Narcissist, Psychopath, or Sociopath?

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  • Learn more about narcissism here: my.medcircle.com/44UkUFW
    What is the difference between a sociopath, a psychopath, and a narcissist? Here to tell us is leading psychologist and author of "Should I Stay or Should I Go: Surviving a Narcissistic Relationship" Dr. Ramani Durvasula.
    00:00 Intro
    00:16 Misconceptions
    00:40 Narcissists 101
    00:27 Psychopaths 101
    01:45 Sociopaths v psychopaths
    04:27 Sociopaths 101
    05:08 Childhood signs
    07:01 Has Dr. Ramani had clients with ASPD?
    07:31 Do psychopaths care about consequences?
    08:26 Signs of dating a psychopath or sociopath
    08:55 Kyle's personal story on psychopathy
    10:17 Empathy vs understanding in psychopaths
    11:34 Final thoughts
    11:46 How to watch more like this
    #Narcissism #MentalHealth #MedCircle #mentalhealthawareness #psychology #psychopath #sociopath #sociopaths #psychopaths

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  • @MedCircle
    @MedCircle  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1656

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    • @isnook86
      @isnook86 5 ปีที่แล้ว +70

      I don't know why he's behaving that way.... He normally doesn't have these odd reactions. They have a ton of videos together. He is normally chill.

    • @daniel4647
      @daniel4647 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      I would, but you suck

    • @wickandde
      @wickandde 5 ปีที่แล้ว +89

      Please change the interviewer! This one is shockingly terrible.

    • @Dissenter
      @Dissenter 5 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      @Hugh Ropp Psychos run the world. The Bush family were the ones publicly pushing for the NWO on fcking international TV, and they are psychotic warmongers. Also funny how she mentions that some forms of military training create Sociopaths, considering that MKUltra and Project Phoenix were used for just that (look up Dr. Lieut. Comdr. Thomas Narut who exposed the US Navy's human experiments on this). These programs have also created serial killers that terrorized US citizens (The Unabomber, BTK, Zodiac Killer, Gary Heidnik, The Night Stalker, etc).

    • @JeanneCiampa
      @JeanneCiampa 5 ปีที่แล้ว +84

      i just dated a sociopath for 7 months....they make you feel like you are crazy and do such insane stuff with the craziest excuses a normal person will have his head spin....it becomes a parody of a life...get out while you can!

  • @koovvv
    @koovvv 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10202

    Dr. Ramani: *intellectually talking*
    Interviewer: "😟😖😨😵😰🙂"

    • @davidsonnier4053
      @davidsonnier4053 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      David Allen Sonnier wow you guys are great

    • @111jkjk
      @111jkjk 4 ปีที่แล้ว +91

      So true 😆😆😆😆

    • @davidsonnier4053
      @davidsonnier4053 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Very informative I enjoy your work

    • @evelynbaron2004
      @evelynbaron2004 4 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      give it a rest all of you. Would any young woman date a potential schmuck like that\? Probably not. Who cares what kind of interviewer he is. She just needs the question and provides the answers as we know it so far. Everybody talks about boundaries; she's got great boundaries and I was seriously interested in the topic because I ran into one or two seriously twisted people in my life and was too stupid to recognize it, so I listened.

    • @ghostpirate7733
      @ghostpirate7733 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Yea but I didn’t find it very puzzling because I am a sociopath so I understand it

  • @shoopdj
    @shoopdj ปีที่แล้ว +2142

    The statement, "A psychopath is born, a sociopath is made", clears up a lot of confusion for me.

    • @mayamodzelik7137
      @mayamodzelik7137 ปีที่แล้ว +212

      psych = brain, socio = environment this helped me a lot

    • @KoolT
      @KoolT ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Actually they are finding brain ventricle differences I think now.

    • @cheesygal
      @cheesygal ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Muddied the water for me even more. If his mom was also one or the other but also created him and pandered to is pathological behavior, I’m still uncertain.

    • @therealKINDLE
      @therealKINDLE ปีที่แล้ว

      All behavior is a result of environment. There are no babies born with types of behavior. They don't want it disclosed that the monetary system imposes structural violence which makes a psychopath. And rewards them lavishly for it. Albert Fish was not born the boogey man! He was made that way over time, as a result of a distorted violent upbringing. It was researched by Fredric Wertham. Show of Violence it is called.

    • @Hammerzippy
      @Hammerzippy ปีที่แล้ว +10

      But I don't see how a sociopath can learn from environment to not have a conscience. Everything I have ever read or heard states they are born without a conscience. If they learn to not have a conscience would mean they have one to start, there for they aren't a sociopath.

  • @Brucessary
    @Brucessary ปีที่แล้ว +596

    The statement "They will dispose of you if you get in their way" sent chills down my spine.

    • @debradesanto6946
      @debradesanto6946 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My sister has done it after 17 years of stealing and put her in a home and she died in 2 weeks from inability to want to live eat begged to go back home. She stole her property and real-estate and got rid of her for money. Then came to Missouri from doing that in California and killed and abused my mother 4 year's as go. Just sitting there at lunch after her death a few weeks later she said matter of factly that quote...::"I'm so glad I finally got rid of that f...g bitch. She gave away my favorite jacket in 7th grade. I hated her and I'm glad she's gone".

    • @debradesanto6946
      @debradesanto6946 ปีที่แล้ว

      She's bullied my 91 year old engineering degreed father out of the entire estate. Displaced my sister with a legal eviction from the home my dad gave her Dani, Cathy's the sociopath.. she put her and her little children in the street so she aquire Danis house and spend the last seven years remodeling it for herself and paying an enormous mortgage not allowing any occupation in her new acquisition. It sits empty. She then while throwing me out of my dad's house by way of his limited POA. Puts me in a dump. I'm on disability and no income so she can TAKE my room and force her way nto their home and proceed to bully and demand signatures for POA and illegally take advantage and put ownership of all assets my dad's million plus engineering firm@ all real-estate. Jewelry all my mom's belongings everything they own and keep it from 5 other children. She beat me to a pulp the l a st time I went to visit my father in HIS HOME and blocks everyone from him receiving phone calls quests children siblings. Completely isolating him and monitoring him. Took his credit cards wallet checking accounts all monies put everything in her name well aware she never once attended college or held a job in her entire life. She feels entitles to the elders in our family's complete and total assets and complete control and will kill whomever is in her way. I adventually got s 2 story s townhouse. Before she moved back into my room she briefly had an apartment for 8 months. After that moved into my 2nd bedroom and begged to stay there temporarily. She then attempted to take over my leased home@ berate me mercilessly say and night@ yell scream ignore to the point of terror for me. She then took my phone, over an incident, ran to the top of the stairs, she refused to give me my phone and I ran upside reached briefly for my phone and she deliberately pushed me down a flight of my stairs. Police were called and she said IA horrendous lie that I was att a cking her and I fell down the stairs on my own.

    • @debradesanto6946
      @debradesanto6946 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Please someone help me? I'm in danger. I need legal help I need protection. I need representation. I need help. She's trying to get my dad's home now and put him somewhere. I get no answer at the doors. There's a lot more evil m illegal things she's done and is doing. I am begging for help!!!!!

    • @JustAMisanthrope
      @JustAMisanthrope ปีที่แล้ว +25

      ​@@debradesanto6946 nope

    • @EmilyJohnson558
      @EmilyJohnson558 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      My ex threatened to make me disappear all the time ... if I displeased him he made something that was my favorite or that i had sentimental attachment to disappear to make his point.

  • @Avio033
    @Avio033 ปีที่แล้ว +220

    I feel like I was well on my way to becoming a sociopath in high school. Exactly like she says in the video, I was hanging around with the wrong kids because I was being bullied by the other kids. I was becoming more and more careless, emotionless and wreckless. I truly never saw myself becoming a normal member of society. I saw myself becoming a criminal. And I was completely okay with it because my numbness and carelessness shaped me into a pretty good thug. I also truly believed I wouldn't live to see 40 years old, and I was completely okay with that. I didn't give a shit. And I loved not giving a shit. I felt powerful, like the world was mine.
    Then I met my girlfriend at the last year of high school and over the course of two years, she changed my life. I cared for her a lot. And she cared for me. And this shaped the way for me to care more about myself and others as well. We've been together for 11 years now and my life has changed completely. Got a stable job which I love, a house and I spend every day with the love of my life. I'm truly alive now.
    However, I still feel like I'm always just an inch away from my old life. It still haunts me. And I hope it will never come to that again.

    • @varrvarrworldboxing7913
      @varrvarrworldboxing7913 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Bro.... You know that feeling that you're an inch away from the old you???? Yea, your girl feels that and she loves you because you have it and it's dormant

    • @Avio033
      @Avio033 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@varrvarrworldboxing7913 Constatly dude. Every day I feel like I'm just one small step away from breaking down again. Hasn't happened yet though, just gotta keep on going dude.

    • @varrvarrworldboxing7913
      @varrvarrworldboxing7913 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@Avio033 Familiar with the feeling, its not even worth it. Keep building character bro

    • @Avio033
      @Avio033 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@varrvarrworldboxing7913 exactly. If it happens, it happens. It will be shot, but I got over it once and will recover again. Just gotta live our best lifes bro

    • @didiorakwue2452
      @didiorakwue2452 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Cry out to Jesus, He is able to sympathize with our weakness and save us from destruction.

  • @cheesecakelasagna
    @cheesecakelasagna 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4814

    "Guilt and shame, shame is a public emotion."
    Damn, never thought of it that way but does make sense!

    • @mariontinsley8646
      @mariontinsley8646 5 ปีที่แล้ว +81

      Be married to my ex wife and youd experience it first hand. Her mother is even worse and I firmly believe she murdered her husband 19 years ago because she didn't need him anymore and it was time to move on.

    • @cheesecakelasagna
      @cheesecakelasagna 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Marion Tinsley Good for you taking an out on time!

    • @FatimaKhan-uy1id
      @FatimaKhan-uy1id 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      She said shame is a public emotion not guilt

    • @dorothywhalen2983
      @dorothywhalen2983 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I thought that quite interesting and spot on as well.

    • @cheesecakelasagna
      @cheesecakelasagna 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      unicorn kween that's exactly what I quoted. I guess I should've removed the first part?

  • @leannabad3839
    @leannabad3839 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2354

    I think the main mistake here was the excessive cutting to the interviewer even when he wasn't talking.

    • @thamnosma
      @thamnosma 5 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      Bugged me from the start. I don't get it unless the guy is trying to become a "personality" and is paying for the production.

    • @donnacolling2329
      @donnacolling2329 5 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      I've watched a few of his videos he always does this, I think he's trying to show interest, acknowledgement and some understanding rather than intentionally interrupting and being rude.

    • @MeatloafGreaserFilms
      @MeatloafGreaserFilms 5 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      I think they do it to keep you interested. If it was just the same shot of the dr talking youd doze off. It’s a way to diversity the shots, i believe

    • @papersack4290
      @papersack4290 5 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Yes! It's fucking annoying

    • @April-tc4qb
      @April-tc4qb 5 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      Yes, but it's funny to see him visually struggling to understand her.

  • @123raven4
    @123raven4 ปีที่แล้ว +102

    Every psychopath is narcissistic but not every narcissist is psychopathic! I love Dr. Ramani! She is so smart!!❤🛐

  • @oyabun9650
    @oyabun9650 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    My mother and her father are raging narcissists with a complete lack of empathy for anyone but themselves. It's hard to grow up along these people because they will make you feel like everything bad that is happening is somehow your fault even if you are not involved at all. The manipulation I went through is really hard to overcome but I'm getting better at recognizing what is actually my fault and things that just happen to happen to me.

    • @theprinceofcrows8691
      @theprinceofcrows8691 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Same here but know this about yourself, you learn those same behaviors from them. Learn to spot the characteristics and work on it because even if you don't become like they were it will effect your life. You cannot help but pick up the traits to some degree because you grew up in that household.

    • @AlohaAngelique
      @AlohaAngelique 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      My mom same. I was vilified my entire childhood and most of my adulthood. It was cheaper to get a degree in psychology than pay for the therapy 😅 Mom “suffers” from narcissism and NONE of it is my fault. Same your you. Your folks are ill, and you are a victim of their illness. I hope you get the support you deserve. My heart goes out to you. Stay strong ❤

    • @lisabowden402
      @lisabowden402 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Same here.

  • @nicholasmartin297
    @nicholasmartin297 ปีที่แล้ว +3001

    This woman knows her stuff and is an excellent communicator.

    • @theresaiannetti4713
      @theresaiannetti4713 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      I agree. She explains things so that you and I can understand. It was great!

    • @skullxwrapper9968
      @skullxwrapper9968 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      I really don’t like this women she said nothing but inaccurate stereotypes about people who are afflicted by mental illness. People who are afflicted only want to feel normal and not alienated from society for being different

    • @millimob6446
      @millimob6446 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I was literally thinking that. Her responses are so fulfilling

    • @pandemicneetbux2110
      @pandemicneetbux2110 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah but I genuinely felt like this guy was a true sociopath getting a thrill from meeting a psychologist face to face and seeing if he could dupe her. Not only that, but the idea that if he can dupe her, he can use these lessons to get better at being a glib sociopath. Or psychopath, not sure. But basically there's a reason why these people cannot be brought into therapy, and that is because they see the whole world solely through the eyes of power and control, like a game. This is why I despise people calling sacred things like love and life "the game" because it's a very shallow and sociopathic, quite frankly demonic, view of the world, like the way criminals call drug dealing and RICO tier stuff "being in the game."
      So as a result of that, you can't really deal with these people in the usual routine. It is however theoretically possible to catch one of them young and just deal with them as they are to become a more useful member of society who's not as much a real danger, but you positively cannot do this through the eyes of emotions and empathy. What you need to do is remember that any therapist type of relationship they are going to view this as you trying to control them, and that is why you have to give them as kids as much of their own agency as possible and consequences for their actions without it feeling like you're controlling them. If you do, they're simply going to find a way to subvert you, and use the "therapy" as lessons in being an even better psychopath than before.

    • @dodge9600
      @dodge9600 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@skullxwrapper9968 one cold fact is that certain differences must be alienated but since it sound inhuman and remorseless people abandon that way. But some actions needs to be remorseless inorder to be right.

  • @n3v3rg01ngback
    @n3v3rg01ngback 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4743

    That clock is very low. That bothers me.

    • @LoveBeautyFun7
      @LoveBeautyFun7 4 ปีที่แล้ว +158

      Right, it doesn't feel right lol

    • @frankblack7070
      @frankblack7070 4 ปีที่แล้ว +102

      I was watching the video at the exact same time displayed on the very low clock

    • @kashabrown2692
      @kashabrown2692 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      😂

    • @TheGoodContent37
      @TheGoodContent37 4 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      Not for a house of a wheel chair user.

    • @lisamarielund6292
      @lisamarielund6292 4 ปีที่แล้ว +71

      Dark Rainbow I believe this is her office where she does therapy. She probably sits facing the clock so she can watch the time during the session.

  • @kleineoOoStern
    @kleineoOoStern ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Now I understand why my ex husband was diagnosed psychopath and narcissistic. I still struggle to grasp every little abuse that I went through because of his mental disorders but I did a lot of progress these past two months

    • @crenshaw46
      @crenshaw46 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You sure know how to choose them, eh?

  • @captainsmoke1612
    @captainsmoke1612 ปีที่แล้ว +543

    So many people think empathy means to recognize others emotions. But it's to feel what they feel. Huge freaking difference.

    • @sugarcaina1
      @sugarcaina1 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Empathy is to understand what one is feeling
      Empathic is to actually feel what another person feels… even pain

    • @captainsmoke1612
      @captainsmoke1612 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      @@sugarcaina1 Empathy = the ability to understand and share the feelings of another. It's the same thing.

    • @EmilyJohnson558
      @EmilyJohnson558 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Exactly!!

    • @hewhomustnotbenamed2864
      @hewhomustnotbenamed2864 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Empathy is a noun while Empathic/empathetic is an adjective. But they're the same.

    • @loghanditheimperialdiehard8876
      @loghanditheimperialdiehard8876 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Impossible. You can’t feel exactly what somebody else is feeling.

  • @wncoulte
    @wncoulte 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4971

    I listened to this woman for just 30 seconds and I've already decided she explains things better than most professionals. Thank you, Dr. Ramani!!!

    • @iituyi
      @iituyi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      I sucked in every little thing she said since she started talking. Absolutely amazing

    • @reenieager4243
      @reenieager4243 2 ปีที่แล้ว +160

      She IS a professional. She is qualified to make diagnoses.

    • @larrymaloney877
      @larrymaloney877 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@reenieager4243 , yep, a clinical psychologist. chynical. LOL, so funny. Did William think she was reciting a dictionary?

    • @theodorehaskins3756
      @theodorehaskins3756 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      With all due respect, she is a professional!

    • @dominikfischer8647
      @dominikfischer8647 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      cause its populistic and just 50% true.

  • @martaszabo3561
    @martaszabo3561 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Thank you for clarifying that. I was victim of a sociopath. But managed to stay alive. God helped me. Dangerous people with zero remorse

  • @rupertperiwinkle4477
    @rupertperiwinkle4477 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Dr. Ramani is on the world stage as THE expert in Narcissism. She has been making waves in this Mental health arena for years. I am so happy she's getting world renowned recognition for her life's work. Read her new book, "It's Not You" -- so so good and insightful. A must read! (And I'm not someone who leaves book reviews because I'm lazy lol) This book is that good! Thank you so much MedCircle and Dr. Ramani for helping millions!

  • @davidsoom1551
    @davidsoom1551 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3040

    That explains our politicians, leaders and the elite in general.

    • @glenandfriends9012
      @glenandfriends9012 3 ปีที่แล้ว +96

      I'd say those characteristics are prerequisites to getting the job. They are anesthetized to an endless national debt to get their way.
      No politician has made any effort the whistle on Jeffrey Epstein.

    • @messiahgodstar7609
      @messiahgodstar7609 3 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      It explains many poor people too. There's no stereotypes.

    • @___________________191
      @___________________191 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      This isn’t about political things. It’s about any person.

    • @batmanfromindia7210
      @batmanfromindia7210 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ha Ha Ha

    • @stanbecker2444
      @stanbecker2444 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Eric sewer-well, Schiff, HRC, AOC, SO, SO, MANY MORE.

  • @tocaloca7098
    @tocaloca7098 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you so much for this video. It’s on point 100%. This is a great content. Dr. Ramani Durvasula does an amazing job explaining the differences between a psychopath, sociopath and a narcissist. She really did hit the bullseye in a way that was clear to understand. What an amazing job. Thank you MedCircle for having her on here. May you all be blessed more than you already are.

  • @truthteller9154
    @truthteller9154 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I was diagnosed with antisocial personality disorder years ago. I'll try to explain it from my pov. Empathy, compassion & love are foreign to me. No, I'm not some cruel heartless person as I love my sister and mother (as much as one can love?) I've never had any true friends just people I see to use to my benefit and once I get what I want they're of no more use to me. I've never been in love, lusted? Yes, but never in love. I've tried forming bonds with people over the years but to no avail. I try to show empathy for people but I don't know how to. I wasn't physically nor sexually abused as a child but I was overly sheltered and taught that everyone is out to get you.

    • @yourconnection9303
      @yourconnection9303 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      And back then, you were conditioned into believing everyone is out to get you. Some kids were told all kinds of nonsense when they were growing up, doesn't mean it was true. You're living in the past. And if you continue to live in the past, you're going to be stuck in the past. So which do you want for yourself? And as of now: Change your thinking, and you change your life.

    • @good8lood598
      @good8lood598 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@yourconnection9303 what are you saying ☕️

    • @tingle2323
      @tingle2323 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@good8lood598he said true

  • @Zoelis17
    @Zoelis17 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2952

    He doesn’t need to be there. She can give this information without him.

    • @georgejames3868
      @georgejames3868 4 ปีที่แล้ว +195

      Yeah, he was acting really dumb

    • @lilytsuen8647
      @lilytsuen8647 4 ปีที่แล้ว +116

      Zoelis17 and he kept interrupting her while she was talking

    • @yitaowang8547
      @yitaowang8547 4 ปีที่แล้ว +105

      Yeah he's acting so dumb and arrogant, like who would ask the dumb question of whether the PET scan was referring to the real "pet"?!!

    • @Zoelis17
      @Zoelis17 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Lily Tsuen so dumb

    • @Zoelis17
      @Zoelis17 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Iwannameow yes!

  • @phabi0
    @phabi0 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1168

    Dr. Ramani: Good morning.
    Interviewer: WOOOOOOwww

    • @Taricus
      @Taricus 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ROFL!

    • @propeticurge
      @propeticurge 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Ok it wasn’t just me I commented that too... he is so overly dramatic

    • @LACEMSK1980
      @LACEMSK1980 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      for real 😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @amisha25211
      @amisha25211 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂😂

    • @rsfantasy5052
      @rsfantasy5052 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      lol

  • @Blank-cz7ec
    @Blank-cz7ec ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I have so much love for this woman. Thank you for all you do, Dr. Ramani. I never told you this before, but you changed my life.
    THANK YOU💞

  • @demostr8598
    @demostr8598 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    I am a diagnosed pyschopath, I am very interested in telling my story to someone. I'd like to share the way I perceive people. She said we don't seek out therapy, that isn't entirely true. I had to know exactly what I was dealing with. But it worked out great, I talked my way into a 6 figure government job with no credentials. My favorite game is invoking an emotional response in people in anyway just to see where my limits are with an individual and have a base knowledge to general human emotions.

    • @hewhomustnotbenamed2864
      @hewhomustnotbenamed2864 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Psychopathy is not a diagnosis so you can't really say that you're a "diagnosed psychopath". Psychopathy and sociopathy fall under the umbrella of Anti-social Personality Disorder (ASPD) which is a legitimate diagnosis.

    • @dirge44
      @dirge44 ปีที่แล้ว

      IL talk to you. I have been Interested in them for a while now, it would be great to talk to them

    • @desertweasel6965
      @desertweasel6965 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      First, you need to accept that you are not special. Your imaginary diagnosis doesn't make you important. You are not special or unique.

    • @Novarcharesk
      @Novarcharesk 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      One thing that seems very consistent with psychopaths is that they have that subtle or even overt sense of superiority or glee at exploiting others. Whether that’s exploiting their emotional reactiveness, or exploiting their sensitive aspects.
      As open as a psychopath might be, they cannot help but advertise how goddamn awful they are to be near.

    • @Toostupid2read
      @Toostupid2read 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Your a diagnosed lizard shut up bro

  • @jessetrowbridge6539
    @jessetrowbridge6539 ปีที่แล้ว +739

    The comment about "white collar" is so true. I'm 4+ years into lawsuits against the psycho/socio attorney who took advantage of my wealthy elderly mother in the final years of her life. After she passed, his explanation of estate plan basically went like this "I knew you mother better than any of you, you'll get what we give you and you'll like it. If you don't like it, get a lawyer and try to sue the trust." So in Feb 2019 I got an attorney and after years of hard work and $100k's spent, we are close to having him convicted of fraud for stealing nearly $1M from our family. The guy has no remorse and continues to do everything in his power to abuse and stall due process in the court system. What's really messed up is my family isn't the first to sue him! There was an article written in Forbes in the early 2000's about him being sued by another family, yet the nationwide law firm he works for continues to keep him on staff because he's charming and a good earner. It makes me want to throw up.

    • @ggvbayareaoakland5914
      @ggvbayareaoakland5914 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      So sad. But I like to thank you very much for fighting and not putting up with their evil bs. My grandfather had back surgery but the Dr got tired or something and stopped half way through. Which lead to my grandpa never walking again. My grandmother at the time tried talking to a lawyer or someone about the case and mentioned it would take 100s of thousands of dollars just to try and sue.. now this was probably 10 years ago now and from my grandmother's words .. so I might be off with a few things but I believe her.. thank you again for fighting for the little guys 🤠✌🏼

    • @ggvbayareaoakland5914
      @ggvbayareaoakland5914 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      My condolences to your mother too!

    • @acmlsrtvxacmlsrtvx3059
      @acmlsrtvxacmlsrtvx3059 ปีที่แล้ว

      Just scumbags

    • @milkoansah-johnson8768
      @milkoansah-johnson8768 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      That law firm must be full of his type. Oh I must add there is a word for that lot; shysters.

    • @testtest2609
      @testtest2609 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@milkoansah-johnson8768 Lawyers are in the top ten professions for psychopaths. Others are: surgeons, police, CEO, clergy, government beaurocrats, media, sales, chefs.

  • @MB561
    @MB561 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2896

    TWO people should be fired immediately. 1) The interviewer. 2) The person who chose the interviewer.

    • @_SnoopKatt_
      @_SnoopKatt_ 5 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      But why though?

    • @beetleything1864
      @beetleything1864 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @cristianbacu4010
      @cristianbacu4010 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Yeah, but their boss must be a psychopath to do it, which it's not, so..

    • @adampearson4191
      @adampearson4191 5 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      What kind of dumbass asks what a PET scan is?

    • @Mhel2023
      @Mhel2023 5 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      ...yeah, he was not even needed here.
      "A PET scan isn't about pets?"...😂😂

  • @kennyw871
    @kennyw871 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I appreciate how the late Dr. Scott Peck (The Road Less Traveled) described the significance of ego boundaries in relationships, especially when people first meet. Narcissists and psychopaths are deceptive enough to conceal their "true selves." When the ego boundaries dissipate is when you hear comments like: "You're not the person I met," but usually not in a good way. This is when the codependency in all of us goes to work with the thinking that I can change that person, that is, if they really love me. Sadly, by this time for most people, it's too late and the damage is either happening or yet to happen, but it's in the forecast model. This is another part of human behavior I think is both underappreciated and educated in our culture. The younger a person is when they learn this about ourselves, the better off they will be in the long run. As it is, psychopaths and narcissists make easy victims of the rest of us when they prey upon our inherent altruism.

  • @faithcharity9564
    @faithcharity9564 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    In my psychiatry subject, I have not understood about all these matters, but now, I could say that I'm learning eveytime I watch this channel with C.P. Ramini. She emphasizes the difference between disorders (mood, personality, social, etc.). I like her. It shocks me everytime, I wish she was my professor in my psychiatric nursing. 👍

  • @ysnc12
    @ysnc12 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4567

    I didn't need his reactions. Or interruptions. Loved her though

    • @gory6543
      @gory6543 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      ysnc12 i love ur pfp

    • @smilessantana2049
      @smilessantana2049 4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      Too bad

    • @hippoblob1371
      @hippoblob1371 4 ปีที่แล้ว +272

      I think it’s because she was speaking in a way that suggested she was trying to elicit a response, so he thought if he didn’t respond it would be impolite.

    • @marklynch2382
      @marklynch2382 4 ปีที่แล้ว +166

      Yes agree his interruptions were annoying

    • @garblegoo7921
      @garblegoo7921 4 ปีที่แล้ว +79

      100% agree. Really annoying. P_lease fire him. ty.

  • @JoyAmin666
    @JoyAmin666 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14621

    should have put a better interviewer...he seems like over acting and perhaps not really fit for such an interview...would be great if it was just her in this video

    • @leonpse
      @leonpse 5 ปีที่แล้ว +755

      Joy Amin More suited for celebrity fashion mistakes interviews, not serious issues.

    • @majorpwner241
      @majorpwner241 5 ปีที่แล้ว +470

      I was picturing him interviewing kids and still looking more immature, personally.

    • @dustovshio
      @dustovshio 5 ปีที่แล้ว +206

      maybe they threw him in there to be an object lesson

    • @LazyNacho
      @LazyNacho 5 ปีที่แล้ว +354

      I feel like he has some of the traits 😅

    • @victorlinge92
      @victorlinge92 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Joy Amin weird seeing you here, Joy. Not talking about smelling fragrances!

  • @marjoriemurray4381
    @marjoriemurray4381 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I like the interaction. He responded and asked for clarification which helped me to understand the difference

  • @Michaeljack198
    @Michaeljack198 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    She saved my life and opened my eyes as love is not equal abuse and pain. Thank you 🙏
    Love = Love ❤️

  • @SageThaFool
    @SageThaFool ปีที่แล้ว +317

    The interviewers reactions the whole time had me cracking up lol the whole time he's like NOOOO WAYYYYY!!!

    • @EverleeYT
      @EverleeYT ปีที่แล้ว

      Lolol

    • @rc6449
      @rc6449 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      They're so distracting that I listened without watching after a minute.

    • @martinburrows6844
      @martinburrows6844 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Even funnier, if they filmed it separately, and the director just got him to be 'surprised ' for 10 minutes straight.

    • @chukrock
      @chukrock ปีที่แล้ว +47

      Not a very professional performance from the interviewer. He was annoying.

    • @nervous711
      @nervous711 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Why I had a feeling that he's a bit narcissistic, too? I mean, the reactions don't look sincere, do they? And the faces, compared to the Doc

  • @seppet0ni
    @seppet0ni 5 ปีที่แล้ว +841

    I had never seen a clock hanging at waist level before. Now I have

    • @David-bc4rh
      @David-bc4rh 5 ปีที่แล้ว +80

      How does that make you feel?

    • @amarahafeez1150
      @amarahafeez1150 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      🤣😂

    • @muskaanbedi8406
      @muskaanbedi8406 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Lol now i feel the same😂😂😂

    • @katiemarshall5923
      @katiemarshall5923 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      seppet0ni stop I thought the same !!

    • @HareKrishnaHareRama101
      @HareKrishnaHareRama101 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I hang it in my house the same way. It’s for the sake of little kids at age of 4 or 5 , to see with better view

  • @PeaTools
    @PeaTools 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I can really relate to the struggle against the confusing mind games of a narcissist. It's like walking through a maze where the walls keep shifting. Your story resonates deeply because, like you, I felt so isolated, doubting my own reality, as if my confidence was slipping through my fingers.

  • @stephaniestone4737
    @stephaniestone4737 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Wow, the same exact thing happened to me by a boyfriend after I broke up with him. He worked very hard to woo me until he knew he had me, and then he dumped me coldly without a care. I have wondered all these years what that was all about, and I was just given my answer. That was done to be vindictive and as a means to punish me for breaking off with him originally, and only a person who lacks empathy is capable of doing something like that.

  • @elaineencke4936
    @elaineencke4936 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1455

    Dr Ramani is so discerning and crystal clear in her descriptions and definitions! This is one of the most concise and precise descriptions of these conditions you will ever hear explained!

    • @eddybrevet6816
      @eddybrevet6816 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I learned something here and thanks, but have question, think it cud be true lack of empathy, love can have these same effects, can see possibilities for effective treatments for not inconsiderable numbers of humanbeans

    • @fernandorangelmartinez9824
      @fernandorangelmartinez9824 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Totally agree

    • @coleenbalch1752
      @coleenbalch1752 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      What an amazng professor she must be!

    • @kamelhaj6850
      @kamelhaj6850 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Agree!

    • @AshleyXD007
      @AshleyXD007 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I won't say you to trust me on this but there are many videos which explains like she did. Even better then her too. I think people loved her including me because of the way she talks. She clearly is passionate and loves to explain.
      Btw I encountered only one video in TH-cam about mental disorders that what effing irritating. Nothing i learnt from it. Only ads.

  • @jesspack7948
    @jesspack7948 4 ปีที่แล้ว +542

    All I could think while watching this is "Stop. Interrupting. Her."

    • @uniFlor-ve9ht
      @uniFlor-ve9ht 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Seriously.....

    • @Lincolnberries
      @Lincolnberries 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Hush. He’s realizing that he has an experience or that he is one.

    • @K-Riz314
      @K-Riz314 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Likewise. That dude is woefully unfit as an interviewer and a massively obnoxious prick to look at.

    • @catherinebush5093
      @catherinebush5093 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Watching him was so irritating. Nothing he said had any substance for this video either.

    • @chinwennoli3515
      @chinwennoli3515 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@catherinebush5093 Honestly i Wish he had asked more meaningful questions. Ughhh!!!

  • @brigitteotto7185
    @brigitteotto7185 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow!! This is exactly what I needed to hear to clear my mind. Thank you!!

  • @yourconnection9303
    @yourconnection9303 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is a great discussion. 👌. Thank you both!

  • @Shinibo
    @Shinibo 5 ปีที่แล้ว +446

    I didn't see the interviewer as being fake, but more like being overly expressive with a childlike curiosity and fascination, but with a low awareness of how he comes across.

    • @dextermariondelgadohatulan5179
      @dextermariondelgadohatulan5179 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I have to agree with this statement.

    • @dextermariondelgadohatulan5179
      @dextermariondelgadohatulan5179 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @DT Undercover Too far.

    • @dextermariondelgadohatulan5179
      @dextermariondelgadohatulan5179 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I mean, there’s no thing to argue with how the man inquire or how he talks, but in my opinion, he just want to elaborate the topic for the viewers to absorb the topic articulately. There shouldn’t be hate here. Besides, that’s his expression and humans have different expressions too. Perhaps, it’s just their emotions who make them to dislike him.

    • @dextermariondelgadohatulan5179
      @dextermariondelgadohatulan5179 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @DT Undercover Asperger’s syndrome is a type of autism that starts from the early age of an individual and in his case, he is just REALLY entertained naïvely from what he is absorbing.

    • @dextermariondelgadohatulan5179
      @dextermariondelgadohatulan5179 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @DT Undercover I reckon that you need some tough enlightenment. You have still a lot of time to absorb knowledge from anyone. From your point of your brother being moderately autistic can be a true if he is just two years old or less but proving that the interviewer has Aspie is a false accusation because according to such particular studies that autism or any kind of autism cannot be obtained during adulthood, if it is developed, then it is a rare case.
      This is an argument also, and ad hominem is for the weakest people who can’t prove their point right.

  • @lolalee6279
    @lolalee6279 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1284

    She explained the difference between each mental disorder very well.

    • @pj2056
      @pj2056 4 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      Those are actually personality disorder not mental disorder.

    • @jessieamber.
      @jessieamber. 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@pj2056 Excellent point!

    • @pj2056
      @pj2056 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Jessica Cartas Thx. This is the reason why when they are arrested. They have to receive punishment. They will not be sent to mental hospital or mental asylum.

    • @teresaaubele-futch4025
      @teresaaubele-futch4025 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@pj2056 Personality Disorders are a type of mental disorder

    • @executiveorder7146
      @executiveorder7146 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @Cristian Ivanescu that women lies and rips people off for a living and no proof of any of it and it just labels bad or good behavior and act like sex organs makes a difference so no she is very wrong

  • @vanessacantos836
    @vanessacantos836 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This video is really really good . Thank you so much for this interesting info

  • @teolifel490
    @teolifel490 ปีที่แล้ว +146

    Let's not forget that the biggest payouts in the markets don't come from great performances but rather it's great promotions. Stay invested, diversification for streams of incomes is very important And with the right skills and proper understanding of how the market works.

    • @jadea.aguian2587
      @jadea.aguian2587 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Let's not forget that the biggest payouts in the markets don't come from great performances but rather it's great promotions. Stay invested, diversification for streams of incomes is very important And with the right skills and proper understanding of how the market works.

    • @rosiemaya7055
      @rosiemaya7055 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Heard someone say the best season for a financial breakthrough is now, especially with inflation running at a four-decade high. I have approximately $650k stagnant in my port_folio that needs growth.What is the best way to take advantage of this downturn?

    • @unamexicanaenquebec8999
      @unamexicanaenquebec8999 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Just imagine retiring as a registered nurse, using all your income/salary to pay rent and tax without any good investment or means of extra cash, tending to leave your profession/job that has been part of you for many years with no good funds. How will you cope?

    • @msduckie6120
      @msduckie6120 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That's why we need to plan ourselves via making extras in all we do because depending on paycheck that can give us our comfort and peace till we die is not guaranteed

    • @elisangellaborges
      @elisangellaborges ปีที่แล้ว

      This is actually what most families are going through, tax and rents takes almost what they got monthly, leaving them with no savings

  • @weeccf
    @weeccf ปีที่แล้ว +946

    That was perfectly explained. I spent 4 years in college studying this stuff and she explained it in 10 minutes 💯

    • @ruzziasht349
      @ruzziasht349 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Wowwwwwwwwww your brain be wired slow bro.

    • @becauseican5821
      @becauseican5821 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      @@ruzziasht349 doesn't mean that he's slow. These topics are taught continuously and repeatedly in any psychology major.

    • @jaddoughmen3759
      @jaddoughmen3759 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@ruzziasht349 Dude, the first word of your channel's name means donkey in Arabic. Congrats!

    • @ruzziasht349
      @ruzziasht349 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jaddoughmen3759 The M142 High Mobility Artillery Rocket System (HIMARS) is a light multiple rocket launcher that kills many RuSSians on a daily basis! I love it!!!! Himar is donkey in Arabic not Himars - I'm guessing you have a sub 80 IQ.

    • @ruzziasht349
      @ruzziasht349 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@becauseican5821 You be slooooooooow too!

  • @Angel-xr6jq
    @Angel-xr6jq 4 ปีที่แล้ว +275

    I wished i never read the comments, now I'm bothered by a lot of things in the video

  • @Snow-of-the-Artic
    @Snow-of-the-Artic ปีที่แล้ว

    This is the clearest I’ve ever heard this described. Excellently video.

  • @Yumadsontellmeyumadson
    @Yumadsontellmeyumadson ปีที่แล้ว

    I needed to hear this . Thank you .

  • @florencelyn7103
    @florencelyn7103 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1433

    It really annoys me how the interviewer is cutting her off like dude LET HER TALK jesus

    • @kristyn9506
      @kristyn9506 3 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      Yea she was annoyed at his interruptions: (see her concealed anger at 6:15)

    • @fuzmkitnz
      @fuzmkitnz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Kristyn I just noticed this too!!!

    • @JackkROYAL
      @JackkROYAL 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      He nearly spoke

    • @floatingchimney
      @floatingchimney 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Florence Lyn: Gurl u r so cute.

    • @nonipanda5169
      @nonipanda5169 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Narcissist?

  • @uhavemooface
    @uhavemooface 2 ปีที่แล้ว +543

    I wish I had this woman as my teacher when I was a kid.

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    • @AdamThoba2
      @AdamThoba2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      The host ruined it for me

    • @thatguy-art6229
      @thatguy-art6229 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@AdamThoba2 EXACTLY - SHE IS TALKING WITHOUT TRYING TO UNDERSTAND WHAT PEOPLE IN THIS ENVIRONMENT NEED. SHE IS TALKING PURELY FROM HER POINT OF VIEW AND WHAT SHE NEEDS . SHE IS SAYING SCREW THE STUDENT AND EVERYONE ELSE IS SAYING - SCREW THIS UNFOCUSED RAMBLING PIN HEAD. FOR A GENERALIZED DESCRIPTION SEE - DR ROBERT HARE. HE WAS THE FIRST TO DEFINE THE PROBLEM IN A WAY THAT THE AVERAGE PERSON COULD UNDERSTAND IT AND NEEDS TO UNDERSTAND IT. I DO NOT FIND ANYTHING SHE HAS TO SAY IS WORTH STUDING OR WORTH KNOWING. AFTERALL - SHAKESPEARE HAD SEVERAL CHARACTERS IN HIS PLAYS THAT PRESENTED THE INFO THE AVERAGE PERSON NEEDS. THIS WOMAN HAS HER OWN FULL CATALOG OF PERSONALITY DISORDERS.

    • @AdamThoba2
      @AdamThoba2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@thatguy-art6229 you are very perceptive

    • @lockandloadlikehell
      @lockandloadlikehell ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I wish she was my mom

  • @milliedior
    @milliedior หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    It's heartbreaking knowing people like this are among us ❤‍🩹

  • @TR-wf2hy
    @TR-wf2hy 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Dr. Ramani, you are amazing. simply amazing. Thank you for your expertise.

  • @DavidGuitian
    @DavidGuitian 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    9:58 that's actually a really good question us psichologists get asked a lot, and the answer is as brilliant as the question.

  • @harmonyqueue
    @harmonyqueue 3 ปีที่แล้ว +365

    I love how engaging she is. It's like I'm sitting in the room with her.

  • @LordKaydenBreak
    @LordKaydenBreak 3 ปีที่แล้ว +558

    Damn yall are so harsh on the interviewer bruh let him live😂
    Thank you Dr Ramani you’re brilliant as always!

    • @taniageorge5122
      @taniageorge5122 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      theyre hating on his acial expressions yet im here making the same ones.

    • @duncan-rmi
      @duncan-rmi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      watch the clock in a weird place behind her- they're not using his reaction shots to help edits, they're for his vanity, & they suck. I had to go audio-only.
      he's one of these dumb-down dicks, even if he is actually listening.

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    • @imalegendyoulie7499
      @imalegendyoulie7499 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      He has a bunch of questions if he doesn't say it right then he'll forget 😂

    • @howard6601
      @howard6601 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      No, this man has one job to do, gather information from the women about the topic at hand. He's doing a poor job at it and needs to improve.

  • @kargo27
    @kargo27 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Dr Ramani is great! So grounded!

  • @farhankhattak5458
    @farhankhattak5458 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    She explained it in a very impressive manner.. Indeed she has a strong grip over the topics

    • @comradecarabao9122
      @comradecarabao9122 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

      She's the leading expert on narcissism, psychopathy, and sociopathy; watching her speak on these topics is always a great experience. 💯 She's super intelligent, fascinating, and (of course) beautiful. She brings a lot of knowledge to the table! 📚🧠📚

  • @remikvalheim3431
    @remikvalheim3431 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1982

    Plot twist: This is not an interview, its an appointment. And Dr. Ramani is trying to explain to him what he got

    • @gm346553
      @gm346553 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      "That's how you get shit done Dee"
      "Noooo, that's how you get a diagnosis"

    • @LeniaGirl86
      @LeniaGirl86 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Best comment ever! 😂

    • @Anna-om6ei
      @Anna-om6ei 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      Right?! He’s like my friend dated “this guy” for a year. It’s freaking him!

    • @TheDacross
      @TheDacross 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      I got the same vibe with this guy. She is not as good as she thinks she is if she can't see what he is doing. He is playing to her ego and tries to learn from her how he can hide his disorders and better is manipilation skills He is doing a good job, she has got no clue!! LMAO!

    • @i.think.that.5592
      @i.think.that.5592 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Haha love that

  • @anykoop
    @anykoop 4 ปีที่แล้ว +457

    It's the editing. It shouldn't cut to him as much. An interview is about the person talking, the audience doesn't need to see the interviewer or reactions. It's distracting and unintentionally makes it comical. Not mention the wide shot is super awkward because they're a mile away.

    • @pilotactor777
      @pilotactor777 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Spot on.

    • @TheQueenOfGreatness
      @TheQueenOfGreatness 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He probably see himself in the descriptions given🤭

    • @jstafriskyhusky2748
      @jstafriskyhusky2748 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I accept the questions given by the person but the reactions are sometimes unneeded

    • @heavenlylace5880
      @heavenlylace5880 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      "unintentionally makes it comical"
      I couldn't help but laugh because you're totally right

    • @valeriesanchez3074
      @valeriesanchez3074 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      He craves attention. Guy wants his E- Fame lol

  • @jayshreeprakash2251
    @jayshreeprakash2251 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for your explanations about the mental disorder. 🙏🏽

  • @AJ22-33
    @AJ22-33 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thankyou Dr. Ramani Durvasula ma'am & MedCircle host Kyle Kittleson sir fr interesting topics & case studies. I'm learning de many different personalities of people in general. I want more case studies in every topic you come up with...Thankyou once again!

  • @sonalipradhan6663
    @sonalipradhan6663 5 ปีที่แล้ว +142

    *Doctor:You Understand Right?*
    *Interviewer:Wow!*

  • @charkelly4451
    @charkelly4451 4 ปีที่แล้ว +297

    “Asking for a friend” the most famous line 😳

  • @OutstandnBrandon
    @OutstandnBrandon 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    He asked really great questions. Thanks for the info

  • @marjorieprezioso4750
    @marjorieprezioso4750 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Wow! That all makes perfect sense to me. I was adopted to my evil aunt. She showed symptoms at the age of 8 when my birth mother was born. I was the family scapegoat, my twin brothers the golden children, my adopted dad the enabler. Narcissist never seemed to go far enough for me. My youngest son had difficulties throughout childhood. I finally linked my son's behavior to my adopted mother. I am definately an empath, a sensitive, intuitive. Apparently it skips generations. I always felt like I was surrounded by crazy people, and I was.

  • @tab9773
    @tab9773 ปีที่แล้ว +818

    Just adding my 2 cents here, but I think a psychopath's greatest weapon is society's unwillingness to believe he / she is capable of being that way (ex: "Oh, she's SO sweet and friendly; how could anyone accuse her of murder?"). I think this is especially true if the psychopath is young, attractive, female, disabled, or elderly, or holds a trusted position such as a law enforcement worker or a medical worker.

    • @learningenglishthroughtran8540
      @learningenglishthroughtran8540 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Man, a lot of women are disabled because of car accidents when they are young. After they become disabled, they want to be attractive because they need energy and they cannot afford to look sloppy and untidy. Old psychopaths are dangerous, too. Why are you so attracted to young attractive women and imagine that they are killers? Old people could be sweet and friendly. Men are ugly and rough. I don't think that means that men are safer to be with. Attractive men, old men, rough men kill people, too, especially they kill women.

    • @joangreenert7216
      @joangreenert7216 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      That's bc they're Sneaky, seem normal, but they do a lot of 'thinking' & planning.

    • @joangreenert7216
      @joangreenert7216 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@learningenglishthroughtran8540 I agree but they also go for boys and men they can Control.

    • @1MarkKeller
      @1MarkKeller ปีที่แล้ว +7

      And hella rich or hella famous.

    • @theresaiannetti4713
      @theresaiannetti4713 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I agree!

  • @paulieluce5303
    @paulieluce5303 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2325

    I feel like the interviewer lowkey freaking out cuz he knows he’s a narcissist

    • @hollynunn7391
      @hollynunn7391 4 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      Paulie Luce hell yeah I thought the same. Lmao

    • @briza2022
      @briza2022 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      😂😂😂

    • @thealpha1259
      @thealpha1259 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      😂

    • @Baconpillin
      @Baconpillin 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      HAHAHHA EXACTLY

    • @AA-dv2ms
      @AA-dv2ms 3 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      Very true such an annoying person he is

  • @ellasummers9671
    @ellasummers9671 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The way i've kinda always thought about empathy is that its attached to your emotions understanding someone else isn't always attached to emotions.

  • @dannyachord
    @dannyachord หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    She Is so good to put it all in language we can understand

  • @kayleighcummins7340
    @kayleighcummins7340 4 ปีที่แล้ว +424

    6:14
    her reaction was like:
    *broskii interrupt me one more time and i swear*

    • @ptc18
      @ptc18 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      She'll go sociopath on his ass! Lol

    • @freeyourselfmorowa9243
      @freeyourselfmorowa9243 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I read this as it happened 😂

    • @GS-st9ns
      @GS-st9ns 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      We are interpreting how she feels, but the only thing that matters is how she really feels about that interviewer not how we feel. That's probably something we'll never know

    • @AVIPANDIT594
      @AVIPANDIT594 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      She also has some kind of condition.

    • @lucyjuicy1930
      @lucyjuicy1930 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Maybe she should let people she converses with get a word in.

  • @NoJusticeNoPeace
    @NoJusticeNoPeace 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3612

    Can we get a diagnosis for displaying obviously fake, exaggerated emotional reactions in response to every word out of someone's mouth?

    • @Vasilia4
      @Vasilia4 5 ปีที่แล้ว +477

      basically Americans lol

    • @m7f7m7
      @m7f7m7 5 ปีที่แล้ว +231

      Are you referring to Kyle the host?

    • @frankwaters8177
      @frankwaters8177 5 ปีที่แล้ว +115

      he's just nervous

    • @suebelzer6536
      @suebelzer6536 5 ปีที่แล้ว +81

      Yes. That would be acting. Were you thinking that these people did not know they were on camera and had an audience?

    • @neighbor4772
      @neighbor4772 5 ปีที่แล้ว +77

      Watch for if someone talks differently to some people than he does others. Watch if someone can easily get other people to do things for them without any authority. Watch if someone is hyper dominant. Watch if you start getting a slight resentment towards someone and you find yourself talking yourself out of avoiding them. Watch if someone mentions violence while they’re not in a fit of rage. Watch the eyes man, if you’re talking about something emotional and they’re sitting there looking like they’re just thinking without much of an expression and their comments get a slightly question like tone then it could they’re faking it til they make it and are analyzing you.
      Obviously if someone does a few of these it doesn’t automatically mean sociopath. It’s honestly really hard to spot one immediately, especially in the moment. It’s usually about trusting your gut feeling and genuinely considering this when you look back on someone. You really want to spot a sociopath and especially a psychopath in your life before they make it clear and they will. They work by moving from group to group, environment to environment. They’ll stay somewhere for a while but eventually they’ll be found out and move, leaving everyone fucked over. This is hard cause sometimes these people will figure out what you need and make you feel good. All you have is a gut feeling and honest analysis

  • @MGCrow-jc6ps
    @MGCrow-jc6ps 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This video made it very clear to me: my ex was a psychopath and not a narcissist.

  • @faithconwell3410
    @faithconwell3410 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    So informative!

  • @avidnongetit8710
    @avidnongetit8710 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1842

    She could talk for hours on this topic and I believe it would be informative.

    • @layneycarper
      @layneycarper 3 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      it is very informative. it’s important to raise awareness on these types of people. they’re dangerous and all around us

    • @_hi_3363
      @_hi_3363 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      I don’t know why these things are so interesting to me like murders and crime and such. It’s all just so interesting to me and I don’t know why lol

    • @tired6971
      @tired6971 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Layne Carper that’s not tru. Not all of them are dangerous. Just because they have the diagnosis doesn’t mean they’ll cause mayhem. That’s another misconception about them. More often than not they mind their own business.

    • @53hank
      @53hank 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      i got an ad abt a woman who talks abt chimpanzees and i thought you were talkin abt her and then remembered that im watching a vid

    • @zfox4743
      @zfox4743 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      .

  • @dmwanderer9454
    @dmwanderer9454 4 ปีที่แล้ว +318

    Doctor: *Says anything*
    Dude: 🤨🤔😐😯😕😲

  • @GT95_302
    @GT95_302 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yep; dealing with a stepson who will do whatever he wants to do as soon as you leave the house (for work), despite any conversation you have with them about your expectations of them.

  • @tendayimukabeta9443
    @tendayimukabeta9443 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Well explained thank you

  • @CryptoProphet
    @CryptoProphet 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11933

    Dr Ramani is really great. Her explanations are completely spot on, clear and easy to understand. Thanks.

    • @franksignature5671
      @franksignature5671 5 ปีที่แล้ว +94

      SleepWoke, Too bad he seemed fake or very uninterested.

    • @Master...deBater
      @Master...deBater 5 ปีที่แล้ว +102

      Wow...either that dude is really dumb...or he thinks that his audience is!!!

    • @DMSProduktions
      @DMSProduktions 5 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Text book psychopath!

    • @domagoj4843
      @domagoj4843 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes she is,se my self in her ;))

    • @DMSProduktions
      @DMSProduktions 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      NOT her!

  • @SuperSt0rmy
    @SuperSt0rmy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1294

    I could listen to Dr. RD forever. She is so clear.

    • @cansee8637
      @cansee8637 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Clearly biased against men

    • @giggles1219
      @giggles1219 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      @@cansee8637 Wtf? She wasn't man bashing.

    • @pjmlemon3280
      @pjmlemon3280 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@cansee8637 stfu

    • @christianpulisic7784
      @christianpulisic7784 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Linda Storm,You are absolutely gorgeous 🌹🌹🌷🌺,hope you are not with a narc 😈!!

    • @giamonet2359
      @giamonet2359 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@cansee8637 nah just be smart

  • @lisabowden402
    @lisabowden402 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Makes so much sense. Psycho is born, socio is created .

  • @mgmassey174
    @mgmassey174 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for this

  • @ThecoconuTpiaNo
    @ThecoconuTpiaNo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1563

    the way the guy's acting makes it feel like a SNL skit

    • @conlann
      @conlann 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      100%

    • @elmirasmiscellaneous1129
      @elmirasmiscellaneous1129 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      LOL

    • @antwanetdears6849
      @antwanetdears6849 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Agree! Lol

    • @evelynbaron2004
      @evelynbaron2004 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      When did SNL get that bad? She knows her stuff; I switched majors at Uni but this was a big topic even then. Ignore fleas ….

    • @R3n33loves
      @R3n33loves 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @tristezzalamentoluciano265
    @tristezzalamentoluciano265 2 ปีที่แล้ว +927

    "Every psychopath is narcissistic, but not every narcissist is a psychopath."
    Very good.

    • @robinhood4640
      @robinhood4640 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      That reminds me of saying here in my neck of the woods of France.
      Toutes les chasseurs sont cons, mais toutes les cons ne sont pas chasseur.

    • @guidedmeditation2396
      @guidedmeditation2396 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      It would be useful to know which column sadistic people fall into.

    • @ThePatriotPoet23
      @ThePatriotPoet23 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I'm Both ... LOL

    • @riggedangel678
      @riggedangel678 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      @@ThePatriotPoet23 isn't something to be proud about

    • @gashacker1
      @gashacker1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm a cynic. Do I have to go to physcotherapy, or worse?

  • @hamishg0rdon
    @hamishg0rdon 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    to me the most fascinating part is in the lack of arousal - if an anti social personality cannot be aroused in terms of the various emotions you describe - how can they achieve the peak experiences we all seek? if a persona can't feel - what lengths do they have to go to to find something enjoying?

  • @WhitemenaresoSexy
    @WhitemenaresoSexy ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great Information!

  • @lj0339
    @lj0339 5 ปีที่แล้ว +560

    The clock behind her is at the weirdest low spot on the wall 🤨

    • @romanumeralz
      @romanumeralz 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Doomsday?

    • @aleshanee.m.a7055
      @aleshanee.m.a7055 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Now I can’t stop looking at that

    • @briansibusisomahlangu
      @briansibusisomahlangu 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      😂 😂 😂 😂

    • @mandingo3432
      @mandingo3432 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Had to minimize the browser after ~1 min, what kind of savage would hang a clock that low on the wall? Its like hanging a carpet on the ceiling, fucking bizarro world.

    • @shesomadeline
      @shesomadeline 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      lj033 LOOOL 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 this person!!

  • @notallrocknroll
    @notallrocknroll 5 ปีที่แล้ว +321

    Gosh golly thanks to the interviewer for clearing up the PET scan confusion, I was about to head off to the hospital with my cat.

    • @brandonhayes604
      @brandonhayes604 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Ford Fairlane Or have your cat scan you 😜

    • @189snake
      @189snake 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      lmao that interviewer is weird man

    • @Dangerousdaze
      @Dangerousdaze 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      PET scans are awesome. They literally use antimatter (positrons are anti-electrons). :)

    • @Bonez0r
      @Bonez0r 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      To get a CAT scan?

    • @eily_b
      @eily_b 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      :D

  • @mystryx7931
    @mystryx7931 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm impressed with proving serious interview using clock to prove no editing ect. Well produced.

  • @sidneyreid1366
    @sidneyreid1366 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good clarification lady..I admire you much

  • @KCM1
    @KCM1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +793

    Shane should’ve interviewed this Dr. Instead of the lady he interviewed about sociopaths

    • @jay-bi5vt
      @jay-bi5vt 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      ikr

    • @lollipop2734
      @lollipop2734 5 ปีที่แล้ว +80

      The lady he interviewed is qualified it's just that she was being very casual and dramatic so it didn't come across as professional at all so people doubt her information.

    • @janaelove
      @janaelove 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Lolli Pop some of the stuff she said was different than this doctor though

    • @melrose1138
      @melrose1138 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lolli Pop i watch her and she is not qualified in that area since she is marriage councilor who also works with patients with eating disorders only

    • @momohoi8880
      @momohoi8880 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Omg 😂😂 shane

  • @annafinley1290
    @annafinley1290 4 ปีที่แล้ว +232

    Wow. That was the best explanation I've heard regarding psychopath vs. sociopath. Fascinating.

  • @starthere5406
    @starthere5406 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Very good interview. Clears up allot.

  • @Sc11382
    @Sc11382 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you for this information

  • @Werewolf_Sonic
    @Werewolf_Sonic 4 ปีที่แล้ว +120

    I’m dying at his reactions, i thought it was a fake one where people insert their own clips to videos 😂😂

  • @cacattack67
    @cacattack67 4 ปีที่แล้ว +761

    So it seems like a narcissist is just full of themselves but they have emotions. A psychopath is born with no emotions and learns to act like a normal person and a sociopath is a normal person that learns to act like a "psychopath".

    • @huda613
      @huda613 4 ปีที่แล้ว +78

      Christian C., narcissists are over obsessed with receiving praise, sociopaths are just empathy-less and wanna dominate ppl.

    • @allyjay7395
      @allyjay7395 4 ปีที่แล้ว +122

      Narcissists have emotions when it comes to themselves but dont feel empathy for others

    • @Polymath9000
      @Polymath9000 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      @@allyjay7395 They actually get high when they destroy others live.

    • @LACEMSK1980
      @LACEMSK1980 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Polymath9000 factz

    • @joyceevers4648
      @joyceevers4648 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@allyjay7395 I have a daughter-in-law like this.

  • @marthajones1450
    @marthajones1450 ปีที่แล้ว +2

  • @davidvenable9257
    @davidvenable9257 ปีที่แล้ว

    Well..that explains everything..perfectly clear

  • @nicholasreando1617
    @nicholasreando1617 ปีที่แล้ว +552

    The antisocial personality; I displayed all of the behaviors she described as a young boy. I skipped school, was angry & violent towards others, I stole & had a fascination with fire too. I was on Ritalin for having ADHD and another drug called melaril which I didn't realize until just recently is an antipsychosis medication. All of this before I was even 13. I lived in a boys home for over 4 years because I was a troubled youth. But I thank my mom for seeing the signs early enough & having the courage & ability to get me help before I could have done something horrible.

    • @HomeSickAlienJayman
      @HomeSickAlienJayman ปีที่แล้ว +18

      How are you doing these days? Taking those drugs at such a young age, I wonder, do you use any drugs at all now? Recreational or prescribed?

    • @shyramecole5574
      @shyramecole5574 ปีที่แล้ว

      So basically you were born a psychopath. I pray all is well with you and your family.

    • @CallMeNevermore
      @CallMeNevermore ปีที่แล้ว +36

      It took me until the age of 30 to realize my behavior was outside the norm. I grew up with a father that displayed psychopathic traits, except for anything relating to crime. My mother has a good idea of my fearlessness, like inserting broken glass into my nose at the age of 4 (thankfully she removed it and nothing bad happened) and my violent behavior towards animals and other kids when I was still in primary school. Fast forward to today and I‘ve had lifelong problems, like relating to people and inconsistencies in school and work. I‘ve been talking with two psychologists about this. The second psychologist thinks I might have a personality disorder. She told me that after just one visit. Personality disorder or not, I just want to get some closure to help me understand my way of thinking.

    • @jonhart7630
      @jonhart7630 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@CallMeNevermore When I was in my 20s and 30s, I was too proud to admit I had a problem. Now, I'm middle-aged and more reflective, I can admit my condition was at least partially responsible for a car-crash of a life. I wish I had a more normal life, but it's too late now.

    • @willCX
      @willCX ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Ya know whatss funny. Assumption is everywhere. Ass u me. My relationship with my soul mate was destroyed by him. A tyrant

  • @psypher8184
    @psypher8184 2 ปีที่แล้ว +787

    My ex wife was either a psycho or narcissist. Someone who couldn't see past herself. She would bait me into arguments until I realised she enjoyed hurting me. She later moved into another phase where she slept around and so forth. I chose to ignore her antics. We finally found a good marriage counsellor who knew how to deal with her. My exe decided to end the marriage. In her eyes all that transpired was my fault and I had kidnapped the kids. She took all our savings because she thought she deserved it and I inherited the kids. I got the better part of the deal even though I worked three jobs to care for them and pay for their education. The best thing that came out of this disaster was a painful rearrangement of my priorities. Wealth, house etc come second to kids and family. Today I'm very close to my kids even though they're grown up and have left home. They are professionals in their chosen fields and successful in life.

    • @abhaysingh-lg2cr
      @abhaysingh-lg2cr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      was she a woman, just guessing?
      Edit for anyone replying: y'all just dont get the fuckin joke, do you?

    • @_Madara_.
      @_Madara_. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@abhaysingh-lg2cr Bruh moment

    • @Subxenox15
      @Subxenox15 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      Judging by how this psychiatrist keep blaming fathers for behaviors and not once mentioned women, I'm guessing she would blame you lmao

    • @simonsirois9034
      @simonsirois9034 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      Most of the time women will get borderline personality disorder diagnostics. It's kind of the feminine equivalent of the narcissistic personality.
      Eternal victims of everything, while antogonizing those who surround them. These personalities are really hard to "enjoy".
      You must draw a hard line with them and stick to it, or they will eat you up! They can't help it, but they're social vampires.
      Good for you, life must be so much better now.

    • @lunafringe10
      @lunafringe10 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I would’ve booted her out

  • @jv-lk7bc
    @jv-lk7bc 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    very helpful, thank you!

  • @sheenaelizabeth1983
    @sheenaelizabeth1983 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Great interview!