Sounds like the baby arrived earlier than expected. People tend to forget that mothers can die giving birth. The bride wouldnt have been able to talk to her sister if she had, you know, died. Even if she didn't go to the wedding, would she be expected to not tell her parents. Then the grandparents would be bummed to have missed out on the birth. A good sister would have left her reception to make sure her pregnant sister was ok during a medical emergency and to be their for the birth of her nibling. Her behaviour would be a serious red flag for the groom.
Some people are ignorant and don't know anything about health or being pregnant. You had no choice, sure you could've been hush about it but you might have still been the bad guy for not telling everyone. It's obvious it wasn't done in spite.
Your sister is being an ass . If this happened in the reception after the wedding then the party was basically over already plus you were bleeding thank goodness you and your baby are ok
she has every right to be mad because she gave BIRTH? You forget women literally DIE from it. What was she supposed to do? Hold it in? It’s a baby not piss. Sister is deranged.
“could’ve waited!?” Sister really thinks that OP should’ve stayed although it was an EMERGENCY?? OP couldn’t control when baby will be born either so it isn’t their fault either.
If OP had waited the baby could have likely been still born. The sister is a idiot as are people saying OP should have waited until after the wedding to go to the hospital.
this C-section is considered an emergency procedure for a reason. if prolonged it can cause like Fetal Distress Prolonging labor like that in her case can lead to reduced oxygen supply to the baby. This can result in signs of fetal distress, such as abnormal heart rate patterns, which may lead to complications like brain injury if not addressed promptly. so yeah waiting was not a good ideia (i dont know what those people were thinking lol glad to know there is still people with common sense like you) have a nice day too!
@@Fcandleakyeah but that doesnt give her the right to go off on her sister for needing an emergancy c-section that she cant control. If she didnt have that emergancy c-section she or the baby or both could have possibly died.
@@Fcandleakthis woman literally going to die if she Didn't gave birth, she is bleeding, her family choosing to check on her not because of op's request. How are you supposed to delay on giving birth??????
Do these people know how pregnancy works?!? Honestly, you had to get a c section, an emergency one as well. But apparently, that's selfish. You're not the AH. to be honest, your sister is acting like AH
I don't understand the big deal here... Like, guests chose to leave out of their own volition. She has noone to blame but the guests themselves since OP didn't force them to leave and not all of them needed to march to the hospital as if to protect a heir to the throne
I refuse to believe there's actually people out there, that are like this. Only ai would come up with unhinged stuff like this. No one in their right mind could possibly believe that someone is deliberately planning a difficult birth, just to upstage their sibling, least of all the sister in question. These stories are getting more and more out of hand, just to generate engagement... guess ragebait really works.... 💀
When my older sister gave birth 5 years ago I remember being in the waiting room with my family and there was this guy complaining over the phone that his wife's water broke in the middle of his online game
I’d rather my wedding be canceled then some complication happening to my sister during delivery like having her be quiet and not tell nobody giving birth is extremely scary and so many things could happen. I understand people don’t love their siblings, but I could never.
I know of people who believe that having a c-section is a lazy way to give birth only, and not an emergency life saving procedure. I think the sister and her friends are in camp 1 unfortunately
How is OP selfish? It's either her babies life, or both of their lives. Calling her selfish is like saying that a kid with allergies is being picky and a brat because they can't eat certain things
You handled it appropriately, you didn't make a big scene and left discreetly to deal with a medical emergency, you couldn't wait till after the wedding you were bleeding and that baby was coming whether you wanted him to or not its wrong of her to want you to put your life and the life of your child in danger all because of the "inconvenience" that it decided to happen on her wedding day
So if someone had a heart attack or seizure or allergic reaction at her wedding, would sister tell them to wait until after the wedding to get help? As if her wedding is more important than someone's life, more important than OP and her child surviving. Absolutely insane
do people not understand how giving birth and pregnancy works? how can her own sister be so cruel to her like that? if she had waited any longer either her or the baby might have not made it at all
How are you selfish and how does one handle this differently? I was an emergency c section baby at 8 months and born healthy as well thankfully but the doctors had trouble hearing my heart before the c section, either my mom or I could've passed that day, this isn't something to be taken lightly
Well I would distance myself from the sister ... she seems to be a little messed up in the head. And from all people that agree with her for the matter. Keeping up the relationship with people that are not right in the head like this tends to be problematic .....
You had an emergency. It isn't your fault. I swear some people are the epitome of selfishness. Your doctor cleared you to go. How could you handle it differently than you already did? You didn't ruin her day. The medical emergency did. You can't predict when a baby will be born especially when you need an emergency cesarian to get the baby out.
Well, it's obvious your sister has no idea what the human anatomy makes up of especially a woman.You had no choice and for her to think.Anything otherwise would have put your child in you in danger and she can't recognize that there's something really dark and twisted in her friend's and in her
The baby : ( wants to come out) Op : i needa go to the hospital!!!!!! What the sister wants : The baby : i w-wanna come out Op : you can wait lil bro 💀
I’m just being someone picks a day to be their big day doesn’t mean they own it and doesn’t mean nothing else can happen on that day OP had to have emergency surgery to deliver their baby ik is it was up to OP then it would have never happened that way younger sister needs to get over herself and so do friends and family that agree with bride ugh some ppl just suck
i feel like no one is wrong for feeling how they feel but the sister handled it worse calling her selfish for something she couldnt control but i understand her frustration of lost attention on her wedding
And for the friends and families that are on her side yeah you don't get to see the baby.😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊
OP got a freaking C-section. She could've died. She wasn't supposed to even attend but still went to her sister's wedding. People are just dumb and pathetic sometimes. She couldn't have controlled her labor.
No you didn’t do anything wrong you had to go to the hospital to have an emergency C Section at least you’re Parents were there to make sure that their grandson was fine and healthy
OP had a damn medical emergency and her selfish ass sister is telling her to wait or handle it better because it was at her damn wedding... wtf. People like the sister truly are trash. It's not like OP knew this would have happened!
Is your sister on drugs? it was an emergency what is wrong with her question mark shit happens sometime don’t apologize and don’t get upset. Life’s too short. Enjoy your new baby and move as Ricky Nelson said years ago you can’t please everybody gotta please yourself.
I think this is part where both sides could be understood. Well OP didn't do anything wrong, I can understand why the sister is upset. Op was 38 weeks pregnant, knew the wedding will be stressed event, didn't leave when she felt first contraction, false or not.
Nobody is a major a hole here. This is just one of situations where both side's stand are right. Sister isnt that wrong either she was understandably upset about losing the attention.
That’s messed up. Idc what day it is my wedding included if my heavily pregnant sister started having problems I would have ran to be by her side at the hospital.
Definitely not mc fault how can you chose the time of birth so congrats! But I also understand how she could be. About disappointed if her parents left early. But she should not have said anything
Me Me Me How did your sister falling into labour ruin your wedding? All the yeye "ruin my bug day" reasons Your niece's birthday and your wedding anniversary are the same day, isn't that a good thing?
i feel like both are at some fault, op did actually go knowing she was at the peak end of delivery and so is the sister at fault too bcs obv she cant help it feel upset abt her wedding attention being shifted but being that angry over an emergency is foul too.
Sounds like the baby arrived earlier than expected. People tend to forget that mothers can die giving birth. The bride wouldnt have been able to talk to her sister if she had, you know, died. Even if she didn't go to the wedding, would she be expected to not tell her parents. Then the grandparents would be bummed to have missed out on the birth. A good sister would have left her reception to make sure her pregnant sister was ok during a medical emergency and to be their for the birth of her nibling. Her behaviour would be a serious red flag for the groom.
You are just a leftist
No one cares
Keep your shit to yourself, ops sister has every right to be mad!!!!!!!!!!!
@@Fcandleakbro are you ops sister🤨
@Fcandleak bro shut up, she getting mad over something that can't be control.
Hmmm 🤔 on the other hand, had she not gone to her sister's wedding, it would have been "You weren't there for me."
Lose-lose situation for OP. Her sister’s too selfish.
So true!
@@Morgan24_7 omg I know right
@@Sasu123456789x1 Can't win.
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She’s “selfish.” WHAT? SHE JUST BROUGHT LIFE INTO THIS WORLD???
Some people are ignorant and don't know anything about health or being pregnant. You had no choice, sure you could've been hush about it but you might have still been the bad guy for not telling everyone. It's obvious it wasn't done in spite.
Lose lose situasion, even if she only told her parent only, they Will loudly excused themself to check on her and everyone Will eventually catching up
Can't plan an emergency and they didn't the wedding they left the reception
Your sister is being an ass . If this happened in the reception after the wedding then the party was basically over already plus you were bleeding thank goodness you and your baby are ok
She couldnt of told anyoke on what was happening so her spotlight wouldnt of been taken
Nope, she has every right to be mad!
she has every right to be mad because she gave BIRTH? You forget women literally DIE from it. What was she supposed to do? Hold it in? It’s a baby not piss. Sister is deranged.
@@Fcandleak op has every right to ruin her wedding
@@Fcandleakare you ragebaiting or actually have 0 knowledge about woman's pregnancy work
Was the mad sister dropped on her head growing up? Some people are so selfish and entitled entitled i swear.
“Could’ve handled the situation differently” by how? Dying????
Exactly.... like wtf do they even mean when they said "differently"
Bride should be grateful it will be a birthday on her anniversary instead of a memorial for the baby and/or mother.
“could’ve waited!?” Sister really thinks that OP should’ve stayed although it was an EMERGENCY?? OP couldn’t control when baby will be born either so it isn’t their fault either.
Sister probably thinking that op can shut her baby and told them for another hour before pop
If you had waited, your sister would have said you ruined her wedding with your funeral. You can't win for losing with those people.
If OP had waited the baby could have likely been still born. The sister is a idiot as are people saying OP should have waited until after the wedding to go to the hospital.
this C-section is considered an emergency procedure for a reason. if prolonged it can cause like Fetal Distress
Prolonging labor like that in her case can lead to reduced oxygen supply to the baby. This can result in signs of fetal distress, such as abnormal heart rate patterns, which may lead to complications like brain injury if not addressed promptly.
so yeah waiting was not a good ideia (i dont know what those people were thinking lol glad to know there is still people with common sense like you)
have a nice day too!
This bot 😂
She did wait until after the wedding. She left during the reception.
Bridezilla is pathetic
You are.
Bridezilla? IT WAS HER BIG DAY
@@Fcandleakyeah but that doesnt give her the right to go off on her sister for needing an emergancy c-section that she cant control. If she didnt have that emergancy c-section she or the baby or both could have possibly died.
@Fcandleak sounds like you're the pathetic one
@@Fcandleakthis woman literally going to die if she Didn't gave birth, she is bleeding, her family choosing to check on her not because of op's request. How are you supposed to delay on giving birth??????
Do these people know how pregnancy works?!? Honestly, you had to get a c section, an emergency one as well. But apparently, that's selfish. You're not the AH. to be honest, your sister is acting like AH
So let the baby die and possible even the mother? At your wedding? Yeah that will definitely not make you forget your wedding
I'm sorry... She KNEW you were pregnant and told you TO WAIT?! that sister don't got no brain cells istg
I don't understand the big deal here... Like, guests chose to leave out of their own volition. She has noone to blame but the guests themselves since OP didn't force them to leave and not all of them needed to march to the hospital as if to protect a heir to the throne
Exactly
She still had plentiful other guests since only some of the family members goes checking on her.
I'd go no contact until she has kids. Do not leave her alone with your baby! How can you be jealous of a baby being born? How petty
People need to learn basic biology 🤦♂️
Wow, some people are medically ignorant. What part of medical emergency sounds like it was a deliberate choice? 🤦🏻♀️
I refuse to believe there's actually people out there, that are like this. Only ai would come up with unhinged stuff like this. No one in their right mind could possibly believe that someone is deliberately planning a difficult birth, just to upstage their sibling, least of all the sister in question. These stories are getting more and more out of hand, just to generate engagement... guess ragebait really works.... 💀
When my older sister gave birth 5 years ago I remember being in the waiting room with my family and there was this guy complaining over the phone that his wife's water broke in the middle of his online game
No there are actually people out there that are that entitled
If she really had problems then she should thinked about it earlier 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
I’d rather my wedding be canceled then some complication happening to my sister during delivery like having her be quiet and not tell nobody giving birth is extremely scary and so many things could happen. I understand people don’t love their siblings, but I could never.
WTF YOU MEAN SHE IS SELFISH, THE BABY COULD OF DIED, HELLO 🫵💀
Not only the baby but she could have also.
I know of people who believe that having a c-section is a lazy way to give birth only, and not an emergency life saving procedure. I think the sister and her friends are in camp 1 unfortunately
How is OP selfish? It's either her babies life, or both of their lives. Calling her selfish is like saying that a kid with allergies is being picky and a brat because they can't eat certain things
There's no logic to this. Were you supposed to die and take your baby with you?!?
You handled it appropriately, you didn't make a big scene and left discreetly to deal with a medical emergency, you couldn't wait till after the wedding you were bleeding and that baby was coming whether you wanted him to or not its wrong of her to want you to put your life and the life of your child in danger all because of the "inconvenience" that it decided to happen on her wedding day
I really can't understand the needing the spotlight on oneself wholly common guys it's overwhelming of listening
So if someone had a heart attack or seizure or allergic reaction at her wedding, would sister tell them to wait until after the wedding to get help? As if her wedding is more important than someone's life, more important than OP and her child surviving. Absolutely insane
NTA!! how the hell was op supposed to have handled it differently??.
Babies don't follow anyones schedule but their own
do people not understand how giving birth and pregnancy works? how can her own sister be so cruel to her like that? if she had waited any longer either her or the baby might have not made it at all
How would you even plan that?!
How are you selfish and how does one handle this differently? I was an emergency c section baby at 8 months and born healthy as well thankfully but the doctors had trouble hearing my heart before the c section, either my mom or I could've passed that day, this isn't something to be taken lightly
"I'm so sorry I had a heart attack during your wedding. I was TRYING to just not die but my heart wouldn't stop no matter how much I asked it to."
Sooo, what should she have done? Keep her legs closed,and wish for the best? Some people are so Trippy.. 😂
Well I would distance myself from the sister ... she seems to be a little messed up in the head. And from all people that agree with her for the matter. Keeping up the relationship with people that are not right in the head like this tends to be problematic .....
You had an emergency. It isn't your fault. I swear some people are the epitome of selfishness. Your doctor cleared you to go. How could you handle it differently than you already did? You didn't ruin her day. The medical emergency did. You can't predict when a baby will be born especially when you need an emergency cesarian to get the baby out.
Well, it's obvious your sister has no idea what the human anatomy makes up of especially a woman.You had no choice and for her to think.Anything otherwise would have put your child in you in danger and she can't recognize that there's something really dark and twisted in her friend's and in her
You can't ignore a medical emergency. Your sister is childish if she thought you did this on purpose.
YOU did nothing Wrong.
Her nephew and sister could have died if she waited.
She should of waited
Like THE FUCK
Oh yeah let me just pause my damn pregnancy
Also I hope your kid stays healthy and safe
You were BLEEDING. What exactly did she expected you to do?
I know right
Had you been injured waiting to give birth, wouldn’t you just technically be stealing more of the attention because it was more severe?
It isn't OP's fault that the baby had to be born early. The sister is a pain.
Il bet the relatives on her side went to the hospital 😂😂
The friends at the end have the same logic as men asking women to hold their periods 😂😂😂 like dude really???
Yeah it's not like holding your pee
Ah yes let me just hit the pause button on my pregnancy
Bruh i didnt belive that she said you couldve hold it in second if you do that both you and baby couldve die
You did nothing wrong, I mean,how were u supposed to go to the hospital AFTER THE WEDDING?
U CANT delay labour
The baby : ( wants to come out)
Op : i needa go to the hospital!!!!!!
What the sister wants :
The baby : i w-wanna come out
Op : you can wait lil bro 💀
I’m just being someone picks a day to be their big day doesn’t mean they own it and doesn’t mean nothing else can happen on that day OP had to have emergency surgery to deliver their baby ik is it was up to OP then it would have never happened that way younger sister needs to get over herself and so do friends and family that agree with bride ugh some ppl just suck
hahahah now everyone will celebrate the baby's birthday at least the first few important ones, more than their wedding anniversary
SELFISH?! HOW TF IS GIVING BIRTH SELFISH????? GIVING BIRTH CAN HAPPEN AT ANY TIME????!!!!! I THINK ITS YOUR SISTER THATS BEING SELFISH
i feel like no one is wrong for feeling how they feel but the sister handled it worse calling her selfish for something she couldnt control but i understand her frustration of lost attention on her wedding
Wtf does she mean wait until after the wedding? Bruh she cant hold it in like its a shit🥴. And its a medical emergency, she couldve died
"handled the situation differently"?!?!?! How could she handle it differently she was giving birth 😭
And for the friends and families that are on her side yeah you don't get to see the baby.😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊
Yeah, I'd tell OP to go NC with the friends and family members who supported OP's sisters😊😊😊😊
Tell those who said you could have handled it differently that they can pound sand
Had she left unannounced her sister would have been upset anyway
OP got a freaking C-section. She could've died. She wasn't supposed to even attend but still went to her sister's wedding. People are just dumb and pathetic sometimes. She couldn't have controlled her labor.
I'm torn.
How?
No you didn’t do anything wrong you had to go to the hospital to have an emergency C Section at least you’re Parents were there to make sure that their grandson was fine and healthy
That is just nuts. You did nothing wrong
Why would you be wrong you can’t just not refuse to have ur baby
It’s a c-section you didn’t know it was gonna happen so why are they blaming you?
How could you handle it any other way like they must be psychopaths
How the hell could she of handled the situation differently she was in labour for goodness sake not like she had a choice in the matter
OP had a damn medical emergency and her selfish ass sister is telling her to wait or handle it better because it was at her damn wedding... wtf. People like the sister truly are trash. It's not like OP knew this would have happened!
I mean it's not her fault her baby went like " oh I'm poping out NOW "
Ah yes how selfish of them, should have rolled to intimidate the child to wait till after the wedding
Is your sister on drugs? it was an emergency what is wrong with her question mark shit happens sometime don’t apologize and don’t get upset. Life’s too short. Enjoy your new baby and move as Ricky Nelson said years ago you can’t please everybody gotta please yourself.
No you can’t decide when you give birth and it was a medical emergency did she expect you to stay and suffer
Ngl if it was my wedding I would be mad but I would understand she can’t control that
I think this is part where both sides could be understood. Well OP didn't do anything wrong, I can understand why the sister is upset. Op was 38 weeks pregnant, knew the wedding will be stressed event, didn't leave when she felt first contraction, false or not.
You are not going to sit there (maybe screaming) and bleeding
Go no contact to her and everyone on her side
Where is the source material that inspires these stories. Cause that's room temparature reasoning.
yeah cuz you can control when the baby wants to come out or not 😭
How in the world would they expect you to hold it in exactly?
Um you were having a baby not your fault she needs to grow up
It’s neither of their faults
Nobody is a major a hole here. This is just one of situations where both side's stand are right. Sister isnt that wrong either she was understandably upset about losing the attention.
That’s messed up. Idc what day it is my wedding included if my heavily pregnant sister started having problems I would have ran to be by her side at the hospital.
I feel like I heard the other side of this
How tf do you control giving birth💀
"Sorry sis fromy baby, he didn't mean to hurt you by wanting to get out of my belly in your wedding day 😢, he and I are really sorry"
🙄
U DID NOTHING WRONG I’ve never givin birth befor but I know it’s PAINFUL and I can’t help that u went into labor so yeha u did nothing wrong
U* I mean u can’t help that u went into labor I didn’t mean I can’t help u Went into labor sorry
Am I the AH for having to give birth when its inconvenient to my sister?
How were your supous to deal with it in another way? Like it's like she would ask you to control your heartbeat because it's loud, wtaf
:sister why didnt u wait to have it after my party?
:if she wouldve had it aftre the party the baby would be on the floor??!!!
Definitely not mc fault how can you chose the time of birth so congrats!
But I also understand how she could be. About disappointed if her parents left early. But she should not have said anything
Me Me Me
How did your sister falling into labour ruin your wedding?
All the yeye "ruin my bug day" reasons
Your niece's birthday and your wedding anniversary are the same day, isn't that a good thing?
U probably wouldeve given birth inside the wedding depending on how long it was so nta
Why,you didn’t
i feel like both are at some fault, op did actually go knowing she was at the peak end of delivery and so is the sister at fault too bcs obv she cant help it feel upset abt her wedding attention being shifted but being that angry over an emergency is foul too.
Nta
You didn't do anything wrong because it's not like you could control needing to go to the hospital
Nta she needs to get over herself
Your sister hates you
I GENUINELY don't believe that this post is real because of how stupid it is