I would have done the same bro, I'm Aroace. It would take a lot for me to get into a relationship let alone 2 of them just to be reminded of the first failed relationship by a current partner. I would have been throwing punches right then and there ✌️
When he mentioned the past relationship, I would've just leave and pack my things. Saying something like "no wonder why they broke up with you", I would think it was their way of breaking up with me.
As an emotional person i would have cried in an instant, This shows so much about boundaries when he mentioned about the listeners past relationships just drew the line. He was allowed to voice out his opinion, He was allowed to voice his frustration but it is never okay to bring up one's past trauma into the table just because your frustrated, Both of them are in the wrong I'm not being. biased.
💗Please read all and give me your opinion💗 "About the argument" I know that people can blow at any time when they're angry, on those comments a lot of people say they'd probably end up the relationship if it happened to them but I'm still trying to figure out what should be done in that situation, because isn't it what love is about ? Love, forgiveness, respect, caring ? We all concerned he really was disrespectful with his lover, also we have the information that's not what he truly feels but an enormous error , he was upset and just blew into someone who didn't deserve it. When he realizes his mistake he goes ask for forgiveness and the lover don't forgive immediately but let him explain himself and they talk bout that. Maybe the point is that he is really sorry for what he did and that's why they didn't broke up, their love and the way they were clear about their feelling, wouldn't let all the love and memories go to dust, just cause of an error.
@@whyu-oq3du I completely agree with you and your opinion. Anger is an emotional outburst that sometimes we can’t control, especially when stressed. It won’t be surprising when a person instantly say something as hurtful as that when they are angry, The only thing He can do in this situation is to *apologize* and be *understanding* towards listener. What I find intriguing is the fact that people instantly take quick action without straightforward thinking. Although, I guess the comment’s Reaction to this is no surprise as well, I mean, he instantly said something that could potentially hurt the listener emotionally. (Not defending the speaker here, he was in the wrong too)
WHEN HE BROUGHT UP THE PAST RELATIONSHIP AND STARTED YELLING I SWEAR TO GOD I WAS COVERING MY MOUTH I THOUGHT I WAS GONNA GET PUNCHED GOD SAVE ALL OF US
If my boyfriend snapped at me like this, I would have started crying immediately. I was already in a really toxic relationship before my current one and it absolutely traumatized me, if he brought it up, I would have probably had an anxiety attack. I’d probably forgive him but Jesus Christ, something like this would scar me.
Just a friendly reminder that this is all fine for fantasy, but if someone talks to you like this seriously in real life, you should definitely break up with them and run far away. ❤️ Definitely one for the "toxic" tag.
idk ab you lot but as soon as someone tells me to leave them alone cause they aren’t in the mood i leave them alone. and if i don’t then whatever happens after (not hitting) happens. it’s the consequences of my actions
@@itzray45 no no like yeah respect peoples space. But they should absolutely never use someone’s secret against them. “Fuck off or “god, just leave me alone” is more than enough lol, never bring up anything the person told you in confidentiality. Besides, there was a bubble bath. Insults weren’t thrown by the person so there’s absolutely no need to use their past hurt against them.
Yes. There it is. The emotions. Yep. It's 100% there. I can feel it through your amazing voice. This is exactly the reason i never get tired or bored when i listen to this channel ♡
If you don’t become a voice actor… that’s what I call wasted potential. You are so good, especially in imitading emotions! You’ve been my fav VA for so long. Keep up the good work, I’m sure it will pay off!
why y'all mad about the listener? ok, I know that when I ask to be alone, I like to be alone. But I'm also that clingy kind of person. In this situation, the listener knew that their partner was in a bad mood recently, they were just excited to show him their surprise to cheer him up. It's their love language, their way to show him were inconsiderate but nothing mean. They were both in wrong, but still 😔 I'M STILL CRYING ABOUT THE EX'S PART because everyday I'm so scared that my future (yeah because I'm still single-) boyfriend will break up with me because I'm that kind of person who can be very clingy.
the listener should know bounderies. they broke a boundary for their own sake. that isn’t a loving partner. you’re love language doesn’t come before your partners emotions. so if ur partner tells you to leave them alone doesn’t matter WHAT you want to do with them LEAVE THEM ALONE
@@itzray45 Leaving your partner alone when angry isn’t always the best choice, even when they tell you to. I completely see both sides, and if I were to choose a side, it’d definitely be the listener’s. Trying to cheer your partner up is NOT crossing a boundary at all.
@@notawtistic when your partner is very obviously upset it IS best to leave them alone. idk who told you it isn’t? it’s always better to let them calm down THEN pry them on how they are feeling. not as they are in the middle of it. when someone tells you to LEAVE THEM ALONE. then LEAVE THEM ALONE. they are clearly telling you to leave them be because they aren’t in the right mind to deal with people. MEANING THEY ARE IRRATIONAL.
Truthfully I can agree with both parts. In some cases, leaving someone who is mad alone could make them feel even worse even when they ask to be left alone. In the case of this video though, it's the opposite. It's also important to know not to ask too many times if someone is okay in these situations. Ask a few times, like three or four at most, then tell them about anything you have that could make them feel better before leaving them alone as they've asked. I know that when I feel mad, I at least want company even if I say for everyone to leave me alone. That company and knowing I feel heard about my angers makes me feel better faster than if I was alone. Like I said before though, this isn't the case for everyone.
1. I hate being yelled at and yet I listen to these kind of asmr on a regular basis TvT 2. I don't blame him for snapping. When one of my friends or family members are upset I tend to go to far in trying to help them and I end up making it worse (Edit: being to clingy is one of my biggest insecurities so when he said something about the listener getting broken up with cause of that I started crying a little because that's happened to me before. (By the way i'm not trying to get any sympathy, and yes I know it's my fault for listening to it when I could have clicked off the video)
I really did the same thing this video reminded me of my ex and I later found on our 6 months of dating he was cheated on me with my now ex best friend
Ok. That was awesome. Listener is so persistant and i dont get it why like he says leave me alone. I would be upset too if i was her but still. YET, HAHAHA BOY, YOU DIDNT BRING UP THEIR EX 💀 I WAS LIKE WE SHOULD BREAK UP, WTF??
I’m not even gonna lie I started crying and that’s how you know this a real good audio because Audios with arguments and boyfriends snapping and saying something insensitive usually don’t get any emotions from me but this one I shed some real tears and that’s a good thing also this is chefs kiss just wow the amount of effort and thought out into this id amazing keep up the great work!!
When u said "have u not learned ur lesson from last time?" I felt some pain in my chest and immediately got sad.I'm okay thanks of the ending now.Good videos u make.❤❤
reality dreams had every right to be pissed at our invasiveness, but bringing up past trauma, knowing its mean is unacceptable. they were both in the wrong, and both could have and should have done differently during this argument.
Bruh I get snapping but bringing up the ex is too much.. why do some people excuse it? 💀😭😰 Imagine he didn’t know something about the ex and it ended up going worse, this is why this could get so bad so fast (also it’s just plain awful wtaf 😭)
I can’t believe this is still being debated. Y’all saying that the listener deserved that? You ARE red flags. It is stated in the audio “they opened up to me about their ex” confirming what was already obvious, trauma. Being broken up with because you’re “too clingy” translates to: “You’re too much” “you should change in order to be loved” “you don’t deserve love because of who you are”. That is a SUPER traumatic experience. Was the Listener being pushy? Yes, they were. Should they have left the Speaker alone? Yes, they should have. Was the Speaker rightfully angry? Yes, he was. HOWEVER. It doesn’t matter how angry you are at someone you never, and I mean NEVER, use their trauma against them. Was the Speaker allowed to be angry? Yes. He was allowed to be angry, to yell, to cuss and be mean. I would have been able to even justify him being a bit hurtful. But using a traumatic experience against someone that confide in you with it is Crossing the line in a way I can’t even describe. Because what this Listener heard when he said “no wonder he broke up with you” wasn’t: “You are pushing too hard”. They heard: “You ARE too much” “you HAVE to change to be loved” “You DO NOT deserve to be loved because of who you are”. Was the Listener being too pushy and they should have stopped insisting? Yes. Did they deserve to have their trauma used against them by the person they trusted it with? No. ABSOLUTELY NOT. End of discussion. Edit: Because I just gave up having a conversation with some clearly toxic people in other comments I ask for all of you to stay safe. Anyone saying this to you is wrong but obviously not a big deal if handled properly, growth can happen from both sides if both parties are willing to make their relationship and coping mechanisms work together so that bad behaviour doesn’t trigger a worse response. Anyone, however, insisting that your trauma isn’t real or valid or trying to convince you that you’re manipulative for having emotions? Yeah. Run away. They be outing themselves like the red flags they are in this comment section. SMH.
@@mintmax4707 I am like actually, literally tired. Like physically, like I’m- Just like in the audio everyone is in the wrong for something different. You, and them and everyone that keeps arguing about it and taking it too far one way or the other. Damn, dude. I agree with this side of the comments more tho, so I think I was setting myself up for disaster.
@@denkikaminari6943 I won’t go back to that argument specifically but like, Reddit has done worse to me. As for you, yeah, take your own advice, just ignore and move on.
When I tell you I almost cried that’s impressive these types of videos don’t make me almost cry I do hate a lot of yelling for family reasons but this was amazing
I mean I can't really blame him for snapping. When someone tells you they need space and to leave them alone just leave. Edit : For the delusional people who refuse to take any accountability for their actions and realize that they're not the victim in every situation, here is how many times he said he wants to be alone before he brought up the ex, for 2 whole mins he was literally begging to be left alone. 1) I'd rather be alone rn please 2) I really wanna be alone rn 3) can u just leave me be 4) honey,... Please leave me alone 5) * he started to get more angry* I just wanna be left alone 6) I want some space 7) please please for the love of! Leave me tf alone 8) you're not helping my situation here 9) I can't fucking deal with this rn 10) no you can't sit and think with me 11) can you leave me the hell alone for just a min. When someone, whether it's your partner or a friend or anyone else, is overwhelmed and at their limit, and they ask you to leave them alone (especially if they say it more than once), yet you still choose to push and keep pushing until they break and snap, and then you wanna play the little innocent victim who didn't do anything wrong, then you have to realize you're toxic and manipulative and YOU owe them a sincere apology. If you think the listener did nothing wrong and "was trying to help" then you're either too young and still have a lot of growing up to do or you're an adult who lack emotional maturity and self awareness.
@@turiipipipturi agreed. I don’t think he should’ve talked about their ex like that but its also their fault because sometimes, people dont need comfort. They need space. i know that d@mn well myself. when someone asks you for space, you give it to them. because at that point, their human tolerance is up and they need space from you so they don’t snap-
When he said I was to clingy just made me cry this is literally the reason why I have no friends any more cause I'm apparently "clingy" when I give then all the space they need ☹
Yes cause if someone told you to leave them alone then you immediately leave them alone. That ex boyfriend comment was seriously unrelated and unnecessary tbh.
Nah see I’m conflicted now 😭😭 bc I get the whole personal space thing bc I’m introverted as hell, but at a point I’m like “ok I get you’re pissed at me, but fuck you for bringing up my past like that-”
I’m glad that I’ll never be in this situation with my husband because I will hear him say “I want to be alone.” And I’ll ask “alone alone? Or together but silent?” And then we do whatever he picks. Because that’s what I would want. And I would do it the first time he said he wanted to be alone. Fuck whatever I wanted to show him he’s the important part of my life.
when someone tell you to leave them alone, stop being pushy and leave them tf alone. sometimes people are just overwhelmed and wants to calm down alone. i get why he is snapping. i don’t blame him for snapping but he is wrong for using someone’s trauma like that. both people fucked up here
Him: are u crying? Me: just crying??? No bruh i was planning on finding a sharp object, and saying "no baby its okay now I'll never be clingy to you.. or anyone else"..
I havnt even been in a really serious relationship before, and the one I was in wasn’t that bad. But all that he said really ticked me off and almost made me tear up. Absolutely not, would’ve went to bed room and packed my things. He could watch me leave. He doubled down in the insults, “did that trigger you?” I thought he was about to apologize, but nope! Doubled down and made it worse. So glad listener said “you can’t hold us rn” I was still ticked off at the end 😅
I understand the snapping and all cuz we do sound like we push to much but the whole bringing up the past relationship would not slide, when I tell you my jaw dropped tho. 🙊
Ok but fr when he said "i need to be alone right now" i would've said "oh sure, i'm sorry, take your time, i'll be in (room) when you need me" No wonder he snaps like that when i keep getting on his nerves further 💀
All I can say is that both sides were in the wrong. I had my fair on both ends, when im mad, I want to be alone, but I know not to snap at the ppl who want to cheer me up. If someone I care is mad, I would ask if they REALLY want to be alone or talk about it. If they really want to be alone. I would give them the space they need. That's all imma say, so don't come at me hostile
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WHEN HE MENTIONED THE PAST RELATIONSHIP I WOULD HAVE PACKED UP MY BAGS AND LEFT 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
I would have done the same bro, I'm Aroace. It would take a lot for me to get into a relationship let alone 2 of them just to be reminded of the first failed relationship by a current partner. I would have been throwing punches right then and there ✌️
HONESTLY HOW TO PEOPLE NORMALIZE THIS SHIT??
@Evee E Ik this is completely irrelevant but I love your pfp lol-
@@Sad_StrawberryCat no no tysm
Been there done that 😂
MY JAWW FUCKING DROPPED WHEN HE BOUGHT UP THE PAST RELATIONSHIP 💀💀💀💀💀
FR FR BRO I WOULD HAVE LEFT TO SAVE HIM I SWEAR -
Same.
FR
SO REAL
SAME
When you yelled at me I literally started to tear up. I was like “oh.”
Bro same. 😭😭
Me as well 😢😅😂
Samee
Same
FRRR
“ Oh sorry, did I trigger you? “
Nah these tears in my eyes don’t mean nun
Yeah totally not sobbing from your yelling 😐
Totally not reliving past trama😅😂
Yea my eyes r js sweating
@@Ariel._.276 yeah I’m just shaking physically and apologizing to a screen for no reason
dont mean shi like its anti-dictionary
"what's in the bedroom -"
Ad: "GOOD QUESTION LETS GET INTO IT"
Me: ☠️
NOT THE ADS MAN, NOT THE ADS...
I know lmao 😂
Fr 😭✨️
*faceplant* AD DIE *throws ad out window* All done *dusts off hands* we good now
🗡🗡🗡🗡🗡🗡🗡🗡🗡🗡🗡🗡⚔️⚔️⚔️⚔️⚔️⚔️⚔️🪓🪓🪓🪓🪓🪓🪓🪓🪓🪓🪓🪓🪓🪓🗡⚔️🪓🔫
Man I would've said 'fuck you' and left. He doesn't deserve these tears.
fr
FR
I would have to I would have said it and left and gone somewhere a park, a bridge, something-
My anger issues could NOT 💀💀
I got my dad's anger issues 💀☠️
@@Satanscumsult and our dads, thank u to ours dads☠️
@@Satanscumsult Real I got my mum's anger issues tho.
Yas agreed😢😢
This is why I don't tell people about my problems they’ll sooner or later use it against me😂
Real
Yes. Just, yes
Fr 🙄
SAME
Like FR!😂
the way i lost my smile and was actually hurt when he said "no wonder your ex broke up with you"
FR.
Fr man
same, i freaking cried
I understand why he snapped but the ex comment 😦..
BRUTALLL
FR
@@hanako-kun157 AND IT WAS SO OUT OF POCKET TOO
@@xsvrqx frrrrr
@@hanako-kun157 THE FUCK YOU DOING OVER HERE HANAKO ⁉️⁉️I CAUGHT YO ASS
When he mentioned the past relationship, I would've just leave and pack my things. Saying something like "no wonder why they broke up with you", I would think it was their way of breaking up with me.
As an emotional person i would have cried in an instant, This shows so much about boundaries when he mentioned about the listeners past relationships just drew the line. He was allowed to voice out his opinion, He was allowed to voice his frustration but it is never okay to bring up one's past trauma into the table just because your frustrated, Both of them are in the wrong I'm not being. biased.
'^'
💗Please read all and give me your opinion💗
"About the argument"
I know that people can blow at any time when they're angry, on those comments a lot of people say they'd probably end up the relationship if it happened to them but I'm still trying to figure out what should be done in that situation, because isn't it what love is about ? Love, forgiveness, respect, caring ? We all concerned he really was disrespectful with his lover, also we have the information that's not what he truly feels but an enormous error , he was upset and just blew into someone who didn't deserve it. When he realizes his mistake he goes ask for forgiveness and the lover don't forgive immediately but let him explain himself and they talk bout that. Maybe the point is that he is really sorry for what he did and that's why they didn't broke up, their love and the way they were clear about their feelling, wouldn't let all the love and memories go to dust, just cause of an error.
@@whyu-oq3du I completely agree with you and your opinion.
Anger is an emotional outburst that sometimes we can’t control, especially when stressed.
It won’t be surprising when a person instantly say something as hurtful as that when they are angry, The only thing He can do in this situation is to *apologize* and be *understanding* towards listener.
What I find intriguing is the fact that people instantly take quick action without straightforward thinking. Although, I guess the comment’s Reaction to this is no surprise as well, I mean, he instantly said something that could potentially hurt the listener emotionally.
(Not defending the speaker here, he was in the wrong too)
Same
@@whyu-oq3duyeah
Why did him yelling at me actually make me cry💀💀💀
LMFAOOO
Idk but same for me
Lmao the second someone tells me to leave them alone I'm outta there, so I was kinda pissed at us too 💀💀
SAME😭
ikr- like give the poor dude space man 😂 ppl need space sometimes from humanity-
Same as heck
Exactly !!!! The listener fucked around and found out
Same bro
“No wonder why he broke up with you” NAURRRR💀💀
man when he said that we're too clingy 😔 hurts my little meow meow
Your "meow meow"? We don't judge
@@oliviamota5540 I MEANT MY HEART IT'S NOT LIKE THAT I SWEAR- 😭
Oml my dirty mind💀💀💀
Woah wdym by that 😭
@@cassiocrux185 🤨🤨🤨🤨🤨🤨
STOP WHEN IT WAS THE "Whats in the bed room..?" I GOT A STARBUCKS AD😭😭😭😭
I GOTTA TEMU AD💀
WHEN HE BROUGHT UP THE PAST RELATIONSHIP AND STARTED YELLING I SWEAR TO GOD I WAS COVERING MY MOUTH I THOUGHT I WAS GONNA GET PUNCHED GOD SAVE ALL OF US
THE WAY HE SAY (THAT WHY YOUR EX BREAK UP WITH YOU!)
Make me crying 😭
Same lol
Bro same
YOU CAN'T IMAGINE HOW MUCH I F* CRIED, THIS IS AMAZING
I CRIED ASWELL BRO I WAS HAVING A WHOLE BREAKDOWN 😭
SAMEE😭😭😭😭😭
Fr 😅
I CRIED SMMMM
yeah I'm crying right now as well
Imagine he got up to the attic and just saw us getting possessed by a demon 💀
"no wonder why your ex broke up with you"
Me: i-
my sister: DAMN *getting serious and roasting the wall*
me: *literally dying laughing*
LOL
LoL
NAH-
If my boyfriend snapped at me like this, I would have started crying immediately. I was already in a really toxic relationship before my current one and it absolutely traumatized me, if he brought it up, I would have probably had an anxiety attack. I’d probably forgive him but Jesus Christ, something like this would scar me.
I can so relate with your situation
MY JAW DISLOCATED WHEN HE TALKED ABOUT THE LAST RELATIONSHIP- 😨💀
Just a friendly reminder that this is all fine for fantasy, but if someone talks to you like this seriously in real life, you should definitely break up with them and run far away. ❤️ Definitely one for the "toxic" tag.
agreed 👍
I agree
I would have walked out that door the minute he raised his voice at me
idk ab you lot but as soon as someone tells me to leave them alone cause they aren’t in the mood i leave them alone. and if i don’t then whatever happens after (not hitting) happens. it’s the consequences of my actions
@@itzray45 no no like yeah respect peoples space. But they should absolutely never use someone’s secret against them. “Fuck off or “god, just leave me alone” is more than enough lol, never bring up anything the person told you in confidentiality.
Besides, there was a bubble bath. Insults weren’t thrown by the person so there’s absolutely no need to use their past hurt against them.
Yes. There it is. The emotions. Yep. It's 100% there. I can feel it through your amazing voice. This is exactly the reason i never get tired or bored when i listen to this channel ♡
If you don’t become a voice actor… that’s what I call wasted potential. You are so good, especially in imitading emotions! You’ve been my fav VA for so long. Keep up the good work, I’m sure it will pay off!
why y'all mad about the listener? ok, I know that when I ask to be alone, I like to be alone. But I'm also that clingy kind of person. In this situation, the listener knew that their partner was in a bad mood recently, they were just excited to show him their surprise to cheer him up. It's their love language, their way to show him were inconsiderate but nothing mean. They were both in wrong, but still 😔 I'M STILL CRYING ABOUT THE EX'S PART because everyday I'm so scared that my future (yeah because I'm still single-) boyfriend will break up with me because I'm that kind of person who can be very clingy.
Fr tho
the listener should know bounderies. they broke a boundary for their own sake. that isn’t a loving partner. you’re love language doesn’t come before your partners emotions.
so if ur partner tells you to leave them alone doesn’t matter WHAT you want to do with them LEAVE THEM ALONE
@@itzray45 Leaving your partner alone when angry isn’t always the best choice, even when they tell you to. I completely see both sides, and if I were to choose a side, it’d definitely be the listener’s. Trying to cheer your partner up is NOT crossing a boundary at all.
@@notawtistic when your partner is very obviously upset it IS best to leave them alone. idk who told you it isn’t? it’s always better to let them calm down THEN pry them on how they are feeling. not as they are in the middle of it. when someone tells you to LEAVE THEM ALONE. then LEAVE THEM ALONE. they are clearly telling you to leave them be because they aren’t in the right mind to deal with people. MEANING THEY ARE IRRATIONAL.
Truthfully I can agree with both parts. In some cases, leaving someone who is mad alone could make them feel even worse even when they ask to be left alone. In the case of this video though, it's the opposite. It's also important to know not to ask too many times if someone is okay in these situations. Ask a few times, like three or four at most, then tell them about anything you have that could make them feel better before leaving them alone as they've asked. I know that when I feel mad, I at least want company even if I say for everyone to leave me alone. That company and knowing I feel heard about my angers makes me feel better faster than if I was alone. Like I said before though, this isn't the case for everyone.
When he brought up the last bf it fucking hit so hard, my ex broke up with me bc im ‘clingy’ and ‘childish’
As a neurodivergent person i infact can not read the room
So this was actually spot on
oh holy s*** when they brought up the clingy part my mouth DROPPED maybe i’m too feisty cause that would NOT fly
ikr i’d start throwing hands
Were going shoppingggg~ for a new knife
No, no u stay the way you are❤
Me: *he won't yell that loud*
Him: *actually yells loudly*
Me starts to cry uncontrollably😅
1. I hate being yelled at and yet I listen to these kind of asmr on a regular basis TvT
2. I don't blame him for snapping. When one of my friends or family members are upset I tend to go to far in trying to help them and I end up making it worse
(Edit: being to clingy is one of my biggest insecurities so when he said something about the listener getting broken up with cause of that I started crying a little because that's happened to me before. (By the way i'm not trying to get any sympathy, and yes I know it's my fault for listening to it when I could have clicked off the video)
@@nicknio9836 nice 👍
I’ve never related to a comment more in my life
@@NIGHTMAREDESIRES damn
Him : "where could they be?"
Me : "in the attic"
Him : "theyre not in the attic are they"
Me : "HAH I CALLED"
Yep. We would be broken up the very moment he started yelling. I can't handle people yelling at me.
He got me shaking dude🥲💀 I was fighting my wall💀
the way i screamed back at my phone when he started talking about the clinginess and the last relationship
WHEN HE BRUNG UP THE PAST RELATIONSHIP I FLIPPED OF THE SCREEN
I was to stunned by his yelling to process to be able to do that
I really did the same thing this video reminded me of my ex and I later found on our 6 months of dating he was cheated on me with my now ex best friend
@@raelynnhart5696 geez Im sorry that happened-
@@lizzy.lucky7 they both are toxic and they blame everything on me even though I did not do anything
Ok. That was awesome. Listener is so persistant and i dont get it why like he says leave me alone. I would be upset too if i was her but still. YET, HAHAHA BOY, YOU DIDNT BRING UP THEIR EX 💀 I WAS LIKE WE SHOULD BREAK UP, WTF??
FR
Some people have slow brains and some don't think before they do
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I’m not even gonna lie I started crying and that’s how you know this a real good audio because Audios with arguments and boyfriends snapping and saying something insensitive usually don’t get any emotions from me but this one I shed some real tears and that’s a good thing also this is chefs kiss just wow the amount of effort and thought out into this id amazing keep up the great work!!
When u said "have u not learned ur lesson from last time?" I felt some pain in my chest and immediately got sad.I'm okay thanks of the ending now.Good videos u make.❤❤
Bro bought up the ex.....My bags are already packed
I've never dated someone in my life and i feel like crying cause he said that 😭😭
1:17 He shouted me?! 😑🩴
reality dreams had every right to be pissed at our invasiveness, but bringing up past trauma, knowing its mean is unacceptable. they were both in the wrong, and both could have and should have done differently during this argument.
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I wad speechless when he said this is why your ex left you
WHEN HE STARTED TALKING ABOUT PAST RELATIONSHIPS I WOULD'VE THREW HANDS FR
LOL THIS CRACKED ME UP😂
I both understand the snapping but I'm someone who just tries to help so definitely in character for me to overstep boundaries
Bruh I get snapping but bringing up the ex is too much.. why do some people excuse it? 💀😭😰
Imagine he didn’t know something about the ex and it ended up going worse, this is why this could get so bad so fast (also it’s just plain awful wtaf 😭)
WHEN HE MENTIONED THE PAST RELATIONSHIP.. I WOULD WALKED OUT THE ROOM AND BYE
APD APPROVED
Fun fact: Novelist Patricia Highsmith kept about 300 snails as pets. She carried them in her handbag to parties.
Until we meet again
goddamn i couldnt stop crying when he brought up the “past” relationship oh damn
part of me is apologizing over and over but the other part is calling him a fuckwad and cussing him out
I love it!
I don't even have an ex but I'm crying 💀
Dude got my crying 💀
💀💀
I can’t believe this is still being debated.
Y’all saying that the listener deserved that? You ARE red flags.
It is stated in the audio “they opened up to me about their ex” confirming what was already obvious, trauma.
Being broken up with because you’re “too clingy” translates to: “You’re too much” “you should change in order to be loved” “you don’t deserve love because of who you are”. That is a SUPER traumatic experience.
Was the Listener being pushy? Yes, they were.
Should they have left the Speaker alone? Yes, they should have.
Was the Speaker rightfully angry? Yes, he was.
HOWEVER.
It doesn’t matter how angry you are at someone you never, and I mean NEVER, use their trauma against them.
Was the Speaker allowed to be angry? Yes. He was allowed to be angry, to yell, to cuss and be mean. I would have been able to even justify him being a bit hurtful.
But using a traumatic experience against someone that confide in you with it is Crossing the line in a way I can’t even describe.
Because what this Listener heard when he said “no wonder he broke up with you” wasn’t: “You are pushing too hard”.
They heard: “You ARE too much” “you HAVE to change to be loved” “You DO NOT deserve to be loved because of who you are”.
Was the Listener being too pushy and they should have stopped insisting? Yes.
Did they deserve to have their trauma used against them by the person they trusted it with? No. ABSOLUTELY NOT.
End of discussion.
Edit: Because I just gave up having a conversation with some clearly toxic people in other comments I ask for all of you to stay safe. Anyone saying this to you is wrong but obviously not a big deal if handled properly, growth can happen from both sides if both parties are willing to make their relationship and coping mechanisms work together so that bad behaviour doesn’t trigger a worse response. Anyone, however, insisting that your trauma isn’t real or valid or trying to convince you that you’re manipulative for having emotions? Yeah. Run away.
They be outing themselves like the red flags they are in this comment section.
SMH.
Slay
Imma tell you the same thing I told them.
Please stop engaging, it’s not healthy, it’s not helpful.
Just stop.
Don’t reply no more.
@@denkikaminari6943 Nothin’ like a good ol, cup of “I read all that live” in order to just block them.
Hey, props to you for trying.
@@mintmax4707 I am like actually, literally tired. Like physically, like I’m-
Just like in the audio everyone is in the wrong for something different.
You, and them and everyone that keeps arguing about it and taking it too far one way or the other.
Damn, dude.
I agree with this side of the comments more tho, so I think I was setting myself up for disaster.
@@denkikaminari6943 I won’t go back to that argument specifically but like, Reddit has done worse to me.
As for you, yeah, take your own advice, just ignore and move on.
Dude me here crying over this audio and then a goddamn ad shows up like 'NEW BEEF FOR ONLY 4.99-" ☠️☠️
I love how I can cry on command to make this feel more real 😂
SAMEE😭😭😭
@@salmazihri7069 😂😂😂👏👏
When I tell you I almost cried that’s impressive these types of videos don’t make me almost cry I do hate a lot of yelling for family reasons but this was amazing
I mean I can't really blame him for snapping. When someone tells you they need space and to leave them alone just leave.
Edit :
For the delusional people who refuse to take any accountability for their actions and realize that they're not the victim in every situation, here is how many times he said he wants to be alone before he brought up the ex, for 2 whole mins he was literally begging to be left alone.
1) I'd rather be alone rn please
2) I really wanna be alone rn
3) can u just leave me be
4) honey,... Please leave me alone
5) * he started to get more angry* I just wanna be left alone
6) I want some space
7) please please for the love of! Leave me tf alone
8) you're not helping my situation here
9) I can't fucking deal with this rn
10) no you can't sit and think with me
11) can you leave me the hell alone for just a min.
When someone, whether it's your partner or a friend or anyone else, is overwhelmed and at their limit, and they ask you to leave them alone (especially if they say it more than once), yet you still choose to push and keep pushing until they break and snap, and then you wanna play the little innocent victim who didn't do anything wrong, then you have to realize you're toxic and manipulative and YOU owe them a sincere apology.
If you think the listener did nothing wrong and "was trying to help" then you're either too young and still have a lot of growing up to do or you're an adult who lack emotional maturity and self awareness.
personally this was a 50/50. He had all the right to be mad but that doesn’t mean he had to say those things about Listener’s past relationship
@@turiipipipturi agreed.
I don’t think he should’ve talked about their ex like that but its also their fault because sometimes, people dont need comfort. They need space. i know that d@mn well myself. when someone asks you for space, you give it to them. because at that point, their human tolerance is up and they need space from you so they don’t snap-
i mean that really doesnt give the other person the right to snap at someone
You're right. At some point I just said to listener "bro, just drop it"
Yeah but that with the ex was a bit..meh. like think that ur lover sayes that in ur face. How would u reakt?
all i can say is DAMN both that ex comment and ur VA work blowed my mind
LMAO THE EX PART THAT WAS SO TRUE I CANNOT😭
When he said I was to clingy just made me cry this is literally the reason why I have no friends any more cause I'm apparently "clingy" when I give then all the space they need ☹
THE MOMENT HE STARTED CURSING I WAS LIKE 😦😟🫢😰
No, when you said something about being to clingy and my ex breaking up with me that hit hard.
We fr are really annoying I totally understand the snapping💀
yea- i do think the ex comment was as unnecessary- but i totally understand- as someone who has anger issues, ive done worse
Yes cause if someone told you to leave them alone then you immediately leave them alone. That ex boyfriend comment was seriously unrelated and unnecessary tbh.
Nah see I’m conflicted now 😭😭 bc I get the whole personal space thing bc I’m introverted as hell, but at a point I’m like “ok I get you’re pissed at me, but fuck you for bringing up my past like that-”
True tho...
I’m glad that I’ll never be in this situation with my husband because I will hear him say “I want to be alone.” And I’ll ask “alone alone? Or together but silent?” And then we do whatever he picks. Because that’s what I would want. And I would do it the first time he said he wanted to be alone. Fuck whatever I wanted to show him he’s the important part of my life.
I would be like "so what I'm clingy you signed up for this when you started dating me I'm not stuck with you your stuck with me"
That’s toxic
@@SparklingGlitterCookie 😂 it's toxic but true
Why did I bawl my eyes out at the past relationship part?- I NEVER WAS IN A RELATIONSHIP BEFORE- 😭💀
I don't blame him but bring up someone's past relationship is just to much
when someone tell you to leave them alone, stop being pushy and leave them tf alone. sometimes people are just overwhelmed and wants to calm down alone. i get why he is snapping. i don’t blame him for snapping but he is wrong for using someone’s trauma like that. both people fucked up here
when he no wonder why he broke up with you
me singing dumb way's to die 😂
Ohhhhh the second he yells at me like that I’ll leave!!
Momma taught me better not to stay 😹
Him: are u crying?
Me: just crying??? No bruh i was planning on finding a sharp object, and saying "no baby its okay now I'll never be clingy to you.. or anyone else"..
😂 fr tho i know ill try to do that😅😂
OK BUT I KEPT ON SAYING FUCK YOU TO HIM AND LAUGHING MY HEAD OF THE ENTIRE TIME-
Bro just because you brought up the past relationship, yes, yes I would’ve jumped through the attic floor
I love the acting, I cried a little hahahs I hope you get more recognition soon because your work is amazing!
I havnt even been in a really serious relationship before, and the one I was in wasn’t that bad. But all that he said really ticked me off and almost made me tear up. Absolutely not, would’ve went to bed room and packed my things. He could watch me leave. He doubled down in the insults, “did that trigger you?” I thought he was about to apologize, but nope! Doubled down and made it worse. So glad listener said “you can’t hold us rn” I was still ticked off at the end 😅
2:00 MY JAW DROPPED 😭
ikr like god d@mn- 😂
Same 😭
Fr
I hate being yelled at it makes me flinch, but I like da video ^-^ 😁
Love the angst in this one!
LMAOO THE WHOLE TIME I HAD MY HAND ON MY MOUTH LIKE “ DAMNNNN “ AND I KEPT COUGHING AND LAUGHING
I feel like i would be out the front door after he yelled at me😭
The fact that I flinched when he yelled-
Same
"no wonder why he broke up with u"
:(
Hot damn this was amazing!! The delivery of emotions is incredible. Keep up the amazing work 👏
NOT ME LISTENING TO THIS AND SMILING FOR SOME REASON😭 (is it just me or... )?
No oddly its me too
I understand the snapping and all cuz we do sound like we push to much but the whole bringing up the past relationship would not slide, when I tell you my jaw dropped tho. 🙊
can i ask for a bad ending version lmao😂
😂
Ok but fr when he said "i need to be alone right now" i would've said "oh sure, i'm sorry, take your time, i'll be in (room) when you need me"
No wonder he snaps like that when i keep getting on his nerves further 💀
Him: You’re smaller than me.
Me being 5’2 and being 16 years old: For f*cks sake-
I might have heard this script somewhere but I love the acting!
@Waniya SM. 🌹 oh okay I’m sorry
yeah
i listen to arguing and yelling audios knowing it triggers me and every time i just cry 😭
He literally started yelling and I flinch covering my eyes...I don't know why my eyes
man the first line of him being angry woulda had me gone 🚪🏃♀️💨..
All I can say is that both sides were in the wrong. I had my fair on both ends, when im mad, I want to be alone, but I know not to snap at the ppl who want to cheer me up. If someone I care is mad, I would ask if they REALLY want to be alone or talk about it. If they really want to be alone. I would give them the space they need. That's all imma say, so don't come at me hostile
Im sorry but i could not stop laughing at "They know I love bubble baths... 💔💔🥺🥺😞😞"
*sniff* nah bro I'm not crying..*sniff* ...I'm cosplaying as a waterfall-
Naww when he brought up the last boyfriend i would have up and died, thank you