Why is everyone shaming this woman. She has every right to leave a man if she wants a better life. What disappoints me is when a man does this it's ok and everyone says the man has that right,.
Exactly. She wants a better life but he keeps saying he's not going no where. He wants his parents and stay with his life. He won't be who he is today if she hasn't moved on.
If you would have stepped up to the plate in the beginning, maybe your first wife wouldn’t have left you. Sounds like you already know that but you’d rather blame her to make yourself look good.
My old life related to this story right here..Sad, I have no choice, but leave for better for him & myself. Everything goes as I planned. He is better now so am I & I’m happy I move on to make him changed❤️ happy for both
Sometimes hardship in life or a heartbreaking relationship is what teaches us to be better than before. May you continue to be blessed and your children loved
1st wife begged begged begged and begged you, but you couldn’t change.. 2nd wife said it only once and in a blink of an eye, you listened to her.. Shame on you..
This guy is no victim. No one wants a spouse who’s not motivated for a better life or have personal goals to better their future together. He waited till she left and then he changed. I get why your ex wife left…it’s because of you and your family. You moved out real fast when your current wife tells you she wanted privacy. How come you couldn’t do that with your ex wife???
you would have to live his life to know his circumstances, sure he wasn't motivated, but she didn't even bother to support him, she cheated on him. not only that, but plenty of this happens guys supporting their wives through college, they cheat and move on when they graduate.
@@sircha5304 @Sir Cha 14 years of their marriage and the light haven't switch on for him? Naw, men only change for the woman they want to do it for. If he love her and wanted to save his marriage, he would have done in the first 5-8 years. And when he realized that she's not happy in their marriage.
I always tell my husband from the beginning that if you're going to better yourself, do it for me. Don't wait until I'm gone and do it for someone new. That means you never loved me enough to change for me but are willing to change for someone new. Yes you change when she left and asked her to come back and she refused. She should've came back when she see that you change. It's a shame you did it for a new woman but not her.
You know…if it wasn’t for your first wife, you wouldn’t be where you are today. Everything she said was right and whether you noticed it or not, you did end up taking her advice and changed for the better.
First wife was prejudice and bias towards his family n upbringing. If she so worry about her future, just work harder for a better life. If she was going to leave, leave bc of him or herself only. Never blame his family for her miserable life. First wife should have used the hardship to her advantage. Sucks she was too quick to blame n left.
💯 yep! Don’t use his family an an excuse why you didn’t succeed. If you really want to succeed no one can’t stop you. Always bringing his fam but have you look at your own fam too?
Lmao.... Finally....Hmong woman these days lmao.... Watch to much love American movie too much haha.....so they keep chasing the American dream.... Apparently they didn't see Bill Gate lmao
@@pavang5531 Yep, she should've known what she was getting herself into before she married him. Do her research, meet his family, make him promise to leave the family at the 1st opportunity they have.
Your ex wanted the easy way out. Yuav muaj nyiaj los yus yeej yuav tau work for. Yus tsis lam nyob nyob ua tau ib pob nyiaj. Only lucky people thiaj yug los muaj nyiaj es sib yuav tau los muaj kev pab. For those of us who are not so fortunate we have to work from the bottom up but it’s all worth it at the end. Makes us stronger mentally and emotionally. If my partner gives up on me bc he/she thinks I’m poor nws xav mus ces the door is widely open. Money you can always work for but unconditional love is hard to find. Your ex did it to herself she thinks the grass is greener on the other side.
People can say all the shiet they want but they haven't been in your shoes. You we're torn between your wife and your family, not to mention you were poor, having to work to support your wife while she was in school and helping your parents too. Your wife was inpatient and had no empathy for you. I'm happy for you now. Your ex definitely got hit hard with karma.
He lives in America one of the greatest country of opportunities. Yet he only keep coming up with excuses for failing. I've seen people in far worse situations succeed. I don't feel sorry for him at all. Failure here in this country is a choice. If you can't even make it here you won't make it anywhere else.
I don’t blame her for wanting a better life. This is very one sided. It sounded like when she was married to you, you didn’t want to go back to school and you admitted that you didn’t want to move out of your parents house. She probably begged you everyday to go back to school. Sometimes it takes someone leaving to make changes in your life. As for myself, if I were in your wife’s shoes I wouldn’t leave my marriage. My marriage is MY life. My success is MINE. I make things happen for my life. I refuse to count on anyone to have a better life nor will I shame the life my in laws live. I will prove to them what a life with education means vs a life without one and I will rise! No one will hand you anything in life, if you want a good life, go for it and push yourself. I’m just disappointed your wife didn’t fight hard enough for her marriage and now she’s regretting. However, again, this is your side of the story. Would love to hear hers.
I don’t blame your ex-wife for leaving. You weren’t willing to change for her when she begged you to. Too late now, I hope you learn from this and change for the better moving forward.
My inlaws are lazy too and have no ambition in life but I’m glad my husband is the opposite. Some people are too comfortable and is not willing to change. At least he’s willing to change and she should of gave him a chance to work out their marriage. I’m glad he changed for the better
Your ex wife is dumb for not coming back when you were willing to change. Now she's paying for it. Your first is the real one unless he's abusing and cheating. Both should work on life together. Once you see a change in your spouse, forgive and come back together. In the Christian life, you can separate for a while to rethink your life but come back together. Unless he's cheating and abusing then yes divorce.
Abusing and cheating aren’t always the reasons why a marriage should end. It could be: lost of love and feelings, drugs, gambling addiction, alcoholism, etc. She is not dumb for leaving him. Rather leave when young. She apologized and she said what she had to say and end it. He’s dumb for keep trying. He should be better and do better for the next woman.
Nyob lub teb chaws no hauj lwm muaj ntau es tsis mus nrhiav hauj lwm ua ces tsis thas yuav yog kuv los kuv yeej tsis yuav thiab vim tsev neeg tub nkeeg li tsev no na
So sad for the first wife, I guess it's true, men do listen but they will only listen to someone they truly love. I would have left too, I would have never stay with someone like you. Your first wife did what's best for her and you are not a victim here.
Sure, your ex wife definitely changed you. You should thank her! But dang the ex wife is selfish person also. Are we not listening to the same story? She didn’t want her kids!!! Smh!!!!
If you would’ve change when your first wife asked you to, she would still be with you and your children. You must’ve not love her as much as you claim to want to change yourself for her. We women want men who are motivated and have goals. You choose your family over her until she got tired of nagging you and left. You should thank your ex wife for making you see that you need to change for a better life. I feel bad for her at the end she didn’t have the life she left you for.
That's the life of America dream for the new Hmong ppl haha....money can buy anything is right haha....she doesn't love him thats why she didn't help him change to make it better for their little family...she was lazy anyways to begin with that's why she didn't help grown her little family.....her fnl was right their parents life has nothing to do with their own life.....he said once she finished school they can move out but she didn't want to wait so it's his fault? Haha......Hmong america women these days haha...that's why they say b**** come and go haha....but that's what happened for being too weak haha ..he go no game.....lmao....that's what she get for living the American dreams.....lmao
He's right. He changed for the better. The past doesn't matter. His ex wife is her own suffering. You woke up. Keep doing you and keep moving forward. I applaud you for improving your life.
You made it bro......learning your mistakes and changing your life moving forward for new future. Ua neej nyob nrog txoj kev cia siab xwb, yog koj ua neej tsis muaj lub hom phiaj, tus npau suav ces koj kawg swb swb swb txhua yam..
She’s not blind, she knew how your family was before she dated and married you. Just an excuse not to fight for your marriage. No marriage is perfect or easy. Couples nowadays give up too easily. Now the kids have to suffer because of the adults stubbornness
In a way I am proud of your accomplishments. However there are two sides to a story. We don't really know your lives in detail but the way I see it I feel bad for your ex. She came in to the marriage hoping for a team relationship asked you to better yourself. Your parents probably was not a problem for her but that you would use them as an excuse to not better yourself. As a wife her strength is only strengthen by her husband support and I see you left her to grieve in silence. She tried so hard to tell you. All any girl want is a better future. See you proved to be in the end capable of accomplishing an education and better futuure why did it take losing a wife to change. She lost hope and faith in you. In the end she screwed herself thinking a better life will bring happiness but no with children your children comes from first. She tried to replace you as fast she could but she picked the wrong guy. Well at this point good luck to you and her as separate co parents. Just remember not to let your children suffer they suffer through all this.
Koj txiv hais YOG lawm nawb!!! If you really want a good life, have to work for it. Your ex just wants things the easy way and expect to have it all from the beginning. If she really wants a change, she can come change your family’s lifestyle for the better.
Yus lub neej yog yus lub neej. Cov laus lub neej yog cov laus lub neej. Vim muaj tus muab yus tso thiaj ua rau yus ua tau tus neeg zoo dua tus qub. Yog nws tso yus es tias yus yuav ciaj huab tais los nws tsis khuv xim lawm ces cia nws mus nws os. Yog thaum yus hluas2 ces yeej tsis muaj lub hlwb xav tias yuav hloov li cas os. Zoo uas koj pauv tau lawm es thiaj ua lub neej kaj siab os.
Each to their own. Sometimes the lessons comes after the pain. Some people aren't meant to be in your life only as a lesson to be learned. Every decision have consequences be sure that you're able to handle the consequences. Can't blame anyone; sometimes not even yourself. Learn to accept things and learn to do better when one knows better. It's a part of life. Live, learn, and love.
Poj niam can mam no hlub $ xwb koj yuav tsum muaj Kev lawm kom Tau job zoo poj niam thiaj nrog yus nyob rov qab mus lawm ntawv nrhiav Kev txhim kho koj hlub neej mam mus yuav tus poj niam dua
This sounds like my old married life that's why I left. Lub neej vam meej yus yuav tau mus nrhiav yus tus kheej xwb yog yus tus txij nkawm tsis ntshaw li yus ntshaw.
Kj tus poj niam ko ntse heev zoo qhov nw mu lawm yg nw g mu ce ntshai yv zoo li kv vim thaum xub kv xav tias nw lav2 kv tias nw yv ua neeg zoo xb vim nw niam thb nw txiv lawv yeej zoo li ntawd nw yv nrog kv khwv lub neej tabsis luag hai tias yg noob no yeej yg tiag2 li kv ce ruam tshaj qhov ruam li o sim neej no nkim tag rho kv ib sim neej o tam sim kv muaj 65 xyoos lawm o tos saib hnub twg txog kv lub caj rov ce kv rov mu saum ntuj ub lawm xb mog
Tus txiv tsev no txoj hmoo phem kawg li. Yuav tus twg los siab me2 ib yam. Nkim lub zog kj niam txiv yug kj los ua ib nkawv tub. Yus yog txiv neej yuav tus tsi hlub niam txiv ces yuav dua xwb. Yog kj cov menyuam tub yuav Nyab los es xa tib yam li kj cov pojlaib kj puas txaus siab???
As a woman, we want a place to call our home. I don't blame her for leaving because I wouldn't want to live like that either. If your family lives off welfare, most likely you guys are supporting your family too. If you keep supporting your lazy family, no woman would want you too. Helping them every now and then is fine, but supporting them while you support your little family too is too much. You cannot save like that. Once you marry, your kids and wife comes first.
Brother, move on with your life. Your ex-wife was only in your life fir a reason and a season. She must move on. Don't regret but be happy you found someone new. You learn a hard and painful lesson. Life is too short to dwell on the past.
It’s not your parent’s’ fault. She’s the problem. She was cheating on you all along. I hope her parents are filthy rich and eat only super food. Karma kicking her ass for disrespecting your parents and talk down on them when they done nothing to her. She was never a good person.
Why can’t he just move in with his wife and kids? Why he continued to go to his parents place? He’s too weak as a man. And why he’s willing to listened and changed for the new wife? He’s a bad husband. The new wife is happy now because he’s willing to changed. Imagine if she live in the first wife’s shoe, she would’ve left too.
Your wife is just making excuses! She’s a gold digger. Be happy she left you. If she wanted a good life with you she would have stick it out with you until you guys make it. No good life comes easy. She wanted the easy way out. I don’t care what gender you are, but if you so claim you want a good life, shit you better be doing half of the crap too just not hoping your other half do everything for you. True like your father said, if she really wanted a good life she gotta work for it. She keeps using your parents as an excuses! I bet she wouldn’t like it someone compares her to her parents. Good that karma got her. No matter if your a good person/want a better life if you cheated on your spouse you will always have karma coming your way no MATTER WHAT!
Tau peb cov hmoob thaib no ces tsis nyiam tag nrho niam pog txiv yawg nkauj muaj kwv tij ua txhua yam kom peb cov nyab hmoob thaib nyob tsis taus cia kom tau nyab hmoob mekas thiaj paub o yom niaj hnub nrhiav nyab hmoob mekas rau tej tub kuv xav kom tau nyab hmoob mekas kom mag ncaws tawm tsev kawg
The story is similar to my situation the difference is no kids. Not my husband. My ex and I dated for many years but nothing change since he doesn't have goals and been lazy. I work two jobs. And my ex just lazy work part time and useless. That's why I broke up with him.
Tsis hlub niam pog txiv yawg thiaj tsis tau ntuj ntoo los mas? Yus yog tub nyab ntxhais vauv yus xav muaj ces khwv xwb, txhob mus tos tej laus pob nyiaj mas.
I want to hear your wife side because there is a reason why she refuse to return even when after you finish school she didnt want to return. NOt all the truth is here because even your relatives giving you shit that if you had loved your first wife like that y'all wouldnt divorce.
Can't really blame your wife for doing what she did. I wished she would have left you long time before y'all got marry. That's what Dating is all about.
Your ex is dumb. That's yours and her life. If she really loved you, she would never leave you. So don't be stupid. Your ex wife wants her cake and eat it too. Smh. Move on with your life. Stop blaming your parents. She said your parents are the reasons why your daughters don't want to come back. It's because she brain washed them. If your girls don't want to be with you. Let them go. Everyone one learns from their mistakes and better themselves. People change because their living status changed. Seemed like you got a better job, home etc. Vs before where you were struggling, but that doesn't mean you didn't love your ex. I'm glad that you'd moved on. You sounded like a great person, but your ex didn't see that. Don't sink in people's words saying that if you'd done that in the past life would have been wonderful. No, because you're living status was different.
That's what she get for not loving him lmao....his parents life has nothing to with their own life haha.......maybe if she was married to a meeka then she would be kick to the curve....lmao.....nothing is enough for Hmong ppl haha
It has everything to do with his parents. They live together so whatever they do it would have an affect on their children n family. What are you talking? Kids learned it from home by watching their parents.
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No one wants a dead end marriage and a spouse who has no goals or motivations in life to be better and live better. I don't blame her for leaving you.
Why is everyone shaming this woman. She has every right to leave a man if she wants a better life. What disappoints me is when a man does this it's ok and everyone says the man has that right,.
Exactly! He changed too late!
I agreed! Vice versa and this is coming from a man.
Agree!!!
Exactly. She wants a better life but he keeps saying he's not going no where. He wants his parents and stay with his life. He won't be who he is today if she hasn't moved on.
I don’t blame her for leaving. Lazy people will be lazy no matter if you tell them, show them, teach them.
If you would have stepped up to the plate in the beginning, maybe your first wife wouldn’t have left you. Sounds like you already know that but you’d rather blame her to make yourself look good.
We are fed up with you and your family doesn't mean we have someone else. All men have to understand that.
My old life related to this story right here..Sad, I have no choice, but leave for better for him & myself. Everything goes as I planned. He is better now so am I & I’m happy I move on to make him changed❤️ happy for both
Sometimes hardship in life or a heartbreaking relationship is what teaches us to be better than before. May you continue to be blessed and your children loved
That's true to the moon and back
1st wife begged begged begged and begged you, but you couldn’t change.. 2nd wife said it only once and in a blink of an eye, you listened to her.. Shame on you..
This guy is no victim. No one wants a spouse who’s not motivated for a better life or have personal goals to better their future together. He waited till she left and then he changed. I get why your ex wife left…it’s because of you and your family. You moved out real fast when your current wife tells you she wanted privacy. How come you couldn’t do that with your ex wife???
Exactly
you would have to live his life to know his circumstances, sure he wasn't motivated, but she didn't even bother to support him, she cheated on him. not only that, but plenty of this happens guys supporting their wives through college, they cheat and move on when they graduate.
So you're willing to change everything for your current wife but not the first one? Hmong men at their finest. 🙄
Agree! Hope the writer see these comments and realize he’s in the wrong too.
I think he did it for himself. The new wife was not in the picture when the lights turned on in his head to let him know he needs to make a change.
@@sircha5304 @Sir Cha 14 years of their marriage and the light haven't switch on for him? Naw, men only change for the woman they want to do it for. If he love her and wanted to save his marriage, he would have done in the first 5-8 years. And when he realized that she's not happy in their marriage.
I agree with his ex wife.
If I was her, I’ll leave too. Good thing she’s smart enough to leave sooner..
I always tell my husband from the beginning that if you're going to better yourself, do it for me. Don't wait until I'm gone and do it for someone new. That means you never loved me enough to change for me but are willing to change for someone new. Yes you change when she left and asked her to come back and she refused. She should've came back when she see that you change. It's a shame you did it for a new woman but not her.
You know…if it wasn’t for your first wife, you wouldn’t be where you are today. Everything she said was right and whether you noticed it or not, you did end up taking her advice and changed for the better.
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Niam txiv tsis muaj lub hom phiaj me tub me nyuam yeej tsis muaj neej zoo yog tsis txav tawm
First wife was prejudice and bias towards his family n upbringing. If she so worry about her future, just work harder for a better life. If she was going to leave, leave bc of him or herself only. Never blame his family for her miserable life. First wife should have used the hardship to her advantage. Sucks she was too quick to blame n left.
💯 yep! Don’t use his family an an excuse why you didn’t succeed. If you really want to succeed no one can’t stop you. Always bringing his fam but have you look at your own fam too?
Lmao.... Finally....Hmong woman these days lmao.... Watch to much love American movie too much haha.....so they keep chasing the American dream.... Apparently they didn't see Bill Gate lmao
@@pavang5531 Yep, she should've known what she was getting herself into before she married him. Do her research, meet his family, make him promise to leave the family at the 1st opportunity they have.
To all single parents, Don't ever let a men/women make u choose between him/her or your kids. If someone ever did that I'm choosing my kids.
For real!!!
I agree with you, that's why I choose to stay single for my kids...
Your ex wanted the easy way out. Yuav muaj nyiaj los yus yeej yuav tau work for. Yus tsis lam nyob nyob ua tau ib pob nyiaj. Only lucky people thiaj yug los muaj nyiaj es sib yuav tau los muaj kev pab. For those of us who are not so fortunate we have to work from the bottom up but it’s all worth it at the end. Makes us stronger mentally and emotionally. If my partner gives up on me bc he/she thinks I’m poor nws xav mus ces the door is widely open. Money you can always work for but unconditional love is hard to find. Your ex did it to herself she thinks the grass is greener on the other side.
People can say all the shiet they want but they haven't been in your shoes. You we're torn between your wife and your family, not to mention you were poor, having to work to support your wife while she was in school and helping your parents too.
Your wife was inpatient and had no empathy for you.
I'm happy for you now. Your ex definitely got hit hard with karma.
He lives in America one of the greatest country of opportunities. Yet he only keep coming up with excuses for failing. I've seen people in far worse situations succeed. I don't feel sorry for him at all. Failure here in this country is a choice. If you can't even make it here you won't make it anywhere else.
You owe your ex-wife a big. "thank you!!" for motivating you to change your life for the better.
I don’t blame her for wanting a better life. This is very one sided. It sounded like when she was married to you, you didn’t want to go back to school and you admitted that you didn’t want to move out of your parents house. She probably begged you everyday to go back to school. Sometimes it takes someone leaving to make changes in your life.
As for myself, if I were in your wife’s shoes I wouldn’t leave my marriage. My marriage is MY life. My success is MINE. I make things happen for my life. I refuse to count on anyone to have a better life nor will I shame the life my in laws live. I will prove to them what a life with education means vs a life without one and I will rise! No one will hand you anything in life, if you want a good life, go for it and push yourself. I’m just disappointed your wife didn’t fight hard enough for her marriage and now she’s regretting. However, again, this is your side of the story. Would love to hear hers.
I don’t blame your ex-wife for leaving. You weren’t willing to change for her when she begged you to. Too late now, I hope you learn from this and change for the better moving forward.
Yes, married young is hard to understand how life went. Dont see the future good or bad so live today, love yourself day,
My inlaws are lazy too and have no ambition in life but I’m glad my husband is the opposite. Some people are too comfortable and is not willing to change. At least he’s willing to change and she should of gave him a chance to work out their marriage. I’m glad he changed for the better
Your ex wife is dumb for not coming back when you were willing to change. Now she's paying for it. Your first is the real one unless he's abusing and cheating. Both should work on life together. Once you see a change in your spouse, forgive and come back together. In the Christian life, you can separate for a while to rethink your life but come back together. Unless he's cheating and abusing then yes divorce.
Abusing and cheating aren’t always the reasons why a marriage should end. It could be: lost of love and feelings, drugs, gambling addiction, alcoholism, etc. She is not dumb for leaving him. Rather leave when young. She apologized and she said what she had to say and end it. He’s dumb for keep trying. He should be better and do better for the next woman.
Nyob lub teb chaws no hauj lwm muaj ntau es tsis mus nrhiav hauj lwm ua ces tsis thas yuav yog kuv los kuv yeej tsis yuav thiab vim tsev neeg tub nkeeg li tsev no na
So sad for the first wife, I guess it's true, men do listen but they will only listen to someone they truly love. I would have left too, I would have never stay with someone like you. Your first wife did what's best for her and you are not a victim here.
Sure, your ex wife definitely changed you. You should thank her! But dang the ex wife is selfish person also. Are we not listening to the same story? She didn’t want her kids!!! Smh!!!!
If you would’ve change when your first wife asked you to, she would still be with you and your children. You must’ve not love her as much as you claim to want to change yourself for her. We women want men who are motivated and have goals. You choose your family over her until she got tired of nagging you and left.
You should thank your ex wife for making you see that you need to change for a better life. I feel bad for her at the end she didn’t have the life she left you for.
That is so true..the reason he didn't do is because he didn't love her enough to be charged.
That's the life of America dream for the new Hmong ppl haha....money can buy anything is right haha....she doesn't love him thats why she didn't help him change to make it better for their little family...she was lazy anyways to begin with that's why she didn't help grown her little family.....her fnl was right their parents life has nothing to do with their own life.....he said once she finished school they can move out but she didn't want to wait so it's his fault? Haha......Hmong america women these days haha...that's why they say b**** come and go haha....but that's what happened for being too weak haha ..he go no game.....lmao....that's what she get for living the American dreams.....lmao
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He's right. He changed for the better. The past doesn't matter. His ex wife is her own suffering. You woke up. Keep doing you and keep moving forward. I applaud you for improving your life.
You made it bro......learning your mistakes and changing your life moving forward for new future.
Ua neej nyob nrog txoj kev cia siab xwb, yog koj ua neej tsis muaj lub hom phiaj, tus npau suav ces koj kawg swb swb swb txhua yam..
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Txob tu siab os yog nws hlub koj txom nyem npaum cas los nws yeej hlub koj nws yeej nyob tau nrog koj tsis hais leej twg thaum pib yeej txom nyem
Tib neeg ua zoo yeej tau zoo 100
Sib pab txhawb nqa ua roulubeocov phoojywg
Tej zaum koj nyiam nws tsis tas koj thiaj li tsis xav mus khwv rau koj tus poj niam os.
Yog ib ziag những b Kuv tug txiv los zoo lib zaj dab neeg nob , nyuaj siab heev
She’s not blind, she knew how your family was before she dated and married you. Just an excuse not to fight for your marriage. No marriage is perfect or easy. Couples nowadays give up too easily. Now the kids have to suffer because of the adults stubbornness
Damnnn…. BAS! Hahha
Yog koj txawj xav li koj ces zoo lawm
Bas.
Peb cov poj niam hmoob meskas ces yeej tsis sawm zoo nawb cov kwv tij hmoob aw...
Nov yog kev kawm xwb yog hloov tau ces zoo mog..
Koj ces DEV xwb koj tus niam 1st twb thov thov kom neb tawm tsev koj tsis Kam kiag tim koj tsis hlub tus niam ib xwb
Nope, it’s your fault. Don’t blame it on your parents and their way of life.
You live n learn yog niam loj tsis khiav koj koj tsis hloov paub koj lub neej UA neeg we all make mistakes you live n learn
In a way I am proud of your accomplishments. However there are two sides to a story. We don't really know your lives in detail but the way I see it I feel bad for your ex. She came in to the marriage hoping for a team relationship asked you to better yourself. Your parents probably was not a problem for her but that you would use them as an excuse to not better yourself. As a wife her strength is only strengthen by her husband support and I see you left her to grieve in silence. She tried so hard to tell you. All any girl want is a better future. See you proved to be in the end capable of accomplishing an education and better futuure why did it take losing a wife to change. She lost hope and faith in you. In the end she screwed herself thinking a better life will bring happiness but no with children your children comes from first. She tried to replace you as fast she could but she picked the wrong guy. Well at this point good luck to you and her as separate co parents. Just remember not to let your children suffer they suffer through all this.
Koj txiv hais YOG lawm nawb!!! If you really want a good life, have to work for it. Your ex just wants things the easy way and expect to have it all from the beginning. If she really wants a change, she can come change your family’s lifestyle for the better.
Yus lub neej yog yus lub neej. Cov laus lub neej yog cov laus lub neej. Vim muaj tus muab yus tso thiaj ua rau yus ua tau tus neeg zoo dua tus qub. Yog nws tso yus es tias yus yuav ciaj huab tais los nws tsis khuv xim lawm ces cia nws mus nws os. Yog thaum yus hluas2 ces yeej tsis muaj lub hlwb xav tias yuav hloov li cas os. Zoo uas koj pauv tau lawm es thiaj ua lub neej kaj siab os.
Each to their own. Sometimes the lessons comes after the pain. Some people aren't meant to be in your life only as a lesson to be learned. Every decision have consequences be sure that you're able to handle the consequences. Can't blame anyone; sometimes not even yourself. Learn to accept things and learn to do better when one knows better. It's a part of life. Live, learn, and love.
Poj niam can mam no hlub $ xwb koj yuav tsum muaj Kev lawm kom Tau job zoo poj niam thiaj nrog yus nyob rov qab mus lawm ntawv nrhiav Kev txhim kho koj hlub neej mam mus yuav tus poj niam dua
Nws yog tim koj xwb hnub twg koj yuav pojniam lawm txhaig tau tias koj yeej npaj txhij yuav ua koj ib yig neej lawm tsis yog tias yuav pojniam los yuam poj niam nyob nrog yus niam yus txiv li ntawd tsis muaj leej twg nyob nrog koj os vim peb pojniam peb yuav txiv lawm peb yeej npaj tias peb yuav pib peb lub neej li cas tiamsis yog tau cov txiv tsis tab cuab yim neej es tseem pheej npav qhov yuav nyob nrog yus niam yus txiv li koj ces kawg yuav tau ua yawg nrauj li ko xwb tiag me tub
Peb cov poj niam hmoob meskas tam sim no liam liam lawm nej txhob ntseeg tas tas nawb cov kwv tij hmoob aw...
You both paid the price.
Good for u.
Well darn.. should had change at first, the first love n ur kids wouldn't have never hurted.
This sounds like my old married life that's why I left. Lub neej vam meej yus yuav tau mus nrhiav yus tus kheej xwb yog yus tus txij nkawm tsis ntshaw li yus ntshaw.
Tus poj Niam coj li ko koj thiaj nco nws xwb, kuv yeej tsis nco txog nws li os tus me Kwv.
I don't blame her, who wants to stay with a lazy and immature boy?
It's the lack of ambition and not walking the talk.
Zaj no mloog tau zoo li npwb2
Zaj no nyuab ua luaj raug leej twg mas tu siab heev.
Man you took 1hr to read the text you sounds tired
You make this story so long I feel like I been listened all day smh
She gave you chances many times told you to change, but you didn't. That's why problems began.
Lig2 lawn mog tus txiv tsev. Txiv neej yeej hais tias poj niam tsis txawj ua raws lis txiv neej qhov kev ntshaw no ne. Zaum no zaj no qhia tias ib leeg yeej muaj ib txoj kev ntshaw kom lub neej nyob kaj siab muaj noj muaj haus mog tsoom txiv tsev. Yog 2 leeg sib yoog rau siab rau lub neej ces zoo mus xwb. Siv2 zog ua qhov zoo pub rau thawj tug nawj mog.
What goes around comes around. I just hate it when she wanted you back you don’t want her back. But I understand where you’re coming from
Kj tus poj niam ko ntse heev zoo qhov nw mu lawm yg nw g mu ce ntshai yv zoo li kv vim thaum xub kv xav tias nw lav2 kv tias nw yv ua neeg zoo xb vim nw niam thb nw txiv lawv yeej zoo li ntawd nw yv nrog kv khwv lub neej tabsis luag hai tias yg noob no yeej yg tiag2 li kv ce ruam tshaj qhov ruam li o sim neej no nkim tag rho kv ib sim neej o tam sim kv muaj 65 xyoos lawm o tos saib hnub twg txog kv lub caj rov ce kv rov mu saum ntuj ub lawm xb mog
Tus txiv tsev no txoj hmoo phem kawg li. Yuav tus twg los siab me2 ib yam. Nkim lub zog kj niam txiv yug kj los ua ib nkawv tub. Yus yog txiv neej yuav tus tsi hlub niam txiv ces yuav dua xwb. Yog kj cov menyuam tub yuav Nyab los es xa tib yam li kj cov pojlaib kj puas txaus siab???
It's good that you now learned a valuable lesson, thanks to your ex wife.
Koj hai dab neeg zoo heev li os kv yuav ua ca thj tiv toj tau rau kj os niav tsuav teev kv muaj ib zaj neej neeg xav kom kj pab hai thb pua tau os
Me tub aw nej tsev neeg tub nkees thiab qias neeg dhau lawm os tos poj niam Tsi yuav koj naj
As a woman, we want a place to call our home. I don't blame her for leaving because I wouldn't want to live like that either. If your family lives off welfare, most likely you guys are supporting your family too. If you keep supporting your lazy family, no woman would want you too. Helping them every now and then is fine, but supporting them while you support your little family too is too much. You cannot save like that. Once you marry, your kids and wife comes first.
It's good that you are not going back to ur ex wife. No one will except women who always complain about our parents that they are poor.
Brother, move on with your life. Your ex-wife was only in your life fir a reason and a season. She must move on. Don't regret but be happy you found someone new. You learn a hard and painful lesson. Life is too short to dwell on the past.
Honestly from all the comments made, I agree with you.
Damm she run from snake but meet tiger
Koj niag pojniam yog hom neeg ruam tsab ntse yawm saub thiaj tsis pub tau zoo neej.
It’s not your parent’s’ fault. She’s the problem. She was cheating on you all along. I hope her parents are filthy rich and eat only super food. Karma kicking her ass for disrespecting your parents and talk down on them when they done nothing to her. She was never a good person.
Koj tsis yog Txiv neej koj txhiaj quaj Niag poj dab ntawd Koj cais noj quav xwb .
Could have changed for ur 1st wife
Why can’t he just move in with his wife and kids? Why he continued to go to his parents place? He’s too weak as a man. And why he’s willing to listened and changed for the new wife? He’s a bad husband. The new wife is happy now because he’s willing to changed. Imagine if she live in the first wife’s shoe, she would’ve left too.
Niam laug yog kuv xav koj pab kv hais kv zaj neej neg es xa li cas rau kj
Your wife is just making excuses! She’s a gold digger. Be happy she left you. If she wanted a good life with you she would have stick it out with you until you guys make it. No good life comes easy. She wanted the easy way out. I don’t care what gender you are, but if you so claim you want a good life, shit you better be doing half of the crap too just not hoping your other half do everything for you. True like your father said, if she really wanted a good life she gotta work for it. She keeps using your parents as an excuses! I bet she wouldn’t like it someone compares her to her parents. Good that karma got her. No matter if your a good person/want a better life if you cheated on your spouse you will always have karma coming your way no MATTER WHAT!
Tus mus lawm tsis yog koj tus, neb tsuas yog los ib vuag dhau thiab los ua kev kawm xwb. Lub sijhawm thaum ntawv neb tseem hluas2 thiab tseem txom2 nyem. Yog nws hlub koj tiag, nws yeej yuav nrog koj khwv thiab ua siab ntev nrog koj nyob. Nws yeej tsis hlub koj es nws thiaj li mus lawm.
That’s good for her she deserve that do not feel sorry for her
Tau peb cov hmoob thaib no ces tsis nyiam tag nrho niam pog txiv yawg nkauj muaj kwv tij ua txhua yam kom peb cov nyab hmoob thaib nyob tsis taus cia kom tau nyab hmoob mekas thiaj paub o yom niaj hnub nrhiav nyab hmoob mekas rau tej tub kuv xav kom tau nyab hmoob mekas kom mag ncaws tawm tsev kawg
Remember the joker created batman
The story is similar to my situation the difference is no kids. Not my husband. My ex and I dated for many years but nothing change since he doesn't have goals and been lazy. I work two jobs. And my ex just lazy work part time and useless. That's why I broke up with him.
Tsis hlub niam pog txiv yawg thiaj tsis tau ntuj ntoo los mas? Yus yog tub nyab ntxhais vauv yus xav muaj ces khwv xwb, txhob mus tos tej laus pob nyiaj mas.
twb nyob lub teb chaws zoo es ho ho xav khwv na hmoob aw. kuj mus us hsuj lwm los pob
ua cas es nej cov nyab hmoob miskas ho tsi xav yuav cov laus li no
Ua kom rau txiv me ntsis mas thaub aw!!!. Cas yuav npwb ua luaj li na. Yog muaj dua zaum 2 ces koj mus noj tshuaj tau lawm nawb.
Ok ok I got it too boring
I want to hear your wife side because there is a reason why she refuse to return even when after you finish school she didnt want to return. NOt all the truth is here because even your relatives giving you shit that if you had loved your first wife like that y'all wouldnt divorce.
Wow what a waste, no wonder!
Can't really blame your wife for doing what she did. I wished she would have left you long time before y'all got marry. That's what Dating is all about.
Your ex is dumb. That's yours and her life. If she really loved you, she would never leave you. So don't be stupid. Your ex wife wants her cake and eat it too. Smh. Move on with your life. Stop blaming your parents. She said your parents are the reasons why your daughters don't want to come back. It's because she brain washed them. If your girls don't want to be with you. Let them go. Everyone one learns from their mistakes and better themselves. People change because their living status changed. Seemed like you got a better job, home etc. Vs before where you were struggling, but that doesn't mean you didn't love your ex. I'm glad that you'd moved on. You sounded like a great person, but your ex didn't see that. Don't sink in people's words saying that if you'd done that in the past life would have been wonderful. No, because you're living status was different.
Lub sij hawm ntawv koj tseem hluas ces koj lub tswv yim laj lim plab plawv tsis tau loj hlob nthuav ces koj thiaj tseem nco nws thiab khuv xim quaj rau nws txawm nws tau hais lus tib phem rau nej tsev neeg. Tus poj niam zoo li koj tus no txawm leej twg tau los nws yeej tsis ntxiv rau leej twg lub neej. Koj tus poj niam khiav koj yog tib koj tib tug nkaus xwb, not koj tsev neeg. Muaj ib qho hauv nws lub siab tib koj yam tshem tsis tau tawm. Koj los yeej paub zoo tib yam li nws paub, tab sis qhia tsis tau rau leej twg paub.
That's what she get for not loving him lmao....his parents life has nothing to with their own life haha.......maybe if she was married to a meeka then she would be kick to the curve....lmao.....nothing is enough for Hmong ppl haha
It has everything to do with his parents. They live together so whatever they do it would have an affect on their children n family. What are you talking? Kids learned it from home by watching their parents.