How To Move Out On Your Own (you can do it cheap and fast) 🗝️Tips on How to Get Your Own Place
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 11 มิ.ย. 2024
- Hi:)
I’ve had so many people request a video like this, and as I probably shouldn’t have filmed this at 2 am when I was so scatterbrained, I still wanted to share it for anyone who is struggling with or curious about moving out!
Please feel free to use this comment section as a safe space for questions of giving your own words of advice !
My website is:
sepherahh.bigcartel.com
#movingout #howtomoveout #move #firstapartment #renting #rentingtips #howtomove #movingoutofstate #advice
"i don't like the idea of other people breathing my air" same honestly
I like my solitude and my space.
LMAO RELATABLE
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I was attacked by my last roommate and have had so many bad experiences that I now have anxiety for living with others. I refuse to have roommates now.
20yrs old and trying to move out by the end of the year bc of bad family circumstance. this helps a lot!
You can do it Newjeans!
@@maya356556 this made me laugh
Do you have your work/vocation planned out?
End of the year? This will be a piece of cake.. 6 months is a perfect amount of time to prepare yourself
Likewise!!!
literally just got in an argument with my mom and this the first thing on the timeline 😂
Same here!
We got that Momma Trauma don’t we 😔😭
Sending you so much love and luck.. mother issues are sooooooo painful and I’m rooting for you ❤
im glad im not alone. it sucks. Keep strong!
note about credit: you want your utilization of it to be under 33% or it can bring your credit down so if your limit is $4k then don’t have a balance of more than $1320 at any given time :)
for renting, one thing that really helps me is finding an apartment that at least has *heat* included. depending on where you are in the country and the heat source, as well as the individual utility supplier, heating can add to your utilities in the hundreds and it can be a shock come fall/winter. even if it means renting a place for $100 more than another place i am eyeing, i would rather take a place with heat included for $1000/month than a place without it for $900/month
thank uuuu
true but it really depends on where you live. like if you're in CA or any warm/temperate area apartments generally don't even have central heating.
@@boinkadoinkk definitely! i’ve lived places on the west coast where i got away with space heaters through the winter (in WA). but when i lived on the east coast my heat related utilities climbed over $1000/month, because of the heat source (oil) as well as some regional political stuff with the energy supplier, living in a drafty 100+ y/o house, etc. so having not paid for heat during the warmer months, it was a major shock and stress and required a lot of budget reconfiguring. i recently moved to the midwest and since it’s also a cold climate for a considerable portion of the year, i made sure to find a rental that had heat included in the rent just because heat costs can be so incredibly variable and i like to have my expenses be as predictable as possible when budgeting :•)
Hold the item in your hand for 10 minutes before buying, makes it easier to decide if you really actually need/want that item. Also, imagine where in the house you will put the new item, many things you don't actually need. Remember that every bit of clutter you accumulate before moving you have to move into a box and then move. I had too much stuff I didn't even really need, it was so bad, just stupid junk.
you look like you could be a character made by Tim Burton, youre so pretty and thanks for the helpful video!
lol I just sent one of her videos to my bf and said the same thing 😄
Omg true
Literally just comment this lol
this is gonna help so much. I’m 18 and currently homeless due to having to flee an abusive household situation at home. I have little to no money right now. thank you so much for this 💜
sending you love! you got this! 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾
hope all goes well
I hope you find a place you can call yours one day ❤
@@playdoh658 me too tyyyy
im glad i found your account. i am 19, been out of my parents house since i was 15. thank you! *i have also been homeless. the struggle is real girl lol
Im so sorry babe, it must have been so hard, I know it too
the amount of money you need really depends on where you are
Exactly. Watching this from California has me going 😬😬😬😬
Got my first apartment at 19, excited 🙏🏼
hey just wanted to let you know this really is gonna help me later on, i’m 18 now but i’ve lived with my boyfriend and his family since i was 17 because me and my mom got evicted from our old appnt/is crazy. i feel bad for moving in and taking over his room + i’ve always loved my own space and there’s been some family issues so i plan on getting my own place as soon as i save up. I got a new job bartending yesterday and I’ve saved up my money for a little even after getting a new car, plan on the credit card soon (a little scared because my mom fucked up hers so bad)but i’ve done so much research. thank you
You can do it. Your story spoke to me so I believe you can do it. Keep it up 🫶🏾✨
I'm really sorry to hear that you & your mum got evicted!! :(
Congratulations to you on your new job!! 🎉 🎊 There's a lot of tutorials on here to make it less overwhelming for you. Just a reminder.
Years ago... I was given the advice of just buying one outfit at a time with your credit card, so that it isn't so overwhelming. I wish you good luck!! 🍀
*YOU GOT THIS!!!*
Dam I’d break up with you OG 😭😭😭 your POOR bf..
A credit isn’t scary I promise, it hasn’t even been a year since I have one and I’ve already gotten another one with cash back benefits and my score is high high right now too😊. Only use the card if you can pay it back in full, and only pay it after you get your statement (If you pay it before then your score won’t go up because it doesn’t get reported).
im looking for my first job and youre so comforting its the first time i felt it isnt as scary as im making it, but also im ready to mature it up 💰
thank you so much for this video. i have been in a horrible situation all my life and i have had opportunities to leave but my mental health/money problems always ended in me moving back home. i would do anything to get out of this place and i have absolutely no support system so ty for being so gracious to share tips from personal experience. it will take awhile to get somewhere but I hope to come back to this video in a year and see the progress i have made, hopefully living in a new place💝
Wishing you all the best in your journey, you can do it! I've had mental health issues and money problems too but every little thing and effort that you make is going to help towards your goal. Just keep going and be safe 💖
I can relate to constantly ending up back home due to mental health issues. Wish you immense luck this upcoming year and I hope your support systems strengthen. I believe in you!
wishing you luck!! dont give up and if you do come back to this video in a year, hopefully by then you have your own place❤❤
u look like a monster high doll!! so pretty and your advice is so nice
You're so comforting. Wanting to move out soon and it seems stressful. Waiting for a job offer. As soon as I get it, I'm out of my parents house *peace out hands*
Don’t give up on yourself
This was so helpful omg thank you. I feel like I manifested this video. I’m moving to San Francisco by myself this year and I’m 18.
I’m going to San Diego 😅🎉
Ahhh I love SF!! I used to live nearby:) sending you so much luck
your advice is exactly what i needed this month!!! currently figuring out whether or not i need to move cos of religion differences between my parents and i... i will be taking this to heart :)
Religion differences are so heavy and so hard, from my experience it is absolutely worth it to move to your own place.. but if you’re safe where you are definitely save up as much as you can before you move so you don’t feel too stressed in your fresh new environment
I’m 17 and watching this for future preparation 😅
You’re only 20!!!!! Cool and you’re brave af
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One of the first things you said were “I’m proud of you” you don’t even know me and you can say that to me? On the verge of tears right now. I just want to say I’m proud of you and this video is going to help so many people. I also want to say that I really appreciate you and your wisdom💕
hey - i’m proud of you too. i don’t know you either but you are on this video which means you’re doing things to make your life better suited to you, and that is something to be proud of ❤
Please make a video on budgeting! The way you explain things makes it so understandable
This video fr came at the right time. I fr just want a peaceful existence.
$900 rent XD girl WHERE I need to know its 1400 absolute minimum here and I'm not even talking about in the city
right its like at least 1200 for me. at least the safe places are. I would rather pay that than live cheaply in the ghettos.
what state do you live in? i live in Illinois and there’s places for 700-800 in decent areas for 1-2 beds
@@cheesefries6453OMG really? Do know about the city??? I’m in the city.
@@cheesefries6453It feels like I’m held up bc, I have no clue where to go! So I’m like “blindly” saving for (I don’t know) 😵💫
@@cheesefries6453 WHERE 😭
This video really put things into perspective 💗 I love how you broke everything down, and that freebie alerts is a game changer thank you Sepherah!
angel ♡ im so early today and i will watch it well 💕 i love youu 🎀🍀
I would love to see a video about budgeting!!! This video was extremely helpful and I even took notes while you were talking. Thank you so so so much!
"you'll be able to feel whether it's a good idea and be able to trust yourself" :)
I'm moving out of state for school, and one thing that can help with accommodations during the trip is using airbnb for the night. They can be as cheap as $30 with tax and fees if you can find the right place! Motels and hotels for triple the price will often be much lower quality and it's just a waste of money. People's couches or rooms on airbnb are more bang for your buck.
25 years old dude with a full time job with little schoolin but my parents let me live at home and pay rent but I do desire to move out. Thanks for the vid
Thank you so much for this helpful video! 🥰
This video is amazing! Thanks so much for sharing this info. I lost my mom and she would’ve given me advice on this kind of thing.
in regards to finding things in dumpsters, I found a desk that I use in one. Granted I wore gloves getting it out and triple cleaned and disinfected it (stay safe yall) but it was a nice find. Keep your eyes out every once and awhile :)
Thank you for the encouragement! ✨
NEEDED THIS
I follow you on tt! I didn't realise you had a TH-cam channel and this was so helpful tyy
omg that was such an useful video thank you so much
Thank you for sharing important info. God bless❤
This came at the exact right time❤
Ahhh thank you love, this is so helpful.
I love your videos so much. For a video suggestion Any way you could make a video of how you lost weight and kept it off? Like diet workout routines etc :) ❤
i fell asleep to this because your voice is so relaxing
Thank you for sharing, you are very much appreciated!
Your voice is so relaxing and lovely, like asmr
Thanks for this video!
I love your Videos 💕
gurl ur freaking gorgeousss
omg girlll r u that girl on tiktok who had to deal with that horrible creep?! so sorry glad your doing okay and thanks for the tips
THANK YOU 😭
you are such a sweet person thank you so much
thank you!!
My jaw dropped when you said you lived in Idaho, because I do too!!!😂
Trying , first sign of a winner!!!
Love ur videos
I literally wouldn’t mind finding roommates to move in with in this comment section
Hey girl , where are you looking at ? I’m looking at Oregon or Colorado- trying to move out from ex boyfriend’s apartment lol
I am NOT moving out soon but your makeup is so cool hello
17:30 thank you for this advice
You remind me of my mom girlie ur awesome
you are GORGEOUS your look is like, LIVING CORPSE BRIDE. so stunning!!
Wow so true! That’s who she reminds me of
I love the vibe of this video and I don’t even know why
someone trying to help others
Emergency fund should be at least 3 months of living expenses. So that if you don't have a job you can still live. For savings, put your savings into a high-yield savings account, but one that doesn't require you to lock your money in. Once you find you price range for rent you can add that to the savings. All of your money management should be based on your pay and expenses.
you look like a Tim Burton character wow
i think my biggest worry about moving out and finding a place is being a queer/trans person and whether landlords or roommates are going to be weird about that or not. it adds a whole other layer of fear to the situation
definitely. be careful
You don't need to tell them what the actual? Not everybody is interested in your sexuality seriously the world doesn't evolve around you and your sexuality. And if they ask just say something that you are still a virgin or I don't know that will make them go red and never ask questions again if they did.
@@br1111bclearly you’re the outcast in this situation
@@br1111b bro calm down jesus christ lmfao. i'm not talking about telling people, it's about them knowing you're trans based on your legal documents or whatever, or if you're dating/married to the same sex there's a chance they will know at some point.
@@cody.dw8 So what my gosh? As long as you pay your bills or are some reliable person nobody gives a ish what you're doing in private. How old are you even? If you're afraid of such things you should just stay at home and hide under a blanket. Yall some snowflakes. I got put down for being a foreigner in the country that I live and now watch me get my bachelors degree in one of the wealthiest countries on earth, Switzerland! Also moved out at 17 and simple didn't give two cents about what people thought about me. Why should I.
Thanks
There goes my chance xd thx for the advoice seriously
This probably is a bit of a dumb question, would it be more beneficial to prioritize getting your own car before your own space? That's kind of what has me stuck😅
ive never clicked a video so fucking fast
I hope it helped
you look so cool
can you make a vid on how to buy a first car/finance or/save for one
I got you ❤ probably this week!
u look like art
thank u but the audio is soo quiet
I been thinking about moving out of my moms house and even told people about It my mother doesn't like the idea of It I'm like It's just life began for me a new start and progression in time before I turn 22 next month
Believe me if the relationship with your mother is okay don't move out yet. There are tons of bills waiting for you to be paid and things you have to look after. If something breaks in your home, your oven is not working etc etc.
I moved out at 17 because I had no other choice cause of family problems but oh boy it would have saved me so much money if I could've stayed home. I am not saying it's bad it taught me many important things but it can get very very hard.
Pizza extra cheese sounds good!!!
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Her face reminds me of a Tim burton character but color version
like just imagine being 19 and still at your parents house but you don't wanna be there but your not able to go cause your not able to afford
You look like a Tim Burton character 🖤 ur so beautiful
literally me soon as
Goddamnit, I spend the 22 years of my life saving up the 1000 dollars I had in my savings account, and it all went away in 6 months of me not having a job, and that’s with my parents covering my living and a lot of my food. I’m never gonna get out of here.
i am so bad w money do you have any more advice for that D:
you just need to understand spending on random stuff sets you back, a lot of things are overpriced and a waste of money you're better off saving it and just say no to yourself and then don't think about it ignore it its just better to save money and buy what's important it can do a lot for you
i have a terrible spending problem but one thing that helps me is taking a picture of something i want so i still technically "have" it. sometimes ill look in my camera roll and realize i forgot about it which means i didnt really need it
@@mayabuttonsfanthat’s a really good tip because I would buy a little something and forget about it😅thank you for this tip
Hii! I’m currently unemployed but i am taking a free course on Khan academy called financial literacy. It’s helped me so much with learning how to budget since no one taught me in school or growing up. I highly recommend!
@@y2kdezzie I love khan academy too!! 🌸
Thanks for believing in me 😢
I really really do
You're a Tim Burton character
Your real daddy is so proud of you!
Hi ❤
HOW TF DID YOU KNOW THAT, i was just talking about leaving to my friend because my mother is....
Is there any tips to find jobs. I love the tips but finding a job is really difficult right now so some tips or just words of encouragement would help.
Try a temp agency, that’s how I found my permanent job
Use the app indeed!! Indeed is awesome:) you can apply for a tonnn of jobs super quick! Wishing you so much luck
The fastest way to get one is networking. For example at a church. Or walking into the place and asking to speak to the manager. That’s how I got my job after being unemployed for a year. The front desk person said I could apply online and I said it’s okay I’ll wait until the manager is done with the meeting and I got the job. It’s very important for the manager to see you in person.
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Ur so stunning
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You sound so much like Lana Del Rey
You look like a Tim Burton character
I know some most applications you have to pay . Did you experience any times where you negotiated hhhmmm …
Ty for your kind wishes
3k = $30 where im at just saying.
I swear if u paint ur face blue u will be the corpse bride xd
Did you say 3000.00 or 300,000.00??? It’s pretty high where I am 😓
As a general rule of thumb, 3-6 months of rent saved up + security deposit + utilities. If in an unsafe situation minimum money to move out with should be 3000-4000. Obviously do what you need because rent is crazy expensive in some areas.
@@marshall1003 Ooh ok. Thank you so for explaining it you and this video is a big help.
@jessw.6250 ofc! Trust your gut and good luck ❤️
god, she looks like corpse bride.
No offence, but you look like an emo version of the girl from Corpse Bride.
"Im 20 but have the experience of 30" says every delulu 20yr old Ever 🤡
Lmfao like seriously I also moved out at 17 from home and felt like a 30yo at 20 but boy I am 26 now and I do know NOTHING about this world still as I am currently realising.
@@br1111b literally. its so cringe how many 20yr olds think theyre just So special and precocious because they moved out or something else trivial. heck even if you went through war it doesnt change a thing either if youre 20 youre 20 - you will realize that once youre Actually 30.
she look like she had plastic surgery
Oooh ok this video is right for someone like me. Taking notes 🗒️ ✍️
thank you so much for your advice 🥺 and for those who will share their advices in the comments section as well. I will make sure to take notes! 🗒