The moment Phil acknowledged Leon as his son after all that has happened my respect for him has 100% increased...The Award father of the year goes to you Phillip Karanja🎉🎉🎉🎉
Learning from them everyday...hoping I can be a great dad kwa kamondio kangu😅😅😅 but its really a great feeling...lovely conversation wadau bring more Judy
When you go through the entire comment section,everyone is talking about Phil. His calmness,the devotion to his kids and his friendship to Abel. May God bless him❤
Man Phill is so intelligent...Look at the way he is answering all this questions with so much reasoning...This tells us that Phil is a Dad....Also everyone in this line up is a hero DAD you have done well just being there for your families❤️
I really Love the connection with this family. I love Abel Mutua sana,He has a unique story that many of us are going through right now.I remember one time I chatting with him on WhatsApp about how life inanichapa and he gave me alot of hope and reason to live more and bit all thye odds of this life.Today I am following that path to make it into the film industry. I swear I will name my first son Abel Mutua Barasa,I want him akue na akili kama yake.My role model Abel,one day nikiwa na pesa mzuri Mungu akuweke hai nitakununulia Chai,I am so blessed with the education I get from you Baba Mumbus.Much Love Daddy.
Yes, Kimani has a point. Dads tend to be providers but forget to bond with their kids and that would repeat when the dads grow old. Dad feel abandoned by the kids at old age coz the kids grew up knowing relationships with dads should be purely Transactional.
😅 I support Phil, if we men were to undergo such pain, the population of the world would be less than a Million. Big up to any women and mom out there, you're a blessing.
This conversation was awesome.Being a father changed me in many ways,just lost my wife and the thought of the life that awaits me and this two little angels is beyond any explanation.
Thank you Phil for purposing to do something about that part where the baby and the mother need care from more than one individual....people are suffering out here with scars that can never be healed from experiences in that very set up.
I think its high time niache kuishi hii carefree life.. I don't have a kid but this has been mind opening.. I cant wait to be a Dad! Bi mkurungezi more of this tafadhali
Recently became a single mum....you can only imagine I was in tears watching this ......i wish my babies had an intentional dad but, am here for the task being an intentional parent 😎 ...loved this episode
Hey muthoni we got this mama 🫶🏾 I take consolation on the fact that there are some wonderful men out there who have been raised single handedly by single mums ❤
God is their father my dear and He is able to give them a brilliant earthly father and if don't know God is their father so walk high knowing God got your back. More blessings to U mama as u bring them up.
Mine was 5.04 pm when they went for that CS and at 6.14 I held my daughter It's 8weeks 4 days and I can't wait to be the a good father to her, better than my dad who have been the best for me
Aki this conversation reminds me of how we had a conversation with my hubby then he frankly told me seeing me in labour really traumatized him and because of the love he has for me he wouldn't wish to see me pregnant again l felt a different connection with him and l appreciate these men Phil and Mutua ❤❤❤❤
One can tell the respect Judy and Abel have for each other. The devotion of all the 4 men to fatherhood is really admirable. I hope my future man finds a friend like Phil is to Abel.
Baba Njeri amesema one strong point, that I have never realized. Having my child born in a public hospital, I was in the presence of a KMTC trainee during delivery and my baby came before the nurse came. The KMTC trainee walked me through the process and put the baby aside and attended to me then the nurse came in. One had to suffer and in my case it was my child but he was in good health. Pale wagonjwa ni wengi so I agree the KNH team were doing their best based on all the patients that have to care for. "One had to suffer especially if you can't afford a good private institution". This has given me a new appreciation as a mom and for life during labour. Amazing conversation with these dads, their children are blessed.
My take home 1. Fathers who are present during child birth have a new found respect for their partners wives. They understand its life and death experience and women go through so much to bring forth life. 2.Lord bless me with such intentional friendships, this is what givers and those who empathize with others always crave. Friends who show up 100 ,are intentional, genuinely happy for you and supportive and know how to sacrifice for others and put themselves in your shoes even if they haven't experienced what you are going through, celebrating etc. This was very enjoyable to watch, we are learning and getting encouraged. Part 2 please 🙏🏾 . 3. I was wowed by how Judy remembers and was present for all the babies, even remembering birth dates. 4.The gentlemen here are intentional fathers, their children are fortunate to be blessed with them. May they live longer than 70years 🎉
Judy I don't know if you see this but you have made a big difference thank am new mum struggling I admire you it's soo informative...as sad am straggling hope you see my msg
Greats Dads indeed. I always say anyone can be a father but it takes someone special to be a daddy. My two sons have a father but not a daddy but am proud for this journey of single mum because I have taught them that God is their Daddy
This was a wonderful session. Judy being a wonderful friend to all and intelligence of four men put together. Phil on the "kids do what you do not what you tell them to do" That is really important.
@@harunaisha5786 What? No! When God created marriage,he didn't plan for divorce. Man does their own thing when they are operating outside of God's plan.
That final touch of gifting the dad was heart warming. Men in our society are rarely celebrated. Judy and your crew you have done an awesome thing. Amazing episode
This was a very eye opening conversation, for all men who are so intentional in raising their children. Judy, thank you for hosting these awesome men. Future hubby, are you taking notes???????????😂😂😂😂😂😂
I Love the way Judy watched at her husband, our Mkurungenzi. It remind me of my gf when she just smiles and just looked at me winning over a pair of shoes from a shopkeeper for a lower price that was to be for my very close friend. These are the very Father figures we need in our lives. It's really helpful learning from people changing lives, love reign here. Am learning a lot and I plans to show this to our people. Love Judy a lot, she is showing how to even make families beautiful. KEEP SHOWING MORE, BRING OTHER COUPLES HERE. THANK. I hope one day to see JUDY, CELE, NA BIBI YA PHIL. NA MAYBE BIBI YA NEWSON.🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰❤❤❤❤❤
Damn! being a ten months old dad,i needed this fr.May God give me such ambitious and dedicated friends cos at the end of the day,alone is harder ....we need a kamkutano live in a hall cos this has 'beyond' convo....Thanks Judy and the Gs
it's beautiful someone mentioned the baby as a lifetime dependant, yes Abel! it's true, my son is 25 and i can truly see that in the eyes of his dad.... mind you my son is an adult earning his little income but i can see how the dad protects him with all his mighty, sometime in weird ways...now i get, the life dependant aspect. asante mama Mumbus for bringing this conversation
Couldn't relate more on parenting than this. Being a lady raising a son single handedly with his on and off his life when convenient, I learnt a lot. The best lesson is kids are not taught they see and most of it making memories not forgetting their self sufficiency. People laugh when I tell them I am raising a son that when am retired and enjoying my holiday I won't be worried that their wife will be calling me telling me your son has done this and that and I hope my in-laws are doing the same raising their daughter. I want to have confidence in the work I have done raising them up. Kudos for being the dad's and mentors to your kids
I barely listen to talks and interviews. But this, I've listened through it all. It's so beautiful to see and hear such beautiful stories. The interview has been well done. Thank you Judy
Hearing this men talk about how they respect the women in their lives after what they go through during labor n then knowing kuna nyang'ao fulani who will watch the women in their lives go through that n then leave them
These guys are true definition of true friendship and how costly it is Through Thick And Thin you guys have stick together and used your low moments as an inspiration and a door to widen the scope of your thoughts. So much wisdom in you guys, Abel Mutua and your team yoh men, you're really changing lives. #LEGENDS.
This I the kind of friendship I want.....phil is basically mumbus 2nd dad❤...I fall in love with Phil everytime I hear him talk n to think that even after separation he still consider Cate's son his son is fat....I love u guys n I hope kimani's & Abel's marriages be forever... much love
This is one of those much needed conversions in this era. It amazes me that these gentle men have been intentionally present in the lives of their wives and children. God bless them❤
Njugush said it,it's GOD'S work because they still grow without fathers n dads as much as it's not how we would want it we live with it,bless you guys for being there for your wives some of us give birth by ourselves...... congratulations fathers take your flowers guys for being good husbands n fathers/dads.Bless you Bi.Mkurugenzi
I like something they said the process of labor and giving birth its something that you can't understand as a man..like it's respect to all women! Amazing watching this!
The moment Phil acknowledged Leon as his son after all that has happened my respect for him has 100% increased...The Award father of the year goes to you Phillip Karanja🎉🎉🎉🎉
The fact that phil recognized cates son as his own was beautiful..
True 🎉
This!!! Yes that’s beautiful 😍
That's what beinga gentleman entales💯💯💯
Very
Amazing 🎉
Judy is a gem notice how shes always present for her friends may God give me my Judy
Ikr...that stood out for me, such a good friend she is👌
I also hope for one genuine friend
Be a Judy first❤
Working on it@@marywanjiru5022
Ive noted that too...she is a gem.
Learning from them everyday...hoping I can be a great dad kwa kamondio kangu😅😅😅 but its really a great feeling...lovely conversation wadau bring more Judy
That's great comme
Comme pia uko huku, taking tips left, right and center. Bro najua ile excitemnt uko nayo, it is a great feeling, i had a similar feeling 3yrs ago
You will be a great dad! Wish you all the best.
You will be wonderful as a father
Comme did Kamondio came?
Phil is a humble guy I like how he loved Kate, may God bless him with his soulmate
Ni mmi hapa soul mate wake 😊
Aky he is so so so nice,
When you go through the entire comment section,everyone is talking about Phil. His calmness,the devotion to his kids and his friendship to Abel. May God bless him❤
Judy was Timo's manager,she's now Abel's manager,,This woman is so powerful and i love her work ethic🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
Phil and Abel have been true friends ever since, Phil clearly remembers how Judy went into labor, eeish God I need such friends
And Judy treasures friendships as well
every mans friends remember..hapo huwa tunashugulika mbaya...kama tuko pombe zinashuka. we treat that as the most serious issue
There's nothing as sweet as a husband narrating a pregnancy and delivery journey. That's a psychologically present husband. Cheers to these gentlemen
Big respect to Phil I love how you acknowledge your 2 kids God bless you
Millennials are truly changing the narrative when it comes to fatherhood. Very intentional, present and self aware and it's beautiful to see it.
New found respect for Philip.... You're phenomenal
Now this is what we call a healthy conversation.
No one will talk about how judy looks at mkuru with love everytime he speaks 😊❤❤❤ pure love
I noticed 🥰🥰
"Judy is a present co-husband" always there for her friends.
Man Phill is so intelligent...Look at the way he is answering all this questions with so much reasoning...This tells us that Phil is a Dad....Also everyone in this line up is a hero DAD you have done well just being there for your families❤️
This is very true Kay
I really Love the connection with this family. I love Abel Mutua sana,He has a unique story that many of us are going through right now.I remember one time I chatting with him on WhatsApp about how life inanichapa and he gave me alot of hope and reason to live more and bit all thye odds of this life.Today I am following that path to make it into the film industry. I swear I will name my first son Abel Mutua Barasa,I want him akue na akili kama yake.My role model Abel,one day nikiwa na pesa mzuri Mungu akuweke hai nitakununulia Chai,I am so blessed with the education I get from you Baba Mumbus.Much Love Daddy.
Phil introduction got me❤❤❤Cate wewe mungu anakuona
Phil’s next wife will be so lucky‼️He’s a gem, a real definition of dad ‼️
Yes, Kimani has a point. Dads tend to be providers but forget to bond with their kids and that would repeat when the dads grow old. Dad feel abandoned by the kids at old age coz the kids grew up knowing relationships with dads should be purely Transactional.
😅 I support Phil, if we men were to undergo such pain, the population of the world would be less than a Million. Big up to any women and mom out there, you're a blessing.
This crew is an example of choose your friends carefully,am certain that even their kids will be phenomenal people because their parents are.
The circle is✌️
The new guy you are lucky if you have joined the three great guys🙏🙏you will learn a lot and grow
True. He's called Newson🥰.
Host them more frequently. They can help a lot of men with not only fatherhood but also life in general as men.
💯💯💯💯
I agree🙋
This conversation was awesome.Being a father changed me in many ways,just lost my wife and the thought of the life that awaits me and this two little angels is beyond any explanation.
Phil is so thoughtful jeezz❤❤❤❤
Thank you Phil for purposing to do something about that part where the baby and the mother need care from more than one individual....people are suffering out here with scars that can never be healed from experiences in that very set up.
Phil is very mature and collected
That Tugi Njugush moment is priceless ❤
We need part 2. Love the way Director Phil talks about his step son is so heartwarming ❤
I think its high time niache kuishi hii carefree life.. I don't have a kid but this has been mind opening..
I cant wait to be a Dad!
Bi mkurungezi more of this tafadhali
Uko na huyo mtu WA opposite gender Kwanza 😂😂😂😂😂
I don't know what bond holds phil and abel but man i would like such a friendship. True to the core.
Recently became a single mum....you can only imagine I was in tears watching this ......i wish my babies had an intentional dad but, am here for the task being an intentional parent 😎 ...loved this episode
The both titles u hv r full of blessings
@@gracekekuta3915 Amen ...thank you
Hey muthoni we got this mama 🫶🏾 I take consolation on the fact that there are some wonderful men out there who have been raised single handedly by single mums ❤
@@charlottewanjiru9780 thank you .....true we raise better sons
God is their father my dear and He is able to give them a brilliant earthly father and if don't know God is their father so walk high knowing God got your back. More blessings to U mama as u bring them up.
Today I've gained alot more respect for Phil manze 💯💯💯
Mine was 5.04 pm when they went for that CS and at 6.14 I held my daughter
It's 8weeks 4 days and I can't wait to be the a good father to her, better than my dad who have been the best for me
Congratulations!
May God guide you in bringing up your daughter.
All the best.
Best feeling ever.i just gave birth to my mum and the joy is overwhelming.the respect I have for my wife is un imaginable
"Character doesn't change a person but mindset does. 🙌🙌
57:14 Phil *... everything you want your kid to learn,you need to do it first..*
Aki this conversation reminds me of how we had a conversation with my hubby then he frankly told me seeing me in labour really traumatized him and because of the love he has for me he wouldn't wish to see me pregnant again l felt a different connection with him and l appreciate these men Phil and Mutua ❤❤❤❤
One can tell the respect Judy and Abel have for each other. The devotion of all the 4 men to fatherhood is really admirable. I hope my future man finds a friend like Phil is to Abel.
Judy did a fantastic job. She looked awesome like a talk show host.🎉
I relate with Abel, I saw my wife labor for 29 hours, and three years later I do not think I have the strength to see her go through that again.
Don't give ofcourse the first time is extremely hard,but after the body stretches it a bit easy,the more you wait longer the harder it becomes 😊,
Man phil deserves two cups he's just an icon💯
Phil's financial literacy on his kids is 👌🏽.
Baba Njeri amesema one strong point, that I have never realized. Having my child born in a public hospital, I was in the presence of a KMTC trainee during delivery and my baby came before the nurse came. The KMTC trainee walked me through the process and put the baby aside and attended to me then the nurse came in. One had to suffer and in my case it was my child but he was in good health. Pale wagonjwa ni wengi so I agree the KNH team were doing their best based on all the patients that have to care for. "One had to suffer especially if you can't afford a good private institution". This has given me a new appreciation as a mom and for life during labour. Amazing conversation with these dads, their children are blessed.
Oh my God! The way they are passionate and intentional about fatherhood, and how Baba K talks about Leon, oh my! This episode is a good one!
My take home
1. Fathers who are present during child birth have a new found respect for their partners wives. They understand its life and death experience and women go through so much to bring forth life.
2.Lord bless me with such intentional friendships, this is what givers and those who empathize with others always crave. Friends who show up 100 ,are intentional, genuinely happy for you and supportive and know how to sacrifice for others and put themselves in your shoes even if they haven't experienced what you are going through, celebrating etc.
This was very enjoyable to watch, we are learning and getting encouraged. Part 2 please 🙏🏾 .
3. I was wowed by how Judy remembers and was present for all the babies, even remembering birth dates.
4.The gentlemen here are intentional fathers, their children are fortunate to be blessed with them. May they live longer than 70years 🎉
Judy let's have a series for this one...do many men looking up to this gentlemen ❤❤❤. Good work mama
I would suggest Curtis wa soila
Curtis and Soila 10000.times as well❤
I didn't know Philip is that a cool guy,his parenting skills also on a top notch, congratulations bro
Judy is a real friend... having such a friend is a blessing.
Mungu nipe marafiki wa ukweli aki.
I think na sisi tuwe marafiki wenye moyo mzuri na safi kama Judy, before we pray such prayers.❤
Someone can laugh by just looking at Njugush.. he's just a comedian without even talking 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I have never heard Phil speak at length. Glad to hear him
Baba tugi missed memo ya white shoes 😂😂😂.
I'm loving this, keep this coming more often Judy.
Big up phil,,,, The fact that he still recognizes Cate's son as his son says a lot about him . kudos😊
Judy I don't know if you see this but you have made a big difference thank am new mum struggling I admire you it's soo informative...as sad am straggling hope you see my msg
There is hope for this generation! I love to see these gentlemen becoming all that God is calling them to be. Mbarikiwe Sana
Phil, God bless you. You deserve flowers.
Congratulations Judy you kept your promise on checking up on people's mental health state😊
hearing these men talk have given me hope that there are men out there who appreciate women for the sacrifice we make
Greats Dads indeed. I always say anyone can be a father but it takes someone special to be a daddy.
My two sons have a father but not a daddy but am proud for this journey of single mum because I have taught them that God is their Daddy
Philips 🎉👏👏dad for 8yrs may God bless him❤
Judy knew Tugi's birthday without even hesitating
This was a wonderful session. Judy being a wonderful friend to all and intelligence of four men put together. Phil on the "kids do what you do not what you tell them to do" That is really important.
Cate really lost a gem.. Phil's maturity and intelligence is on another level..not to mention the love he has for his kids👌
P
U dont know their story...tulia
Nobody lost anything their journey ended, it's God's plan. They will both be blessed with someone better in due time
@@harunaisha5786 What? No!
When God created marriage,he didn't plan for divorce. Man does their own thing when they are operating outside of God's plan.
@harunaisha5786 it's not God's plan🥺
That final touch of gifting the dad was heart warming. Men in our society are rarely celebrated. Judy and your crew you have done an awesome thing. Amazing episode
Judy I love how you carry and presents yourself.Your presence commands respect ❤
Phil is a great dad and a gem, he's composed , intelligent name it💯🙌mad respect
@judy we definitely need a part 2 ❤🎉😂😅....... The talk has been eye opening and informational they are truly supa dads.. Twas a good one 😊
This was a very eye opening conversation, for all men who are so intentional in raising their children. Judy, thank you for hosting these awesome men. Future hubby, are you taking notes???????????😂😂😂😂😂😂
I like how njugush behaves on Judy's presence 😂😂😂😂bwanaaah kimani mbele ya manager Anakaa nikama ako mbele ya head mistress
This soo sweet women are always listened to an now we can have someone who is giving men a platform .....Kuddos 👍👍👍
I Love the way Judy watched at her husband, our Mkurungenzi. It remind me of my gf when she just smiles and just looked at me winning over a pair of shoes from a shopkeeper for a lower price that was to be for my very close friend. These are the very Father figures we need in our lives. It's really helpful learning from people changing lives, love reign here. Am learning a lot and I plans to show this to our people. Love Judy a lot, she is showing how to even make families beautiful. KEEP SHOWING MORE, BRING OTHER COUPLES HERE. THANK. I hope one day to see JUDY, CELE, NA BIBI YA PHIL. NA MAYBE BIBI YA NEWSON.🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰❤❤❤❤❤
Love to see this from a man... Congratulations mehn and all the best 🎉❤
Damn! being a ten months old dad,i needed this fr.May God give me such ambitious and dedicated friends cos at the end of the day,alone is harder ....we need a kamkutano live in a hall cos this has 'beyond' convo....Thanks Judy and the Gs
Phill is a kind of friend we need to have coz ukiskia story yake na Abel manze wametoka far
Just know Abel and Judy my daughter and son have 16yrs difference and it's a beautiful feeling.
it's beautiful someone mentioned the baby as a lifetime dependant, yes Abel! it's true, my son is 25 and i can truly see that in the eyes of his dad.... mind you my son is an adult earning his little income but i can see how the dad protects him with all his mighty, sometime in weird ways...now i get, the life dependant aspect. asante mama Mumbus for bringing this conversation
in less than a month am going to be a dad....with this guys atleast niko na kamwakenya on some things
All the best may you never lack
44:55 ..very good point raised by Ngugish! No mwakenya when raising kids,nayo nayo! Ni wewe na God!
I honestly love Judy.... Yaani she has been there kwa almost marafiki wake wote.. actually wote.....wooow
Njush is that one friend who reduces the tension in the house.
Couldn't relate more on parenting than this. Being a lady raising a son single handedly with his on and off his life when convenient, I learnt a lot. The best lesson is kids are not taught they see and most of it making memories not forgetting their self sufficiency.
People laugh when I tell them I am raising a son that when am retired and enjoying my holiday I won't be worried that their wife will be calling me telling me your son has done this and that and I hope my in-laws are doing the same raising their daughter. I want to have confidence in the work I have done raising them up. Kudos for being the dad's and mentors to your kids
I relate...
I barely listen to talks and interviews. But this, I've listened through it all. It's so beautiful to see and hear such beautiful stories. The interview has been well done. Thank you Judy
Men who have been through all trimesters to delivery room with their women, understand the true definition of a woman😊I love this❤
Na mkiview mnalike jameni numbers of views and likes ziendanishe😊
True
men should be given more platforms to talk about their journeys, this was such an interesting conversation,
Such a beautiful conversation,Phil manze mad respect
😢😢nimeshindwa kuwatch hii show for Phil. Kate why? Some of our dad's never give a mmh about their kids but Phil is a gem. Bless him
Hearing this men talk about how they respect the women in their lives after what they go through during labor n then knowing kuna nyang'ao fulani who will watch the women in their lives go through that n then leave them
These guys are true definition of true friendship and how costly it is Through Thick And Thin you guys have stick together and used your low moments as an inspiration and a door to widen the scope of your thoughts.
So much wisdom in you guys, Abel Mutua and your team yoh men, you're really changing lives.
#LEGENDS.
Part 2 kindly
Phil the super dad
This I the kind of friendship I want.....phil is basically mumbus 2nd dad❤...I fall in love with Phil everytime I hear him talk n to think that even after separation he still consider Cate's son his son is fat....I love u guys n I hope kimani's & Abel's marriages be forever... much love
This is one of those much needed conversions in this era. It amazes me that these gentle men have been intentionally present in the lives of their wives and children. God bless them❤
This is a masterpiece.. Judy apatiwe talk show kwa tv bana😍
5:14
The way Bi answered so fast!❤❤❤❤❤❤
FAMILY
Glad that these young fathers are so keen on intentional fatherhood...i love the fact that Phil to an extend of doing a fatherhood course❤❤❤❤
Was glued to the end. Proud of all of you modt especially phil.. thats maturity
Njugush said it,it's GOD'S work because they still grow without fathers n dads as much as it's not how we would want it we live with it,bless you guys for being there for your wives some of us give birth by ourselves...... congratulations fathers take your flowers guys for being good husbands n fathers/dads.Bless you Bi.Mkurugenzi
We are very ready❤thank you Judy for being my role model❤you inspire me a lot
I like something they said the process of labor and giving birth its something that you can't understand as a man..like it's respect to all women! Amazing watching this!
DAD'S IT!!!✅✅✅
This was an amazing conversation ❤❤!!!
What a conversation, God bless you Judy for bringing dad's on the show to share their experience