judaism and she can freely practice her faith in the marriage.
That’s my biggest issue. If it was really about religion then their marriage is perfectly valid in Islam. But I believe it’s about control and that’s what makes their relationship so icky
As a muslim girl, I am so sick of these so called muslim guys behavior. All of them are being such hypocrites, his dad is so evil and selfish, which is forbidden in islam! What an ugly picture are they sending to world about the religion itself. It’s beyond sad at this point.
Veah is not a very respectful person at all. She thinks she can force people as well. She wanted to rub her relationship in his dad's face and establish herself as the one in control and the one who is most important above his father. That is very clear. They are all very much in the wrong for different reasons but Veah is hardly a victim. Remember Rory even had commentary about her controlling behavior and said he's glad she's not his problem anymore.
@@ZiZiMorgan all of them have their flaws, she is far from being perfect. But Sunny is being poorly treated both from his fiance and his father. And for the record, I am not team Sunny or team Veah, they both give me creeps. I just made a comment because I am sick of people hiding behind their religion. Did Qur’an teach us to cut off our children? Did the Prophet advice us to be mean and non reasonable to our children? Muslim men can marry women from other religion, his dad is just toxic and nacisistic man.
This is messed up. Sunny drinks alcohol and visits nightclubs, the father abandoned his kids at some point and still this worry about "What will people say if you marry a Christian woman", get over it, you aren't the Good Muslims you're supposed to be anyway, what else could ruin your moral standards???????????
I would have allowed Sonny to tell his father at his own time because they still have major trust issues, an engagement is not a declaration to Forever. Sonny still has to live with his decision, but I wish that he would have insisted on either waiting on the proposal or not telling his father. He's not Muslim as his father made him out to be.. clearly.
The dad is rude, selfish, unreasonable, a bully! She really tried and her husband was not even standing up for his wife to be. Not to mention he wasnt even in his Son’s life! Piss me off
the funny thing is, it’s permissible in islam for a muslim man to marry a non-muslim woman, but the opposite is not permitted. so, if Veah was muslim this wouldn’t work, but Sunny as a man is allowed to marry anyone according to the religion
not any non Muslim. Christian or Jewish only. She must be practicing and also be chaste. Veah is not practicing so technically he shouldn't be marrying her. I won't say anything about chastity because Sunny is also clearly not chaste. On that level they are a match.
it's not even allowed in Islam and his culture doesn't generally practice that like Pakistani and Afghani culture. Parents are involved but it doesn't mean arranged
It never fails to amuse me when these practicing Muslim guys and non-Muslim American women pick each other purely on the premise of ‘oooo they’re hot and different’. Then after having their fun, breaking all kinds of Islamic rules, things all just come crashing down around them, either through situations like this or the guy all of a sudden pulling the ‘oh I’m super religious and you need to convert to Islam or we can’t have a future together ’ card. And one or both parties have the audacity to be shocked when crap hits the fan. 😂😂😂😂
I bet my ass they’ll try to convince Sunny that Veah is not the woman for him and to win his father back he agrees with them and leave Veah in the dark and pretends all is good between them. But shit will hit the fan as the truth comes out. I mean no disrespect, but before you go on dating with people of an other religion and things get serious… learn what their habits are and how to proper behave around them ( like covering hair or showing skin ) and what it means when you are married. Do you have to convert? And learn what that means in the dynamic of your marriage… If you don’t want to “play” by their rules or have doubts… respectfully decline and break off the relationship and don’t waste eachothers time. But as I’ve noticed… people who are participating 90 days go full throttle into relationships without even any knowledge or whatsoever about their partners religion and culture and are genuinely in shock to discover why they have to change because I’m not from your country? Im American ( picachu face insert here 😲)… One word : google 🤦🏻♀️
I feel like it goes both ways though. Men of different religions and cultures actively seek out American women in the hopes of them converting. Then when they don't it's a problem. Even when they do, I've seen certain examples of the men not even following their religion as well! Some of these men should stop seeking out women who they know are not of equal yoke. It's not always on the Americans as to why it's happening, both parties should stick to what they know so things like this won't happen.
@ you got a point there too and totally agree … If there can’t be some agreement between them coming both ways… stick to your own yoke ( great expression btw 🤭)
@@0.0dots I’m also astonished about the lack of research and information they do or even the couples themselves talk about what their religion means and how important certain aspects are within their believes … just book Willy nilly a flight and marry without knowing the person who they are marrying 🤦🏻♀️🫥 But love watching the trainwrecks starting to happen and shouting at the tv that it was obvious this wouldn’t work 😝🤣
It’s a shame that religion makes some cultures inflexible. I blame Sunny though. If you’re going to date an American or any woman for that matter that is of a different faith that would cause turmoil with your family, be honest and bring up converting early on also don’t keep it a secret from the family. Maybe dad wouldn’t have been as harsh if he had time to sit on it. It would have also given time for Sunny start wrapping his mind over being disowned and not dropped all the drama at once on Veah. He values honesty but kept her a secret.
Sunny's dad needs to take SEVERAL seats. You eschewed your parental responsibilities but now want to dictate his life!? Good day sir. You are audacity with eyebrows. 🙄
She was gracious to walk away cuz if it was any other american woman id be like, “what you are not gonna do is diminish, and insult me. ” or in a nice way…. We are all adults here…where i come from your comments are offensive and im not here to be torn apart. People need to expect and demand respect.
If his dad walked away once he will do it again with no issue. I don’t like his father. This young man is a good dude. What a shame that his dad is acting like a jerk!
As an African in an interracial relationship, this break my heart, some African parents are literally the worst, this man is one of them. The best thing to do is to grow as an adult not just for you but also your future kids. Am from Gambia and you can’t even tell clashes in religions, we celebrate everything together. This man is a hypocrite.
See.. Her and Tigerlily.. Once again.. People who don't do the research of their partner's culture and expectations of tradition.. Is utterly stupid and their own fault.. Do the research on your partner before you jump into being with them forever. That's rule number ONE.
Cant compare tigerlily with Vea. Sunny lied and acted as if it will be cool even if she didn’t convert. Vea never agreed to it from the beginning. Sunny down played everything. As for Adnan, his using religion as an excuse or a weapon. He is a bully, he is in love with himself and he gets whatever he want one way or another. See how they treated tiger on their wedding?! They were setting the tone that Adnan is King and Tiger is nothing.
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Agree… that man dragged Veah. Is it ok in the moslem faith to drag someone you just met? Is it because shes a woman? No wonder she wd never want to convert. Theres her best reason to NOT convert. I wdnt wanna be part of a community that treats people like that.
I think his father doesn't want to be responsible for any of this. this is just a easy reason for his father to leave again and not contribute to this wedding. He probably sees she's a American and he thinks she's going to want a big wedding and he wants no part of it.
Having an absent father, Sunny has way higher EQ than Veah. She did not comfort him emotionally in any way, always demanding, i don't like this kind of partnership
Sunny's father is very religious but judgmental of people, he doesn't seem to have learned anything in their church,his hypocrisy is oozing,what a shame lol😂😂😂😂
Absolutely pathetic. You should never be forced to change who you are for someone else. You both make it work as equals. You are both important and it takes two to make a relationship work. Veah, go be happy without even thinking of converting.
Poor sunny. I understood him all along, he didn't care for her to convert, but he wasn't in power, and his family expects him to turn on her too if she doesn't convert - he was hoping with time that they would be understanding.. but they weren't. the real victim here is Sunny.. he doesn't care about his religion THAT much but he has to wear that social mask that he does.. he loves veah.. but he has to choose between her and his family. My heart breaks for him.
He was never truthful about wanting Veah to convert . He always wanted her to he just didn’t have the courage to tell her. These 2 need to tell the truth and stop caring about what others think 😮
1. Veah should have respected Sunny's initial decision to not tell his dad. He knew the man would act an ass in front of her and with him. 2. Sunny's dad is far too self- righteous to have this kind of attitude towards his son and his fiancee. Didn't he abandon Sunny and his mother in another country when he was a child? He is fourunate that Sunny would want anything to do with him. 3. This is the moment Sunny should see his dad in a whole new light. He is ridget, arrogant and selfish. Nothing has changed since he left his family all those years ago. He should make the decision now to be better than him with or without Veah.
I don't know why they're worried, Veah isn't a Christian, these people say they are followers of a certain faith but everything they do is contradictory. Sunny is guilty of this too. They are Christians and Muslims in name only, in reality they're people of the world.
If the parents don’t like you, it’s better to walk away. If you go ahead the day you have a major disagreement he will say my relatives were right about you. Things will not be rosy forever.
His dad wasnt even in his life most of the time and he wants to decide for him who has to stay in Sunnys life....the ego pfff....plus the unibrow ugh....plus forcing her to change her religion is ACTUALLY FORBIDDEN IN ISLAM. He is very uneducated!!!
Saying it's "too late" to forgive her just for walking away to take a moment to breathe after he judged her and told her to convert is ridiculous. So dramatic. Never even gave her a chance since the beginning. Yet Sunny gave him a chance and forgave him when he wasn't always there for him during his childhood.
So very true to your comment Sunny,s Dad discasting
That's the truth
Yeah, cultural differences aside, Sunny's dad is a grade A asshole.
Sunny’s dad wasn’t there for him now he wants to rule him wtf
Just imagine his so cruel this old man 😊
Exactly what I was thinking. He thinks that Sunny should be an obedient son but the father's absence is ok.
dad work in Africa and sent money to India until sunny mom went to heaven. But that girl is evil she made him tell his dad that they are getting marry and left him alone and went back home and got another dude. Dad's know a thot when he sees one.
Thats how it is when you're a narcissist. They can never do anything wrong. I bet the dad hasnt even said sorry to anyone in the family.
The Dad was rude to her but calls her rude for leaving the conversation 😂
A narcissist never does anything wrong.
Funny how his family wasn't shamed by Sunny's dad abandoning his family
Right? The men can break all religious rules but the women better comply!!
@@tracy776 I wish Veah was smart enough to tell Sunny that. Lol
@@nursetinalouise That's religion for you. And all because someone made up a story about a talking snake...
IKR. I'm laughing!
@@GeoffRosenstein you may not believe in that religion but there's no need to be disrespectful. If that's how you feel then okay but speaking badly about it just because you don't like it isn't right. Chill.
So let me get this straight...It wasn't a shame when he abandoned his family- but the line is drawn when his son decides to marry a christian woman?? Okay😒😒
Sunny, you don't owe this man a SINGLE explanation. Do you honey
🤵♂👰💍
Muslims in a nutshell
@@Dongdong497not even true,Muslim men are allowed to marry Christian’s and Jews. The dad thinks she’s a wh*re is the real problem
@@Dongdong497this comment is as ignorant as the bs his dad is saying😂
@@Dongdong497 who in a nutshell? you have no idea at all about Islam. Muslim men are allowed to.marry christian women so where's the nutshell you speak of? This is an individual making his own rules. You can leave your islamaphobia out of it
The father moved to South Africa for work to send money back to Bangladesh. Sunny joined his father in South Africa when he was older. I don’t agree with anything the father has said at all, but it’s important to not misconstrue what happened. It’s more accurate to say that Sunny felt abandoned by his father.
Who's the father to judge, when he was a deadbeat father.
Exactly. He's got small man syndrome. Wants total control
Father seems to know best because Sunny made her boyfriend tell his dad that he is marrying her and he didn't want to but later she went back home and left sunny alone and now she cheating on him with another dude. That's why Sunny should have listen to his father because dad knew that she was a thot.
@@EricaEarth
No. Cheaters dont have "bad" tattoed on their foreheads.
The dad is absolutely shite, especially if she ended up cheating on him he would need his dad but no dad is a narcissist that only cares about himself.
@xElvirax what does that have to do with sunny girlfriend cheating on him and leaving sunny all alone?
@@EricaEarth
Are you seriously asking .e what it has to do with it when his father wont be there when sunny needs him the most?? You dont think he needs his dad especially after such a betrayal????? His dad is failing him in a massive scale by not being there when sunny needs him the most.
You dont think you would want your family or someone who says they care about you if someone cheated on you???
being a parent, its hard to watch kids wanting to be loved/accepted by their parents so much that they become someone they don't want to be. i love my kids so much and i can't imagine putting them under that much pressure for the sake of religion.
Totally. I was just going to say the same thing. If someone's religion makes them disown their child, simply for wanting to choose who they marry, then that religion is frankly horrible.
I bet you if you put his dad on a lie detector and asked him if he truly believes his religion, he probably doesn't. I grew up in a religious home and most ppl like that just use it as an excuse to be controlling and act holier than thou.
Even if he believes it, he is wrong. A Muslim man can marry a Christian or Jewish woman... it's only Muslim WOMEN who need to marry within Islam
You are a good person and a good parent. But it’s a very western way to think. What is hard for you to watch is the exact premise of parenthood in other cultures.
@@Limitedonathios Loving your children is a "western way to think"? I disagree. I think people all over the world love their kids. Hating people because of some religious nonsense, on the other hand, is something you see all over the world. And it's wrong.
His dads face gets me all the time, he looks like some sort of gremlin
Thats an insult to Gremlins 😂😂😂😂😂
@KS-xj7ux you are definitely right🤣🤣🤣
😂. That is funny
😂😂😂😂
I think it’s funny when Parents that left you as a child and never took responsibility for you in anyway want to hop back in randomly “ As Your Father “. Nah Sir, you’re a speed donor.
And when they are nice to everyone else, with others not knowing who they truly are. Choosing who to throw to the wolves and who to respect.Disgusting, I stopped talking to my parents three years ago! Best decision of my life.
Not surprised seeing that he abandoned sunny as a child and his mother. He claims to be so religious yet he chooses to abandon his son once again. He’s a hypocrite and doesn’t have a good heart
Sunnys "Dad" does not love or care about him! He's selfish and not a "Dad"
Say that again
@@elizabethletsoso2558again
Sunny's dad admits its not because of religion, but instead fear of judgement. He is a xenophobe.
100%
I wouldn’t say he’s a xenophobe but he comes from a culture where this just doesn’t happen. The times have changed and he hasn’t changed with them
@@hotmess9640exactly!
Xenophobic?
@@bpocol6033 The fear of other cultures or people that are different than you.
Never seen someone so draining as much as this short man
Veah is just as draining. I don't even remember how they met and why they decided it was a good idea to hook up
@@GOTTA_RUN not even remotely. But ofc, women are so much more scrutinised than men.
What about Big Ed?
VEAH RUN. I’m sorry but NOBODY should be disrespected like that just because their a Christian. His dad is disgustingly rude and sunny spoke to her like 💩’come if you want’. So much hypocrisy
Its also totally against islam. The Quran is VERY CLEAR about this, Jews and Christians are people of the book and completely allowed to marry muslims. The fact his father apparently cant even read, i mean... come on.
I am glad she put her feet down and said no to converting to his religion 😉
Totally agree! 👏🏼
Sunny's dad sucks, but now we see where Sunny got his walk away tantrum from...
Maybe it was his anxiety
I can understand why he was upset, although I agree the tantrum was a bit much. Seeing as how his dad probably wouldn't let him have any dating experience, I wonder if it's partially a result of his inexperience. He hasn't learnt when to just walk away and meet someone else.
Muslim convert and former Catholic here: A muslim man can marry a ‘woman of the book’ meaning Jewish, Christian or Muslim. The issue here with his father is not religious, it’s cultural. I hope he protects Veah as she’s been through so much especially with religion. It’s unfair and wrong the demand/expect her to convert when you’ve been telling her it’s no problem, being intimate and misleading her. Very hypocritical.
Like many religious people I've noticed, they don't actually follow or believe in the religion. They just use it as a means to control others.
Christian here, but came to say exactly this. It's about cultural pressures not religion. If religion was REALLY that big of a deal you would not be seeing them sharing a bed either.
Asalam sister ❤
Thanks for speaking the truth!
The weirdest thing is is that both sunny and his dad didn't mention to veah that a Muslim man can marry woman that isn't Muslim like from other religions like Christianity and Judaism and she can freely practice her faith in the marriage.
That’s my biggest issue. If it was really about religion then their marriage is perfectly valid in Islam. But I believe it’s about control and that’s what makes their relationship so icky
Sunny’s dad !!! At least he is honest ! And not behind your back ! But he can’t judge her looks , he looks like an alien himself too !! 🤣
Sunny's dad is the result of thousands of years of cousin marriage and inbreeding. Don't be mean, he's just muslim
As a muslim girl, I am so sick of these so called muslim guys behavior. All of them are being such hypocrites, his dad is so evil and selfish, which is forbidden in islam! What an ugly picture are they sending to world about the religion itself. It’s beyond sad at this point.
I feel so bad for Sunny!
Veah is not a very respectful person at all. She thinks she can force people as well. She wanted to rub her relationship in his dad's face and establish herself as the one in control and the one who is most important above his father. That is very clear. They are all very much in the wrong for different reasons but Veah is hardly a victim. Remember Rory even had commentary about her controlling behavior and said he's glad she's not his problem anymore.
@@ZiZiMorgan all of them have their flaws, she is far from being perfect. But Sunny is being poorly treated both from his fiance and his father. And for the record, I am not team Sunny or team Veah, they both give me creeps. I just made a comment because I am sick of people hiding behind their religion. Did Qur’an teach us to cut off our children? Did the Prophet advice us to be mean and non reasonable to our children? Muslim men can marry women from other religion, his dad is just toxic and nacisistic man.
@@ZiZiMorganalso the way she dresses, she should’ve at least acted the part if she cared
What do you mean all of them?
If you're scared of losing your family, why would you even start a relationship with someone hoping that lies will fix it?
This is messed up. Sunny drinks alcohol and visits nightclubs, the father abandoned his kids at some point and still this worry about "What will people say if you marry a Christian woman", get over it, you aren't the Good Muslims you're supposed to be anyway, what else could ruin your moral standards???????????
Veah is the motivation Sunny needed to stop seeking validation from his cruel and selfish father and stand on his own
Being with someone with a desi background and not knowing about such common family dynamics is also kinda wild to me 🤷🏻♀️
A parent disowning u for foolishness like this as an adult is wild, like bye Felicia, ill disown u first 😂
I would’ve been like bet let’s see how long that lasts 😂😂
@@angelsweet9611 seriously,some parents be acting like they own their kids
I went through something very similar and said the same thing 😂 they didn’t even cut me off for a week 😂
The monobrows on these guys kill me. 😣
I would have allowed Sonny to tell his father at his own time because they still have major trust issues, an engagement is not a declaration to Forever. Sonny still has to live with his decision, but I wish that he would have insisted on either waiting on the proposal or not telling his father. He's not Muslim as his father made him out to be.. clearly.
Sunnys dad face looks disproportionate.
Evil can do strange things to yah!
That’s rude.
It's fact
The dad is rude, selfish, unreasonable, a bully! She really tried and her husband was not even standing up for his wife to be. Not to mention he wasnt even in his Son’s life! Piss me off
If that guy isn’t the epitome of hypocrisy, then nobody is. Maybe it’s his one continuous eyebrow.
the funny thing is, it’s permissible in islam for a muslim man to marry a non-muslim woman, but the opposite is not permitted.
so, if Veah was muslim this wouldn’t work, but Sunny as a man is allowed to marry anyone according to the religion
not any non Muslim. Christian or Jewish only. She must be practicing and also be chaste. Veah is not practicing so technically he shouldn't be marrying her. I won't say anything about chastity because Sunny is also clearly not chaste. On that level they are a match.
Sunny should be used to his dad abandoning him by now. I cant see why he's upset.
Being abandoned once doesn’t make it easier to be abandoned twice
If a dad behaves like Sunny's dad it is no loss not to have contact with him he is ab egoustic narcissit, they can do better without him
Sunny is probably in an arranged marriage right now.
it's not even allowed in Islam and his culture doesn't generally practice that like Pakistani and Afghani culture. Parents are involved but it doesn't mean arranged
It never fails to amuse me when these practicing Muslim guys and non-Muslim American women pick each other purely on the premise of ‘oooo they’re hot and different’. Then after having their fun, breaking all kinds of Islamic rules, things all just come crashing down around them, either through situations like this or the guy all of a sudden pulling the ‘oh I’m super religious and you need to convert to Islam or we can’t have a future together ’ card. And one or both parties have the audacity to be shocked when crap hits the fan. 😂😂😂😂
You pretty much summed up the story
No deadbeat gonna be telling me what to do. He was just itching to abandon his son again. Oh...can somebody buy Veah a hairbrush!
Not being there for Sunny when Sunny was a child and now this 'father' wants to come and dictate how Sunny should live his life??? Oh pu-leeeeeze 🙄🙄
I bet my ass they’ll try to convince Sunny that Veah is not the woman for him and to win his father back he agrees with them and leave Veah in the dark and pretends all is good between them. But shit will hit the fan as the truth comes out.
I mean no disrespect, but before you go on dating with people of an other religion and things get serious… learn what their habits are and how to proper behave around them ( like covering hair or showing skin ) and what it means when you are married. Do you have to convert? And learn what that means in the dynamic of your marriage…
If you don’t want to “play” by their rules or have doubts… respectfully decline and break off the relationship and don’t waste eachothers time.
But as I’ve noticed… people who are participating 90 days go full throttle into relationships without even any knowledge or whatsoever about their partners religion and culture and are genuinely in shock to discover why they have to change because I’m not from your country? Im American ( picachu face insert here 😲)…
One word : google 🤦🏻♀️
I feel like it goes both ways though. Men of different religions and cultures actively seek out American women in the hopes of them converting. Then when they don't it's a problem. Even when they do, I've seen certain examples of the men not even following their religion as well! Some of these men should stop seeking out women who they know are not of equal yoke. It's not always on the Americans as to why it's happening, both parties should stick to what they know so things like this won't happen.
@ you got a point there too and totally agree …
If there can’t be some agreement between them coming both ways… stick to your own yoke ( great expression btw 🤭)
@@ykskes2561 right! I've been seeing this happen a lot lately and both parties get so upset when one doesn't wanna convert. 😒 like huh
@@0.0dots I’m also astonished about the lack of research and information they do or even the couples themselves talk about what their religion means and how important certain aspects are within their believes … just book Willy nilly a flight and marry without knowing the person who they are marrying 🤦🏻♀️🫥
But love watching the trainwrecks starting to happen and shouting at the tv that it was obvious this wouldn’t work 😝🤣
Wow Sunny and his father have exact speech with same dialect and cadence. How much of his life was his father walked away?
Sunny's dad really owns his evil smile.
It’s a shame that religion makes some cultures inflexible. I blame Sunny though. If you’re going to date an American or any woman for that matter that is of a different faith that would cause turmoil with your family, be honest and bring up converting early on also don’t keep it a secret from the family. Maybe dad wouldn’t have been as harsh if he had time to sit on it. It would have also given time for Sunny start wrapping his mind over being disowned and not dropped all the drama at once on Veah. He values honesty but kept her a secret.
Wrapping not rapping..
He didn't even tell Veah she had to convert. I blame Sunny for the way this whole issue went down.
The problem is that.. In Islam, it's actually ALLOWED to marry a CHRISTIAN woman!!!!
So it's either culture or his prejudices...
Right my cousin is Muslim and his wife is Christian
Aaaah Islam religion of peace and tolerance moment 😂
🤣😂🤣
you're right. religion should not be an excuse for parents to leave their children behind.
Sunny's dad needs to take SEVERAL seats. You eschewed your parental responsibilities but now want to dictate his life!? Good day sir. You are audacity with eyebrows. 🙄
"eye BROW" *singular* 😂😂
Lego head dad
What an odd bunch of people.
To get disowned by the South Asian Butthead, THEN TO BE CHEATED ON by the 3 you got disowned for;IS DIABOLOCAL! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂💀💀💀💀
Every single person is delusional to some extent. Dad is a hypocrite, son is in a delusion, the woman cares for herself.
Sunny told his dad to play along
He got the “loving” and wasn’t inpressed
Sunnys dad ain't the sharpest tool 😢
She was gracious to walk away cuz if it was any other american woman id be like, “what you are not gonna do is diminish, and insult me. ” or in a nice way…. We are all adults here…where i come from your comments are offensive and im not here to be torn apart. People need to expect and demand respect.
So he forgave his dad and gave dad another chance and now dad is playing this card? Cut ties! Regardless of the girl, no parent should act like that!
If his dad walked away once he will do it again with no issue. I don’t like his father. This young man is a good dude. What a shame that his dad is acting like a jerk!
As an African in an interracial relationship, this break my heart, some African parents are literally the worst, this man is one of them. The best thing to do is to grow as an adult not just for you but also your future kids. Am from Gambia and you can’t even tell clashes in religions, we celebrate everything together. This man is a hypocrite.
See.. Her and Tigerlily.. Once again.. People who don't do the research of their partner's culture and expectations of tradition.. Is utterly stupid and their own fault.. Do the research on your partner before you jump into being with them forever. That's rule number ONE.
Cant compare tigerlily with Vea. Sunny lied and acted as if it will be cool even if she didn’t convert. Vea never agreed to it from the beginning. Sunny down played everything.
As for Adnan, his using religion as an excuse or a weapon. He is a bully, he is in love with himself and he gets whatever he want one way or another. See how they treated tiger on their wedding?! They were setting the tone that Adnan is King and Tiger is nothing.
This show is basically nice people get matched up with narcassists
oo nooo😢 He forgot his chocolate cake 😱 I would have turned around for it😅😅
Sunny's dad probably has a first cousin he wants him to marry. I'm not even kidding, a big percentage of Muslims prefer consanguineous marriage.
Sunny's Dad is pretty awful
His dad is toxic - let ur dad go
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Let Sunny live his life.
Is this Jenny and Summit?!
No. This is Sunni and Veah from '90 Day Fiance,' before the 90 Days."
Sorry but he’s smiling while they’re apologizing for being in love is just so manipulative
Agree… that man dragged Veah. Is it ok in the moslem faith to drag someone you just met? Is it because shes a woman? No wonder she wd never want to convert. Theres her best reason to NOT convert. I wdnt wanna be part of a community that treats people like that.
I think his father doesn't want to be responsible for any of this. this is just a easy reason for his father to leave again and not contribute to this wedding. He probably sees she's a American and he thinks she's going to want a big wedding and he wants no part of it.
Oh my gawd😂Sunny and Veah are both funny.
Good episode for sure. Final is gonna be crazy you Right
Having an absent father, Sunny has way higher EQ than Veah. She did not comfort him emotionally in any way, always demanding, i don't like this kind of partnership
She looks and sounds like Minnie Mouse 😂
Sunny's father is very religious but judgmental of people, he doesn't seem to have learned anything in their church,his hypocrisy is oozing,what a shame lol😂😂😂😂
especially sunny knowing what happened to him personally coping with dad leaving all that sunny a bit immature
Why does veah look so sickly when she talks to the camera in that room, every time? Is the camera flipped compared to how it normally is?
Veah always looked kinda sick imo.
Who knows what the heck she's been through, leave her alone!
this girl is dumb as box of rocks...and it won't last Sad he lost his dad over her. SMH
Sunny needs to stand up to his father, period! He shouldn’t ask someone to marry him, if he’s scared to tell his dad 😅
Is Sunnys dad slow? .... he kinda looks it
I was thinking the same thing! I'm definitely getting "Forrest Gump" vibes from him
Once the unobrow is seen, it cannot be unseen....
Wait isn’t all these happening in South Africa?
😂😂😂yes!
Sunny's dad is just not a nice person, and that has nothing to do with Islam.
Absolutely pathetic. You should never be forced to change who you are for someone else. You both make it work as equals. You are both important and it takes two to make a relationship work. Veah, go be happy without even thinking of converting.
Poor sunny. I understood him all along, he didn't care for her to convert, but he wasn't in power, and his family expects him to turn on her too if she doesn't convert - he was hoping with time that they would be understanding.. but they weren't. the real victim here is Sunny.. he doesn't care about his religion THAT much but he has to wear that social mask that he does.. he loves veah.. but he has to choose between her and his family. My heart breaks for him.
I associate Sunny's dad to Goomba, small and grumpy
Man Sunny's grandparents might have been cousins or something because his dad comes off kinda....in the words of Hank Hill "that boy ain't right" 🤔
He was never truthful about wanting Veah to convert . He always wanted her to he just didn’t have the courage to tell her. These 2 need to tell the truth and stop caring about what others think 😮
1. Veah should have respected Sunny's initial decision to not tell his dad. He knew the man would act an ass in front of her and with him.
2. Sunny's dad is far too self- righteous to have this kind of attitude towards his son and his fiancee. Didn't he abandon Sunny and his mother in another country when he was a child? He is fourunate that Sunny would want anything to do with him.
3. This is the moment Sunny should see his dad in a whole new light. He is ridget, arrogant and selfish. Nothing has changed since he left his family all those years ago. He should make the decision now to be better than him with or without Veah.
Veah should tell them she needs sunny to change to her religion. 🤷🏼♀️ why should one have to be forced to change but not the other
I don't know why they're worried, Veah isn't a Christian, these people say they are followers of a certain faith but everything they do is contradictory. Sunny is guilty of this too. They are Christians and Muslims in name only, in reality they're people of the world.
Well, that guy is definitely not in any kind of relationship with a woman. Insecure af
Remember Mr Peepers on Saturday Night Live .. enough said
Spittin' apple pieces at folks, that what my FIRST thought too!!! 🤣
Why does Sunny’s dad lowkey look like the missing link?! 😅💀
He should have stayed absent
If the parents don’t like you, it’s better to walk away. If you go ahead the day you have a major disagreement he will say my relatives were right about you. Things will not be rosy forever.
Sunny's dad knows that Veah will be a terrible wife and mother
His dad wasnt even in his life most of the time and he wants to decide for him who has to stay in Sunnys life....the ego pfff....plus the unibrow ugh....plus forcing her to change her religion is ACTUALLY FORBIDDEN IN ISLAM. He is very uneducated!!!
Man what you talking about you was not around for your kids !!! 👏👏😠😡🤬 !!!
Sunny's dad is a tool, I don't like him. But also, didn't Sunny say his dad wasn't in his life for a long time? Is his disowning him such a tragedy?
He is a terrible person to
Religion is supposed to show love at any point but hating is on its number one focus 😢😮
The day is a 🤡But Sunny should of Explained his Religion like a Man he supposed to be,Knowing they don’t play with that