@@Plough78 "Muslims" is not a culture. Filipino culture puts more emphasis on family, hence filipina's more concerned about being good moms, western culture tells women they need something else to be "happy and fullfilled" and dont need a man and family.
I'm a filipino guy from the USA. In LA. Most successful Filipino women want nothing to do with Filipino guys past friends who treat them out. I just take it as part of life in LA. Thank god I live here now in Manila. I have fewer experiences like that here. I hope your brown friend doesn't give up. It's just a numbers game. When I lived in LA, at least I had a high status job that paid well in the entertainment industry and had a nice house in the Hollywood hills. That gave me better luck than most of my Filipino short king brothers. I'm glad you told this story and didn't sugar coat it.
its not just LA and it's not just filipino men. Decent filipna in the usa are no different then american women and want nothing to do with anyone whose not the top 5% so you get the top 90% of women all only wiling to date the top 5% of men because they "deserve it"
Shocking but true! This is how the world works. If your "white" you have status, more then all the other "races." More than blacks, yellows, or browns.
Here in Thailand there's a similar dynamic around status . My Thai GF of six years has done well bc of my support. But her personal wealth has taken off in the past three years because she's been frugal with the money I give her (she works for me) and she's invested her money in property, livestock and crops. On her own she has accumulated some impressive wealth by Thai standards. But she portrays her good fortune as 100% related to me, even though that is not really the case. Having the appearance of a foreigner BF that provides the status symbols gets more social value than her successful entrepreneurship.
Charlie, If you have capital that you can afford to lose because not dependent on it and are prepared to lose it, one will take risks one would not endeavor to if dependent on it . That is most likely the situation of your Thai GF and can relate to that from my Thai secretary that is used to living on little so everything extra is used to try and make more.
I am a 66 year old average looking white expat Canadian, married to a beautiful young Filipina, living in the provinces of Cebu for the last three years. I completely agree Paul. Sometimes when I/we are in public, I feel like a piece of meat, lol! My wife understands, and she also trusts me that I can see right through it. I, myself feel like the luckiest man in the world to be so desirable, and yet have a beautiful Filipina as my lifetime partner.
I'm 58 and engaged to a beautiful 38 year old Filipina. We're in the process of getting a fiance visa for her to come to the States to live with me. I would definitely recommend Filipina ladies to any guy who is tired of the hostile, me-first, entitled attitudes of western women.
His story has not been mine at all. I'm an Asian American from NYC, look Filipino. I've been living in Manila for 2 months and have had no problem at all. In fact I literally don't have time for these women. I think your friend simply has no game/ charisma, or he's in the wrong city. The idea that Filipinas want nothing to do with a Filipino looking man doesn't make much sense when you consider that the majority of filipinas end up marrying and having kids with Filipino men
I'm a Japanese/American guy that is married to a Filipina from Cebu. I brought her to the USA and she is a weather lady on a TV morning show. She tells me that she is always getting hit on from viewers that want nothing but sex from her. She tells me that she will always love me and always be by my side. I'm a average looking guy but I do have status in society. Sorry for the Australian guy!
I agree with you saying simply has no game/ charisma, for in Australia there's plenty of Asian men with white Australian girls, status/money or not, good looking girls too, I work with two, so don't think the reason is race/Asian. Though I definitely agree with the guys assessment of 'older' Australian white women, all big fat, ugly and lots of mental baggage, I won't go near them, and I'm sure it's the same case in USA and UK.
Excellent video Paul. Most people do not realise that race preference and racism exist in most countries including in Asia. Not only in USA and Europe.
My Thai wife says she thinks your friend would do well in Thailand. She says Thai women are more willing to overlook physical characteristics if a person has money, “and who wouldn’t want to go to Australia?” I was thinking the same thing, really. Good luck!
Opposites attract. I'm white wife's Dark Thai. If I was lucky enough to be him I'd be shopping for a white woman as we know are attracted to darker men. But saying that how do you find one thats not a intitled feminist ?
it's not just the money itself. More so the financial stability. You don't have to be rich in order to find a Thai girl. I can't talk about the Philippines. But when I met my Thai wife, at the beginning of our relationship, I showed her what things that we would buy in Thailand, cost me in the Netherlands. Just so she would understand that Foreigners aren't rich, because their lifestyle is more expensive where they live.
One of my co-workers summed it up pretty good. The woman does not want you. She wants what the other girl has. Which is you in this case. Women have a competition with EACH OTHER!
Very interesting video, but a sad situation. Please follow up with this guy in a year or two. I'm sure there is lady out there for him, who will be very lucky by overlooking those prejudices.
Hi Paul, great video. I understand your friends dilemma completely. I'm a mutt, part American Indian and part white mix. My first trip to the Philippines was in 1989 with the Air Force. I was told several times I looked Pilipino and few times I was addressed with the philippine language The second time time i visited was a few years back, I had the same issues. I guess if I was white, tall and had a big nose I'd have better luck with my dating life. But now that I'm almost 70 it's not as important as it was 30 years ago. Have a great night. Jon
@@arnoldjohnson3317 I turn 70 next year and hate the term "at the end of life, little matters" I'm still rocking it at work and soon to launch a TH-cam channel. I've got so much more I want to do with my life and I'm excited. Yes, I know 70's to 80 are the dodgy years but I say, make each day matter and soak up as much of the good stuff as you can.
YOU ARE THE REAL ILLERATE AND THE GREAT PRETENDER !!!!!!!!!! BECAUSE DO NOT UNDERSTAND AND ACCEPT THE TRUTH AND REALITY IN YOUR NASTY LIFE SURROUNDING, MOR - RRRRROOOOOOONNNNNNNNNNNNNN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Interesting story Paul. I've been watching your videos and have the urge to visit the Philippines, but I lived in the US for many years and I'm half Japanese and Filipino. Now I'm having second thoughts about visiting.
If you are visiting, remember that women in the tourist area are different than many in the rual area. It takes time and unfortunately, you may not have much vacation time to blend in and get to know real Filipinos. But if you are in the tourist area, make sure you speak up and in clear English, speak to others and hang out with other American tourists. Locals will instantly think different of you. The other obstacle is other tourist thinks you are Filipino and trying to get something from them. But if you really want to experience with real good people, spend some time in the province somewhere. Be engaging and talk to people. It works, trust me. I'm not Filipino at all, but I do recognize there are some issues with trashy women.
Filipinos don't even have a native word for themselves, they name their selves after a white European king named Philip from Spain. Look at all of their images of Jesus. He is a white blonde Norwegian man in nearly everything! Even though Jesus was from the middle east. THEY HATE THEMSELVES AND THEY LOVE WHITE. ITS A COLONIAL MENTALITY
GO! You will not have a problem. Just like all women don't have chemistry with all men you cannot generalize. In fact you will attract conservative and beautiful women. You will run into women who aren't interested but you will run into women who are as well. Experience it. If you love women you will not regret going. Go. NOW. I am half pinoy btw.
Facinating I hear the comment from travelers in many countries regarding the locals THEY ARE SO FRIENDLY AND HELPFUL.. I wonder if that holds true with loca to local interaction
Fascinating. Maybe not particularly related but with my brief visit to Phils I was hearing a nose theme about that the ladies like...if you will; a prominent nose and many like the big gut as it shows that they can provide for themselves and also..maybe them. Regarding status, makes sense, and also with much too often of coaches, police, and teachers who are mentors of trust but the trust becomes abuse. Status is admired as power. If I return to Phils, all my t-shirts will be one size t00 small~ buffets here I come minus da napkin!
Hi Paul, Interesting story. There is truth to your story, but it really only applies to those girls that are looking for foreigners, which is probably less than 20% or the women. What about all the Philippine women that date Philippine men. So he should look in those places, where locals hang out, not in the foreign meat markets. Also, as others mentioned , Thailand may work better for him too.
Hi Paul it's Your LOYAL FRIEND RAY FROM CALIFORNIA, This story is really a eye opener. I didn't realize that in the philippines a man is looked down upon for being a Filipino 😳 OH what a Bummer for This poor Man and I am not speaking financially, but the truth is He didn't need a Woman Like That anyway. I Hope and pray He finds his one true love, who will love him for who he is rather than what he looks Like. THANKS My Friend for the information and GOD BLESS YOU PAUL AND BABY MAE 😇🙏😇
"Half the women are obese." It's absolute fact and you'll get shamed and assaulted for considering it. Also, in the US, an even larger percentage have personalities that are complete trash and think they're being cute. Entertainment personas have led women (and men) to believe that behaving a certain way is attractive and it might be--for one night. I personally have zero interest in financing my own hell even if it's just a cup of coffee.
Preach I have been on my job close to 30 years mostly women due to it being in the med prof over the years the women have gotten bigger and the attitudes nastier and they have these support groups talking about someone well over 300lbs how they don't have to lose weight but none of them are in decent relationship and most don't have a good husband saving every dime I have to move to the Philippines soon!
Always remember in reality, you are in a big trouble in your situation because you do not have enough retirement money in your very old age... IN YOUR VERY OLD AGE YOU ARE SUPPOSED TO STAY IN SECURED, STABLE AND VERY RETIREMENT PLACE... BUT, YOU CAN NOT DO IT IN YOUR OWN BORN THE U.S.A... The Philippines is the only the place you can retired on your very small SOCIAL SECURITY ADMINISTRATION MONTHLY PENSION... If you can marry Baby Mae in order of Retirement Visa need... So, you do not need to leave always the Philippines because of VISA REASON. In your very old age you are supposed to stay around the Dumaguete parks and etc. and drive a car not balancing your danger motorcycle.... Your best friend Mark Thorton in "Ever Man Has A b*llsh*t Story"..... Ha has less Retirement Visa problem in the Philippines because of her wife help.............. Got it, Mor - Ron?????????????????
In the US, fat and ugly women in their 50s are just as entitled and rude to men as they were in their 20s. They don't understand their stock price has crashed.
Thanks so much for including the truthful types of men who visit and find Success in Philippines ( Black , White , Korean , and others ). Great topic Paul . I had a great time in LapuLapu in Mactan Newton area in September. I have two great ladies , headed back in April .
OMG Paul 😮…. I am a Filipina who grew up in Canada… and I have to say how shocked I am with what you have shared in this video of this gentleman’s experience…. I am speechless and maybe naive but had no idea this happens…. 😟. I wish that gentleman all the best and hope he isn’t too discouraged because I am sure he just hasn’t met that one person that can see past the physical and social prejudice he has faced…once again thank you for sharing this story… always a big fan of your content and your genuine nature when you share your thoughts and opinions on the many stories you share! 😊
My wife is Filipina and I'm Mexican. Although I am brown, I don't look Filipino and I'm a little taller than most Filipinos. When I go to the Philippines, most Filipino women don't like at me right away but as soon as they realized I'm a foreigner, they start trying to get my attention. That makes me feel very special...
@@mikesolns1364 hey Mike! I actually met my wife through Christian Filipina dating site. But, when I went to the Philippines, just to see if Filipinas would go out with, I approached a few of them and asked them if they knew of a good pizza place and once they told me where to go, I asked them if they would like to join me and 2 out of 3 said yes. You could try that...
@@mikesolns1364 yeah, I met her through the dating site and like a year later, I went for the first time to the Philippines to meet her in person. After that, I went there 2 other times. The last time I went there, that's went I invited a few girls to go eat pizza. Since I was already engaged, I gave 700 pesos to the ones that accepted the invitation so they could go by themselves. Like I said, I was just trying to see if they would go out with me and see if the strategy would work. And it did.
It's a big big world out there so maybe he needs to expand his horizon. This guy needs to head out to the Caribbean. Plenty of beautiful girls available there just waiting for him.... especially in Jamaica. Keep up with the great content Paul!!
Paul, one of the best videos you have presented in like Forever. I was a little shocked at this fella's dilemma. Bummer for him. My daughter married a fella who is Filipino. Great guy, great father, and good to her. This fella has the money to afford the luxury of seeking elsewhere. I am sure many of us who have watched this video are rooting for his success. From comments rendered ....Thailand might be a logical choice at this point. When i was single I went on a dating app called "go fish' or something like that. I am moderately successful, educated to Masters level, was in my early 60's, and look Ok. The few women who would respond to my introduction were nice ladies....but in terrible shape. I am sorry to say this about myself...but I couldn't date them if my life depended upon it. Any woman who any of her beauty left had hordes of men waiting in que. One of my lady friends, no girl friend, went through a divorce. She was in her early 50s and quite attrative Russian. She had to shut her profile off after two days. She literally had hundreds of men apply for her consideration. She ended up marrying a guy who had money. She told me...i may not love him like I did my Italian boyfriend...but I will have security. That is all I want at this point is security. What an eye opener for me.
Hello Paul, I would recommend your friend not give up on finding a quality young lady in the Philippines. If you recall Reekay has talked on this and people identify Reekay as Filipino. He was still able to find a beautiful young lady in the Philippines. Thanks Paul, I always enjoy your content.
@@ted1558 If you’ve watched Reekay’s earlier videos, he do make mention that some people have identified him as Filipino, that’s all I’m referring too. So if Reekay can still find a beautiful Filipina, then I’m sure Paul’s friend could fine a wonderful Filipina as well.
@@Dirty__Dan Yes you may be correct, but previous girls he dated he meant in person while in the Philippines. So anything is possible, if you’re willing to put forth the effort.
Always remember in reality, you are in a big trouble in your situation because you do not have enough retirement money in your very old age... IN YOUR VERY OLD AGE YOU ARE SUPPOSED TO STAY IN SECURED, STABLE AND VERY RETIREMENT PLACE... BUT, YOU CAN NOT DO IT IN YOUR OWN BORN THE U.S.A... The Philippines is the only the place you can retired on your very small SOCIAL SECURITY ADMINISTRATION MONTHLY PENSION... If you can marry Baby Mae in order of Retirement Visa need... So, you do not need to leave always the Philippines because of VISA REASON. In your very old age you are supposed to stay around the Dumaguete parks and etc. and drive a car not balancing your danger motorcycle.... Your best friend Mark Thorton in "Ever Man Has A b*llsh*t Story"..... Ha has less Retirement Visa problem in the Philippines because of her wife help.............. Got it, Mor - Ron?????????????????
Pay for play is cheaper than divorce......But Life is all pay for play ....marriage, girlfriends or one night stands ......as a man you will pay in the long run ...and marriage is the most expensive road to go down.......marriage is financial suicide...
HEY Paul. Another great informative video. I listen to these videos and relive my experience living in Kosovo 20 yrs ago. swimming in women and make a good living. Status is very important when women rate us men, especially in these developing countries ..A lot of them want out of these countries for better opportunities. How is John? Are you gonna make an update soon? thanks buddy .. be well
I have a suggestion for him Paul. When he is ready to retire ask him to hire 2 maids that are single. The maids or one of her sisters will fall in love with the person that he is. Just don't be to generous.
Excellent story. It reminded me of some of my friends in highschool and college. It does happen. As a Filapino/American, I've witnessed this a few times. Moreover, I take advantage of it so I won't be noticed or assumed. 😆
The funny thing is that time marches on and "what's her name" will age and be past her prime and she will end up alone and lose her status regardless. Rather short sighted of her to lose out on a long term Aussie that can support her financial status.
Hello Paul. I am a 70 yo Black/Native American mix raised and now living in the deep south - North Carolina. First, a word of advice - I recommend your friend visit Thailand. I do not think he will ever leave. Since 2007 I have spent time in both Philippines and Thailand, and I find the PI women to be so very friendly and fun-loving and much easier to meet and to bed (just being real - I get the impression that sex to Filipinas is like eating... fun for all and no big deal), plus English is a second language there. My biggest complaint, and what I consider to be the biggest difference between the two countries, is the trash situation. I have stayed in Manila, Cebu and a couple of provinces, and they are all dirty. I see all the time where residents will walk and eat and throw the wrappers on the ground, even if a trash can is near. Please understand that I am not trying to insult the country, it is just my personal observation from spending about a year total in the country. Thailand, on the other hand, seems to be a much cleaner country, even in the villages. They call Thailand the "Land of Smiles" and with good reason. Thai ladies are a little more laid back (not talking about bar girls or pay for play girls, but regular working ladies like dental staff or store clerks or even food or fruit stand owners) and even shy, but I find they are loyal and honest and make good romantic partners. Sex is definitely on the table, but it may take a minute to get offered a seat. I did not notice any prejudice in the Philippines, but there is definitely prejudice in Thailand. They consider dark skin to be an indicator of farm or outside workers and white or light skin as indicating professional or inside work. It is not an active prejudice like against POC in America, but one of the biggest selling products in Thailand is skin-whitening treatments. It is obvious in their advertisements, TV and movies and commercials - anywhere that gives public exposure. I have spent maybe six years total living in Thailand six months at a time and I met my Thai fiancee 5 years ago. When covid came, it screwed up everything. Her Visa application has just been approved and I expect to go and get her within the next 2 months. I have been married twice to American women, and after the second divorce, which is about when I started travelling the world, I have come to the conclusion that the only thing an American woman can do for me is give me a ride to the airport. I have been spoiled by foreign ladies. Happily. Anyway, the main point of this narrative was to recommend that your friend visit Thailand and spend a little time there. I think he will be very glad he did. Phuket is beautiful, especially with their many beaches, but is relatively expensive, Bangkok is quite crowded, Chiang Mai has many cultural activities, and Pattaya is a lot of fun. One thing they all have though, is beautiful, available women who don't care if you look like a Filipino, as long as you have a "good heart" and are kind to them. 😊😊
Women are hardwired to find a mate that can bring most resources for her future family. That's why he can be of several characteristics: Richest, strongest, meanest or innovative, just as long as she can control him one way or another.
Like it or not lighter skin is more desirable in many countries. In South Korea and many countries women often lighten their skin either through makeup or surgeries.
I would think a larger city might be better for him. Has he tried the dating sites? Depending on where he is from maybe a different country like Australia would help. Good luck to him. Is that you and Baby Mae in the thumb nail photo?
Maybe Brazil, Columbia, or the Dominican Republic? Sounds like he may also blend in as a local in those places too, but the women may view status differently. They are more aware that a “foreigner” can also look like a local. Wealth equals status more in those countries.
Height is a thing everywhere. Especially if youre a caucasion. While in Lapu Lapu I noticed it. I am 5'6" and I didnt really grab a lot of attention but I did meet quite a few interested women there, no LDR for me though. I plan to retire in the Philippines but its about being able to retire early because of the cost of living.
I'm 5'6" filipino and in LA it's tough to meet women at that height. My brothers are the same height as me and make good money (engineers) but had a hard time avoiding gold diggers as well as just meeting decent women.
@@manilamartin1001 the struggle is real. Its been almost a month since I have been back in the United States and I still get asked for money from the girls I met during my vacation in Lapu Lapu. No LDR for me, once I retire there I will take my time and find a woman.
It's always a transaction Paul, you may provide attention, security, support, future prospects or money, but you bet you are providing something, so is she (the beauty) and we humans cannot get around that, just don't invest more than you are willing to lose and this transactions are fine. Also, after hearing your story, one of the most important things for women is status, that guy could not provide that.
People have agendas..& Old Ugly men do better in asia. Especially this Old Fart with brown teeth & bad skin.....As long as he has something to hand over....the trade off.
The secret to getting into a relationship is very easy (guy or girl). Lower your standards. If you can't get a date or meet up with someone, you are playing out of your league. Lower your standards, and eventually, you'll find someone. You can always roll the dice, and you might get someone out of your league, but that's like winning the lottery (very very rare).
@@Downsdddgh It goes both ways. The women would also have to lower their standards to date what dregs are left. Let's be honest, no 18-24YO really wants to date a fat old 64YO guy for their sex appeal. In the PH, it's to essentially get themselves, and their parents out of poverty.
Mark from Overstay Road channel says get out of your house in the USA and date the less attractive women before you retire in the Philippines. Enjoy your life before getting to Asia.
He is in an awesome situation, if you think about it. If a girl shows interest in him, it would be because of who he is, and NOT Because Of His Skin Color or Appereance of Nationality. If he is looking for a Real Lady to Keep, Get Out Of The Bar Scene. Plenty of College Campuses with Coffee Shops near-by and Shopping Malls with college educated young ladies. Near Manila, Makati District is know for International Businesses where surely he can find a very nice girl. I wish him Luck.
Once again another great video. My name is Bill and I live in Florida. The picture pinned to my comment here is my Filipino wife and I in Manila this past May. You have been an inspiration to me along with Pea. I have been watching both of your videos for 2 years. My wife lives on Mindanao Cagayan De Oro. I've been working with immigration to get her here but I have about giving up on that so I think in the spring I'll be moving to the Philippines myself. I really do want to settle in Dumaguete or Valencia and she's willing to go along with that as well. I spent the whole month of May in the Philippines and although a lot of things did seem strange to me at the time I've realized since I've been back in this country I need to live in the Philippines with my wife in a peaceful setting. Thanks for all your great videos without you I would have never even considered moving to the Philippines and would never have considered meeting my wife. Incidentally I am 75 and she is 32. The biggest thing for me now is trying to make sure I will have adequate Health Care while I'm there. So I am working on that otherwise I'm ready to go as soon as I sell my house
Very good story. Having lived in Asia I totally get this. Please suggest to him to travel to other areas like e or s Europe! He just needs to find his area as with his good fitness, personality, and financial means it will click in other areas. Leave Aussie land and he will see his total package work elsewhere.
Well Im Filipino who has lived more in the US than the Philippines. I guess Im fortunate coz all the gf I met are not only stunning good looking, can cook, have a good job and have travelled abroad. A few have cars that they own or provided by their employers. I can be picked up at the airport by her and take me to my hotel. They are from Metro Manila, Cebu and Mindanao.
I'm a fil/am and I think a lot has to do with social circles. I tend to hang out with filipinos who are better off here in Manila. Most of the expats don't have a social circle when they come here and don't discriminate enough. I think it's a western thinking.
Black American here. Every Filipina asks my ethnicity because I have significant European DNA. I am swimmin in women of all ages. My biggest challenge is screening out the gold diggers. I am a fit 70 year old. Thank god for trt..
Anyway ... maybe your friend is looking in the wrong places! I know some regular Filipinas here. I doubt they would care. They are seeking Honest and Dependable. Problem is, where can he meet these people? Not in the bars, for sure. He needs to be introduced by mutual friends. Maybe he needs to focus on friendships with people or other guys already established here? I don't know for sure. I'm a newbie. Curious to hear what veterans here think
If a man calls a woman sexy, he is only looking from the neck down. If a man calls a woman pretty, he is looking above the neck. If a man calls a woman beautiful, he is looking into her soul (at least he's trying to.)
Who are you kidding . . . Isn’t Baby Mae a “pay for play” girl who just gas a permanent “Boy Toy” instead of a temporary one!
a fair exchange is never a robbery
@@Plough78 Not true, different cultures, different women.
@@Plough78 "Muslims" is not a culture. Filipino culture puts more emphasis on family, hence filipina's more concerned about being good moms, western culture tells women they need something else to be "happy and fullfilled" and dont need a man and family.
you are very wrong
@@BP7BlackPearl Filipino culture is about "utang na loob" baby. Got to love it.
I'm a filipino guy from the USA. In LA. Most successful Filipino women want nothing to do with Filipino guys past friends who treat them out. I just take it as part of life in LA. Thank god I live here now in Manila. I have fewer experiences like that here. I hope your brown friend doesn't give up. It's just a numbers game. When I lived in LA, at least I had a high status job that paid well in the entertainment industry and had a nice house in the Hollywood hills. That gave me better luck than most of my Filipino short king brothers. I'm glad you told this story and didn't sugar coat it.
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Thanks for this comment, gives additional perspective.
Can you please explain what a "Filipino short king brother" is? Is it a type of cigarette or beer? Thanks!
its not just LA and it's not just filipino men. Decent filipna in the usa are no different then american women and want nothing to do with anyone whose not the top 5% so you get the top 90% of women all only wiling to date the top 5% of men because they "deserve it"
Shocking but true! This is how the world works. If your "white" you have status, more then all the other "races." More than blacks, yellows, or browns.
Here in Thailand there's a similar dynamic around status . My Thai GF of six years has done well bc of my support. But her personal wealth has taken off in the past three years because she's been frugal with the money I give her (she works for me) and she's invested her money in property, livestock and crops. On her own she has accumulated some impressive wealth by Thai standards. But she portrays her good fortune as 100% related to me, even though that is not really the case. Having the appearance of a foreigner BF that provides the status symbols gets more social value than her successful entrepreneurship.
Charlie,
If you have capital that you can afford to lose because not dependent on it and are prepared to lose it, one will take risks one would not endeavor to if dependent on it . That is most likely the situation of your Thai GF and can relate to that from my Thai secretary that is used to living on little so everything extra is used to try and make more.
Informative Paul, very interesting piece.
I am a 66 year old average looking white expat Canadian, married to a beautiful young Filipina, living in the provinces of Cebu for the last three years. I completely agree Paul. Sometimes when I/we are in public, I feel like a piece of meat, lol! My wife understands, and she also trusts me that I can see right through it. I, myself feel like the luckiest man in the world to be so desirable, and yet have a beautiful Filipina as my lifetime partner.
As a 30 year old I am jealous. Go get em tiger.
do you plan to have any children?
What is her age?
Lol and I just banged her Monday you loser you are delusional. Desirable Lolo? No just an ATM
I'm 58 and engaged to a beautiful 38 year old Filipina. We're in the process of getting a fiance visa for her to come to the States to live with me. I would definitely recommend Filipina ladies to any guy who is tired of the hostile, me-first, entitled attitudes of western women.
So true Paul... Good one!
His story has not been mine at all. I'm an Asian American from NYC, look Filipino. I've been living in Manila for 2 months and have had no problem at all. In fact I literally don't have time for these women. I think your friend simply has no game/ charisma, or he's in the wrong city. The idea that Filipinas want nothing to do with a Filipino looking man doesn't make much sense when you consider that the majority of filipinas end up marrying and having kids with Filipino men
Yes, your thoughts crossed my mind also... So many Filipinos getting married.. How about single mothers? Is that where the white expat fits in?
I'm a Japanese/American guy that is married to a Filipina from Cebu. I brought her to the USA and she is a weather lady on a TV morning show. She tells me that she is always getting hit on from viewers that want nothing but sex from her. She tells me that she will always love me and always be by my side. I'm a average looking guy but I do have status in society. Sorry for the Australian guy!
I agree with you saying simply has no game/ charisma, for in Australia there's plenty of Asian men with white Australian girls, status/money or not, good looking girls too, I work with two, so don't think the reason is race/Asian. Though I definitely agree with the guys assessment of 'older' Australian white women, all big fat, ugly and lots of mental baggage, I won't go near them, and I'm sure it's the same case in USA and UK.
Spot on. No game. Fear of rejection. If he is too shy to cold approach women go online or dating apps.
Excellent video Paul. Most people do not realise that race preference and racism exist in most countries including in Asia. Not only in USA and Europe.
You should see what it's like in China. They really discriminate Filipinas to unbelievable levels.
yea we should pass laws to FORCE PEOPLE WHO TO DATE AND MARRY , EYE ROLL
Very insightful. Thank you for this truth bomb - heavy.
My Thai wife says she thinks your friend would do well in Thailand. She says Thai women are more willing to overlook physical characteristics if a person has money, “and who wouldn’t want to go to Australia?” I was thinking the same thing, really. Good luck!
I agree. He is looking for the girls who are focused on foreigners, which is probably a minority of the available women.
Opposites attract. I'm white wife's Dark Thai. If I was lucky enough to be him I'd be shopping for a white woman as we know are attracted to darker men. But saying that how do you find one thats not a intitled feminist ?
This is correct.
Send that dude to Boston. Plenty of racism, so he wouldn’t get cheated out in that. But he would land a woman easy.
it's not just the money itself. More so the financial stability. You don't have to be rich in order to find a Thai girl. I can't talk about the Philippines. But when I met my Thai wife, at the beginning of our relationship, I showed her what things that we would buy in Thailand, cost me in the Netherlands. Just so she would understand that Foreigners aren't rich, because their lifestyle is more expensive where they live.
Hi Paul, You started this video with a BANG🎆 Your absolutely correct on this subject😎
Hi Paul, great video. I learned something interesting here, Thank you
One of my co-workers summed it up pretty good. The woman does not want you. She wants what the other girl has. Which is you in this case. Women have a competition with EACH OTHER!
Wise female co-worker told me we dress to compete with other women, not for the guys...
Very interesting video, but a sad situation. Please follow up with this guy in a year or two. I'm sure there is lady out there for him, who will be very lucky by overlooking those prejudices.
Hi Paul, great video. I understand your friends dilemma completely. I'm a mutt, part American Indian and part white mix. My first trip to the Philippines was in 1989 with the Air Force. I was told several times I looked Pilipino and few times I was addressed with the philippine language
The second time time i visited was a few years back, I had the same issues. I guess if I was white, tall and had a big nose I'd have better luck with my dating life.
But now that I'm almost 70 it's not as important as it was 30 years ago.
Have a great night.
Jon
@@arnoldjohnson3317 I turn 70 next year and hate the term "at the end of life, little matters" I'm still rocking it at work and soon to launch a TH-cam channel. I've got so much more I want to do with my life and I'm excited. Yes, I know 70's to 80 are the dodgy years but I say, make each day matter and soak up as much of the good stuff as you can.
YOU ARE THE REAL ILLERATE AND THE GREAT PRETENDER !!!!!!!!!! BECAUSE DO NOT UNDERSTAND AND ACCEPT THE TRUTH AND REALITY IN YOUR NASTY LIFE SURROUNDING, MOR - RRRRROOOOOOONNNNNNNNNNNNNN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@@derekhorsburgh6238 My dad is 91 and healthy. I still can't see the light at the end of the tunnel. Take care of yourself!
@@arnoldjohnson3317 My dad is 91 and healthy. I still can't see the light at the end of the tunnel. Take care of yourself!
@@derekhorsburgh6238
Me too, Im 70 and im goin hard, I just spent 6months in the Philippines and loved it
Thanks for your amusing videos,Paul
He is blessed that he does not attract superficial people.
Such a surprising deal. Interesting prospective. Alway great thumbnail Paulie!
Paul, Great, honest and insightful.
Sounds just about right. Morning Paul from an old guy sitting on the porch with coffee in Colorado.
Interesting story Paul. I've been watching your videos and have the urge to visit the Philippines, but I lived in the US for many years and I'm half Japanese and Filipino. Now I'm having second thoughts about visiting.
Go for it you won't know til you get there
If you are visiting, remember that women in the tourist area are different than many in the rual area. It takes time and unfortunately, you may not have much vacation time to blend in and get to know real Filipinos. But if you are in the tourist area, make sure you speak up and in clear English, speak to others and hang out with other American tourists. Locals will instantly think different of you. The other obstacle is other tourist thinks you are Filipino and trying to get something from them. But if you really want to experience with real good people, spend some time in the province somewhere. Be engaging and talk to people. It works, trust me. I'm not Filipino at all, but I do recognize there are some issues with trashy women.
Filipinos don't even have a native word for themselves, they name their selves after a white European king named Philip from Spain.
Look at all of their images of Jesus. He is a white blonde Norwegian man in nearly everything! Even though Jesus was from the middle east.
THEY HATE THEMSELVES AND THEY LOVE WHITE. ITS A COLONIAL MENTALITY
GO! You will not have a problem. Just like all women don't have chemistry with all men you cannot generalize. In fact you will attract conservative and beautiful women. You will run into women who aren't interested but you will run into women who are as well. Experience it. If you love women you will not regret going. Go. NOW. I am half pinoy btw.
Great story Paul, and expertly explained 👏
As usual very informative.
Very informative. Thank you Paul! 🙂
Facinating I hear the comment from travelers in many countries regarding the locals THEY ARE SO FRIENDLY AND HELPFUL.. I wonder if that holds true with loca to local interaction
To a certain extent but not as prevalent when it comes to (white) foreigners. Perhaps because they assume the locals know their way around.
Fascinating. Maybe not particularly related but with my brief visit to Phils I was hearing a nose theme about that the ladies like...if you will; a prominent nose and many like the big gut as it shows that they can provide for themselves and also..maybe them.
Regarding status, makes sense, and also with much too often of coaches, police, and teachers who are mentors of trust but the trust becomes abuse. Status is admired as power.
If I return to Phils, all my t-shirts will be one size t00 small~ buffets here I come minus da napkin!
Great episode as always Paul.
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Wow, unexpected video Paul, but extremely interesting!
Your are one of the best story tellars I know love your vids Old Dog.
Women want security..
No money no honey !
Hi Paul,
Interesting story. There is truth to your story, but it really only applies to those girls that are looking for foreigners, which is probably less than 20% or the women. What about all the Philippine women that date Philippine men. So he should look in those places, where locals hang out, not in the foreign meat markets.
Also, as others mentioned , Thailand may work better for him too.
Hi Paul it's Your LOYAL FRIEND RAY FROM CALIFORNIA, This story is really a eye opener. I didn't realize that in the philippines a man is looked down upon for being a Filipino 😳 OH what a Bummer for This poor Man and I am not speaking financially, but the truth is He didn't need a Woman Like That anyway. I Hope and pray He finds his one true love, who will love him for who he is rather than what he looks Like. THANKS My Friend for the information and GOD BLESS YOU PAUL AND BABY MAE 😇🙏😇
"Half the women are obese." It's absolute fact and you'll get shamed and assaulted for considering it. Also, in the US, an even larger percentage have personalities that are complete trash and think they're being cute. Entertainment personas have led women (and men) to believe that behaving a certain way is attractive and it might be--for one night. I personally have zero interest in financing my own hell even if it's just a cup of coffee.
Preach I have been on my job close to 30 years mostly women due to it being in the med prof over the years the women have gotten bigger and the attitudes nastier and they have these support groups talking about someone well over 300lbs how they don't have to lose weight but none of them are in decent relationship and most don't have a good husband saving every dime I have to move to the Philippines soon!
@@keithadams2368 Ouch
Cletus, that's the best paragraph I've read all week !
Always remember in reality, you are in a big trouble in your situation because you do not have enough retirement money in your very old age... IN YOUR VERY OLD AGE YOU ARE SUPPOSED TO STAY IN SECURED, STABLE AND VERY RETIREMENT PLACE... BUT, YOU CAN NOT DO IT IN YOUR OWN BORN THE U.S.A... The Philippines is the only the place you can retired on your very small SOCIAL SECURITY ADMINISTRATION MONTHLY PENSION... If you can marry Baby Mae in order of Retirement Visa need... So, you do not need to leave always the Philippines because of VISA REASON. In your very old age you are supposed to stay around the Dumaguete parks and etc. and drive a car not balancing your danger motorcycle.... Your best friend Mark Thorton in "Ever Man Has A b*llsh*t Story"..... Ha has less Retirement Visa problem in the Philippines because of her wife help.............. Got it, Mor - Ron?????????????????
In the US, fat and ugly women in their 50s are just as entitled and rude to men as they were in their 20s. They don't understand their stock price has crashed.
Thanks so much for including the truthful types of men who visit and find Success in Philippines ( Black , White , Korean , and others ). Great topic Paul .
I had a great time in LapuLapu in Mactan Newton area in September. I have two great ladies , headed back in April .
Why black? And how do Indian looking men do with Filipinas?
Human behavior is so interesting and constantly evolving. People will always want what others have and try to acquire it. Thanks Paul.
Hi Paul and baby Mae from Panorama City California interesting topic
OMG Paul 😮…. I am a Filipina who grew up in Canada… and I have to say how shocked I am with what you have shared in this video of this gentleman’s experience…. I am speechless and maybe naive but had no idea this happens…. 😟. I wish that gentleman all the best and hope he isn’t too discouraged because I am sure he just hasn’t met that one person that can see past the physical and social prejudice he has faced…once again thank you for sharing this story… always a big fan of your content and your genuine nature when you share your thoughts and opinions on the many stories you share! 😊
Absolutely fascinating
My wife is Filipina and I'm Mexican. Although I am brown, I don't look Filipino and I'm a little taller than most Filipinos. When I go to the Philippines, most Filipino women don't like at me right away but as soon as they realized I'm a foreigner, they start trying to get my attention. That makes me feel very special...
@B SMITH yeah, it's a great feeling, right? Stay safe...
@@AlexGarcia-wq6bu How do you manage to meet women once you're there?
@@mikesolns1364 hey Mike! I actually met my wife through Christian Filipina dating site. But, when I went to the Philippines, just to see if Filipinas would go out with, I approached a few of them and asked them if they knew of a good pizza place and once they told me where to go, I asked them if they would like to join me and 2 out of 3 said yes. You could try that...
@@AlexGarcia-wq6bu I appreciate the tip Alex. Curious, if you went there in person how come you got your wife at the dating site?
@@mikesolns1364 yeah, I met her through the dating site and like a year later, I went for the first time to the Philippines to meet her in person. After that, I went there 2 other times. The last time I went there, that's went I invited a few girls to go eat pizza. Since I was already engaged, I gave 700 pesos to the ones that accepted the invitation so they could go by themselves. Like I said, I was just trying to see if they would go out with me and see if the strategy would work. And it did.
Women like 2 things, money and power. Thats it. Only what you can do for them
It's a big big world out there so maybe he needs to expand his horizon.
This guy needs to head out to the Caribbean.
Plenty of beautiful girls available there just waiting for him.... especially in Jamaica.
Keep up with the great content Paul!!
Wow very interesting, thank you!!
one of the best videos ever. truthful, relatable
Excellent video Paul thank you
Same here in Indonesia Paul
Paul, one of the best videos you have presented in like Forever. I was a little shocked at this fella's dilemma. Bummer for him. My daughter married a fella who is Filipino. Great guy, great father, and good to her. This fella has the money to afford the luxury of seeking elsewhere. I am sure many of us who have watched this video are rooting for his success. From comments rendered ....Thailand might be a logical choice at this point.
When i was single I went on a dating app called "go fish' or something like that. I am moderately successful, educated to Masters level, was in my early 60's, and look Ok. The few women who would respond to my introduction were nice ladies....but in terrible shape. I am sorry to say this about myself...but I couldn't date them if my life depended upon it. Any woman who any of her beauty left had hordes of men waiting in que. One of my lady friends, no girl friend, went through a divorce. She was in her early 50s and quite attrative Russian. She had to shut her profile off after two days. She literally had hundreds of men apply for her consideration. She ended up marrying a guy who had money. She told me...i may not love him like I did my Italian boyfriend...but I will have security. That is all I want at this point is security. What an eye opener for me.
Jackie Kennedy said a woman should marry three times.
The first time for sex.
The second time for money.
The third time for companionship.
Fascinating.. appreciate the raw insights. - WW
Interesting video Paul.
Hello Paul, I would recommend your friend not give up on finding a quality young lady in the Philippines. If you recall Reekay has talked on this and people identify Reekay as Filipino. He was still able to find a beautiful young lady in the Philippines.
Thanks Paul, I always enjoy your content.
@@ted1558 If you’ve watched Reekay’s earlier videos, he do make mention that some people have identified him as Filipino, that’s all I’m referring too. So if Reekay can still find a beautiful Filipina, then I’m sure Paul’s friend could fine a wonderful Filipina as well.
@@Dirty__Dan Yes you may be correct, but previous girls he dated he meant in person while in the Philippines. So anything is possible, if you’re willing to put forth the effort.
Always remember in reality, you are in a big trouble in your situation because you do not have enough retirement money in your very old age... IN YOUR VERY OLD AGE YOU ARE SUPPOSED TO STAY IN SECURED, STABLE AND VERY RETIREMENT PLACE... BUT, YOU CAN NOT DO IT IN YOUR OWN BORN THE U.S.A... The Philippines is the only the place you can retired on your very small SOCIAL SECURITY ADMINISTRATION MONTHLY PENSION... If you can marry Baby Mae in order of Retirement Visa need... So, you do not need to leave always the Philippines because of VISA REASON. In your very old age you are supposed to stay around the Dumaguete parks and etc. and drive a car not balancing your danger motorcycle.... Your best friend Mark Thorton in "Ever Man Has A b*llsh*t Story"..... Ha has less Retirement Visa problem in the Philippines because of her wife help.............. Got it, Mor - Ron?????????????????
I read your TH-cam profile comments. You seem angry and bitter. Perhaps you should give TH-cam a break for a while?
Women naturally and instinctly look for a good provider. It's part of our evolution.
Great video and eye opening.
Glad you enjoyed it!
Paul you and bud at the coffee shop priceless show. Great time s. Sorry I been kicking you to the crib for bud brown pass while. Lol
Pay for play is cheaper than divorce......But Life is all pay for play ....marriage, girlfriends or one night stands ......as a man you will pay in the long run ...and marriage is the most expensive road to go down.......marriage is financial suicide...
Exactly Paul, but you can't deny that status, in most cases, goes hand in hand with cash. I personally, wouldn't separate those two in this context.
One of your best monologues Paul ....
Loved the roadtrip❤
HEY Paul. Another great informative video. I listen to these videos and relive my experience living in Kosovo 20 yrs ago. swimming in women and make a good living. Status is very important when women rate us men, especially in these developing countries ..A lot of them want out of these countries for better opportunities. How is John? Are you gonna make an update soon? thanks buddy .. be well
Good morning Paul and Bb Mae🙏🌹🇨🇦
I have been a subscriber for a long time. This video, wow. I am now a subscriber AND ticked the notification bell as well. Well did video, thank you.
I have a suggestion for him Paul. When he is ready to retire ask him to hire 2 maids that are single. The maids or one of her sisters will fall in love with the person that he is. Just don't be to generous.
Why not nurses?
@@usersubscriberSC He is young.
Excellent story. It reminded me of some of my friends in highschool and college. It does happen. As a Filapino/American, I've witnessed this a few times. Moreover, I take advantage of it so I won't be noticed or assumed. 😆
Good info Paul 👍🇺🇲
Just WOW! Thanks Paul.
Nothing lower than someone who lives or dies based on what fools think of them. Let the trash take itself out.
Perhaps one of Mae's friends from the province would be more inclined to show this guy some love. 😉😉
I've been to the Philippines many times over 35 years - great suggestion, Rod. Surprised Paul didn't suggest this.
Ugly men do better in asia. Especially this Old Jaded Fart with brown teeth & bad skin....
GREETINGS FROM PHILIPPINES 🤗
Olivia says she will take him right now, just a boat ride to Bohol. Let me know!
The funny thing is that time marches on and "what's her name" will age and be past her prime and she will end up alone and lose her status regardless.
Rather short sighted of her to lose out on a long term Aussie that can support her financial status.
Good point. The bloom will be off the rose soon enough :)
ha, she has fifty guys lined up , that was not HER ONLY OPTION
Hello Paul. I am a 70 yo Black/Native American mix raised and now living in the deep south - North Carolina. First, a word of advice - I recommend your friend visit Thailand. I do not think he will ever leave. Since 2007 I have spent time in both Philippines and Thailand, and I find the PI women to be so very friendly and fun-loving and much easier to meet and to bed (just being real - I get the impression that sex to Filipinas is like eating... fun for all and no big deal), plus English is a second language there. My biggest complaint, and what I consider to be the biggest difference between the two countries, is the trash situation. I have stayed in Manila, Cebu and a couple of provinces, and they are all dirty. I see all the time where residents will walk and eat and throw the wrappers on the ground, even if a trash can is near. Please understand that I am not trying to insult the country, it is just my personal observation from spending about a year total in the country. Thailand, on the other hand, seems to be a much cleaner country, even in the villages. They call Thailand the "Land of Smiles" and with good reason. Thai ladies are a little more laid back (not talking about bar girls or pay for play girls, but regular working ladies like dental staff or store clerks or even food or fruit stand owners) and even shy, but I find they are loyal and honest and make good romantic partners. Sex is definitely on the table, but it may take a minute to get offered a seat.
I did not notice any prejudice in the Philippines, but there is definitely prejudice in Thailand. They consider dark skin to be an indicator of farm or outside workers and white or light skin as indicating professional or inside work. It is not an active prejudice like against POC in America, but one of the biggest selling products in Thailand is skin-whitening treatments. It is obvious in their advertisements, TV and movies and commercials - anywhere that gives public exposure.
I have spent maybe six years total living in Thailand six months at a time and I met my Thai fiancee 5 years ago. When covid came, it screwed up everything. Her Visa application has just been approved and I expect to go and get her within the next 2 months. I have been married twice to American women, and after the second divorce, which is about when I started travelling the world, I have come to the conclusion that the only thing an American woman can do for me is give me a ride to the airport. I have been spoiled by foreign ladies. Happily.
Anyway, the main point of this narrative was to recommend that your friend visit Thailand and spend a little time there. I think he will be very glad he did. Phuket is beautiful, especially with their many beaches, but is relatively expensive, Bangkok is quite crowded, Chiang Mai has many cultural activities, and Pattaya is a lot of fun. One thing they all have though, is beautiful, available women who don't care if you look like a Filipino, as long as you have a "good heart" and are kind to them. 😊😊
Also Women are more Tactile and Auditory as opposed to Men who are visually attracted in general
Women are hardwired to find a mate that can bring most resources for her future family. That's why he can be of several characteristics: Richest, strongest, meanest or innovative, just as long as she can control him one way or another.
Like it or not lighter skin is more desirable in many countries. In South Korea and many countries women often lighten their skin either through makeup or surgeries.
Love the pic,lol!
I would think a larger city might be better for him. Has he tried the dating sites? Depending on where he is from maybe a different country like Australia would help. Good luck to him. Is that you and Baby Mae in the thumb nail photo?
Thanks Paul, great vid.
Maybe Brazil, Columbia, or the Dominican Republic? Sounds like he may also blend in as a local in those places too, but the women may view status differently. They are more aware that a “foreigner” can also look like a local. Wealth equals status more in those countries.
Great video love these straight forward videos like this
Even in the states relationships are pay for play.
Or rather you Pay them to leave in Die Vorce Court.
Love what you do Paul keep up the good work when I finally make it to the Philippines I'd like to sit down and buy you a cup of coffee
3:00 A VERY TRUE STATEMENT, STATUS AND POWER
Height is a thing everywhere. Especially if youre a caucasion. While in Lapu Lapu I noticed it. I am 5'6" and I didnt really grab a lot of attention but I did meet quite a few interested women there, no LDR for me though. I plan to retire in the Philippines but its about being able to retire early because of the cost of living.
I am doing the same thing as far as retiring early. Been working and saving my whole life to be able to retire early.
I'm 5'6" filipino and in LA it's tough to meet women at that height. My brothers are the same height as me and make good money (engineers) but had a hard time avoiding gold diggers as well as just meeting decent women.
@@manilamartin1001 the struggle is real. Its been almost a month since I have been back in the United States and I still get asked for money from the girls I met during my vacation in Lapu Lapu. No LDR for me, once I retire there I will take my time and find a woman.
Ooh yeah height discrimination is everywhere!
@@frontendzen4852 🤣 as old as the world. Like Old Dog said.
It's always a transaction Paul, you may provide attention, security, support, future prospects or money, but you bet you are providing something, so is she (the beauty) and we humans cannot get around that, just don't invest more than you are willing to lose and this transactions are fine.
Also, after hearing your story, one of the most important things for women is status, that guy could not provide that.
People have agendas..& Old Ugly men do better in asia. Especially this Old Fart with brown teeth & bad skin.....As long as he has something to hand over....the trade off.
The secret to getting into a relationship is very easy (guy or girl). Lower your standards. If you can't get a date or meet up with someone, you are playing out of your league. Lower your standards, and eventually, you'll find someone. You can always roll the dice, and you might get someone out of your league, but that's like winning the lottery (very very rare).
If American guys did that there wouldn't be any American guys in the Philippines romancing all the pretty young ladies?
@@Downsdddgh It goes both ways. The women would also have to lower their standards to date what dregs are left. Let's be honest, no 18-24YO really wants to date a fat old 64YO guy for their sex appeal. In the PH, it's to essentially get themselves, and their parents out of poverty.
Mark from Overstay Road channel says get out of your house in the USA and date the less attractive women before you retire in the Philippines. Enjoy your life before getting to Asia.
Good evening Old Dog & baby Mae from Indang, Cavite. 🇺🇸🇵🇭🌧️
At least she was honest. Not much of a consolation, but an important one. Your buddy should not give up and should look elsewhere.
He is in an awesome situation, if you think about it.
If a girl shows interest in him, it would be because of who he is, and NOT Because Of His Skin Color or Appereance of Nationality.
If he is looking for a Real Lady to Keep, Get Out Of The Bar Scene.
Plenty of College Campuses with Coffee Shops near-by and Shopping Malls with college educated young ladies.
Near Manila, Makati District is know for International Businesses where surely he can find a very nice girl.
I wish him Luck.
Once again another great video. My name is Bill and I live in Florida. The picture pinned to my comment here is my Filipino wife and I in Manila this past May. You have been an inspiration to me along with Pea. I have been watching both of your videos for 2 years. My wife lives on Mindanao Cagayan De Oro. I've been working with immigration to get her here but I have about giving up on that so I think in the spring I'll be moving to the Philippines myself. I really do want to settle in Dumaguete or Valencia and she's willing to go along with that as well. I spent the whole month of May in the Philippines and although a lot of things did seem strange to me at the time I've realized since I've been back in this country I need to live in the Philippines with my wife in a peaceful setting. Thanks for all your great videos without you I would have never even considered moving to the Philippines and would never have considered meeting my wife. Incidentally I am 75 and she is 32. The biggest thing for me now is trying to make sure I will have adequate Health Care while I'm there. So I am working on that otherwise I'm ready to go as soon as I sell my house
You pay for all women, one way or the other. "In the poker game of life, women are the rake." Worm from the movie "Rounders" 1998
Great movie
Very good story. Having lived in Asia I totally get this. Please suggest to him to travel to other areas like e or s Europe! He just needs to find his area as with his good fitness, personality, and financial means it will click in other areas. Leave Aussie land and he will see his total package work elsewhere.
Asian men do very well in Russia and the women are much more attractive but it will take living there and learning Russian.
I would not have believed that unless I heard it from you, wow. What a story. Thank you. 🙂👍👍👍🙏
Enjoy life where you live and one day, she will appear. The last thing you want is get into a toxic relationship that will destroy you
Well Im Filipino who has lived more in the US than the Philippines. I guess Im fortunate coz all the gf I met are not only stunning good looking, can cook, have a good job and have travelled abroad. A few have cars that they own or provided by their employers. I can be picked up at the airport by her and take me to my hotel. They are from Metro Manila, Cebu and Mindanao.
I'm a fil/am and I think a lot has to do with social circles. I tend to hang out with filipinos who are better off here in Manila. Most of the expats don't have a social circle when they come here and don't discriminate enough. I think it's a western thinking.
Maybe head to Manila?
nice humble brag, tell us about your twelve incher
Black American here. Every Filipina asks my ethnicity because I have significant European DNA. I am swimmin in women of all ages. My biggest challenge is screening out the gold diggers. I am a fit 70 year old. Thank god for trt..
12.000 viewers and 1.338 likes. good Paul...
Cool video Paul! ✅👍
An interesting perspective.
How sad... what happened to personality and/or character? It's your short life and who cares what others think, just live it wisely and be yourself. 🙂
Anyway ... maybe your friend is looking in the wrong places! I know some regular Filipinas here. I doubt they would care. They are seeking Honest and Dependable. Problem is, where can he meet these people? Not in the bars, for sure. He needs to be introduced by mutual friends. Maybe he needs to focus on friendships with people or other guys already established here? I don't know for sure. I'm a newbie. Curious to hear what veterans here think
If a man calls a woman sexy, he is only looking from the neck down. If a man calls a woman pretty, he is looking above the neck. If a man calls a woman beautiful, he is looking into her soul (at least he's trying to.)
Sad story. Sorry to hear it.