My uncle told me 10 years ago that "the older you get your circle of friends will get smaller and that is kool because you know who is true and genuine"
Tommy i agree with you. It's a shame that we are the only race in this country that does this tearing down of our own. I feel your pain brother, stay strong and steady on your course in life. I for one am proud of you and know that some of us are with you.
Your uncle is smart Jafaar. I'm 46. Got my husband and 4 ladies I'd walk on hot coals for and they'd do the same for me. Keeping my circle small like your uncle said has worked well for me. Great comment!
Its lonely at the top Tommy..when you get to a certain level of success you got to watch your back, can't trust no one but God. Its best to pray about people before you deal with them.
This video from Tommy Sotomayor was from his heart. It simply shows that black unity among us still doesn't amount to shit. The crabs-in-the-barrel mentality continues to thrive in the so-called black community.
Don't really understand your question, the idea is for man to acquires things on his own, no correction, what the Almighty has blessed him with. With that, he can turn around and help others.
William Mason Well then I guess that is just his choice but my point is why care about someone who doesn't give a dam about you but anyway I'll leave it at that.
Amen.... I also had loser friends with no lives, who tried to copy pretty much everything I did, then try to make fun of me for doing what I do, then turn around and do the same thing.... They weren't black, well one of them was, but natural born losers come in all colors shapes and sizes.
Your own family will resent you for what you do for them. You want to help someone, just help yourself. Wether it's money or a ride or whatever. They will not appreciate it the way you think they will. If you have a heart that wants to help others just know that they do not have the same heart as you
I’m sorry you have so many fake ppl around you. Envy is the worst trait. But you cannot help the gift that you have. Like you said, it’s natural for you. You’re no faker and you’ve seriously been talking about this since, FOREVER. And I love you for your truth. Please Stay positive Tommy.
i understand and here is why! I was raised in foster care and boys homes up till i graduated and then went into the marines. I was injured and had to get out before my 6 years. After i got out i got married had kids and went to work for the power company. I worked my butt off for several years, harder then i can describe. I only made just enough to get by and times was always hard. My x decided she had enough of struggling and left, things got worse for me trying to pay for child support and not getting by. I decided to use my school military benefits, i struggled for 8 years in and out of school and jobs. > Now my life is different, i have two masters A amazing job with un limited opportunities. Now i have a house at the beach and one in the mountains, i went back to school and got my pilots license and bought a private jet. I find myself in a world where i struggled to get where i am and the people around me wanting a hand out. I find out i am alone in a world full of wolfs trying to find a sheep to pray on. >
Dear Tommy; I am white and no I also don't have many friends, a lot of acquaintances, but no real friends. This is because I believe that the words Friend and love have very special meanings and most people seem to not know the real meanings. Nowadays words are misused so many times that the different meaning take over while the real meanings are lost. I mentioned that I am white because there was a time that if one said "some of my best friends are" I was put down as a BSer. To really have and be a real friend transcends what it really means. For me it meant that I would do anything for that person, stick by them through the good and bad times. Perhaps only those that served under bad times would understand, but for me it is a life style, being true to others. just as saying I love someone that I have made a commitment to them now and forever, be there for them when they need you. What you do out of true friendship to / for someone elevates one weather or nt they return the thoughts. Do not feel bad for yourself but for those that don't appreciate your actions, just move on and forget their ignorance, it's just who they are. One does not acquire friends, they just become one. The world is full of want-a-bes and will always that way. You get what you work for and nothing else. If you don't stand up for yourself who will, be true to your self and the hell with the others, there are many people out there who deserve the best of thoughts while the others will languish alone and in obscurity. The friends one gets earn you, not the other way around. Respectfully.......
Tommy, be yourself. The reason why they want to copy you is because of the bad decisions they make in their life. They beg for money because of laziness, and envy. You set a good example by being human. Keep up the good work. You are making a good difference in this world.
People like to take advantage when they see someone that is generous. It's important to realize that people are selfish and that they behave this way because of flaws in their character, not in yours. Being a generous person, I had to accept that people are assholes and often times very undeserving of the favors that others do for them.
You’re an insightful, intelligent man! I agree that sometimes, there is a time to call out the nonsense. However, I would suggest you don’t allow it to consume you, it waters down the good work your doing. Stay on point, stay on mission, I believe your impact on the world is much bigger than even you realize!! Aim higher, think bigger, your message is growing and evolving. It’s going to impact many lives in ways you can’t imagine. Keep fighting the good fight Tommy 😘🙏🏻
This is so true! When did we stop being original and start just copying off of eachother? I notice that even among us women. You just have to be careful who you allow in your personal space at all times. Reminds me of that O'jays song that goes : "They smile in your face all the while they want to take your place" they're backstabbers uh hum...
Tommy, you're fcn' awesome. You've provided me more entertainment and thought provoking discussion than any "friend" I have. Don't ever forget that when you have that type of affect on people, on other men that have been through a struggle similar to yours, you are the wealthiest man on Earth - please don't ever forget that. And most importantly, THANK YOU
You're a cool and wise man mr.tommy..I understand exactly what you saying . people also never remember the many times you help them but the one time you don't. When you have money and or power most people surrounding you want a piece of what you have...I like you Tommy, but I couldn't be friends with you either because I would feel awkward being of lower status and education than you. .lol .btw,many will celebrate your success but rejoice if you fail more. . I'm blabbering. Good luck bro
I am a 65yr old African-American woman.I have a daughter your age Tommy.You are not the only person,that this is happening to.Many people are narcissist.The narcissist”COVETS!”These people spend their whole life wanting what other people have.My advice to you is to never,ever underestimate a person’s motive.Envy is real.Envy will destroy.Don’t take it to heart.My family and I have gone through this.Our people are very greedy.You will not be able to reason with them.Jesus went through this,and so will we.
WHEN YOUR MOVIE COMES OUT WATCH WHAT HAPPENS YOUR HEART IS REAL YOU WON'T EVER FAIL AND THAT IS TRUE TOMMY KEEP ON DOING YOU THAT'S ALL.YOU ARE BLESSED.AND NO ONE CAN TAKE THAT FROM YOU.PEACE TOMMY
Beverly Jones no seriously no movie coming out. He even said it in facebook. Ringotvraw exposed him and even did a fatherless america himself in 2 days free, with no money.
PEACE BE WITH YOU TOMMY YOU HAVE A GOOD HEART.DO NOT LET NO ONE STEAL YOUR JOY.YOUR JOY SHOWS EVERYDAYWHEN YOU MAKE A SMILE ON SOMEONE WHOS SAD FACE. YOU HAVE FOR ME.THANK YOU GOD BLESS YOU TOMMY A BRIGHTER DAY IS RIGHT BEHIND YOU TURN AROUND. PEACE FROM THE HEART TOMMY.
Tommy thanks for being the way you are, i'v been looking at a couple of videos and i learn alot from hearing you out, but only people with comment sence get it.
Idk who you are, but I feel ya man. I don't consider this a black only problem but a fallen human problem. 10th Commandment: "Thou shalt not covet ANYTHING that is thy neighbors." ENVY is a nasty thing. They nasty.
Crabs in a barrel syndrome Tommy. But we're living in a day and age where it's just easier for people to imitate and it's looked at as being okay. No one wants to "work" on or for something anymore. Originality has gone by the wayside. Someone in your position needs to start keeping people at arm's length. You're probably the most popular TH-camr out here (speaking on the topics you speak on) and have been for a minute. And based on your personality, you're not a loner by nature; but there's nothing wrong with being by yourself. Remember: Great men can stand alone. DTA, man...DTA.
sincitydude I feel you. Some brothers I met were cool but many,sadly,were pretty fucked up.Same for some black women.Thieving,conniving,backstabbing,lying,full of attitude,thuggish.It's really unfortunate but there it is.You,brother,are doing the right thing.Keep your circle of friends diverse.Kick it with people you trust regardless of color or ethnicity.That's how you attain peace of mind.
the title says it all bro. my own brother has smoked weed and never worked a day in his life and is 40. he lives in my mother's basement and hates me for what I have built for myself. I can't even have dinner with him because of his jealousy. it's a rift. he wants what I have but none of the hard work bro. when people have envy they can't be trusted. I have friends who have more and less than me but none envious or from what I can tell envious
you right about that brother Tommy speaking at truth I'm enjoying it brother you speak what's on my mind thank you for Translating that Translate stay strong stay safe my brother signing out Bogalusa bulldog
A lesson is to be learnt in this video to all Y'ALL who's watching this is that this is what happens when you do too much for certain people in life and the more you do for them is the less they appreciate it.
Hey Tommy dont be upset, I will be you friend and wont be a backstaber, you keep it real. If you need my to tell my story about the child support for your doc, I am willing to tell my side.
I truly understand how you feel Tommy. Me myself is a very solo brother. Come like a man and get treated as such. Come like a simp and get treated as such. I'm all for helping and building a Foundation for black men. But there's very few I will work with it. Sometimes you just got to step back and let suckers be suckers.
I don’t always agree with your views, but I continue to listen because you think for yourself and you challenge me to see other perspectives. Keep speaking your mind. I’m sorry to hear about your false friends.
You can't be friends with anyone because you live in self loathing and project your anger onto others. Other people aren't the problem, YOU are and until YOU change the way YOU think it will only get worse.
Wayne Barton Competition can push us to be our best. This is one of the higher precepts we can learn from sports for example, and it is true in business as well. That doesn't mean it can't be applied in unhealthy ways, but competition is not always a bad thing. What is in your heart, that makes the difference.
justwannasharevideo The real true individuals are already CHAMPIONS meaning that they have already proved themselves to be the best and my philosophy about just that is what NEED of any competition when you've already won and beaten the game.
justwannasharevideo What is TRULY in my heart is to just strive to be the best that I can be in fufiling MY OWN DESTINY and walk my own path of life as well as live behind my own TRUTH as a real MGTOW man.
Wayne Barton it is awesome to be your best, but history has shown a tendency to not realize our best ability until pushed by competition. Many times something has been deemed impossible, until some one shows it is possible, then shortly after, many people are able to do what was once thought impossible. It is fine for you to feel you need nothing else but yourself as a measuring stick, but it wrong to judge others for forging themselves in the crucible of competition. Iron sharpens iron, and history is full of lessons.
justwannasharevideo I'm not here to judge others simply because I don't know what their story is and why would I judge someone when I don't even know them from Adam? As for life's history being full of lessons when then you just live and then learn some more. A true point in iron sharpens iron just like they say about one hand washes the other.
Continue your work tommy.as a race we need to recognize that weeds in the garden need to be stamped out.only the aware recognizes this.i have childhood friends that have tried to defame me just because i decided to leave a small southern town because i knew that a whole world was out there to to discover and be a productive human being.i return home from time to time and just because of my financial success, i have been accused of being a killer for hire, drug kingpin, etc.you get the picture.i moved my family to avondale arizona and i will never return to the south due to this.
Tommy, I feel your pain! I have no friends at all and the ones that I had thought was my friends just did it to take my business from me. You are a smart young man, keep your head up as I will be pulling for you.
You’re amazing and I LOVE TRUTH!! I’ve watched you on Crowder and Stefan and you’re so honest and unique!! I’m a fan and ALWAYS rooting for your success! Frankly, I’m one of MANY! You’re awesome and you won’t lose followers!! ❤️
You'd make a good teacher. Today is the opening for the Black Panther movie in the US. Why do people hold up a comic character as a cultural hero ? Because a comicbook character will be who you want it to be. It won't disagree with you. It won't outsmart you. And it won't speak up to personal critism.
DAAAMMMNN that's your garage. No wonder you get niggas hating on you. As a black man I am proud of and happy for you. Keep representing 😎 #BlackMen4Trump
They can't be you Tommy no matter how hard they try. I can't stand listening to the lisp of THE ADVISE SHOW his views ride the fence. He can't decide where he stands from one day to the next.
Tommy YOU ARE AN ORIGINAL!!! To hell with those losers. You are the BEST!!! Keep doing what you do Tommy, that's why we love you.💞💞💞💞💞 You want to be accepted by the WRONG GROUP OF INDIVIDUALS (NIGGAS) And it is very easy to do. My dad told me something one day that really crushed my heart. He told me that everyone is NOT going to like me. For years I struggled with why everyone doesn't like me. And when I started TRULY LIKING MYSELF (about 10 years ago) I have NOT LOOKED BACK. You have got this babe don't let these knockoffs stop your stride now. Your grandmother told you many many moon's ago.... You have an old soul who can make people laugh and listen. Those loopy ass Quacker Jacks can't touch your shine🌞🌞🌞🌞🌞 Oh and P.S. YES YOU HAVE EVERY RIGHT TO SAY IT. AND TELL US WHO THE FOUL MF'S ARE!!!
That's right Tommmysotomayor because you can't be friends with your ENEMIES and also you can NEVER mix the RIGHTEOUS with the UNRIGHTEOUS just like you can't polish a turd or shit don't stink.
Mr.Sotomayor...you are an amazing young man,for your age-this is considering what you were exposed to as a young soul.Thank-you for being a beacon of truthful perspective,that which is in dire need to the American public.Regardless,of the"dis-ingenuity" you may be confronted with in your field of work,continue forward with your endeavor,for it is needed.
YOUR GRANDMOTHER NEVER LIED, FACT. YOU DO HAVE A FRIEND IN ME, WE JUST HAVEN'T MET YET. JUST HOLD ON THE TIME IS COMING. MUCH 💘 MY DEAR TOMMY...ASHAY...
I don't know you, you don't know me but you seem like a good Father an a good Man. I Respect that! God Bless you and your girls. Good luck SMILE your the better person than any of these asshats😎🕆🕊❣
We have a lot in common , not much with the haters but with the personalities qualities you stated in the beginning but I’m broke lol would love to have a mentor like you , if I did probably my business wouldn’t hey so shit atm lol
Integrity... Is a problem to those that lack it. Its not a passive thing but a conscious active decision. The problem... Immature values pushed at adult strength...
Tommy, I'm so sorry this has happened to you. It's bad enough for someone to stab you in the back - but when you help them first, even think of them as a friend and they do this.....it's gut wrenching hard. . Just KNOW --- Karma is a BITCH....and we all get served exactly what we deserve! Keep your eyes UP....God will guide you through this....I love your channel! :)
Dood you are an amazing human being and i hope you nothing but the BEST in life. You may have some fake ex friends, but you have true admirerers at your beck and call. And may the force be with you.
Note,what Mr.Sotomayor said..."YOU CAN'T BE FRIENDS WITH SOMEONE WHO WANTS(TO TAKE)YOUR LIFE".This reflects those who represent Special Interests,Racial Supremacists and Zio-Collectivists.I'm pretty sure others can present more categories,but the aforementioned three(3)categories are my thoughts.Tommy,it seems that the problem your competitors have against you is the fact that you are creative and you have perspective,or vision...these are what's definitely missing in the general population of the African Americans.Stay your course,young man.You are definitely a trailblazer.
You should tell brotha derrick you didn't grow up in a tough neighbourhood cause he thinks you grew up in the mean streets n fought all the time heavy got a man crush on you
Tommy, I know the fucking feeling man, you have to keep doing you and say fuck these mofos. I know it's not easy when thinking about the time you have invested into helping other grow, but that's just one of those fucked up realities in life we all face and only those who let it take over their lives will get sucked into the whirlpool of failure. Fuck them, do you, the faster you move on, the faster you can get to making these streets safer again. You're fucking batman, with your awesome equiptmen, and look at that bad ass car, you're fucking batman saving the world dude, come on. lol
covet & envy, Tommy-it S U C K S!!! Most "friends" I've scraped off always had an angle, always telling a sob story and would take money off me KNOWING I was struggling and I only would find out later I'm just that soft hearted guy to steal on. They find another and keep on goin...........I'll never understand this greed and covetousness and how people can be like that and sleep at night. But they do, man-they do
My uncle told me 10 years ago that "the older you get your circle of friends will get smaller and that is kool because you know who is true and genuine"
D. Jaafar shit man I'm 26 and my crew consist of 1.
D. Jaafar this is why having reams of "friends" on Facebook is shallow and lame-o.
Tommy i agree with you. It's a shame that we are the only race in this country that does this tearing down of our own. I feel your pain brother, stay strong and steady on your course in life. I for one am proud of you and know that some of us are with you.
Your uncle is smart Jafaar. I'm 46. Got my husband and 4 ladies I'd walk on hot coals for and they'd do the same for me. Keeping my circle small like your uncle said has worked well for me. Great comment!
Razh 80 Good advice
Even so-called family members wants your life
This is the reason why I ride alone! SMH
"They smile in your face and all the time they wanna take your place..." 🎼I know ALL TO WELL
Portia Holliday O Jay- Backstabbers
Its lonely at the top Tommy..when you get to a certain level of success you got to watch your back, can't trust no one but God. Its best to pray about people before you deal with them.
So true
Tommy You are always going to be My FRIEND. You are a very Supportive. May Jesus Bless You Always You are Like my Younger Brother. I Love You Bud.
This video from Tommy Sotomayor was from his heart. It simply shows that black unity among us still doesn't amount to shit. The crabs-in-the-barrel mentality continues to thrive in the so-called black community.
Mikki Farmer ..sad but true
watcher watcher yes indeed.
It's unadulterated greed & that isn't going to change. Too many are just gone, upstairs in the head, if you catch my drift. Smh.🦀🦀🦀
you speak many truths tommy, the jealousy and greed, i suffer as well, i know this pain. just keep being you brother, this is a good fight.
Salute Tommy you always been a real authentic brotha ✌🏿
If a man spend time coveting another man's life, he has NO TIME to live his own life.
William Mason Then how can a man help others if he CAN'T even help himself?
Don't really understand your question, the idea is for man to acquires things on his own, no correction, what the Almighty has blessed him with. With that, he can turn around and help others.
William Mason Well then I guess that is just his choice but my point is why care about someone who doesn't give a dam about you but anyway I'll leave it at that.
Amen.... I also had loser friends with no lives, who tried to copy pretty much everything I did, then try to make fun of me for doing what I do, then turn around and do the same thing.... They weren't black, well one of them was, but natural born losers come in all colors shapes and sizes.
Amen
Keep Strong Tommy Sotomayor
OFTEN IMITATED, NEVER DUPLICATED!!!
THE ORIGINAL, THE ONE AND ONLY, AND STILL THE BEST!!!
Your own family will resent you for what you do for them. You want to help someone, just help yourself. Wether it's money or a ride or whatever. They will not appreciate it the way you think they will. If you have a heart that wants to help others just know that they do not have the same heart as you
SOO TRUE!
I’m sorry you have so many fake ppl around you. Envy is the worst trait. But you cannot help the gift that you have. Like you said, it’s natural for you. You’re no faker and you’ve seriously been talking about this since, FOREVER. And I love you for your truth. Please Stay positive Tommy.
I could hang with this guy. He’s real, and we don’t have enough of that any more.
Loners have less disappointments.
Where there is greed and envy, there is all manner of sin.
deep.
i understand and here is why! I was raised in foster care and boys homes up till i graduated and then went into the marines. I was injured and had to get out before my 6 years. After i got out i got married had kids and went to work for the power company. I worked my butt off for several years, harder then i can describe. I only made just enough to get by and times was always hard. My x decided she had enough of struggling and left, things got worse for me trying to pay for child support and not getting by. I decided to use my school military benefits, i struggled for 8 years in and out of school and jobs. > Now my life is different, i have two masters A amazing job with un limited opportunities. Now i have a house at the beach and one in the mountains, i went back to school and got my pilots license and bought a private jet. I find myself in a world where i struggled to get where i am and the people around me wanting a hand out. I find out i am alone in a world full of wolfs trying to find a sheep to pray on. >
Nobody ever gave me anything im a loner thank God less drama
This is real talk Tommy....keep doing what you doing cause you are truly reaching people with you're work.
Dear Tommy;
I am white and no I also don't have many friends, a lot of acquaintances, but no real friends.
This is because I believe that the words Friend and love have very special meanings and most people seem to not know the real meanings.
Nowadays words are misused so many times that the different meaning take over while the real meanings are lost.
I mentioned that I am white because there was a time that if one said "some of my best friends are" I was put down as a BSer.
To really have and be a real friend transcends what it really means. For me it meant that I would do anything for that person, stick by them through the good and bad times. Perhaps only those that served under bad times would understand, but for me it is a life style, being true to others.
just as saying I love someone that I have made a commitment to them now and forever, be there for them when they need you.
What you do out of true friendship to / for someone elevates one weather or nt they return the thoughts. Do not feel bad for yourself but for those that don't appreciate your actions, just move on and forget their ignorance, it's just who they are.
One does not acquire friends, they just become one.
The world is full of want-a-bes and will always that way. You get what you work for and nothing else.
If you don't stand up for yourself who will, be true to your self and the hell with the others, there are many people out there who deserve the best of thoughts while the others will languish alone and in obscurity.
The friends one gets earn you, not the other way around.
Respectfully.......
I used to install cabinets like the ones in your garage. I really enjoyed that work.
Tommy, be yourself. The reason why they want to copy you is because of the bad decisions they make in their life. They beg for money because of laziness, and envy. You set a good example by being human. Keep up the good work. You are making a good difference in this world.
People like to take advantage when they see someone that is generous. It's important to realize that people are selfish and that they behave this way because of flaws in their character, not in yours. Being a generous person, I had to accept that people are assholes and often times very undeserving of the favors that others do for them.
Bro Tommy.... Remember the harder the battle....The sweeter the victory.
You’re an insightful, intelligent man! I agree that sometimes, there is a time to call out the nonsense. However, I would suggest you don’t allow it to consume you, it waters down the good work your doing. Stay on point, stay on mission, I believe your impact on the world is much bigger than even you realize!! Aim higher, think bigger, your message is growing and evolving. It’s going to impact many lives in ways you can’t imagine. Keep fighting the good fight Tommy 😘🙏🏻
Tommy you're in a class by yourself.
as far as blacks go.....Asians & whites among other races can & have done similar
Straight from the heart bro.Stay strong Tommy.
This is so true! When did we stop being original and start just copying off of eachother? I notice that even among us women. You just have to be careful who you allow in your personal space at all times. Reminds me of that O'jays song that goes : "They smile in your face all the while they want to take your place" they're backstabbers uh hum...
Tommy, you're fcn' awesome. You've provided me more entertainment and thought provoking discussion than any "friend" I have. Don't ever forget that when you have that type of affect on people, on other men that have been through a struggle similar to yours, you are the wealthiest man on Earth - please don't ever forget that. And most importantly, THANK YOU
You're a cool and wise man mr.tommy..I understand exactly what you saying . people also never remember the many times you help them but the one time you don't. When you have money and or power most people surrounding you want a piece of what you have...I like you Tommy, but I couldn't be friends with you either because I would feel awkward being of lower status and education than you. .lol .btw,many will celebrate your success but rejoice if you fail more. . I'm blabbering. Good luck bro
I am a 65yr old African-American woman.I have a daughter your age Tommy.You are not the only person,that this is happening to.Many people are narcissist.The narcissist”COVETS!”These people spend their whole life wanting what other people have.My advice to you is to never,ever underestimate a person’s motive.Envy is real.Envy will destroy.Don’t take it to heart.My family and I have gone through this.Our people are very greedy.You will not be able to reason with them.Jesus went through this,and so will we.
WHEN YOUR MOVIE COMES OUT WATCH WHAT HAPPENS YOUR HEART IS REAL YOU WON'T EVER FAIL AND THAT IS TRUE TOMMY KEEP ON DOING YOU THAT'S ALL.YOU ARE BLESSED.AND NO ONE CAN TAKE THAT FROM YOU.PEACE TOMMY
Beverly Jones no movie coming out
rahsaan talley YOU BITCH ASS NIGGAS BETTER STOP COMING AT MY GRANNY COME FOR V LUCIANO BITCH SHE FONT CUSS I DO
Beverly Jones no seriously no movie coming out. He even said it in facebook. Ringotvraw exposed him and even did a fatherless america himself in 2 days free, with no money.
PEACE BE WITH YOU TOMMY YOU HAVE A GOOD HEART.DO NOT LET NO ONE STEAL YOUR JOY.YOUR JOY SHOWS EVERYDAYWHEN YOU MAKE A SMILE ON SOMEONE WHOS SAD FACE. YOU HAVE FOR ME.THANK YOU GOD BLESS YOU TOMMY A BRIGHTER DAY IS RIGHT BEHIND YOU TURN AROUND. PEACE FROM THE HEART TOMMY.
48 laws of power. Read it and grow. Become better than those who would seek to harm you.
The Pitt That's a good book. A very good book.
You should tell Tyra to actually read it instead of just saying the title like he can read maybe donnas crusty ass can read it to his illiterate ass
a chunk of that is outdated though. my 10 year old son knows most of that
The Pitt the 48 laws of seduction too!
It's not just you. Don't take it personally. EVERY industry has been like this since the invention of public radio.
I could cry. I miss these days so much and now he’s censored. I still got my blue es 350 looks just like this one. This therapeutic gem is timeless.
You should do a show with sherif Clark those black hats together would be threw the roof !!
Tommy thanks for being the way you are, i'v been looking at a couple of videos and i learn alot from hearing you out, but only people with comment sence get it.
"A friend who is behind you is worse than a enemy in front of you."
Idk who you are, but I feel ya man. I don't consider this a black only problem but a fallen human problem.
10th Commandment: "Thou shalt not covet ANYTHING that is thy neighbors."
ENVY is a nasty thing. They nasty.
I hardly have friends. Most seem to exploit my failure's to get comfort to make them feel better as they face rhier own failure.
Crabs in a barrel syndrome Tommy. But we're living in a day and age where it's just easier for people to imitate and it's looked at as being okay. No one wants to "work" on or for something anymore. Originality has gone by the wayside. Someone in your position needs to start keeping people at arm's length. You're probably the most popular TH-camr out here (speaking on the topics you speak on) and have been for a minute. And based on your personality, you're not a loner by nature; but there's nothing wrong with being by yourself. Remember: Great men can stand alone. DTA, man...DTA.
Best advice in the world: TRUST NO ONE & ALWAYS CYA!
sincitydude I feel you. Some brothers I met were cool but many,sadly,were pretty fucked up.Same for some black women.Thieving,conniving,backstabbing,lying,full of attitude,thuggish.It's really unfortunate but there it is.You,brother,are doing the right thing.Keep your circle of friends diverse.Kick it with people you trust regardless of color or ethnicity.That's how you attain peace of mind.
the title says it all bro. my own brother has smoked weed and never worked a day in his life and is 40. he lives in my mother's basement and hates me for what I have built for myself. I can't even have dinner with him because of his jealousy. it's a rift. he wants what I have but none of the hard work bro. when people have envy they can't be trusted. I have friends who have more and less than me but none envious or from what I can tell envious
you right about that brother Tommy speaking at truth I'm enjoying it brother you speak what's on my mind thank you for Translating that Translate stay strong stay safe my brother signing out Bogalusa bulldog
A lesson is to be learnt in this video to all Y'ALL who's watching this is that this is what happens when you do too much for certain people in life and the more you do for them is the less they appreciate it.
That's people stab you in the back and then ask for help.lol
Hey Tommy dont be upset, I will be you friend and wont be a backstaber, you keep it real. If you need my to tell my story about the child support for your doc, I am willing to tell my side.
I truly understand how you feel Tommy. Me myself is a very solo brother. Come like a man and get treated as such. Come like a simp and get treated as such. I'm all for helping and building a Foundation for black men. But there's very few I will work with it. Sometimes you just got to step back and let suckers be suckers.
jelous haters..smdh..keep your head up tommy
You are a good man and don't be hurt. You can't help them because they can't be helped, yet,
I hear you man.i grew up poor in the hood and the projects. I made folks laugh too
I don’t always agree with your views, but I continue to listen because you think for yourself and you challenge me to see other perspectives. Keep speaking your mind. I’m sorry to hear about your false friends.
You can't be friends with anyone because you live in self loathing and project your anger onto others. Other people aren't the problem, YOU are and until YOU change the way YOU think it will only get worse.
Preach Tj you got it in the bag f all these other lames
This kind of shit goes back for years, unfortunately. Check the story of the Count of Monte Cristo.
The truth .....
It's disappointing to find out that someone you thought was a friend turns out not to be. A heavy sadness fell on me when realization hit.
I freaking love this guy.
Bro You keep ya head up & continue to speak your mind & spit that Truth!
Real true individuals DON'T need any competition.
Wayne Barton Competition can push us to be our best. This is one of the higher precepts we can learn from sports for example, and it is true in business as well. That doesn't mean it can't be applied in unhealthy ways, but competition is not always a bad thing. What is in your heart, that makes the difference.
justwannasharevideo The real true individuals are already CHAMPIONS meaning that they have already proved themselves to be the best and my philosophy about just that is what NEED of any competition when you've already won and beaten the game.
justwannasharevideo What is TRULY in my heart is to just strive to be the best that I can be in fufiling MY OWN DESTINY and walk my own path of life as well as live behind my own TRUTH as a real MGTOW man.
Wayne Barton it is awesome to be your best, but history has shown a tendency to not realize our best ability until pushed by competition. Many times something has been deemed impossible, until some one shows it is possible, then shortly after, many people are able to do what was once thought impossible. It is fine for you to feel you need nothing else but yourself as a measuring stick, but it wrong to judge others for forging themselves in the crucible of competition. Iron sharpens iron, and history is full of lessons.
justwannasharevideo I'm not here to judge others simply because I don't know what their story is and why would I judge someone when I don't even know them from Adam?
As for life's history being full of lessons when then you just live and then learn some more.
A true point in iron sharpens iron just like they say about one hand washes the other.
Continue your work tommy.as a race we need to recognize that weeds in the garden need to be stamped out.only the aware recognizes this.i have childhood friends that have tried to defame me just because i decided to leave a small southern town because i knew that a whole world was out there to to discover and be a productive human being.i return home from time to time and just because of my financial success, i have been accused of being a killer for hire, drug kingpin, etc.you get the picture.i moved my family to avondale arizona and i will never return to the south due to this.
I am not black but I feel for you, you are real you will always succeed. In ways that mean as much or more than money
Tommy, I feel your pain! I have no friends at all and the ones that I had thought was my friends just did it to take my business from me. You are a smart young man, keep your head up as I will be pulling for you.
You’re amazing and I LOVE TRUTH!! I’ve watched you on Crowder and Stefan and you’re so honest and unique!! I’m a fan and ALWAYS rooting for your success!
Frankly, I’m one of MANY! You’re awesome and you won’t lose followers!! ❤️
You'd make a good teacher. Today is the opening for the Black Panther movie in the US. Why do people hold up a comic character as a cultural hero ? Because a comicbook character will be who you want it to be. It won't disagree with you. It won't outsmart you. And it won't speak up to personal critism.
You have one friend in me , take that because that is all I have to offer !! I have wisdom and knowledge but nothing more and nothing less
I have seen it all, nothing suprise me anymore, I actually expect someone to let me down, again!
DAAAMMMNN that's your garage. No wonder you get niggas hating on you.
As a black man I am proud of and happy for you. Keep representing 😎
#BlackMen4Trump
I'm sorry that you have to find out what time it is with your so called friends. It fucking sucks, believe I know. Stay strong!!
They can't be you Tommy no matter how hard they try. I can't stand listening to the lisp of THE ADVISE SHOW his views ride the fence. He can't decide where he stands from one day to the next.
Tommy YOU ARE AN ORIGINAL!!! To hell with those losers. You are the BEST!!! Keep doing what you do Tommy, that's why we love you.💞💞💞💞💞 You want to be accepted by the WRONG GROUP OF INDIVIDUALS (NIGGAS) And it is very easy to do. My dad told me something one day that really crushed my heart. He told me that everyone is NOT going to like me. For years I struggled with why everyone doesn't like me. And when I started TRULY LIKING MYSELF (about 10 years ago) I have NOT LOOKED BACK. You have got this babe don't let these knockoffs stop your stride now. Your grandmother told you many many moon's ago.... You have an old soul who can make people laugh and listen. Those loopy ass Quacker Jacks can't touch your shine🌞🌞🌞🌞🌞 Oh and P.S. YES YOU HAVE EVERY RIGHT TO SAY IT. AND TELL US WHO THE FOUL MF'S ARE!!!
I feel ya man that's why I'm not afraid to move on from people
This is an excellent video.
That's right Tommmysotomayor because you can't be friends with your ENEMIES and also you can NEVER mix the RIGHTEOUS with the UNRIGHTEOUS just like you can't polish a turd or shit don't stink.
Mr.Sotomayor...you are an amazing young man,for your age-this is considering what you were exposed to as a young soul.Thank-you for being a beacon of truthful perspective,that which is in dire need to the American public.Regardless,of the"dis-ingenuity" you may be confronted with in your field of work,continue forward with your endeavor,for it is needed.
This is reality to this day.
YOUR GRANDMOTHER NEVER LIED, FACT. YOU DO HAVE A FRIEND IN ME, WE JUST HAVEN'T MET YET. JUST HOLD ON THE TIME IS COMING. MUCH 💘 MY DEAR TOMMY...ASHAY...
I don't know you, you don't know me but you seem like a good Father an a good Man. I Respect that! God Bless you and your girls. Good luck SMILE your the better person than any of these asshats😎🕆🕊❣
Im here, MUCH 💘 TOMMY...ASHAY...
Tommy said he don't have anything but he has the coolest garage I have ever seen . shit I'd give him 500 mo rent to use it as an apt ha
Its true tommy. Keep up the good work. Never give up. Remember we all have different gifts from Almighty God. Never give up.
There are two types of friends:Those who help you plant trees & those who just come to sit under them.
be careful you dont turn into the thing you hate
Too late. He's always been that which he hates.
We have a lot in common , not much with the haters but with the personalities qualities you stated in the beginning but I’m broke lol would love to have a mentor like you , if I did probably my business wouldn’t hey so shit atm lol
This is one of my favorite quotes. It is so true.
Sadly that’s how it goes ...
Integrity... Is a problem to those that lack it. Its not a passive thing but a conscious active decision. The problem... Immature values pushed at adult strength...
How ironic Tommy says that Oprah sent him the quote. And flashforward Mar 2021 my how things have changed
Tommy, I'm so sorry this has happened to you. It's bad enough for someone to stab you in the back - but when you help them first, even think of them as a friend and they do this.....it's gut wrenching hard. . Just KNOW --- Karma is a BITCH....and we all get served exactly what we deserve! Keep your eyes UP....God will guide you through this....I love your channel! :)
Dood you are an amazing human being and i hope you nothing but the BEST in life. You may have some fake ex friends, but you have true admirerers at your beck and call. And may the force be with you.
People who water themselves down trying to be you often look like Alfred E. Neumann of mad magazine.
Note,what Mr.Sotomayor said..."YOU CAN'T BE FRIENDS WITH SOMEONE WHO WANTS(TO TAKE)YOUR LIFE".This reflects those who represent Special Interests,Racial Supremacists and Zio-Collectivists.I'm pretty sure others can present more categories,but the aforementioned three(3)categories are my thoughts.Tommy,it seems that the problem your competitors have against you is the fact that you are creative and you have perspective,or vision...these are what's definitely missing in the general population of the African Americans.Stay your course,young man.You are definitely a trailblazer.
You should tell brotha derrick you didn't grow up in a tough neighbourhood cause he thinks you grew up in the mean streets n fought all the time heavy got a man crush on you
WE ARE ANONYMOUS
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Tommy, I know the fucking feeling man, you have to keep doing you and say fuck these mofos. I know it's not easy when thinking about the time you have invested into helping other grow, but that's just one of those fucked up realities in life we all face and only those who let it take over their lives will get sucked into the whirlpool of failure. Fuck them, do you, the faster you move on, the faster you can get to making these streets safer again. You're fucking batman, with your awesome equiptmen, and look at that bad ass car, you're fucking batman saving the world dude, come on. lol
covet & envy, Tommy-it S U C K S!!! Most "friends" I've scraped off always had an angle, always telling a sob story and would take money off me KNOWING I was struggling and I only would find out later I'm just that soft hearted guy to steal on. They find another and keep on goin...........I'll never understand this greed and covetousness and how people can be like that and sleep at night. But they do, man-they do
Your voice is soooo smooth in that garage, lol.