LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO, I watched that original clip in front of a few of my male elders and they were like "WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH THE BOY? He gonna wanna sleep with her and he can't even pay bills or feed a fckn baby. Avoid men like him. He has no ambition. " 😭😭😭 He came from America thinking it's sweet.
Unpopular opinion, but I agree with Niles's parents. He doesn't have any money, just lost his job, but he wants to get married? He won't even be able to sponsor Matilda to the US without proper income. And the fact that he already went overseas with so little money tells me he has no savings either, which shows financial irresponsibility to say the least. HE IS NOT READY
@@Solitude1990 true and even with all those issues Mathilda doesn’t seem to care. All she cares about is what her family and friends will think if she doesn’t get married while Niles is there. That’s crazy!
The fact that he has no money and still plans to go through with getting married shows how irresponsible and short sighted he really is. Starting a “new life” with a zero balance in your bank account with no job or financial security regardless of the bride’s nationality is bananas . He wasn’t honest with Matilda right from the start of his trip and waits till the last min before they get married should have been red flag city for her. Financial strain is one of the biggest contributors of a couple breaking up and they already have a boatload of it before they even get married. That is a great way to set yourself up for failure and if I was Matilda I don’t know if I would have married him . She is totally going to have his family giving her side eye and being worried she is a scammer but the way this unfolded, IMO he came to Matilda knowing he has nothing to offer, no set plan on how he is going to provide for her while she is going to leave her family, her life and live in a new country with no outside support says he is the one scamming and not living in reality. I honestly think that she does love him and when you make decisions on emotion with no regard to the financial facts , those decisions most times don’t end with a positive result. Sorry for the text rant.😮💨🙄🤣
Hahaha 🤣 , you Americans are so full of yourselves. Why on earth would she want to marry a BROKE man just to tell her friends she's going to America? There are soooo many rich men in Ghana. If anything, her decision to stay with him would make her the laughing stock. Her decision to want to be with him DESPITE his broke state only points to one thing: LOVE. That's the only thing that can make an otherwise rational person, stop thinking.
Something tells me Niles didn't lose his job, i feel like he tried to get off for this trip and was fired as a result... which is why his parents are telling him he isn't rational.... you left your job and barely had any money which is dumb ...
See I thought that maybe the job didn’t like him appearing on the show. his coworkers knew he was on the show as they were filming there, so the job higher-ups probably knew. Maybe they thought it wasn’t a good look.
@@bambinaforever1402what makes her a scammer? She's been upfront with him. Do you even know what it means to be a scammer? Or, are you talking out your arse?
Niles really went to the old man with one hand for money?! 😂 The American goes to him and first asks him to be a stand-in dad and now he has to pay for this stranger’s wedding? That’s wild
My family wasnt happy when i told them i met a man in nigeria. Yes he was poor. But he was a good man and he was honest with me. 7yrs we dated ldr and yes i helped him from my own money. I thought to myself well i work hard for my money and atleast im doing a good thing helping somebody so if ut disnt work out i could atleast say im a helpful caring person. After 7yrs i went there and he was everything and more that he portrayed himself to be. We married and i brang him here and we now ben happily married 8yrs. He works and hes such a great husband. Hes sweet and kind and romantic and theres a strong connection and passion between us and strong love. So not everybody who needs financial help is a bad person or lazy. Some ppl are born into unideal circumstances that are extremely hard to change without help. My hubby did alot for me too. Over the years he made me a better person. I was a party girl with no direction in life. Im a better person cos of him. And im so glad i took a chance on him.
@tflg3257 🤣we ben married 8yrs living together in Australia. How's it a scam. We met 15yrs ago. Wtf kinda scammer sticks around that long. He couldve left me yrs ago legally still stay here. He has money so y is he still with me if it was a scam lol. No he's a good person n his family love me and mine love him now. At the beginning it was a chance I took. We've built a happy life together n we are always together so I don't see where a scam is. Not everyone in this world is a bad person n there are good nigerian ppl not all of them are scammers.
I'm wondering if the parents are staying clear of this whole situation because they don't want to end up being financially responsible for two adults. I don't think Matilda understands how difficult this man is going to be to live with. 😢
@@hazellevesque87 Exactly 💯 🎯 They do seem to truly care about each other. They both made mistakes. She told everyone she was marrying a rich American and he would be paying for everything and he paid for the expensive trip there and only has $109 left. They just need to move forward. Mr. Arc is going to tell Niles how are you borrowing money from me with no job to pay it back?
Niles is not financially ready for a marriage. They are both delusional at this point. What will happen after the wedding ceremony? No job, credit debt, no savings... its a mess
him with that blue shirt on, the backpack, nerdy voice, reading glasses and egg head making those comical facial expressions, clutching that pocket money in his hand as he presents it to his love interest saying, "that's awll ah have" & then her frowning at him, really reminded me of Arthur trying it with Francene 🐹
Melicia and everyone else: Matilda was NOT being sneaky and misleading Niles about the knocking. This couple agreed to a compromise: a bigger knocking instead of knocking + wedding, so expectant guests wouldn't feel deceived. This aired in a previous episode. I’m tired of the Matilda misinformation!
Why can't Niles and Mathilda get married and have a big party later? Niles needs to get back to the US and find another job so he can take care of Mathilda.
She did mislead him. She told him he had to give her that money. She never told him it was an optional thing that she would like to do. When you’re in an intercultural relationship, you have to be very clear with your partner so they can make an informed decision.
@@lynne709 She told him the correct thing: to give her the money (for a 'meet me halfway' bigger knocking), so she could pass it onto family for event logistics. If they were doing the normal knocking + full wedding, Niles would have only had to come with his parents and refreshments. But Niles didn't have parents in tow and they suddenly pivoted out of the wedding.
Niles lies and is aware of it. Niles withholds information knowingly. He is a liar regardless of his 'conditions' he is making excuses. He is fully aware
It’s clear Matilda wants to come to America but it’s also clear that she is exactly what he needs in life! She very nurturing and clearly provides him with support. She has taught him how to be accountable which will make him a better man and a better partner. I think they need each other… she’s young so life is teaching her a few lessons throughout this process as well like not giving into societal pressures (ie wanting to rush the marriage and all the events surrounding the marriage to appease everyone else and not wanting to look crazy for having to approach it differently… move in silence until the time is right). I REALLY want to see them overcome the small obstacles and win!
I don’t think so it’s not that easy to make money in America. If a man doesn’t have respect for his parents and has absolutely no savings is crazy. Once she has a baby she will just have 2 babies to take care of a man should be a provider especially if he wants to bring her over with a visa… where is that money coming from to even do that
I feel bad for Matilda. You know the level of their financial struggle and for Miles as a boyfriend not to help her out as it is but to add to burden and financial stress is just so wrong. Matilda is not in it for money but she deserves more than this. Like how sad that she even has to borrow money from her own family to get his suit. He could have at least taken out some credit i dont know. How are you gonna go to another country with peanuts in your pocket. Plus have a wedding. This is ridiculous
Dear Matilda, I feel sorry that the world is judging you for nothing but a few minutes of heavily edited TV actions. Continue to be true to yourself and trust in God, because men will always find something to bash and judge you. No one knows your heart but the Almighty, and if you stay steadfast, you'll be amazed with the reward awaiting for you. I wish we could hear his parents explain the basis of their mistrust of you but we'll probably never know.
@@kalimbaayinde25so what! What does Niles want from her? I hate when people act like American are just the prize.. if they really cared about foreigners just wanting a green card why do they go to another country to get in a relationship?!!
@@kalimbaayinde25Niles is literally a broke guy and can't even qualify to bring her to the USA, you need money to sponsor someone to come to the US. Nile has nothing
Melicia are you letting Miles condition be on his side so much. Hes been lying and is broke. Why should Matilda marry someone broke because she's from Ghana.
@@elodiecyriellembiadjeu2301 Don’t you understand that these scenes are taking place in Ghana/Africa? It’s a different culture and customs, the American is expected to obey everything while over there. Stop judging through the lenses of your own culture. In Africa when a guy wants to marry, more is expected of him. Did you watch season 3 when Benjamin was sweating with the bride price for Akiny in Kenya? Just like what is happening with Niles, Ben went to Nairobi to meet Akiny for the first time,but he ended up leaving as a married man. So if you think your culture is superior to any other out there, then tell your people to not go seeking for love abroad. You sound arrogant.
His parents have known him his whole life They have backed him, guided him, and have had close ties with him and demonstrated alot of patience He is an adult but parents seem to always accept and stand behind him to support There comes a time when they hit a frustration level and he is a grown man with a bit of a child’s brain 🌺
Yes but it goes to show that he isn’t ready for marriage if that’s the case because he should’ve never proposed it he should’ve said he wanted to get married at a later date. I like him but as a parent of an autistic child it’s very easy to be manipulated even when the person “loves” you. Everyone has a motive and if Mathilda cared about him she would postpone the wedding but as someone married to a Nigerian I also understand they do NOT like to look bad to the community.
@ do you think he’s trying to manipulate or he’s just not good at expressing his feelings? He doesn’t lie but he holds on to the truth until he can’t any longer. Because it’s not like he wants anything from Matilda other than to be with her. I have to watch the season through and through though. I’ve only seen the clips with this host!
@@shannaholmes833 exactly , I think he's holding on to the truth, to avoid dealing with it .. which is what he's been saying he struggles with , masking I feel bad for him , he's dealing with this alone
Remember he has autism. I have a family member that has autism and often says father or mother. Know that some people that have autism don’t always communicate the way that neurotypical people do. I just don’t think you can understand his relationships through the way he talks, unless you can understand his own feelings.
@kalimbaayinde25 it's true as a son to a father not a daughter to a father if they have a good relationship it's not that formal especially when your black it's dad or pops never father
Forreal and America is NOT that great. Especially if you dont have papers straight away she will just be stuck in a house . She can't drive can be independent etc it will be miserable for her. Americans think everyone is after America. It really ain't all that
When Melicia said"this gives me flashback to being a teenager and turning the volume down" I felt that in MY SOUL 😂😂😂😂. My mum was a shouter and I a naughty kid, so you know I got those phone calls a lot. 😅
How this man is trying to play Matilda, I don’t like it! How you loss your job and then you planned to go to another country with 0 money for his girlfriend /fiance (?)
Someone needs to pump some sense into Matilda. She needs to put a stop to this nonsense. That without a job Nikes cannot file for her even if he marries her.
Seriously. She’s zeroed in on marrying him but when she was talking to producers, it sounds like she’s not even certain she wants to leave her country. Neither of them are ready in any way shape or form
@@bambinaforever1402 are you serious?? When a single woman fosters to adopt its beautiful, but when a single man wants a child , something isn't right ??
They won't let him postpone the wedding for financial reasons but they don't want him to be asking for money for the same reasons they only care about today not tomorrow or next week
Matilda does not know that if he is unemployed she ain’t gonna step her foot onto American soil. Until he has a proper steady income she will not be allowed into USA
you are the most respectful of all i have watched on these couples. Many are being edited by tlc and manipulated by partner so many dont have the base to get thru it
What is TLC paying Niles and Matilda? TLC should pay all their expenses to marry!! TLC making money from people watching. I got a feeling we will see a wedding.🤣😂🤣😂🤣
I don’t like how Matilda is being perceived in a negative light. It’s funny how the other female cast members from developing, non-African countries haven’t been perceived that way. Niles has autism which makes him socially awkward, impacts his level of professional achievement and impacts his ability to date successfully. It’s hard for him to get beautiful women. That’s why he searched for relationships overseas. Instead of looking for women overseas, he should have connected with a therapist that specializes in autism disorders, worked with a tutor so he could attain education for a better job or lucrative skill, and attained mentorship on perfecting his physical appearance. He didn’t have to play with a sweet young woman from Africa to boost his ego. Now he’s embarrassing her on national TV.
What is the rush for them to get married? I think Matilda and Niles need to get finances in order, maybe Nile's family will come around, and work out the issues first before rushing into marriage. Truly at the core of a wedding all you need is man + wife = minister. Everything else is icing on the cake. You don't need all of that while nice it's not necessary. Maybe it would be better to hold off and when he comes back again he will show to his family and Matilda's family that he is serious about marriage.
The "core of a wedding" depends on the culture. Matilda and Niles don't need to have a big wedding, but in Ghanaian culture, more is needed than a minister and the couple.
I love how Niles stood his ground for his wife to be. Even if they call her a scammer this girl is hard working she is not going to America to just sit she will truly help Niles .
Niles need to pack it up and go home. He has lied enough. Matilda really just wants to get to this country. First of all Niles has no job and may not have a home to go back to.
He will also be not allowed to bring her into the country if he does not have a steady ENOUGH income. Or he needs a sponsor for her and we know how his parents feel
I completely agree she wants America first and he is giving in not thinking he needs money to sponsor her and he is broke a whole mess both need to find new partners Ghana has a lot of intellectual intelligent men she thinks America has money as she has stated you are American like most Americans have to do 2 jobs plzzzzzzz
tbh i always felt bozo treated vanya like that because he was broke and too intimidated/shamed to come clean to her about the reality of his situation. so instead he made their whole disconnect in their “relationship” about her and deflected the attention off of himself 🤷🏾♀️. imo he’s not fooling nobody. i also think it’s unfortunate that niles has no one on his side to serve as someone to support him and hold him accountable. disability or not sometimes you need someone in your corner to be the voice of reason and remind you of your initial plans etc. anybody can give into peer pressure and it’s hard to not feel as though he has been cornered to make such permanent decisions based on everyone else’s desires and boundaries and not his own.
I'm glad Vanya was able to have a couple dates and find a man she had chemistry with. I don't think she should've invited the guy back to her place on a first date though. I also would've just said it didn't work out with the guy she came to visit.
Vanja wouldn’t be step mom, she would be mom. It’s not something to be taken lightly but I hope they can make it work. And Matilda, honey, leave him alone. He’s unemployed and irresponsible. Niles is the sneaky one, imo.
His parents are right. He might not see it, but they're watching out for him because of his disability. He can be manipulated, the world is a cruel place.
Niles planning on getting married with $109 to his name is proof that he isn’t ready.
The crazy part is that people without autism do this everyday proof that love makes you stupid
Why did you say that 😂? I want to take Niles and Matilda seriously and you have me laughing in my house.
LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO, I watched that original clip in front of a few of my male elders and they were like "WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH THE BOY? He gonna wanna sleep with her and he can't even pay bills or feed a fckn baby. Avoid men like him. He has no ambition. " 😭😭😭
He came from America thinking it's sweet.
@@MinglingwithSherlinI am cackling 😂😂😂😂
😂
Unpopular opinion, but I agree with Niles's parents. He doesn't have any money, just lost his job, but he wants to get married? He won't even be able to sponsor Matilda to the US without proper income. And the fact that he already went overseas with so little money tells me he has no savings either, which shows financial irresponsibility to say the least. HE IS NOT READY
@@Solitude1990 true and even with all those issues Mathilda doesn’t seem to care. All she cares about is what her family and friends will think if she doesn’t get married while Niles is there. That’s crazy!
The fact that he has no money and still plans to go through with getting married shows how irresponsible and short sighted he really is. Starting a “new life” with a zero balance in your bank account with no job or financial security regardless of the bride’s nationality is bananas . He wasn’t honest with Matilda right from the start of his trip and waits till the last min before they get married should have been red flag city for her. Financial strain is one of the biggest contributors of a couple breaking up and they already have a boatload of it before they even get married. That is a great way to set yourself up for failure and if I was Matilda I don’t know if I would have married him . She is totally going to have his family giving her side eye and being worried she is a scammer but the way this unfolded, IMO he came to Matilda knowing he has nothing to offer, no set plan on how he is going to provide for her while she is going to leave her family, her life and live in a new country with no outside support says he is the one scamming and not living in reality. I honestly think that she does love him and when you make decisions on emotion with no regard to the financial facts , those decisions most times don’t end with a positive result. Sorry for the text rant.😮💨🙄🤣
Well said.
Heavy on not being able to sponsor her, & she will be his responsibility until she's able to get a job.
@@shannaholmes833people pleasing will be one of the causes of a miserable life for her and Miles.
Matilda wants this wedding to push through because she already told everybody she's marrying an American. She needs the wedding to save face.
Exactly 💯
Hahaha 🤣 , you Americans are so full of yourselves. Why on earth would she want to marry a BROKE man just to tell her friends she's going to America? There are soooo many rich men in Ghana. If anything, her decision to stay with him would make her the laughing stock.
Her decision to want to be with him DESPITE his broke state only points to one thing: LOVE. That's the only thing that can make an otherwise rational person, stop thinking.
Its cultural in general! She wont be seen as a potential bride to another family ever after she announced their propsal ... 🫠
@summerlavey6091 she should've waited, gotten to know Niles first. It's their first meeting if I'm not mistaken.
Don’t want to agree cos I am African but there is a truth to this
Vanya has upgraded from a short, unemployed, emotionally immature guy who lives with his mom to a tall, fine, foster father who has a real job.
All thanks to TLC and Sharp Entertainment who went searching for her "happy ending".
You know to keep the suckers/ viewers watching.
@@davicool4284
You mean like you?
So happy for her❤
She’s moving way too fast
Way,way ,way..🌍... 🛸... 🚀...🛰 ...🪐 better 😂😂
Niles' parents know his level of immaturity.
True!
wouldn't be surprised if Matilda or Vanya is pregnant.Niles isn't smart enough to wrap up and Vanya was ready like Freddy lol.
yea because its their fault- more than likely they baby him and did everything for him never taught him how to be a man yea im sure hes not ready
Something tells me Niles didn't lose his job, i feel like he tried to get off for this trip and was fired as a result... which is why his parents are telling him he isn't rational.... you left your job and barely had any money which is dumb ...
That is exactly what I think happened
See I thought that maybe the job didn’t like him appearing on the show. his coworkers knew he was on the show as they were filming there, so the job higher-ups probably knew. Maybe they thought it wasn’t a good look.
Or maybe he was there just an intern working for free
I agree too
Imagine if niles had an allowance from his parents and it got cut because they are mad at him. SERIOUS
I hate the bias towards Matilda, In my opinion Nile’s is a liar
Yes👏you're👏right👏
Same
He is a liar and she is a scammer. They found each other
@ what is she scamming him when all he has is 100 usd, her brother is paying for their wedding
@@bambinaforever1402what makes her a scammer? She's been upfront with him. Do you even know what it means to be a scammer? Or, are you talking out your arse?
How can Matilda scam a broke man , so many rich good looking men in Ghana
Dumbass sold on the American dream they think the United States is the shit
Bc she isn't scamming him... he's scamming her. Matilda seems like a humble hardworking girl. Niles is a liar from the start. He keeps on lying!
Say it and say it again
@@cdcsamira 🎉 this!!!!
Ghanaians are hard working trust she will go to America and work her ass off. Hopefully he future husband isn't lazy.
I love her commentary "what an upgrade, you went from a man living with his mama to a man trying to say the children"🦋
Božo knows Vanya is out of his league, that's why he's overwhelmed. Hope she finds someone who appreciates her badassery!
haha, yeah right, or he was simply unattracted to her, maybe her breath was stinky, you don't know
Bad breath is a game changer, to be fair lolb@@mindfortress105
Nah I think he still had feelings for his ex.
Seeing how easily she folded I can see why he backed away
… she was way too pushy and desperate
Niles really went to the old man with one hand for money?! 😂 The American goes to him and first asks him to be a stand-in dad and now he has to pay for this stranger’s wedding? That’s wild
Well, isnt it what children do? Unsuccessful children i mean - ask parents for money? He did agree to be his dad in Kongo or wherever they re
@@bambinaforever1402 Ghana dont play with the country tf
My family wasnt happy when i told them i met a man in nigeria. Yes he was poor. But he was a good man and he was honest with me. 7yrs we dated ldr and yes i helped him from my own money. I thought to myself well i work hard for my money and atleast im doing a good thing helping somebody so if ut disnt work out i could atleast say im a helpful caring person.
After 7yrs i went there and he was everything and more that he portrayed himself to be. We married and i brang him here and we now ben happily married 8yrs. He works and hes such a great husband. Hes sweet and kind and romantic and theres a strong connection and passion between us and strong love. So not everybody who needs financial help is a bad person or lazy. Some ppl are born into unideal circumstances that are extremely hard to change without help.
My hubby did alot for me too. Over the years he made me a better person. I was a party girl with no direction in life. Im a better person cos of him. And im so glad i took a chance on him.
Happy for you sis.
@Missemeka
This sounds like a Nigerian ad scam.
@tflg3257 🤣we ben married 8yrs living together in Australia. How's it a scam. We met 15yrs ago. Wtf kinda scammer sticks around that long. He couldve left me yrs ago legally still stay here. He has money so y is he still with me if it was a scam lol. No he's a good person n his family love me and mine love him now. At the beginning it was a chance I took. We've built a happy life together n we are always together so I don't see where a scam is. Not everyone in this world is a bad person n there are good nigerian ppl not all of them are scammers.
No American wrote this. Ladies don't get scammed or send money to another country. Love don't cost a thing.
Lovely story . I wish you and your husband many happy years ❤
She need to go for that vin diesel dude ooh lol even though he has a kid at least he’s honest and told her what his situation was that’s really sweet
Comparing him to a Vin Diesel is AN INSULT TO VIN DIESEL
I'm wondering if the parents are staying clear of this whole situation because they don't want to end up being financially responsible for two adults. I don't think Matilda understands how difficult this man is going to be to live with. 😢
Matilda is only 23... she needs to run. shes hardworking as it is, and Niles is not ready at all
I concur
You can tell she’s just a nice girl 😂
If Mr. Arc’s daughter was Matilda and her man was broke, I can swear that marriage wouldn’t happen.
hopefully!!
Well I'm glad Vanya started to date again I just hope she just doesn't throttle too hard with this one and she just takes it a little slow 😂😂😂😂😂
She may have to move to Croatia if she wants this new man. She needs to slow her roll.
Vanya needs to bring it down a few notches. I like the tall guy also 🎉
yes ..she already mentally moved in and helping him raise the foster child
She really loves Niles, you can see how teary she was at the end of that discussion...
Lol. Don't be naive. She's only looking for an opportunity to leave Ghana. Believe me I know her type.
@nyakehkeii6780 Even if she is, so what!! As long as she doesn’t mistreat him and they honestly look like they care about each other!
@@hazellevesque87 Exactly 💯 🎯
They do seem to truly care about each other.
They both made mistakes. She told everyone she was marrying a rich American and he would be paying for everything and he paid for the expensive trip there and only has $109 left. They just need to move forward. Mr. Arc is going to tell Niles how are you borrowing money from me with no job to pay it back?
@@nyakehkeili6780yup typical Ghana woman
@@nyakehkeili6780 to be honest he’s so broke I’m sure if she waited she could just find better in her own country
Niles is not financially ready for a marriage. They are both delusional at this point. What will happen after the wedding ceremony? No job, credit debt, no savings... its a mess
him with that blue shirt on, the backpack, nerdy voice, reading glasses and egg head making those comical facial expressions, clutching that pocket money in his hand as he presents it to his love interest saying, "that's awll ah have" & then her frowning at him, really reminded me of Arthur trying it with Francene 🐹
Girl, are you talking about Arthur and Francine from the children’s books/cartoon?! 😂😂😂
@@aic0809 Yes! Pretty sure he even clenched his fist like Arthur too, while on the phone to his father 🤣
@@prettymamita I’m cackling!!!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
That’s the best comparison 😂
You got me cryinnn😂
Melicia and everyone else: Matilda was NOT being sneaky and misleading Niles about the knocking. This couple agreed to a compromise: a bigger knocking instead of knocking + wedding, so expectant guests wouldn't feel deceived. This aired in a previous episode. I’m tired of the Matilda misinformation!
THANK YOU 🙏🏿!!!!!
Why can't Niles and Mathilda get married and have a big party later? Niles needs to get back to the US and find another job so he can take care of Mathilda.
She did mislead him. She told him he had to give her that money. She never told him it was an optional thing that she would like to do. When you’re in an intercultural relationship, you have to be very clear with your partner so they can make an informed decision.
@@lynne709 She told him the correct thing: to give her the money (for a 'meet me halfway' bigger knocking), so she could pass it onto family for event logistics. If they were doing the normal knocking + full wedding, Niles would have only had to come with his parents and refreshments. But Niles didn't have parents in tow and they suddenly pivoted out of the wedding.
Exactly!! Thank you, I was like what is this lady talking about. Has she even been following their journey.
Melicia 😂😂😂😂you crazy using the phone 📱 as his parents 😅😅😅
Melicia is giving Kelly Rowland vibes with this look 😍💯💗
This episode was good and juicy and all but from the second I saw the thumbnail I could not get over Melecia’s hair 😍
Niles is the scammer, not Matilda! He’s the one who wasn’t honest and backpedaling at every turn. His parents should be ashamed and not of his autism.
Ur right.. iam seeing him through too
they’ve known nile’s all his life, this is not the first illogical thing
new guy for Vanja was set up by production 😂😂
Hallelujah somebody said it 🙌
What’s wrong with that? I’d be open to a team finding me a fine ass man! 😝
Really, you think?
You mean to say that all those kissing and (possibly) sex before she leaves are just acting for tv? What self respecting woman does that?
@@Ankns-ug5iha desperate one ☝️
Niles lies and is aware of it. Niles withholds information knowingly. He is a liar regardless of his 'conditions' he is making excuses. He is fully aware
It’s clear Matilda wants to come to America but it’s also clear that she is exactly what he needs in life! She very nurturing and clearly provides him with support. She has taught him how to be accountable which will make him a better man and a better partner. I think they need each other… she’s young so life is teaching her a few lessons throughout this process as well like not giving into societal pressures (ie wanting to rush the marriage and all the events surrounding the marriage to appease everyone else and not wanting to look crazy for having to approach it differently… move in silence until the time is right). I REALLY want to see them overcome the small obstacles and win!
She needs him and vice versa... but cant build a marriage on that,, w/o a job
I don’t think so it’s not that easy to make money in America. If a man doesn’t have respect for his parents and has absolutely no savings is crazy. Once she has a baby she will just have 2 babies to take care of a man should be a provider especially if he wants to bring her over with a visa… where is that money coming from to even do that
How is he going to take care of his wife with no job and he is borrowing money: his parents aren’t going to give him any money.
12:16 I’m Ghanaian and Mary’s comments about knocking is SPOT ON!
I feel bad for Matilda. You know the level of their financial struggle and for Miles as a boyfriend not to help her out as it is but to add to burden and financial stress is just so wrong. Matilda is not in it for money but she deserves more than this. Like how sad that she even has to borrow money from her own family to get his suit. He could have at least taken out some credit i dont know. How are you gonna go to another country with peanuts in your pocket. Plus have a wedding. This is ridiculous
Dear Matilda, I feel sorry that the world is judging you for nothing but a few minutes of heavily edited TV actions. Continue to be true to yourself and trust in God, because men will always find something to bash and judge you. No one knows your heart but the Almighty, and if you stay steadfast, you'll be amazed with the reward awaiting for you. I wish we could hear his parents explain the basis of their mistrust of you but we'll probably never know.
Ohh please. She isn’t in love with him. She wants to get to the states. Stop playing games.
So you are offering her a place to live? 😂
@@kalimbaayinde25so what! What does Niles want from her? I hate when people act like American are just the prize.. if they really cared about foreigners just wanting a green card why do they go to another country to get in a relationship?!!
@@kalimbaayinde25Niles is literally a broke guy and can't even qualify to bring her to the USA, you need money to sponsor someone to come to the US. Nile has nothing
As an African who have visit the United States. I will never live in that country even if I get paid to stay there.
Melicia are you letting Miles condition be on his side so much.
Hes been lying and is broke. Why should Matilda marry someone broke because she's from Ghana.
My adult daughters call me "mother" for laughs 😅that "father" was serious 🧐
Lol you didn’t have to go to space 7:55 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 you are too funny
Matilda is allowed to want a fairytale wedding just like any of us women.
yes but she should not count on people's money when her family and herself are not wiling to put a dime
@@elodiecyriellembiadjeu2301 It’s called tradition.
@elodiecyriellembiadjeu2301 yes you can when the other person is your husband wtf
@@elodiecyriellembiadjeu2301 Don’t you understand that these scenes are taking place in Ghana/Africa? It’s a different culture and customs, the American is expected to obey everything while over there. Stop judging through the lenses of your own culture. In Africa when a guy wants to marry, more is expected of him. Did you watch season 3 when Benjamin was sweating with the bride price for Akiny in Kenya? Just like what is happening with Niles, Ben went to Nairobi to meet Akiny for the first time,but he ended up leaving as a married man. So if you think your culture is superior to any other out there, then tell your people to not go seeking for love abroad. You sound arrogant.
yes we all WANT....something unrealistic in our circumstances
His parents have known him his whole life They have backed him, guided him, and have had close ties with him and demonstrated alot of patience He is an adult but parents seem to always accept and stand behind him to support There comes a time when they hit a frustration level and he is a grown man with a bit of a child’s brain 🌺
Missed you and love the hair! I really enjoy watching these recaps!!
Niles is doing everything and saying Everything to get out of getting married in my opinion
Good! 🚩
Yes but it goes to show that he isn’t ready for marriage if that’s the case because he should’ve never proposed it he should’ve said he wanted to get married at a later date. I like him but as a parent of an autistic child it’s very easy to be manipulated even when the person “loves” you. Everyone has a motive and if Mathilda cared about him she would postpone the wedding but as someone married to a Nigerian I also understand they do NOT like to look bad to the community.
He seems to be good at trying to manipulate too.
@ do you think he’s trying to manipulate or he’s just not good at expressing his feelings? He doesn’t lie but he holds on to the truth until he can’t any longer. Because it’s not like he wants anything from Matilda other than to be with her. I have to watch the season through and through though. I’ve only seen the clips with this host!
@@shannaholmes833 exactly , I think he's holding on to the truth, to avoid dealing with it .. which is what he's been saying he struggles with , masking
I feel bad for him , he's dealing with this alone
That phone call looked like a sham . No one on that call Niles😂😂
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Exactly!! Nobody was on that phone!!!
Remind me of Ressa Tessa's story 😂😂😂😂
The way I just hollered!!!😂🤣😂😂
You know when a son doesn't have a relationship with his dad when he refers too him as Father 😅
Oh geez, my adult son calls me mother... and he lives in my 🏠. 🙄😒😑
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But they do have a relationship..
That’s not true.
Remember he has autism. I have a family member that has autism and often says father or mother. Know that some people that have autism don’t always communicate the way that neurotypical people do. I just don’t think you can understand his relationships through the way he talks, unless you can understand his own feelings.
@kalimbaayinde25 it's true as a son to a father not a daughter to a father if they have a good relationship it's not that formal especially when your black it's dad or pops never father
Vanya's story has given me life!!❤😂
Matilda love Niles, she is not after money. Not every one is after green card.
Forreal and America is NOT that great. Especially if you dont have papers straight away she will just be stuck in a house . She can't drive can be independent etc it will be miserable for her. Americans think everyone is after America. It really ain't all that
WHO isn't?
I'm sooooooo glad for Vanja!
When Melicia said"this gives me flashback to being a teenager and turning the volume down" I felt that in MY SOUL 😂😂😂😂.
My mum was a shouter and I a naughty kid, so you know I got those phone calls a lot. 😅
The way I paused this video!!!!!! Niles.....Matilda
Malicia! Everything you say its always right and the phone between you and Nels was great 😂😂😜
How this man is trying to play Matilda, I don’t like it! How you loss your job and then you planned to go to another country with 0 money for his girlfriend /fiance (?)
its called man-child activity
😂 you have a perfect balance of funny and thoughtful. Your reenactment of that phone call scene had me hollering. Keep up the good reviews
Niles already changed his mind 3 times about marrying her 😩 he needs to just go home and get his life together.
Someone needs to pump some sense into Matilda.
She needs to put a stop to this nonsense.
That without a job Nikes cannot file for her even if he marries her.
Seriously. She’s zeroed in on marrying him but when she was talking to producers, it sounds like she’s not even certain she wants to leave her country. Neither of them are ready in any way shape or form
Who's watching the baby was my first question.
MY first question was WHO LET A SINGLE YOUNG MAN foster a baby???????? Smth is not right there.
@@bambinaforever1402hes grown . Single Men can't want to be fathers??? American men are the ones that are questionable. Not all men.
@@bambinaforever1402 are you serious??
When a single woman fosters to adopt its beautiful, but when a single man wants a child , something isn't right ??
@@bambinaforever1402what delusion are you under??? A man can't foster or adopt a child?! My dear. Get with the program.
Most likely his parents.
Go Vanya girl, so happy to see you happy
Yes that's soo good 😊
Melicia being shady to Bojo funny af 😂😂😂
Respect to Niles. Be your own man.
He is not being his own man if he is asking for money.
You look like Whitney Houston with this hair! I love it!
At someone can see that 🥰
You are so good at these recaps! You always what I’m thinking but in a better way lol love it
Bozo who???
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Omg these thoughts from Melecia are so wonderful 😻😻
The Martin hell no took me out 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Girl I cackled 🤣🤣🤣
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Love your hair! ❤
This is one of my least favorite hairstyles of Melicia's.
@@hollyshinn1274samee😭
They won't let him postpone the wedding for financial reasons but they don't want him to be asking for money for the same reasons they only care about today not tomorrow or next week
Man about to file bankruptcy 😂😂😂
Melicia, I can’t with these edits 😂 “ I’m embarrassed “
"Embarassted"
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"you wanna meet crazy, i'm crazy" I SCREAMED
His parents need to let him grow up and have a wife. He won’t find a Matilda in Mobile, Alabama trust me- I’m from Alabama myself.
Lol😂
They may he doing Matilda a favor - actually.
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Agreed. What he needs is support. He’s autistic, so he has some issues which is true, but he also needs love and marriage might be good for him.
Matilda does not know that if he is unemployed she ain’t gonna step her foot onto American soil. Until he has a proper steady income she will not be allowed into USA
you are the most respectful of all i have watched on these couples. Many are being edited by tlc and manipulated by partner so many dont have the base to get thru it
What is TLC paying Niles and Matilda? TLC should pay all their expenses to marry!! TLC making money from people watching. I got a feeling we will see a wedding.🤣😂🤣😂🤣
I heard they get 2,000 per show. While the show makes millions
I don’t like how Matilda is being perceived in a negative light. It’s funny how the other female cast members from developing, non-African countries haven’t been perceived that way. Niles has autism which makes him socially awkward, impacts his level of professional achievement and impacts his ability to date successfully. It’s hard for him to get beautiful women. That’s why he searched for relationships overseas. Instead of looking for women overseas, he should have connected with a therapist that specializes in autism disorders, worked with a tutor so he could attain education for a better job or lucrative skill, and attained mentorship on perfecting his physical appearance. He didn’t have to play with a sweet young woman from Africa to boost his ego. Now he’s embarrassing her on national TV.
Women from the Philippines, Vietnam, Brazil and Indonesia have ALL been perceived that way!!
I can't be the only one watching these strictly to see Melicias face and hear her beautiful voice
Loving the hair Melicia
It’s a wig
@@barbaramorgan6313what’s you’re point
@@Bunny11344 Facts.😀what is yours?
What is the rush for them to get married? I think Matilda and Niles need to get finances in order, maybe Nile's family will come around, and work out the issues first before rushing into marriage. Truly at the core of a wedding all you need is man + wife = minister. Everything else is icing on the cake. You don't need all of that while nice it's not necessary. Maybe it would be better to hold off and when he comes back again he will show to his family and Matilda's family that he is serious about marriage.
Because Matilda wants to get that green card.
The "core of a wedding" depends on the culture. Matilda and Niles don't need to have a big wedding, but in Ghanaian culture, more is needed than a minister and the couple.
She wants TO GET TO AMERICA! Where everyone is RICH RICH RICH and money are falling from the sky
Strange because she can see her American fiance is poor-]poor-porr
I love how Niles stood his ground for his wife to be. Even if they call her a scammer this girl is hard working she is not going to America to just sit she will truly help Niles .
Niles need to pack it up and go home. He has lied enough. Matilda really just wants to get to this country. First of all Niles has no job and may not have a home to go back to.
He will also be not allowed to bring her into the country if he does not have a steady ENOUGH income. Or he needs a sponsor for her and we know how his parents feel
I completely agree she wants America first and he is giving in not thinking he needs money to sponsor her and he is broke a whole mess both need to find new partners Ghana has a lot of intellectual intelligent men she thinks America has money as she has stated you are American like most Americans have to do 2 jobs plzzzzzzz
Hopefully Niles bought a round trip ticket back 🔙 home
I need someone to give Vanya a makeover. She would look even more beautiful with new hair and makeup.
VANYA is fine the way she is... beauty is relative.
I think they would love Matilda if they gave her a chance. She is precious 💕💕💕
Melicia your crack me up 😅 love your advice and the hair !
Niles thinking $400 is a lot for bride price is the shocking part as a South African girly
as an ANY girly.
I love the editing! Super funny😂
tbh i always felt bozo treated vanya like that because he was broke and too intimidated/shamed to come clean to her about the reality of his situation. so instead he made their whole disconnect in their “relationship” about her and deflected the attention off of himself 🤷🏾♀️. imo he’s not fooling nobody.
i also think it’s unfortunate that niles has no one on his side to serve as someone to support him and hold him accountable. disability or not sometimes you need someone in your corner to be the voice of reason and remind you of your initial plans etc. anybody can give into peer pressure and it’s hard to not feel as though he has been cornered to make such permanent decisions based on everyone else’s desires and boundaries and not his own.
possibly...easy way out..
how you gonna ask an older man for money they need it for their retirement lmao no niles
Niles is not ready for marriage he needs to wait
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Btw Melicia looks like Whitney today …Stunning
I feel like Niles made a fake call - there was no one on the other side of the line.
Good evening! I've been waiting for this! Let me get more snacks!
Can't wait to see how this unfolds! 📺 I hope they can work things out with his parents! 🤞
I didn't think I'd like vanja but now that bozo is gone I see her as a different woman. She deserves someone who loves her
Mel, “coz now we are all friends “ that hair is 🔥
I'm glad Vanya was able to have a couple dates and find a man she had chemistry with. I don't think she should've invited the guy back to her place on a first date though. I also would've just said it didn't work out with the guy she came to visit.
Shes an adult...she can have fun..and it was refreshing after all the heartbreaking and drama
@@ritasafari4723it’s a safety thing.
Melicia said 🎵”no matter what I do all I think about is you!” 🎵😂
Thanks Melissa ❤❤Ive been waiting😅 on your imput.
Great 👍 job.
By the way your looking Beautiful ❤today.
I truly believe Bozo was intimidated & embarrassed by his current situation
Vanja wouldn’t be step mom, she would be mom. It’s not something to be taken lightly but I hope they can make it work. And Matilda, honey, leave him alone. He’s unemployed and irresponsible. Niles is the sneaky one, imo.
His parents are right. He might not see it, but they're watching out for him because of his disability. He can be manipulated, the world is a cruel place.
That blonde wig makes her look like Dave Chappelle when he was playing that white guy
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what blonde wig?
She said “you want to meet with crazy, I’m crazy” lmao
Cant believe Bojos friend is that handsome
Melissia's jumper is EVERYTHING!!! Need it!
I don't care what anyone says that man Bojo is gay this ain't got nothing 2 do with no ex girlfriend
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