COUPLES DATE NIGHT | FINDING TIME FOR OUR RELATIONSHIP

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  • It's date night. With the birth of our second child, it's been challenging for us to find time to focus on our relationship. In this video we find some time for ourselves and share how feel about life with 2 kids.
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ความคิดเห็น • 299

  • @claudettegill8400
    @claudettegill8400 4 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    I am married for 48 years and can't emphasize enough how important it is to make time for each other. When babies come along your marriage gets swept up with the kids, and the feeling of guilt leaving them behind, does come up. I am happy that you all can recognize this early, and try to work at it. Your marriage must last long after they have left your care. You both looked lovely. Baby boy is so cute and getting big. Thanks for sharing your life with us.

  • @yvonneochieng5291
    @yvonneochieng5291 4 ปีที่แล้ว +94

    Such a humble and real couple. Nawapenda bure tu. Love from Kenya.

  • @martinahcharity4677
    @martinahcharity4677 4 ปีที่แล้ว +151

    Am i the only one who notices that Doris never looses her culture and Farook supports her. #kuoga na shuka😄😄. Love this, hope you enjoyed your date.

    • @beatrice8090
      @beatrice8090 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      🤣🤣🤣🤣lol yeah,,, yeah haki manze

    • @ukumbini24
      @ukumbini24 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      True na kujifunga kishingo shingo

    • @janteya8514
      @janteya8514 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Martinah Charity even the way she ties it...👌🏾

    • @faridadikula4228
      @faridadikula4228 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ukumbini24 a.k.a lubega😀

    • @Semnyawenda
      @Semnyawenda 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's very true,lovely

  • @blackmagicgirl7535
    @blackmagicgirl7535 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    God bless this man !hes happy i know ....the wife sooo humble,herself too

  • @zainababdulmajeed9931
    @zainababdulmajeed9931 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I just love how Doris interjects english with her language... Beautiful😍😍😍 And you both are lovely with even lovelier babies❤ Lot's of Love from Nigeria 😍❤😙

  • @ruthnjoki6015
    @ruthnjoki6015 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Thanks guys for always being 💯real....much love from +254🇰🇪🇰🇪

  • @ginettemayas7640
    @ginettemayas7640 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I think I watch your videos just to see Doris smile. She looks so blissfully happy as if she lived heaven on Earth. And Farook is so serene like a vibe or catching the right wave on the board, soaring on skis, or just sailing on the bluest sea. Hang in there. Life is a roller coaster.

  • @catinaumekowilliamskohn
    @catinaumekowilliamskohn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Farook & Doris what a Beautiful Couple You are. It’s a Blessing to be Full time Partners, Parents also still continue to Pamper one Another. 🙏🏽🙌🏽❤️

  • @rebeccanasiche8009
    @rebeccanasiche8009 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Don't I just love this couple, these are goals y'all😘

  • @Phillymall
    @Phillymall 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    This is a very transparent video. I appreciate the open honesty of this vlog. You have to make time for the relationship that you share between each other .

  • @lilianlutukai517
    @lilianlutukai517 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    One of my best videos to date, thanks for being so real guys❤️

  • @slysly319
    @slysly319 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    That was soo beautiful...keep trying to find more such times.
    It's okay to get help.
    Keep the fire burning...Baraka🤗

  • @oiiii3898
    @oiiii3898 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Doris upo so humble nimekupenda bure.... and one last thing you look like my sisters 😀 🇹🇿

  • @naturalcurls1513
    @naturalcurls1513 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I really love this family,Farook is always
    thinking about his family. He’s so wise for such a young man.

  • @mremboblog
    @mremboblog 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    My babies are now 12 and 9 years old. The second born does cause a shift in the relationship again. Now you have 2 kids. It is normal that you feel what you are feeling. I am happy that you are talking about it honestly and openly to each other. It takes time, to find your rhythm as a couple. Stay open to communicating with each other, steal the moments you find and acknowledge sometimes the only time you may have may the few hours in bed. Hang in there. If you make it through this, your relationship will survive.
    Ours are now 12 and 9 and we now have a lot of time. The younger they are, the less time you have as a couple.

    • @kimwanaworld6954
      @kimwanaworld6954 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Its nice seeing and hearing this from you. Honestly its a hustle. Aki nachanganyika now. I am thinking of keeping myself busy here on youtube too. To find my "SPARKLE" Again.
      Thank you

  • @ldailey807
    @ldailey807 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Hi, when you guys locked hands together in the car, I almost lost it. The most beautiful thing I have ever seen.

    • @greklauryn6277
      @greklauryn6277 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      L Dailey me too i just loved it

    • @aliyaahzalia2719
      @aliyaahzalia2719 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Me too I love it when couples do that so beautiful 😍😍😍

    • @flodeedana
      @flodeedana 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yea I loved it too

  • @adrianmanning8287
    @adrianmanning8287 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love how you guys reflect on life, it's awareness! That's very important in life. What happened me bond with my older child when my new born came was asking him to help mommy with the baby. He became her protector and we became a team..

  • @patsystewart254
    @patsystewart254 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Absolutely love you two! Just keep the lines of communication open. Keep working on your couple time.

  • @lilianlutukai517
    @lilianlutukai517 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love you guys, love your style... Simple and elegant...I know Neoma knows you love her, and believe me the help you need is warranted. Yesss... #DateNight

  • @sylviahaynes5394
    @sylviahaynes5394 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I missed Neoma too😢 you guys have a beautiful family and you will figure it out!!! Continue to allow her to spend time with family, until the little one is not so needy.... It won't affect her right now. Just love on her alot when she gets home!😘

  • @jenipherachieng9837
    @jenipherachieng9837 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Couple goals am yet to find better youtube couples who are cool n composed,may God bless your marriage.

  • @marietaylor5174
    @marietaylor5174 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The dinner date was really nice, but it probably would have been much better if it were just the two of you. But I know how difficult it can be to leave an infant in the care of others. You are so right about not putting your relationship on the backburner because kids can do that to couples. But they really do grow up so fast right before your eyes.

  • @angelalumwai6164
    @angelalumwai6164 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Doris &Farook, wonderful to see you both out as a couple. You both seems to be so together. I love to see Farook still opening the car door for you. Glad to know that you are both mindful of your daughter's feelings. Please always consider her feelings, as it is so easy for the older child to feel left our.
    God be with your family.

  • @elainerucker5492
    @elainerucker5492 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Doris you and Farook looked amazing! Thanks for sharing ❣

  • @alisonm3700
    @alisonm3700 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I know a lot of people see you guys and they want to explain your love, which only you can. Much love to you guys, you're so pure together

  • @cheryledmund4228
    @cheryledmund4228 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love how you guys communicate. It is refreshing

  • @evahmuthoni1644
    @evahmuthoni1644 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Wow,, dada i love this lovely couple and i really love ur outfit Doris,, mko smart sana!!

  • @sabrinacaffe556
    @sabrinacaffe556 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    love this video. yeah indeed you need to make time for your relationship.

  • @mariamiller5429
    @mariamiller5429 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    AAAAHHH SO SWEET! Love u guys 😘😘😘😘💞💞💞💞❤️😘❤️😘 stay the way you are beautiful

  • @kimmcrae-bowens9971
    @kimmcrae-bowens9971 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You guys are young and you realize and recognize the problem in your life yes 2 children make a difference but you can also make it work never forget your partner and never lose the love work together with each other and it will always work out it won't be easy but you always come to an end and then something else starts all over again so always continue working towards an end cars something else is always waiting continue with your life as you are you guys are doing great

  • @ericasmith6919
    @ericasmith6919 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Awww so sweet! Make time for yourself and the kids

  • @nyachiromo
    @nyachiromo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is beautiful! Thank you for sharing .

  • @yvonneachieng6742
    @yvonneachieng6742 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My favourite youtube couple. Beautiful both in and out. Wishing you all the best as you raise your family and nurture your marriage.

  • @patriciahasinga9303
    @patriciahasinga9303 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Both of you looked amazing 💞

  • @MariamsLifestyle
    @MariamsLifestyle 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    That hair dorice 😍😍 baby boy is growing so fast,he is so cute,. Yani kupata mda wa pekee kama wazazi ni must I have never get that time na mume wangu tu.sababu hamna mtu wa kumuachia watoto alafu kweli kulea watoto Tanzania ni rahisi sana hata kwenye kucheza watoto wanacheza na watoto wenzao nje ana kuna ndugu wanaweza kusaidia sometimes km dada ama mama kama sisi tunajitahidi kufanya vitu ambavyo tu napenda pamoja na watoto ama siku nyingine mume wangu anakaa na watoto ama anawapeleka ili na mm nipate alone time

  • @LuckyFish3000
    @LuckyFish3000 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Doris has SUCH gorgeous hair! Wish I could grow my hair like that. That’s some serious #hairgoals❤️🙏🏾

  • @halmamudy1
    @halmamudy1 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is so beautiful,its good to love yourself😍.you really look amazing💋

  • @luvlynessy
    @luvlynessy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    If you can get help with both kids even if for 2 hours take advantage, kids adapt easily. Don’t feel guilty setting aside time just for the two of you, it will go a long way to help your relationship. Love you guys. Niko hapa mashambani Ontario Ca, karibuni mle ugali, samaki na terere

  • @ThelivelyfamilyTV
    @ThelivelyfamilyTV 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love that they took the baby.what a great strong couple means they can do anything together❤️

  • @dellafowler1625
    @dellafowler1625 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Beautiful date night, beautiful couple/family. Love you guys❤

  • @selmamukwiilongo3206
    @selmamukwiilongo3206 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My people are here, I quickly have to live another channel to my favourite ones 💞

  • @JackandNtombi
    @JackandNtombi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    *Doris and Farook looking so freshhh!* Cute couple

  • @esternyamoronga5444
    @esternyamoronga5444 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yeeeeeh am de first one luv u guys so much😍😘😘

  • @Kurvekut
    @Kurvekut 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Happy to see a new video from you guys!😍

  • @hilwanairah9670
    @hilwanairah9670 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I admire these family,wow it's good to have some good time for ur relationship

  • @paulinemarshall5226
    @paulinemarshall5226 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You are doing great take and ask for help when you need to spend one on one time with your daughter you are a beautiful couple stay BLESSED!!!!

  • @aprilginn8760
    @aprilginn8760 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    First here hey family love you guys foeevea🙌🏼💞👑💯

  • @beatricebanura5275
    @beatricebanura5275 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You guys keep it up.If you keep it like this you will go far in life.

  • @Aysofamily
    @Aysofamily 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Watching you my besties while enjoying my ugali cabbage and beans❤️❤️❤️

    • @Aysofamily
      @Aysofamily 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      We are going through the same experience with my husband with a newborn.

    • @livingwithliz6827
      @livingwithliz6827 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      My friends think it's wierd to eat exactly what you are eating.. thank God am normal lol coz you eat that too

    • @Kindnessallaround
      @Kindnessallaround 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hapo sawa

  • @rebecabrown8273
    @rebecabrown8273 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    GOD BLESS U GUYS ;love from tanzania 🇹🇿

  • @barbarabarbara8100
    @barbarabarbara8100 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Farook is such a polite, well behaved guy, a good father to his kids

  • @bchings4741
    @bchings4741 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you lovely family for your blogs. Keep loving and respecting each other.

  • @lavernsmith259
    @lavernsmith259 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Guys, it will get better. You will find your rithym. Your family is a beautiful blessing. Hold on tight to each other.

  • @gracemwamuye3577
    @gracemwamuye3577 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Umetishaaa dada Doris!!! ❤️

  • @emmyadema1741
    @emmyadema1741 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love your videos!quality,goodcamera work!

  • @nanamumbua9373
    @nanamumbua9373 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    i love you guys......so cool, calm and real always

  • @winniewendy8390
    @winniewendy8390 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yaaaaaaaaaassssss sis glowing 🔥🔥🔥🌱

  • @halmamudy1
    @halmamudy1 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow.the comeback after baby no 2😍😘😘

  • @jacintanakimuli9027
    @jacintanakimuli9027 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Doris & Farouk u give life to watch so fresh & beautiful lovely couple..the date night was so great I have enjoyed every step u took..thx

  • @itohandannydanny2878
    @itohandannydanny2878 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love you guys and always keep your love and family stonger❤

  • @seriousladywes8456
    @seriousladywes8456 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    You have to make time for each other often. Each of you have to do it. It's so easy to get in a routine with the kids and everything else please don't lose yourself and each other. You guys can do it. It's apart of marriage you have to work at it.

  • @deladyM
    @deladyM 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Natural flow. Lovely...

  • @francinemayomboilunga667
    @francinemayomboilunga667 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That was amazing seeing you guys went out enjoy yourself ❤️ minafurayi sana kwa vile munaogeya Swahili . Mungu awabariki 🤗👏😀🌹♥️

  • @maryalff2897
    @maryalff2897 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes! Please Keep taking Time off together! 😆😊 its hard i know getting the Babies Off mind. The Steak just refuses to go dowm the throat😆 God bless you!

  • @chingychangy2257
    @chingychangy2257 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Great insight!

  • @aggsperez865
    @aggsperez865 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lovely Doris and Farook.That is what I am talking about.Making nice real video about real life that is meaningful to people.Bless you.Perhaps you can do a video of you chatting with your parents Farouk and a short video of naomi interacting with other kids or playtime with her baby brother.

  • @KijoButterfly
    @KijoButterfly 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I really appreciate your vlogs siku hizi especially since Akeen joined us. You both looked so good on your date😍. Asante pia for sharing the challenges you are facing, you will overcome them and may your marriage be even stronger for it. Mingi love, smooches to the babies. Mbarikiwe.

  • @pluffshangazi8487
    @pluffshangazi8487 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love you guys!!! You are just too cool!!

  • @zeytooniddi1226
    @zeytooniddi1226 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Woow maashaAllah I really like your married, you are real guys,I wish I could be in a one like yours guys,mob love from Kenya may God help blessed you

  • @brendinemagaya8190
    @brendinemagaya8190 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I saw your channel yesterday and I just fell in love...how real you are and I love you guys...from 254 nawapenda sana continue with the same spirit

  • @bridgitdiana
    @bridgitdiana 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wenye tunangoja kuingia huko we glad u are preparing us...tumemiss neoma aki

  • @gracesiby9176
    @gracesiby9176 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Guys this is the best video ever I loved it when both of dressing up🥰🥰🥰😍😍😍😍😍

  • @pamelawright2875
    @pamelawright2875 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    So much love💞💞💞I'm new here.. your husband looks just like Nipsey. What a beautiful family ❣️

  • @charitykim8926
    @charitykim8926 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    love you guys,,,i wish i had one happy family like yours😍😍😍😍

  • @mayoussepwezi5003
    @mayoussepwezi5003 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    HELLO DO NOT EVER CHANGE .I LOVE HOW SIMPLE AND HUMBLE YOU GUYS ARE💕💕💕😍😍😍😘😘

  • @tashiekayy
    @tashiekayy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey Doris & Farook
    Aki mmenyamaza sana hope mko poa. Missing you all the way from Kenya.
    Your best fans❤❤

  • @hanaanmohd5754
    @hanaanmohd5754 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    MaaSHAALLAH May Allah increases ur love for each other, love you guys 🤩😍💕💖

  • @sabinawaithira7053
    @sabinawaithira7053 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dear God, Please bless me with this😩😍 For real!

  • @brendakyosimire3535
    @brendakyosimire3535 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I just love it when he speaks kiswahili😘😍

  • @purityamoit8332
    @purityamoit8332 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Aaaaauw beautiful....where is my darling neoma😍😍

  • @raindrops1942
    @raindrops1942 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are both doing great. All parents go through the same thing.

  • @zufangirma5472
    @zufangirma5472 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    My favourite TH-camr..happy for you guys look amazing ...💖

  • @tuonhfhgf1605
    @tuonhfhgf1605 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mwaaaaah!love you guys!

  • @naomiblack21
    @naomiblack21 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I swear your baby will be so proud of you two for including her in your special night date 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😘😘

  • @pamelawright2875
    @pamelawright2875 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Just beautiful ❤️

  • @joymukeywa796
    @joymukeywa796 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    My favorite couples are at it again...Nawapenda sana 😘😘😍

  • @sholahmorena4099
    @sholahmorena4099 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My favorite couples....Love you guys

  • @ngendongigi5648
    @ngendongigi5648 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    😍😘she never looses her African culture
    And farook is soo supportive 😍😘
    Twawapenda
    From 254

  • @Sheba_316
    @Sheba_316 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Some great editing here pips..

  • @annaallen5713
    @annaallen5713 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wow nice one 😘😘😘

  • @elizabeththomas9485
    @elizabeththomas9485 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Time management is very important in everything u do, quality time that's the key. Don't use the excuse of having kids, we need to better manage our time. Make a list of what u did for that day and see if u could have made use of your time better. I know things can happen to interrupt those plans and especially having kids but I think the number one mistake we make is centering our life around our kids. The relationship between husband and wife is very important, remember your children are watching you and they will mimick u. Loving and tender expressions with each other is vital and it will trickle down to your children. Also as u stated one on one time with each child is very important, something as simple as reading a book together or going for a short stroll. When it's bedtime for the kids use that time after there sleeping for each other and individually to yourself to unwind and get your own thoughts together.

    • @elizabeththomas9485
      @elizabeththomas9485 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      TU, I learned this a little late in life with my family but better late than never.

  • @tranquiltingles254
    @tranquiltingles254 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Its been a while since you guys posted....missed you...

  • @ericasmith6919
    @ericasmith6919 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Such a beautiful night out

  • @leenloreen
    @leenloreen 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Doris wewe ni mrembo Sana. I love you guys what a humble couple

  • @hildaaybar9042
    @hildaaybar9042 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You guys look beautiful on date night ❤️Beautiful couple ❤️

  • @viaviamash9491
    @viaviamash9491 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wish u cud know how much I love &idmire you guyz!nawapenda sanaaaaaaaaa

  • @margaretvillafana1031
    @margaretvillafana1031 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Miss you guys its been a while haven't seen your videos you both look so awesome you.al are so humble and simple love to see your videos,this is what happens when you are parents but they will get bis soon happy to see you and hubby injoy your date out,may Allah continues his blessing upon u both loveu guys from Trinidad and.Tobago blessing

  • @blessedwananicreative3562
    @blessedwananicreative3562 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mmmmh naona wivu lakini mwapendeza kweli love you guys

  • @harithatelugu5515
    @harithatelugu5515 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very Nice Couple..God Bless your Family..👍🌷💓

  • @fortniteplus7591
    @fortniteplus7591 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I gave my whole life to the children, i lost love for my life make much time for each other thanks