This dawned on me yesterday. I'm proud of myself because I left him alone when he acted badly but I'm also expecting him to come back changed because my distance would have prompted him to reflect and change and come running to ask for forgiveness and offer something good. When all I need to know he's already shown me and I need to not only put distance but let go.
Gemini sun here. This reading really resonated with me. It's so interesting that the theme of accountability kept coming up. Something big coming up for me in life is the lesson of boundaries, and I never really thought about how one is accountable for establishing and maintaining one's boundaries. Like it's not just something you do for yourself because you love yourself, but you're accountable for such an act to maintain your own peace of mind. I also realized that I need to be accountable for the growth from my own mistakes, as opposed to using the forgiveness from the person I've wronged as my catalyst for growth. I was just blind to that simple fact because I've carried shame and my past with me, not the lesson, as you've said --- but now, I'm here. It's so synchronous that I came across your reading, that your reading showed up in the way that it did, because I truly am at this point in my life where I'm putting patterns down, picking up my lessons, and moving forward.
Yes! It doesn't always feel that way in the moment, but with some time and hindsight it becomes more clear. Some of the biggest tower moments in my life have led to my biggest blessings. I just didn't know that at the time. I hope this helps 🤗
Resonated with me. Lesson learned I had to walk away. I was just stupid. Thank you for the reading. Merry Christmas to you 🎄😊 thank you for all you do.
Allen I enjoy your Love readings so much I purchased personal. I am thrilled to see you share even more of your gifts. I learn so much from your perspective. Thank you. Thank You THANK YOU!!!💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞
Wow, this is the second time I listen to your tarot reading, and you have described accurately what's going on. I have been attached to my last couple, who left me when I got pregnant, I Ignore all the manipulation creating in my mind this illusion based on a narcisist manipulations. I couldn't see. Alone, with a kid and a new born baby, he betraying me with other women, coming home not even to take care of the baby. I was so blind, and I recently I said I knew I was moving forward but I couldn't see, everything around looked foggy. Now I understand, I repeated this cycle 3 times to heal what I lived from childhood being raised by a narcisist mother, a father who left us and having to take his economic role very young. Nowadays I cry when the kids don't see me, cause I feel the burden, I feel angry for being blind, but finally I can see the pattern. I just want to move forward and start from scratch but with knowledge. I'm looking for a job and I don't care if I have to move to a new place, aa long as I can move with my children.
I'm so sorry you're going through this, but you are strong and you'll get through it. The hardest part, you already accomplished... Seeing the pattern. You can't stop it until you're willing to face it. And you can't do THAT until you see it and recognize it's there and affecting you. And you see it now. So many people never do see it, so they stay stuck. But you see it. Recognize and appreciate how important that really is. Because that's why you're going to get where you're trying to go. I'm wishing you the best and sending you good vibes 🤗
Me too ...ended years of marriage spanning 47 years..to a leo. Last 15 toxic..he was sly and cunning. I told him to leave, he moved on with another woman..returned and I stupidly gave him a chance..2016 he had affair and moved out..returned begging on his knees..stupidly..I made second mistake. This year I decided ENOUGH WAS ENOUGH..he's being obstructive. Home is up for sale.
Thank you for the share about your brother. I’m feeling in a place where I’m learning to accept I feel powerless over this wishful expectation .Instead of feeling like I somehow know what I’m doing, I’m admitting this is way too much for me and asking the divine to take it over.
Hi Alan, thank you for this reading ❤❤.. 100 💯 on point.. that’s my Aquarius that dumped me and is trying to come back.. hell no way.. I’m loving my self, can’t believe you nailed it, you said Aquarius. Merry Christmas to you and your family and to all my beautiful Gems.. wishing you guys all the best for 2025, May all your wishes and dreams come true❤❤❤🌹
I Soooo hear you! I have a stepson who keeps insisting he spent 6 yrs in jail and sober for all of it! I saw it and lived it differently and each time he goes back I pray he leaves me alone until he feels his responsibility in his actions to those that care!
I cut him off walked away after 5 yrs on & off believed it was TF union 😒 nope it was mereely a plutonic karnic my feelings were real BUT i have decided to grieve it like a death and been putting that love in myself....despite the heartache i am thankful for the lessons and i can spot red flags right off now
I know what needs to be done... but it leaves this person homeless, like the 3rd parties don't have a place to bring them or they would have by now...I'm torn. 😢
I am Gemini. The opening energy is my ex. He is in an unhappy karmic marriage. He has been tortured about wanting to leave his unhappy marriage. I was his mistress for 3 years. We fell in love, which wasn't supposed to happen.. My ex is a Libra. He told me he was in love with me and told me he would divorce. He did not divorce. I ended it a year and a half ago. I am the other woman he is attracted to. I am happily moved on. He has not moved on and won't leave my energy. He is a married narcissistic toxic player. Ten of Wands is not me it's his unhappy marriage he is carrying. We are older 60+ kids are all grown and married. No reason he can't leave accept his wife is rich and he loves her money more than he loves love. I am never taking him back. This bullshit has gone on 4 1/2 years. I moved and changed jobs so he can't find me. When you are talking about going off into a new relationship that's him. He needed to cut his toxic wife out and he wouldn't. He is too worried about what people think. There is no communication between us. He is very immature. If he calls I won't take his calls. We don't talk. He is moving forward with his wife. She always shows as the devil. He has to lie in his bed now because he likes to repeat negative patterns.
Oh honey... How don't you see ... He's not in an unhappy marriage. If he was unhappy he would have left! He played you a fool an you bit! Its okay it happens to us. My ex narcissist also Libra man
Hun, I feel your pain. Which is why I have to tell you this... This was not a love reading. It was not him showing up in the reading. It was not his wife showing up. This was a reading about you and what's blocking you. Everything in this reading is talking exactly to what you're describing. And that's what the smoke and mirrors is all about. That's what the repeating cycle is about. That's what the mention of accountability is all about. This reading was meant to get you to focus inward on those cycles and patterns so you can become aware of them and change them for yourself. All the parts you're saying are about him and his wife and his unhappy marriage... That's you projecting as a way of not facing the truth and dealing with it. That's your idealized view of it all. And that's what keeps you trapped on the hamster wheel. That's why you're saying he won't leave your energy. He can't invade your energy. It's your energy. And you're keeping him in your energy by not facing this and dealing with the reality of it. He's not choosing to be in your energy, you're placing him in your energy. And that's why I've added readings like this to the help I'm trying to provide. I'm trying to help you see it and face it and free yourself from it. It's also why I shared what I mentioned about my brother. Like I said, him being in jail and can't get to his demons is not the same as him choosing to face and deal with his demons. Which is why he always finds himself back in the same repeating cycle again and again. And until you face this demon, you're going to repeat the same cycle, too. If not with this person, with a different one. And my hope for you is that you face this, deal with it, and free yourself from it. And the first step is accepting the reading for what it is... A look inside of yourself ... without twisting it to try and force it to fit the narrative you're trying to convince yourself of. Because doing that is what keeps you stuck and blocked. I'm sending you love, good vibes, and a big hug. And I hope you can face this and free yourself from it. 🤗
This is an extra reading I'm doing. I'm not going to stop doing relationship readings. But there are a lot of people who keep asking me to do more than just relationships because they aren't in one. And honestly, there are also a lot of people who keep jumping into new relationships when they're not ready because they haven't uncovered (and dealt with) their internal blocks that cause them to land in bad relationships again and again. And also the people who have a hard time getting unstuck from a bad relationship that's no good for them, and keep doing the same thing with the same person and expecting a different result. So this is just something extra I'm doing to help those people, too.
This dawned on me yesterday. I'm proud of myself because I left him alone when he acted badly but I'm also expecting him to come back changed because my distance would have prompted him to reflect and change and come running to ask for forgiveness and offer something good. When all I need to know he's already shown me and I need to not only put distance but let go.
Sounds like you're breaking the cycle, and I'm happy for you. Sending you good vibes and wishing you the best 🤗
Gemini sun here. This reading really resonated with me. It's so interesting that the theme of accountability kept coming up. Something big coming up for me in life is the lesson of boundaries, and I never really thought about how one is accountable for establishing and maintaining one's boundaries. Like it's not just something you do for yourself because you love yourself, but you're accountable for such an act to maintain your own peace of mind. I also realized that I need to be accountable for the growth from my own mistakes, as opposed to using the forgiveness from the person I've wronged as my catalyst for growth. I was just blind to that simple fact because I've carried shame and my past with me, not the lesson, as you've said --- but now, I'm here. It's so synchronous that I came across your reading, that your reading showed up in the way that it did, because I truly am at this point in my life where I'm putting patterns down, picking up my lessons, and moving forward.
Gemini moon… definitely blocked my past.. looking forward ahead to great things
Gemini .. Wow I never thought of that way. Towers is or can move you forward in place you need to be or suppose to be👍🏾👍🏾 instead of saying WHY ME !!
Yes! It doesn't always feel that way in the moment, but with some time and hindsight it becomes more clear. Some of the biggest tower moments in my life have led to my biggest blessings. I just didn't know that at the time. I hope this helps 🤗
Very on point. Healing still.. ❤I am exhausted but I'm not a option! Walked away 3 month's plus!
It's good to hear you are prioritizing yourself. Sending you good vibes 🤗
Resonated with me. Lesson learned I had to walk away. I was just stupid. Thank you for the reading.
Merry Christmas to you 🎄😊 thank you for all you do.
Merry Christmas to you too! 🎄😊
You weren't stupid just had a big heart ❤ sit back reflect what can you take away for future
Spot on! Brilliant reading. Happy Christmas ! 🎄🎁🎊🍾
Thank you. Merry Christmas to you too
Health problems will break thru like a Phoenix not leaving my Devine path
Allen I enjoy your Love readings so much I purchased personal. I am thrilled to see you share even more of your gifts. I learn so much from your perspective.
Thank you. Thank You THANK YOU!!!💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞
Thank you so much for your support! 🙏
So precise it’s crazy!
Wow, this is the second time I listen to your tarot reading, and you have described accurately what's going on. I have been attached to my last couple, who left me when I got pregnant, I Ignore all the manipulation creating in my mind this illusion based on a narcisist manipulations. I couldn't see. Alone, with a kid and a new born baby, he betraying me with other women, coming home not even to take care of the baby. I was so blind, and I recently I said I knew I was moving forward but I couldn't see, everything around looked foggy. Now I understand, I repeated this cycle 3 times to heal what I lived from childhood being raised by a narcisist mother, a father who left us and having to take his economic role very young. Nowadays I cry when the kids don't see me, cause I feel the burden, I feel angry for being blind, but finally I can see the pattern. I just want to move forward and start from scratch but with knowledge. I'm looking for a job and I don't care if I have to move to a new place, aa long as I can move with my children.
I'm so sorry you're going through this, but you are strong and you'll get through it. The hardest part, you already accomplished... Seeing the pattern. You can't stop it until you're willing to face it. And you can't do THAT until you see it and recognize it's there and affecting you. And you see it now. So many people never do see it, so they stay stuck. But you see it. Recognize and appreciate how important that really is. Because that's why you're going to get where you're trying to go. I'm wishing you the best and sending you good vibes 🤗
Tank you very much for your time and reading Namaste 🙏
Excellent guidance, thank you so much. Appreciate your share about your brother, valuable lesson for us all. Once again, thankyou.🙏💚
You are so welcome! 🙏I hope it helped
Very grateful for you .
Gracious
Very accurate. Gemini dealing with a Leo. Decided to walk away. Thank you
I'm glad it resonated! 🙏 I'm wishing you the best.
Me too ...ended years of marriage spanning 47 years..to a leo. Last 15 toxic..he was sly and cunning. I told him to leave, he moved on with another woman..returned and I stupidly gave him a chance..2016 he had affair and moved out..returned begging on his knees..stupidly..I made second mistake. This year I decided ENOUGH WAS ENOUGH..he's being obstructive. Home is up for sale.
Me too....😢
Perfect reading. Thank You 🙏
Great reading Alan as always 👍
Thank you for the share about your brother. I’m feeling in a place where I’m learning to accept I feel powerless over this wishful expectation .Instead of feeling like I somehow know what I’m doing, I’m admitting this is way too much for me and asking the divine to take it over.
Allen an amazing reading. I look forward to new readings with these new self reflecting topics❤❤❤❤
Thank you! Love your readings ❤ Happy Holidays 🥂
Thank you for that different reading ❤
You are so welcome
So accurate resonated greatly. I like your informative easy to follow explanations. Thank you.
Thank you so much! 🙏
What a great reading ❤thank you so much ❤❤❤
Hi Alan, thank you for this reading ❤❤.. 100 💯 on point.. that’s my Aquarius that dumped me and is trying to come back.. hell no way.. I’m loving my self, can’t believe you nailed it, you said Aquarius. Merry Christmas to you and your family and to all my beautiful Gems.. wishing you guys all the best for 2025, May all your wishes and dreams come true❤❤❤🌹
I Soooo hear you! I have a stepson who keeps insisting he spent 6 yrs in jail and sober for all of it! I saw it and lived it differently and each time he goes back I pray he leaves me alone until he feels his responsibility in his actions to those that care!
Great Reading
Good reading
I think this is where my person is. I thought ot would happen one day. If so it would be good for him.
This is so sinking in! I am hearing but not resonating enough to totally let go!
Great reading!
Thank you! 😊
Wow you know me so well how is that possible
I felt allllll of this.
Thank you. I appreciate you 🤗
Yes, I am stuck on a boy in a man's body who has no control. I have to walk away I know nothing will change ☹️ just need to figure out how to do this.
I'm sending you good vibes and wishing you the best 🤗
@@UnknownTruthTarot ❤️ thank you.
Focus on the kind of person and relationship you DO want
I cut him off walked away after 5 yrs on & off believed it was TF union 😒 nope it was mereely a plutonic karnic my feelings were real BUT i have decided to grieve it like a death and been putting that love in myself....despite the heartache i am thankful for the lessons and i can spot red flags right off now
Yep ..getting breadcrumbed
Sounds like it's time to step off. Wishing you the best
Lesson learned divorce is final and I'm moving forward I'm not looking for another relationship
Take some time to yourself
I'm happy for you. Sending you good vibes and a big hug 🤗
Me too
imminent divorce!!!!
I know what needs to be done... but it leaves this person homeless, like the 3rd parties don't have a place to bring them or they would have by now...I'm torn. 😢
Cross watching - most def accountability is of lack on their part
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I am Gemini. The opening energy is my ex. He is in an unhappy karmic marriage. He has been tortured about wanting to leave his unhappy marriage. I was his mistress for 3 years. We fell in love, which wasn't supposed to happen.. My ex is a Libra. He told me he was in love with me and told me he would divorce. He did not divorce. I ended it a year and a half ago. I am the other woman he is attracted to. I am happily moved on. He has not moved on and won't leave my energy. He is a married narcissistic toxic player. Ten of Wands is not me it's his unhappy marriage he is carrying. We are older 60+ kids are all grown and married. No reason he can't leave accept his wife is rich and he loves her money more than he loves love. I am never taking him back. This bullshit has gone on 4 1/2 years. I moved and changed jobs so he can't find me. When you are talking about going off into a new relationship that's him. He needed to cut his toxic wife out and he wouldn't. He is too worried about what people think. There is no communication between us. He is very immature. If he calls I won't take his calls. We don't talk. He is moving forward with his wife. She always shows as the devil. He has to lie in his bed now because he likes to repeat negative patterns.
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Oh honey... How don't you see ... He's not in an unhappy marriage. If he was unhappy he would have left! He played you a fool an you bit! Its okay it happens to us. My ex narcissist also Libra man
Hun, I feel your pain. Which is why I have to tell you this...
This was not a love reading. It was not him showing up in the reading. It was not his wife showing up. This was a reading about you and what's blocking you. Everything in this reading is talking exactly to what you're describing. And that's what the smoke and mirrors is all about. That's what the repeating cycle is about. That's what the mention of accountability is all about.
This reading was meant to get you to focus inward on those cycles and patterns so you can become aware of them and change them for yourself.
All the parts you're saying are about him and his wife and his unhappy marriage... That's you projecting as a way of not facing the truth and dealing with it. That's your idealized view of it all. And that's what keeps you trapped on the hamster wheel.
That's why you're saying he won't leave your energy. He can't invade your energy. It's your energy. And you're keeping him in your energy by not facing this and dealing with the reality of it. He's not choosing to be in your energy, you're placing him in your energy.
And that's why I've added readings like this to the help I'm trying to provide. I'm trying to help you see it and face it and free yourself from it.
It's also why I shared what I mentioned about my brother. Like I said, him being in jail and can't get to his demons is not the same as him choosing to face and deal with his demons. Which is why he always finds himself back in the same repeating cycle again and again.
And until you face this demon, you're going to repeat the same cycle, too. If not with this person, with a different one.
And my hope for you is that you face this, deal with it, and free yourself from it.
And the first step is accepting the reading for what it is... A look inside of yourself ... without twisting it to try and force it to fit the narrative you're trying to convince yourself of. Because doing that is what keeps you stuck and blocked.
I'm sending you love, good vibes, and a big hug. And I hope you can face this and free yourself from it. 🤗
Sounds like my Prince
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My addiction
Why switch it up on our reading 🙄
This is an extra reading I'm doing. I'm not going to stop doing relationship readings. But there are a lot of people who keep asking me to do more than just relationships because they aren't in one.
And honestly, there are also a lot of people who keep jumping into new relationships when they're not ready because they haven't uncovered (and dealt with) their internal blocks that cause them to land in bad relationships again and again. And also the people who have a hard time getting unstuck from a bad relationship that's no good for them, and keep doing the same thing with the same person and expecting a different result.
So this is just something extra I'm doing to help those people, too.
Crap, crap, crap 😢
Thankyou so much for a positive reading❤ x