Chanel Ayan's heartbreaking childhood story | Season 1 | Real Housewives of Dubai
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 24 ธ.ค. 2024
- Chanel Ayan opens up about her traumatic past during a hypnotherapy session.
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She officially OWNS RHOD! she brings the glamour, the attitude, the shade and she also gives you that side of being in a way relatable, in the way of torture and abuse that she experienced.
Yess
I agree 🤣🤣🤣🤣, she’s the nene leaks of Dubai
The therapist looks like she's holding back tears 😭😭😭
That was heart breaking to hear Ayan's pain from mutilation of her and her sibling as female children. Ayan is so right, bringing awareness to this barbaric practice is so necessary. Ayan's abuse waa shocking. I have so much love and respect for her. A Queen.
It is not something that male children escape, in fact foir every girl there are more than six boys who undergo GM. As long as boys are ignored the status quo will be upheld to the detriment of girls as well as boys.
Yes...
She is an absolute legend. Thank you for your honesty and bravery in telling your story - so important. Incredible person. Bless you x
I felt that was such a wonderful, educational episode she represented herself well , she brought light to practices that are outdated and dangerous for young girls, my heart went out to her. She was very brave discussing her trauma like that.
outdated and dangerous is an understatement
Yet in a different comment thread under this video one guy is questioning how you define mutlIa. atlon. Apparently sewing up a female's labla leaving only a small hole for urination is apparently not mutlla. atlon. SMH.
@@Sas-rf9sy it is mutilation as they cut the clitoris off, they believe that the female private parts is only for reproduction and not sexual intercourse so yes it is mutilation because they burn the needle for sterilisation not only burning the skin but causing infections as the body heals
A lot of Somalian women went through this! They are speaking about it. This tradition needs to end! Ayan darling for being courageous
somali*
not every nationality ends in 'ian'
I remember a model by the name of Waris Diri brought the worlds attention to this practice and spoke out against it some years ago. She wrote a book about her horrific experience with it. The book gained considerable attention to it and shed light thiis issue.
😢 Jesus Christ 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Wow, the respect and admiration I have for this women knows no bounds. Wow. She was meant to be here, to share her story. 🙏🏾💗
This was a lot to watch...God bless Ayan and every young girls going through that.
Sarah is such a good person and friend idk why the viewers don’t like her. What’s wrong with being positive
Sarah really is beautiful but I believe her positively makes others uncomfortable. And she should not have to change to please others3.
They consider being mean and shady entertaining cool and good tv unfortunately.
People are projecting their miserableness onto her. I’m a very positive person and I find I receive the same backlash in my personal life from people who aren’t 100% happy.
This is really sad to hear. God give her so many obstacles and is now finally giving her the fruits she deserves!
This is heartbreaking. I just wanted to give her a big fat hug. 🥺
That is brutal and horrific. I feel so bad for her. Hard to hear. She's amazing to of gotten to where she is today after such a horrific upbringing.
This is unfortunately so sad 😞 she's so brave
She s gonnna be an true OG cant wait to see her journey
Omg ik crying my eyes out...
This turned me around on AYAN ❤ I was literally
Sobbing hearing her story ❤️ what a strong and inspiring lady
I’m so glad that she is speaking out about this. She can help bring more awareness to this heartbreaking situation and create positive change.
Ayan is an incredible brave woman. Much love and respect for her😘
Bravo Ayan for being brave, telling your story and helping other victims of FGM You did not deserve to be brutalised like that and all to satisfy patriarchal perversed demands. My heart weeps for you and am just relieved you made it to Brazil. You deserve every success in life ♀️✊💜
Her honesty is her most beautiful feature.
Horrendous, I’m so sorry Ayan.
Female clrcumclslon is such a painful and infuriating topic. It is not religious or scientific, it's abuse, violence, force, patriarchal, misogynistic, objectification and social control of females and their sexuality.
To think this is still happening with many parents taking their kids from the West where it's prohibited to countries where it is not.
Ayan still managed to turn around her life and she should be proud of what she has accomplished and who she is.
Was she saying that her vagina was sewn up all the way until adulthood? She mentioned that she could not have sex . Barbaric 😔
@@christinerostrata7460 yes i think she had the full "treatment". Sewn up completely with only a small outlet for relieving herself. Whoever thought thisfgm up is a misogynist.
It is a religious practice. Majority who does it are Muslims. You’ll find it in the Hadiths. Where the prophet Muhammad gets asked about it and he says, if you have to do it don’t cut too deep. Islam doesnt as far as I know tell Muslims to do it to girls, but it doesn’t also forbid it. Thy follow the prophet and if he allows it, thy will follow it. There is also this part that is called the sunnah cutting wish in islam the sunnah is following what Muhammad said and did. His way of life.
It's soooo sad to see the life of the party break down. You're so brave. Much love Chanel❤️❤️😍😍😍😍❤️
This is so important. I admire her strength to speak about this
This turned me around on AYAN ❤ I was literally
Sobbing hearing her story ❤️
Wow my heart goes out to her. That sounds so painful
Ayan makes me laugh out loud but today am in tears. You are strong gal and you coming out I hope will save a young gal out there.
My heart went for her . Love you Ayan.
SHE IS A QUEEN I LOVE HERRR
I'm not even sure of how to understand this concept. Thank you for sharing this Ayan. Very educational but extremely painful to watch. I pray that this practice would end.
Be strong Ayan and thanks for speaking out about such serious matters. God bless 🥰🙏🏼
It was nice to see Sara move in and comfort Ayan when she showed her vulnerable side. Had that been Nina she probably would've look bored, uncomfortable and unable to show empathy just like she did with Ayan previously.
💔💔 i feel sorry for her, much love for u girl ❤
She has come so far!
Ayan is just a queen ❤️
feel really bad that she had to go through that...
My ex has a beautiful relationship with his daughter and sometimes I used to feel envious watching them and then I used to feel bad because I didn't realize why I felt that way...took me a while to realize like Ayan that world was alien to me...a part of me even still as an adult craves something from a father who abandoned me...u learn to deal with it but the feeling never goes away.....
Thank you Ayan for speaking about something thats considered such a taboo in barbaric socaieties that girls have to go throw
and boys, in fact a lot more boys.
Oh my god... That seems so traumatic!!!! So scary
Ayan is so strong
Wow I cried and held myself hearing this. How absolutely awful.
She's a queen ...talking about FGM on search a big platform was great because it happens all across Africa
Chanel is so brave opening up, but the therapist is not neutral enough or/and strong and patient to give her space to feel listen and safe, so she can FULLY process those emotions
Excision, that's what she went through. A very bad practice in some countries in Africa. It is ruining many women lives in the continent. 😭😭😭😭😭😭
Most victims of that dangerous and silly practice remain traumatised and sometimes forever infertile due to severe bleedings and lesions in their genital.
It is a barbaric practice in all its forms which is performed and condoned in one form or another all over the world. The fight against it is undermined however when the popular but false narrative is pushed as you do here. Most victims have been successfully socially conditioned to feel fine about it. If most female victims were infertile then they would hardly belong to some of the most baby producing communities on the planet! Severe bleedings and lesions are not generally the cause of female infertility, infections which spread are.
@@fritnat i am talking from the part of the world i come from. Instead of accusing me, you better try to know what are my afinities with what i describe first
@@ginetteyamato2554 From whichever part of the world you come from, the practice is condoned in one form or another. My "accusation" has nothing to do with your "affinities" but what you wrote.
@@ginetteyamato2554 I mentioned Americans because they are the major problem when it comes to fighting it.
@Somali Womxn Yes that's exactly what i said, it is not every woman who get infertile but most of them. It is such a traumatising experience for woman genital.
Am kenyan and this practice is 😔 sad
Right its so sad also kenyan here✋ Nairobian kwanza😊
But you should know it’s only happening in African Muslim community. No other tribes do this to a women.
I got friends from Kenya, that a Christians but never happened in their family.
@@luisafrance1635 not all Muslims/not all Africans
@@luisafrance1635 exactly thank you for saying this
Ayan has the IT factor. You cant keep your eyes off of her
In her head. It's. "f*ck these cameras". I love her
Oh Chanel 💔💔
She is a beautiful soul. So sweet, funny & caring. ❤❤❤
I'm really proud of Sara also ...
Oh Ayan, I just want to hug you tight and dry your tears
She has some experience from life... so i can see she really cares for other
A gifted person is who she became as a grown up though her childhood were terrifying at times..
Yup....and that is the absolute truth. FGM in somali is real. A tradition that i feel is very harmful . Sending you love Ayan❣️❣️❣️✊🏾✊🏾
Proof that close relatives be the one to hurt you...parents should be really protective of their children ..
And This Is Way we support 🙌 ❤️! Let all nations know what is going on even today!!!!
Completely satanic - so so sorry for any soul that has to endure this - amazing to put your story out there and start opening up people eyes to this disgusting horror - sending love and major respect 🤍❕
Oh I can really honestly say that I can feel her pain no wonder she is so funny cuz she has to be after experience and so much hurt and pain
I’m in freakin tears
Tragic and heartbreaking 😢
Lord have mercy 🧡🧡🧡
break out star ✨ right here
Hey I am the first one to see this video 😊
J'ai subi la même chose. C'est un traumatisme à vie
Imagine getting deprived of one of the most beautiful satisfying feelings to be able to enjoy sex something God created for husband and wife to enjoy. You are literally frozen and cannot feel anything sexual even have feelings😭😭😭😭
This is nuts 😮😮😮
OMG... am so sad this happened to her....
Wow, so sorry to hear that smh, yes she should help to eradicate it.
Omg I felt scared like it was happening to me I just cant😭😭😭😭😭😭
Malaba is home town, I know Ayan though I was young by the time she left malaba but I know both her parents.
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❤❤❤❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏🙏 Chanel Ayan
So sad. This sorta reminds me of an ancient practice in Cameroon (I think, and other parts of Africa) called ironing, where they literally iron and flatten the chests of pubescent girls so they don’t get male attention. Different to FGM but has just as much detrimental effects, if not more.
What the actual f.
Thanks for sharing this. The social control of female bodies, percieved purity, virginity, sexuaIity takes horrible forms. This is all so ignorant, wrong and misogynistic. Just when you think you heard it all...
@@Sas-rf9sy it still horrifies me till this day. You’re most welcome.
damn Ayan is carrying the whole show on her back.. they need to replace Nina she is so boring and forgettable
She’s interesting to some of us, she gives balance to the show like Cynthia cheeks Bailey gave to RHOA. Not all castmates need to be mean and ignorant.
@@Blindian971 all she. Talks about is fries?
Terrible and to think that some people think this is ok is beyond, but same applies to little boys. 99 per cent of cases circumcision is stupid wrong and cruel!
Ooh malabar is my city
Traumatic!
Agreed
FGM is the most cruel shit. So sad however is so normal in some countries.
Generally GM is worse for boys than girls.
Is just me or would she be not perfect AS a catwalk Model? I think she is very unique and beautiful .someone should give her a Model contract or anything AS Photo Model .
She is a model
@@lilianjowi1754 i never saw her with Naomi or kendall.i would Like to See her and Naomi together
She is not only a successful model but she has an agency. She works in Dubai though so you wont see the ads as easily.
@@thezu9250 oh i See . What Kind of modeling they do in Dubai ? She walks For Dubai Designers right ? I am happy For her . Hope she will get stronger mentally soon because she shouldnt be ashamed From who she is . I really wish her the best
@@feridedogan7653 She also worked for international brands. You can look her up. She’s in her mid 40s so a lot of her career highlights happened earlier but she’s still modeling.
✝️🕯️⭐✨Ayan I really really like you are very funny you make me laugh all the time and from what you have shown in the real housewives of Dubai you are very smart and that I can how they treat you 🙂 you know what I mean anyway am a virgin Ayan I don't use sex toys or touch myself it closes up thank you for letting me speak the truth in how I really feel about you I agree you know how you said you used to be a Queen in your past life I can see it two ✝️
Omfg this poor girl!
The severe suffering these girls have to endure ist just UNIMAGINABLE...mankind ist just SICK
At least there is widespread sympathy and focus on them whereas boys suffering this practice have virtually none.
@@fritnat Typical, making it about yourself 😒
@@Rooooxy How is that making it about myself?
@@fritnat Of course the circumcision of baby boys, often only a few days old, is absolutely wrong and awful...I was livid, when the parliament in my home country approved of this medieval practice...in general it's unbelievable how people are so obsessed with their religious beliefs that they don't care about a child's health...but still you have to acknowledge that the practice on girls is way more brutal
@@tamarakorb So you are claiming that the "circumcision of baby boys" is way less brutal than "the practice on girls". By the "practice on girls" I take it you mean "FGM". The widely used definition of FGM comes from WHO and is any non medical injury to the female gen... WHO defines male circumcision as the removal of the male 4skin. So your claim then becomes the removal of the 4skin of baby boys is way less brutal than any non medical injury to the female gen.. Are you serious?
This is normal in that culture do bad it's bad over here in the west now.
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I Don't Cry sweetheart Me too I do it stupid mentality..😭😭😭😭😭
Why is Sara here during her therapy session loool
If you actually watched the show Sara actually told her about the therapist… and she’s being a friend supporting her so what’s wrong
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Sick culture….
What can this counsellor gonna do with this info. She seems useless in this situation. She wasn't expecting this today🙄
She literally asked about her life. In general this counsellor is not professional at all.
That was a horrific story to tell, but one minute you were watching her being saw insecure and paranoid around Caroline and funny editing calling them both out for receiving comments and apologies wrong, then next minute unloading this mega crime on us, seemed so out of sorts.
A horrible cutural practice in alot of east African countries.
Like?
@@judyneno4492 Somalia, Kenya, Ethiopia.. I'm from Kenya. Even in Nairobi, some shady clinics do carry out the procedure.
Obviously Not across all tribes/communities
Central Africa as well from what I was told by women from there.
@Somali Womxn but I don't consider this modification. This is extreme patriarchy where they have control of their women's bodies and minds.
From the stories i've heard in my community, it was carried out much older women. Almost like a co-sign to show that it's a necessary right of passage for girls.
As Ayan has said, in her community it's to preserve virginity. I've heard others add to that and say it keeps women in check coz it kills sex drive. She will not stray. The clitoris is like a penis, so they remove it😭😭 Can you imagine?
And so that you know its malicious, male circumcision is a ceremony and it's celebrated. The way men are cut to this day globally is the same way they were cut in the traditional African society.
But girls are usually whisked away in the night and held by other people because they know how brutal it Is. Cut using the same razor blade..its Heartbreaking stuff.
How horrible poor girl
Americans who practice the male exclusive form are aiding the support for this form too by providing spurious justifications.
Do your research on mens circumcision and female genital mutulation… 2 of these things are very different. You’re comment whilst I understand how you would go to that conclusion if you don’t know the difference but if you do then it’s ridiculous.
@@kieramcgregor I have done a good deal of research unlike you. Naturally the gender of the victim has no bearing on the suffering of flesh being cut and very little on the consequences. To think otherwise is an expression of extreme sexism.
Your delusional thinking it’s the same thing. Both are wrong imo but female is much more dangerous, much more damaging, higher change of miscarriages, damage to nerve endings, etc while the male is Sam ge to nerve endings but still able to have sensation and feel pleasure, no issue with having children or pain. Both are wrong but you have to stop comparing. Btw I’m in the healthcare field so I have first hand knowledge on this.
It’s just weird how when we talk about women’s suffering there’s all ways one person who brings up male issues as a competition. Can we focus on women issues for once?
@@Rooooxy If you think female is much more dangerous then show me cases where dozens of girls have died at a time. Show me where short of death, girls have lost their vag. as boys have lost their peen. Give examples of girls losing their life after undergoing this in modern health facilities. Where is your evidence of increased risk of miscarriage? Males invariably lose thousands of nerve endings, females typically very few. Male and female usually do not lose the capacity to feel pleasure. How is it no issue with having childrfen if you have lost ypur peen? Even when girls have undergone the most severe form, they generally have no problem having children, in fact they have some of the highest rates! Being in the healthcare field is absolutely no reason for you to have first hand knowledge. I have first hand knowledge too.
It's a shame that she doesn't use her position as a celebrity to be the spokesperson against circumcision
Lol,she is crazy, crying for what?
What a barbaric uncivilized wild animal act is that
Make God your therapist and you will be fine.
We know crodile tear😂😂😂
هالعبده ذي
I can’t with her wigs you got money so where do you get these cheap ass lace front ?
Is this really what you took away from this clip?
@@rosa61217 have you seen her wig ?
that's what you're worried about? her wig? not the fact that she's was mutilated as a child? how insensitive 🙄
What's going on with her wig?
Same as ur brain Its a little off but we look past it
Ayan-go back and mend things with the 5-year-old girl that you were. Free her, and then forgive everyone who has done you wrong then. And the self that you are now will finally be free!
Honestly she’s such a inspiration to me ❤️❤️