As a man who is at that place, I'll speak from my own experience. I really stopped liking my wife after a long season of her neglecting me. It came to a tipping point in 2017. We had 4 young kids and she just never NEVER made any time for me. She'd make time for everyone else in her life, but not one-on-one time with me for coffee, conversation, romance, sex. Always excuses: no time, no money, no energy, no childcare. So I finally called in all my favors and scored a free date out with free childcare. On the date she ripped me up and down about how annoying it was that I kept bugging her for alone time together. That's when reality finally hit me that she simply doesn't want to make me a priority in her life. She wants what I provide and doesn't want to invest. So now she's trying to work on herself and she's been making a real effort to be kind and make time for me, but I still feel this weight of bitterness towards her. I treat her with kindness and affection but my heart's not in it. I don't know if my feelings will ever come back.
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Thank you for the video. What if your husband says that he loves you, but is not in love with you? Is that normal in a long marriage?
Not at all. You need to revivify your marriage. I suggest you take a hard look at the course for women.
As a man who is at that place, I'll speak from my own experience. I really stopped liking my wife after a long season of her neglecting me. It came to a tipping point in 2017. We had 4 young kids and she just never NEVER made any time for me. She'd make time for everyone else in her life, but not one-on-one time with me for coffee, conversation, romance, sex. Always excuses: no time, no money, no energy, no childcare. So I finally called in all my favors and scored a free date out with free childcare. On the date she ripped me up and down about how annoying it was that I kept bugging her for alone time together. That's when reality finally hit me that she simply doesn't want to make me a priority in her life. She wants what I provide and doesn't want to invest.
So now she's trying to work on herself and she's been making a real effort to be kind and make time for me, but I still feel this weight of bitterness towards her. I treat her with kindness and affection but my heart's not in it. I don't know if my feelings will ever come back.