Sounds like the baby arrived earlier than expected. People tend to forget that mothers can die giving birth. The bride wouldnt have been able to talk to her sister if she had, you know, died. Even if she didn't go to the wedding, would she be expected to not tell her parents. Then the grandparents would be bummed to have missed out on the birth. A good sister would have left her reception to make sure her pregnant sister was ok during a medical emergency and to be their for the birth of her nibling. Her behaviour would be a serious red flag for the groom.
“could’ve waited!?” Sister really thinks that OP should’ve stayed although it was an EMERGENCY?? OP couldn’t control when baby will be born either so it isn’t their fault either.
Some people are ignorant and don't know anything about health or being pregnant. You had no choice, sure you could've been hush about it but you might have still been the bad guy for not telling everyone. It's obvious it wasn't done in spite.
Your sister is being an ass . If this happened in the reception after the wedding then the party was basically over already plus you were bleeding thank goodness you and your baby are ok
she has every right to be mad because she gave BIRTH? You forget women literally DIE from it. What was she supposed to do? Hold it in? It’s a baby not piss. Sister is deranged.
If OP had waited the baby could have likely been still born. The sister is a idiot as are people saying OP should have waited until after the wedding to go to the hospital.
this C-section is considered an emergency procedure for a reason. if prolonged it can cause like Fetal Distress Prolonging labor like that in her case can lead to reduced oxygen supply to the baby. This can result in signs of fetal distress, such as abnormal heart rate patterns, which may lead to complications like brain injury if not addressed promptly. so yeah waiting was not a good ideia (i dont know what those people were thinking lol glad to know there is still people with common sense like you) have a nice day too!
@@Fcandleakyeah but that doesnt give her the right to go off on her sister for needing an emergancy c-section that she cant control. If she didnt have that emergancy c-section she or the baby or both could have possibly died.
@@Fcandleakthis woman literally going to die if she Didn't gave birth, she is bleeding, her family choosing to check on her not because of op's request. How are you supposed to delay on giving birth??????
Do these people know how pregnancy works?!? Honestly, you had to get a c section, an emergency one as well. But apparently, that's selfish. You're not the AH. to be honest, your sister is acting like AH
I don't understand the big deal here... Like, guests chose to leave out of their own volition. She has noone to blame but the guests themselves since OP didn't force them to leave and not all of them needed to march to the hospital as if to protect a heir to the throne
I refuse to believe there's actually people out there, that are like this. Only ai would come up with unhinged stuff like this. No one in their right mind could possibly believe that someone is deliberately planning a difficult birth, just to upstage their sibling, least of all the sister in question. These stories are getting more and more out of hand, just to generate engagement... guess ragebait really works.... 💀
When my older sister gave birth 5 years ago I remember being in the waiting room with my family and there was this guy complaining over the phone that his wife's water broke in the middle of his online game
How is OP selfish? It's either her babies life, or both of their lives. Calling her selfish is like saying that a kid with allergies is being picky and a brat because they can't eat certain things
You handled it appropriately, you didn't make a big scene and left discreetly to deal with a medical emergency, you couldn't wait till after the wedding you were bleeding and that baby was coming whether you wanted him to or not its wrong of her to want you to put your life and the life of your child in danger all because of the "inconvenience" that it decided to happen on her wedding day
Bro what??? “Waited till after to go to the hospital” MF SHE WAS BLEEDING!!! It was a medical emergency! Would you be mad at grandpa for having a heart issue at the wedding??? Nah! Glad the parents are on OPs side. All those who are mad at you remind them that it was a MEDICAL EMERGENCY AND YOU COULD NOT CONTROL IT
I know of people who believe that having a c-section is a lazy way to give birth only, and not an emergency life saving procedure. I think the sister and her friends are in camp 1 unfortunately
So if someone had a heart attack or seizure or allergic reaction at her wedding, would sister tell them to wait until after the wedding to get help? As if her wedding is more important than someone's life, more important than OP and her child surviving. Absolutely insane
I’d rather my wedding be canceled then some complication happening to my sister during delivery like having her be quiet and not tell nobody giving birth is extremely scary and so many things could happen. I understand people don’t love their siblings, but I could never.
do people not understand how giving birth and pregnancy works? how can her own sister be so cruel to her like that? if she had waited any longer either her or the baby might have not made it at all
How are you selfish and how does one handle this differently? I was an emergency c section baby at 8 months and born healthy as well thankfully but the doctors had trouble hearing my heart before the c section, either my mom or I could've passed that day, this isn't something to be taken lightly
Well I would distance myself from the sister ... she seems to be a little messed up in the head. And from all people that agree with her for the matter. Keeping up the relationship with people that are not right in the head like this tends to be problematic .....
You had an emergency. It isn't your fault. I swear some people are the epitome of selfishness. Your doctor cleared you to go. How could you handle it differently than you already did? You didn't ruin her day. The medical emergency did. You can't predict when a baby will be born especially when you need an emergency cesarian to get the baby out.
Well, it's obvious your sister has no idea what the human anatomy makes up of especially a woman.You had no choice and for her to think.Anything otherwise would have put your child in you in danger and she can't recognize that there's something really dark and twisted in her friend's and in her
And for the friends and families that are on her side yeah you don't get to see the baby.😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊
The baby : ( wants to come out) Op : i needa go to the hospital!!!!!! What the sister wants : The baby : i w-wanna come out Op : you can wait lil bro 💀
I’m just being someone picks a day to be their big day doesn’t mean they own it and doesn’t mean nothing else can happen on that day OP had to have emergency surgery to deliver their baby ik is it was up to OP then it would have never happened that way younger sister needs to get over herself and so do friends and family that agree with bride ugh some ppl just suck
I know this is a fake story but the sister sucks and I am infuriated but also annoyed at how all the characters in these reddit stories are complete poopheads
i feel like no one is wrong for feeling how they feel but the sister handled it worse calling her selfish for something she couldnt control but i understand her frustration of lost attention on her wedding
OP got a freaking C-section. She could've died. She wasn't supposed to even attend but still went to her sister's wedding. People are just dumb and pathetic sometimes. She couldn't have controlled her labor.
Bro wtf? They rlly said "suck it up buttercup" SHE WAS BLEEDING. YEAH, LIKE YOU'D WANT BLOOD ALL OVER THE DAMN SEATS. "Oh but she ruined my wedding!!!" No she didn't.. She can't control what time she gives birth at. So the sister needs to stop whining abt it.
No you didn’t do anything wrong you had to go to the hospital to have an emergency C Section at least you’re Parents were there to make sure that their grandson was fine and healthy
Oh you’re fine. You can’t time it just because you got some of the spotlight doesn’t mean you’re entitled sister needs to argue about with you. You know you’re totally fine. Don’t take the court season because it’s not your fault.
OP had a damn medical emergency and her selfish ass sister is telling her to wait or handle it better because it was at her damn wedding... wtf. People like the sister truly are trash. It's not like OP knew this would have happened!
Is your sister on drugs? it was an emergency what is wrong with her question mark shit happens sometime don’t apologize and don’t get upset. Life’s too short. Enjoy your new baby and move as Ricky Nelson said years ago you can’t please everybody gotta please yourself.
I think this is part where both sides could be understood. Well OP didn't do anything wrong, I can understand why the sister is upset. Op was 38 weeks pregnant, knew the wedding will be stressed event, didn't leave when she felt first contraction, false or not.
Say you think I'm selfish it my sister thinking she needing lot of the spotlight on her wedding I'm pregnant and give birth so I needed to tell MY parents too 😊 hope this helps 😊
So tired of the narrative that brides get to be dictators. Get over yourselves. Weddings are about two families coming together, not a spotlight on you personally. You're not the only person that matters. If someone has a heart attack at your wedding, would you get mad at that too? Good Lord, you're a grown adult, get some perspective.
Some people r just dumb like how can u actually say to a pregnant woman who’s about to burst to just wait like that baby could die along with the mother if they wait just to please u and to let u do wat u doing like come on a wedding can be redone but them u can’t bring them back
Arranging a proposal during someone else's wedding? Dick move. Having an unplanned medical emergency during someone else's wedding? That one falls under the Act of God policy.
Sounds like the baby arrived earlier than expected. People tend to forget that mothers can die giving birth. The bride wouldnt have been able to talk to her sister if she had, you know, died. Even if she didn't go to the wedding, would she be expected to not tell her parents. Then the grandparents would be bummed to have missed out on the birth. A good sister would have left her reception to make sure her pregnant sister was ok during a medical emergency and to be their for the birth of her nibling. Her behaviour would be a serious red flag for the groom.
You are just a leftist
No one cares
Keep your shit to yourself, ops sister has every right to be mad!!!!!!!!!!!
@@Fcandleakbro are you ops sister🤨
@Fcandleak bro shut up, she getting mad over something that can't be control.
Hmmm 🤔 on the other hand, had she not gone to her sister's wedding, it would have been "You weren't there for me."
Lose-lose situation for OP. Her sister’s too selfish.
So true!
@@Morgan24_7 omg I know right
@@Sasu123456789x1 Can't win.
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“could’ve waited!?” Sister really thinks that OP should’ve stayed although it was an EMERGENCY?? OP couldn’t control when baby will be born either so it isn’t their fault either.
Sister probably thinking that op can shut her baby and told them for another hour before pop
Was the mad sister dropped on her head growing up? Some people are so selfish and entitled entitled i swear.
Can't plan an emergency and they didn't the wedding they left the reception
Some people are ignorant and don't know anything about health or being pregnant. You had no choice, sure you could've been hush about it but you might have still been the bad guy for not telling everyone. It's obvious it wasn't done in spite.
Lose lose situasion, even if she only told her parent only, they Will loudly excused themself to check on her and everyone Will eventually catching up
Your sister is being an ass . If this happened in the reception after the wedding then the party was basically over already plus you were bleeding thank goodness you and your baby are ok
She couldnt of told anyoke on what was happening so her spotlight wouldnt of been taken
Nope, she has every right to be mad!
she has every right to be mad because she gave BIRTH? You forget women literally DIE from it. What was she supposed to do? Hold it in? It’s a baby not piss. Sister is deranged.
@@Fcandleak op has every right to ruin her wedding
@@Fcandleakare you ragebaiting or actually have 0 knowledge about woman's pregnancy work
“Could’ve handled the situation differently” by how? Dying????
Exactly.... like wtf do they even mean when they said "differently"
Bride should be grateful it will be a birthday on her anniversary instead of a memorial for the baby and/or mother.
If you had waited, your sister would have said you ruined her wedding with your funeral. You can't win for losing with those people.
She’s “selfish.” WHAT? SHE JUST BROUGHT LIFE INTO THIS WORLD???
If OP had waited the baby could have likely been still born. The sister is a idiot as are people saying OP should have waited until after the wedding to go to the hospital.
this C-section is considered an emergency procedure for a reason. if prolonged it can cause like Fetal Distress
Prolonging labor like that in her case can lead to reduced oxygen supply to the baby. This can result in signs of fetal distress, such as abnormal heart rate patterns, which may lead to complications like brain injury if not addressed promptly.
so yeah waiting was not a good ideia (i dont know what those people were thinking lol glad to know there is still people with common sense like you)
have a nice day too!
This bot 😂
She did wait until after the wedding. She left during the reception.
Bridezilla is pathetic
You are.
Bridezilla? IT WAS HER BIG DAY
@@Fcandleakyeah but that doesnt give her the right to go off on her sister for needing an emergancy c-section that she cant control. If she didnt have that emergancy c-section she or the baby or both could have possibly died.
@Fcandleak sounds like you're the pathetic one
@@Fcandleakthis woman literally going to die if she Didn't gave birth, she is bleeding, her family choosing to check on her not because of op's request. How are you supposed to delay on giving birth??????
Do these people know how pregnancy works?!? Honestly, you had to get a c section, an emergency one as well. But apparently, that's selfish. You're not the AH. to be honest, your sister is acting like AH
I'm sorry... She KNEW you were pregnant and told you TO WAIT?! that sister don't got no brain cells istg
I don't understand the big deal here... Like, guests chose to leave out of their own volition. She has noone to blame but the guests themselves since OP didn't force them to leave and not all of them needed to march to the hospital as if to protect a heir to the throne
Exactly
She still had plentiful other guests since only some of the family members goes checking on her.
So let the baby die and possible even the mother? At your wedding? Yeah that will definitely not make you forget your wedding
I refuse to believe there's actually people out there, that are like this. Only ai would come up with unhinged stuff like this. No one in their right mind could possibly believe that someone is deliberately planning a difficult birth, just to upstage their sibling, least of all the sister in question. These stories are getting more and more out of hand, just to generate engagement... guess ragebait really works.... 💀
When my older sister gave birth 5 years ago I remember being in the waiting room with my family and there was this guy complaining over the phone that his wife's water broke in the middle of his online game
No there are actually people out there that are that entitled
If she really had problems then she should thinked about it earlier 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
How is OP selfish? It's either her babies life, or both of their lives. Calling her selfish is like saying that a kid with allergies is being picky and a brat because they can't eat certain things
You handled it appropriately, you didn't make a big scene and left discreetly to deal with a medical emergency, you couldn't wait till after the wedding you were bleeding and that baby was coming whether you wanted him to or not its wrong of her to want you to put your life and the life of your child in danger all because of the "inconvenience" that it decided to happen on her wedding day
WTF YOU MEAN SHE IS SELFISH, THE BABY COULD OF DIED, HELLO 🫵💀
Not only the baby but she could have also.
There's no logic to this. Were you supposed to die and take your baby with you?!?
Bro what??? “Waited till after to go to the hospital” MF SHE WAS BLEEDING!!! It was a medical emergency! Would you be mad at grandpa for having a heart issue at the wedding??? Nah! Glad the parents are on OPs side. All those who are mad at you remind them that it was a MEDICAL EMERGENCY AND YOU COULD NOT CONTROL IT
Wow, some people are medically ignorant. What part of medical emergency sounds like it was a deliberate choice? 🤦🏻♀️
I know of people who believe that having a c-section is a lazy way to give birth only, and not an emergency life saving procedure. I think the sister and her friends are in camp 1 unfortunately
People need to learn basic biology 🤦♂️
So if someone had a heart attack or seizure or allergic reaction at her wedding, would sister tell them to wait until after the wedding to get help? As if her wedding is more important than someone's life, more important than OP and her child surviving. Absolutely insane
NTA!! how the hell was op supposed to have handled it differently??.
Babies don't follow anyones schedule but their own
I'd go no contact until she has kids. Do not leave her alone with your baby! How can you be jealous of a baby being born? How petty
I really can't understand the needing the spotlight on oneself wholly common guys it's overwhelming of listening
I’d rather my wedding be canceled then some complication happening to my sister during delivery like having her be quiet and not tell nobody giving birth is extremely scary and so many things could happen. I understand people don’t love their siblings, but I could never.
do people not understand how giving birth and pregnancy works? how can her own sister be so cruel to her like that? if she had waited any longer either her or the baby might have not made it at all
How would you even plan that?!
"I'm so sorry I had a heart attack during your wedding. I was TRYING to just not die but my heart wouldn't stop no matter how much I asked it to."
How are you selfish and how does one handle this differently? I was an emergency c section baby at 8 months and born healthy as well thankfully but the doctors had trouble hearing my heart before the c section, either my mom or I could've passed that day, this isn't something to be taken lightly
Sooo, what should she have done? Keep her legs closed,and wish for the best? Some people are so Trippy.. 😂
"tell your baby to wait another hour 🙄"
Well I would distance myself from the sister ... she seems to be a little messed up in the head. And from all people that agree with her for the matter. Keeping up the relationship with people that are not right in the head like this tends to be problematic .....
You had an emergency. It isn't your fault. I swear some people are the epitome of selfishness. Your doctor cleared you to go. How could you handle it differently than you already did? You didn't ruin her day. The medical emergency did. You can't predict when a baby will be born especially when you need an emergency cesarian to get the baby out.
You can't ignore a medical emergency. Your sister is childish if she thought you did this on purpose.
YOU did nothing Wrong.
Well, it's obvious your sister has no idea what the human anatomy makes up of especially a woman.You had no choice and for her to think.Anything otherwise would have put your child in you in danger and she can't recognize that there's something really dark and twisted in her friend's and in her
Her nephew and sister could have died if she waited.
You were BLEEDING. What exactly did she expected you to do?
I know right
She should of waited
Like THE FUCK
Oh yeah let me just pause my damn pregnancy
Also I hope your kid stays healthy and safe
Had you been injured waiting to give birth, wouldn’t you just technically be stealing more of the attention because it was more severe?
It isn't OP's fault that the baby had to be born early. The sister is a pain.
Il bet the relatives on her side went to the hospital 😂😂
I’m sorry you can’t exactly keep a baby in that wants out like that’s not how it works dawg 😭
And for the friends and families that are on her side yeah you don't get to see the baby.😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊
Yeah, I'd tell OP to go NC with the friends and family members who supported OP's sisters😊😊😊😊
The friends at the end have the same logic as men asking women to hold their periods 😂😂😂 like dude really???
Yeah it's not like holding your pee
Ah yes let me just hit the pause button on my pregnancy
The baby : ( wants to come out)
Op : i needa go to the hospital!!!!!!
What the sister wants :
The baby : i w-wanna come out
Op : you can wait lil bro 💀
hahahah now everyone will celebrate the baby's birthday at least the first few important ones, more than their wedding anniversary
You did nothing wrong, I mean,how were u supposed to go to the hospital AFTER THE WEDDING?
U CANT delay labour
I’m just being someone picks a day to be their big day doesn’t mean they own it and doesn’t mean nothing else can happen on that day OP had to have emergency surgery to deliver their baby ik is it was up to OP then it would have never happened that way younger sister needs to get over herself and so do friends and family that agree with bride ugh some ppl just suck
Bruh i didnt belive that she said you couldve hold it in second if you do that both you and baby couldve die
SELFISH?! HOW TF IS GIVING BIRTH SELFISH????? GIVING BIRTH CAN HAPPEN AT ANY TIME????!!!!! I THINK ITS YOUR SISTER THATS BEING SELFISH
I know this is a fake story but the sister sucks and I am infuriated but also annoyed at how all the characters in these reddit stories are complete poopheads
"handled the situation differently"?!?!?! How could she handle it differently she was giving birth 😭
i feel like no one is wrong for feeling how they feel but the sister handled it worse calling her selfish for something she couldnt control but i understand her frustration of lost attention on her wedding
Had she left unannounced her sister would have been upset anyway
Tell those who said you could have handled it differently that they can pound sand
Its wild to think like this. My mum's grandma died on her wedding day - and was literally ambulanced from the venue
OP got a freaking C-section. She could've died. She wasn't supposed to even attend but still went to her sister's wedding. People are just dumb and pathetic sometimes. She couldn't have controlled her labor.
Wtf does she mean wait until after the wedding? Bruh she cant hold it in like its a shit🥴. And its a medical emergency, she couldve died
I'm torn.
How?
Bro wtf? They rlly said "suck it up buttercup" SHE WAS BLEEDING. YEAH, LIKE YOU'D WANT BLOOD ALL OVER THE DAMN SEATS. "Oh but she ruined my wedding!!!" No she didn't.. She can't control what time she gives birth at. So the sister needs to stop whining abt it.
How could she handle the situation differently😑
She cant control when she goes to the hospital bc of her cramps and bleeding
No you didn’t do anything wrong you had to go to the hospital to have an emergency C Section at least you’re Parents were there to make sure that their grandson was fine and healthy
That is just nuts. You did nothing wrong
Why would you be wrong you can’t just not refuse to have ur baby
Oh you’re fine. You can’t time it just because you got some of the spotlight doesn’t mean you’re entitled sister needs to argue about with you. You know you’re totally fine. Don’t take the court season because it’s not your fault.
It’s a c-section you didn’t know it was gonna happen so why are they blaming you?
How could you handle it any other way like they must be psychopaths
How the hell could she of handled the situation differently she was in labour for goodness sake not like she had a choice in the matter
I’m sorry what? If they needed to do an EMERGENCY C-Section, there was no damn waiting. I swear people can be so selfish
OP had a damn medical emergency and her selfish ass sister is telling her to wait or handle it better because it was at her damn wedding... wtf. People like the sister truly are trash. It's not like OP knew this would have happened!
Bruh I would leave MY OWN wedding if this happened to my sister.
Ah yes how selfish of them, should have rolled to intimidate the child to wait till after the wedding
How are you supposed to "reschedule" a baby birth? It was an emergency and the sister should be happy to be an aunt.
" you could’ve waited " well you choose, me bleeding and ruining the venue or me leaving for the hospital. :)
yeah cuz you can control when the baby wants to come out or not 😭
"YOU SHOULD HAVE TOLD YOUR BABY TO WAIT 🤬🤬🤬"
Is your sister on drugs? it was an emergency what is wrong with her question mark shit happens sometime don’t apologize and don’t get upset. Life’s too short. Enjoy your new baby and move as Ricky Nelson said years ago you can’t please everybody gotta please yourself.
Ngl if it was my wedding I would be mad but I would understand she can’t control that
I think this is part where both sides could be understood. Well OP didn't do anything wrong, I can understand why the sister is upset. Op was 38 weeks pregnant, knew the wedding will be stressed event, didn't leave when she felt first contraction, false or not.
Where is the source material that inspires these stories. Cause that's room temparature reasoning.
No you can’t decide when you give birth and it was a medical emergency did she expect you to stay and suffer
Say you think I'm selfish it my sister thinking she needing lot of the spotlight on her wedding I'm pregnant and give birth so I needed to tell MY parents too 😊 hope this helps 😊
I mean it's not her fault her baby went like " oh I'm poping out NOW "
You are not going to sit there (maybe screaming) and bleeding
How in the world would they expect you to hold it in exactly?
“Have a baby later, ugh!”🙄🤚
Go no contact to her and everyone on her side
Um you were having a baby not your fault she needs to grow up
So tired of the narrative that brides get to be dictators. Get over yourselves. Weddings are about two families coming together, not a spotlight on you personally. You're not the only person that matters. If someone has a heart attack at your wedding, would you get mad at that too? Good Lord, you're a grown adult, get some perspective.
It’s neither of their faults
Some people r just dumb like how can u actually say to a pregnant woman who’s about to burst to just wait like that baby could die along with the mother if they wait just to please u and to let u do wat u doing like come on a wedding can be redone but them u can’t bring them back
Arranging a proposal during someone else's wedding? Dick move. Having an unplanned medical emergency during someone else's wedding? That one falls under the Act of God policy.