The moment Phil acknowledged Leon as his son after all that has happened my respect for him has 100% increased...The Award father of the year goes to you Phillip Karanja🎉🎉🎉🎉
Learning from them everyday...hoping I can be a great dad kwa kamondio kangu😅😅😅 but its really a great feeling...lovely conversation wadau bring more Judy
When you go through the entire comment section,everyone is talking about Phil. His calmness,the devotion to his kids and his friendship to Abel. May God bless him❤
Man Phill is so intelligent...Look at the way he is answering all this questions with so much reasoning...This tells us that Phil is a Dad....Also everyone in this line up is a hero DAD you have done well just being there for your families❤️
I really Love the connection with this family. I love Abel Mutua sana,He has a unique story that many of us are going through right now.I remember one time I chatting with him on WhatsApp about how life inanichapa and he gave me alot of hope and reason to live more and bit all thye odds of this life.Today I am following that path to make it into the film industry. I swear I will name my first son Abel Mutua Barasa,I want him akue na akili kama yake.My role model Abel,one day nikiwa na pesa mzuri Mungu akuweke hai nitakununulia Chai,I am so blessed with the education I get from you Baba Mumbus.Much Love Daddy.
😅 I support Phil, if we men were to undergo such pain, the population of the world would be less than a Million. Big up to any women and mom out there, you're a blessing.
I think its high time niache kuishi hii carefree life.. I don't have a kid but this has been mind opening.. I cant wait to be a Dad! Bi mkurungezi more of this tafadhali
This conversation was awesome.Being a father changed me in many ways,just lost my wife and the thought of the life that awaits me and this two little angels is beyond any explanation.
Thank you Phil for purposing to do something about that part where the baby and the mother need care from more than one individual....people are suffering out here with scars that can never be healed from experiences in that very set up.
One can tell the respect Judy and Abel have for each other. The devotion of all the 4 men to fatherhood is really admirable. I hope my future man finds a friend like Phil is to Abel.
Yes, Kimani has a point. Dads tend to be providers but forget to bond with their kids and that would repeat when the dads grow old. Dad feel abandoned by the kids at old age coz the kids grew up knowing relationships with dads should be purely Transactional.
Recently became a single mum....you can only imagine I was in tears watching this ......i wish my babies had an intentional dad but, am here for the task being an intentional parent 😎 ...loved this episode
Hey muthoni we got this mama 🫶🏾 I take consolation on the fact that there are some wonderful men out there who have been raised single handedly by single mums ❤
God is their father my dear and He is able to give them a brilliant earthly father and if don't know God is their father so walk high knowing God got your back. More blessings to U mama as u bring them up.
Baba Njeri amesema one strong point, that I have never realized. Having my child born in a public hospital, I was in the presence of a KMTC trainee during delivery and my baby came before the nurse came. The KMTC trainee walked me through the process and put the baby aside and attended to me then the nurse came in. One had to suffer and in my case it was my child but he was in good health. Pale wagonjwa ni wengi so I agree the KNH team were doing their best based on all the patients that have to care for. "One had to suffer especially if you can't afford a good private institution". This has given me a new appreciation as a mom and for life during labour. Amazing conversation with these dads, their children are blessed.
Greats Dads indeed. I always say anyone can be a father but it takes someone special to be a daddy. My two sons have a father but not a daddy but am proud for this journey of single mum because I have taught them that God is their Daddy
That final touch of gifting the dad was heart warming. Men in our society are rarely celebrated. Judy and your crew you have done an awesome thing. Amazing episode
I barely listen to talks and interviews. But this, I've listened through it all. It's so beautiful to see and hear such beautiful stories. The interview has been well done. Thank you Judy
This was a wonderful session. Judy being a wonderful friend to all and intelligence of four men put together. Phil on the "kids do what you do not what you tell them to do" That is really important.
Mine was 5.04 pm when they went for that CS and at 6.14 I held my daughter It's 8weeks 4 days and I can't wait to be the a good father to her, better than my dad who have been the best for me
Of all the things about this crew, I admire your friendship. You are there for one another. You talk about it in simple terms that makes it appear very genuine.
My take home 1. Fathers who are present during child birth have a new found respect for their partners wives. They understand its life and death experience and women go through so much to bring forth life. 2.Lord bless me with such intentional friendships, this is what givers and those who empathize with others always crave. Friends who show up 100 ,are intentional, genuinely happy for you and supportive and know how to sacrifice for others and put themselves in your shoes even if they haven't experienced what you are going through, celebrating etc. This was very enjoyable to watch, we are learning and getting encouraged. Part 2 please 🙏🏾 . 3. I was wowed by how Judy remembers and was present for all the babies, even remembering birth dates. 4.The gentlemen here are intentional fathers, their children are fortunate to be blessed with them. May they live longer than 70years 🎉
This was a very eye opening conversation, for all men who are so intentional in raising their children. Judy, thank you for hosting these awesome men. Future hubby, are you taking notes???????????😂😂😂😂😂😂
I Love the way Judy watched at her husband, our Mkurungenzi. It remind me of my gf when she just smiles and just looked at me winning over a pair of shoes from a shopkeeper for a lower price that was to be for my very close friend. These are the very Father figures we need in our lives. It's really helpful learning from people changing lives, love reign here. Am learning a lot and I plans to show this to our people. Love Judy a lot, she is showing how to even make families beautiful. KEEP SHOWING MORE, BRING OTHER COUPLES HERE. THANK. I hope one day to see JUDY, CELE, NA BIBI YA PHIL. NA MAYBE BIBI YA NEWSON.🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰❤❤❤❤❤
These guys are true definition of true friendship and how costly it is Through Thick And Thin you guys have stick together and used your low moments as an inspiration and a door to widen the scope of your thoughts. So much wisdom in you guys, Abel Mutua and your team yoh men, you're really changing lives. #LEGENDS.
You guys just painted a picture of what i want in life in a very comprehensive and beautiful way. The conversations were brave,emotional and real and i've learnt a lot about fatherhood and powerful friendships.Great work. KUDOS!!!
it's beautiful someone mentioned the baby as a lifetime dependant, yes Abel! it's true, my son is 25 and i can truly see that in the eyes of his dad.... mind you my son is an adult earning his little income but i can see how the dad protects him with all his mighty, sometime in weird ways...now i get, the life dependant aspect. asante mama Mumbus for bringing this conversation
Aki this conversation reminds me of how we had a conversation with my hubby then he frankly told me seeing me in labour really traumatized him and because of the love he has for me he wouldn't wish to see me pregnant again l felt a different connection with him and l appreciate these men Phil and Mutua ❤❤❤❤
Listening to this conversation is healing, for those like me who grew up without a dad, but am super grateful to my husband who is a veeery present dad to out daughter, gosh i love it, may God bless him 🙏 🙏 all i'd like to say is the millennial dads are really changing the narrative ...May God bless each and every loving and present dad.
Couldn't relate more on parenting than this. Being a lady raising a son single handedly with his on and off his life when convenient, I learnt a lot. The best lesson is kids are not taught they see and most of it making memories not forgetting their self sufficiency. People laugh when I tell them I am raising a son that when am retired and enjoying my holiday I won't be worried that their wife will be calling me telling me your son has done this and that and I hope my in-laws are doing the same raising their daughter. I want to have confidence in the work I have done raising them up. Kudos for being the dad's and mentors to your kids
This is one of those much needed conversions in this era. It amazes me that these gentle men have been intentionally present in the lives of their wives and children. God bless them❤
Feels much educated by these great Fathers... Congrats guys:Njugush/Kimani...I think you should adopt Njuguna name, ikuwe kwa ID😂,Mr Newsom big up,Sir Abel/Baba Mumbus big up senior kazi safi 14 yrs of parenthood sio jokes, Baba Njeri/Phil congrats and good work, Finally Bi. Mkurugenzi Kudos... Hii inafaa kuwa a show on it's own, so educational... Adios mchachos guys😂😂 Part 2 waiting....
I loved and respected these guys, but after seeing thm as dads i have a respect for them. Phil sounds like a deep guy and sounds so loving. Kudos to to all the fathers on here because they are so loving and present. Judy you are such a gracious, warm and encompassing host. You are such a natural at this. Thank you for this inspiring episode. ❤️
The moment Phil acknowledged Leon as his son after all that has happened my respect for him has 100% increased...The Award father of the year goes to you Phillip Karanja🎉🎉🎉🎉
Learning from them everyday...hoping I can be a great dad kwa kamondio kangu😅😅😅 but its really a great feeling...lovely conversation wadau bring more Judy
That's great comme
Comme pia uko huku, taking tips left, right and center. Bro najua ile excitemnt uko nayo, it is a great feeling, i had a similar feeling 3yrs ago
You will be a great dad! Wish you all the best.
You will be wonderful as a father
Comme did Kamondio came?
Judy is a gem notice how shes always present for her friends may God give me my Judy
Ikr...that stood out for me, such a good friend she is👌
I also hope for one genuine friend
Be a Judy first❤
Working on it@@marywanjiru5022
Ive noted that too...she is a gem.
The fact that phil recognized cates son as his own was beautiful..
True 🎉
This!!! Yes that’s beautiful 😍
That's what beinga gentleman entales💯💯💯
Very
Amazing 🎉
Phil is a humble guy I like how he loved Kate, may God bless him with his soulmate
Ni mmi hapa soul mate wake 😊
Aky he is so so so nice,
Judy was Timo's manager,she's now Abel's manager,,This woman is so powerful and i love her work ethic🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
Big respect to Phil I love how you acknowledge your 2 kids God bless you
Phil and Abel have been true friends ever since, Phil clearly remembers how Judy went into labor, eeish God I need such friends
And Judy treasures friendships as well
every mans friends remember..hapo huwa tunashugulika mbaya...kama tuko pombe zinashuka. we treat that as the most serious issue
There's nothing as sweet as a husband narrating a pregnancy and delivery journey. That's a psychologically present husband. Cheers to these gentlemen
New found respect for Philip.... You're phenomenal
When you go through the entire comment section,everyone is talking about Phil. His calmness,the devotion to his kids and his friendship to Abel. May God bless him❤
Millennials are truly changing the narrative when it comes to fatherhood. Very intentional, present and self aware and it's beautiful to see it.
Man Phill is so intelligent...Look at the way he is answering all this questions with so much reasoning...This tells us that Phil is a Dad....Also everyone in this line up is a hero DAD you have done well just being there for your families❤️
This is very true Kay
I really Love the connection with this family. I love Abel Mutua sana,He has a unique story that many of us are going through right now.I remember one time I chatting with him on WhatsApp about how life inanichapa and he gave me alot of hope and reason to live more and bit all thye odds of this life.Today I am following that path to make it into the film industry. I swear I will name my first son Abel Mutua Barasa,I want him akue na akili kama yake.My role model Abel,one day nikiwa na pesa mzuri Mungu akuweke hai nitakununulia Chai,I am so blessed with the education I get from you Baba Mumbus.Much Love Daddy.
Someone can laugh by just looking at Njugush.. he's just a comedian without even talking 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Now this is what we call a healthy conversation.
Phil introduction got me❤❤❤Cate wewe mungu anakuona
"Judy is a present co-husband" always there for her friends.
No one will talk about how judy looks at mkuru with love everytime he speaks 😊❤❤❤ pure love
I noticed 🥰🥰
The new guy you are lucky if you have joined the three great guys🙏🙏you will learn a lot and grow
True. He's called Newson🥰.
😅 I support Phil, if we men were to undergo such pain, the population of the world would be less than a Million. Big up to any women and mom out there, you're a blessing.
This crew is an example of choose your friends carefully,am certain that even their kids will be phenomenal people because their parents are.
The circle is✌️
I think its high time niache kuishi hii carefree life.. I don't have a kid but this has been mind opening..
I cant wait to be a Dad!
Bi mkurungezi more of this tafadhali
Uko na huyo mtu WA opposite gender Kwanza 😂😂😂😂😂
Best feeling ever.i just gave birth to my mum and the joy is overwhelming.the respect I have for my wife is un imaginable
We need part 2. Love the way Director Phil talks about his step son is so heartwarming ❤
This conversation was awesome.Being a father changed me in many ways,just lost my wife and the thought of the life that awaits me and this two little angels is beyond any explanation.
Phil is so thoughtful jeezz❤❤❤❤
I don't know what bond holds phil and abel but man i would like such a friendship. True to the core.
Thank you Phil for purposing to do something about that part where the baby and the mother need care from more than one individual....people are suffering out here with scars that can never be healed from experiences in that very set up.
Phil is very mature and collected
Oh my God! The way they are passionate and intentional about fatherhood, and how Baba K talks about Leon, oh my! This episode is a good one!
One can tell the respect Judy and Abel have for each other. The devotion of all the 4 men to fatherhood is really admirable. I hope my future man finds a friend like Phil is to Abel.
Yes, Kimani has a point. Dads tend to be providers but forget to bond with their kids and that would repeat when the dads grow old. Dad feel abandoned by the kids at old age coz the kids grew up knowing relationships with dads should be purely Transactional.
That Tugi Njugush moment is priceless ❤
Phil’s next wife will be so lucky‼️He’s a gem, a real definition of dad ‼️
Recently became a single mum....you can only imagine I was in tears watching this ......i wish my babies had an intentional dad but, am here for the task being an intentional parent 😎 ...loved this episode
The both titles u hv r full of blessings
@@gracekekuta3915 Amen ...thank you
Hey muthoni we got this mama 🫶🏾 I take consolation on the fact that there are some wonderful men out there who have been raised single handedly by single mums ❤
@@charlottewanjiru9780 thank you .....true we raise better sons
God is their father my dear and He is able to give them a brilliant earthly father and if don't know God is their father so walk high knowing God got your back. More blessings to U mama as u bring them up.
Baba Njeri amesema one strong point, that I have never realized. Having my child born in a public hospital, I was in the presence of a KMTC trainee during delivery and my baby came before the nurse came. The KMTC trainee walked me through the process and put the baby aside and attended to me then the nurse came in. One had to suffer and in my case it was my child but he was in good health. Pale wagonjwa ni wengi so I agree the KNH team were doing their best based on all the patients that have to care for. "One had to suffer especially if you can't afford a good private institution". This has given me a new appreciation as a mom and for life during labour. Amazing conversation with these dads, their children are blessed.
Judy did a fantastic job. She looked awesome like a talk show host.🎉
Today I've gained alot more respect for Phil manze 💯💯💯
"Character doesn't change a person but mindset does. 🙌🙌
Greats Dads indeed. I always say anyone can be a father but it takes someone special to be a daddy.
My two sons have a father but not a daddy but am proud for this journey of single mum because I have taught them that God is their Daddy
Baba tugi missed memo ya white shoes 😂😂😂.
I'm loving this, keep this coming more often Judy.
Judy I love how you carry and presents yourself.Your presence commands respect ❤
57:14 Phil *... everything you want your kid to learn,you need to do it first..*
That final touch of gifting the dad was heart warming. Men in our society are rarely celebrated. Judy and your crew you have done an awesome thing. Amazing episode
Phil's financial literacy on his kids is 👌🏽.
There is hope for this generation! I love to see these gentlemen becoming all that God is calling them to be. Mbarikiwe Sana
Judy is a real friend... having such a friend is a blessing.
Mungu nipe marafiki wa ukweli aki.
I think na sisi tuwe marafiki wenye moyo mzuri na safi kama Judy, before we pray such prayers.❤
Phil, God bless you. You deserve flowers.
I barely listen to talks and interviews. But this, I've listened through it all. It's so beautiful to see and hear such beautiful stories. The interview has been well done. Thank you Judy
This was a wonderful session. Judy being a wonderful friend to all and intelligence of four men put together. Phil on the "kids do what you do not what you tell them to do" That is really important.
I relate with Abel, I saw my wife labor for 29 hours, and three years later I do not think I have the strength to see her go through that again.
Don't give ofcourse the first time is extremely hard,but after the body stretches it a bit easy,the more you wait longer the harder it becomes 😊,
I like how njugush behaves on Judy's presence 😂😂😂😂bwanaaah kimani mbele ya manager Anakaa nikama ako mbele ya head mistress
Mine was 5.04 pm when they went for that CS and at 6.14 I held my daughter
It's 8weeks 4 days and I can't wait to be the a good father to her, better than my dad who have been the best for me
Congratulations!
May God guide you in bringing up your daughter.
All the best.
Congratulations Judy you kept your promise on checking up on people's mental health state😊
I have never heard Phil speak at length. Glad to hear him
Of all the things about this crew, I admire your friendship. You are there for one another. You talk about it in simple terms that makes it appear very genuine.
@judy we definitely need a part 2 ❤🎉😂😅....... The talk has been eye opening and informational they are truly supa dads.. Twas a good one 😊
Njush is that one friend who reduces the tension in the house.
I didn't know Philip is that a cool guy,his parenting skills also on a top notch, congratulations bro
Phil is a great dad and a gem, he's composed , intelligent name it💯🙌mad respect
Philips 🎉👏👏dad for 8yrs may God bless him❤
Man phil deserves two cups he's just an icon💯
My take home
1. Fathers who are present during child birth have a new found respect for their partners wives. They understand its life and death experience and women go through so much to bring forth life.
2.Lord bless me with such intentional friendships, this is what givers and those who empathize with others always crave. Friends who show up 100 ,are intentional, genuinely happy for you and supportive and know how to sacrifice for others and put themselves in your shoes even if they haven't experienced what you are going through, celebrating etc.
This was very enjoyable to watch, we are learning and getting encouraged. Part 2 please 🙏🏾 .
3. I was wowed by how Judy remembers and was present for all the babies, even remembering birth dates.
4.The gentlemen here are intentional fathers, their children are fortunate to be blessed with them. May they live longer than 70years 🎉
This was a very eye opening conversation, for all men who are so intentional in raising their children. Judy, thank you for hosting these awesome men. Future hubby, are you taking notes???????????😂😂😂😂😂😂
Host them more frequently. They can help a lot of men with not only fatherhood but also life in general as men.
💯💯💯💯
I agree🙋
This soo sweet women are always listened to an now we can have someone who is giving men a platform .....Kuddos 👍👍👍
Judy let's have a series for this one...do many men looking up to this gentlemen ❤❤❤. Good work mama
I would suggest Curtis wa soila
Curtis and Soila 10000.times as well❤
I could listen to these guys the whole day,they are great dads and their kids are blessed to have them,,such a beautiful conversation
I Love the way Judy watched at her husband, our Mkurungenzi. It remind me of my gf when she just smiles and just looked at me winning over a pair of shoes from a shopkeeper for a lower price that was to be for my very close friend. These are the very Father figures we need in our lives. It's really helpful learning from people changing lives, love reign here. Am learning a lot and I plans to show this to our people. Love Judy a lot, she is showing how to even make families beautiful. KEEP SHOWING MORE, BRING OTHER COUPLES HERE. THANK. I hope one day to see JUDY, CELE, NA BIBI YA PHIL. NA MAYBE BIBI YA NEWSON.🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰❤❤❤❤❤
Love to see this from a man... Congratulations mehn and all the best 🎉❤
I am crying listening to this men
5:14
The way Bi answered so fast!❤❤❤❤❤❤
FAMILY
These guys are true definition of true friendship and how costly it is Through Thick And Thin you guys have stick together and used your low moments as an inspiration and a door to widen the scope of your thoughts.
So much wisdom in you guys, Abel Mutua and your team yoh men, you're really changing lives.
#LEGENDS.
Judy knew Tugi's birthday without even hesitating
You guys just painted a picture of what i want in life in a very comprehensive and beautiful way. The conversations were brave,emotional and real and i've learnt a lot about fatherhood and powerful friendships.Great work. KUDOS!!!
DAD'S IT!!!✅✅✅
This was an amazing conversation ❤❤!!!
May God bless this families,may he fulfill the desires of your hearts.Amazing dads❤
it's beautiful someone mentioned the baby as a lifetime dependant, yes Abel! it's true, my son is 25 and i can truly see that in the eyes of his dad.... mind you my son is an adult earning his little income but i can see how the dad protects him with all his mighty, sometime in weird ways...now i get, the life dependant aspect. asante mama Mumbus for bringing this conversation
Aki this conversation reminds me of how we had a conversation with my hubby then he frankly told me seeing me in labour really traumatized him and because of the love he has for me he wouldn't wish to see me pregnant again l felt a different connection with him and l appreciate these men Phil and Mutua ❤❤❤❤
Such a beautiful conversation,Phil manze mad respect
What a conversation, God bless you Judy for bringing dad's on the show to share their experience
Na mkiview mnalike jameni numbers of views and likes ziendanishe😊
True
Listening to this conversation is healing, for those like me who grew up without a dad, but am super grateful to my husband who is a veeery present dad to out daughter, gosh i love it, may God bless him 🙏 🙏 all i'd like to say is the millennial dads are really changing the narrative ...May God bless each and every loving and present dad.
Was glued to the end. Proud of all of you modt especially phil.. thats maturity
Most sober conversation I have ever listened too! Congrats to you all father's out there! You are all in my prayers.
44:55 ..very good point raised by Ngugish! No mwakenya when raising kids,nayo nayo! Ni wewe na God!
I pray for such circle of friends for sureee❤❤❤ such an amazing team
Phill is a kind of friend we need to have coz ukiskia story yake na Abel manze wametoka far
Couldn't relate more on parenting than this. Being a lady raising a son single handedly with his on and off his life when convenient, I learnt a lot. The best lesson is kids are not taught they see and most of it making memories not forgetting their self sufficiency.
People laugh when I tell them I am raising a son that when am retired and enjoying my holiday I won't be worried that their wife will be calling me telling me your son has done this and that and I hope my in-laws are doing the same raising their daughter. I want to have confidence in the work I have done raising them up. Kudos for being the dad's and mentors to your kids
I relate...
Judy you are a BA friend. All round and super involved
I honestly love Judy.... Yaani she has been there kwa almost marafiki wake wote.. actually wote.....wooow
This is one of those much needed conversions in this era. It amazes me that these gentle men have been intentionally present in the lives of their wives and children. God bless them❤
Glad that these young fathers are so keen on intentional fatherhood...i love the fact that Phil to an extend of doing a fatherhood course❤❤❤❤
Part 2 kindly
Phil the super dad
Im just aawwwwing,,,,,,❤❤❤. May my kids experience such loving, intentional and present dad.
We are very ready❤thank you Judy for being my role model❤you inspire me a lot
Feels much educated by these great Fathers... Congrats guys:Njugush/Kimani...I think you should adopt Njuguna name, ikuwe kwa ID😂,Mr Newsom big up,Sir Abel/Baba Mumbus big up senior kazi safi 14 yrs of parenthood sio jokes, Baba Njeri/Phil congrats and good work, Finally Bi. Mkurugenzi Kudos... Hii inafaa kuwa a show on it's own, so educational... Adios mchachos guys😂😂 Part 2 waiting....
Big up phil,,,, The fact that he still recognizes Cate's son as his son says a lot about him . kudos😊
I loved and respected these guys, but after seeing thm as dads i have a respect for them. Phil sounds like a deep guy and sounds so loving. Kudos to to all the fathers on here because they are so loving and present.
Judy you are such a gracious, warm and encompassing host. You are such a natural at this. Thank you for this inspiring episode. ❤️
It was good watching you guys,
I mean the composure and the wisdom 🫡
These fathers are doing a great job, so intentional! ❤ 👏👏👏👏